Hello Sam,

This is Ryan 23 years old.
I met a straight alpha during covid randomly on grindr and met him and he wanted me to give him hand job as he talks dirty and kicked me our with cum face. It was my first time being a slave. Since then i have been doing the same every week till yesterday.
Only once he let me suck his cock for an hour with condoms on.
I have begged many times to control me and use me. I also offered to do his house chores and be his slave but he dont respond for it or just says i need more training before i become that slave.
My question to you is: how to have him use me and become his slave?
3 years of handjob and getting kicked out with cum face doesn’t seem to please him enough to use me?
Your thoughts on this?
Please and thanks 

Ryan, thank you for writing!

There are no easy answers to this situation. You can’t make a straight Alpha do anything he’s not yet comfortable to do. And we don’t know the circumstances that make him uncomfortable. It could be some bad experience in his past, a phobia, whatever. Neither one of us know him well enough to diagnose it.

I will suggest this: he probably has a girlfriend or wife at home (and maybe kids), which is likely one reason why he won’t use you in other ways, and also why he’s been so secretive. The discovery of this situation with you might completely unravel his life, and I’m sure he doesn’t want that (and neither do you). 

The simple fact is that some straight Alphas are only going to take things to a certain point, and no more. However, you might be able to coax him into a little more during the times you are with him. Try offering to massage his feet, for example. Perhaps make him some food and get him drinks. Try these little things so he will see you exist to serve him, not harm him. He needs to see you as more than just a handjob machine. 

But I wouldn’t push him much harder than that. If you really need to get fucked or get used, I’d find another Alpha for that. 

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This post is part of a thread about a faggot called Prath who bravely sought to serve a straight local Alpha. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

I feel like I have spent nine years preaching one thing continuously: faggots must take action if they want to be fulfilled.

A faggot cannot be fulfilled jerking off to porn, snorting poppers, playing games in chatrooms, living a heterosexual lie, or a million other stupid things they do instead of the one thing they must do: SERVE MEN.

It’s not hard to understand. If you have a critical, life-changing test to take, you simply cannot binge-watch television, get drunk/high every night, or be distracted at all. You actually need to buckle down, stop procrastinating, and do the study needed to pass the test.

For a faggot, serving an Alpha is that life-changing test. And most faggots are failing that test in the most pathetic ways.

I am a faggot who has lived my fag life boldly. I have relentlessly pursued service almost all of my adult life, and I’m happier and more fulfilled because of it. So from my vantage point, I can clearly see the path to the Promised Land for the rest of you to follow.

Sadly, so many fail to listen and remain lost.

But every so often a faggot listens to what I teach and my advice and puts it into practice, and with remarkable regularity the faggot SUCCEEDS!

One recent example is a faggot I’ll call Prath. When Prath first encountered me and my teaching on Hierarchy, it had the ring of truth. He recognized he was born to be a faggot. He asked me to help him, which I gladly did. However, I figured Prath would end up like the other scared, do-nothing faggots who ask for help.

Then I received this message:

Hey sam, Prath here. I would like to know how should I convince a local alpha guy and about hierarchy? Yes he is one of my coworker, he has a good body with bully personality. He always seeks attention etc. I didn’t noticed it before but from the 6 months I noticed that I have been getting changed about him. I am a team leader of 5 people team so I am at the status who always demands respect but around him i feel timid and different.

I replied this way:

You need to get into a conversation with him where you can ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha, then ask why he feels he’s Alpha. Then discuss Hierarchy.

So Prath said:

Once I was talking to him about gym and alphahood he was naturally accepting it to the point of health, fitness and command. He becomes so casual in no time. It just he is not familiar about hierarchy. I am thinking of the ways for to talk about hierarchy with him.

So I advised him this way:

Well when you discuss Alphahood with him, get him to agree that he was born different than lesser males. Once you get him to agree with that, start discussing the lower levels of the Hierarchy.

Specifically ask him if he feels like lesser males should follow his lead and obey him/serve him.

So some time passed, and I grew pessimistic. Then a few days ago I received this message from Prath:

Hey sam, today I invited him for the lunch and drinks. I prepared lunch myself for him. I thought it is good to talk about hierarchy in private instead of public. He came on time. He was surprised that why would I invite him so suddenly for lunch but he did not show. He was so natural without any hesitation at all like he was in his home. I took normal topics to start during lunch then I slowly moved towards hierarchy and alphahood about his gym and all. He told me that he has been with many girls I was surprised but then I knew it was natural for alpha man.

As you told me to tell him about difference of a lesser man and alpha he was quite open to it and hesitated it a little but then put himself without hiding his thoughts about lesser male or alphas. I showed him your Twitter page and he was shocked to see this kind of scenario even exist. But then he glanced at me with a smile and asked me directly what I take him as?

I did not had words at that time I hesitated and then said “as an alpha” he said he knew that already. He said he caught me many times glaring at his bulge many times but did not mentioned to me.

OH MY GOD!

Can you believe the boldness of this excellent faggot? It’s wonderful to see! Prath actually went over and above what I suggested by preparing food and setting an inviting private place to discuss Hierarchy. Wonderful!

Prath continued:

Yes it just happened sam. I was not sure how would he react about my words but he had some idea already. He said he used to of such glares. It was not new for him and reaction of people. Even after my words he was calm and composed. He was not in hurry. He was all ears to my words and actions. After seeing your page and few other he said “no doubt I am an alpha but that doesn’t mean I will take you as fag or slave so simply” I was surprised by his reaction. And left me in that situation with a message after leaving that he will see my determination about being a fag for him.

Listen, faggots, there is no excuse. If this timid faggot can offer service to a straight Alpha, so can you!

All Prath did was take my advice (advice I know works because I use it myself) and put it into practice! Would it have been the end of the world if the Alpha rejected him outright? Of course not!

But the Alpha DIDN’T reject him! Far from it! Now Prath has a terrific opportunity to find fulfillment!

You have access to the same tools Prath had. You have me, my advice, and the information here on the site and social media accounts.

Just DO SOMETHING WITH IT!

I’m hoping for some input on something that has been happening for me for years now. Since high school, like when I was 15 or 16, whenever I watched someone do something for me, I felt a weird pleasurable sensation going throughout my body. I’m 21 now, and that has never changed.

I’m bringing this to attention now because it has been a while since it happened. In one of my practical classes, I was struggling with something on my computer, and called the teacher over. I let him sit in my chair and he started doing that part of my work for me. And the sensation, it starts from my spine, to my head,, then settles in my gut before spreading through my entire body. I’ve never been able to understand it, and it gets me feeling drunk every time.

How it used to happen was, for example, in high school, I’d get one of my classmates to clean up a mess for me., and when I watch them do it, I’d get the exact same sensation.

So I’m wondering if you’ve ever heard of anything similar, or if this might have something to do with hierarchy?

Sir,

Thank you for writing to me! I see you sent the question into the website as well as in an email. I hope you don’t mind if I answer it on the site too, Sir. However, I wanted to give you personalized service.

I don’t think I’ve ever heard of this “pleasure from being served” described in such specific detail, Sir, but I love it. It’s causing you very noticeable pleasure, rather than a general feeling of well-being. It’s interesting, but I think maybe you just have a heightened sense of your body and its reactions.

You want to know if this has anything to do with Hierarchy – YES IT ABSOLUTELY DOES! It’s practically the DEFINITION of Hierarchy, Sir! 

It’s also evidence of something else, Sir: you’re a natural-born Alpha!

One of the most overlooked aspects of Alphahood is the need Alphas have to be served, worshiped, pleased. It’s as basic to an Alpha’s life as domination or power. Many people dismiss this need Alphas have to be served as selfishness, but that’s bullshit. People who think that way simply don’t understand inborn purpose.

Let me ask you, Sir: a male born into a royal family is a Prince, and he will eventually grow up to be a King, right? Would that Prince or King ever even contemplate a life of service?? Of course not! 

Alphas are natural-born Kings. YOU are a natural-born King, Sir. It’s a foreign concept to you that you should be performing tasks that inferior people should be doing for you.

So whenever these inferiors serve your needs, the pleasure you’re feeling is you experiencing FULFILLMENT OF PURPOSE! You were born to be served and worshiped, Sir. There’s nothing wrong with embracing that truth, Sir!

I don’t know if you consider yourself gay or straight (typically with Alphas like you it doesn’t matter as long as they’re submissive and service-oriented), but I honestly do think you should start taking true ownership of at least one faggot so that you might start really experiencing service the way you were born to receive it. The way you NEED it.

If you’re straight, don’t worry. Plenty of straight Alphas own and use faggots for sexual and non-sexual purposes. Why? Because the POWER they feel from being served turns them on and fulfills them! It’s not about sexuality at that point, just simply intoxicating power.

This has been a long answer, Sir, and I apologize if it’s too much. I just really wanted to clear up any confusion you might have. Alphas like you deserve to enjoy your power, especially when you’re young. I wanted to erase any doubts you might have about your purpose so that you can finally LIVE the life of a King.

Thank you for the extraordinary opportunity to serve you, Sir! Please feel free to write back here if you have any follow-up questions.

Yours,

sam the faggot

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Here’s the situation. I’m in college in a dorm situation (not co-ed). I used to have 3 roommates, but they all left, so now I have my room all to myself, so I have been wanting to fuck real bad.

Because of my situation, I don’t get to have sex with girls as much as I want to. And I hate getting on Grindr because the fags there have this annoying pride and think they’re worth shit. Real turn off.

The situation is that I’ve identified 2 timid guys on my floor that I want to turn into fags. But the thing is that I’ve sort of built up a reputation of being mysterious and uncaring, because I don’t bother to even acknowledge sometimes the guys on my floor, whilst most of them are friends.

The thing is that I’m known as someone who doesn’t even want to chat, so how do I make it clear to these seemingly straight guys that I want to cunt them? I don’t want a thing of, “Why is he suddenly talking to me?”

Mind you, I’ve never had a fag before. But I want to be able to fuck or be serviced whenever I want.

Thank you Sir for writing to me!

I can absolutely appreciate the urgency you’re likely feeling right now. Alphas have a definite need to fuck, especially at your peak age, so I have no doubt you’re pent up and ready to pounce.

So let me first underline a couple of things, Sir. As an Alpha, it is your RIGHT to take whatever you want. Inferior males will naturally submit to Alphas if the Alpha asserts himself.

Which leads to this next point: it doesn’t matter what your reputation is in the dorm. You sound like a Sigma Alpha (lone wolf), which might make some people cautious around you, but Sigmas get served just like any other Alpha. That shouldn’t hinder you.

As an Alpha, you need to look at other humans like they’re prey to some degree (and I think you’re already naturally doing that given how you’ve identified those timid males) and it’s simply a matter of you finding targets and boldly pursuing them.

In pursuing prey, you can be very aggressive, much bolder than you even imagine. I’ll give you an example: I was once contacted by a straight college Alpha named Jin who asked me if I thought his roommate Chin was a faggot. After he described his roommate’s behaviors, I guessed Chin was likely a faggot. Jin wanted to know what he should do, so I advised him to order Chin to his knees and tell Chin to kiss his feet, then pull out his cock and make Chin suck it. Jin did that, and it worked. So Jin claimed Chin as his faggot, locked Chin in chastity, and even started bringing Chin to soccer practice so Chin could serve him. This led to two other straight Alpha teammates wanting their own faggots and getting them … a wild two-year saga. Anyway, Master Jin still owns Chin to this day (five years later!).

So hopefully you understand just how bold you can be in taking possession of faggots you find “in the wild” Sir. You need to appreciate that most faggots live lives of denial, fear, and confusion, and it’s only by an Alpha forcing them to embrace their true purpose that a faggot can ever find fulfillment. That’s what happened with me at age 17 when my straight Alpha friend forced me to my knees and throat fucked me. I served him for a year after that, and by the time he was done with me (he’d fallen in love with a girl) I knew exactly what I was and I never looked back. That’s exactly what could be the case with one or both of these timid males, Sir.

I suggest that you choose one and try a little small talk with him. Watch his body language and eye contact for clues about his level of submissiveness. If you get signals, tell him to kneel and suck your dick. Or tell him you want him to come to your room because you need a blowjob. Whatever works. Just be assertive. Faggots can’t help but obey.

Just remember Sir: you were born to be worshiped and served, and faggots exist so you may have that. It’s your RIGHT. So take it!

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Hi Sam!!

FagBoi G here. This might be a bit long, but there is an ending to it.. hehe.

I’ve always known i was a faggot, from the time I was maybe 3/4 years old. I always knew there was a hierarchy, and I was at the bottom of the entire Pyramid, because I always watched and admired Boys and Men, the way they were just being absolute true Alphas at a very young age. That intimidated me and hence I couldn’t really ever become friends with them, as I would stare too much at the shorts or just be admiring their rugged masculine looks, especially if men with tight muscles and tight pants.

I always knew I wanted cock, even tho I wasn’t sure what it would be at that tender age. But I learnt.

Unfortunately growing up in a society where being gay and afag was an absolute NO, I had to hide this and grew up with a lot of insecurity. I pretended to be a top for many years, never really enjoying the role at all but I always thought it made me “less gay” than sucking a cock or getting fucked my a Man, no idea why.

A few years ago the urge was too thick. I met a man who inused to top, and we discussed me getting fucked for the first time by Him.he was kind and elderly and talked me thru the process. one night atHis place, after a few drinks and a smoke, he took me. And His first entrance was entire. 9.5″ and deep. I couldn’t breathe.. but I knew at that very moment, my true destiny and desire was finally met. Having a Man inside my Bussy was like seeing God.

I’m so glad for the experience, and I’ve worked hard on being more open with myself aiut my true desires, and have sound so much peace.mt toy collection is not embarassing hehee, which now gets me to my question.

Can a faggot like me , I’m preety straight acting in society, learn to signal to Alphas that I would be honoured to suck them off and help them unload , just to make them relax and get action whenever they want? I know straight men don’t get any from their wives, and I feel my role on earth is to serve Them, provide Their shafts with pleasure as often as possible.

How does one signal to Alphas in society at work, in a bar, at the airport etc, that I am a FAGGOT willing to serve him.

Sorry if this was too long drawn out! Love your work!

Cheers,

FagBoi G.

Thanks for the extensive background! You have plenty of experience already upon which to draw, which is very good. 

One thing faggots need to keep in mind is that most (if not all) Alphas recognize them at some level regardless of what the faggot might do. Now, Alphas might not register this on a conscious level until a faggot starts talking to them. But I can tell you for sure that Alphas sense this weakness like a predatory animal can smell blood. 

So it’s up to the faggot to “expose its throat” so to speak. This requires going out on a limb (unless you’re going to wear a shirt openly declaring that you’re a faggot, which I make). Be complimentary, be generous (as in offering to pay for things), and steer conversations toward the topic of Hierarchy. You can ask questions like, “Do you consider yourself to be Alpha?” which will typically open up an entire conversation about their Alphahood. Ask them how they knew. Ask them about their place in society, their responsibility. These are incredible questions that compliment him and also get him thinking about the difference between himself and lesser males. 

From there you steer him toward reasoning about those inferior males and how they can be/should be used. And at this point you can reveal your position as a slave male (leave out faggot for now) so he will start to see you in a new light. This will take root and grow. 

None of this is necessarily fast, although it can be. But anything good in life can take time.

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Hi Sam I’m pretty sure you get questions like this all time but I always see straight alphas in the gym that I would love to worship but It is so hard to get to them they are concentrated on their workouts it’s hard to socialize. I know this pair of twins both 20 alpha AF I tried talking to one on IG but he tends to leave me on read , they both say hi when I see them but nothing more . Any advice?

I do get this question all the time, of course, but every question has a unique wrinkle. Yours has a tricky element – the Alphas are twins. They influence each other in ways that are unpredictable in an approach by a faggot.

Since these are gym contacts, you can attempt three possible approaches. Here they are:

1. Offer to provide services like putting away weights, cleaning machines, getting water or towels. Maybe offer to buy them supplements or food. Be useful to both of them, and see if that eventually engages them.
2. Complement them on their physiques and ask them for advice. Alphas like to be helpful when it comes to showing off their physical power.
3. Ask them if they consider themselves to be Alpha. When they answer “yes”, lead them into a discussion of Hierarchy. Reason with them about the obvious aspects of Hierarchy, and emphasize that they deserve to be worshiped and served as leaders of Hierarchy.

Any of those can work if you approach it confidently. Good luck!

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Hi Sam, so I have a question for you basically what do I do?

I used to work with this guy several years ago, even back then he was pretty buff and really good looking even then (he’s gotten even better since) and we ended up going our separate ways professionally but a couple years ago he added me on as a friend on FB. He has chatted me up a coupe time, in a very “how’s life, how’s work,” kind of way. He was also always pretty religious, or at least I got that impression.

We hadn’t chatted in probably 6 months then a week ago he hit me up in the middle of the day on a work day talking about how he was going to miss summer and how he got these European swim suits on a whim when he was feeling brave, and how he’d probably look ridiculous in them. Because he’s a former coworker I’ve always kinda kept the conversation on that level, but that day because it all seemed playful and such I was like “oh I’m sure it’s not that bad, or I’m sure you’ll look great etc.” Long story short he ends up sending me several pictures modeling these swimsuits that basically show his whole ass and leaves very little to the imagination for his package and he is really amazing I have to say.

Anyway I don’t know if he knew I’m gay or not before, but he does now because I got a little excited and when he said some more self deprecating stuff I said something along the lines of “well you just made me pre, so I’m sure you’ll have that effect on others.” (he laugh reacted to that statement) and the conversation kind of tapered off after that. I apologized for sharing too much information to him and the conversation ended with him saying “you’re fine” to the apology.

So I guess my question(s) are these: does he sound like a possible alpha maybe chumming the water? And if so what if anything should I do next? Or should I just wait?

That was like a week ago and we haven’t talked since and I don’t want to do the wrong thing if this was all weirdly innocent. Thank you for the help Sam.

Thanks for the question, brother!

First of all, even if you hadn’t revealed your true nature to him with your little “joke”, I believe he already knew you were gay (although he may not know/understand about faggots). Why do I think that? Because what he’s doing with you I doubt he’s doing with other Alpha friends. 

I tend to agree with your idea that he’s “chumming the water” (very nice turn of phrase!), and I’m sure he liked the idea that he turned you on. Most straight Men and Alphas like to be attractive to others and like to hear how their sex appeal turns others on, even faggots that they don’t have an interest in. 

Here’s my question: is there a way for you to actually serve this Alpha? He’s moved away, so how would that even work even if he was interested in using you? 

The other thing I’m wondering about is how the conversation tapered off after the comment. He may have liked it, but his religious beliefs could make him feel guilty or dirty. 

I don’t really know if this is worth pursuing, honestly, but if you wanted to try you could simply start up a conversation with him and steer it toward Hierarchy. Ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha and see how he reacts.

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