Thanks for the question! Yours is officially the first one on the new site!

I was wondering how many faggots (and Alphas) would respond to that information about agonophilia. I know a lot of faggots get off on being beaten, so I figured some would be triggered by it. As far as your central question, let’s be honest – most faggots are in hiding and are extremely embarrassed about their needs. After all, it’s not exactly something that one brings up at a family reunion or in the work breakroom.

That being said, I am someone who has almost completely integrated being a faggot with my exterior life. I’ve never been shy or socially intimidated, so I simply let people know (when asked) that I’m a faggot. Nervous laughter follows, but then some healthy conversation usually occurs afterward.

But I realize I’m an outlier and not the norm when it comes to this. In the real world, a faggot needs to pick his battles and reveal the truth to those he can trust. That doesn’t make a faggot any less than he is (after all, he’s a faggot!). You shouldn’t feel shame because you’re hiding some part of yourself right now. It’ll come when it’s the right time for you, not for anyone else’s expectations.

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When I began chronicling the faggot Nick’s startling service opportunity with a straight neighbor by using the Hierarchy Podcast as an introduction, I mentioned that I had another story involving Nick. I pushed it aside (as it wasn’t ready yet) so I could accurately cover the rapidly-developing events with the neighbor, but I always intended to get back to it.

This is that other story. It’s a rather melancholy (yet eye-opening) tale about Nick’s relationship with his Alpha Father Tom.

When Nick first contacted me, he wanted my guidance on how to submit to his Alpha Father Tom. I didn’t think this was a particularly good idea for many obvious reasons, and did my best to discourage him.

However, Nick could not be deterred. He was fueled by family gossip stories about his father using faggots in the past.

I found out a lot of history about him from my aunt when she was drunk one night. He cheated on my mom a lot, always took what he claimed was his and was his right. And she let slip that he had several submissive men in his pocket for regular affairs over the years too. He knows what he wants, what he deserves and how to get it. It was pretty much spelled out for me without going totally explicit. I know he cares and wants what’s best for me so I want to build anything around that.

So I thought it might be better if Nick talked to his father and see where he’s at on these issues before completely submitting to him. So Nick agreed to talk to him, and so they met up for a conversation.

A FATHER’S INTUITION

I met with my dad this morning and it went OK. He managed to say enough to me to get his points across without explicitly spelling it out. He basically told me yes he had faggots on the side and he knows he’s an alpha and I’m definitely not without using the exact words. I approached him very submissive with my speech and body language and told him I knew I was not like him, that he was a man’s man and I was happy finding my place as the flip side of the coin.

He got quiet and really serious and told me he had known I was like this for a long time and for a long time was disappointed I wasn’t a man and was also scared about how that could go for me. That’s why he brought me up trying to drill the contrary advice to what makes me a good faggot in the end. He was concerned how I would find myself.

I managed to get the courage to ask him about his past a bit. I asked him “you know a lot Sir, do you have first hand knowledge of people like me?” and that’s when he got a little elusive with his language. He basically admitted that in the past he got what he wanted and did what he wanted with who he wanted that the past was more his business but that I should trust his wisdom and experience.

He’s happy I’ve fallen into line and expressing myself thusly and less worried now that I’m my own adult. but he is content now with my step mom and whatever he’s got going on. When I paid for the food he just said. “right, good boy” and it felt good.

While it wasn’t everything he hoped the conversation might be, Nick was fairly content with the answers he received.

A little relieved and let down at the same time. He made it pretty clear the discussion was over and he didn’t seem like he wanted it picked back up. Just to kind of give me the nod and say, carry on. I would have liked for more intimate info and experiences but it went better than I thought it could.

I was relieved it went that well. I know a conversation like that could never happen with my father. I really admired Nick’s tenacity in the hunt for answers about his elusive Alpha father.

Then the podcast thing happened with the neighbor, and the story about the father temporarily derailed.

But recently Nick spent more time with Alpha Tom, and there Nick found out deeper and more startling information.

I had another conversation with my dad I thought might be worth sharing with you. We got more candid about the topic of subtle training, it ties into my history with him. We started talking about how I’m happier now and relationships and fulfillment and I told him I think I understand what he was thinking when he tried to raise me, and what I really am. I asked him if he knew if he was ashamed of me growing up and he told me he wasn’t that he knew I wasn’t a manly person and that even though it didn’t seem always seem like he believed it or encouraged it that he wanted me to feel content with who I am, just safe. I mentioned that the opposite of a lot of what he went about was the perfect advice and he sort of chuckled and told me he just wanted me safe but he thought he fed me correct info too and he brought up some ways he also sort of trained me to be submissive I sort of forgot about and he was right.

Looking back he did sort of feed me good instructions to be a faggot, but in more subtle ways. He asked me if I had found a man to fill my place with and I told him, “a little, but it’s over now” and he told me, “good boy, I hope you find some more.” He brought up training things around posture, politeness, how to look for people, how to “get small” as he called it.

“Get small” … I LOVE THAT!

He was right though. He taught me to look out for alphas, how to posture myself, how to talk with them, and all that and I never really realized to what extent. I always keep my hands folded behind me, address men politely, and go out of my way for them. He taught me real men are worth the most.

Incredible!

But then Nick had another conversation with his aunt (Alpha Tom’s sister), and she provided even more insight into Alpha Tom’s mysterious past.

THE HISTORY OF ALPHA TOM

I got my aunt drunk and she told me a bit more about my dad’s history, and it’s kinda hot, lol but I still don’t think he wants me like that. But things make sense. Well, the two of them are really close in age and get a long well. They lived together as younger adults and through college so she figured him out easily. She told me he’s never been a one partner person. That he’s never been fulfilled. She’s seen men and women come and go and that the men were always very passive. That she once overheard him go at it. He had faggots up until my younger sister was little. She saw the same one around him for years when they lived together. That he was a classmate that he was “friends” with first but the guy transformed around him eventually.

CONCLUSION

I have been blessed to cover a number of stories involving Alpha fathers raising faggot sons. They never fail to touch me. I guess it’s because I’ll always wonder and never know what my father (who’s not Alpha, but probably sub-Alpha) understood about me being a faggot as a kid.

But this story really hit me in the heart because you can feel a weight of disappointment from Alpha Tom, but also the responsibility he felt to try and help his faggot son in whatever way he could.

Ultimately, this great and wise Alpha did the best he could, and he should be proud of the faggot Nick has become today!

Cunting is one of the most profound moments in the life of a faggot. It is the line of demarcation between the world of Men and the world of true faggotry. Once a faggot has been cunted, there is simply no way to return to the world of Men and Manhood. The cunting utterly destroys that possibility forever. 

I’ve written about cunting many times before, most notably in the article “Being Cunted” (READ HERE). There are many signs that indicate cunting, including uncontrollable shaking or reverse rutting. There is also a kind of momentary paralysis, and occasionally weeping.

Regardless of the reaction, the faggot is altered mentally and emotionally by the experience, which is unlike anything Men typically experience. To put it in more organic terms, a cunting is probably as close to a female orgasm as a male can get. Hence the name. A faggot’s hole is transformed into a pussy, a cunt. And it will never be the same.

I think the one aspect of a cunting that seems to be universally experienced by cunted faggots is something I call “The Void.” When a male sticks something in his ass or even gets fucked, he moves on with his life largely unchanged. 

But a cunted faggot ends up with The Void inside its pussy, a space where cock was and belongs again. The Void is constantly craving to be filled with cock again, to feel that sense of fullness and completion. Without cock, The Void is like a black hole, a howling vortex aching to be stuffed full of cock. 

It’s an ache deep inside the faggot’s pussy. It keeps the faggot awake at night, yearning to be penetrated. Sometimes the rim of the faggot’s pussy tickles, teasing the faggot to stick fingers into it or find a cock willing to fuck it. 

Cunted faggots are like converted vampires, damned to a life of neverending hunger to fill The Void that drives their need.

Of the many ways Men and Alphas control faggots – sexual use, scent training, discipline, chores – cunting is the most permanent and profound, mainly because of The Void. There will always be an empty space inside that cunted faggot, a space reserved for the Man who did the cunting. 

The Void is the truest mark of Ownership.

You’ve probably read the term “cunted” used in reference to a gay bottom receiving a Man’s cock. While the term definitely refers to that act, there is more to being cunted than simply being fucked by a Man.  Cunting is a total transformation of a faggot physically, mentally, emotionally, and sexually through hard fucking that triggers a deep internal orgasm.

Let’s first be honest: mechanically speaking, any male can be fucked in the ass. Every male has an asshole that can be opened wide enough to accept a dick-sized object.

Let’s imagine that all males on Earth had to be fucked in the ass one time. The vast majority of males would not enjoy it at all, and most would hate it. They would actively rebel against the entry, fight against the very idea of taking a dick in their ass. If it brings some pleasure to certain males, why would most Men actively fight against this act?

Because being fucked in the ass says much about a male’s place within the human hierarchy. When a Man is fucked in the ass, he is emasculated in a way that differentiates him from other Men. A Man is meant to penetrate. A Man who is penetrated (like a female) is considered a “lesser” Man, even if that penetration occurred during a rape. It is the nature of how Men view the act of being penetrated.

However, the act of being penetrated and fucked by another Man doesn’t always change the personality of the recipient. Many gay bottoms receive dick, but they are still Men in that they are active in their sex life and still seek their own pleasure. They very often still use their dicks to receive pleasure. They are generally an equal in their relationships and their sexual encounters.

But some males are fucked so deeply and aggressively that they are changed forever. They no longer seek their own pleasure. Their assholes become their true sex organ. The desire to penetrate with their penis – the primary means of pleasure for most Men – is taken away, replaced by the desire to be penetrated.

So how does this happen? During a powerful, aggressive rut an Alpha can angle his cock so that it strikes the faggot’s prostate as he penetrates the second ring. The intensity builds until the faggot is triggered into having an internal orgasm until it is overwhelmed. Symptoms of cunting vary, but generally involve unconsciousness, trembling/shaking, uncontrollable emotions, fits of deep weeping. It’s very dramatic, and for an unprepared Alpha it can be alarming.

Here is a video about cunting I produced:

The rape I endured might be considered a cunting, but it didn’t alter my mental state enough at the time. I fought against the feelings of being penetrated and taken in that fashion. A true cunting involves more than simple penetration … it involves the mind and heart of the male being cunted.

I wasn’t cunted properly until Alpha Chris owned me a few years after the rape. What was the difference? Well, Alpha Chris had already fucked my mind through our previous encounters, so when he finally fucked my ass he had me in the proper mental state. When he fucked me, he did so with a controlled aggressiveness that forced me to give up any residual masculine resistance. Suddenly I felt this involuntary clenching inside me accompanied by a tingly warmth that spread through my body. It was so surprising and wondrous that I nearly lost consciousness. I just laid beneath him, absorbing his thrusts even though I wasn’t in my body anymore. Then I gasped for air, just realizing I had been holding my breath. Returning to consciousness, I felt him cumming inside me. Nothing mattered anymore. I was claimed inside and out by this powerful young Alpha. I was suddenly everything and nothing. A slave to the Man whose cock took away whatever it was I once thought about myself.

By the time he was finished pounding me, any lingering idea that I was a Man had disappeared. After that, I completely understood that my hole was my sex organ, and my purpose was to offer it in whatever way a Man demanded. That is what a true cunting does to a male – it emasculates a male and transforms him into a object only to be penetrated.

And once that cunting occurs, there is no going back.

I recently received a frantic series of text messages from Michael, the new faggot of Master Matt.

“Sam, my pussy has changed shape!” he exclaimed worriedly.

Knowing what Michael’s new pussy had been through recently with Master Matt’s giant cock, I understood the issue instantly. “Yes, I know,” I replied, “it’s okay.”

“But Sam, it looks like a pussy! Master said it looks like a real pussy!” he repeated.

“It’s okay, brother. It’s normal.”

One of the great miracles that comes from a Man fucking and cunting a faggot is the actual transformation of the faggot’s body into something unique in the human family. The faggot turns into a slave, an object, the personal property of a Man through physiological and metabolic changes resulting from deep breeding. And, from a physical standpoint, the faggot’s throat effectively becomes a Fleshlight.

And, most crucially, the faggot’s hole becomes a literal pussy.

As the picture above shows, a well-fucked fag hole becomes slit-like and develops “lips” around the rim. The muscles inside the faggot’s pussy become trained to mimic the stroking necessary to bring the Alpha to orgasm the way a female vagina does.

This new pussy, when combined with chastity of the faggot’s dicklet and/or jockstrap, makes the faggot appear most feminine. This physical transformation of the faggot’s body makes it more palatable for Men, particularly straight Men who like the look and feel of female vagina.

And this creation of a female-like pussy from the hole of a faggot is caused solely by the power of Alpha cock!

And Men love the look of a faggot’s pussy!

Some faggots object to the use of the term “pussy” to describe their hole, but as I’ve shown, active faggots do indeed develop a pussy by natural means through intense sessions of fucking and breeding. So the term is not only appropriate, but also necessary in order to describe its true function.

Faggots are a natural part of the Hierarchy, and like all things in Nature, the form fits the function. Through the fulfillment of its purpose a faggot naturally develops a pussy as part of its transformation into the thing Nature intended it to be.

Like poor Michael, this change can be shocking at first, even scary. But it is merely Nature’s way of remaking a faggot into a tool and piece of property useful to satisfy the needs of Men.

So rejoice in your pussies, by faggot brothers! Be proud! Your purpose in life is being fulfilled!

Subspace is one of those aspects of the Dom/sub experience that few people truly understand, and even fewer appreciate its power. It’s the power source at the center of Hierarchical exchanges. Without subspace, there would be no ability for a Dominant to overpower and control a submissive, to break into their minds, or help them achieve a sense of purpose in service.

One Alpha recently compared subspace to hypnosis, and the comparison is apt. Like hypnosis, bringing a submissive into subspace involves control and skill, but also great responsibility. In deeper levels of subspace a submissive’s mind and heart unlock, its resistance fades, and many things thought unimaginable become possible.

If I sound a little mystical about subspace, it’s for good reason. Mishandled subspace has led to broken and destroyed lives. On the other hand, carefully nurtured subspace can lead to tremendous fulfillment.

WHAT IS SUBSPACE?

This is a definition I quite like:

Subspace is a metaphor for the state the submissive’s minds and bodies are in during a deeply involving play scene. Many types of BDSM play invoke strong physical responses. The mental aspect of BDSM also causes many submissives to mentally separate themselves from their environment as they process the experience. Deep subspace is often characterized as a state of deep recession and incoherence. Deep subspace may also cause a danger in newer submissives who are unfamiliar with the experience, and require the dominant to keep a careful watch to ensure the submissive isn’t placing him or herself in danger. Many submissives require aftercare.

Notice the disassociative quality of subspace, this disconnection of the mind from the body. This is caused by a very natural process in the body ordinarily triggered by dangerous circumstances.

WHY DOES SUBSPACE OCCUR?

When a human being is confronted by some dramatic or traumatic moment, the body releases chemicals into the blood stream as part of a process known as the “fight or flight” response. Endorphins and enkephalins are dumped into the bloodstream, producing a weightless, out-of-body rush of pleasure. This can last for hours afterward.

This dump of endorphins can occur during pleasurable-but-taxing sexual experiences such as being fucked or sucking dick just as easily as it can during violent and aggressive situations like rape.

THE EFFECTS OF SUBSPACE

It’s the “fight or flight” response shielding that allows faggots (who are extremely submissive males) to perform tremendous (and occasionally shocking and extreme) acts of service. While in “fight or flight”-induced subspace faggots are extremely open to suggestion and will often mindlessly do things that they might never do in their everyday life.

More from the definition of subspace above:

Producing a sort of trance-like state due to the increase of hormones and chemicals, the submissive starts to feel out-of-body, detached from reality, and as the high comes down, and the parasympathetic nervous system kicks in, a deep exhaustion, as well as incoherence. Many submissives once reaching a height of subspace will lose all sensation of pain, as any stimulus causes the period to prolong.

This detachment from reality allows subs and faggots to go much farther in risky behaviors. We see this extreme behavior quite readily in findom. Faggots deep in subspace have surrendered many thousands of dollars in financial drains to online Alphas, only to regret it once they snap out of it.

HOW CAN WE DEFINE “PERPETUAL SUBSPACE”?

I’ve been owned multiple times in my life, including a few stints as a live-in faggot. To accomplish this, I had to get into a state I call “perpetual subspace” (another term could be “persistent subspace”). It’s sort of a low-level, neverending state of subspace in which the faggot is on a constant high due to even the most mundane of tasks (like doing the dishes, or cleaning a bathroom). The faggot’s Master is never far from the faggot’s mind during the course of every day while in perpetual subspace. Everything the faggot does goes to honor its Master.

I liken perpetual subspace to a type of white noise that drives a faggot forward in constant service to its Owner. Think of it in the same terms as listening to the sound of rain or other types of background noise in order to fall asleep. Perpetual subspace is that low-level hum by which the faggot accomplishes much in service.

PERPETUAL SUBSPACE – THE IDEAL STATE

Whenever I was owned in my life and in a state of perpetual subspace, I felt comforted and at peace. My worries were few since my Master took care of me and all I truly focused on were the tasks that my Master expected me to accomplish. Regardless of how menial they were, each task brought me satisfaction because I knew it was pleasing to my Master.

It was easy to keep me in perpetual subspace once it began. My Master running his fingers through my hair and telling me I was a “good boy” or a “good faggot” was enough to sustain the state in me for weeks. Sexual service/worship sessions were obviously part of that as well. All of these stimuli combined to keep me under perpetual subspace, a state that allowed me to accomplish a lot in service, as well as remain pliable to suggestions when my Master wanted to share me with his friends or make me do things I might not ordinarily do (piss drinking and ass licking experiences started under perpetual subspace of a Master).

For Alphas and Masters, perpetual subspace should be the goal. It is the ultimate level of power, for you hold the total life of the faggot under your control.

Ever since I first realized my faghood when I was 17 years old, I’ve always embraced learning and practicing my craft. I just had this need to get better, understand my own motivations, and remain in what I felt was the proper headspace. Eventually I became an owned faggot multiple times, trained relentlessly on several occasions, and developed a natural rhythm as a faggot that has persisted to this day.

However, that doesn’t mean I’ve stopped developing myself. Far from it! I’ve been unowned over the last few years due to a wide variety of circumstances (rescuing Baby Boy, surviving cancer, employment restructuring), but throughout that period of time I’ve tried to keep myself in what I’ve dubbed “Perpetual Subspace“. One way I did that was by voluntarily self-locking my skin tag in chastity two years ago. However, I’ve continued to do ass and throat training exercises, meditation, etc. in order to keep myself ready for service.

I know there are a lot of faggots out there who are unowned and have never been owned for whatever reason. However, that doesn’t mean you cannot experience the deep meaning of your faghood through self-training. In fact, I think this should be a vital aspect of of every faggot’s life regardless if they’re owned or not.

So I wanted to create a guide for unowned faggots in order to help steer them toward purpose and (hopefully) prepare them for service.

PHYSICAL TRAINING

There are certain physical demands placed upon a faggot by most Alphas. It’s important that a faggot work toward certain physical benchmarks in order to be of service.

WEIGHT: Yeah, I know … why must Alphas be so shallow, right? Well, it’s because they are superior Men, and they deserve the best (and they know it). They don’t need to fuck or receive head from a fat faggot when there are ten other perky twink faggots ready to do the same thing. So be mindful of this. If you’re serious about serving, get into some sort of shape. I’m not saying you need to look like Tom Daley, but at least try to get rid of flab and develop an ass of some sort. This involves dieting and gym exercise.

STRETCHING: Faggots are tossed around and bent in a variety of ways while being used. However, it’s more than just being able to get your knees to your ears. It also means being able to arch your back and get into the Bitch Position on demand (and it will be demanded a lot ). This requires a lot of concentrated practice involving stretches designed to loosen those parts of the body. You need to get used to holding those positions while an Alpha is pounding you, too.

THROAT EXERCISES: A faggot is expected to deepthroat pretty regularly. Therefore it is necessary to heavily practice overcoming your gag reflex. I use a 7″ silicone dildo with balls to keep myself tuned up, and I still do that even though I’m currently serving as a straight Alpha’s cocksucker. So just imagine how important it is for a faggot without regular dick to use this method!

If you don’t have a dildo, you could possibly use a hard vegetable like a carrot for practice, but this is a choking hazard in my mind. Instead, use a large metal spoon to stimulate the back of your throat, and see if you can get used to controlling it. This will help you eventually overcome the reflex when you have actual dick in there.

Regardless of your method, practice swallowing when you feel gagging coming on. This will not only neutralize the reflex, but it will also encourage your throat to accept more cock into it.

This is a video from Throat-it-boy that shows the level of cocksucking most Alphas expect. Train yourself to get to this point.

ASS EXERCISES: You’ve heard me discuss Kegel exercises (which are primarily designed for vaginas) a number of times on this site. This is critical. These exercises will help your pussy retain strength over the coming years of abuse due to Alpha rutting. Kegel exercises are covered on this site and elsewhere on the internet, but a more ass-centric version of these exercises were “popularized” via a series of bizarre, uncomfortable instructional videos by Dr. Joe Kramer.

But there is more to ass training than muscle development. There is also hole training. This would ideally involve multiple sizes of silicone dildos or buttplugs. This will help to open the hole and relax the muscles for penetration. However, these devices can be used while inserted to develop the power of the anal muscles by clamping down on them repeatedly.

There’s also a way to stretch your asshole so you can accommodate larger dicks and increased use. It’s the Chopstick Method pioneered by Caged Jock. I detailed it here: https://hierarchyuniversity.com/caged-jock-how-to-stretch-a-fags-hole/

Get accustomed to how your ass works and how it can be used to provide pleasure!

MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL TRAINING

A lot goes into being a faggot. There are mental and emotional hurdles to overcome in order to fully submit to an Alpha and find true fulfillment in his service. Roughly, this can be broken down this way:

ADMIT YOU ARE A FAGGOT: Saying it out loud or repeating it as a mantra can help a faggot break down the mental and emotional barriers that prevent it from reaching acceptance and peace. I never had much of a problem here, but I’ve come to know many, many faggots still trapped behind this seemingly insignificant barrier. I’ve seen faggots CRY when they openly admit it for the first time. It is deeply meaningful.

So how can a faggot come to accept its truth? The most obvious way is to admit it vocally to other people. If you can’t do it in your personal circle, then find people online (Twitter or the FWA Discord are terrific free resources) to whom you can admit it. You’ll be surprised. Another way might be journaling this statement on paper. There is a technique for manifestation which relies on repeatedly writing a phrase on paper so that it will come true. Try writing “I am a faggot” repeatedly on paper and see how you feel.

ADMIT IT TO OTHERS: This goes in conjunction with the previous step, but here I’m advocating actually admitting it to people you know in your personal life as far as you’re able. It doesn’t need to be anything weird. It’s simply an admission of something you’ve come to realize about yourself. Do this helps to ground it and make it more real in your heart.

MEDITATION: I’ve come to find that quiet time spent meditating and visualizing what I want or need in my life helps to manifest them. In part, that’s because these become more powerful goals that I subconsciously pursue. Focus on the type of Owner you want to serve, and be specific. Visualize how you want to serve, what kind of faggot you yearn to be for him, and every detail of that life you desire. Then follow it up with action.

This focus of mind is important even down to certain physical acts. For instance, when I’m preparing to suck a dick I visualize myself so hungry to have the dick inside me that I push myself to swallow it, desperate to have it all inside me. It’s like the way an Olympic jumper visualizes how far he needs to leap, and his body stretches incredibly to achieve every last millimeter. You must WANT IT MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE.

LITTLE ACTS: Performing simple, discreet acts of service for Men during the course of every day can definitely help train a faggot’s mind to the important of always seeking to serve. Opening a door, getting a cup of coffee, offering a drink, getting a towel for an Alpha at the gym. These are simple things that might not mean anything to the Men, but it means the world to the faggot offering.

FINDOM: Far be in from me to advocate findom for faggots. I don’t particularly like how findom ruins both Alphas and faggots, which allows game playing as a substitute for real service and worship. HOWEVER, findom can be a useful starter for the true life of a faggot in the future. It can give new and frightened faggots their first taste of actual service to a Man. For true faggots, it never stops at simple financial transactions – they will eventually develop and want more. But, at the start, we need to experience SOMETHING.

CHASTITY: Ideally, a faggot would be locked in chastity by a Man taking ownership of it. However, an unowned faggot doesn’t have that luxury yet. Still, that doesn’t mean the unowned faggot can’t experience the profound revelation of being in chastity. The faggot can lock itself, try it out, and see what it does over time.

I’m the perfect advocate for this. Despite being a faggot for a couple of decades, I never had a Master who wanted to put me in chastity. I always considered it to be a silly fetish, and I also felt it was unnecessary since I had control over my dicklet and never masturbated or got hard around Men. But over the last couple of years, I really became embarrassed that I wasn’t caged. I felt like I was dishonoring true Alpha cock by leaving mine free and used the way Men used theirs.

So I locked up in March of 2020, and my perspective changed completely. It was like a colorblind person putting on Chromatic glasses and seeing the world in color for the first time. I suddenly became hyper-aware of the Men around me, how they strode confidently while I walked among them locked. It was definitely a transformational moment in my faghood, and that was after many years! So there’s no reason why this should not be an option for unowned or virgin faggots as well.

I really hope this guide helps my unowned brothers find ways to expand their confidence and appreciation of the important Hierarchical role Nature has called them to play. Just keep in mind: your faghood isn’t something that happens to you like a disease. It is already part of you. So find ways to become better at understanding it and enhancing it so that you’ll be ready to fulfill it whenever you get the chance!

love,

sam the faggot

Hi, thanks for writing! 

Yes, those are certainly possible signs of being a faggot. The first one could also apply to beta males, but the second one certainly seems like the machinations of a faggot.

I have written a book to help people figure out whether or not they’re a faggot. It’s called “Are You A Faggot?”, and it’s available right now right here: https://fagsworshipalphas.gumroad.com/l/VmrBwe

Hope that helps! 

Love,

sam the faggot

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The 6 stages of taking it up the ass:

1. The “oofff” moment
2. Acceptance
3. Loss of control
4. Feeling his cum in your chute
5. Relief
6. Joy

(From @brohighness)

My dear brother Caged Jock (@cagedjock) has been teaching faggots about the chastity lifestyle for more than ten years. He’s been an inspiration to me on my chastity journey, and his innovations are legendary.

His greatest innovation is the chopstick method of hole stretching detailed in the video above. I love this so much that I immediately had Caged Jock on the podcast to discuss it in detail.

The method is labor-intensive, but I believe it would result in a properly-dilated hole without a lot of the severe pain.

Try it!

This post is part of a thread following the story of Sir James, a straight married Man coming to understand and embrace the faghood of his beloved son. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

A lot has happened in the past week for Jamie, the faggot son of Sir James. In fact, I probably could’ve broken this up over a couple of posts as it was happening, but I had to make sure that Sir James was in the loop and agreeable before discussing it here.

Suffice it to say that Sir James has truly blazed a new path for fathers of faggot sons, completely redefining what it means to be a supportive and caring Dad. Let’s get into this update in parts:

THE GIRLFRIEND’S MOTHER

You might remember in the last update that Master Bill, the Apex of the three teen Alphas taking ownership of Jamie, had made the bold move of showing Jamie’s chastity cage to his girlfriend at Jamie’s pool party. Understandably, the girlfriend was shocked and (apparently) unamused, because she went home and told her mother about the cage. Mind you, Master Bill did not tell her that Jamie was his faggot. All he did was show her the cage.

The next night the girlfriend’s mother banged on Sir James’s front door, absolutely furious about Jamie being locked in chastity.

Sir James described it this way, in his typical understated way:

We did have a little incident with the Mother of Bill’s girlfriend. She was Karen you know the type who jumps to conclusions before she knows any of the facts. But I was so proud to see Bill step up and stand by my baby boy.

It was much worse than that. 

While the mother raged in the other room, Jamie was hiding in his room texting to me.

Bill’s girlfriend’s mum was over this evening. I am in my bedroom and some how it has got out that Bill has a faggot and it is me. The bitch (Bill’s girlfriend) was telling her mum about the pool party and that I am a perverted because of my cage. Bills Girlfriend Mom is in our kitchen right now. Sam, Lots of yelling.

Then, most heartbreakingly, Jamie added:

I am a pervert for being caged.

There ‘s no reason why Jamie should ever be made to feel that way about his faghood or his submission by some ignorant “Karen” and her cruelty! I’m with Sir James – Jamie’s chastity is BEAUTIFUL!

Fortunately Sir James knew exactly what to do with this bitch.

Dad just told her to take a hike and come back when she had cooled down. Dad just threw her out.

FUCK YES!

THE BREAKUP

Sir James wasn’t the only one defending Jamie. Master Bill was furious about what his girlfriend’s mother did. Of course, Jamie was worried about what this unwarranted attack meant for his relationship with his new Master.

“Do you think Bill will have to pick just one of us now?” asked Jamie right after the bitch left. I really didn’t know what might happen. Here’s Master Bill, a young, straight Alpha who has just started owning a faggot, being called out by his girlfriend’s mother. I know a lot of straight Alphas would’ve ditched the faggot for the girlfriend (in fact, I’ve been the dumped faggot before!).

Not Master Bill!

I received a couple of texts from Jamie shortly after the incident.

Bill just text me. I am going to be his bitch. Bill has finished with his girlfriend.

I was so proud to hear that Master Bill chose his devoted faggot over his close-minded girlfriend and her Karen of a mother! I have no doubt that Sir James’s calm, casual interactions with Master Bill eased his mind and made him comfortable enough to stand up for his defenseless faggot!

DEFLOWERING

As a way to heal any wounds caused by the Karen drama, Sir James invited Master Bill over for dinner the following night.

Jamie was so excited. He bought some candles to decorate his room. He studied the article here entitled The Bitch Position and began practicing it with a dildo. Everything seemed to be ready for something to happen!

The next morning came this:

Sam Bill took my pussy last night! I was born for this!

So then he went into detail about the moment he shared with his new Master:

Bill came over for dinner and I was so happy to see him. We had a nice time over dinner and then I got to take Bill up to my bedroom. I had lit candles and it looked so romantic but he just stood there and said get to work faggot so I got on my knees and got to work.

When I had him hard (which did not take long) He pushed me to the bed and gently pulled down my shorts. I just had my new jockstrap on. He put me face down and I got into position. Soon I could feel his big cock around my ring, then pushing on it. It felt mind blowing! Then before I new it he was all the way in. He said “that’s a good little bitch,” then He then stroked in and out going balls deep. And I would squeal. When he did cum I could feel it deep inside me.

Then when he pulled out I had a reflex action to suck it clean. Bill said that was just amazing and his girl would never ever do that for him. I was mind blowing! He did not stay to long after that.

Before leaving, Master Bill told his faggot to be ready to accompany him to the gym in the morning.

Sir James wrote to me today to give his side of it.

I do believe he may have taken my boy’s virginity last night. As my boy was clearly on a high this morning and could not get to the gym fast enough this morning to meet his master. It is so uplifting to see my boy so happy. He was running about the house like a little girl as Bill was walking up the driveway.  I am so happy that my boy does not resent me for putting him in chastity. And is also taking to heart how important it is for him to find true fulfilment. 

AN ALPHA TAKES WHAT’S HIS

So they went to the gym, but all Jamie came away from during that time was “Master looked amazing.” But Master Bill had other plans besides working out at the gym.

Sam, Bill is coming over to fuck again.

And that’s exactly what Master Bill did! A little while later, an update from Jamie:

Bill told me that I am one hell off a good fuck. He said he needed to dump a big load. He even helped me get undressed and get into position. He put me on my back for part of it and that was just mind blowing! Told me I have to learn to hold my legs up. My jockstrap was all wet with my precum when he left. He cums so fast was all done in less than 20 minutes. I do love to lick his cock clean after he has finished. He is like a god to me. I called him Master for the first time and he loved it.

A GOOD FAGGOT

Jamie received an immediate test of his loyalty to the Master who just deflowered and bred him twice.

Damion just messaged me for service. Do you think I should ask Bill if it okay now? I really do see Bill as my Master now

I left it up to Jamie to decide how to properly handle etiquette in this new situation.

Sounds like Master is pleased I took the time to ask him. Master said blow jobs only for Jacob and Damion.

I’m so proud of Jamie for choosing the correct path as an owned faggot! That was exactly the correct thing to do!

TRANSFORMATION

Through everything we’ve seen with Jamie and his father Sir James, we can know there is a way to raise a faggot son and guide him to fulfillment. It’s not always easy, but peace lies at the end of that pathway.

It becomes quite clear when we consider Jamie’s chastity. When Jamie was originally caged by his father, Jamie struggled against it. Fortunately Sir James stood firm on the side of chastity, convinced that his son would eventually become what he was born to be through consistent use of the cage.

At one point Jamie was becoming resentful of his chastity cage, grumbling to me that his father wouldn’t give him any free time alone without the cage on. I kept patiently reminding him (as was Sir James) that this was the better course.

But it was only when Jamie was finally fucked and bred by Master Bill that everything regarding chastity became clear for Jamie. He said this:

I feel so much better and have a much better understanding of my chastity. I can see how we get to the point that we cannot live without it now. My chastity is all starting to make sense to me now. I do not think Bill would have picked me over his girl if I was not in chastity. Dad and you was right all along It is the best way to show the proper respect to real men and alphas.

I couldn’t be any prouder of Sir James and Jamie for the way they have conducted themselves on Jamie’s journey to find fulfillment! They’ve defended Truth both personal and Hierarchical, even against the ravings of stupid people in the general population.

They’ve chosen the higher, enlightened road, and their lives will be richer for it!

This post is part of a thread following the story of Sir James, a straight married Man coming to understand and embrace the faghood of his beloved son. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

I have spent the last few days compiling information from Sir James and also his 16-year-old son as this situation has continued to increase in complexity and intensity. This is shaping up to be one of the most touching and overwhelming stories I’ve ever covered here, one that really speaks to the power of love between parents and their child, and the importance of putting aside preconceptions in order to best help those in need.

In the last post, I discussed how Sir James took the lead with his faggot son Jamie (another faggot named Jamie on this site!) and put the chastity cage on him for the first time. The chastity cage was something given to Jamie by the three straight school Alphas he services all the time.

Of course, these three straight high school Alphas (names: Master Bill, and Alphas Jacob and Damion) are not yet equipped to properly handle the training and maintenance of an owned faggot; they just like the faggot’s throat. So Sir James has had to take the lead in enforcing the rules for faggots, and he’s been doing so with an impressive firmness.

I can see that having a faggot for a son also comes with its challenges. When he got back from soccer practice he asked me to take his cage off. And I had to take the time to explain to him that faggots in my house stay caged and how could he think of disrespecting his alphas in this way. We had an argument and I sent him to his room to cool off for a few hours to cool down. We had a better time over dinner and he asked if he can have a sleepover next week. So I told him that it is fine with it but the cage is not coming off. 

I was impressed at how Sir James tied the cage with respect for Alphas! This should always be the primary reason why a faggot is in chastity, so this was excellent!

Then Sir James upped the ante on the sleepover idea:

Thank you for getting back to me. I told my boy that we will be having a pool party next weekend and he will be hosting it for is mates and their girlfriends, I was thinking it is a good way for me to showcase my little faggot in a very good light and positive way.  I did do a lot of reading on chastity for faggots and your words also reflect my understanding.  It was one of my proudest moments when my boy showed his Alpha his cage and got a loving head rub. As it was for my boy too.  I did tell him about you and that I now have a very good understanding of how faggots think and it is in large part due to your site. This weekend past I do seem to have bonded with my boy like nothing else. So I am feeling very happy as up until this past weekend he was starting to drift away and it was the fact that he is a faggot that he was drifting away.

It made me happy to hear that Sir James and his son were bonding again, healing a rift that secret faghood was causing between them! This is what TRUTH does!

During all of this I started a separate conversation with Jamie (with Sir James’s approval). I was trying to coach Jamie through the things his father was enforcing. Then something unexpected happened – Sir James invited Master Bill (the Apex Alpha of the three using Jamie) over to the house for dinner!

Said Jamie:

We are having Bill over for dinner tonight. My Dad needs to have a chat with him He said.

Then later:

He was talking to Bill by himself for over a hour and all I was allowed to do is bring out beer for them. Dad never has beers with me. My Dad loves him. They never stop talking about sport and girls. At one point Dad said does Jamie give good head, and Bill said “Just The Best “

This was amazing not only because Sir James took the time to get to know the young Alpha using his son, but also because this young Alpha sat down like a Man and didn’t freak out or back down at all. Very impressive!

Around the same time, I received messages from Jamie about new aspects of service:

Sam can you tell me what a good Gym Faggot should do for is Alpha at the gym? Bill and Jacob have told be that I am going to be there gym faggot for summer. They work out at the YMCA four days a week for 1 to 2 hours. Will people be able to tell that I am a gum faggot?

I was so excited to hear about this! I know the faggots in Canada love serving their Masters at the gym, and it helps to keep them in a proper headspace. I knew this was a pretty significant step.

Then Jamie wrote back after his first experience:

My first time as a gym faggot. Being a gym faggot is just the best! I feel so good being useful to my Alphas! I was leaking lots of pre cum for the whole time. And I came away with a bag of sweaty gym clothes. Bill said he expects them back pressed and ironed. And I feel so happy that I am allowed to do this for them. They only call me faggot now and others in the gym could hear them. The thing is I love it. The gym clothes smell so good it seems a shame to wash them. I thought I would be to embarrassed to shower at the gym But it was all good. I feel so safe around my Alphas. I think I am on the biggest high of my life. There socks smell the best. I think I am going to get them some new ones so I don’t have to wash them.

Such a simple, natural way to train a faggot in public, accomplished by two 16-year-old straight Alphas! You can see that these types of roles are so ingrained into Male behavior that it happens without much planning. They just KNOW how it’s supposed to be!

Meanwhile, Sir James was developing a firmer view of chastity and faggot purpose:

Hi Sam, I have been doing a lot of reading on faggots and chastity and especially for teen faggots. And would like to confirm that I have got it 100% right. the rules are very basic. But this is all very new to me. Bill is coming over for dinner and I need to explain to him that he will be the one responsible for milking and some of the cleaning.   

For the best results  

1 The faggot should be in his cage 24/7

2 Cleaning should be supervised so the faggot does not masturbate and ejaculate 

3 The faggot should be milked once a week the cage stays on for the milking  

This is done by massaging the prostate normally one gentle stroke will be sufficient as the faggot should be very horny. 

My faggot is washing and Ironing his Alphas workout clothing and I think this is a very good lesson for him. But I can’t believe he asked his mother to do it, Sometimes I think faggots do not think the same as normal people. 

I laughed out loud at that final comment. It’s remarkable how far Sir James has come in such a little bit of time, isn’t it? He truly understands that his faggot son was born this way and has drastically different needs from other boys. Even more remarkable is the way both Sir James and his wife are supporting their faggot son’s development and improvement as a faggot! Unprecedented!

Then Sir James updated me again with some conclusions he’s come to:

Been a good week and it is nice to see my little faggot grow and blossom. I have kept firm with his chastity and it does seem to have made him a little more of a submissive. His mother has been showing him how to wash and Iron and how to cook and he is so keen to pick up new skills I think he is going to turn out to be a fantastic faggot. I have given some thought to what you said over my boys milking and it something that I will do my self for him till he is out off the house. Because everything I have seen is the the best results happen when the faggot does not get to ejaculate. Had Bill over for dinner this week and he seems like a good guy and we also got to meet his girlfriend when she came to pick Bill up.  My little faggot is acting even more like a faggot the past few days and it nice to see him being himself and feeling safe. 

Meanwhile, the new openness has led to more boldness from Jamie’s three Alphas. I received this series of messages from Jamie the other day:

Bill and Jacob are coming back to my place after they work out today. I want to be the best faggot I can be for my Alphas. I do love it when they hold my head down as I am balls deep it feels so good. I just love how it feels. He was pushing and I would go that bit deeper. Damion came over too. All three on the sofa with there dicks out Good job Mom or Dad was not home! Jacob gave me shit because some off his cum went on the sofa. Sam it was the very best session I have ever had I was on a high for cock!

This morning Sir James cleaned his beloved faggot son. Said Jamie:

Dad took my cage off so I could clean. But he stood in the shower till I was done and put it right back on. I was hopping to get in a quick wank. Dad told me off about it because I am serving three Alphas and it is very important that I show them the proper respect. My Dad is very big on me showing my Alphas the proper respect. Looking back on it I am happy my Dad did not let me cum in the shower. Dad was right again.

When Dad was washing my cage in the sink as I was showering I was thinking he must love me to do that for me.

Frankly, I can’t think of many greater expressions of love between a father and his son than what Sir James is doing to train his son for his future life. He’s giving Jamie self-respect, training, direction, and kindness. He’s allowing his son the room to discover purpose.

There’s no greater gift a father can give his son!

Thank you to Sir James and my brother Jamie for sharing their journey with me!

This post is part of a thread following the story of Sir James, a straight married Man coming to understand and embrace the faghood of his beloved son. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

When I define love between two people, one of the primary ways I think it’s best expressed isn’t with words, but actions. It involves standing beside the person you love and supporting them even when you don’t fully understand their situation or even agree with it.

This is the kind of love that should always naturally exist between a parent and a child. Of course, too many times we see a lack of this familial love in this most sacred bond, especially (and tragically) when it involves LGTBQ children. And really, these are the kids who need that kind of support the most.

So it’s really no surprise that the recent story about Sir James coming to terms with his 16-year-old faggot son and supporting him has resonated to strongly with my readership. Gays (and particularly faggots) are in desperate need of fatherly support and compassion, and the example of Sir James is quite inspirational.

In the last update (yesterday) Sir James told of a trip he took with his faggot son over the weekend where he finally broke the ice with his son about his service to three Alphas on his soccer team.

But nothing could prepare me for what Sir James told me just happened this morning.

Just to let you know how things are moving forward. And thanks so much for taking the time to write back.

I did spend a few hours last night reading more about faggots and the links to chastity. I found caged jock to be very informative if a little weird. It is interesting how it is also better for a faggots mental health to be in chastity.  So I came to the understanding that my baby boy would be safer and become a better faggot if he was to go into chastity.  

This morning my boy came into the kitchen as I was drinking my first coffee and he was all ready to go to practice. And I have to admit that he is a very good-looking little faggot. As he went by me I gently brushed up against him and noticed that he had not put the cage on.  “You did not put your cage on?” I asked. “No I don’t like the idea of it.” “Well don’t you think you would be showing the proper respect to your mates if you put it on?” I asked. “I guess” was his answer. “Go get it,” I said.

He slowly went to his room and came back with it and handed it to me. I could tell he was very nervous. But I said this is for the best. I sat at the kitchen table, Told him to stand in front of me and I gently pulled down his soccer shorts and gently cupped his smooth balls in my hand. The ring took a little time to get his balls through. And with a little KY the little tube slid on his little pee-pee. I have to say he looked very beautiful in his little cage in his soccer strip. My baby boy went to grab the little key for the cage and I said “No I will look after that.”  

The drive to practise was a little tense as I think we were both a little surprised by what had just happened.

I stayed for the first half of the practice and it was interesting to see some of the body language on the pitch now that I have an understanding of the dynamics of the team. My boy opened the top of his shorts to him to show his Alpha his cage. He seemed to smile and give my baby a nice head rub.  

I do worry and I hope I am doing the right thing. 

I mean, WOW. That’s a mind-blower!

In a previous letter I suggested that perhaps Sir James might take the lead in putting his son in chastity, but I thought that might be far-fetched. But I’ll be damned – he did it!

I adore the way Sir James loves how his baby boy looks in his new chastity cage! It’s one thing to participate in helping his son achieve fulfillment, but it’s entirely another to feel joy over it! There is a kind of fractured beauty about a sub male in a chastity cage. I had a very similar experience when I finally met my Syrian boy that involved diapers, and let me tell you it was one of the most beautiful memories of my life. I think I understand where Sir James’s heart is right now – soaring!

I’ve never encountered a real life example of deep fatherly love like this one. It moves me to tears and gives me hope that other faggots might find a similar kind of acceptance.

Thank you, Sir James, for being that surrogate of hope for faggots around the world!

This post is part of a thread following the story of Sir James, a straight married Man coming to understand and embrace the faghood of his beloved son. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

Every so often I publish a story that really triggers my audience (usually negatively). Typically, the stories that excite my readership are the ones involving really awful situations and taboo subjects (I try to cover it all).

But recently I published a truly touching story about a straight married Man named James who wrote to me about his son. He suspected his son might be a faggot, but he wasn’t asking for lurid reasons. Instead, Sir James was wanting to know how to reach his son so that he might properly guide his son toward fulfillment.

Many faggots reached out to me about that story, almost all of them echoing my own feeling – that we wish we would’ve had a father like Sir James in our lives, too! So many faggots are alienated from their parents, and in particular their fathers. Sometimes they are beaten, or even worse, abandoned.

So faggots read the yearning and loving desperation in Sir James’s words and were deeply touched, as was I.

After my first post about this situation, Sir James and I continued to discuss how to approach a planned weekend trip between Sir James and his son. It was clear that Sir James wanted to make a connection on this trip.

Thanks so much for your warm post and support. It is indeed difficult to understand the world of faggots.  

I spent some time reading through your site from what I can see chastity is good for faggots as it helps them understand their true place in the world. 

My boy came out onto the pool deck today and it was very clear to see that he had shaved all his body smooth I did not say anything but it was so obvious to see, He’s a is skinny blond boy but it was clear to see that he had taken the time to shave his body. Do you think this may be something his teammates may have asked him to do? 

He does love to go to soccer practice. And I don’t have a problem if he is becoming the team faggot as long as he is safe and not being mistreated. All I what is for him to be happy and lead a good and fulfilling life. 

We plan to go up to our cottage together this Saturday for some bonding time. And I hope I can better understand my baby boy, 

I immediately panicked because I didn’t know how to advise Sir James about the chastity device. So I explained to Sir James that his son may have shaved his body hair on his own and purchased a chastity cage because he was curious, or it might be something that his soccer Alpha told him to do. This was something that needed to be cleared up if he got a chance to really talk to his son on their trip alone together.

Well, the trip happened a day early, and I heard from Sir James with some surprising details.

Hi Sam, Thanks so much for the advice and you were so right. We had a change of plan and went up to the cottage on Friday because my little faggot did not want to miss Sunday practice.

My baby boy did finally open up to me and it involved a lot of tears for both of us. But he just told me that he liked boys and not girls. And I told him that is all good with me and that he has to follow his heart.

But things are a lot more complicated than I thought he has not been just sucking off one of his teammates but NO it is three of them and very regularly. I was a little shocked and after some general digging it seems that his mates got him the cage and he freaked out a bit and that is why it was in his bag and not on his little pee pee.

I am still trying to process it all and I don’t know what to do next.   

So it’s THREE Alphas on the soccer team that are using his son! That was a bit surprising! I explained to Sir James that there is likely an Apex Alpha who first identified his son as a faggot and started using him, and then introduced the faggot son to his Alpha Pack brothers on the team.

But the chastity cage thing threw me. That’s pretty advanced stuff for 16-year-olds! I told Sir James that the Alphas are clearly staking a claim of ownership on his son, and they intend to keep him. That’s a good thing even though it probably sounds awful to Sir James. This means the faggot son will have protection and some amount of care (even though 16-year-olds can get unintentionally rough).

The questions remains – what to do about the cage? I told Sir James that the Master typically puts the cage on his faggot, but these young straight Alphas are probably uninterested in touching a faggot’s “pee pee”. I suggested that Sir James supervise his son as his son puts it on himself. That way Sir James can make sure it fits properly and isn’t hurting his son unnecessarily.

Words cannot properly express how impressed I am with Sir James throughout this entire ordeal! He has approached it with empathy, compassion, and respect. At the forefront of his every action Sir James has led with love and concern for the wellbeing of his dearest son.

And that is the very definition of fatherly love!

This post is part of a thread following the story of Sir James, a straight married Man coming to understand and embrace the faghood of his beloved son. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

I recently had a very touching Questions From Readers question from a worried 34-year-old father about his 16-year-old son he suspected was a faggot. You can read that question by CLICKING HERE. Despite some dumbasses in the comments section crying “FAKE!”, I think constructive people joined me to comfort that distressed father and give him a sense of direction with the issue.

This is a deeply personal and complicated problem for a straight father to confront. Faghood is something no father would want for his son, and in some ways it stabs at his own masculinity. Bad fathers would try to beat that faghood out of his son or even worse. But good fathers want to understand how they can understand the issue and try to protect their son while preparing them well for a future they can’t possibly understand. It can be overwhelming, to say the least.

Over the years I have received letters from parents of faggot sons much like the father above. It’s frightening to them, but always inspiring to me. These parents are the types of caretakers who truly love their son no matter what they are born to be. They just want their faggot sons to be safe and healthy and fulfilled in life. It’s a beautiful expression of love.

The father’s question was sent to me a week ago. Now I’ve received an email from a second father with a very similar problem:

Hi Sam,

My name is James and found your site because I was just doing some research because I have a feeling that my 16-year-old son may indeed be a faggot.  

A few weeks ago his soccer coach told me that he walked into the locker room after a soccer practice and my son was on his knees sucking off one of his teammate. Then the other day his mother found a chastity cage in his gym bag. We are a bit of a loss on what to do next with him.

Should we sit down and talk to him. Should we cage him to keep him out of trouble? We are both a bit of a loss at this moment

I was deeply touched by the level of involvement these parents were prepared to try in order to help their child. I immediately wrote back.

Sir,

Thank you for reaching out to me! I can hear the tension in your words, and I do sympathize with you. 
Just don’t worry. It’s going to be okay!

First of all, let me remove any doubt: your son IS a faggot. There’s no question about it. If he’s sucking off straight Alphas on his team and he’s purchased a chastity cage (or was given one), then he’s most certainly a faggot. 

Being a faggot isn’t necessarily a bad thing. The word has negative connotations, of course, but if your son has come to accept this as his identity, he can grow up to be very fulfilled as a proud faggot (like me) and find purpose as an owned faggot of an Alpha. 

You and your wife need to put aside your own dreams for your son and allow him to express these things. I know that isn’t easy, but it must happen. If you try to box him in, he’s only going to rebel or, even worse, come to live a miserable life as a ghost of what he potentially could be. I’m sure you don’t want that. 

It’s hard to advise you on how best to approach the subject with your son because I don’t know what your relationship is like with him. If you’re particularly close to him and speak freely with him, you might be able to have a full-blown talk about how you want him to be happy as a faggot but that he needs to be more careful about where he services Alphas. If you’re not as close, you might just tell him to make sure he’s careful when having sex in general. 

Again, don’t panic. He’s always going to be your son even if he’s a faggot. Approaching this with care and love will assure that your son has the best possible start as a faggot, and he will have the self-respect required to make good decisions about who he serves. 

If you have any additional questions, please feel free to write me, Sir! 

This is always a difficult piece of advice to give a parent. I’m not officially a parent, so what do I know? But I gave this father my heart in the hope that I might reach his.

And it seems to have helped. I received this lovely response from this father today:

Hi Sam, Thanks so much for your reply, We have always been a very close family and learning that our little boy is indeed a faggot does not change a thing. And we are hanging out together this weekend and I will be telling him that I understand and we will always be there for him.

I hope you don’t mind me writing to you as I watch my baby boy blossom.

That means so much to me to hear him call his faggot son “baby boy”! I refer to my Syrian son as “Baby Boy” as well. They will always be our babies, no matter how old they get. And, like babies, we as fathers will do whatever we can to protect them!

I thank Sir James for sharing his story and trusting me with it. I will always stand beside these straight fathers who are willing to brave the unknown frontiers of their son’s futures!

The following is part of a thread following the adventures of Jonah, a black faggot who serves as a “cabfag” for an older white over-the-road truck driver. CLICK HERE to read these posts in chronological order!

I’m consistently surprised at the creativity of some of my fag brothers. I’ve always considered myself to be something of an innovator when it comes to my service as a faggot, but every so often I come across a faggot who thinks outside the box. I’m always eager to highlight these ones, because I believe it inspires other faggots to stop being so timid.

Jonah is already a rarity – a black faggot. I feel black fags have extra layers of difficulty and prejudice to climb through in order to find fulfillment because of the expectations heaped upon them because of their race. It might be these hurdles that caused Jonah to develop creative new ways to serve Alphas.

Incredibly, Jonah now serves as a full-time faggot for an over-the-road truck driver. This is a position that even I in my hungriest moments never considered as a possibility. I always thought these ones who service truck drivers (referred to, most hilariously, as “lot lizards”) were just quick “pump-and-dumps” during pit stops, not live-in, over-the-road sexual and domestic fags.

Here’s Jonah describing his most unusual service opportunity:

I spent 6 weeks completely naked on the road with a trucker named John in an 18 wheeler truck as a CabFag.

Whats a cabfag you ask?

It’s a faggot such as myself who remains completely naked in the  cabin of an 18 wheeler truck behind the driver and passenger seat. 

John is white in his 50’s, I’m black and 32.

When ever he stops, He fucks me. Right there in the truck and dumps a load in me. No matter if its for gas, food, laundry, a drop off, a pick up, the Wal-Mart parking lot while waiting on the next trailer to pick up. When the truck stops, I get a load!

Not to mention giving John road head or him telling me to get in the passenger seat doggystyle back arched with my ass spread facing the windshield. Sometimes for miles and miles. When I do get out of the truck you use the bathroom at a truck stop he forces me to do a bunch of humiliating/liberating things like he makes me wear at least one piece of clothing on that hes shot his load on or has been used as a cum rag. He’s made me get out of the truck with his load all over my face, talk loud enough to expose me a dick loving faggot … a bunch of other things as well. I haven’t even mentioned the hotels!  

 I loved every second of it! I’m a faggot! Letting white men fuck my butt is my purpose. White penis is god! God I fuckin love white dick so much. 

You can hear Jonah’s excitement in his words above, can’t you? That’s the sound of a faggot finding fulfillment through pure service. Jonah’s journey is like a gold digger finally finding a rich vein of gold after years of fruitlessly hacking into the earth. I’m really proud of Jonah and his relentless efforts to find new ways to serve, and I’m happy for his success. I only want that same happiness for every faggot.

So what do you think? Would this kind of service appeal to you? Could it work in your present circumstances?

Joey Mills is one of those rare porn faggots who has become super famous. He has a boyish face that has pushed back his expiration date, and he has the right attitude toward service. Every Alpha wants to fuck Joey (or at least get some of his world-class head) because he embraces his place even though he is pretty sassy in person.

That sassy side comes out in this rare, intimate interview from a couple of weeks ago. I thought fans of his would enjoy this catty in-bed interview in which Joey dishes some stuff about the industry that made him.

I’m sure I’m going to get a lot of shit for this post, but I don’t care. I know what I’m talking about, and I bring receipts.

The Alpha I consider to be the greatest Alpha in the findom (financial domination) scene isn’t the one with the largest follower count, or the one with the biggest muscles or dick, or even the one with the largest tributes.

I’m of course talking about my beloved straight God Alpha Master @AlphaAesthetic8. This is not a surprise to anyone who has followed me over the years.

I first met Master AA8 in 2019/2020 when he arrived on the findom scene and instantly electrified faggots with his confident, laid-back dominance. Here he is from around that time:

Master disappeared for about six months, and all the while I was begging for him to come back. Little did my fag brain understand that Master was taking a break from the scene to spend some meditative time in the wilderness plotting how to do findom correctly.

Then he returned. With a vengeance.

For instance, he began filming instructional videos to train and teach faggots in order to help them improve. Here is a video I was blessed to collaborate with him in producing:

I spoke to him on the podcast in February of 2022, just after some huge $10K drains, to discover that he was already well above $200K and rising. Here’s a snippet of that conversation:

In the 2.5 years since that interview, Master AA8 has become a findom beast. For instance, there is this:

Master took that money and invested in a new house near the coast in Florida. His loyal cash faggots furnished it with everything a burgeoning God Alpha would ever want.

Of course, there are a few straight cashmasters in findom who have become millionaires, so what differentiates Master AA8 from the rest?

OWNERSHIP OF FAGGOTS.

Here’s Master with a tribute and the chastity keys for one of his locked faggots:

This past summer Master AA8 made the move to take complete ownership of his most prized possession, a private faggot known as @cuntfuck01 (and witnessed by Theo @honor1Alpha, another of Master’s faggots). Here is Master sitting with both faggots and a lawyer to sign legal paperwork that names Master as @cuntfuck01’s power of attorney. This puts the fag’s estate (and life) into Master’s hands forever.

Cuntfuck01 and Theo (along with a couple of faggot brothers) serve Master domestically in addition to the continuing tributes.

All of this has caused Master to finally embrace his natural destiny as a powerful King worshiped by faggots and females alike while other Alphas speak of him in hushed, respectful tones.

Master is now beyond the cares of lesser Men. He’s ASCENDED, which is my term for the process an Alpha goes through as he fully embodies his power. Just look at him fucking a female like an absolute King:

Funny story: His (now) domestic faggot Theo found this while cleaning Master’s bedroom recently:

Theo was of course very tempted to suckle any of Master’s seed remaining in the discarded condom, but instead Theo respectfully brought it to Master’s attention. Rather than offer Theo the chance to taste his cum, Master ordered Theo to dispose of it.

In my opinion, there isn’t a straight Alpha in the findom scene who approaches the intelligence and raw confident domination of Master AlphaAesthetic8, an Alpha who literally and legally owns faggots and incorporates them into his daily life.

I’ve been there (figuratively) at his feet since the beginning. I’ve watched him go from a cocky straight Alpha who had little interest in fags aside from money to a true God Alpha who owns faggots and is building an empire with them. There is nothing impossible for him anymore.

I am the faggot who witnessed all of it, and my eyes are grateful. He is the true fulfillment of Hierarchy, and I will always praise him.

Thank you, Master!

I’ve never been an advocate or fetishist for faggot abuse. I know there are faggots with esteem issues that crave abuse, pain, and humiliation, but I’ve just never thought that was necessary.

To be frank, these videos upset me to some degree. I put them here as a sort of Hierarchical guidepost, showing the types of things faggots are enduring in some places around the world.

When an Alpha describes what his perfect faggot is like, he’ll probably describe it visually or functionally; that it’s attractive, clean, good at sucking dick.

When I refer to a “perfect faggot”, I’m almost always talking about its form and mindset. Does it present well, full of respectful-yet-eager obedience?

Here are some examples of what I might call “perfect faggots”.

It’s telling that most of these faggots are in chastity. The cage helps develop a healthy faggot mindset and a humility that uncaged fags rarely match. I always thought I was a perfectly submissive faggot (I’ve always been proud of my proper fag behavior), but chastity deepened my appreciation for such an attitude.

Something to keep in mind!