I get a fair number of questions regarding anal tips and tricks. Most of my regimen involves keeping my pussy as tight and as clean as possible (through Kegel exercises, grooming, diet, and douching).
However, many fag brothers struggle with having pussies so tight that sex is almost torture.
Ordinarily, I’d recommend a buttplug system or The Chopstick Method pioneered by CagedJock. In fact, I recently recommended that to a reader.
But now I’m changing some of that. I believe all faggots should be using anal dilators. First invented as a medical device, these dilators solve a big problem for bottoms using traditional buttplugs: the buttplug doesn’t work to loosen both sets of muscle groups inside a fag’s pussy.
Watch these videos:
These anal dilators aren’t necessarily cheap (as they are medical-grade devices), but Amazon has one under $50. I’ve included a link below.
I do think this is a game-changer for many of you currently struggling to handle larger cocks.
The following post is part of a thread following the story of Mika, a teenage faggot in Peru who bravely and successfully seduced a straight Alpha named Gael. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
One of the more engaging ongoing threads on this site is the story of brave little Mika. Through his courage, he was able to seduce a straight Alpha named Master Gael despite the fact that Master Gael has a fiancé named Luna he will soon marry. Master Gael is Mika’s first faggot, and Mika is Master Gael’s first Alpha, so it’s been a learning experience for both of them.
But a situation that would’ve been unthinkable for Master Gael a few years has become secretly life-changing for the young Alpha primarily because of Mika’s loyalty, discretion, and submission. Honestly, Mika’s story is a textbook example of how to serve a straight Alpha. I’m so very proud of him.
But this latest from Mika is his crowning achievement. I don’t want to waste any time getting to it:
Hola Sam!! This is Mika from Peru! Do you remember me? Happy New year Sam!! <3 I hope you are really well and happy
Remember that I told you that my King Gael will get married to Luna? I really need to tell you something, you’re the only one I can talk about these things, brother
Yesterday was Gael’s birthday, he made a little barbecue at his house with his friends from soccer and he invited me!! I wasn’t expecting at all because nobody knows that he knows me, we have no friends in common at all, and every time a serve him we are really discreet so nobody sees me in his car or leaving his apartment. But he invited me and I was sooooo happy, and I asked him if I needed to look straight because nobody knows I am gay and I was imagining that he wouldn’t want his friends to know that he had a faggot friend. But he just said “no worries, just feel comfortable, the guys won’t mind”, so I wore my earring, sexy shorts, and a nice shirt, not a femboy as he likes, but anyone could tell that I was a faggot just looking at me. I am so used to bullying that I was expecting that his friends would laugh at me or call me names, or exclude me from their conversations, I was already happy with the idea of just sitting at the corner and staying on my phone while the guys drink beer and laugh. Being next to Gael was already enough!
OMG Sam, his friends were sooooo hot, they were all shirtless and sweaty making barbecue, playing soccer, drinking beer, going to the pool, I felt in heaven, the only faggot among 7 straight Men. I wish I could worship and serve all of them!! I arrived there and was timid, I was totally different from them, but I said happy birthday to Gael, gave him my present, he said thanks and ran back to the soccer, and I sat down just looking at all those Men running for the ball wishing that they were all running to catch me jajaja when the game was over, they all came next to me because we were going to eat. I didn’t know any of them, and I was already prepared to homophobic comments or seeing them laughing at me. Of course I didn’t tell them I am gay, but it is very obvious on my face, my clothes, and my voice.
One of his friends is married and his wife is pregnant now. One of the guys asked to the other guy who is going to have a child “What would you do if one day your son is 15 arrives at home and says papi, this is my boyfriend?” They all laughed out loud, including Gael, and at that moment I thought “okay, it was too good to be true, they will start all the homophobic jokes now”, but then the other friend just answered “Well, I will offer some juice to my son’s boyfriend because if they are 15 I can’t offer a beer” and they laughed out loud again, all of them laughed but always including me, you know? all the other friends started to answer the same question in a funny but very gay-friendly like “if my son is gay, I will give him a car and a bottle of lube when he turns 18” and they all laughed again, then the other one said “I would give him a cowboy hat because he would spend the whole night riding”, and things like that
I think Gael noticed my relief when the guys were so gay-friendly, and for the very first time in my life I felt completely comfortable and happy among 7 straight Men. No girls, no gays, just me and those 7 amazing sweaty Alphas. That was the moment when the girls arrived. Luna and 3 other wives/girlfriends arrived together because they were together doing their hair. 4 of the guys were married or engaged, and 3 were single, so in total there were 7 Men, 4 girls, and me. I saw Luna in person for the very first time after looking at hundreds of her photos, it was difficult to pretend that I didn’t know anything about her because Gael literally calls me Luna every single time we are by ourselves. I dress up like her, I wear make-up like her, and recently I even bought a wig, I make every effort to be a fag version of herself, but she doesn’t even know that I exist. She is a pretty woman with a long dark hair but I could feel her bossy presence as soon as she arrived.
The guys were all laughing and have a good time with the question about the gay son, so she arrived in the front yard and said “what is so funny, guys?” Gael grabbed her by her waist and all the friend got so serious, no one was laughing anymore. Then he said “the guys are saying what they would do if their sons are gay”, then Luna answered “I don’t know what is so funny about it, you guys should take your families more seriously, but I know that it won’t be a problem for us because our children will be raised in a decent household”
Oh Sam, I felt like a bucket of icy water on my head, it was so weird to see all the guys stopping to laugh, I wanted to leave at that moment but Gael was so pretty and so happy with my presence among his friends, so I remained quiet and not even looked at her afraid of what she would say. Gael chuckled, clearly uncomfortable with her answer, and said “well, we never know” and then she started to say HORRIBLE things brother Sam, she said that no gay would come from her womb because she would generate a healthy child, then she said that the gays have mental issues. It really hurt me because even though she didn’t know me, it was very obvious that I was the only gay at the table, all the guys were looking at me while she was saying the homophobic things. She spoke for 2 or 3 minutes but it felt like hours and I was literally holding my tears, I would look stupid to cry in front of all his friends.
But then my King Gael interrupted her and said “here comes the party pooper, we don’t wanna know what you think about gays” I think that he realized how happy I was and how sad I got with what she said, so he was really smart and asked me to go to to the kitchen with the other 3 single guys to get some more plates while he and the married friends would get chairs for Luna and the other girls. I stood up and went to the kitchen and when I was walking I couldn’t hold my tears anymore, and I was soooo embarrassed to cry in front of three hot straight Alphas who I had never seen in my life. I thought they would never have empathy to a stupid faggot crying just because of what a homophobic girl said, but once again they surprised me so much!!! One of the guys (the one who said that would give a car and lube to his gay son) saw me crying first although I was trying to hide. He immeadiately stopped what he was doing and asked me if I was okay. I was really embarrassed so I said yes but I couldn’t stop crying for some reason, I think it was the emotional shock of being so happy and then so frustrated. There were 3 hot straight Men and one faggot crying at the kitchen looking for plates and forks, what a bizarre situation. Then another one of the guys tried to break the ice on that awkward moment and said “you know what guys? I think Mika needs a collective hug right now” This is what they do in the soccer game when their team score, they get close to each other, so all of them hug together and start to jump and yell something. So those three sexy Men got close to me and literally hug me tight in the middle of them and started to jump, rubbing their chests and legs on me (good think I was not caged because the cage would’ve broken against my hard dick!!)
I started laughing because their reaction to me crying was really sweet, and they were all so playful, doing with me exactly what they do among them, not discriminating me at all. Then one of the guys said “Don’t cry, ok? we are here to celebrate”, and the third one, a gorgeous Alpha called Cesar, said “if you’re not comfortable with the girls, we can stay here, just the single guys” It would’ve been amazing to spend the rest of my night with those amazing Men, but I didn’t want to disappoint my King Gael, so I went back to the front yard. For my surprise, the 4 girls were in a different table across the yard while the guys were at the same table as before, Gael told me to give the plates to the ladies and come back next to him, I did without making any eye contact with Luna, and ran back to Gael like a puppy. Then Gael said that Luna was “too annoying” and he told her to stay away from him. I felt so protected by my King! He is really perfect to me brother Sam!
After the party, when all the guys were drunk Cesar confessed me that before I arrived at the party Gael gathered all of them and said “My gay friend is coming today, if I hear any homophobic jokes, I will punch you guys on the face, he suffered a lot of bullying and homophobic jokes are a bad trigger for him” I LOVE my King!!! <3 Then his friend told me that all the guys told him that they would never be an asshole and treat a gay guy badly. All of the guys were really upset at Luna for what she said. I think Gael wasn’t expecting her to be so homophobic so quickly, that’s why he interrupted her when she started talking bad things about the gays.
Gael texted me this morning saying that he doesn’t know if we will keep seeing each other after he gets married but that he will never allow Luna to say those things about gays again. He apologized for her behavior and asked me how I was feeling. Can you believe that this amazing King SAID SORRY TO ME? He has always respectful with me but I would never imagine such a strong and cocky Alpha apologizing to me. Cesar is also really sweet and super hot. He answered my story on Instagram this morning and we talked a little bit. He started following me. I don’t understand why an amazing Man like him would want to be friends with a faggot like me, but of course I answered him and I was as nice as I could.
I am really sorry for the long message, Sam! But you are my only faggot friend and I wanted to share what happened yesterday with you. Could you please advise me? I really see you as my old brother and I truly love you! 🙂 <3 Happy new year!!!
I’m so thrilled by this new development! Here’s why:
Master Gael bringing his faggot to a party with both his Alpha brothers and his fiancé is pretty significant! Even though nobody knows that Mika is Master Gael’s personal faggot, it was still a huge (and telling) step forward in Master Gael’s ownership of Mika!
Master Gael prepared the way with his Alpha friends, making sure they understood he would not tolerate any cruelty or humiliation of Mika. That shows a tender side I don’t think we’ve seen from Master Gael yet, and reveals that he’s not only a Protector Alpha, but also a high-ranking Alpha (likely a God Alpha among his friends). This is why I’m always saying that we determine an Alpha’s hierarchical standing by watching how others respond to him. Clearly, Master Gael is just as powerful as we imagined, Mika!
Then Master Gael’s wicked cunt Luna had to show up and ruin it!
Mika described the scene perfectly, one played out time and again with straight Men burdened with bitchy, loud-mouthed women. These kinds of females ruin parties and fun with their whining and neediness. They bring an air of tension everywhere they go. Surely, Master Gael deserves better than that!
Then Luna loudly made those awful, homophobic remarks. She didn’t intentionally mean to hurt Mika, but her bigoted stupidity infects everything about her personality. Mika did a great job holding in his feelings, the only move possible in that situation. Again, perfect behavior from my little brother!
I thought it was funny (and again, telling) that Master Gael relegated Luna and the other females to a table away from the Alphas (and Mika). Master Gael clearly prefers the company of his Alpha pack than the screeching harpy he’s planning to marry, and Mika’s behavior was so much better than Looney Luna’s that Master Gael couldn’t help but notice the difference. Faggot or not, Mika would be such a better trophy than that selfish bitch!
The Alpha brothers comforting Mika was also a very sweet way to help soften Luna’s harsh words and make Mika smile. It’s obvious Mika made an great impression on those Alphas, especially Cesar! I’m just saying this without much proof: I wouldn’t be surprised if Master Gael allows Cesar to try out Mika’s service at some point. This is something that Alphas do with each other. Sharing faggots is a way of showing each other affection as well as displaying power. I just have a feeling about it!
Overall, this is a big deal. Master Gael had to be as impressed as I am by Mika’s perfectly submissive behavior at a raucous social gathering full of unfamiliar Alphas. He’s probably so proud to own such a wonderful faggot! I think Mika just made Master Gael’s decision to dismiss Mika after the marriage much harder! I have no idea how Master Gael could ever dismiss Mika’s faithful service once he’s weighed down with that cold cunt Luna!
I want to say this directly to Mika: Baby boy, I love you very much! You make me so proud all the time! I’m so glad I made this website that has helped you become fulfilled and allowed me to have a little brother like you! My heart is with you always!
Hi Sam! I am a faggot that served a Brazilian Alpha for some months named Thiago. He has a huge cock that I found challenging to take at first, but over time He managed to shape my insides to his cock. Last month, I noticed that my hole had become looser due to all the stretching and it now looked like a slit with swollen edges, mimicking a vagina. I got very excited because I immediately recognised it as the boy pussy that you talk about in your website. However, I noticed that Thiago gradually called me less and less to fuck me and when I asked him if something was wrong, he confessed that my pussy was not satisfying him anymore. He assured me that he was very attracted to my boy pussy externally, but that it was not tight enough for him anymore. He told me that he is known by other faggots as the “Pussy Maker” and that most slaves served him to get it. I respected his wishes, of course, but I feel sad. I am scared that other Alphas will see me as “used” or “broken” and that my pussy will not be as tight as they expect. Do you have any advice for me?
Thank you for the question, brother!
Wow, it sounds like Master Thiago had one monstrous cock! Was it really called the “Pussy Maker” or the “Pussy SPLITTER”? I’ve heard about the giant cocks in Brazil, but your letter has caused me to book a flight there.
But yes, proper fucking by larger Alpha cocks can cause our holes to transform into vagina-like openings that I call “Boy Pussy”. It’s pretty amazing, honestly. It’s like our bodies know to do this.
I’m sorry Master Thiago acted that way, but it’s pretty common for Alpha breeders like him to move on after a while. I’m sure his blunt assessment of your pussy hurt you, which is a shame given the fact that it was his cock that loosened it!
As an advice, I want to introduce you to Kegels for faggots: “anal breathing”. This creepy gay doctor from the ’90s named Joe Kramer pushed this method for strengthening the muscles of the anus. I was doing a form of this naturally after I started getting fucked, and then I saw this video and realized I was doing it right.
The anus has a web of muscle surrounding our hole to control what goes in or out. Like any muscle, it can be worked out and strengthened.
Here is the video I’ve had stored on my computer for ages. It teaches several exercises that should help to tighten your sphincter:
Hi sam hope you are having a good day. I’m just reaching out to you as i want to have my first experience with a Man but im not too sure in what way.
I do believe in hierarchy and i do feel like i am a faggot. I often fantasize about serving a Man in ways that a standard sexual partner wouldnt. The idea of a Man enjoying having his feet licked and piss drank feels so alien to me but feels so inspiring at the same time because it must require a level of pure cockiness and understanding they have the power to make someone do that, which i know is something i definitely dont possess.
The thing is i am yet to have any sexual experience at all. Im early 20s so im perhaps a little late to the game compared to most gay guys haha. I have just always been nervous about sex and struggled a bit with shame due to religious trauma. Over the years, ive explored fantasies online but i used to be much more vanilla. I dont know if itd be wise to jump straight into the deep end and find a master to serve or whether it would be better to try more vanilla experiences instead. I want to be well prepared for a master/slave dynamic and wouldnt want to disappoint him as a newbie. But im also a bit scared of the impact it would do to the work ive done to combat the shame ive felt about being gay as being a slave to a Man kinda adds another layer of complexity to it. I also dont know if i will end up enjoying being more vanilla and a typical sub bottom rather than a faggot. I guess i am just unsure if i am thinking wisely to go from not having done anything with a Man to worshipping his feet, doing his laundry and wearing a cage for him all at once lol. I know hierarchy is reality but im not too sure if i am thinking of too much fantasy. Im not sure if im overthinking or not. I would really appreciate some guidance from you sam as i love reading your stuff and coming here has definitely helped me realise the importance of knowing your place within the hierarchy.
Thank you for writing!
I understand your fears and the programming you’re fighting against. Many faggots are so nervous and timid that they struggle to make any headway with their purpose as you’re experiencing.
But here’s the thing: if you continue on this course, you’ll never experience anything you truly desire. You don’t want that. There’s nothing worse than looking back in regret.
Just go on TheBlowers.com or Grindr and find a Man to service. You need to just get started. From there you can build with more confidence.
How publicly exposed and to what detail should a faggot be? Is being out as openly gay enough? Or should it be known to friends, relatives even, exactly how gay they really are? How they are totally passive bottom submissive for all and any Men? Should a faggot expose itself or trust a Real Man to expose them properly?
Thanks for writing!
I don’t think a faggot necessarily needs to come out as a faggot. Coming out as gay is more than enough. I have found it useful to openly admit my faghood, but I’m a different breed and I would never insist on that course for everyone.
Now, some Masters like to push their faggots to come out as a faggot. I don’t really agree with that. But I’m not a Master, and I don’t expect Masters to listen to me.
I want to become an obedient servant to my neighbor Steve! I’ve sent messages to him asking for his help in getting his cock into my throat and his balls on my face. He doesn’t respond but when we run into each other he’s pleasant and friendly. I can’t help staring at his crotch and I want to suck him so bad. What else can I do?
Thank you for writing, brother.
First of all, please STOP what you’re doing immediately. You’re doing it completely wrong. You think you’re being sexy for him by acting like a complete whore. Guess what, sweetheart? HE’S STRAIGHT. He’s not attracted to you physically.
That’s why we faggots must use our complete submission to fly under the radar. I always advise fags to offer services like domestic service or monetary service or gifts. I advise having conversations where you unlock his mind to think about hierarchy and his power. Get him to talk about himself. That’s why I advise fags use physical cues for submission (like getting physically/visually lower).
But you’ve blown all of that with your ridiculous actions.
I want you to go to him and humbly apologize for acting that way. Actually say “Sir, I wanted to apologize to you for disrespecting you and your Alphahood. I’m sorry that I offended you. I simply want to be useful to you.” This might get his attention.
But I think you’ve significantly fucked this opportunity.
This faggot has a question about cunt status, I was anally raped by a Man when I was underage, that was my first sexual experience. I didn’t tell anyone at the time and never really thought about it until I became an adult and had naturally gravitated towards Men and developed my own understanding of what being a faggot was going to mean for me. A recently, I met this particular Man who was one of if not the biggest I have taken and we have since been seeing eachother 2-3 times a week for a few months now. Only recently, I have seen a change in my assholes appearance and I believe my cunt is developing. Would my official cunting be the first Cock I took? Or the first Cock that started my cunting process?
Thank you for the question, brother!
I’m afraid you’ve misunderstood what I mean by the word “cunting”. The term refers to the internal orgasm a faggot experiences when an Alpha fucks them right. There are lots of resources on cunting (including a film I made) in the link on the front page.
What you’re experiencing is the natural transformation of your hole into a boy pussy. Congratulations on that! It’s an amazing thing that we get from our Alphas. They love seeing a faggot with a boy pussy, because their natural attraction to pussy triggers them.
That means your Alpha is stretching you out! Enjoy it!
The following post is part of a thread detailing the struggles of an innocent faggot named Noah who is being fucked roughly by a big-dicked Alpha. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
Alphas can always surprise. You never really know what’s going on in their mind and heart, especially because they always seem like ravenous beasts out to rape and pillage. You’d think their minds would be simple machines of brute force: “EAT, SLEEP, FUCK.”
But, like the natural world they dominate, Alphas can be marvelously complex, like dazzling diamonds comprised of countless facets. Just when you think they don’t care about something, unexpected actions from them reveal the depth of their planning and execution.
Little Noah found that out recently. Noah’s best female friend has been trying to get Noah to leave his big-dicked Master, an unnamed Alpha I’ve been calling Master Hulk, because she said she thinks he’s been abusing Noah. But is that really her intention?
Listen to what this dumb bitch did, and how Master Hulk responded:
Hi Sam! This is Noah again (the one who loves the Hulk)
I want to tell you what happened between me, my best friend, and my boyfriend. After our conversation setting boundaries, I thought she would forget about my Man. But she did something who ruined our friendship forever… Can you believe that the bitch started hitting on my Alpha on Instagram? She told him that she could offer what I would never offer, that a Man like him deserves a real woman, and things like that. That’s why she was telling me to break up with him!! She was never worried about his aggression or the way he fucks me. But luckily my boyfriend is amazing, so he took screenshots of all the things she said and sent it to me and said “is this the best friend you trust and love so much?”
I was soooooo upset and cried a lot, but my Man told me that a beautiful boy like me should never cry for a slut like her. Then he told me that he wanted to fuck her and dump her afterward, just to take some advantage of the situation. I was so angry that I told him to do it. He pretended to be into her, invited her over, she went to his apartment, he fucked her, then (according to what he told me) he just said “Noah loves you and appreciates your friendship, but you are just a selfish slut, get the fuck out of my house.” She tried to text me later that day and apologize, trying to put my Man against me, saying that he was hitting on her, but I just blocked her and I don’t want to see her anymore. My powerful Man invited me over his apartment on the next day, he ordered my favorite food, we had dinner together, we cuddled for hours and hours, and in the middle of night, he started kissing me, lubed my ass and went inside of me really gently, he had never fucked me so gently and softly, he kissed me all the time and kept repeating “that’s it, you’re my boy, you’re amazing”, I think he noticed that I was really hurt for what my bestfriend had done to me, but it turned me on so much to think that he had fucked and bred that slut. When he came inside of me, I could only repeat thank you multiple times for having his holy seed inside of me.
The worst part for me is that I would have loved to serve my Man together with my friend, but she wanted to steal him from me and have him just for her. What really hurt my feelings was not that she wants to ride his cock, this is normal, he is a really hot bisexual Alpha. But I was really upset because she tried to seduce him saying that he didn’t need me anymore.
Anyway Sam, I lost a friend, but I have a real good Alpha who chose me, and this is so much better than a fake friendship. I am really happy and fulfilled now. I told him that he can fuck whoever he wants because we are boyfriends but first I am his faggot, but he agreed to let me know from now on if some of my fag friends or female friends try to hit on him.
Women can be so fucking stupid! Did she really think Master Hulk would choose her lying, manipulative, and unfaithful ass over the faithful and devoted worship and service of his primary faggot Noah?? On what planet would any Alpha cheapen himself like that??
Instead, Master Hulk devised a way to (a) get the pussy he wants, and (b) humiliate her completely! I imagine the pounding he gave her set off the Richter Scale! This was a fuck of vengeance, a statement of utter power and dominance.
And he did it all for his faggot!
It was interesting the way Master Hulk fucked Noah afterward. Typically, aftercare is something applied after an intense fuck. But in this case, the fuck was the aftercare. Master Hulk’s long, caring strokes inside Noah helped to reassure him that he was precious to his Master. And it worked, too. Notice the way Noah responded to Master Hulk’s loads deep inside him. This is the kind of connection only a Master and his faggot can know, one of tender intimacy and clear hierarchical boundaries.
I’m in awe of Master Hulk’s vast wisdom and flawless execution of the evil witch. I’m also proud of Noah for remaining faithful and obedient to his Master, relying on his judgement as if it were the Gospel.
Their Master/faggot relationship is one all Alphas and fags should meditate upon and emulate!
Hey I came across ur website a couple months ago, and it got me to realize that being a faggot was something I wanted to persue but I have never tried it so I don’t know where to start when it comes to finding a master. you have any devise or any masters looking for a new faggot?
Thank you for writing!
Congratulations on recognizing the truth in yourself and choosing to take action! That’s half the battle, honestly!
I don’t connect Alphas and faggots anymore. I tried it at the start of this site ten years ago, and it was a disaster.
I don’t know how old you are, but depending on your circumstances you just need to look around at the Alphas in your life that you’d like to serve and start submitting to them in various ways. You can use my free resource “Letter To An Alpha” in the right sidebar to open a conversation and help the Alpha you want to serve to understand what you are and what he is. That letter has worked multiple times.
You can also use apps like Grindr, TheBlowers.com, Recon, etc. Faggots often find Alphas there.
I came across your blog yours ago and recognized myself a lot in the description of a fag. However being in a relationship I didn’t do much actively about it, only fantasizing. The last few years, the sex in my relationship dropped from no more anal sex (my bf says I’m too tight) to just a few times a year where he let’s me give him head. Most of the times he is just laying there on his back and let me do my thing. Getting frustrated I started to go on the apps behind his back to search for fun. I limit it to hookups where I suck the guys, a lot of time straight man. Probably because anal sex would need more preparation time and would feel even more like cheating since it’s a lot more intimate.
With this experiences in the last year, I tend to hookup more and more with dominant guys, that wont to be deepthroated or facefuck. I really enjoy this submissive role.
A few weeks ago I came across this real alpha who lives nearby and works in the same building. We met a couple of times now where he makes me suck him and rubs his dick over my ass before cumming all over it. When he writes me, he want me to come over immediately, which is hard for me being in a relation but I do when I can. It’s clear that he doesnt like to get no for an answer.
I feel that he wants to fuck me and come in my ass but for now I always find a reason for it not to happen (no time to clean, not practical in the toilets, …). I’m afraid he will loose interest in me if I don’t let him fuck me. On one side, I would like to be fucked again, on the other side, it’s really a big step which I feel uncomfortable with of crossing. His dick is also really big and he likes to play rough, so I’m also afraid my ass will get hurted of injured after all this time. I’m not sure what to do here. Any advice?
Thank you for the question, brother!
I’m sorry about the failing relationship. Sometimes Men lose interest in sex over time for a variety of reasons, but that’s a shame in your case because you have a faggot’s desire to serve and he’s wasting it.
I’m glad you found this truly dominant Alpha who is also very conveniently located! You’re taking the right steps to unleash your inner faggot, which I’m glad to hear!
The Alpha is going to fuck you at some point. If you don’t get ready, it’s either going to be really painful, or he’s going to lose interest and move on. So I suggest that you get ready for getting fucked.
If you buy it through me, you get a discount. Again, HERE IS THE LINK. You need to use those buttplugs to loosen your hole. I’d also get some good water-based lube.
As far as your ethical concerns with your partner, I wouldn’t worry about it too much. He’s the one who has abandoned you. It’s time for you to experience your truth as a faggot.
Hello. I serve a Master who takes advice from you. He recommended I listen to your podcasts, and I have joined your discord. I am confused about some of your posts and podcasts though. Is it OK for Alphas to have nonconsentual sex with fags? Is it OK for Alphas to lie to fags about safe sex by stealthing? You seem to have posted conflicting views on these issues. Thank you.
Thank you for the question, brother!
I must say, your Master should be very proud to own such an intelligent and thoughtful faggot as you! You’re a credit to him!
I’ve often said that I don’t consider myself a reliable voice when it comes to rape because I was raped. And while it was scary in the moment and something that took a while to overcome, I noticed that my feelings toward my rapist and the event itself transformed into something valuable. I acknowledge that might not be the case with every faggot/rape victim, but I’ve heard from plenty of faggots who’ve had the same experience.
So to your question about whether it’s “okay” for Alphas to rape faggots, I’ll phrase it this way: Alphas have the right to take whatever they want from a faggot (rape, so to speak), and they always will. The idea of it being “okay” implies some justification based on human law, but Alphas operate under natural law. It’s the so-called “law of the jungle” that we know as hierarchical law. And under hierarchical law, Alphas can and do rape faggots.
That said, I wish Alphas didn’t rape faggots … but wishes won’t change nature.
As far as stealthing, I don’t really condone the practice overall; the video featuring stealthing I recently posted was just hot. I think if an Alpha wants to breed a faggot, he should just state his intentions outright and then do it. Why the subterfuge? Almost all faggots want to be bred by Alphas/Masters anyway, so the act of stealthing simply indicates untrustworthy behavior. And should diseases be spread via stealthing, there are hefty prices to pay for it. I prefer upfront, direct, and honest communication with the Alphas I serve.
I really hope I answered your questions, brother! Tell your Master thank you for his support, and for training up such a wonderful faggot brother like you!
I hope you don’t mind this faggot following up on your very interesting reply to my last question. Faggot wondered if it could ever be the case that true Masters occasionally like to take cock themselves – your answer made faggot think it’s not acceptable yet it has had some further thoughts on this which it would like to share. Masters have the freedom to seek pleasure wherever and however They choose. By exercising that choice They are asserting Their rights, and faggot guesses (obviously no faggot can truly understand the mind of an alpha) that sometimes some Masters may enjoy the sensation of having Their hole penetrated. Faggot wonders if this would be per se a loss of dignity or a diminution of a Master’s masculinity? An interesting question, faggot thinks, for discussion in the Hierarchy University.
Of course in this faggot’s case the particular issue in the original question was its own embarrassment at having to use its dicklet in such a way; but then again, as Master has always declared that faggot’s dicklet belongs to Him then faggot supposes it could be argued that Master is merely using His own property to please Himself. This is all very perplexing for a mere faggot brain!!
The issue of faggot’s relationship with its dicklet (not really belonging to it but to Master, of course) is sometimes a difficult one to manage. Faggot has for many years had a serious problem with masturbation but Master prefers it not to wear a device because He believes that developing self-control is a much more fulfilling practice. By having to struggle every day when temptation arises faggot is constantly having to focus on and strengthen its commitment to Master’s command. However over time this has become much easier and faggot now finds the idea of masturbation repellent and selfish whilst the word itself – masturbation- seems ugly. Faggot guesses that its growth towards dissociating its dicklet from any legitimate kind of sexual pleasure (even though it still experiences powerful erections) has made it more difficult to satisfy Master’s very occasional commands to fuck Him – yet again faggot finds itself shuddering at the inappropriateness of those two words! Thank you Sam for taking the trouble to take on board this silly faggot’s meanderings. It hopes you have more wise words to dispense!
Thanks for writing again, brother!
Even though I’m now a big proponent of chastity (locked for all of five years aside from my two years in prison), that wasn’t always the case. None of my Masters ever required it of me because I have a tiny penis that never got hard while serving, so it wasn’t an issue. However, I DID have a secret masturbation problem for my entire life until right before I self-locked. I overcame that issue thanks to starting this site, actually! I became intimately involved with some God Alphas, and they so humbled me that I eventually became ashamed of masturbating. Then I eventually became ashamed of using my penis like Men do (for example, using a urinal). So masturbation stopped, and I eventually self-locked out of desperation.
It sounds like your evolution is following the same path as mine. I think it’s wise of your Master to have you overcome masturbation voluntarily using self-control rather than a device. But once you do have it under control, I do hope your Master does agree to lock you in chastity. There is something profound about being locked. It has truly changed my life for the better.
I do think you should have a respectful-but-frank conversation with your Master about your feelings regarding you topping him. You need to help him see how this is hurting you, and also how it is hurting how you view him. You need to help him understand that you want nothing more than to serve him and submit to him, but topping him not only makes you extremely uncomfortable, it bit also degrades that submission you feel toward him.
Your Master sounds like an insightful Alpha. I’m sure he will listen and understand if you explain it to him.
I am a faggot who has been adoring my straight friend since high school. Even at 16 he looked like a 20 year old bodybuilder. I was adoring him ever since. In high school i didn’t pursue any gay relationships, and I had very little in common with him, but I always hung around him. On graduation day we had a party where he stripped. I drank beer from his pecs and licked his nipples. Still a core memory. When I brought it up some years later he didn’t remember.
Anyway. Over the years I have come out to him and I have saved a gallery collection of his thirst traps he has sent me. I have at times been either drunk or extremely horny and begged to be his slave or serve him in any way, and he has rejected every offer. He has never told me off for thirsting after him, but he has also never given me any indication that he will let me do anything beyond admiration. At one time he was even offended that I thanked him for tolerating my bs so much, telling me he views me as a friend and equal. At one time he said he doesn’t mind that I’m in love with him because we have very little in common, and had I not been gay we wouldn’t have become friends
One time when I was at his place we were sunbathing together on the roof terrace of his apartment building. I tried to offer massaging his feet and I got close at one point, but he didn’t let me do any of it. Zero interest.
At this point he has gone through several long term relationships with beautiful women, and atp it breaks my heart. I really want to serve him. I even tried to fix an alpha twitter for him so he could get some extra money. Am I pursuing a futile goal here? It’s been 10 years now, I really want to know if I’m just hurting myself.
Thank you for the question!
What you’ve described is the classic faggot conundrum. I think every faggot has had a straight Alpha they wanted to serve in high school. Most of them never get as close to it as you have, so that’s to your credit, brother!
The kind of Alpha you describe is the toughest type to “break”. I call them “Indifferent Alphas”. They’re so laid-back and genial that they never take a position on anything. Nothing bothers them or arouses them (except pussy, of course). You’ve even tried a carrot that typically does work – FINDOM – and your Alpha isn’t interested. That can be difficult.
Here’s what I suggest: send him a copy of my “Letter To An Alpha” (in the right sidebar) – or better yet, have him read it from the site – and then ask him about his thoughts regarding it. That letter has had some success, mainly because it condenses the hierarchical outline into a clear truth that most true Alphas can agree to.
I’d say if he rejects that message, then you need to give up. You are definitely hurting yourself with these rejected attempts to sway him. There are other Alphas who really are interested in owning you. You’d be better off submitting to them.
First, Happy New Year. Thank you for all that you do for the community. You provide a valuable service and a supportive forum for faggots and Alphas alike. Your work is appreciated.
When an Alpha asks for information on likes, dislikes, or limits, how much information should a faggot give? Sometimes in answering this question, it feels like i am trying to influence what the Alpha does. Even though my intent may be to help the Alpha control me better, i can’t honestly say that i’m not trying to guide Him toward doing certain things and away from doing other things i do not like. Would it be OK to preface the list of dislikes by saying that i hoped He would help me overcome any of my dislikes or limits that He found objectionable? Or perhaps to supply only a list of health problems that made certain activities dangerous?
Recently another faggot told me that his Alpha punished him with spankings, which he secretly enjoyed. Should a faggot inform an Alpha that he actually enjoys His punishments so that the Alpha can use a punishment that that faggot actually finds painful?
In short, how does a faggot toe the line between self-serving information and Alpha-serving information.
fagjohn
Thank you for the interesting question!
I’ve always been of the opinion that a faggot should simply submit and allow the Alpha to guide how things go, augmenting any sessions with information (like health information, etc.) as they arise. Preliminarily loading up an Alpha with a bunch of prequalifications and conditions would only confuse or frustrate the Alpha before he can even receive service.
I don’t want to discourage you, though, because your heart is in the right place. Such deep considerations are a key to a successful and fruitful faghood, brother. We have so much to discover about our submission! We can reap the rich bounty of self-actualization that comes when we meaningfully meditate on issues like these, so I’m proud you are doing that hard-but-beneficial work!
Faggot hopes you can help it with a bit of a problem but first of all it needs to give a bit of context. Faggot is very lucky to have irregular but relatively frequent meetings with a Master who is significantly younger than it is. Faggot feels very privileged to be able to serve and does so to the best of its ability. Master likes to administer pain and to humiliate faggot (both in private and occasionally with other men present). He also uses faggot for sexual relief. Faggot craves the lash, thrills to the humiliation and longs for Master’s seed – a precious gift which He bestows when He sees fit.
The problem for faggot is that very occasionally Master likes to take a cock in His arse and He has instructed faggot to uses its dicklet to fuck Him. It embarrasses faggot even to write these words, so unfitted does it feel to perform this function. Master generally refers to its penis as a dicklet or a clit and faggot has learned to consider it to be of no importance in any sexual encounter. Over the years, however, faggot has developed its own mantra ‘Master, if it pleases You it must please me.’ This is a mantra it uses whenever Master instructs it to perform a new task and He has the grace to ask if faggot likes it. On the two occasions it has been told to fuck Master (how shocking those words sound!) it has been unable to perform. Faggot has lost its hard-on and has feebly fumbled around trying to insert its inadequate and rapidly softening dicklet into His most private place. Master has tried to convince faggot that this is not a situation of faggot ‘taking charge‘ because by fucking Him (again it pains faggot to write those words!) it is merely obeying an order, just like any other command. Faggot hates to be disobedient (obedience is its favourite word in the whole English language) but it has come up against a block in its journey of submission and feels itself to have let Master down. Master, in His wisdom and kindness, does not dwell on the point but it is clear that He is disappointed and for faggot this is almost too much to bear!
Faggot would love to hear your comments on this, please.
Fag charlie
My dear brother Charlie, thank you for the question!
Believe me, I absolutely feel your pain and frustration! I’ll admit this: every time you mentioned being forced to perform this with your Master, I literally flinched in horror. I felt like I was reading about gruesome torture.
Frankly, I do think this is a form of faggot abuse. Of course, since we are faggots we don’t have “rights” per se, but neither does a dog … but normal people don’t abuse dogs, do they? Why would a Master torment a faggot like this? I understand that some Masters like to play games with their faggots as an amusement, but this is clearly upsetting you. It would upset me, too.
Here’s the other thing I don’t understand: a Master who is occasionally demanding that his faggot fucks him is (in my opinion) degrading himself and surrendering some of his power and respectability. To effectively submit to a Master, a faggot needs to respect him. I don’t understand why any superior and dominant Man would degrade himself in this way. It would make me question whether or not he’s really the Man for me.
You seem like a much meeker sort of faggot than I am, Charlie. I don’t want to give you advice that isn’t going to help you. I’ll tell you what I would do: I would respectfully ask my Master to stop demanding this of me, mainly because it makes me lose respect for him. Couching it in those terms puts the onus on the Master’s reputation as a Man, rather than my personal preference.
But I will tell you that I am so very proud of you for your cultivation of a perfect faggot outlook and personality. You’re humble, service-oriented, and gentle. You’re the type of faggot any Alpha should be proud to own, and the type of faggot I’m proud to call my brother! I love you, Charlie! Thank you for writing!
