Subspace is one of those aspects of the Dom/sub experience that few people truly understand, and even fewer appreciate its power. It’s the power source at the center of Hierarchical exchanges. Without subspace, there would be no ability for a Dominant to overpower and control a submissive, to break into their minds, or help them achieve a sense of purpose in service.

One Alpha recently compared subspace to hypnosis, and the comparison is apt. Like hypnosis, bringing a submissive into subspace involves control and skill, but also great responsibility. In deeper levels of subspace a submissive’s mind and heart unlock, its resistance fades, and many things thought unimaginable become possible.

If I sound a little mystical about subspace, it’s for good reason. Mishandled subspace has led to broken and destroyed lives. On the other hand, carefully nurtured subspace can lead to tremendous fulfillment.

WHAT IS SUBSPACE?

This is a definition I quite like:

Subspace is a metaphor for the state the submissive’s minds and bodies are in during a deeply involving play scene. Many types of BDSM play invoke strong physical responses. The mental aspect of BDSM also causes many submissives to mentally separate themselves from their environment as they process the experience. Deep subspace is often characterized as a state of deep recession and incoherence. Deep subspace may also cause a danger in newer submissives who are unfamiliar with the experience, and require the dominant to keep a careful watch to ensure the submissive isn’t placing him or herself in danger. Many submissives require aftercare.

Notice the disassociative quality of subspace, this disconnection of the mind from the body. This is caused by a very natural process in the body ordinarily triggered by dangerous circumstances.

WHY DOES SUBSPACE OCCUR?

When a human being is confronted by some dramatic or traumatic moment, the body releases chemicals into the blood stream as part of a process known as the “fight or flight” response. Endorphins and enkephalins are dumped into the bloodstream, producing a weightless, out-of-body rush of pleasure. This can last for hours afterward.

This dump of endorphins can occur during pleasurable-but-taxing sexual experiences such as being fucked or sucking dick just as easily as it can during violent and aggressive situations like rape.

THE EFFECTS OF SUBSPACE

It’s the “fight or flight” response shielding that allows faggots (who are extremely submissive males) to perform tremendous (and occasionally shocking and extreme) acts of service. While in “fight or flight”-induced subspace faggots are extremely open to suggestion and will often mindlessly do things that they might never do in their everyday life.

More from the definition of subspace above:

Producing a sort of trance-like state due to the increase of hormones and chemicals, the submissive starts to feel out-of-body, detached from reality, and as the high comes down, and the parasympathetic nervous system kicks in, a deep exhaustion, as well as incoherence. Many submissives once reaching a height of subspace will lose all sensation of pain, as any stimulus causes the period to prolong.

This detachment from reality allows subs and faggots to go much farther in risky behaviors. We see this extreme behavior quite readily in findom. Faggots deep in subspace have surrendered many thousands of dollars in financial drains to online Alphas, only to regret it once they snap out of it.

HOW CAN WE DEFINE “PERPETUAL SUBSPACE”?

I’ve been owned multiple times in my life, including a few stints as a live-in faggot. To accomplish this, I had to get into a state I call “perpetual subspace” (another term could be “persistent subspace”). It’s sort of a low-level, neverending state of subspace in which the faggot is on a constant high due to even the most mundane of tasks (like doing the dishes, or cleaning a bathroom). The faggot’s Master is never far from the faggot’s mind during the course of every day while in perpetual subspace. Everything the faggot does goes to honor its Master.

I liken perpetual subspace to a type of white noise that drives a faggot forward in constant service to its Owner. Think of it in the same terms as listening to the sound of rain or other types of background noise in order to fall asleep. Perpetual subspace is that low-level hum by which the faggot accomplishes much in service.

PERPETUAL SUBSPACE – THE IDEAL STATE

Whenever I was owned in my life and in a state of perpetual subspace, I felt comforted and at peace. My worries were few since my Master took care of me and all I truly focused on were the tasks that my Master expected me to accomplish. Regardless of how menial they were, each task brought me satisfaction because I knew it was pleasing to my Master.

It was easy to keep me in perpetual subspace once it began. My Master running his fingers through my hair and telling me I was a “good boy” or a “good faggot” was enough to sustain the state in me for weeks. Sexual service/worship sessions were obviously part of that as well. All of these stimuli combined to keep me under perpetual subspace, a state that allowed me to accomplish a lot in service, as well as remain pliable to suggestions when my Master wanted to share me with his friends or make me do things I might not ordinarily do (piss drinking and ass licking experiences started under perpetual subspace of a Master).

For Alphas and Masters, perpetual subspace should be the goal. It is the ultimate level of power, for you hold the total life of the faggot under your control.

Ever since I first realized my faghood when I was 17 years old, I’ve always embraced learning and practicing my craft. I just had this need to get better, understand my own motivations, and remain in what I felt was the proper headspace. Eventually I became an owned faggot multiple times, trained relentlessly on several occasions, and developed a natural rhythm as a faggot that has persisted to this day.

However, that doesn’t mean I’ve stopped developing myself. Far from it! I’ve been unowned over the last few years due to a wide variety of circumstances (rescuing Baby Boy, surviving cancer, employment restructuring), but throughout that period of time I’ve tried to keep myself in what I’ve dubbed “Perpetual Subspace“. One way I did that was by voluntarily self-locking my skin tag in chastity two years ago. However, I’ve continued to do ass and throat training exercises, meditation, etc. in order to keep myself ready for service.

I know there are a lot of faggots out there who are unowned and have never been owned for whatever reason. However, that doesn’t mean you cannot experience the deep meaning of your faghood through self-training. In fact, I think this should be a vital aspect of of every faggot’s life regardless if they’re owned or not.

So I wanted to create a guide for unowned faggots in order to help steer them toward purpose and (hopefully) prepare them for service.

PHYSICAL TRAINING

There are certain physical demands placed upon a faggot by most Alphas. It’s important that a faggot work toward certain physical benchmarks in order to be of service.

WEIGHT: Yeah, I know … why must Alphas be so shallow, right? Well, it’s because they are superior Men, and they deserve the best (and they know it). They don’t need to fuck or receive head from a fat faggot when there are ten other perky twink faggots ready to do the same thing. So be mindful of this. If you’re serious about serving, get into some sort of shape. I’m not saying you need to look like Tom Daley, but at least try to get rid of flab and develop an ass of some sort. This involves dieting and gym exercise.

STRETCHING: Faggots are tossed around and bent in a variety of ways while being used. However, it’s more than just being able to get your knees to your ears. It also means being able to arch your back and get into the Bitch Position on demand (and it will be demanded a lot ). This requires a lot of concentrated practice involving stretches designed to loosen those parts of the body. You need to get used to holding those positions while an Alpha is pounding you, too.

THROAT EXERCISES: A faggot is expected to deepthroat pretty regularly. Therefore it is necessary to heavily practice overcoming your gag reflex. I use a 7″ silicone dildo with balls to keep myself tuned up, and I still do that even though I’m currently serving as a straight Alpha’s cocksucker. So just imagine how important it is for a faggot without regular dick to use this method!

If you don’t have a dildo, you could possibly use a hard vegetable like a carrot for practice, but this is a choking hazard in my mind. Instead, use a large metal spoon to stimulate the back of your throat, and see if you can get used to controlling it. This will help you eventually overcome the reflex when you have actual dick in there.

Regardless of your method, practice swallowing when you feel gagging coming on. This will not only neutralize the reflex, but it will also encourage your throat to accept more cock into it.

This is a video from Throat-it-boy that shows the level of cocksucking most Alphas expect. Train yourself to get to this point.

ASS EXERCISES: You’ve heard me discuss Kegel exercises (which are primarily designed for vaginas) a number of times on this site. This is critical. These exercises will help your pussy retain strength over the coming years of abuse due to Alpha rutting. Kegel exercises are covered on this site and elsewhere on the internet, but a more ass-centric version of these exercises were “popularized” via a series of bizarre, uncomfortable instructional videos by Dr. Joe Kramer.

But there is more to ass training than muscle development. There is also hole training. This would ideally involve multiple sizes of silicone dildos or buttplugs. This will help to open the hole and relax the muscles for penetration. However, these devices can be used while inserted to develop the power of the anal muscles by clamping down on them repeatedly.

There’s also a way to stretch your asshole so you can accommodate larger dicks and increased use. It’s the Chopstick Method pioneered by Caged Jock. I detailed it here: https://hierarchyuniversity.com/caged-jock-how-to-stretch-a-fags-hole/

Get accustomed to how your ass works and how it can be used to provide pleasure!

MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL TRAINING

A lot goes into being a faggot. There are mental and emotional hurdles to overcome in order to fully submit to an Alpha and find true fulfillment in his service. Roughly, this can be broken down this way:

ADMIT YOU ARE A FAGGOT: Saying it out loud or repeating it as a mantra can help a faggot break down the mental and emotional barriers that prevent it from reaching acceptance and peace. I never had much of a problem here, but I’ve come to know many, many faggots still trapped behind this seemingly insignificant barrier. I’ve seen faggots CRY when they openly admit it for the first time. It is deeply meaningful.

So how can a faggot come to accept its truth? The most obvious way is to admit it vocally to other people. If you can’t do it in your personal circle, then find people online (Twitter or the FWA Discord are terrific free resources) to whom you can admit it. You’ll be surprised. Another way might be journaling this statement on paper. There is a technique for manifestation which relies on repeatedly writing a phrase on paper so that it will come true. Try writing “I am a faggot” repeatedly on paper and see how you feel.

ADMIT IT TO OTHERS: This goes in conjunction with the previous step, but here I’m advocating actually admitting it to people you know in your personal life as far as you’re able. It doesn’t need to be anything weird. It’s simply an admission of something you’ve come to realize about yourself. Do this helps to ground it and make it more real in your heart.

MEDITATION: I’ve come to find that quiet time spent meditating and visualizing what I want or need in my life helps to manifest them. In part, that’s because these become more powerful goals that I subconsciously pursue. Focus on the type of Owner you want to serve, and be specific. Visualize how you want to serve, what kind of faggot you yearn to be for him, and every detail of that life you desire. Then follow it up with action.

This focus of mind is important even down to certain physical acts. For instance, when I’m preparing to suck a dick I visualize myself so hungry to have the dick inside me that I push myself to swallow it, desperate to have it all inside me. It’s like the way an Olympic jumper visualizes how far he needs to leap, and his body stretches incredibly to achieve every last millimeter. You must WANT IT MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE.

LITTLE ACTS: Performing simple, discreet acts of service for Men during the course of every day can definitely help train a faggot’s mind to the important of always seeking to serve. Opening a door, getting a cup of coffee, offering a drink, getting a towel for an Alpha at the gym. These are simple things that might not mean anything to the Men, but it means the world to the faggot offering.

FINDOM: Far be in from me to advocate findom for faggots. I don’t particularly like how findom ruins both Alphas and faggots, which allows game playing as a substitute for real service and worship. HOWEVER, findom can be a useful starter for the true life of a faggot in the future. It can give new and frightened faggots their first taste of actual service to a Man. For true faggots, it never stops at simple financial transactions – they will eventually develop and want more. But, at the start, we need to experience SOMETHING.

CHASTITY: Ideally, a faggot would be locked in chastity by a Man taking ownership of it. However, an unowned faggot doesn’t have that luxury yet. Still, that doesn’t mean the unowned faggot can’t experience the profound revelation of being in chastity. The faggot can lock itself, try it out, and see what it does over time.

I’m the perfect advocate for this. Despite being a faggot for a couple of decades, I never had a Master who wanted to put me in chastity. I always considered it to be a silly fetish, and I also felt it was unnecessary since I had control over my dicklet and never masturbated or got hard around Men. But over the last couple of years, I really became embarrassed that I wasn’t caged. I felt like I was dishonoring true Alpha cock by leaving mine free and used the way Men used theirs.

So I locked up in March of 2020, and my perspective changed completely. It was like a colorblind person putting on Chromatic glasses and seeing the world in color for the first time. I suddenly became hyper-aware of the Men around me, how they strode confidently while I walked among them locked. It was definitely a transformational moment in my faghood, and that was after many years! So there’s no reason why this should not be an option for unowned or virgin faggots as well.

I really hope this guide helps my unowned brothers find ways to expand their confidence and appreciation of the important Hierarchical role Nature has called them to play. Just keep in mind: your faghood isn’t something that happens to you like a disease. It is already part of you. So find ways to become better at understanding it and enhancing it so that you’ll be ready to fulfill it whenever you get the chance!

love,

sam the faggot

The 6 stages of taking it up the ass:

1. The “oofff” moment
2. Acceptance
3. Loss of control
4. Feeling his cum in your chute
5. Relief
6. Joy

(From @brohighness)

My dear brother Caged Jock (@cagedjock) has been teaching faggots about the chastity lifestyle for more than ten years. He’s been an inspiration to me on my chastity journey, and his innovations are legendary.

His greatest innovation is the chopstick method of hole stretching detailed in the video above. I love this so much that I immediately had Caged Jock on the podcast to discuss it in detail.

The method is labor-intensive, but I believe it would result in a properly-dilated hole without a lot of the severe pain.

Try it!

The following is part of a thread following the adventures of Jonah, a black faggot who serves as a “cabfag” for an older white over-the-road truck driver. CLICK HERE to read these posts in chronological order!

I’m consistently surprised at the creativity of some of my fag brothers. I’ve always considered myself to be something of an innovator when it comes to my service as a faggot, but every so often I come across a faggot who thinks outside the box. I’m always eager to highlight these ones, because I believe it inspires other faggots to stop being so timid.

Jonah is already a rarity – a black faggot. I feel black fags have extra layers of difficulty and prejudice to climb through in order to find fulfillment because of the expectations heaped upon them because of their race. It might be these hurdles that caused Jonah to develop creative new ways to serve Alphas.

Incredibly, Jonah now serves as a full-time faggot for an over-the-road truck driver. This is a position that even I in my hungriest moments never considered as a possibility. I always thought these ones who service truck drivers (referred to, most hilariously, as “lot lizards”) were just quick “pump-and-dumps” during pit stops, not live-in, over-the-road sexual and domestic fags.

Here’s Jonah describing his most unusual service opportunity:

I spent 6 weeks completely naked on the road with a trucker named John in an 18 wheeler truck as a CabFag.

Whats a cabfag you ask?

It’s a faggot such as myself who remains completely naked in the  cabin of an 18 wheeler truck behind the driver and passenger seat. 

John is white in his 50’s, I’m black and 32.

When ever he stops, He fucks me. Right there in the truck and dumps a load in me. No matter if its for gas, food, laundry, a drop off, a pick up, the Wal-Mart parking lot while waiting on the next trailer to pick up. When the truck stops, I get a load!

Not to mention giving John road head or him telling me to get in the passenger seat doggystyle back arched with my ass spread facing the windshield. Sometimes for miles and miles. When I do get out of the truck you use the bathroom at a truck stop he forces me to do a bunch of humiliating/liberating things like he makes me wear at least one piece of clothing on that hes shot his load on or has been used as a cum rag. He’s made me get out of the truck with his load all over my face, talk loud enough to expose me a dick loving faggot … a bunch of other things as well. I haven’t even mentioned the hotels!  

 I loved every second of it! I’m a faggot! Letting white men fuck my butt is my purpose. White penis is god! God I fuckin love white dick so much. 

You can hear Jonah’s excitement in his words above, can’t you? That’s the sound of a faggot finding fulfillment through pure service. Jonah’s journey is like a gold digger finally finding a rich vein of gold after years of fruitlessly hacking into the earth. I’m really proud of Jonah and his relentless efforts to find new ways to serve, and I’m happy for his success. I only want that same happiness for every faggot.

So what do you think? Would this kind of service appeal to you? Could it work in your present circumstances?

When an Alpha describes what his perfect faggot is like, he’ll probably describe it visually or functionally; that it’s attractive, clean, good at sucking dick.

When I refer to a “perfect faggot”, I’m almost always talking about its form and mindset. Does it present well, full of respectful-yet-eager obedience?

Here are some examples of what I might call “perfect faggots”.

It’s telling that most of these faggots are in chastity. The cage helps develop a healthy faggot mindset and a humility that uncaged fags rarely match. I always thought I was a perfectly submissive faggot (I’ve always been proud of my proper fag behavior), but chastity deepened my appreciation for such an attitude.

Something to keep in mind!

Living legend Sally Field gives an impassioned speech about her gay son.

Hierarchy teaches us hard lessons about the nature of life … and ourselves. The hardest lesson is to honestly accept what we were born to be.

Whether we are straight or gay, Alpha or faggot … we have purpose.

In my last podcast I discussed the startling true story of Master Andrés, a completely straight Alpha who has taken on a live-in faggot for sexual and domestic service much like Masters Matt, Jin, and Kyler and others have done. During the podcast, I used that story as a jumping-off point to discuss how important it is for faggots to take the initiative and risk to offer themselves to straight Alphas.

I received some interesting feedback from that story and podcast, but I received one comment in particular that didn’t necessarily have a great ending, but contained a valuable life lesson. Here’s what a faggot named Sergio said:

I really resonated with the end of this episode. I was a beta bitch to my Straight Alpha friend for many years, driving him around, buying his drinks at the bar, putting his needs first. I’ll never forget the day I got down on my knees and really offered him service. I came out of the fag closet and let him know I was his to use and abuse. He laughed. He told me to stop playing. I told him I was serious. He told me he wasn’t interested, he wasn’t gay, and he just wanted to be friends. I told him I knew he wasn’t gay. He declined my worship nonetheless. 

We went back to the way things had been, him taking the lead and me following his subtle orders, but things quickly changed. I was serving as his foot stool, kissing his feet and drinking his piss straight from the tap within a few months of the first time I got down on my knees and let him know I was a faggot who lived to serve him and men like him. He wasn’t a violent Alpha, but from time to time he kicked me in my balls and laughed while I was on the floor screaming in pain. Whether it was worshipping his feet, drinking his piss, smelling his farts, serving as his footstool or ball torture, I always thanked him profusely for allowing me to serve. He’d just laugh and call me a fag. 

It never became full sexual service, although I was almost always rock hard when serving him, but I was a happy fag driving my Alpha friend around, buying his drinks and serving as his comfort and his entertainment, and it all happened because I had the courage to offer him the service he deserved.

Bravo to Sergio for showing the courage to offer service to this Alpha, but even more props to him for continuing to service selflessly even after the Alpha rejected his greater, more intimate offer of service. The Alpha knocked him down, but Sergio recognized that the Alpha still deserved loyal service and worship! That’s the correct viewpoint!

This is what it takes: courage, humility, and resilience!