A couple of days ago a faggot who was contemplating chastity asked me about what it was like day-to-day while wearing a chastity cage. I felt that such a subject was worthy of a larger and more developed post, especially given how much I’ve been preaching the use of chastity on faggots.
I’ve never been caged by a Master before (I self-locked in 2001), but the faggots I’ve coached through being caged by an Alpha went through a broad range of emotions. There’s a first rush of humility and gratitude, mixed with anxiety. Over the course of a couple of weeks, anxiety increases, along with a growing resistance and rebellion against the cage.
This process is important. A faggot needs to go through this in order to fully accept the end of its autonomous life. The struggle is a kind of death rattle of the faggot’s masculinity. And once the faggot works through that, acceptance settles in and its true purpose becomes as clear and as focused as its eyesight.
For self-locking faggots like me, this process happens first, eventually making chastity unavoidable as the weight of guilt becomes too great to bear.
Daily chastity means sitting down to pee. It means never experiencing a full erection or an orgasm like a Man. It means the faggot must be especially vigilant with cleaning its cage and shriveled genitalia. It means embracing a eunuch’s life, one without the possibility of children or any of those other heteronormative tropes that faggots often hide behind.
But what replaces the losses the faggot suffers is something deeper and more profound. Every second of every day the chastity cage reminds the faggot of its separateness from the other Men around it. It forces the faggot into a low-level hum of subspace, helping the faggot to be naturally more submissive and respectful of all Men.
Most importantly, the faggot finally understands its purpose more clearly than it ever imagined it could. The cage reminds the faggot that it is the possession of a Man and, by extension, all Men.
One of the most common questions faggots pose about chastity involves shrinkage. Is it permanent? The answer is, sadly, no. If left unlocked, the faggot’s penis will eventually return to its pathetic original shape more or less (mostly less).
However, time in the cage leaves lasting impressions on the faggot’s subconscious that last a lifetime. A lifetime hopefully spent in service!
I know I am a faggot for quite a long time, but have been suppressing these feelings for a long time. Lately, I have been trying to reconnect with these feelings and mid/end of Novemeber started to experiment with chastity cages a bit by myself…
Now I did not cum for 3 week (last 2 continuously in a cage) and today I experienced something I never did. While I got aroused – kinda randomly – I felt the urge… to top… like… to actually fuck something/-one. I have always been like an almost total bottom and never really experienced this. It was a really really realls strong urge and I am sure, if i would have taken the cage of and topped at that moment I would have loved it during that time… I just endured it and waited for it to fade, but it was really… strong and… weird. I was always questioning myself what Alphas and Tops in general feel when they are horny and I feel like I got a very brief (and low intensity?) glimpse into this.
I actually love this – not because it changed anything of what I am or what I am meant to be, as it did not – but because I feel like this helped me to understand the urges of Alphas better and therefore be better at serving them.
However, I never heard of something like that or just didnt see it…. Is this something… common when experiencing chastity? I am just 3 weeks in and am excited what is yet to come (planned for 6 months :-! )
Well that’s an interesting reaction, for sure! I’ve never encountered that personally either in chastity or out, and I’ve never heard of another caged fag express such desires, either.
We must be careful about this and pay close attention to it, because it might be indicating something suppressed in you. I’m not saying that’s definitely the case with you, but I think it bears close monitoring. I’m going to bookmark this question for future reference just in case, and I’d like you to communicate directly with me if there are other such strange changes or similar eruptions of Alpha-like aggression. My email is hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com
Findom Alpha @cashgodMatt is a bearded, brutal, and demanding faggot trainer. He has no problem locking faggots I’m very small chastity cages and reducing their genitalia to skin tags. He devises torturous, SAW-like torture contraptions.
And he loves piss.
Of course, most Alphas do. It’s a primal marking technique, plus it amuses them to no end.
Master Matt’s fag here is given a mouthful of piss, and I thought for sure it was going to spit it out … but the faggot swallows at the very end. Good boy!
On November 19, Declan locked me out of my X/Twitter and posted:
The good thing about having control of your boyfriend is that you can lock him out of his X and post stuff. 😈
He has been very good to me lately and as a proud owner, I decided I will surprise him tonight. As he arrives home, I will handcuff him, drag him to the bedroom and bend him over the bed. Pull his pants down and lube his hole. That’s when “Bob” will fuck his ass. Yes Bob is the life size cock you see in the pic. After a while, I will shove my cock and pound my alpha load in him and keep him tied to the bed for the evening. I’m a sweet caring boyfriend don’t you agree? 😈
BTW boys!, if you like to use the same lube that I have, check out @friend_dorothy1. Not only do they have lube but they have so much more products to increase your sex play.
As you all were aware, Declan locked me out of my account and posted that he was going to surprise me when I got home. Well he sure did!
I got home around 5:15pm and was greeted at the door with a big hug and kiss. He took my backpack and placed it on the ground, then grabbed my arms and handcuffed my wrist behind my back. He escorted me to the bedroom and put me my stomach. I had no clue what was happening until I felt the cold lube get pushed in my ass with his fingers.
He was fucking me with a dildo but moments later after he beat my ass with the paddle. I had tears in my eyes and begged him to stop but it all changed to joy once I felt his hard raw cock push in me.
He pounded my ass, fingers in my mouth yelling at me that I’m lucky to be getting his cock. As I’m laying there, head pulled back with his fingers in my mouth, his body pounding my sore ass he said:
“You belong to me, I love you and you will continue to do what your told and take my cock anytime I want”
As he fucked me for about 8 minutes, his moaning got louder and louder until I felt his alpha semen shoot my insides. He got his beautiful cock out of me and stood over my helpless body and said
“I love how pathetic you look just laying there helpless. How do you feel?”
Me: “I wouldn’t want to be anywhere else but here servicing your every needs”
As I said that. Cuffs were added to my ankles and I was quickly hogtied and left alone in the room.
I think it was an hour later when he came back and said
“You want free? If so you agree to make dinner and not speak until spoken to?”
Me: “yes Sir”
I made him dinner, watched a movie with him and never spoke to him. Around 10pm that’s when he said
“hey babe follow me, I need to piss and go to bed.”
I followed him to the washroom, drank his piss. Declan: “Come suck my cock in bed while I chat to some of your followers until I blow down your throat.”
He shot his load and I swallowed every drop of his semen and then kneeled at the foot of the bed and started to massage his feet with my hands and mouth until he fell asleep.
I quietly left the room and posted a cage check from earlier that day.
Day 160 locked in chastity by Declan
My underwear has so much full of pre cum. Obviously I knew I would have to stay horny and wouldn’t be able to get off, but as I sat there I remembered I have two is his loads in me. One in my ass and one down my throat. I made myself a night cap and my mouth changed from tasting like feet and cum to whisky. I was happy and proud of today. I enjoy my life as Declan’s property and boyfriend.
Declan and I are pretty much an open book on here but he likes to keep it discreet when out with friends. What happened yesterday shocked me.
We were out with 3 of our close friends and one guy who we never met that now lives here but originally from Alabama.
We were having a few beers, shots of tequila and enjoying each other’s company on a heated patio. The conversation turned into fucking bottoms. Most were going around telling some of their recent stories. All were going in details of how they would fuck a slut but the new guy John confessed being a total bottom and he kept looking at me while telling some stories. I can tell that he had the hots for me and my boyfriend also noticed it.
It was now my turn and Declan interrupted me before I spoke and looked at John and said: “I’m assuming you think Zack is a top?”
John: “Yes and probably a dom top”
Declan laughed and said: “He has been my bottom for many years and would do anything to top but I don’t allow it. I made sure of that”
John: “What do you mean?”
Everyone now paid close
attention to Declan’s every word.
Declan: “Let’s just say I keep his cock secure and under lock and key”
The group started to laugh as I just got outed by my boyfriend and my face turned so red of embarrassment and humiliation. That’s when John stopped looking at me and was paying more attention to Declan.
This guy was so hot and my bf cock blocked me!!! Not only did he steal John’s attention from me but now all my friends know that my cock is locked in chastity.
Later on I went for a smoke and the guy followed me: “Zack you are fucking hot but I can’t do anything with you since you don’t even have access to your own pathetic cock. Your boyfriend’s dominance over you in front of your friends got me so hard. Hope that’s ok to say. I love how he owns your cock and controls you.
You mind if I sit by him when we go back to the table?”
Me: “Sure”
We continued socializing at the table, the conversation switched to work and living in the big city. I was no longer under the spot light which was nice.
Later I went for another smoke (vape) and came back to find Declan and John missing from the table. I asked my friends if they knew where they were and one of my buddies said “Probably gone to the washroom together to take care of some business.” as he laughed.
15 minutes later, they walked back together and both had a huge smile on their face. That’s when Declan said I needed to pay our bill and call an Uber as we should head out and go home.
At home I asked what happened and he said:
“I was hard watching John admiring you and I decided to let him suck me before I fucked my load in his ass in the washroom stall. If you weren’t locked, I would have let you get a blow job from him but you are locked. Thought I lend my bone to him and be nice to the new guy 😜”
Me: “I’m happy you got serviced by the Hotty!”
Declan: “I’m going to bed, come suck my cock for a bit until I fall asleep and you probably get to taste him”
So I sucked his cock for a few minutes while he was on his phone. I made sure it was nice and clean and he eventually fell asleep.
I went back to the living room to have a beer and think about everything that happened tonight.
Shortly after, I received a text from a number I didn’t recognize: “Hey it’s John, thanks for letting me spend time with your boyfriend. I hear you got to taste my ass a while ago. See you on Tuesday!”
I found out today that on Tuesday he is coming over and they are going out to have dinner and see a movie. I will be told if I can join or not that day.
This short fag training video is so astoundingly perfect that I’m over-the-moon not only because of the training itself, but also by the locked faggots accepting it.
The Owner of these faggots is the incomparable @MasterOnTwinks. Even in the briefest glimpse, we see his complete control and their complete submission.
He of course has them locked in chastity, which all by itself will root a faggot firmly in subspace. Then he orders them to show off their holes and does a little cage inspection before turning them around so they can lick Master’s cock.
Watch the technique. He couples humiliation with reward multiple times, which has the effect of hypnotizing the fags and keeping them on high alert. It’s brilliant.
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Hi Sam! I’m writing to update you about my recent visit a few days ago with master Max-I reached out to max via text after the coffee shop -I asked John for his number and told him I needed it to say thank you to max for lunch and he gave it to me no problem -I thanked max for allowing me to service him and said I’d be happy to do anything he needed no matter what ( famous last words.) he responded and told me to come over to his apartment in a days time to talk -I arrived at his place the next evening nervous and excited . Max opened the door in a t shirt and white Calvin Klein briefs barefoot his bulge was on full show I was mesmerized ,come in boy he said in his deep alpha voice , I stood waiting for his orders ,he told me to sit on the floor in front of him -I did just as I was told. , without warning max spread his legs out on top of me , I had become his foot stool . That’s a good fag he said , your purpose is to be my footstool and obey me. Do you understand, say yes sir -I proudly said yes sir in a state of awe , he started talking about how he knew I was a fag since the first day he met me a few years ago and he knew I would be of service to him to one day , he told me lunch was a test to see if I would respond and if I’d passed it , he wants me to be his fag but he has rules he explained , a contract . He handed me a contract that was typed saying I would respond to him 24/7 and serve only him ,his needs come before mine , I must obey his every command , I must pick up his laundry and groceries once a week and pay him weekly for allowing me to serve him , finally I must wear a chastity cage and give him the key . I’m scared Sam I’ve never worn a cage before and I’m worried it will be painful and uncomfortable -how will o go about my day to day life wearing one ? I don’t want to disappoint Max he’s a dram alpha but these are his non negotiable ,I told him I would think about it and sign it and come back to him by Wednesday ,he said he would allow me to worship his feet if I agreed , I’m so tempted Sam but I’m so scared , do you have any advice or types for wearing one and getting comfortable ? I don’t want to disappoint max thanks Kyle
My brother, I’m SO THRILLED to hear this! I knew Master Max had something in mind given the way he acted so boldly around you! It’s intriguing that he has been planning to claim you for quite a while. You’ve been claimed by a great hunter!
My immediate advice with chastity is to get a silicone chastity cage. That will have a little give and is easier to start with. It’ll also help you see what size is appropriate. I’m sure Master will be willing to help also. To make it easier to apply, you can use vaseline or a similar lubricant. I wouldn’t use talcum powder, although I keep seeing that suggestion.
Don’t be scared, brother. You are in the hands of an amazing Master, a Man who has been planning to own you for years. He’s not going to let you fail. He wants you to succeed. So trust him!
I have been with Declan for many years now and I couldn’t be happier belonging to him. He knows that and I know he loves me.
Years before I met Declan, I dated a guy who was also a dom but he had different ways to control me. I might say he was more of someone who cared about himself and not me hence why I am no longer with him.
He was the one that got me started in chastity. He had purchased a CB2000 or maybe it was called CB6000. It was a device that was not comfortable. He had my cock sealed and hardly had any air flow to the cock. I definitely would not be locked as long as I am now.
One day, he arrived home and found me on the bed. I had heard the door and was scrambling to get my cock back in the device. Yes, I was able to slip my cock out to jerk off, once my cock got soft, I would be able to get my cock back in and hide it from him.
I guess you can say I was a brat. I found a way to cheat and took advantage of it.
He wasn’t impressed and simply gave me the keys and said “You might as well take it off.”
2 months later, it was our anniversary, at dinner he said that he got me a gift and that the next day I would be receiving it. He kept it a surprise and all he said was to arrive to an address and ask for Joe. I was so excited!
The next day I arrived to the address alone and yes my ass was sore from getting a good pounding the night of our anniversary.
The address brought me to a tattoo/piercing shop and my excitement turned into being nervous and scared. It was almost closing time therefore no customers were in the shop. I asked for Joe and moments later a young sexy tattooed guy wearing blue jeans and a black tshirt came to see me.
“You must be Zack, I heard so much about you and been excited to see you today. I must admit, I have never had a request like this before. Follow me to a private room and I will inform you of what’s going to happen. You will need to sign a waiver agreeing to what I will be doing to you”
“Get yourself comfortable on the chair while I get my stuff”
As he was chatting with me, he brought me paperwork and sat beside me and what he said was shocking.
“Your boyfriend had explained that when he locks your cock in a chastity device, you tend to cheat and pull your cock out when he is not around. Not cool! We found a solution for this problem.”
“Your boyfriend prepaid and what I am going to do is pierce your cock and place a Prince Albert on your cock head. You will have to take a month or two of a healing process. That means you can’t jerk off and you will need to behave. Once you are healed, he will replace the Prince Albert with one that locks. That way he can lock your cock head to the chastity device.”
As he is telling me this he noticed that I was not enjoying my gift and said “I promise you it will not hurt and it’s a quick and easy process. Do you want to see my pierced cock? I have one and love it”
I agreed and he got up and pulled his pants down and showed me his cock. Let’s just say that his cock was twice the size of mine and he allowed me to touch the Prince Albert.
Joe: “Well look who’s getting excited!” as I look down I saw that my cock was getting a hard and pitching a tent in my sweat pants.
Me: “I’m so embarrassed that I am hard and especially that my boyfriend told you that he locks my cock and that you are helping him prevent me from touching my cock”
Joe: “Trust me if my girlfriend knew about chastity, she quickly have me locked in one”lol”
“I will be honest, I’m loving this and that’s why your boyfriend is getting a really good rebate. Ok, I need you to sign these documents acknowledging you agree for this process. Once you sign, pull your pants down and lay on the bed”
So that’s exactly what I did, I signed the waver and pulls my pants down and my hard cock was standing up. Moments later as he brought his equipment my cock got soft and shrunk so much from fear.
The entire process took 2 minutes. It was not painful at all. The only thing that was uncomfortable was the little tube he placed in my penis hole.
He took his time to tell me how to protect and heal it. Once he bandaged it up he said I was ready to go.
I got home and my boyfriend was on the couch and said “So how did you like your gift?”
Me: “Omg, I don’t know if I should love you or be mad at you” lol
The healing was easy and I was so horny that I ended up jerking a load after 7 days.
2 months later, that’s when the locking Prince Albert was placed on my cock attaching my cock head to the chastity. I no longer was able to pull out and jerk off when he had me in chastity.
I don’t have a pic of me locked with my old chastity device. This is me now in the Kink3D.
He had won and now was able to control my cock the way he wanted.
Now Declan, keeps me double locked and secured. The Prince Albert is locks my cock head to the device. No pulling out.
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I’ve been in chastity for a couple of years (excluding my disappearance) and it’s been great. It always reminds me of my inferior status wherever I go.
Today my brother @cagedjock revealed a new kind of chastity device (pictured above). It looks horrific, to be honest. And I doubt it would work on faggots with tiny dicks like mine.
I woke up Sunday morning and rolled over to a written note from my boyfriend: “Today you will drive over to my buddy’s at 1pm (address & cell number of friend) and report to him and comply with no questions.”
This was strange and the first time that he has told me to do something like this but I arranged my day to be there by 1pm.
As I arrived, the guy met me outside his condo and he showed me where to park. I never seen this handsome guy before. Im guessing he was about 30 years old and looked like a frat boy jock, jeans, tank top and backwards hat. I noticed that the parking pass was for until 5pm. He then escorted me to his place and once I walked in, he handcuffed my hands behind my back and frisked me removing my belongings, checked me to make sure my cock was locked and said: “You are being detained and my job is to keep you safe and stored away until 4 or 5pm today until I get a text from your boyfriend allowing me to release you. You are not to speak to me unless it is urgent… do you understand?” I said I understand.
I was then escorted in a closet where he had a cage. It wasn’t a kennel cage, it was pretty much the same cage that we own at our condo. I was shoved in, leg restraints were attached and then I was hogtied to the cage. I was no longer able to move and was stored away. The door of the cage was shut, a pad lock added to the cage. Seconds later I can hear him take pictures and then the closet door was shut and lights went out. I stayed restrained and stored away.
He would come in once in a while to check up on me but he wouldn’t say anything. All I could think of is what is my boyfriend doing and why was this necessary to have me stored away offsite. I heard faintly a conversation he had which I assumed was my boyfriend: “… I am sending you the pics and he is safely secured. I hope you enjoy yourself and text me when you are done”
Hours later about 4:10pm, he came in and simply released me. “You are now allowed to leave, here are your car keys and phone.” I used the washroom to piss and then I walked out.
I got home and was so curious but I promised myself that I wouldn’t ask him anything. He advised me that he wanted me to make him a burger on the BBQ.
While we were eating and watching tv, I asked him if it would please him if I sucked his cock while he ate.
Bf: “I have no more cum for the day. My cock is worn out… btw just to let you know that I kept getting updates of you today. I’m proud of you. I will send you the pics and expect a summary of your day written for your followers”
Me: “Yes Sir” (I never call him “Sir” but not sure why that came out)
Bf: “wow after many years you finally started to respect me and called me “Sir”, I like that.
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The following post is part of a thread about Master Simon, a 17-year-old Apex Alpha in Sweden who has taken ownership of his faggot father, Algot. CLICK HERE for all posts in this thread in chronological order!
Well, here I go again with another shocking father/son true story. I can’t always help the way these things come to me, so hopefully you’ll forgive me.
Family dynamics are complex even in ideal circumstances. I had an idyllic childhood, and even then there are issues. But when Hierarchical issues come into play, we must throw out everything we imagine about the traditional family arrangement and look at what’s really happening under the surface.
This story opened to me with the following email from a father in Sweden named Algot.
Hii. > I am 39 years old and my son is 17. When i was younger about 15-18 i was a faggot but then i met my wife and left that wife behind me and got a son in the process my wife sadly died from complications at his birth so i raised him as a single dad. Now my son is 17 and he is a real alpha like the one i used to service back in the day and he has sort of taken over at home. He took the master bedroom and i get to sleep in his old one. He is taking all my paychecks and i listen to everything he says i buy him alcohol because he is only 17.
My son/masters name is Simon. And he bring home girls very often not any other fags that i know of. And i totally support him in everything he does and in anyway i can. He is straight but has used me sexually and as a toilet many times and last week he locked me up in chastity. Is it normal so submit so easy to your own son. (Sorry for any misspelling i am swedish so english is not my first language)
I was, of course, quite shocked by this message out of left field. So I naturally asked Algot if I could speak with his son Simon. A few days later I heard from Master Simon:
Yeah i first realized i was an alpha when a bunch of fags at school did things like buy me snacks or do my homework. And when i realized i was bigger in every way than all the other boys. And i realized my dad was a fag when i say his dick in the gym showers i kind of knew i had some power over him than and i started to do somethings to assert my dominance like dont listen to his rules tell him to clean up after me and when he did everything i said i just said “hey your my slave now i am bigger and stronger than you” and he just obliged.
Whit the sexual thing yeah i think that he should take care of all my sexual need i have not jerked my self of in 2 years he does it all for me. Plus i started face fucking him and i make him eat my ass. I never fuck him tho he does not deserve my dick in his ass.
I never felt like this was wrong in anyway i take what i deserve i dont care if it is my father or any other fag as long as there of the legal age in sweden its fair game.
There was something quite alarming about Master Simon’s dispassionate aggressiveness, especially when it comes to his faggot father. But then when I followed up Master Simon added another surprising fact:
It got out in the school that i use my dad and some boys wanted in on it so i have held some parties were we fuck him together.
I wanted to know more about the mechanics of these other school Alphas fucking his faggot father Algot. Master Simon responded this way:
They’re not really alphas … they heard there was a hole that could be fucked and i let them. i dont care what my dad thinks of it or if he can handle it. its his job do listen to me. And yeah he had fully accepted his role as fag and as slave.
Got any tips on how i can dehumanize him more? i wanna make him an object not human.
I wasn’t really sure how to dehumanize Algot more than he’s already been dehumanized, and frankly I was worried about this situation. Then a couple of weeks later Master Simon wrote me again:
I took some of your advise to dehumanize my father and i came up whit some rules he has to follow 1 when i walk into a room you great me by kissing my feet no matter whos in the room whit you 2 in i am sitting on the couch you should place your self as my foot rest i should not have to tell you 3 you dont eat at the dinner table you eat out the dog bowl 4 do not speak unless spoken too
And it has really work it has been very obedient and is falling more into serving me i feel like i dont need any other fag than him he just so good at it.
I’ll be the first person to say that I don’t think this is a healthy situation. Even though I understand it from a Hierarchical perspective, I still have enough traditionalistic values in me to still think fathers and sons have certain roles and boundaries.
That said, it’s clear Master Simon is not going to listen to me. And it’s also clear that Algot is surprisingly fulfilled as Master Simon’s faggot.
So this post exists as further proof that Alphahood (and its accompanying dominance) starts early and, when presented with an opportunity, takes advantage of any inferiors in its orbit. Even if that inferior is the Alpha’s biological father.
Subspace is one of those aspects of the Dom/sub experience that few people truly understand, and even fewer appreciate its power. It’s the power source at the center of Hierarchical exchanges. Without subspace, there would be no ability for a Dominant to overpower and control a submissive, to break into their minds, or help them achieve a sense of purpose in service.
One Alpha recently compared subspace to hypnosis, and the comparison is apt. Like hypnosis, bringing a submissive into subspace involves control and skill, but also great responsibility. In deeper levels of subspace a submissive’s mind and heart unlock, its resistance fades, and many things thought unimaginable become possible.
If I sound a little mystical about subspace, it’s for good reason. Mishandled subspace has led to broken and destroyed lives. On the other hand, carefully nurtured subspace can lead to tremendous fulfillment.
Subspace is a metaphor for the state the submissive’s minds and bodies are in during a deeply involving play scene. Many types of BDSM play invoke strong physical responses. The mental aspect of BDSM also causes many submissives to mentally separate themselves from their environment as they process the experience. Deep subspace is often characterized as a state of deep recession and incoherence. Deep subspace may also cause a danger in newer submissives who are unfamiliar with the experience, and require the dominant to keep a careful watch to ensure the submissive isn’t placing him or herself in danger. Many submissives require aftercare.
Notice the disassociative quality of subspace, this disconnection of the mind from the body. This is caused by a very natural process in the body ordinarily triggered by dangerous circumstances.
WHY DOES SUBSPACE OCCUR?
When a human being is confronted by some dramatic or traumatic moment, the body releases chemicals into the blood stream as part of a process known as the “fight or flight” response. Endorphins and enkephalins are dumped into the bloodstream, producing a weightless, out-of-body rush of pleasure. This can last for hours afterward.
This dump of endorphins can occur during pleasurable-but-taxing sexual experiences such as being fucked or sucking dick just as easily as it can during violent and aggressive situations like rape.
THE EFFECTS OF SUBSPACE
It’s the “fight or flight” response shielding that allows faggots (who are extremely submissive males) to perform tremendous (and occasionally shocking and extreme) acts of service. While in “fight or flight”-induced subspace faggots are extremely open to suggestion and will often mindlessly do things that they might never do in their everyday life.
More from the definition of subspace above:
Producing a sort of trance-like state due to the increase of hormones and chemicals, the submissive starts to feel out-of-body, detached from reality, and as the high comes down, and the parasympathetic nervous system kicks in, a deep exhaustion, as well as incoherence. Many submissives once reaching a height of subspace will lose all sensation of pain, as any stimulus causes the period to prolong.
This detachment from reality allows subs and faggots to go much farther in risky behaviors. We see this extreme behavior quite readily in findom. Faggots deep in subspace have surrendered many thousands of dollars in financial drains to online Alphas, only to regret it once they snap out of it.
HOW CAN WE DEFINE “PERPETUAL SUBSPACE”?
I’ve been owned multiple times in my life, including a few stints as a live-in faggot. To accomplish this, I had to get into a state I call “perpetual subspace” (another term could be “persistent subspace”). It’s sort of a low-level, neverending state of subspace in which the faggot is on a constant high due to even the most mundane of tasks (like doing the dishes, or cleaning a bathroom). The faggot’s Master is never far from the faggot’s mind during the course of every day while in perpetual subspace. Everything the faggot does goes to honor its Master.
I liken perpetual subspace to a type of white noise that drives a faggot forward in constant service to its Owner. Think of it in the same terms as listening to the sound of rain or other types of background noise in order to fall asleep. Perpetual subspace is that low-level hum by which the faggot accomplishes much in service.
PERPETUAL SUBSPACE – THE IDEAL STATE
Whenever I was owned in my life and in a state of perpetual subspace, I felt comforted and at peace. My worries were few since my Master took care of me and all I truly focused on were the tasks that my Master expected me to accomplish. Regardless of how menial they were, each task brought me satisfaction because I knew it was pleasing to my Master.
It was easy to keep me in perpetual subspace once it began. My Master running his fingers through my hair and telling me I was a “good boy” or a “good faggot” was enough to sustain the state in me for weeks. Sexual service/worship sessions were obviously part of that as well. All of these stimuli combined to keep me under perpetual subspace, a state that allowed me to accomplish a lot in service, as well as remain pliable to suggestions when my Master wanted to share me with his friends or make me do things I might not ordinarily do (piss drinking and ass licking experiences started under perpetual subspace of a Master).
For Alphas and Masters, perpetual subspace should be the goal. It is the ultimate level of power, for you hold the total life of the faggot under your control.
Ever since I first realized my faghood when I was 17 years old, I’ve always embraced learning and practicing my craft. I just had this need to get better, understand my own motivations, and remain in what I felt was the proper headspace. Eventually I became an owned faggot multiple times, trained relentlessly on several occasions, and developed a natural rhythm as a faggot that has persisted to this day.
However, that doesn’t mean I’ve stopped developing myself. Far from it! I’ve been unowned over the last few years due to a wide variety of circumstances (rescuing Baby Boy, surviving cancer, employment restructuring), but throughout that period of time I’ve tried to keep myself in what I’ve dubbed “Perpetual Subspace“. One way I did that was by voluntarily self-locking my skin tag in chastity two years ago. However, I’ve continued to do ass and throat training exercises, meditation, etc. in order to keep myself ready for service.
I know there are a lot of faggots out there who are unowned and have never been owned for whatever reason. However, that doesn’t mean you cannot experience the deep meaning of your faghood through self-training. In fact, I think this should be a vital aspect of of every faggot’s life regardless if they’re owned or not.
So I wanted to create a guide for unowned faggots in order to help steer them toward purpose and (hopefully) prepare them for service.
PHYSICAL TRAINING
There are certain physical demands placed upon a faggot by most Alphas. It’s important that a faggot work toward certain physical benchmarks in order to be of service.
WEIGHT: Yeah, I know … why must Alphas be so shallow, right? Well, it’s because they are superior Men, and they deserve the best (and they know it). They don’t need to fuck or receive head from a fat faggot when there are ten other perky twink faggots ready to do the same thing. So be mindful of this. If you’re serious about serving, get into some sort of shape. I’m not saying you need to look like Tom Daley, but at least try to get rid of flab and develop an ass of some sort. This involves dieting and gym exercise.
STRETCHING: Faggots are tossed around and bent in a variety of ways while being used. However, it’s more than just being able to get your knees to your ears. It also means being able to arch your back and get into the Bitch Position on demand (and it will be demanded a lot ). This requires a lot of concentrated practice involving stretches designed to loosen those parts of the body. You need to get used to holding those positions while an Alpha is pounding you, too.
THROAT EXERCISES: A faggot is expected to deepthroat pretty regularly. Therefore it is necessary to heavily practice overcoming your gag reflex. I use a 7″ silicone dildo with balls to keep myself tuned up, and I still do that even though I’m currently serving as a straight Alpha’s cocksucker. So just imagine how important it is for a faggot without regular dick to use this method!
If you don’t have a dildo, you could possibly use a hard vegetable like a carrot for practice, but this is a choking hazard in my mind. Instead, use a large metal spoon to stimulate the back of your throat, and see if you can get used to controlling it. This will help you eventually overcome the reflex when you have actual dick in there.
Regardless of your method, practice swallowing when you feel gagging coming on. This will not only neutralize the reflex, but it will also encourage your throat to accept more cock into it.
This is a video from Throat-it-boy that shows the level of cocksucking most Alphas expect. Train yourself to get to this point.
ASS EXERCISES: You’ve heard me discuss Kegel exercises (which are primarily designed for vaginas) a number of times on this site. This is critical. These exercises will help your pussy retain strength over the coming years of abuse due to Alpha rutting. Kegel exercises are covered on this site and elsewhere on the internet, but a more ass-centric version of these exercises were “popularized” via a series of bizarre, uncomfortable instructional videos by Dr. Joe Kramer.
But there is more to ass training than muscle development. There is also hole training. This would ideally involve multiple sizes of silicone dildos or buttplugs. This will help to open the hole and relax the muscles for penetration. However, these devices can be used while inserted to develop the power of the anal muscles by clamping down on them repeatedly.
Get accustomed to how your ass works and how it can be used to provide pleasure!
MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL TRAINING
A lot goes into being a faggot. There are mental and emotional hurdles to overcome in order to fully submit to an Alpha and find true fulfillment in his service. Roughly, this can be broken down this way:
ADMIT YOU ARE A FAGGOT: Saying it out loud or repeating it as a mantra can help a faggot break down the mental and emotional barriers that prevent it from reaching acceptance and peace. I never had much of a problem here, but I’ve come to know many, many faggots still trapped behind this seemingly insignificant barrier. I’ve seen faggots CRY when they openly admit it for the first time. It is deeply meaningful.
So how can a faggot come to accept its truth? The most obvious way is to admit it vocally to other people. If you can’t do it in your personal circle, then find people online (Twitter or the FWA Discord are terrific free resources) to whom you can admit it. You’ll be surprised. Another way might be journaling this statement on paper. There is a technique for manifestation which relies on repeatedly writing a phrase on paper so that it will come true. Try writing “I am a faggot” repeatedly on paper and see how you feel.
ADMIT IT TO OTHERS: This goes in conjunction with the previous step, but here I’m advocating actually admitting it to people you know in your personal life as far as you’re able. It doesn’t need to be anything weird. It’s simply an admission of something you’ve come to realize about yourself. Do this helps to ground it and make it more real in your heart.
MEDITATION: I’ve come to find that quiet time spent meditating and visualizing what I want or need in my life helps to manifest them. In part, that’s because these become more powerful goals that I subconsciously pursue. Focus on the type of Owner you want to serve, and be specific. Visualize how you want to serve, what kind of faggot you yearn to be for him, and every detail of that life you desire. Then follow it up with action.
This focus of mind is important even down to certain physical acts. For instance, when I’m preparing to suck a dick I visualize myself so hungry to have the dick inside me that I push myself to swallow it, desperate to have it all inside me. It’s like the way an Olympic jumper visualizes how far he needs to leap, and his body stretches incredibly to achieve every last millimeter. You must WANT IT MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE.
LITTLE ACTS: Performing simple, discreet acts of service for Men during the course of every day can definitely help train a faggot’s mind to the important of always seeking to serve. Opening a door, getting a cup of coffee, offering a drink, getting a towel for an Alpha at the gym. These are simple things that might not mean anything to the Men, but it means the world to the faggot offering.
FINDOM: Far be in from me to advocate findom for faggots. I don’t particularly like how findom ruins both Alphas and faggots, which allows game playing as a substitute for real service and worship. HOWEVER, findom can be a useful starter for the true life of a faggot in the future. It can give new and frightened faggots their first taste of actual service to a Man. For true faggots, it never stops at simple financial transactions – they will eventually develop and want more. But, at the start, we need to experience SOMETHING.
CHASTITY: Ideally, a faggot would be locked in chastity by a Man taking ownership of it. However, an unowned faggot doesn’t have that luxury yet. Still, that doesn’t mean the unowned faggot can’t experience the profound revelation of being in chastity. The faggot can lock itself, try it out, and see what it does over time.
I’m the perfect advocate for this. Despite being a faggot for a couple of decades, I never had a Master who wanted to put me in chastity. I always considered it to be a silly fetish, and I also felt it was unnecessary since I had control over my dicklet and never masturbated or got hard around Men. But over the last couple of years, I really became embarrassed that I wasn’t caged. I felt like I was dishonoring true Alpha cock by leaving mine free and used the way Men used theirs.
So I locked up in March of 2020, and my perspective changed completely. It was like a colorblind person putting on Chromatic glasses and seeing the world in color for the first time. I suddenly became hyper-aware of the Men around me, how they strode confidently while I walked among them locked. It was definitely a transformational moment in my faghood, and that was after many years! So there’s no reason why this should not be an option for unowned or virgin faggots as well.
I really hope this guide helps my unowned brothers find ways to expand their confidence and appreciation of the important Hierarchical role Nature has called them to play. Just keep in mind: your faghood isn’t something that happens to you like a disease. It is already part of you. So find ways to become better at understanding it and enhancing it so that you’ll be ready to fulfill it whenever you get the chance!
This post is part of a thread following the story of Sir James, a straight married Man coming to understand and embrace the faghood of his beloved son. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
A lot has happened in the past week for Jamie, the faggot son of Sir James. In fact, I probably could’ve broken this up over a couple of posts as it was happening, but I had to make sure that Sir James was in the loop and agreeable before discussing it here.
Suffice it to say that Sir James has truly blazed a new path for fathers of faggot sons, completely redefining what it means to be a supportive and caring Dad. Let’s get into this update in parts:
THE GIRLFRIEND’S MOTHER
You might remember in the last update that Master Bill, the Apex of the three teen Alphas taking ownership of Jamie, had made the bold move of showing Jamie’s chastity cage to his girlfriend at Jamie’s pool party. Understandably, the girlfriend was shocked and (apparently) unamused, because she went home and told her mother about the cage. Mind you, Master Bill did not tell her that Jamie was his faggot. All he did was show her the cage.
The next night the girlfriend’s mother banged on Sir James’s front door, absolutely furious about Jamie being locked in chastity.
Sir James described it this way, in his typical understated way:
We did have a little incident with the Mother of Bill’s girlfriend. She was Karen you know the type who jumps to conclusions before she knows any of the facts. But I was so proud to see Bill step up and stand by my baby boy.
It was much worse than that.
While the mother raged in the other room, Jamie was hiding in his room texting to me.
Bill’s girlfriend’s mum was over this evening. I am in my bedroom and some how it has got out that Bill has a faggot and it is me. The bitch (Bill’s girlfriend) was telling her mum about the pool party and that I am a perverted because of my cage. Bills Girlfriend Mom is in our kitchen right now. Sam, Lots of yelling.
Then, most heartbreakingly, Jamie added:
I am a pervert for being caged.
There ‘s no reason why Jamie should ever be made to feel that way about his faghood or his submission by some ignorant “Karen” and her cruelty! I’m with Sir James – Jamie’s chastity is BEAUTIFUL!
Fortunately Sir James knew exactly what to do with this bitch.
Dad just told her to take a hike and come back when she had cooled down. Dad just threw her out.
FUCK YES!
THE BREAKUP
Sir James wasn’t the only one defending Jamie. Master Bill was furious about what his girlfriend’s mother did. Of course, Jamie was worried about what this unwarranted attack meant for his relationship with his new Master.
“Do you think Bill will have to pick just one of us now?” asked Jamie right after the bitch left. I really didn’t know what might happen. Here’s Master Bill, a young, straight Alpha who has just started owning a faggot, being called out by his girlfriend’s mother. I know a lot of straight Alphas would’ve ditched the faggot for the girlfriend (in fact, I’ve been the dumped faggot before!).
Not Master Bill!
I received a couple of texts from Jamie shortly after the incident.
Bill just text me. I am going to be his bitch. Bill has finished with his girlfriend.
I was so proud to hear that Master Bill chose his devoted faggot over his close-minded girlfriend and her Karen of a mother! I have no doubt that Sir James’s calm, casual interactions with Master Bill eased his mind and made him comfortable enough to stand up for his defenseless faggot!
DEFLOWERING
As a way to heal any wounds caused by the Karen drama, Sir James invited Master Bill over for dinner the following night.
Jamie was so excited. He bought some candles to decorate his room. He studied the article here entitled The Bitch Position and began practicing it with a dildo. Everything seemed to be ready for something to happen!
The next morning came this:
Sam Bill took my pussy last night! I was born for this!
So then he went into detail about the moment he shared with his new Master:
Bill came over for dinner and I was so happy to see him. We had a nice time over dinner and then I got to take Bill up to my bedroom. I had lit candles and it looked so romantic but he just stood there and said get to work faggot so I got on my knees and got to work.
When I had him hard (which did not take long) He pushed me to the bed and gently pulled down my shorts. I just had my new jockstrap on. He put me face down and I got into position. Soon I could feel his big cock around my ring, then pushing on it. It felt mind blowing! Then before I new it he was all the way in. He said “that’s a good little bitch,” then He then stroked in and out going balls deep. And I would squeal. When he did cum I could feel it deep inside me.
Then when he pulled out I had a reflex action to suck it clean. Bill said that was just amazing and his girl would never ever do that for him. I was mind blowing! He did not stay to long after that.
Before leaving, Master Bill told his faggot to be ready to accompany him to the gym in the morning.
Sir James wrote to me today to give his side of it.
I do believe he may have taken my boy’s virginity last night. As my boy was clearly on a high this morning and could not get to the gym fast enough this morning to meet his master. It is so uplifting to see my boy so happy. He was running about the house like a little girl as Bill was walking up the driveway. I am so happy that my boy does not resent me for putting him in chastity. And is also taking to heart how important it is for him to find true fulfilment.
AN ALPHA TAKES WHAT’S HIS
So they went to the gym, but all Jamie came away from during that time was “Master looked amazing.” But Master Bill had other plans besides working out at the gym.
Sam, Bill is coming over to fuck again.
And that’s exactly what Master Bill did! A little while later, an update from Jamie:
Bill told me that I am one hell off a good fuck. He said he needed to dump a big load. He even helped me get undressed and get into position. He put me on my back for part of it and that was just mind blowing! Told me I have to learn to hold my legs up. My jockstrap was all wet with my precum when he left. He cums so fast was all done in less than 20 minutes. I do love to lick his cock clean after he has finished. He is like a god to me. I called him Master for the first time and he loved it.
A GOOD FAGGOT
Jamie received an immediate test of his loyalty to the Master who just deflowered and bred him twice.
Damion just messaged me for service. Do you think I should ask Bill if it okay now? I really do see Bill as my Master now
I left it up to Jamie to decide how to properly handle etiquette in this new situation.
Sounds like Master is pleased I took the time to ask him. Master said blow jobs only for Jacob and Damion.
I’m so proud of Jamie for choosing the correct path as an owned faggot! That was exactly the correct thing to do!
TRANSFORMATION
Through everything we’ve seen with Jamie and his father Sir James, we can know there is a way to raise a faggot son and guide him to fulfillment. It’s not always easy, but peace lies at the end of that pathway.
It becomes quite clear when we consider Jamie’s chastity. When Jamie was originally caged by his father, Jamie struggled against it. Fortunately Sir James stood firm on the side of chastity, convinced that his son would eventually become what he was born to be through consistent use of the cage.
At one point Jamie was becoming resentful of his chastity cage, grumbling to me that his father wouldn’t give him any free time alone without the cage on. I kept patiently reminding him (as was Sir James) that this was the better course.
But it was only when Jamie was finally fucked and bred by Master Bill that everything regarding chastity became clear for Jamie. He said this:
I feel so much better and have a much better understanding of my chastity. I can see how we get to the point that we cannot live without it now. My chastity is all starting to make sense to me now. I do not think Bill would have picked me over his girl if I was not in chastity. Dad and you was right all along It is the best way to show the proper respect to real men and alphas.
I couldn’t be any prouder of Sir James and Jamie for the way they have conducted themselves on Jamie’s journey to find fulfillment! They’ve defended Truth both personal and Hierarchical, even against the ravings of stupid people in the general population.
They’ve chosen the higher, enlightened road, and their lives will be richer for it!
This post is part of a thread following the story of Sir James, a straight married Man coming to understand and embrace the faghood of his beloved son. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
So much craziness has happened to little Jamie, the 16-year-old faggot son of straight father James over the last week that I can barely keep up with it all. I’m going to try to recap it.
Last weekend Jamie threw a big pool party at his house with his father’s encouragement. Invited to the pool party were the three Alphas on his school’s soccer team, Bill, Jacob, and Damion, and their girlfriends. Jamie was instructed by his father to serve everyone at the party “like a good faggot” and perform properly for his Alphas.
So Saturday came, and in the afternoon I received a note from Sir James:
My boy continues to blossom and is busy pools side as I type this and it is so nice to see him being so self-confident and happy. I can see that he is finding himself. And very much being himself.
I did have a long chat with Bill over life in general and I did bring up the fact that he was indeed using my son. And I just said it is all good with me as long as it is consensual and remains respectful. Bill did say that my boy can’t get enough dick… Which was a little TMI.
Later I heard from Jamie. The pool party was a huge success in every way imaginable. First of all, Jamie’s Master, Bill, introduced Jamie to his girlfriend and then had Jamie show his girlfriend his chastity cage! I was shocked to hear that Master Bill was that bold at 16 years old! Jamie was slightly embarrassed, of course, but he was also excited that his Master was proudly showing him off.
A little while later, while his girlfriend was sunning herself on the pool deck, Master Bill took Jamie into the shed and had Jamie suck him off! Another bold move!
Later that night after everyone went away, Jacob decided he needed to be sucked off in the living room of Jamie’s house while his parents were out. Right in the middle of the blowjob Jamie’s father James came home and walked past the living room and went upstairs. Jamie noticed, but didn’t stop. Jacob never noticed at all, given that he was in the throes of pleasure.
On Sunday, Damion came over and was ushered up to Jamie’s bedroom for service as well.
I’m quite blown away by the level of trust, compassion, and confidence Sir James has bestowed upon his young faggot son. And in return, Jamie has responded beautifully.
This fact is not lost on Jamie’s parents:
Good Morning Sam, The Misses and I sat out on the pool deck last night as the sun was setting and we were both reflecting on the changes we have seen in our baby boy in just over a week. He has become a happier and more balanced child. And for the first time in years seem to be more driven, From taking pride in how he looks. To getting a part-time job. And taking his service to his Alphas very seriously.
He seems to go back and forth on how he feels about his chastity. But from what I understand this is normal for the first four to six weeks off a faggot starting off in chastity. And I do tend to agree with you that in the long term the benefits will outweigh any of the challenges. And in the end he will come to understand that this is necessary for him to find true fulfilment.
This is one of my favorite stories on this site. As a faggot with repressive parents, I watch with awe as Sir James instead cares for the needs of his faggot son even when he might not fully understand it.
And Jamie is an intelligent and curious young faggot, too. He’s so courageous, too! Such an inspiration to all of those out there desperate to express themselves properly!
Thank you, Sir James and Jamie, for sharing your lives with us!
This post is part of a thread following the story of Sir James, a straight married Man coming to understand and embrace the faghood of his beloved son. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
I have spent the last few days compiling information from Sir James and also his 16-year-old son as this situation has continued to increase in complexity and intensity. This is shaping up to be one of the most touching and overwhelming stories I’ve ever covered here, one that really speaks to the power of love between parents and their child, and the importance of putting aside preconceptions in order to best help those in need.
In the last post, I discussed how Sir James took the lead with his faggot son Jamie (another faggot named Jamie on this site!) and put the chastity cage on him for the first time. The chastity cage was something given to Jamie by the three straight school Alphas he services all the time.
Of course, these three straight high school Alphas (names: Master Bill, and Alphas Jacob and Damion) are not yet equipped to properly handle the training and maintenance of an owned faggot; they just like the faggot’s throat. So Sir James has had to take the lead in enforcing the rules for faggots, and he’s been doing so with an impressive firmness.
I can see that having a faggot for a son also comes with its challenges. When he got back from soccer practice he asked me to take his cage off. And I had to take the time to explain to him that faggots in my house stay caged and how could he think of disrespecting his alphas in this way. We had an argument and I sent him to his room to cool off for a few hours to cool down. We had a better time over dinner and he asked if he can have a sleepover next week. So I told him that it is fine with it but the cage is not coming off.
I was impressed at how Sir James tied the cage with respect for Alphas! This should always be the primary reason why a faggot is in chastity, so this was excellent!
Then Sir James upped the ante on the sleepover idea:
Thank you for getting back to me. I told my boy that we will be having a pool party next weekend and he will be hosting it for is mates and their girlfriends, I was thinking it is a good way for me to showcase my little faggot in a very good light and positive way. I did do a lot of reading on chastity for faggots and your words also reflect my understanding. It was one of my proudest moments when my boy showed his Alpha his cage and got a loving head rub. As it was for my boy too. I did tell him about you and that I now have a very good understanding of how faggots think and it is in large part due to your site. This weekend past I do seem to have bonded with my boy like nothing else. So I am feeling very happy as up until this past weekend he was starting to drift away and it was the fact that he is a faggot that he was drifting away.
It made me happy to hear that Sir James and his son were bonding again, healing a rift that secret faghood was causing between them! This is what TRUTH does!
During all of this I started a separate conversation with Jamie (with Sir James’s approval). I was trying to coach Jamie through the things his father was enforcing. Then something unexpected happened – Sir James invited Master Bill (the Apex Alpha of the three using Jamie) over to the house for dinner!
Said Jamie:
We are having Bill over for dinner tonight. My Dad needs to have a chat with him He said.
Then later:
He was talking to Bill by himself for over a hour and all I was allowed to do is bring out beer for them. Dad never has beers with me. My Dad loves him. They never stop talking about sport and girls. At one point Dad said does Jamie give good head, and Bill said “Just The Best “
This was amazing not only because Sir James took the time to get to know the young Alpha using his son, but also because this young Alpha sat down like a Man and didn’t freak out or back down at all. Very impressive!
Around the same time, I received messages from Jamie about new aspects of service:
Sam can you tell me what a good Gym Faggot should do for is Alpha at the gym? Bill and Jacob have told be that I am going to be there gym faggot for summer. They work out at the YMCA four days a week for 1 to 2 hours. Will people be able to tell that I am a gum faggot?
I was so excited to hear about this! I know the faggots in Canada love serving their Masters at the gym, and it helps to keep them in a proper headspace. I knew this was a pretty significant step.
Then Jamie wrote back after his first experience:
My first time as a gym faggot. Being a gym faggot is just the best! I feel so good being useful to my Alphas! I was leaking lots of pre cum for the whole time. And I came away with a bag of sweaty gym clothes. Bill said he expects them back pressed and ironed. And I feel so happy that I am allowed to do this for them. They only call me faggot now and others in the gym could hear them. The thing is I love it. The gym clothes smell so good it seems a shame to wash them. I thought I would be to embarrassed to shower at the gym But it was all good. I feel so safe around my Alphas. I think I am on the biggest high of my life. There socks smell the best. I think I am going to get them some new ones so I don’t have to wash them.
Such a simple, natural way to train a faggot in public, accomplished by two 16-year-old straight Alphas! You can see that these types of roles are so ingrained into Male behavior that it happens without much planning. They just KNOW how it’s supposed to be!
Meanwhile, Sir James was developing a firmer view of chastity and faggot purpose:
Hi Sam, I have been doing a lot of reading on faggots and chastity and especially for teen faggots. And would like to confirm that I have got it 100% right. the rules are very basic. But this is all very new to me. Bill is coming over for dinner and I need to explain to him that he will be the one responsible for milking and some of the cleaning.
For the best results
1 The faggot should be in his cage 24/7
2 Cleaning should be supervised so the faggot does not masturbate and ejaculate
3 The faggot should be milked once a week the cage stays on for the milking
This is done by massaging the prostate normally one gentle stroke will be sufficient as the faggot should be very horny.
My faggot is washing and Ironing his Alphas workout clothing and I think this is a very good lesson for him. But I can’t believe he asked his mother to do it, Sometimes I think faggots do not think the same as normal people.
I laughed out loud at that final comment. It’s remarkable how far Sir James has come in such a little bit of time, isn’t it? He truly understands that his faggot son was born this way and has drastically different needs from other boys. Even more remarkable is the way both Sir James and his wife are supporting their faggot son’s development and improvement as a faggot! Unprecedented!
Then Sir James updated me again with some conclusions he’s come to:
Been a good week and it is nice to see my little faggot grow and blossom. I have kept firm with his chastity and it does seem to have made him a little more of a submissive. His mother has been showing him how to wash and Iron and how to cook and he is so keen to pick up new skills I think he is going to turn out to be a fantastic faggot. I have given some thought to what you said over my boys milking and it something that I will do my self for him till he is out off the house. Because everything I have seen is the the best results happen when the faggot does not get to ejaculate. Had Bill over for dinner this week and he seems like a good guy and we also got to meet his girlfriend when she came to pick Bill up. My little faggot is acting even more like a faggot the past few days and it nice to see him being himself and feeling safe.
Meanwhile, the new openness has led to more boldness from Jamie’s three Alphas. I received this series of messages from Jamie the other day:
Bill and Jacob are coming back to my place after they work out today. I want to be the best faggot I can be for my Alphas. I do love it when they hold my head down as I am balls deep it feels so good. I just love how it feels. He was pushing and I would go that bit deeper. Damion came over too. All three on the sofa with there dicks out Good job Mom or Dad was not home! Jacob gave me shit because some off his cum went on the sofa. Sam it was the very best session I have ever had I was on a high for cock!
This morning Sir James cleaned his beloved faggot son. Said Jamie:
Dad took my cage off so I could clean. But he stood in the shower till I was done and put it right back on. I was hopping to get in a quick wank. Dad told me off about it because I am serving three Alphas and it is very important that I show them the proper respect. My Dad is very big on me showing my Alphas the proper respect. Looking back on it I am happy my Dad did not let me cum in the shower. Dad was right again.
When Dad was washing my cage in the sink as I was showering I was thinking he must love me to do that for me.
Frankly, I can’t think of many greater expressions of love between a father and his son than what Sir James is doing to train his son for his future life. He’s giving Jamie self-respect, training, direction, and kindness. He’s allowing his son the room to discover purpose.
There’s no greater gift a father can give his son!
Thank you to Sir James and my brother Jamie for sharing their journey with me!
This post is part of a thread following the story of Sir James, a straight married Man coming to understand and embrace the faghood of his beloved son. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
When I define love between two people, one of the primary ways I think it’s best expressed isn’t with words, but actions. It involves standing beside the person you love and supporting them even when you don’t fully understand their situation or even agree with it.
This is the kind of love that should always naturally exist between a parent and a child. Of course, too many times we see a lack of this familial love in this most sacred bond, especially (and tragically) when it involves LGTBQ children. And really, these are the kids who need that kind of support the most.
So it’s really no surprise that the recent story about Sir James coming to terms with his 16-year-old faggot son and supporting him has resonated to strongly with my readership. Gays (and particularly faggots) are in desperate need of fatherly support and compassion, and the example of Sir James is quite inspirational.
In the last update (yesterday) Sir James told of a trip he took with his faggot son over the weekend where he finally broke the ice with his son about his service to three Alphas on his soccer team.
But nothing could prepare me for what Sir James told me just happened this morning.
Just to let you know how things are moving forward. And thanks so much for taking the time to write back.
I did spend a few hours last night reading more about faggots and the links to chastity. I found caged jock to be very informative if a little weird. It is interesting how it is also better for a faggots mental health to be in chastity. So I came to the understanding that my baby boy would be safer and become a better faggot if he was to go into chastity.
This morning my boy came into the kitchen as I was drinking my first coffee and he was all ready to go to practice. And I have to admit that he is a very good-looking little faggot. As he went by me I gently brushed up against him and noticed that he had not put the cage on. “You did not put your cage on?” I asked. “No I don’t like the idea of it.” “Well don’t you think you would be showing the proper respect to your mates if you put it on?” I asked. “I guess” was his answer. “Go get it,” I said.
He slowly went to his room and came back with it and handed it to me. I could tell he was very nervous. But I said this is for the best. I sat at the kitchen table, Told him to stand in front of me and I gently pulled down his soccer shorts and gently cupped his smooth balls in my hand. The ring took a little time to get his balls through. And with a little KY the little tube slid on his little pee-pee. I have to say he looked very beautiful in his little cage in his soccer strip. My baby boy went to grab the little key for the cage and I said “No I will look after that.”
The drive to practise was a little tense as I think we were both a little surprised by what had just happened.
I stayed for the first half of the practice and it was interesting to see some of the body language on the pitch now that I have an understanding of the dynamics of the team. My boy opened the top of his shorts to him to show his Alpha his cage. He seemed to smile and give my baby a nice head rub.
I do worry and I hope I am doing the right thing.
I mean, WOW. That’s a mind-blower!
In a previous letter I suggested that perhaps Sir James might take the lead in putting his son in chastity, but I thought that might be far-fetched. But I’ll be damned – he did it!
I adore the way Sir James loves how his baby boy looks in his new chastity cage! It’s one thing to participate in helping his son achieve fulfillment, but it’s entirely another to feel joy over it! There is a kind of fractured beauty about a sub male in a chastity cage. I had a very similar experience when I finally met my Syrian boy that involved diapers, and let me tell you it was one of the most beautiful memories of my life. I think I understand where Sir James’s heart is right now – soaring!
I’ve never encountered a real life example of deep fatherly love like this one. It moves me to tears and gives me hope that other faggots might find a similar kind of acceptance.
Thank you, Sir James, for being that surrogate of hope for faggots around the world!
This post is part of a thread following the story of Sir James, a straight married Man coming to understand and embrace the faghood of his beloved son. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
Every so often I publish a story that really triggers my audience (usually negatively). Typically, the stories that excite my readership are the ones involving really awful situations and taboo subjects (I try to cover it all).
But recently I published a truly touching story about a straight married Man named James who wrote to me about his son. He suspected his son might be a faggot, but he wasn’t asking for lurid reasons. Instead, Sir James was wanting to know how to reach his son so that he might properly guide his son toward fulfillment.
Many faggots reached out to me about that story, almost all of them echoing my own feeling – that we wish we would’ve had a father like Sir James in our lives, too! So many faggots are alienated from their parents, and in particular their fathers. Sometimes they are beaten, or even worse, abandoned.
So faggots read the yearning and loving desperation in Sir James’s words and were deeply touched, as was I.
After my first post about this situation, Sir James and I continued to discuss how to approach a planned weekend trip between Sir James and his son. It was clear that Sir James wanted to make a connection on this trip.
Thanks so much for your warm post and support. It is indeed difficult to understand the world of faggots.
I spent some time reading through your site from what I can see chastity is good for faggots as it helps them understand their true place in the world.
My boy came out onto the pool deck today and it was very clear to see that he had shaved all his body smooth I did not say anything but it was so obvious to see, He’s a is skinny blond boy but it was clear to see that he had taken the time to shave his body. Do you think this may be something his teammates may have asked him to do?
He does love to go to soccer practice. And I don’t have a problem if he is becoming the team faggot as long as he is safe and not being mistreated. All I what is for him to be happy and lead a good and fulfilling life.
We plan to go up to our cottage together this Saturday for some bonding time. And I hope I can better understand my baby boy,
I immediately panicked because I didn’t know how to advise Sir James about the chastity device. So I explained to Sir James that his son may have shaved his body hair on his own and purchased a chastity cage because he was curious, or it might be something that his soccer Alpha told him to do. This was something that needed to be cleared up if he got a chance to really talk to his son on their trip alone together.
Well, the trip happened a day early, and I heard from Sir James with some surprising details.
Hi Sam, Thanks so much for the advice and you were so right. We had a change of plan and went up to the cottage on Friday because my little faggot did not want to miss Sunday practice.
My baby boy did finally open up to me and it involved a lot of tears for both of us. But he just told me that he liked boys and not girls. And I told him that is all good with me and that he has to follow his heart.
But things are a lot more complicated than I thought he has not been just sucking off one of his teammates but NO it is three of them and very regularly. I was a little shocked and after some general digging it seems that his mates got him the cage and he freaked out a bit and that is why it was in his bag and not on his little pee pee.
I am still trying to process it all and I don’t know what to do next.
So it’s THREE Alphas on the soccer team that are using his son! That was a bit surprising! I explained to Sir James that there is likely an Apex Alpha who first identified his son as a faggot and started using him, and then introduced the faggot son to his Alpha Pack brothers on the team.
But the chastity cage thing threw me. That’s pretty advanced stuff for 16-year-olds! I told Sir James that the Alphas are clearly staking a claim of ownership on his son, and they intend to keep him. That’s a good thing even though it probably sounds awful to Sir James. This means the faggot son will have protection and some amount of care (even though 16-year-olds can get unintentionally rough).
The questions remains – what to do about the cage? I told Sir James that the Master typically puts the cage on his faggot, but these young straight Alphas are probably uninterested in touching a faggot’s “pee pee”. I suggested that Sir James supervise his son as his son puts it on himself. That way Sir James can make sure it fits properly and isn’t hurting his son unnecessarily.
Words cannot properly express how impressed I am with Sir James throughout this entire ordeal! He has approached it with empathy, compassion, and respect. At the forefront of his every action Sir James has led with love and concern for the wellbeing of his dearest son.
