Hi brother Sam my name is Andrew and I’m a faggot from New York I recently found an alpha through an app called recon and things I thought were going smoothly. However, there are always things I like to do before submit ting is FaceTime or meet the alpha in person but he pushed that aside now he wants me to pay him $150 for new toys while I only chatted with him for about three days. To me this felt a bit fishy but I wanted to with chat you because you are far more experienced faggot than I. Sam is this normal for an alpha?
Hi brother, thanks for the question.
Yeah, this is normal for a guy who thinks he’s an Alpha and is too insecure or too fake to meet up in person and build a real relationship.
Unfortunately the internet has created a whole class of “internet Alphas” who play games because they know they’re not really Alphas and they’re not truly serious about owning/using faggots or attempting anything in the Dom/sub space. They know they don’t have what it really takes. So instead, they play games that make them feel in control when they’re not.
This post is part of a thread following a faggot named Tim, who has recently been sold to serve a Master named Rex. CLICK HERE to read this entire thread in chronological order!
I always ask faggots about their day-to-day life with their Masters. It’s interesting to me because every Alpha is different, and I think it’s instructive to see how each one trains their personal faggots and how the faggots respond.
I rarely get a response as detailed as the one my brother Tim sent me about his daily service to Master Rex. To be fair, Master Rex seems (from the outside) to be a rather demanding taskmaster. My Masters always had tasks for me, but they realized I had other things to do as well, which I appreciated. Master Rex, on the other hand, seems to enjoy taking over every aspect of his faggot’s life. And really, every Alpha has the right to make his stable of faggots into whatever he wants or needs, so I’m not criticizing Master Rex in any way.
Let’s look at what Tim sent:
Well, firstly, My daily life under ex-MASTER Frank was also domestic in nature although I did (still do) have a part-time job in a store as well as going to school. I took a year gap in schooling about the time MASTER Frank sent me off to MASTER Rex. MASTER Frank made me promise to complete my degree and when I transferred to MASTER Rex, it was understood by them that I would continue my schooling….I’m hoping to become a physical therapist someday and you need an advanced degree these days for that.
After MASTER Rex leaves for work, I finish cleaning up, I prepare for cooking dinner that evening, prepping whatever is necessary for later. Devin gives me a list of major tasks for the week as well as daily things so I have to make sure to work on then — like I was cleaning the gutters , I was stripping wallpaper in this old house and then there’s the daily vacuuming and cleaning the bathrooms( must be done every day). MASTER likes fresh sheets on the bed and fresh towels towels every day.
Speaking of towels, MASTER showers when he gets home and Devin sometimes dries MASTER off after his shower —other times he does it himself . I haven’t been given that chore yet \ but I’m sure I will at some point.
If it’s a day I go to the store then I make sure all the morning stuff is done and that the laundry is started before I go to my part time job there. I also will get any items on the shopping list but Devin usually does the main grocery shopping.
I get back about 4 hours later from the store before anyone else, and start making food and finishing the laundry and make MASTERS bed with fresh sheets and put out fresh towels.
I am caged all the time, except when showering and every two weeks I can uncage and jerk off if I wish, which is me thinking of MASTER REX. Devin has a calendar marked with days that I can do that. Mostly I’m allowed around the house to wear only a t-shirt and at most underwear , but usually nothing else but my cage. MASTER Frank was the first man to cage me and I feel secure in my cage.
Devin comes home next and checks on what I’ve done. He’s very good to me and we do talk about pleasing MASTER and kiss and hug each other and rub our cages together – we have become good faggot brothers. We don’t fool around with each other but we cuddle sometimes and talk about how we got cunted the night before or how we need our MASTER’S seed to be happy. I think it’s our way to reinforce our devotion to our MASTER.
MASTER REX comes home next and Devin does the main greeting by taking off his coat, removing his shoes and kissing his feet. I kneel there also and have gotten to participate in this greeting of our MASTER, but it’s Devin who takes the lead on this… I think they are almost closer to being boyfriends than I realized initially, you can tell there is love between them…although MASTER REX is still always in charge, and if Devin or I do something that HE disapproves of HE lets us know.
We eat dinner and then I clean up and I get some time to study my books for school, or use my phone…school starts for me again in January. MASTER and Devin usually sit on the couch and watch TV and Devin takes MASTER’s cock in his mouth, while I make sure my hole is ready for MASTER if I’m called by him.
My ex-MASTER Frank who MASTER REX knows well made sure my faggot “contract” included my schooling. (MASTER Frank also retained the right to use my holes from time to time but that hasn’t happened yet. ) I learned from Devin that MASTER Frank actually fucked him a couple of times before I got sold to here which I had not known. If my MASTER REX wants his ALPHA friends to use my holes I am happy to fulfill his wishes!
Recently, MASTER REX has been extra good to me and puts his strong arms around me and strokes my hair or feels my hole and calls me a good faggot. Sometimes he follows that up with a hard slap or a lash of his riding crop on my butt which makes my little caged faggot cock strain against the metal. He buried my face in his armpit the other day and I thought I would faint from joy! he’s gentle at times like that, but the sex is always pretty rough. He cunted Devin the other night and had me positioned under his powerful cock going into Devin’s hole then he would pull out of Devin and plunge it down my throat and back again into Devin – that went on for about a half hour.
I usually have to be in bed and sleeping (unless my fagholes are needed) by 11:00, it’s a big old house so text is the easiest way for MASTER to summon me….
This is what my day is like, really. Once Devin’s schedule changes with his work and school things will change but not sure how just yet. We’ll also have to incorporate my school schedule when it starts up again but I know with my MASTERS Alpha guidance it will be fine.
This is a huge, extensive list that Master Rex has created to keep his two live-in faggots busy all day. It doesn’t seem to take into account the fact that Tim is in school, although maybe I’m not reading it correctly.
Overall, though, I’m impressed by Master Rex’s list, but I’m even more impressed by Tim’s eagerness and dedication to fulfilling the list. It could be very easy for a faggot to grow resentful to a Master as strict as Master Rex, but Tim seems to be embracing it. He almost seems to be flourishing from that kind of control!
Many Alphas hold back from doing something like this with their domestic, live-in faggots. However, it’s clearly a vital aspect of the dynamic. In fact, I think it’s vital for an Alpha to grow more deeply into his true role.
A Man doesn’t hammer a nail into a joint halfway and expect it to hold. The same goes for the exertion of Alphahood. Go all the way, or start expecting it to fail.
It’s clear Master Rex is building for the long-term!
This post is part of a thread following a faggot named Tim, who has recently been sold to serve a Master named Rex. CLICK HERE to read this entire thread in chronological order!
In the last update Tim bemoaned that he still wasn’t being used by his new Master Rex except as a domestic faggot. Every night Tim had to listen to Master Rex brutally fuck his other in-house faggot, Devin, as Tim laid in his bed in the tiny spare room down the hall.
I struggled to give Tim much advice at the time. What can you say to a faggot who was sold to this new Master and was essentially coming into an established situation between Master Rex and Devin? It’s hard to come up with something more than “keep your head up” and not sound patronizing.
However, I knew it wouldn’t be long before Master Rex would finally breed his new property. I based this hunch on how Master Rex was using Tim and disciplining him.
Well, it finally happened last Friday night/Saturday morning. I just didn’t know it was going to be like THIS:
I’m free to think back and say how MASTER REX finally made me his faggot in every sense of the word. My head was spinning ever since it happened in the middle of the night Friday night (Saturday morning, I guess)
MASTER REX and Devin had been talking a bit out of my earshot that night. Everything else seemed pretty usual – after dinner MASTER REX was on the sofa watching TV. Devin was “marinating” MASTER’S meat in his mouth – I say “Marinating” cuz MASTER likes Devin to keep MASTER’s fat cock in his mouth while MASTER watches TV – but not too suck it to completion or anything, he just keeps it his mouth and gives MASTER constant pleasure but MASTER will tell him whether to suck it harder or expect a load in his faggot mouth. Devin was just doing that for about 45 minutes, MASTER telling him to “warm him up,” and stuff like that. This is pretty standard for them to do, and then MASTER will almost every night take faggot Devin back to the bedroom and the fucking and cunting begins while I clean up any remaining dishes and then go to bed in the little side sewing room at the back of this old house. I can usually hear them in there, MASTER rutting his cock into his property, namely Devin’s asshole. But this last Friday night no sounds of fucking were coming from them…I just figured they did it quietly or it was one of the rare nights where MASTER doesn’t fuck Devin.
I went to bed and lights out promptly at 11:00pm, (one of the rules) so I can’t have my phone with me – I leave it outside my room – another rule. I have to wake up at 6:30am to make sure everything is in order and get the coffee started.
Sometime in the night, though, while I was asleep in the little twin bed, I was naked as required except for my cock in its cage, I sense someone in the room with me, it’s a very small room. I figure in my half-sleeping state that Devin had come in to tell me something.
Instead, I feel my feet being pulled down off the end of the bed and the blankets tossed aside. I’m still not really awake but I sense this is not Devin but it’s MASTER REX! Before I can even start to comprehend what is happening, my buttcheeks are being spread open with some strong hands. I feel fingers on my hole and now I realize I’m about to get MASTER’S cock and seed. I start to say something, I’m still kinda in a daze but I’m told to “SHUT UP, FAGGOT,” and then on my hole I feel spit and then lube. All of a sudden, my MASTER is on top of me opening up my faggot hole. His cock is fat and I arch my back a bit to get a better angle but I’m pushed down hard on the bed. “STAY DOWN!, he tells me. MASTER is rutting into me now, not having given me more then 20 seconds or so it seems to get used to it. His strokes are deep and hard. I dare not say anything as I was ordered but I do in a reflex make some moans and groans – even though this is what I have been waiting for, there is some pain to work through being fucked fairly violently awake from a dead sleep. ”KEEP THE NOISE DOWN, FAGGOT” he repeats to me and I bite my pillow and try to remember to breathe. HE slows his strokes a bit and I have a moment or two to adapt. I’m still kind of in a daze and for a moment I think “am I dreaming this” but MASTER slaps my cheeks hard and his muscled arms on my back pin me down. Now, again, he is drilling his cock into my hole the pain is lessening but still there a bit for a few more minutes, but then I seem to forget about it hurting and MASTER has a rhythm of long strokes and then short rapid fire jabs, he varies his rhythms every few strokes in my faggot cunt. It starts to feel good – really good, although I know my pleasure is of little importance to an ALPHA. It crosses my mind as he’s cunting me to not seem too much like I’m enjoying it too much…
It’s been about 40 minutes of this, it seems, remember Sam, I was dead asleep so I don’t really know how long but then he moves me like a rag doll into my side and keeps drilling it into me. His big arms and chest are on top of me as his MASTER cock does its work to break my faggot cunt. It’s really wiping me out by now but I stay focused and just breathe through it.
Finally his breathing gets real heavy and loud and I swear his cock is growing even more inside me and then I know he’s releasing his superior ALPHA seed into my hole. I am worn out and still dazed, dazed not from sleep anymore but from sheer joy. HE has cunted me for the first time! I am so happy, Sam, I know I have tears of joy getting my pillow wet. He pulls out of me and spins me around saying ‘YOU BETTER KEEP THAT SEED INSIDE YOU, FAGGOT” – I am like a rag doll still and he spins me around so my mouth is his cock which I clean off and I taste some seed that was on his cock. He pulls out of my mouth and gives me a medium hard slap but still kind of a playful slap, across my cheek, “YOU’RE ONE OF MY FAGGOTS NOW – YOU’LL BE GETTING THIS OFTEN FROM ME WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT.”
I can’t sleep the rest of the night once he leaves I am so overjoyed with happiness and fulfillment, my fingers reaching down to my faggot cunt to feel the seed from MASTER inside me which I can taste a bit on my fingers. I notice my faggot cock is straining against the cage and leaking but I haven’t cum that way. My heart is pounding in my faggot chest so hard.
A few hours later it seems, I hear my phone’s alarm from outside my door: 6:30am. I get up, get the coffee going (you do not want to see MASTER if there’s no coffee ready). I make eggs and toast for him as usual. He comes to breakfast and doesn’t say a word about the cunting last night, but I see Devin is looking at me intently and catch a little smile from him. Once MASTER goes to leave, Devin sees him to the door and they speak for a few minutes.
Devin comes back to me in the kitchen – he is very happy that I am now officially the junior faggot in the house, he says I did my job very well last night and for training me well, Devin will get a reward from MASTER which we both can’t wait to see what it is!!!
Devin says I can expect MASTER to alternate between fucking Devin and fucking me now that I am official. When Devin is in class or working, I need to do the MASTER cock marinating thing in the evenings in front of the TV if Devin’s not there, or if MASTER wants me to do it instead, or we might take turns at it. Who MASTER decides to fuck will be decided each evening. I’m racing inside with anticipation over sharing my MASTER’S cock and seed with my faggot friend Devin now. Devin says to expect some side-by-side cunting of the both of us by MASTER sometime…
Sam, thank you for listening and supporting me I don’t know how I would have gotten through these weeks without your belief in me even when I was questioning so many things.
I am so happy to be an official Junior Faggot in MASTER REX’s house now, it is the privilege of my life!!!
ASTOUNDING!!
I want to first address the nature of this extraordinary experience. Was this a rape? Some people who have had an issue with my stance on faggot rape would argue that yes, it was indeed a rape. They would argue that the violent, forced nature of the attack and Tim’s initial terror over the forced, painful entry constitute a rape.
I disagree with anyone who thinks it was a rape. As a faggot owned by Master Rex, Tim’s holes don’t belong to Tim anymore. They are property of Master Rex now. Furthermore, Tim correctly believes that his purpose is to serve Men in whatever way they need. Additionally, Tim was CRAVING use by his Master … even if this wasn’t what Tim had been imagining all this time.
I’ll go even one step farther (of course). I think faggots NEED this kind of use. There is some part of our mindset that is programmed with the desire to be pinned down and practically raped by Men. Without such dramatic acts of aggression by Men, faggots tend to get out of sorts and lose focus.
Men have cocks and aggressive sexual appetites for a reason. They are born to grab and penetrate and pin down and inseminate. If you privately asked every Man their honest opinion about this kind of fuck, they would say they want it just like that if they thought they could get away with it.
With faggots, they can.
With faggots, they need to.
This is the way it has always been since the sun rose over the landscape on the First Day, and it will continue forever. And since the first time one Man dominated a weaker male, Alphas have been rape-cunting faggots into submission.
It is Hierarchy. It is The Truth.
Tim discovered that Truth personally, and as he quivered in his bed full of electric joy with his new Master’s cum seeping into his soul, he felt truly alive. Truly a faggot.
He was fulfilled.
I praise Tim for his great patience and obedience while waiting for his Master’s right time! It has really paid off!
I’ve been listening to your podcast obsessively, and I’ve been taking in your advice. I am a faggot, an object and slave to be used by Alphas; thank you for bringing me to this realisation.
My question is about love in the Alpha-faggot dynamic: if an Alpha falls in love with a faggot, does this compromise the natural roles they take on? A faggot is an object, a fleshlight for an Alpha, so surely falling in love with one is as absurd as falling in love with a fleshlight? The Romans fucked their beta-male and faggot slaves, but they didn’t fall in love with them- that would’ve been ridiculous.
Perhaps I’m being neurotic. I would love to be loved by an Alpha- and marry him, and worship him as he cucks me- but I would not want an Alpha to weaken himself, or embarrass himself by falling in love with a subhuman slave like me.
With love and deep appreciation for your work,
Faggot Alex-James.
I was kind of saddened by your question, brother. I know what you mean, believe me, but I’ve had Masters who loved me – two very deeply, especially given that they were straight – so I know this side of it can exist.
Rather than thinking of a faggot like a Fleshlight, think of a faggot like a dog. A loyal dog. I dare you to find anything an Alpha loves more than his loyal dog.
A dog is not equal to its owner. It obeys its owner. It owes its life to its owner. But despite that disparity, Men love their dogs. Why? Because that dog “worships” its owner and is loyal to its owner.
I hope that helps you. An Alpha can absolutely love you just the same way.
Hi Sam I’m pretty sure you get questions like this all time but I always see straight alphas in the gym that I would love to worship but It is so hard to get to them they are concentrated on their workouts it’s hard to socialize. I know this pair of twins both 20 alpha AF I tried talking to one on IG but he tends to leave me on read , they both say hi when I see them but nothing more . Any advice?
I do get this question all the time, of course, but every question has a unique wrinkle. Yours has a tricky element – the Alphas are twins. They influence each other in ways that are unpredictable in an approach by a faggot.
Since these are gym contacts, you can attempt three possible approaches. Here they are:
Offer to provide services like putting away weights, cleaning machines, getting water or towels. Maybe offer to buy them supplements or food. Be useful to both of them, and see if that eventually engages them.
Complement them on their physiques and ask them for advice. Alphas like to be helpful when it comes to showing off their physical power.
Ask them if they consider themselves to be Alpha. When they answer “yes”, lead them into a discussion of Hierarchy. Reason with them about the obvious aspects of Hierarchy, and emphasize that they deserve to be worshiped and served as leaders of Hierarchy.
Any of those can work if you approach it confidently. Good luck!
In my last podcast I discussed the startling true story of Master Andrés, a completely straight Alpha who has taken on a live-in faggot for sexual and domestic service much like Masters Matt, Jin, and Kyler and others have done. During the podcast, I used that story as a jumping-off point to discuss how important it is for faggots to take the initiative and risk to offer themselves to straight Alphas.
I received some interesting feedback from that story and podcast, but I received one comment in particular that didn’t necessarily have a great ending, but contained a valuable life lesson. Here’s what a faggot named Sergio said:
I really resonated with the end of this episode. I was a beta bitch to my Straight Alpha friend for many years, driving him around, buying his drinks at the bar, putting his needs first. I’ll never forget the day I got down on my knees and really offered him service. I came out of the fag closet and let him know I was his to use and abuse. He laughed. He told me to stop playing. I told him I was serious. He told me he wasn’t interested, he wasn’t gay, and he just wanted to be friends. I told him I knew he wasn’t gay. He declined my worship nonetheless.
We went back to the way things had been, him taking the lead and me following his subtle orders, but things quickly changed. I was serving as his foot stool, kissing his feet and drinking his piss straight from the tap within a few months of the first time I got down on my knees and let him know I was a faggot who lived to serve him and men like him. He wasn’t a violent Alpha, but from time to time he kicked me in my balls and laughed while I was on the floor screaming in pain. Whether it was worshipping his feet, drinking his piss, smelling his farts, serving as his footstool or ball torture, I always thanked him profusely for allowing me to serve. He’d just laugh and call me a fag.
It never became full sexual service, although I was almost always rock hard when serving him, but I was a happy fag driving my Alpha friend around, buying his drinks and serving as his comfort and his entertainment, and it all happened because I had the courage to offer him the service he deserved.
Bravo to Sergio for showing the courage to offer service to this Alpha, but even more props to him for continuing to service selflessly even after the Alpha rejected his greater, more intimate offer of service. The Alpha knocked him down, but Sergio recognized that the Alpha still deserved loyal service and worship! That’s the correct viewpoint!
This is what it takes: courage, humility, and resilience!
The term “cunting” has largely taken on a mysterious air, something like the “female orgasm” movement of the 80s that eventually led women to gather together and squat over mirrors and talk about their pussies. All we’re missing at this point is a Phil Donohue special on cunting with a panel full of faggots.
Of course, any faggot that has ever been cunted cannot stop talking about it, desperate to get a handle on the experience.
The site received this long comment from a faggot named Jon describing cunting in a way that I felt really captured something. Here it is:
To me, the difference between fucking and cunting is intent. Any Man can breed and seed an ass and enjoy it and that’s all there is to it. But when an Alpha fucks an ass with the intent of teaching the sub his proper place, that’s cunting. The Alpha deliberately fucks the sub in such a way that the sub’s mind is altered. The sub finally realizes and accepts that his purpose in life is to take Mancock and serve Men.
This entails a systematic, deliberate breaking down of the sub’s will and resistance through fucking, verbal cues, and physical control. It will be pleasurable for the Alpha, but that’s just a nice extra. The main purpose is to break down the sub through fucking his ass and his mind. Making the sub have multiple orgasms. Demonstrating to the sub that he has no choice — he WILL be breeded and seeded whether he wants or or not, and his body will instinctively respond with uncontrollable and shattering orgasmic pleasure over and over. Teaching the sub that his greatest pleasure in life comes from serving and getting breeded and seeded by Superior Alpha Males. Educating the sub on the power of his ass and his mouth in serving Men. Making the sub accept the fundamental truth that he is hard-wired to crave Mancock and receive orgasmic pleasure by being breeded and seeded.
By the end of the experience, the sub is changed forever. he owns and accepts his proper place in the Hierarchy. he is no longer ashamed of his need to be dominated and violated; he is proud and happy to have an ass and a mouth that Men want to use. he is no longer ashamed of his instinctive craving for Mancock shoved down his throat or up his ass; he has learned that his instinctive sexual response and helpless submission to Alpha Male Power make him highly desired and sought after by Dominant Men. he has learned that his body and mind are programmed to have uncontrollable orgasmic pleasure when he is used by Men – and that Men truly enjoy forcing him into one orgasm after another. he has learned that he has a proper role serving Alpha Males and he can be proud to embrace his calling.
There are Men who try to cunt a faggot and fail. The experience may still be sexually pleasurable for both Top and bottom – but that’s not cunting. And the sub will instinctively know and recognize that.
Also, it should be recognized that no faggot sub lives in that profoundly deep submissive mindset constantly. The moments when a faggot is taken all the way down into that headspace are relatively rare. But the memory of those few overwhelming moments is what helps sustain the faggot’s commitment to the life he was born to.
All of which means that it’s possible for a faggot to be cunted more than once. Being cunted is a special occurrence where a faggot sub is taken down into his most pure form of service and submission, totally immersed and overwhelmed and overpowered by the Power and Manhood of an Alpha Male.
Being cunted creates a powerful, unbreakable bond between a faggot sub and any Alpha who cunts him. From that time onward, the sub is emotionally addicted to and dependent on that Alpha. Even if the sub serves other Men and may even be owned by another Man, that sub will always feel the power of any Alpha who cunted him.
It’s not surprising that an Alpha may also develop strong feelings of affection and protection for a faggot sub that He cunts. Some Alphas are uncomfortable admitting this, because it may sound like the faggot “has power over” the Alpha. But that’s not the case. It’s the Alpha’s own initiative and integrity and personal power that make Him feel a sense of responsibility and protectiveness for the effects of this amazingly powerful transformation that He imposes on the sub.
i have been cunted four times in my life and i remember every one of them like it was yesterday. Whenever i have been dating someone, i have always made sure he understands that there are a few special Men in my life for whom i will drop anything to go to Them if called upon. If a man can’t understand and allow that as part of the relationship, then i’m not going to be able to have a relationship with him. The man i share my life with will be very important to me… but those few special amazing superior Alpha Men who have cunted me are and always will be the most important Men in my life.
I think the most compelling part of my brother’s essay on cunting are the last couple of paragraphs about the transformation that occurs in a faggot afterward. I agree that I would probably also drop everything for the Masters who’ve cunted me regardless of how much time has passed. It’s like Pavlov’s dog having its bell rung.
Alphas should really consider that power of transformation they carry between their legs. It should boost their confidence, of course, but it should also deepen their sense of responsibility.
Cunting is such an integral part of the Alpha/faggot dynamic when referring to ownership that I think it’s necessary to keep underscoring its impact on claiming and behavior modification.
I thank my brother Jon for sharing his thoughts on this most important process!
Hi Sam, I am a recently discovered fag. I am in college, and I didn’t know I was a fag until my roommate came back from the bars super drunk one night and forced himself on me. I always thought he was attractive and cool because he really is, but I didn’t think it was sexual. I thought I was just jealous of him. But when he forced himself on me something snapped and everything felt right. I didn’t know he even fucked guys to begin with but it was pretty obvious he’s an alpha and from reading it’s very clear I’m a fag. From that point on he completely took over the room and even had me doing his classwork whenever I could. I am completely head over heel in love with this alpha, as he cunted me soon after that night. Unfortunately he didn’t care at all about classes and he’s flunked out. He lives like 11 hours away, and I don’t know what to do because I’m so very attached to him.
Brother, congratulations on discovering this truth about yourself! I’m glad this Alpha helped you to find this out, even if he did it forcefully.
I’m wondering – are you indicating that he no longer lives with you? Did he already return home?
Here’s what you need to do: you need to contact him and tell him what you’ve discovered thanks to what he did to you. THANK HIM. CALL HIM SIR. If you need to, send him to this site to explain it further (although I’m sure he already understands). Then humbly tell him that you have a deep need to serve him. He will get it.
I think all faggots need to keep in mind that Men have an instinctual understanding of the need subs have to serve and worship. They rarely judge us harshly if we approach them in a respectful way. Don’t be afraid! HUMBLE YOURSELF AND OFFER YOURSELF!
Hey there. Very new follower here but love the site, been reading/listening for the last few days nonstop. Glad to have found other fags that understand hierarchy and I’ve learned a lot.
You have any tips on making an alpha feel comfortable being assertive and aggressive? I have an alpha that seems to shy away from being too rough with me, despite me telling him I enjoy it. I’m not sure he understands how strong my desire to submit to him is, and that he should prioritize his needs above mine. He says he likes it rough but he is definitely holding back.
Hi brother, thanks for writing.
I’ve gotten this question a few times, and I am also wrestling with this issue with a pre-Alpha friend of mine as well. It seems like such an obvious and easy thing to us as faggots because we have this idea that all Men are cauldrons of dominant aggressiveness. Of course, almost all Men (and Alphas) are plagued by the same insecurities, fears, and societal pressures that we all face. Some Men (like my friend and yours) are just really nice people who genuinely don’t want to be hurtful or selfish. We have to understand that about them, as well as the possibility that it’s simply not in them to be more aggressive.
On the other hand, I’ve also successfully advised some faggots on how to ignite dominance within their Alphas, so I know in some Alphas this timidity can be overcome. My advice is this: stop complaining to him about how passive he is, since this causes anxiety. Instead, ramp up your submission to him. Always seek to position yourself physically lower and at his feet. Become more subservient and agreeable. Rub and kiss his feet. When he fucks you, put yourself in the most submissive positions and make him feel like he’s a sexual god.
In other words, make him feel like a King. What I’ve seen happen is this type of deep submission brings out the hunting instinct in Alphas, and eventually they’ll want to pounce. Now this isn’t usually something that happens immediately, so you need to remain patient and focused. I’ve seen this approach work, so have faith in the process and hopefully you’ll see success.
As a fellow faggot I wanted to get your opinion on something. When I use apps for Doms to use me I don’t ask many personal questions. However I was talking to a straight guy on Sniffies and asked for some pics. He sends one with a very obvious ring on his ring finger. I asked if he was married, he was. I then asked if they were open. They were not and I just don’t feel great about that dynamic. We did not end up meeting up and the guy didn’t seem bothered. I have had an Owner that used multiple women and his wife. Even though they didn’t know he was using a faggot at least everyone was aware the relationships were open. Is it unfair for me to ask that the Dom is open with his wife or girlfriend? I feel like it isn’t really a faggots place but it just gives me a bad taste in my mouth.
I understand why your hesitant, brother, and I can definitely appreciate a faggot with a conscience!
I have served Alphas who were in relationships that were not open, particularly early in my fag career, but like you it started to bother me. Fortunately I then became owned by a few straight Alphas who were either single or informally dating females. That suited me better for sure.
It’s really just a matter of what a faggot’s conscience dictates. However, it’s important to remember that it’s the ALPHA who made the commitment, not you. I wouldn’t beat myself up over it too much.
Hi Sam! I’ve been following your page for a looong time (years lol) and you’ve been instrumental in me realizing i’m a fag. I did have a few questions that I’m hoping you can help me with, and i’d be eternally grateful for a response:
I know I’m a faggot. I know i must serve men. However I also have a very successful career and personal life. Is it possible to have both of these things? I’ve been too nervous to serve a Man due to how it could impact my “normal” life, i’ve had online doms blackmail before (non consentually), so maybe i’m just a bit overreacting to that.
where do I find doms irl? do you have a list of locations you recommend frequenting? I’m not a fan of the whole online thing and much prefer to serve in person and that’s how i think i’d be most successful.
Well it’s nice to hear from a long-time reader! I’m glad I’ve been able to help you find your truth!
I don’t think it’s impossible to have career success while also serving as a faggot. I’ve managed to do it, and so have other faggots I’ve known personally and online. You might remember my interview with Brian, the faggot who served his Master while also enjoying a successful career. I think the real key here is having a Master to serve full time. This was what I did after several years of being a slut, and it made all the difference for me. I think you’ll find that will be the case as well.
Where to find Alphas to serve? Well, you can always find Alphas to service on apps and whatnot, but you’ll rarely find an Owner there. Honestly, the best path is finding Alphas in your everyday life that you can start submitting to in various ways. Then Ownership develops organically.
Hey Sam I really love your content! I’m a fag from Italy, 19 y old, and I met a alpha in the gym. He is 25, super hot and amazing, I starting talking about his training and we got closer and closer. I served him in many ways and it took me months to give him a blowjob. His dick is just perfect and I love serving him. However, he refuses to fuck my ass. He says that this is too gay and he would never fuck a male ass. How can I convince him that fucking my boy pussy is not gay? I already suck his dick quite often but I really want to feel him inside my ass. Thank you, Sam!! Your work is amazing
Hi brother!
Congratulations on finding an Alpha and working your way into providing oral service for him! You’ve followed the plan perfectly! It does take some time to convince a straight Alpha that it’s safe to let you service him!
I do understand your desire to be fucked by him, but not every Alpha is interested in going there. Let’s face it: ass fucking is somewhat taboo to many people. It’s just not that appealing to everybody.
You may not like my advice, but I think it’s accurate: be satisfied with the service you’re being allowed to perform. There are many faggots who never get the chance to suck a straight Alpha, and might never get that chance. You’re one of the fortunate faggots who worked my plan perfectly and is gifted with the chance to suck a straight Alpha’s cock. Just be happy with that, continue to be submissive and eager to please, and hope he will change his mind.
Master @throatitbxxxy is far and away one of the great faggot cocksucker trainers online. Blessed with a magnificent cock that is a perfect girth for sucking and so straight you could use it as a ruler, Master TIB has no problem forcing his cock down a faggot’s throat.
However, he prefers the patient approach when receiving head. He understands that faggots need to be used, and he also appreciates that faggots need guidance to become what they were born to be.
One thing I’ve noticed about his videos is how every faggot that he features all seem to be very well behaved. They all have their hands on the floor, asses sticking out, back arched, and mouths open. So I asked Master TIB about this, and here’s what he said:
One of my interview questions is: Have you ever sucked cock without so much as touching your own dick boy? And if they say no, I say: I don’t want you distracted from your single-minded focus of pleasing my cock. They must agree to kneel. And if they start to disobey they only get a few chances before I will just pack up and leave.
I KNEW he was also pre-training them!
I’ve known Master TIB since the Tumblr days of FWA, and his methods have never changed BECAUSE THEY WORK.
One method he loves to employ is stroke counting. This is effective because it gives the faggot miniature goals to achieve while also helping Master gauge the faggot’s overall progress. We can see that here:
Again, notice the perfect form of the faggot. It doesn’t have its own useless penis out, it’s not touching itself. It’s solely a trainable hole.
Master also trains them to respond quickly to one-word commands like “off” or “down” so that he can control how the faggot stimulates him. Master also liberally uses the phrase “good boy” to keep the faggot eager to keep working to please him.
The end result of Master’s training is an expert cocksucker that can be repeatedly relied upon for worshipful service, like this faggot that has fought through fits of choking and vomiting so that it might serve Master and receive his plentiful loads:
There is no cocksucker trainer like Master @throatitbxxxy. He understands faggots so well and he’s perfected unmatched techniques to guide them to become selfless blowjob machines.
This post is part of a thread chronicling the growth of an agonophilic faggot named Chris and his long-term service relationship with a straight Alpha. CLICK HEREfor all posts in this thread in chronological order!
One of the keys to my success as a faggot throughout my life is my willingness to rationally explain my Hierarchical perspective as a proud faggot and my inborn role in life. This usually takes Alphas by surprise, and they’re typically interested in asking more about my view of my purpose and theirs. I liken their reaction to a puppy encountering some usual new critter with a mixture or excitement, curiosity, and fear.
Once I get their attention and interest it’s usually a matter of easing them into accepting my worship/service until their natural instincts take over.
Yes, it’s a form of manipulation. On the other hand, I’m helping these Alphas discover aspects of their power and embrace a larger purpose. Shouldn’t that be part of a faggot’s service?
Chris responded to my previous post about him with another example from his life that also reflects this teaching work faggots must sometimes do with Alphas.
THIS is exactly how I’ve always felt. With this Str8 Alpha in particular since our relationship actually began almost 18 yrs ago and I was NOT his Fag initially. When he and his then GF moved out of NYC I’d put him up when he was here for work, and letting me suck his dick was his way of a “thank you”. It wasn’t until 2-3 years later and he was about to bust his load in my mouth and for the first time blurted out SUCK IT FAGGOT (with a quick look to say he didn’t mean that) that I first told him it was OKAY and he was just following his natural instinct. And he was surprised when I explained my TRUE Faggot self. So yes I began to teach HIM, and bring out his Alpha self, eventually getting to the point where he only addresses me as Faggot and gets hard as a rock beating me up and holds me on his dick until this last pulse and he is empty, and getting him to the point where he UNDERSTANDS forcing my head into his sweaty underarms and breathing deep is PERFUME to a Faggot. (we often forget how confusing some of this is to a real man) It was a LONG process, just getting him to not thank me for things I did for him or gave him and to just EXPECT it and eventually DEMAND it took a year. This is the only man I’ve served who my relationship with was NOT as a faggot from the get-go. He was just a stunning blonde God to me about whom I only FANTASIZED about being a total Faggot to and receiving a beatdown from. NOW he is a Alpha MAN with me, and has admitted how much he likes it, how much taking out his frustrations on me helps him, and I am as PROUD of that as I am of being his Faggot.
I really loved this experience from Chris because it illustrates that much of this “manipulation” is a long game. It sometimes takes a year or more of methodical revelation before the Alpha seizes his natural power.
But when it’s finally unlocked, so many blessing come from it!
Chris now experiences joy that come from purpose. That’s definitely worth working for! It’s definitely worth waiting for!
Cunting is one of the most profound moments in the life of a faggot. It is the line of demarcation between the world of Men and the world of true faggotry. Once a faggot has been cunted, there is simply no way to return to the world of Men and Manhood. The cunting utterly destroys that possibility forever.
I’ve written about cunting many times before, most notably in the article “Being Cunted” (READ HERE). There are many signs that indicate cunting, including uncontrollable shaking or reverse rutting. There is also a kind of momentary paralysis, and occasionally weeping.
Regardless of the reaction, the faggot is altered mentally and emotionally by the experience, which is unlike anything Men typically experience. To put it in more organic terms, a cunting is probably as close to a female orgasm as a male can get. Hence the name. A faggot’s hole is transformed into a pussy, a cunt. And it will never be the same.
I think the one aspect of a cunting that seems to be universally experienced by cunted faggots is something I call “The Void.” When a male sticks something in his ass or even gets fucked, he moves on with his life largely unchanged.
But a cunted faggot ends up with The Void inside its pussy, a space where cock was and belongs again. The Void is constantly craving to be filled with cock again, to feel that sense of fullness and completion. Without cock, The Void is like a black hole, a howling vortex aching to be stuffed full of cock.
It’s an ache deep inside the faggot’s pussy. It keeps the faggot awake at night, yearning to be penetrated. Sometimes the rim of the faggot’s pussy tickles, teasing the faggot to stick fingers into it or find a cock willing to fuck it.
Cunted faggots are like converted vampires, damned to a life of neverending hunger to fill The Void that drives their need.
Of the many ways Men and Alphas control faggots – sexual use, scent training, discipline, chores – cunting is the most permanent and profound, mainly because of The Void. There will always be an empty space inside that cunted faggot, a space reserved for the Man who did the cunting.
You’ve probably read the term “cunted” used in reference to a gay bottom receiving a Man’s cock. While the term definitely refers to that act, there is more to being cunted than simply being fucked by a Man. Cunting is a total transformation of a faggot physically, mentally, emotionally, and sexually through hard fucking that triggers a deep internal orgasm.
Let’s first be honest: mechanically speaking, any male can be fucked in the ass. Every male has an asshole that can be opened wide enough to accept a dick-sized object.
Let’s imagine that all males on Earth had to be fucked in the ass one time. The vast majority of males would not enjoy it at all, and most would hate it. They would actively rebel against the entry, fight against the very idea of taking a dick in their ass. If it brings some pleasure to certain males, why would most Men actively fight against this act?
Because being fucked in the ass says much about a male’s place within the human hierarchy. When a Man is fucked in the ass, he is emasculated in a way that differentiates him from other Men. A Man is meant to penetrate. A Man who is penetrated (like a female) is considered a “lesser” Man, even if that penetration occurred during a rape. It is the nature of how Men view the act of being penetrated.
However, the act of being penetrated and fucked by another Man doesn’t always change the personality of the recipient. Many gay bottoms receive dick, but they are still Men in that they are active in their sex life and still seek their own pleasure. They very often still use their dicks to receive pleasure. They are generally an equal in their relationships and their sexual encounters.
But some males are fucked so deeply and aggressively that they are changed forever. They no longer seek their own pleasure. Their assholes become their true sex organ. The desire to penetrate with their penis – the primary means of pleasure for most Men – is taken away, replaced by the desire to be penetrated.
So how does this happen? During a powerful, aggressive rut an Alpha can angle his cock so that it strikes the faggot’s prostate as he penetrates the second ring. The intensity builds until the faggot is triggered into having an internal orgasm until it is overwhelmed. Symptoms of cunting vary, but generally involve unconsciousness, trembling/shaking, uncontrollable emotions, fits of deep weeping. It’s very dramatic, and for an unprepared Alpha it can be alarming.
Here is a video about cunting I produced:
The rape I endured might be considered a cunting, but it didn’t alter my mental state enough at the time. I fought against the feelings of being penetrated and taken in that fashion. A true cunting involves more than simple penetration … it involves the mind and heart of the male being cunted.
I wasn’t cunted properly until Alpha Chris owned me a few years after the rape. What was the difference? Well, Alpha Chris had already fucked my mind through our previous encounters, so when he finally fucked my ass he had me in the proper mental state. When he fucked me, he did so with a controlled aggressiveness that forced me to give up any residual masculine resistance. Suddenly I felt this involuntary clenching inside me accompanied by a tingly warmth that spread through my body. It was so surprising and wondrous that I nearly lost consciousness. I just laid beneath him, absorbing his thrusts even though I wasn’t in my body anymore. Then I gasped for air, just realizing I had been holding my breath. Returning to consciousness, I felt him cumming inside me. Nothing mattered anymore. I was claimed inside and out by this powerful young Alpha. I was suddenly everything and nothing. A slave to the Man whose cock took away whatever it was I once thought about myself.
By the time he was finished pounding me, any lingering idea that I was a Man had disappeared. After that, I completely understood that my hole was my sex organ, and my purpose was to offer it in whatever way a Man demanded. That is what a true cunting does to a male – it emasculates a male and transforms him into a object only to be penetrated.
And once that cunting occurs, there is no going back.
Subspace is one of those aspects of the Dom/sub experience that few people truly understand, and even fewer appreciate its power. It’s the power source at the center of Hierarchical exchanges. Without subspace, there would be no ability for a Dominant to overpower and control a submissive, to break into their minds, or help them achieve a sense of purpose in service.
One Alpha recently compared subspace to hypnosis, and the comparison is apt. Like hypnosis, bringing a submissive into subspace involves control and skill, but also great responsibility. In deeper levels of subspace a submissive’s mind and heart unlock, its resistance fades, and many things thought unimaginable become possible.
If I sound a little mystical about subspace, it’s for good reason. Mishandled subspace has led to broken and destroyed lives. On the other hand, carefully nurtured subspace can lead to tremendous fulfillment.
Subspace is a metaphor for the state the submissive’s minds and bodies are in during a deeply involving play scene. Many types of BDSM play invoke strong physical responses. The mental aspect of BDSM also causes many submissives to mentally separate themselves from their environment as they process the experience. Deep subspace is often characterized as a state of deep recession and incoherence. Deep subspace may also cause a danger in newer submissives who are unfamiliar with the experience, and require the dominant to keep a careful watch to ensure the submissive isn’t placing him or herself in danger. Many submissives require aftercare.
Notice the disassociative quality of subspace, this disconnection of the mind from the body. This is caused by a very natural process in the body ordinarily triggered by dangerous circumstances.
WHY DOES SUBSPACE OCCUR?
When a human being is confronted by some dramatic or traumatic moment, the body releases chemicals into the blood stream as part of a process known as the “fight or flight” response. Endorphins and enkephalins are dumped into the bloodstream, producing a weightless, out-of-body rush of pleasure. This can last for hours afterward.
This dump of endorphins can occur during pleasurable-but-taxing sexual experiences such as being fucked or sucking dick just as easily as it can during violent and aggressive situations like rape.
THE EFFECTS OF SUBSPACE
It’s the “fight or flight” response shielding that allows faggots (who are extremely submissive males) to perform tremendous (and occasionally shocking and extreme) acts of service. While in “fight or flight”-induced subspace faggots are extremely open to suggestion and will often mindlessly do things that they might never do in their everyday life.
More from the definition of subspace above:
Producing a sort of trance-like state due to the increase of hormones and chemicals, the submissive starts to feel out-of-body, detached from reality, and as the high comes down, and the parasympathetic nervous system kicks in, a deep exhaustion, as well as incoherence. Many submissives once reaching a height of subspace will lose all sensation of pain, as any stimulus causes the period to prolong.
This detachment from reality allows subs and faggots to go much farther in risky behaviors. We see this extreme behavior quite readily in findom. Faggots deep in subspace have surrendered many thousands of dollars in financial drains to online Alphas, only to regret it once they snap out of it.
HOW CAN WE DEFINE “PERPETUAL SUBSPACE”?
I’ve been owned multiple times in my life, including a few stints as a live-in faggot. To accomplish this, I had to get into a state I call “perpetual subspace” (another term could be “persistent subspace”). It’s sort of a low-level, neverending state of subspace in which the faggot is on a constant high due to even the most mundane of tasks (like doing the dishes, or cleaning a bathroom). The faggot’s Master is never far from the faggot’s mind during the course of every day while in perpetual subspace. Everything the faggot does goes to honor its Master.
I liken perpetual subspace to a type of white noise that drives a faggot forward in constant service to its Owner. Think of it in the same terms as listening to the sound of rain or other types of background noise in order to fall asleep. Perpetual subspace is that low-level hum by which the faggot accomplishes much in service.
PERPETUAL SUBSPACE – THE IDEAL STATE
Whenever I was owned in my life and in a state of perpetual subspace, I felt comforted and at peace. My worries were few since my Master took care of me and all I truly focused on were the tasks that my Master expected me to accomplish. Regardless of how menial they were, each task brought me satisfaction because I knew it was pleasing to my Master.
It was easy to keep me in perpetual subspace once it began. My Master running his fingers through my hair and telling me I was a “good boy” or a “good faggot” was enough to sustain the state in me for weeks. Sexual service/worship sessions were obviously part of that as well. All of these stimuli combined to keep me under perpetual subspace, a state that allowed me to accomplish a lot in service, as well as remain pliable to suggestions when my Master wanted to share me with his friends or make me do things I might not ordinarily do (piss drinking and ass licking experiences started under perpetual subspace of a Master).
For Alphas and Masters, perpetual subspace should be the goal. It is the ultimate level of power, for you hold the total life of the faggot under your control.
Ever since I first realized my faghood when I was 17 years old, I’ve always embraced learning and practicing my craft. I just had this need to get better, understand my own motivations, and remain in what I felt was the proper headspace. Eventually I became an owned faggot multiple times, trained relentlessly on several occasions, and developed a natural rhythm as a faggot that has persisted to this day.
However, that doesn’t mean I’ve stopped developing myself. Far from it! I’ve been unowned over the last few years due to a wide variety of circumstances (rescuing Baby Boy, surviving cancer, employment restructuring), but throughout that period of time I’ve tried to keep myself in what I’ve dubbed “Perpetual Subspace“. One way I did that was by voluntarily self-locking my skin tag in chastity two years ago. However, I’ve continued to do ass and throat training exercises, meditation, etc. in order to keep myself ready for service.
I know there are a lot of faggots out there who are unowned and have never been owned for whatever reason. However, that doesn’t mean you cannot experience the deep meaning of your faghood through self-training. In fact, I think this should be a vital aspect of of every faggot’s life regardless if they’re owned or not.
So I wanted to create a guide for unowned faggots in order to help steer them toward purpose and (hopefully) prepare them for service.
PHYSICAL TRAINING
There are certain physical demands placed upon a faggot by most Alphas. It’s important that a faggot work toward certain physical benchmarks in order to be of service.
WEIGHT: Yeah, I know … why must Alphas be so shallow, right? Well, it’s because they are superior Men, and they deserve the best (and they know it). They don’t need to fuck or receive head from a fat faggot when there are ten other perky twink faggots ready to do the same thing. So be mindful of this. If you’re serious about serving, get into some sort of shape. I’m not saying you need to look like Tom Daley, but at least try to get rid of flab and develop an ass of some sort. This involves dieting and gym exercise.
STRETCHING: Faggots are tossed around and bent in a variety of ways while being used. However, it’s more than just being able to get your knees to your ears. It also means being able to arch your back and get into the Bitch Position on demand (and it will be demanded a lot ). This requires a lot of concentrated practice involving stretches designed to loosen those parts of the body. You need to get used to holding those positions while an Alpha is pounding you, too.
THROAT EXERCISES: A faggot is expected to deepthroat pretty regularly. Therefore it is necessary to heavily practice overcoming your gag reflex. I use a 7″ silicone dildo with balls to keep myself tuned up, and I still do that even though I’m currently serving as a straight Alpha’s cocksucker. So just imagine how important it is for a faggot without regular dick to use this method!
If you don’t have a dildo, you could possibly use a hard vegetable like a carrot for practice, but this is a choking hazard in my mind. Instead, use a large metal spoon to stimulate the back of your throat, and see if you can get used to controlling it. This will help you eventually overcome the reflex when you have actual dick in there.
Regardless of your method, practice swallowing when you feel gagging coming on. This will not only neutralize the reflex, but it will also encourage your throat to accept more cock into it.
This is a video from Throat-it-boy that shows the level of cocksucking most Alphas expect. Train yourself to get to this point.
ASS EXERCISES: You’ve heard me discuss Kegel exercises (which are primarily designed for vaginas) a number of times on this site. This is critical. These exercises will help your pussy retain strength over the coming years of abuse due to Alpha rutting. Kegel exercises are covered on this site and elsewhere on the internet, but a more ass-centric version of these exercises were “popularized” via a series of bizarre, uncomfortable instructional videos by Dr. Joe Kramer.
But there is more to ass training than muscle development. There is also hole training. This would ideally involve multiple sizes of silicone dildos or buttplugs. This will help to open the hole and relax the muscles for penetration. However, these devices can be used while inserted to develop the power of the anal muscles by clamping down on them repeatedly.
Get accustomed to how your ass works and how it can be used to provide pleasure!
MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL TRAINING
A lot goes into being a faggot. There are mental and emotional hurdles to overcome in order to fully submit to an Alpha and find true fulfillment in his service. Roughly, this can be broken down this way:
ADMIT YOU ARE A FAGGOT: Saying it out loud or repeating it as a mantra can help a faggot break down the mental and emotional barriers that prevent it from reaching acceptance and peace. I never had much of a problem here, but I’ve come to know many, many faggots still trapped behind this seemingly insignificant barrier. I’ve seen faggots CRY when they openly admit it for the first time. It is deeply meaningful.
So how can a faggot come to accept its truth? The most obvious way is to admit it vocally to other people. If you can’t do it in your personal circle, then find people online (Twitter or the FWA Discord are terrific free resources) to whom you can admit it. You’ll be surprised. Another way might be journaling this statement on paper. There is a technique for manifestation which relies on repeatedly writing a phrase on paper so that it will come true. Try writing “I am a faggot” repeatedly on paper and see how you feel.
ADMIT IT TO OTHERS: This goes in conjunction with the previous step, but here I’m advocating actually admitting it to people you know in your personal life as far as you’re able. It doesn’t need to be anything weird. It’s simply an admission of something you’ve come to realize about yourself. Do this helps to ground it and make it more real in your heart.
MEDITATION: I’ve come to find that quiet time spent meditating and visualizing what I want or need in my life helps to manifest them. In part, that’s because these become more powerful goals that I subconsciously pursue. Focus on the type of Owner you want to serve, and be specific. Visualize how you want to serve, what kind of faggot you yearn to be for him, and every detail of that life you desire. Then follow it up with action.
This focus of mind is important even down to certain physical acts. For instance, when I’m preparing to suck a dick I visualize myself so hungry to have the dick inside me that I push myself to swallow it, desperate to have it all inside me. It’s like the way an Olympic jumper visualizes how far he needs to leap, and his body stretches incredibly to achieve every last millimeter. You must WANT IT MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE.
LITTLE ACTS: Performing simple, discreet acts of service for Men during the course of every day can definitely help train a faggot’s mind to the important of always seeking to serve. Opening a door, getting a cup of coffee, offering a drink, getting a towel for an Alpha at the gym. These are simple things that might not mean anything to the Men, but it means the world to the faggot offering.
FINDOM: Far be in from me to advocate findom for faggots. I don’t particularly like how findom ruins both Alphas and faggots, which allows game playing as a substitute for real service and worship. HOWEVER, findom can be a useful starter for the true life of a faggot in the future. It can give new and frightened faggots their first taste of actual service to a Man. For true faggots, it never stops at simple financial transactions – they will eventually develop and want more. But, at the start, we need to experience SOMETHING.
CHASTITY: Ideally, a faggot would be locked in chastity by a Man taking ownership of it. However, an unowned faggot doesn’t have that luxury yet. Still, that doesn’t mean the unowned faggot can’t experience the profound revelation of being in chastity. The faggot can lock itself, try it out, and see what it does over time.
I’m the perfect advocate for this. Despite being a faggot for a couple of decades, I never had a Master who wanted to put me in chastity. I always considered it to be a silly fetish, and I also felt it was unnecessary since I had control over my dicklet and never masturbated or got hard around Men. But over the last couple of years, I really became embarrassed that I wasn’t caged. I felt like I was dishonoring true Alpha cock by leaving mine free and used the way Men used theirs.
So I locked up in March of 2020, and my perspective changed completely. It was like a colorblind person putting on Chromatic glasses and seeing the world in color for the first time. I suddenly became hyper-aware of the Men around me, how they strode confidently while I walked among them locked. It was definitely a transformational moment in my faghood, and that was after many years! So there’s no reason why this should not be an option for unowned or virgin faggots as well.
I really hope this guide helps my unowned brothers find ways to expand their confidence and appreciation of the important Hierarchical role Nature has called them to play. Just keep in mind: your faghood isn’t something that happens to you like a disease. It is already part of you. So find ways to become better at understanding it and enhancing it so that you’ll be ready to fulfill it whenever you get the chance!
