Structured Analysis through the Lens of Hierarchical Sexual Ontology, Violent Truth, and Ritual Use
note: in this review, the author of the reviewed article is referred to as consistent with his self-prescribed place in the hierarchy, without capitalization of his role or name. However, the term “his” at the beginning of sentences has retained the capital H simply to preserve some grammatical consistency, but not to confer on the author any undeserved rank.
I. Introduction: Articulation vs. Integration
boy ben hartman’s A Theory of Faggotry is an elegant and deeply personal articulation of the Submissive and Masochistic Gay Beta Male (SMGB) identity. It blends lived experience with psychological theory, cultural insight, and spiritual framing. The result is a rare attempt to dignify the faggot role — or its softer synonym, SMGB — with language that avoids pathologizing or trivializing the subject.
However, while the text succeeds in defining and affirming the identity it explores, it falls short of fully integrating that identity into a comprehensive ontology of sexual hierarchy. It speaks movingly to the experience of individual faggots, but does not complete the arc: it does not address how the truth of faggotry functions within larger social, metaphysical, or civilizational structures.
More specifically, the text largely avoids the foundational roles that hierarchical violence, ritualized public degradation, and visible, violent sex play in maintaining and transforming sexual orders. Without these elements, the vision remains personal rather than ontological; explanatory rather than structural; therapeutic rather than civilizational.
The critique that follows is structured around five major domains:
The strength of the book’s core definitions
The limitations of its consent-and-respect framing
The absence of ritual violence as a constructive principle
The underdeveloped role of public degradation and exposure
The need for a vertically stratified metaphysics of faggotry
I’m so happy you’re back. I’ve been a long-time reader since basically Day 1. I have a situation I could use your wisdom and advice on – a real world problem of Hierarchy clashing with our world’s warped ideas of equality.
I’m a faggot. I’m not entirely owned or entirely “free”; there are two wonderful Straight Alpha Men in my life who make use of me periodically in different ways, but none of us have a structured arrangement.
Despite my inferiority, I’ve done well in my career. I’m a manager in a small but successful organisation and I just hired for a junior role in my team, where I’m the most senior “male” in the business. I earn a very good salary and have a role of international importance despite our small size. Ironically, the alphas in my life enjoy teasing and embarrassing me with the fact that being a cocksucker makes all of that meaningless. Herein lies my dilemma: we’ve hired a stunning, amazing Straight Alpha male ten years my junior, and I’m his manager. Let’s call him Jack.
Jack is confident, charming, outgoing and naturally talented despite being a career change candidate. He exudes an effortless masculinity. He’s tall, handsome, athletic and dresses in a professional way that still manages to stimulate me (he insists on having his collar open to show off what looks like wonderfully maintained chest hair, and it drives me wild). Just being around this guy puts me in heat. His simple existence is colonising my mind. I can’t help but fantasise about what his cock looks like, or imagine how incredibly sexy he must look fucking what I just know is a thick, heavy, powerful load into his girlfriend. I’m so grateful to be able to experience his divine presence in my life.
As a real man, I firmly believe it is his right to exploit me for his own pleasure, entertainment and/or personal advancement. His masculinity deserves unconditional devotion and worship. As a faggot, I feel it is my duty to serve him however I can, and toil for his greatness. If he were my boss this would be simple (and I have been in that situation before).
But we are now in the ridiculous situation where I am his manager, with responsibility for giving him instruction and direction, and maintaining work discipline. He’s 10 years my junior as I said so there’s certainly a lot he has to learn about the actual job. But leadership and authority? I’m perfectly confident in my skill-set and I’ve earned my position, but ultimately I am just a cocksucker playing at these things because society makes me. That was fine when in the past I was managing women and other fags, but these things are his birthright.
I am genuinely distressed by the idea that this young god is being expected to treat a faggot with deference and respect. I mean for god’s sake Sam, sometimes I go to work straight from servicing one of the alphas in my life. It’s ridiculous that our society creates situations where alpha males like him are expected to take instruction from a freshly seeded cocksleeve. Sadly, I need my job so I can’t take decisive action to correct this injustice. I don’t think being between this stud’s legs is in my foreseeable future.
But Hierarchy is important to me. I know what I’m for and I believe upholding the Hierarchy between males is crucial for our collective wellbeing. I need to be careful, but I also need to find ways to render this stud the obedience, respect and service he is entitled to.
Before I ask for advice, there are two things I’m proud of in this situation about my conduct so far. First, I fought hard to get him the job. The other members of the panel wanted to give the role to a woman of equivalent skill. I used my authority as hiring manager to persuade my boss that he was the best candidate. He made clear he really wanted this career change, and I considered it my duty to ensure he got it. I’m really delighted to have been able to use my influence to help him advance his life goals! I am much more proud of this than any professional achievement.
Second, I am in long-term chastity. Even though none of the men in my life are my keyholder I consider it an essential act of deference and submission to every real man I meet. Whenever we’re together I can’t help but be aware of my cage and I force myself to dwell about how there’s only one man in the room. The whole situation is a great example of why chastity is critical for faggots, honestly. Being caged around Jack both ensures I can’t tell myself lies about equality and condemns me to a state of perpetual cocklust I can’t get relief from, which keeps me in the proper frame of mind for a faggot. Every day after work I think about how wonderful it is he’s almost certainly fucking his beautiful girlfriend or stroking his cock that night whilst I ache in my cage.
So Sam, I’d love to get your take on my situation and any advice you have for how I can be a good faggot. How do I add value to his life, honour his manhood and respect his natural authority whilst being – on paper – his “boss”?
First of all, thank you for your loyal support over all of these years and through the topsy-turvy, turbulent life of this platform!
I’d also like to congratulate you on the two straight Alphas you’re periodically servicing! Those are two relationships you skillfully cultivated over the years with patience and focus, and I’m proud of you (and them, frankly) for finding and embracing purpose!
You have an incredible and COMPLEX situation with this new Alpha at work. There are no easy answers to this, either.
As a long-time reader, you should be well-acquainted with my dear brother Sean, the faggot business owner whose entire life (his ownership of the business, his house, cars, everything) was overtaken by a stunning and very powerful young God Alpha named Eric. I’ll be restoring Sean’s incredible story here soon, but I’ll touch on a few details in my answer to you now.
As one of the owners of the business, Sean had more power and security (possibly) than you do as a manager, but he also had much more to lose in submitting to Master Eric. But right away Sean was being submissive around Eric, offering him his office and things like that.
In Master Eric’s case, he was vastly more aggressive than I think I’ve ever seen in an Alpha before. He went straight for Sean’s throat and ingratiated himself quickly so as to take over Sean’s place in the company. Your Alpha might not be that aggressive (or he may not yet sense the possibilities). He might need to be coaxed out of that societal cocoon that holds many Alphas back.
So how to fix that? I don’t think it’d be poor etiquette to ask him out for dinner and/or drinks (you pay, of course). That way you can pick his brain about his point of view, and maybe bring up the idea of Hierarchy (which can be related to the business world very easily). Ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha (he will say YES) and tell him you agree, and tell him why. This will start the wheels turning in his head, and he’ll start seeing things from a Hierarchical perspective.
I had another wild thought, too, but it would be down the road a bit (once you’re on solid ground with him). You could show him the Sean thread on this site (once it’s restored) that details Master Eric’s takeover of Sean. Any straight Alpha reading that will recognize their natural right in that story. Again, that’s not something that can be done right away.
Here’s another potential resource: those two Alphas you’re servicing. Perhaps one (or both, if they know each other) can get together with this young Alpha and you and they can talk to him about what you are. Do not underestimate the Alpha fraternity! They are often quite eager to flex power with each other, and this is an ultimate flex. I would ask one or both of those Alphas their advice as well, and find out if they’re willing to be a guide for this young Alpha.
This is a very tricky situation. I’ve sketched out of scenarios, and I think any of them can work. You obviously have enough experience with straight Alphas to navigate this without any harm. Trust in the truth!
Good luck, and keep me informed! My email is hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com
There are few emotions as tragic as regret. It’s a sadness that gnaws away your confidence and forces you to live in the past mentally rather than looking forward.
Faggots are particularly prone to regret because they are typically not decisive action takers, often living in a shadow-world of denial and second-guessing. So how important it is that faggots go through life with the correct outlook, so that a bad perspective doesn’t add to the likelihood of a life of regret.
Yesterday an eloquent and thoughtful fag brother named Manuel left an experience in my “Ask A Question” inbox that I thought served as a perfect warning example for all of the shallow size queens and young Instagram fags I see and hear every day.
I’m a 32 y old faggot, and I wanna share my biggest regret in life so maybe younger fags will not fall into the same trap. When I was 22 I met a guy who was 30, he was a gentleman, super smart, and confident. He had a very natural Alpha power. We were both single and we went out on a few dates together before I could actually serve him. We went to his apartment and he fucked me and never stopped calling me a good boy. He really wanted to keep me for him, but he didn’t have an enormous porn start cock and he wasn’t a six-pack Abercrombie model. He wasn’t ugly either, but he was a normal middle-class man you would meet on the subway going to work. He had an average dick and he was a little chubby. I was young and stupid and I fantasied with a porn star to own me, I thought real Alphas must always look like Thor and have a super huge dick. Long story short, I still follow this Alpha on Instagram, now he’s 40 and he’s living his best life with two super sexy twinks much younger than me. They claim to be a throuple but it is very obvious that he owns both of them. I woke up today and the first thing I saw was a picture of the three of them traveling together in the south of France. The two boys were buying clothes at a mall in France, while he was taking pictures of them and showing off how hot they are. I’m sure the boys are sucking and riding him every day and every night.
I learned my lesson and now I know that Alphas can be chubby, short, tall, skinny, and not having 9 inches. I hope younger fags learn the same! Porn is awesome, but it is not real life!
Even though I feel sorry for my brother Manuel, his experience is vital to consider. Faggots must have the correct attitude about Men, or else they’ll end up regretting it.
I must say it’s always baffled me when faggots have made comments about how a certain Man can’t be Alpha because his dick is average, or he’s a twink, or he’s ugly. I’ve always come back with this: YOU ARE A FAGGOT. Who in the world do you think you are judging and insulting any Man when you’re a faggot?? Can’t you see how a lack of humility and a failure to appreciate your proper place in Hierarchy can lead to disaster?
I understand that young skinny faggots often think they’re sexier than women and they shit rainbow-colored Skittles, but in the end you’re nothing more than a chattier Fleshlight to Men. Probably 99% of the time a young faggot is NOT going to make a Man fall in movie-love with it. Yeah, he’ll enjoy fucking your tight little body for a while until you become annoying. But in the end, you’re just a faggot … and there are plenty more out there just like you.
So brothers, young and old, please heed Manuel’s heartfelt warning. He speaks the truth. Men and Alphas are out there, and they all deserve some measure of respect and submission. We are faggots, and regardless of their body type or dick size, we are inferior to them.
This post is part of a thread about a faggot called Prath who bravely sought to serve a straight local Alpha. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
I feel like I have spent nine years preaching one thing continuously: faggots must take action if they want to be fulfilled.
A faggot cannot be fulfilled jerking off to porn, snorting poppers, playing games in chatrooms, living a heterosexual lie, or a million other stupid things they do instead of the one thing they must do: SERVE MEN.
It’s not hard to understand. If you have a critical, life-changing test to take, you simply cannot binge-watch television, get drunk/high every night, or be distracted at all. You actually need to buckle down, stop procrastinating, and do the study needed to pass the test.
For a faggot, serving an Alpha is that life-changing test. And most faggots are failing that test in the most pathetic ways.
I am a faggot who has lived my fag life boldly. I have relentlessly pursued service almost all of my adult life, and I’m happier and more fulfilled because of it. So from my vantage point, I can clearly see the path to the Promised Land for the rest of you to follow.
Sadly, so many fail to listen and remain lost.
But every so often a faggot listens to what I teach and my advice and puts it into practice, and with remarkable regularity the faggot SUCCEEDS!
One recent example is a faggot I’ll call Prath. When Prath first encountered me and my teaching on Hierarchy, it had the ring of truth. He recognized he was born to be a faggot. He asked me to help him, which I gladly did. However, I figured Prath would end up like the other scared, do-nothing faggots who ask for help.
Then I received this message:
Hey sam, Prath here. I would like to know how should I convince a local alpha guy and about hierarchy? Yes he is one of my coworker, he has a good body with bully personality. He always seeks attention etc. I didn’t noticed it before but from the 6 months I noticed that I have been getting changed about him. I am a team leader of 5 people team so I am at the status who always demands respect but around him i feel timid and different.
I replied this way:
You need to get into a conversation with him where you can ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha, then ask why he feels he’s Alpha. Then discuss Hierarchy.
So Prath said:
Once I was talking to him about gym and alphahood he was naturally accepting it to the point of health, fitness and command. He becomes so casual in no time. It just he is not familiar about hierarchy. I am thinking of the ways for to talk about hierarchy with him.
So I advised him this way:
Well when you discuss Alphahood with him, get him to agree that he was born different than lesser males. Once you get him to agree with that, start discussing the lower levels of the Hierarchy.
Specifically ask him if he feels like lesser males should follow his lead and obey him/serve him.
So some time passed, and I grew pessimistic. Then a few days ago I received this message from Prath:
Hey sam, today I invited him for the lunch and drinks. I prepared lunch myself for him. I thought it is good to talk about hierarchy in private instead of public. He came on time. He was surprised that why would I invite him so suddenly for lunch but he did not show. He was so natural without any hesitation at all like he was in his home. I took normal topics to start during lunch then I slowly moved towards hierarchy and alphahood about his gym and all. He told me that he has been with many girls I was surprised but then I knew it was natural for alpha man.
As you told me to tell him about difference of a lesser man and alpha he was quite open to it and hesitated it a little but then put himself without hiding his thoughts about lesser male or alphas. I showed him your Twitter page and he was shocked to see this kind of scenario even exist. But then he glanced at me with a smile and asked me directly what I take him as?
I did not had words at that time I hesitated and then said “as an alpha” he said he knew that already. He said he caught me many times glaring at his bulge many times but did not mentioned to me.
OH MY GOD!
Can you believe the boldness of this excellent faggot? It’s wonderful to see! Prath actually went over and above what I suggested by preparing food and setting an inviting private place to discuss Hierarchy. Wonderful!
Prath continued:
Yes it just happened sam. I was not sure how would he react about my words but he had some idea already. He said he used to of such glares. It was not new for him and reaction of people. Even after my words he was calm and composed. He was not in hurry. He was all ears to my words and actions. After seeing your page and few other he said “no doubt I am an alpha but that doesn’t mean I will take you as fag or slave so simply” I was surprised by his reaction.And left me in that situation with a message after leaving that he will see my determination about being a fag for him.
Listen, faggots, there is no excuse. If this timid faggot can offer service to a straight Alpha, so can you!
All Prath did was take my advice (advice I know works because I use it myself) and put it into practice! Would it have been the end of the world if the Alpha rejected him outright? Of course not!
But the Alpha DIDN’T reject him! Far from it! Now Prath has a terrific opportunity to find fulfillment!
You have access to the same tools Prath had. You have me, my advice, and the information here on the site and social media accounts.
FagBoi G here. This might be a bit long, but there is an ending to it.. hehe.
I’ve always known i was a faggot, from the time I was maybe 3/4 years old. I always knew there was a hierarchy, and I was at the bottom of the entire Pyramid, because I always watched and admired Boys and Men, the way they were just being absolute true Alphas at a very young age. That intimidated me and hence I couldn’t really ever become friends with them, as I would stare too much at the shorts or just be admiring their rugged masculine looks, especially if men with tight muscles and tight pants.
I always knew I wanted cock, even tho I wasn’t sure what it would be at that tender age. But I learnt.
Unfortunately growing up in a society where being gay and afag was an absolute NO, I had to hide this and grew up with a lot of insecurity. I pretended to be a top for many years, never really enjoying the role at all but I always thought it made me “less gay” than sucking a cock or getting fucked my a Man, no idea why.
A few years ago the urge was too thick. I met a man who inused to top, and we discussed me getting fucked for the first time by Him.he was kind and elderly and talked me thru the process. one night atHis place, after a few drinks and a smoke, he took me. And His first entrance was entire. 9.5″ and deep. I couldn’t breathe.. but I knew at that very moment, my true destiny and desire was finally met. Having a Man inside my Bussy was like seeing God.
I’m so glad for the experience, and I’ve worked hard on being more open with myself aiut my true desires, and have sound so much peace.mt toy collection is not embarassing hehee, which now gets me to my question.
Can a faggot like me , I’m preety straight acting in society, learn to signal to Alphas that I would be honoured to suck them off and help them unload , just to make them relax and get action whenever they want? I know straight men don’t get any from their wives, and I feel my role on earth is to serve Them, provide Their shafts with pleasure as often as possible.
How does one signal to Alphas in society at work, in a bar, at the airport etc, that I am a FAGGOT willing to serve him.
Sorry if this was too long drawn out! Love your work!
Cheers,
FagBoi G.
Thanks for the extensive background! You have plenty of experience already upon which to draw, which is very good.
One thing faggots need to keep in mind is that most (if not all) Alphas recognize them at some level regardless of what the faggot might do. Now, Alphas might not register this on a conscious level until a faggot starts talking to them. But I can tell you for sure that Alphas sense this weakness like a predatory animal can smell blood.
So it’s up to the faggot to “expose its throat” so to speak. This requires going out on a limb (unless you’re going to wear a shirt openly declaring that you’re a faggot, which I make). Be complimentary, be generous (as in offering to pay for things), and steer conversations toward the topic of Hierarchy. You can ask questions like, “Do you consider yourself to be Alpha?” which will typically open up an entire conversation about their Alphahood. Ask them how they knew. Ask them about their place in society, their responsibility. These are incredible questions that compliment him and also get him thinking about the difference between himself and lesser males.
From there you steer him toward reasoning about those inferior males and how they can be/should be used. And at this point you can reveal your position as a slave male (leave out faggot for now) so he will start to see you in a new light. This will take root and grow.
None of this is necessarily fast, although it can be. But anything good in life can take time.
Hi brother Sam my name is Andrew and I’m a faggot from New York I recently found an alpha through an app called recon and things I thought were going smoothly. However, there are always things I like to do before submit ting is FaceTime or meet the alpha in person but he pushed that aside now he wants me to pay him $150 for new toys while I only chatted with him for about three days. To me this felt a bit fishy but I wanted to with chat you because you are far more experienced faggot than I. Sam is this normal for an alpha?
Hi brother, thanks for the question.
Yeah, this is normal for a guy who thinks he’s an Alpha and is too insecure or too fake to meet up in person and build a real relationship.
Unfortunately the internet has created a whole class of “internet Alphas” who play games because they know they’re not really Alphas and they’re not truly serious about owning/using faggots or attempting anything in the Dom/sub space. They know they don’t have what it really takes. So instead, they play games that make them feel in control when they’re not.
Hey there. Very new follower here but love the site, been reading/listening for the last few days nonstop. Glad to have found other fags that understand hierarchy and I’ve learned a lot.
You have any tips on making an alpha feel comfortable being assertive and aggressive? I have an alpha that seems to shy away from being too rough with me, despite me telling him I enjoy it. I’m not sure he understands how strong my desire to submit to him is, and that he should prioritize his needs above mine. He says he likes it rough but he is definitely holding back.
Hi brother, thanks for writing.
I’ve gotten this question a few times, and I am also wrestling with this issue with a pre-Alpha friend of mine as well. It seems like such an obvious and easy thing to us as faggots because we have this idea that all Men are cauldrons of dominant aggressiveness. Of course, almost all Men (and Alphas) are plagued by the same insecurities, fears, and societal pressures that we all face. Some Men (like my friend and yours) are just really nice people who genuinely don’t want to be hurtful or selfish. We have to understand that about them, as well as the possibility that it’s simply not in them to be more aggressive.
On the other hand, I’ve also successfully advised some faggots on how to ignite dominance within their Alphas, so I know in some Alphas this timidity can be overcome. My advice is this: stop complaining to him about how passive he is, since this causes anxiety. Instead, ramp up your submission to him. Always seek to position yourself physically lower and at his feet. Become more subservient and agreeable. Rub and kiss his feet. When he fucks you, put yourself in the most submissive positions and make him feel like he’s a sexual god.
In other words, make him feel like a King. What I’ve seen happen is this type of deep submission brings out the hunting instinct in Alphas, and eventually they’ll want to pounce. Now this isn’t usually something that happens immediately, so you need to remain patient and focused. I’ve seen this approach work, so have faith in the process and hopefully you’ll see success.
Great blog, it’s helped me realise my beta/fag side and my lust for worshipping alphas.
I need your advice…I had a straight alpha best friend for 10 years. When we became friends, I wasn’t ‘out’. We were very close… going to the gym, going out drinking (him picking up girls) etc.
He was a natural alpha…hot body, great looks, supreme confidence, controlled aggression, and a big cock (he told me and I can verify as I saw it!). He had the pick of women and would regularly tell me of his sexual activities and how women went crazy over his cock. During our friendship he told me numerous times that he knows he is an Alpha and I can tell he enjoys having control over others.
Some of the activities we would do when I was still in the closet involved sleeping in the same bed and aggressively play fighting in our boxer shorts where he would regularly pin me down – I loved it! Frequently, he would pin me down in his boxers by sitting on my chest with his knees over my shoulders, so I couldn’t move my arms, with me ‘pretending’ to struggle while staring at his big bulge. I loved the submissive nature of it and I think he enjoyed the dominance.
On another occasion, we nearly showered together after a drunken night out but he stopped after seeing I was getting a hard-on. Damn!
Anyway, after around 5 years into our friendship, I came out to him when drunk and he accepted me 100%. I was so scared, as previously he had made some jokingly homophobic comments, but he didn’t let it affect our friendship and would often stick up for me if we went out on nights out etc.
Fast forward to around 2 years ago…we went on a night out and we both got very drunk. In the early hours of the morning, we headed back to mine, where he was staying over. I was nearly blackout drunk at this point. He slept on the sofa and me in my own bedroom. Shortly after going to bed, unconsciously, I went up to him while he was sleeping and asked him if he wanted his dick sucked.
He asked me to repeat what I said and I asked him again. I’ll be honest, I thought this was an actual dream that I was having and in that moment I didn’t have any control over my actions. He left my house immediately. The next morning, I apologised – I was devastated. He replied saying that he needed time to think about our friendship etc.
He ended the friendship. I was devastated, gutted and depressed. I lost my closest friend at that point. Anyway, we haven’t spoken in two years. I still think of him most days. I get we won’t ever be friends again but I yearn to serve him even if it is transactional. I was always pretty submissive to him and wanted to please him.
I have often wondered what would happen if I tried to approach him like you have advised on this blog.
Previously he had confided in me that he is a very sexual man and needs frequent service, when talking about problems with his girlfriend (they are still together).
I would love to worship and serve him but I don’t know if I should try to or not. In my eyes, he is a god alpha and deserves true worship. While we were friends, I buried these feelings as best I could but I guess I have lost everything now anyway.
What are your thoughts?
What a heartbreaking letter! I’m so sorry that this happened!
Sadly, this is always the danger when a faggot offers himself to an Alpha friend. It’s hard to say whether or not the way you offered yourself might have scared him, but he did take some time to think about his decision. That’s tough.
This Alpha seems like a wonderful Man, very strong and confident. I’m disappointed that he cut you off without much of a discussion. However, I’m sure he did it because he thought continuing the friendship would only lead to pushing you further into obsession.
I don’t know if there is a way to resurrect the relationship. A long friendship like this shouldn’t be tossed away forever, and I’m sure he agrees with that if he’s anything like I think he is. I don’t think it would be a bad idea to reach out via a message and just tell him you miss him and you’re sorry for what you said when you were drunk. If there could be a way to just talk, I’m sure the situation could be repaired.
I know you feel embarrassed and scared of him now, but just be tactful and maintain your faith in the friendship you built with him. Keep me informed!
Master @throatitbxxxy is far and away one of the great faggot cocksucker trainers online. Blessed with a magnificent cock that is a perfect girth for sucking and so straight you could use it as a ruler, Master TIB has no problem forcing his cock down a faggot’s throat.
However, he prefers the patient approach when receiving head. He understands that faggots need to be used, and he also appreciates that faggots need guidance to become what they were born to be.
One thing I’ve noticed about his videos is how every faggot that he features all seem to be very well behaved. They all have their hands on the floor, asses sticking out, back arched, and mouths open. So I asked Master TIB about this, and here’s what he said:
One of my interview questions is: Have you ever sucked cock without so much as touching your own dick boy? And if they say no, I say: I don’t want you distracted from your single-minded focus of pleasing my cock. They must agree to kneel. And if they start to disobey they only get a few chances before I will just pack up and leave.
I KNEW he was also pre-training them!
I’ve known Master TIB since the Tumblr days of FWA, and his methods have never changed BECAUSE THEY WORK.
One method he loves to employ is stroke counting. This is effective because it gives the faggot miniature goals to achieve while also helping Master gauge the faggot’s overall progress. We can see that here:
Again, notice the perfect form of the faggot. It doesn’t have its own useless penis out, it’s not touching itself. It’s solely a trainable hole.
Master also trains them to respond quickly to one-word commands like “off” or “down” so that he can control how the faggot stimulates him. Master also liberally uses the phrase “good boy” to keep the faggot eager to keep working to please him.
The end result of Master’s training is an expert cocksucker that can be repeatedly relied upon for worshipful service, like this faggot that has fought through fits of choking and vomiting so that it might serve Master and receive his plentiful loads:
There is no cocksucker trainer like Master @throatitbxxxy. He understands faggots so well and he’s perfected unmatched techniques to guide them to become selfless blowjob machines.
This post is part of a thread chronicling the growth of an agonophilic faggot named Chris and his long-term service relationship with a straight Alpha. CLICK HEREfor all posts in this thread in chronological order!
One of the keys to my success as a faggot throughout my life is my willingness to rationally explain my Hierarchical perspective as a proud faggot and my inborn role in life. This usually takes Alphas by surprise, and they’re typically interested in asking more about my view of my purpose and theirs. I liken their reaction to a puppy encountering some usual new critter with a mixture or excitement, curiosity, and fear.
Once I get their attention and interest it’s usually a matter of easing them into accepting my worship/service until their natural instincts take over.
Yes, it’s a form of manipulation. On the other hand, I’m helping these Alphas discover aspects of their power and embrace a larger purpose. Shouldn’t that be part of a faggot’s service?
Chris responded to my previous post about him with another example from his life that also reflects this teaching work faggots must sometimes do with Alphas.
THIS is exactly how I’ve always felt. With this Str8 Alpha in particular since our relationship actually began almost 18 yrs ago and I was NOT his Fag initially. When he and his then GF moved out of NYC I’d put him up when he was here for work, and letting me suck his dick was his way of a “thank you”. It wasn’t until 2-3 years later and he was about to bust his load in my mouth and for the first time blurted out SUCK IT FAGGOT (with a quick look to say he didn’t mean that) that I first told him it was OKAY and he was just following his natural instinct. And he was surprised when I explained my TRUE Faggot self. So yes I began to teach HIM, and bring out his Alpha self, eventually getting to the point where he only addresses me as Faggot and gets hard as a rock beating me up and holds me on his dick until this last pulse and he is empty, and getting him to the point where he UNDERSTANDS forcing my head into his sweaty underarms and breathing deep is PERFUME to a Faggot. (we often forget how confusing some of this is to a real man) It was a LONG process, just getting him to not thank me for things I did for him or gave him and to just EXPECT it and eventually DEMAND it took a year. This is the only man I’ve served who my relationship with was NOT as a faggot from the get-go. He was just a stunning blonde God to me about whom I only FANTASIZED about being a total Faggot to and receiving a beatdown from. NOW he is a Alpha MAN with me, and has admitted how much he likes it, how much taking out his frustrations on me helps him, and I am as PROUD of that as I am of being his Faggot.
I really loved this experience from Chris because it illustrates that much of this “manipulation” is a long game. It sometimes takes a year or more of methodical revelation before the Alpha seizes his natural power.
But when it’s finally unlocked, so many blessing come from it!
Chris now experiences joy that come from purpose. That’s definitely worth working for! It’s definitely worth waiting for!
Cunting is one of the most profound moments in the life of a faggot. It is the line of demarcation between the world of Men and the world of true faggotry. Once a faggot has been cunted, there is simply no way to return to the world of Men and Manhood. The cunting utterly destroys that possibility forever.
I’ve written about cunting many times before, most notably in the article “Being Cunted” (READ HERE). There are many signs that indicate cunting, including uncontrollable shaking or reverse rutting. There is also a kind of momentary paralysis, and occasionally weeping.
Regardless of the reaction, the faggot is altered mentally and emotionally by the experience, which is unlike anything Men typically experience. To put it in more organic terms, a cunting is probably as close to a female orgasm as a male can get. Hence the name. A faggot’s hole is transformed into a pussy, a cunt. And it will never be the same.
I think the one aspect of a cunting that seems to be universally experienced by cunted faggots is something I call “The Void.” When a male sticks something in his ass or even gets fucked, he moves on with his life largely unchanged.
But a cunted faggot ends up with The Void inside its pussy, a space where cock was and belongs again. The Void is constantly craving to be filled with cock again, to feel that sense of fullness and completion. Without cock, The Void is like a black hole, a howling vortex aching to be stuffed full of cock.
It’s an ache deep inside the faggot’s pussy. It keeps the faggot awake at night, yearning to be penetrated. Sometimes the rim of the faggot’s pussy tickles, teasing the faggot to stick fingers into it or find a cock willing to fuck it.
Cunted faggots are like converted vampires, damned to a life of neverending hunger to fill The Void that drives their need.
Of the many ways Men and Alphas control faggots – sexual use, scent training, discipline, chores – cunting is the most permanent and profound, mainly because of The Void. There will always be an empty space inside that cunted faggot, a space reserved for the Man who did the cunting.
I recently received a frantic series of text messages from Michael, the new faggot of Master Matt.
“Sam, my pussy has changed shape!” he exclaimed worriedly.
Knowing what Michael’s new pussy had been through recently with Master Matt’s giant cock, I understood the issue instantly. “Yes, I know,” I replied, “it’s okay.”
“But Sam, it looks like a pussy! Master said it looks like a real pussy!” he repeated.
“It’s okay, brother. It’s normal.”
One of the great miracles that comes from a Man fucking and cunting a faggot is the actual transformation of the faggot’s body into something unique in the human family. The faggot turns into a slave, an object, the personal property of a Man through physiological and metabolic changes resulting from deep breeding. And, from a physical standpoint, the faggot’s throat effectively becomes a Fleshlight.
And, most crucially, the faggot’s hole becomes a literal pussy.
As the picture above shows, a well-fucked fag hole becomes slit-like and develops “lips” around the rim. The muscles inside the faggot’s pussy become trained to mimic the stroking necessary to bring the Alpha to orgasm the way a female vagina does.
This new pussy, when combined with chastity of the faggot’s dicklet and/or jockstrap, makes the faggot appear most feminine. This physical transformation of the faggot’s body makes it more palatable for Men, particularly straight Men who like the look and feel of female vagina.
And this creation of a female-like pussy from the hole of a faggot is caused solely by the power of Alpha cock!
And Men love the look of a faggot’s pussy!
Some faggots object to the use of the term “pussy” to describe their hole, but as I’ve shown, active faggots do indeed develop a pussy by natural means through intense sessions of fucking and breeding. So the term is not only appropriate, but also necessary in order to describe its true function.
Faggots are a natural part of the Hierarchy, and like all things in Nature, the form fits the function. Through the fulfillment of its purpose a faggot naturally develops a pussy as part of its transformation into the thing Nature intended it to be.
Like poor Michael, this change can be shocking at first, even scary. But it is merely Nature’s way of remaking a faggot into a tool and piece of property useful to satisfy the needs of Men.
So rejoice in your pussies, by faggot brothers! Be proud! Your purpose in life is being fulfilled!
Subspace is one of those aspects of the Dom/sub experience that few people truly understand, and even fewer appreciate its power. It’s the power source at the center of Hierarchical exchanges. Without subspace, there would be no ability for a Dominant to overpower and control a submissive, to break into their minds, or help them achieve a sense of purpose in service.
One Alpha recently compared subspace to hypnosis, and the comparison is apt. Like hypnosis, bringing a submissive into subspace involves control and skill, but also great responsibility. In deeper levels of subspace a submissive’s mind and heart unlock, its resistance fades, and many things thought unimaginable become possible.
If I sound a little mystical about subspace, it’s for good reason. Mishandled subspace has led to broken and destroyed lives. On the other hand, carefully nurtured subspace can lead to tremendous fulfillment.
Subspace is a metaphor for the state the submissive’s minds and bodies are in during a deeply involving play scene. Many types of BDSM play invoke strong physical responses. The mental aspect of BDSM also causes many submissives to mentally separate themselves from their environment as they process the experience. Deep subspace is often characterized as a state of deep recession and incoherence. Deep subspace may also cause a danger in newer submissives who are unfamiliar with the experience, and require the dominant to keep a careful watch to ensure the submissive isn’t placing him or herself in danger. Many submissives require aftercare.
Notice the disassociative quality of subspace, this disconnection of the mind from the body. This is caused by a very natural process in the body ordinarily triggered by dangerous circumstances.
WHY DOES SUBSPACE OCCUR?
When a human being is confronted by some dramatic or traumatic moment, the body releases chemicals into the blood stream as part of a process known as the “fight or flight” response. Endorphins and enkephalins are dumped into the bloodstream, producing a weightless, out-of-body rush of pleasure. This can last for hours afterward.
This dump of endorphins can occur during pleasurable-but-taxing sexual experiences such as being fucked or sucking dick just as easily as it can during violent and aggressive situations like rape.
THE EFFECTS OF SUBSPACE
It’s the “fight or flight” response shielding that allows faggots (who are extremely submissive males) to perform tremendous (and occasionally shocking and extreme) acts of service. While in “fight or flight”-induced subspace faggots are extremely open to suggestion and will often mindlessly do things that they might never do in their everyday life.
More from the definition of subspace above:
Producing a sort of trance-like state due to the increase of hormones and chemicals, the submissive starts to feel out-of-body, detached from reality, and as the high comes down, and the parasympathetic nervous system kicks in, a deep exhaustion, as well as incoherence. Many submissives once reaching a height of subspace will lose all sensation of pain, as any stimulus causes the period to prolong.
This detachment from reality allows subs and faggots to go much farther in risky behaviors. We see this extreme behavior quite readily in findom. Faggots deep in subspace have surrendered many thousands of dollars in financial drains to online Alphas, only to regret it once they snap out of it.
HOW CAN WE DEFINE “PERPETUAL SUBSPACE”?
I’ve been owned multiple times in my life, including a few stints as a live-in faggot. To accomplish this, I had to get into a state I call “perpetual subspace” (another term could be “persistent subspace”). It’s sort of a low-level, neverending state of subspace in which the faggot is on a constant high due to even the most mundane of tasks (like doing the dishes, or cleaning a bathroom). The faggot’s Master is never far from the faggot’s mind during the course of every day while in perpetual subspace. Everything the faggot does goes to honor its Master.
I liken perpetual subspace to a type of white noise that drives a faggot forward in constant service to its Owner. Think of it in the same terms as listening to the sound of rain or other types of background noise in order to fall asleep. Perpetual subspace is that low-level hum by which the faggot accomplishes much in service.
PERPETUAL SUBSPACE – THE IDEAL STATE
Whenever I was owned in my life and in a state of perpetual subspace, I felt comforted and at peace. My worries were few since my Master took care of me and all I truly focused on were the tasks that my Master expected me to accomplish. Regardless of how menial they were, each task brought me satisfaction because I knew it was pleasing to my Master.
It was easy to keep me in perpetual subspace once it began. My Master running his fingers through my hair and telling me I was a “good boy” or a “good faggot” was enough to sustain the state in me for weeks. Sexual service/worship sessions were obviously part of that as well. All of these stimuli combined to keep me under perpetual subspace, a state that allowed me to accomplish a lot in service, as well as remain pliable to suggestions when my Master wanted to share me with his friends or make me do things I might not ordinarily do (piss drinking and ass licking experiences started under perpetual subspace of a Master).
For Alphas and Masters, perpetual subspace should be the goal. It is the ultimate level of power, for you hold the total life of the faggot under your control.
Ever since I first realized my faghood when I was 17 years old, I’ve always embraced learning and practicing my craft. I just had this need to get better, understand my own motivations, and remain in what I felt was the proper headspace. Eventually I became an owned faggot multiple times, trained relentlessly on several occasions, and developed a natural rhythm as a faggot that has persisted to this day.
However, that doesn’t mean I’ve stopped developing myself. Far from it! I’ve been unowned over the last few years due to a wide variety of circumstances (rescuing Baby Boy, surviving cancer, employment restructuring), but throughout that period of time I’ve tried to keep myself in what I’ve dubbed “Perpetual Subspace“. One way I did that was by voluntarily self-locking my skin tag in chastity two years ago. However, I’ve continued to do ass and throat training exercises, meditation, etc. in order to keep myself ready for service.
I know there are a lot of faggots out there who are unowned and have never been owned for whatever reason. However, that doesn’t mean you cannot experience the deep meaning of your faghood through self-training. In fact, I think this should be a vital aspect of of every faggot’s life regardless if they’re owned or not.
So I wanted to create a guide for unowned faggots in order to help steer them toward purpose and (hopefully) prepare them for service.
PHYSICAL TRAINING
There are certain physical demands placed upon a faggot by most Alphas. It’s important that a faggot work toward certain physical benchmarks in order to be of service.
WEIGHT: Yeah, I know … why must Alphas be so shallow, right? Well, it’s because they are superior Men, and they deserve the best (and they know it). They don’t need to fuck or receive head from a fat faggot when there are ten other perky twink faggots ready to do the same thing. So be mindful of this. If you’re serious about serving, get into some sort of shape. I’m not saying you need to look like Tom Daley, but at least try to get rid of flab and develop an ass of some sort. This involves dieting and gym exercise.
STRETCHING: Faggots are tossed around and bent in a variety of ways while being used. However, it’s more than just being able to get your knees to your ears. It also means being able to arch your back and get into the Bitch Position on demand (and it will be demanded a lot ). This requires a lot of concentrated practice involving stretches designed to loosen those parts of the body. You need to get used to holding those positions while an Alpha is pounding you, too.
THROAT EXERCISES: A faggot is expected to deepthroat pretty regularly. Therefore it is necessary to heavily practice overcoming your gag reflex. I use a 7″ silicone dildo with balls to keep myself tuned up, and I still do that even though I’m currently serving as a straight Alpha’s cocksucker. So just imagine how important it is for a faggot without regular dick to use this method!
If you don’t have a dildo, you could possibly use a hard vegetable like a carrot for practice, but this is a choking hazard in my mind. Instead, use a large metal spoon to stimulate the back of your throat, and see if you can get used to controlling it. This will help you eventually overcome the reflex when you have actual dick in there.
Regardless of your method, practice swallowing when you feel gagging coming on. This will not only neutralize the reflex, but it will also encourage your throat to accept more cock into it.
This is a video from Throat-it-boy that shows the level of cocksucking most Alphas expect. Train yourself to get to this point.
ASS EXERCISES: You’ve heard me discuss Kegel exercises (which are primarily designed for vaginas) a number of times on this site. This is critical. These exercises will help your pussy retain strength over the coming years of abuse due to Alpha rutting. Kegel exercises are covered on this site and elsewhere on the internet, but a more ass-centric version of these exercises were “popularized” via a series of bizarre, uncomfortable instructional videos by Dr. Joe Kramer.
But there is more to ass training than muscle development. There is also hole training. This would ideally involve multiple sizes of silicone dildos or buttplugs. This will help to open the hole and relax the muscles for penetration. However, these devices can be used while inserted to develop the power of the anal muscles by clamping down on them repeatedly.
Get accustomed to how your ass works and how it can be used to provide pleasure!
MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL TRAINING
A lot goes into being a faggot. There are mental and emotional hurdles to overcome in order to fully submit to an Alpha and find true fulfillment in his service. Roughly, this can be broken down this way:
ADMIT YOU ARE A FAGGOT: Saying it out loud or repeating it as a mantra can help a faggot break down the mental and emotional barriers that prevent it from reaching acceptance and peace. I never had much of a problem here, but I’ve come to know many, many faggots still trapped behind this seemingly insignificant barrier. I’ve seen faggots CRY when they openly admit it for the first time. It is deeply meaningful.
So how can a faggot come to accept its truth? The most obvious way is to admit it vocally to other people. If you can’t do it in your personal circle, then find people online (Twitter or the FWA Discord are terrific free resources) to whom you can admit it. You’ll be surprised. Another way might be journaling this statement on paper. There is a technique for manifestation which relies on repeatedly writing a phrase on paper so that it will come true. Try writing “I am a faggot” repeatedly on paper and see how you feel.
ADMIT IT TO OTHERS: This goes in conjunction with the previous step, but here I’m advocating actually admitting it to people you know in your personal life as far as you’re able. It doesn’t need to be anything weird. It’s simply an admission of something you’ve come to realize about yourself. Do this helps to ground it and make it more real in your heart.
MEDITATION: I’ve come to find that quiet time spent meditating and visualizing what I want or need in my life helps to manifest them. In part, that’s because these become more powerful goals that I subconsciously pursue. Focus on the type of Owner you want to serve, and be specific. Visualize how you want to serve, what kind of faggot you yearn to be for him, and every detail of that life you desire. Then follow it up with action.
This focus of mind is important even down to certain physical acts. For instance, when I’m preparing to suck a dick I visualize myself so hungry to have the dick inside me that I push myself to swallow it, desperate to have it all inside me. It’s like the way an Olympic jumper visualizes how far he needs to leap, and his body stretches incredibly to achieve every last millimeter. You must WANT IT MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE.
LITTLE ACTS: Performing simple, discreet acts of service for Men during the course of every day can definitely help train a faggot’s mind to the important of always seeking to serve. Opening a door, getting a cup of coffee, offering a drink, getting a towel for an Alpha at the gym. These are simple things that might not mean anything to the Men, but it means the world to the faggot offering.
FINDOM: Far be in from me to advocate findom for faggots. I don’t particularly like how findom ruins both Alphas and faggots, which allows game playing as a substitute for real service and worship. HOWEVER, findom can be a useful starter for the true life of a faggot in the future. It can give new and frightened faggots their first taste of actual service to a Man. For true faggots, it never stops at simple financial transactions – they will eventually develop and want more. But, at the start, we need to experience SOMETHING.
CHASTITY: Ideally, a faggot would be locked in chastity by a Man taking ownership of it. However, an unowned faggot doesn’t have that luxury yet. Still, that doesn’t mean the unowned faggot can’t experience the profound revelation of being in chastity. The faggot can lock itself, try it out, and see what it does over time.
I’m the perfect advocate for this. Despite being a faggot for a couple of decades, I never had a Master who wanted to put me in chastity. I always considered it to be a silly fetish, and I also felt it was unnecessary since I had control over my dicklet and never masturbated or got hard around Men. But over the last couple of years, I really became embarrassed that I wasn’t caged. I felt like I was dishonoring true Alpha cock by leaving mine free and used the way Men used theirs.
So I locked up in March of 2020, and my perspective changed completely. It was like a colorblind person putting on Chromatic glasses and seeing the world in color for the first time. I suddenly became hyper-aware of the Men around me, how they strode confidently while I walked among them locked. It was definitely a transformational moment in my faghood, and that was after many years! So there’s no reason why this should not be an option for unowned or virgin faggots as well.
I really hope this guide helps my unowned brothers find ways to expand their confidence and appreciation of the important Hierarchical role Nature has called them to play. Just keep in mind: your faghood isn’t something that happens to you like a disease. It is already part of you. So find ways to become better at understanding it and enhancing it so that you’ll be ready to fulfill it whenever you get the chance!
The following letter is intended to be a message from a faggot to an Alpha the faggot wishes to serve. If you are an Alpha who has been sent a link to this, then please read this as if the faggot wrote it to you personally. Thank you, Sir.
Sir,
Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to explain myself to you. All I ask is that you please consider my sincere request, Sir.
If you don’t already know, I am a faggot. I was born a faggot, and my purpose as a faggot is to serve and please Men. I believe Men fall into a Hierarchy, and as a faggot I am at the bottom of of that Hierarchy. As an Alpha, you Sir are at the top.
Some of this probably feels natural. I’m sure you’ve noticed how people show you favor in your everyday life, how you easily get what you want from others whether it be money, jobs, or sex. That’s Hierarchy in action, Sir. As an Alpha, you were born to receive this kind of worship and service. It’s the Natural Order of Hierarchy.
As a faggot, I believe I was naturally born to be a submissive servant of Alphas like you. That service can involve whatever you need, Sir. I simply want to make you happy and make your life better.
I know this sounds crazy, Sir. but I am serious about this.
Now that you know this about me, I would appreciate a chance to further discuss this with you, Sir. I’m happy to answer your questions and work out ways I might serve you and your needs.
