Hi Sam, Recently I came across some of your posts on X where you claimed that Straight Alphas say gay Alphas are below them in the hierarchy. I’ll start by saying that I agree with them. I truly believe that Straight Men are superior and that gay Alphas are below any Straight Man, but that’s not the main point. Even if we want to indulge the idea that gay Alphas could be equal to Straight Men, or even Straight Alphas, because of how they treat others and how they act, it’s clear as day that they don’t get respected by Straight Men simply because they are gay. The hierarchy is a social pyramid based mainly on sexual power, and the fact that gay Alphas, as gay males, could potentially be attracted to a Straight Man gives them a natural weakness and makes them inferior to a Straight Man, let alone a Straight Alpha, because the Straight Man holds power over the gay Alpha. To me, that doesn’t mean gay Alphas don’t exist, but rather that they are below Straight Men. We can see this everywhere, the number of dominant “Alpha” tops who have confessed that they would submit to real men, meaning Straight Men, is astounding. I’m not judging them, actually, I support this. I just don’t understand how you can believe they are equal to Straight Men or even Straight Alphas. Part of me wants to understand you and believe you, but I just can’t see that.
Thank you for the question/observation!
I’m not going to argue, because you make a salient point here. I would be inclined to agree with you based on that reasoning.
I remember back in the very early days of this site my pyramid looked significantly different. In that version I split the triangle down the middle, with one side a shade darker than the other to denote the gay versions of each level. After a significant amount of pressure from many including gay Alphas (for homophobia, no less!), I altered it. So you can see from my past stances that I’m not traditionally far off from your conclusion within myself.
I do think procreation itself is an argument for a lowered status for gay Alphas, but your additional reasoning makes a good case even stronger. However, I do think it’s more of a case of adjustment within Alpha hierarchy as opposed to an adjustment to the entire pyramid.
I’m happy to entertain more thoughts on this! Thanks again!
The following post is part of a thread following an Alpha father named Jim who has discovered his 16-year-old son Brandon is a faggot. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
One of the greatest unexpected missions of this website has been the surprising influx of straight fathers (both Alphas and betas) coming here for help with their faggot sons. I cannot fully express how humbled and honored I am every time I meet one of these great, loving fathers and hear their desperate pleas for help in reaching their sons. Every father/son story I’ve assisted over the years remains on display both here on the site and in my heart. In some ways, it’s my most cherished accomplishment with this site.
I feel sorry for these fathers because the world doesn’t even acknowledge hierarchy exists, let alone provide information on how to manage it as a parent with growing children. I’m sure it must be terrifying for a father to watch his son deviating off course from the rest of his peers and not knowing what to do to help him!
Fortunately this site acts as a safety net for all of the good fathers out there frantically searching for help. And when they land here, they find an overwhelming wealth of information about hierarchy, and the ring of truth in it spurs them to ask for help. It’s happened so many times now that it’s no longer an accident, but rather evidence of hierarchical truth … as well as the powerful love of a father for his son.
A straight Alpha father named Jim left a long message in my Questions From Readers inbox yesterday asking for help with his 16-year-old son Brandon. Sir Jim recently discovered his son is a faggot, but he didn’t understand what that meant or might mean for his son’s life. Here’s Sir Jim’s full letter to me:
Hi there Fag Sam, I am writing today to ask for your help and advice, it involves my 16 year old fag son Brandon, I Recently discovered he is a faggot and my whole world has been shattered-let me be clear I Love my son and will support him no matter what but I consider myself to be an alpha, I’m masculine, drink beer, go to the gym and lift weights, drive a truck,work a construction job, good with my hands, good sex drive, dominant by nature and I dominate and assert control over women and beta males, it comes natural to me, I know my son is not like that and I wish he was and had hoped he would be but that is not the case, i was googling about fags as truthfully I Haven’t given them much thought, i’ll admit i laughed at them in school, gave them the odd wedgie and took their lunch money and made them do my homework every now and then but beyond that never gave them much thought
my son Brandon was caught making out behind the school science building last week with a boy, the teacher called me in to say it was unacceptable for him to be missing class, I had no idea my son was a fag and was caught off guard, I spoke to Brandon afterwards where he confessed he was indeed a fag and had known all along, he broke down in tears and I reassured him I loved him and all was fine, but I Can’t help thinking about the life he will lead as a fag, i began googling lige as a faggot and stumbled across your website-what you say about Hierarchy and fags submitting and being submissive to Alpha men really resonated with me, I am wondering how do I approach this topic with my son and get him to understand that this is now the life he has ahead of him and to embrace his fag instincts and submit to Alpha men,i want him to understand his purpose in life and not feel shame and understand how the world and his world as a fag will work , I feel its my duty as a father to prepare and educate him and to honour all the alpha men out there who will use a fag like him, I would appreciate your advice
I confided in a friend of mine at work who is also an Alpha, Alpha Chris, he’s 54 and even more Alpha than me, we smoked at a lunch break last week and were just shooting shit and chatting the way guys do and I told him about Brandon, he told me he wasn’t surprised and had always known Brandon was a fag and thinks Brandon has a crush on him, he explained how he caught him staring at him multiple times over the years, particularly one 4th of July when our families celebrated together on a local beach and Chris was shirtless in swim trunks, this blew my mind the fact Chris could know and not me, we began talking and I Confided in him what I am confiding in you , Chris feels it is only right and natural for Brandon to submit and embrace his inner faghood and submit to Alpha men and take his place in the hierarchy system and learn his role as a fag the sooner the better, Chris told me he has used faggots before in college and all through his adult life for many things-laundry, chores, foot massage, making dinner, even to get his cock sucked when his wife wouldnt and even as a urinal, I was stunned but moved, Chris made a bold suggestion and suggested that Brandon come over the first weekend in December to serve him- a simple foot massage and chores and build from there, I have to say Sam I am considering it as Brandon is comfortable around Chris, I trust Chris the most and I want him to get the best care and training as a faggot and be happy in his new life.
Your website and Chris have helped me accept who my son is immensely. Should I take Chris up on his offer and have him train my boy next weekend, I want the best for him but am conflicted on what to do and who to talk to, I know you will understand and give me the best and most honest advice, I have been intrigued to learn how it all works and have been reading about Chastity and cock cages, i totally agree Fag cocks should be caged and locked up, they are not men, I bought one off Amazon a few days ago for Brandon and am considering giving it to Chris to give to Brandon to enforce that he wears it and start his training the right way in chastity, do you believe it will help him? am I doing the right thing, what are my next steps? any and all advice would be appreciated Fag Sam, appreciate it- a concerned and learning the ropes about Fags Father Jim, Alabama
That is possibly one of the most open-hearted letters any parent has ever shared with me. How on earth could I ever ignore such a request?? I only wish more fathers had this level of concern for their sons!
I want to just give a shout-out to Alpha Chris! Thank goodness he was there for his Alpha brother to confide in and advise! One again, it proves something I’ve insisted since Day #1: straight Alphas own and use faggots! The fact that Alpha Chris is willing to use his knowledge and expertise to train Brandon and give him a safe space it explore is amazing, and something I think most faggots wish would’ve happened for them!
Anyway, here’s how I responded to Sir Jim:
Sir, thank you so much for writing to me! Your letter deeply moved me, and I definitely empathize with your situation! However, I want to encourage you at the outset that this is not necessarily a time of sadness and despair. Instead, it could very possibly be a moment of transformation and freedom for your son. And the best part is this: YOU can be a huge part of that positive impact, and make that connection with your son you know you’ve been missing!
First let me just say that I’ve dealt with this exact situation many times before. CLICK HERE to read one such account. Also, THIS STORY was a hugely influential thread that ended up getting me a lot of hate from people accusing me of child porn or something. When I publish your letter on the site, I will also include a short video of an interview I had with a powerful God Alpha who has a faggot son that I think will touch you, Sir.
Let me start off by congratulating you on your willingness to help your son even though you probably don’t understand faggots that much (as you indicated) and you might even have a negative view of faggots. It’s okay to have those feelings, Sir. Don’t beat yourself up over it now that you’re probably dealing with your son’s status as a developing faggot. There’s no doubt your son looks up to you as the first and primary Alpha he’s ever known, and he’s desperate to be accepted by you. I know because I was that faggot years ago, and my Dad rejected me. I already know you would never do that to your boy.
I’m always so overwhelmed when Alpha fathers find there way to this site and to me in their search for answers to their son’s issues (Alpha or faggot). It’s wonderful that you took the time and effort to deeply search and reach out a trusting hand to a stranger on a website like this one just for a little help. Sir, I take that responsibility as seriously as anything else in my life, and I’m so grateful when I meet caring fathers like you.
I want to make one thing clear: not all gay males are faggots, Sir. Brandon kissing a boy might mean he’s gay, and not necessarily a faggot. A faggot is a type of gay male that functions as a slave or as property to serve the needs and desires of Men. I wrote a little book titled “Are You A Faggot?” that helps uncertain ones find out definitively if they are a faggot or simply a gay male. I’m willing to send you a free copy of it so you can use it with your son to determine where he is, but I don’t have your email address. You can write to me at hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com and I will send a copy directly to you, Sir.
I love that you confided in Alpha Chris, Sir! You see, you recognize hierarchy quite easily! And I think Alpha Chris is exactly right, honestly. I think it would be great for Alpha Chris to give Brandon a place to explore his purpose in a safe way while providing some useful training. I also really love that Alpha Chris confided in you about his use and ownership of faggots in the past despite being a straight Alpha, which I’m sure surprised you. As you know, however, straight Alphas keep lots of secrets that nobody would ever suspect.
Your plan to provide Brandon with a chastity cage is magnificent and honestly breathtaking. I’m glad you agree that faggots should be locked in chastity. Chastity will help Brandon focus on his purpose to serve, honor, and submit to Male authority. It will also (eventually) put him in a state of “perpetual subspace”, which is the optimum state for any faggot. I’m quite excited for the possibilities of this happening under the direction of you and Alpha Chris. I think you will be pleasantly surprised by the outcome of that, Sir.
I will admit that the fact that you live in Alabama gives me a bit of a cause for concern. Faggots aren’t treated particularly well in that part of the country, so being OUT-out might not be a great idea. There are plenty of Alphas in Alabama, though, and if Men like Alpha Chris exist there, then there are other Alphas either Brandon’s age or older who can be a good Master to him. I think I would just keep a close eye on that, though.
As far as other advice I might offer, just keep an open mind and an open channel of communication between you and your son. If Brandon ends up serving Alpha Chris for a weekend, Brandon will be quite excited when he returns. Be open to talking to him about what he liked or didn’t like, even if it makes you uncomfortable. You’re giving Brandon an unprecedented opportunity to finally be what he was born to be, and it will be lifechanging. Make it a positive one, Sir.
This website isn’t necessarily for minors, of course, but there are plenty of terrific resources here to explore together. In the right sidebar are links to many trainings as well as some dramatic true stories. Perhaps you can find some that you can share with Brandon, Sir.
Most of all, just remember that you are Alpha, and so is your friend Alpha Chris. More importantly, you’re both Protector Alphas. As leaders of hierarchy, part of your purpose is to protect and shepherd the weak. Brandon is that weaker vessel in need of shepherding so he can find his purpose in hierarchy as well. I have complete confidence in both of you. Brandon is very fortunate to be a faggot with Alphas like you guiding his life!
If you ever need anything, Sir, feel free to reach out to me! I would also love updates on Brandon’s progress!
Yours,
sam the faggot
In conclusion, all I can say to the fathers and sons out there is this: the love you have for each other is greater and more important than all other considerations. An Alpha father can watch his faggot son become the faithful and obedient property of a great Alpha brother, see the fulfilled joy and peace in his son’s eyes, and know that the struggle to understand and help him was worth it.
It is always worth it.
I cannot commend Sir Jim enough for taking his first steps to understand and help Brandon become the most fulfilled version of himself. His open-mindedness, curiosity, trust, and empathy will save his son!
It will also save his relationship with Brandon!
I’m so proud to assist, as well as carry this uplifting, inspirational story of love and purpose to the world! So many other fathers will be helped by Sir Jim’s radiant example!
So, i get that my place as a faggot is to be a hole for men anytime/anywhere etc. but what if the guy wanting sex isn’t an alpha at all. They just maybe don’t know their correct place in the hierachy. At the same time i second guess myself and i probably shouldn’t be the one to judge anyone and i should just let them do what they want to be safe. What do you think? Is it required that i let these other faggots fuck me anytime they want too?
Thank you for the question, brother!
This is an interesting issue, honestly. Your choice really depends on how much you’re willing to bend your own standards.
I’ll give you an example from my own life. I was once friends with a black faggot named Michael (we bonded over filmmaking), and Michael was in a relationship with a black pre-Alpha named DeMarkus. I wasn’t particularly attracted to either of them because I knew neither of them were truly Alpha (and both were GAY gay, if you know what I mean).
But unbeknownst to me, they both wanted to have sex with me. So they conspired to get me drunk at this bar, then we went back to their place and had a threesome. Dee fucked me while Michael and I kissed. It was okay (Dee had a big dick), but I didn’t come away feeling great about it. I knew I had just lowered my standards somewhat (even though I was quite drunk).
Ultimately you need to make this decision for yourself. I just don’t think you’re going to feel right submitting to inferior males. Like it or not, Hierarchy colors these choices more than we realize!
This is an update one week after I sent my question about how to fully submit to my boyfriend.
Thank you so much for your invaluable advice, focusing on worshiping his feet has worked like a charm!
It’s been only a week after I started subtly massaging and complimenting his feet, and they have already become a central part of his dominance. He now often uses his legs and feet to keep my head in place when I’m giving him a blowjob, and he enjoys making me lick and smell his feet. For example, two days ago he came home all sweaty from the gym, and I immediately could sense that he wanted to fuck. I went to kiss him, but instead he took off one of his socks and put it inside my mouth. He then pushed me against the kitchen counter, pulled down my pants, and started to fuck me roughly while his sock was still in my mouth. After he finished he went to have a shower without saying a word, and left me with my pants down and his cum leaking down my thighs. I think that it was the first time that he did not wait next to me while I made myself come.
Fully submitting to him outside of sex is still a work in progress, but I made some improvements. When he is not home I try to do as much housework as much as I can, and I have noticed that he has started to neglect cleaning, cooking, and washing clothes, assuming that I will do it. Yesterday night, for instance, he started cleaning the kitchen, but when I joined him he immediately sat on the sofa to scroll on his phone and left me doing it alone. I could see that he was looking at pictures of hot twinks on instagram. After I finished, he rewarded fucking me like a toy, and I wondered if he was thinking about the guys on his phone while doing it.
I can’t thank you enough for helping me awaken the alpha inside him a little more, and please let me know if you think there are other things that I could do. Tomorrow he will go on a work trip for two weeks, and I am worried him being away will disrupt the progress I was making.
One of my favorite things in the world about this “job” I have is giving advice, having the person follow my suggestions, and then hearing that it worked exactly as planned! Brother, you made me so happy with this update! Thank you!
Some pre-Alphas just need a little coaxing until they feel they feel they have essentially been “given permission” to act out the desires they’ve been suppressing. Far too many pre-Alphas have been lost to being polite and thoughtful and WOKE. Alphas sometimes act (and need to act) selfishly and roughly. Non-PC. This is just how they’re made.
I knew if your boyfriend had any Alpha in him, the feet trick would trigger it. And sure enough, it did! He responded beautifully to it! You did an excellent job, brother!
As far as your concerns, I wouldn’t worry at all. His engine is now running, and he’s experienced what it felt like to TAKE YOU the way an Alpha takes and uses a faggot. He sees you now as an object of lust, a toy that he owns so he can unload his power and rage. He’s going to return from that trip and practically rape you!
