Hey Sam Have something interesting happening with a biker i meet on Tiktok that I’m sure is a Alpha. He created a Discord server for his follow. I’m the only gay guy in it. He’s super sexy and funny. Loves to tease me and the ladies with picture. Also talking about we wouldn’t be able to handle his cock and he can go all night. One of his biker friends joined the discord. And when there on together. They always compete with each other trying to get the ladies worked up. The main biker get a little jealous and always makes sure to one up his friend or any other guy me and the ladies talk about. And always tell us we are all his. I’ve tried to talk with him in DM but he’s not very good about responding. He created a Throne account so people people could send him stuff without knowing his address. And I sent him stuff on there. But just last night he told us he would pick one person that he would tell his address to. And anyone that wants to send anything can go through that person. He ended up picking me to have his address and have the ladies go through me to send him stuff. I plan i ordering stuff when I get paid to send to him. I’m wanting advice on how best to approach him about his Alpha status?

Thanks for the question!

I don’t think you need to worry about teaching him that he’s Alpha. He knows. 

What he might not understand is what larger implications that has in his life (although it sounds like he does know that, too). I have plenty of resources here to send him that can start a conversation with him. My book “May I Serve You, Sir?” will lead him through Hierarchy and teach him why he needs to own faggots. My “Letter To An Alpha” is a quick, one-shot outline of that same material. Send him one of them and see what he says. 

Hello there,

I have an alpha that I’ve had for awhile, we don’t live together but I come by his place often. I do chores for him, and of course I service him. Though he is a caring dom, he is becoming very strict, which I have no problem with. If I am not up to his standards, he will punish me- sometimes with spankings, sometimes he will intentionally make a mess for me to clean up. It is more frequent when he is in a bad mood.

The weird part is that I always enjoy when he is like this. I really enjoy being humiliated, and I like the discipline. It makes me a better faggot for him- I don’t want to slack off. It’s never abusive or physically harmful, he is just in charge and I feel like he has the right to. Is it common for fags to enjoy this? And why do fags enjoy this? I think his raw, angry, masculine energy being taken out on me (and my holes) just brings me a level of satisfaction that is hard to describe. Not sure if this is controversial or that if some fags do not enjoy this.

Thank you for the question, brother!

Congratulations on finding a Master who seems to be hitting all of the right buttons with you! You don’t sound unhappy at all about his more aggressive moments, but more curious as to why it is pleasurable to you. (Hopefully I’m reading that right!)

Let me preface my answer this way: while faggots are a natural part of our world, we are undoubtedly broken creatures. We know our imperfections and inferiority well. We feel it deep within ourselves, this worthlessness and shame. 

We are often overlooked hierarchically by Men unless we have something to offer them, reinforcing those feelings of being nothing.

When Alphas treat us in abusive or demeaning ways, we recognize their abuse as “what we deserve”, but it’s even deeper than that. When Alphas abuse us verbally or physically, we feel finally “seen” by them. We have a purpose, and having purpose is deeply satisfying to anyone.

Some of this is closely related to Stockholm Syndrome, but I do think there are compelling variations from that classic explanation of abuse attraction. Faggots are poorly understood by modern psychiatry (if they’re acknowledged at all), so there’s very little specific knowledge to reference. 

But having been a faggot my entire life, I feel my explanation above is as close to correct as I’ve ever seen. If anyone else has something to add, please do so in the comments.

Thank you for such an important question, brother!

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Hi, first of all, love your work

So, i am now 25 years old and own multiple fags, some my age, others older and most of them younger than me. The older faggots I mostly see them as cum dumps and toys to use to let off some steam and the younger fags, although I do like to break them in and training them to be good fags I also like to treat them almost as girlfriends. But it wasn’t always like that. When I was about 18 till I was 21 i had a crush on a friend of mine and I think I almost had fag feelings for him, I wanted to be his fag. Now, nothing happened between us because he was deep in the closet so I got over the crush and started to own faggots and now I can’t even think of ever wanting to be a fag ever again. So… what happened?? Can a fag evolve into an alpha?? Or was I always an alpha and was just infatuated?? Or am I pretending to be an Alpha now and I am in fact a faggot in denial??

Thank you once again and sorry for any misspealing mistakes, english is not my first language

Master, thank you so much for writing to me!

The issue you mention is something  that happens to some Alphas and tends to cause a lot of confusion. It involves a lack of understanding of ALPHA HIERARCHY.

As you know as a reader of this site, I outline a distinct, four-level Hierarchy among Alphas. Like any hierarchy, the lower levels of the Alpha Hierarchy “submit” to the upper levels.

Occasionally this submissive obedience/respect feels almost like infatuation or sexual attraction, because all Alphas are sexually aroused by power. That doesn’t mean the lower Alpha is actually a faggot. It simply means that he recognizes the superiority of the more powerful Alpha.

Sometimes sexual encounters happen between Alphas of different levels, with the more dominant Alpha feeding/breeding the lesser Alpha. These do not result in a “fagification” of the lesser Alpha. Instead, there is a mutual interchange of power. Sex between Alphas is almost like mutual admiration, a shared celebration of superiority.

I believe this infatuation you felt when you were younger is part of your growth as an Alpha. This Alpha you mention was likely a more powerful and developed Alpha, and his power intoxicated you. But I don’t think you were ever born a faggot, Master. Your life since then bears that out.

Now you’ve moved on and became even more powerful yourself, Sir. You’ve ascended, and now know the truth about yourself and your purpose – as a leader, an Alpha. You own all of these faggots, and they gladly submit to your every command because you are a natural-born King.

You were never going to be a faggot, Sir, and you never will be. You’ll always be rightly worshiped, just as nature intended from the beginning of your life!

I hope that helps ease your mind, Sir! Thank you again for writing!

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Hi brother Sam.

It is a fagot from France. It doesn’t know if it has really a question to ask, but would like to share a few things.

First of all, you won’t like it, but it is maried to a woman since 30 years and love her, but does not have sex with her anymore. Therefore being a fagot is not easy. Anyway it knows its place in the hierarchy probably since ever. It will always serve and submit to Alpha in any situation.

It doesn’t only serve Alpha, since there are a lot of Men, shy, Muslim, maried, old or whatever that need a mouth and sometimes an ass to empty their balls and it is happy to help.

It is really lucky to be owned by a wonderful Master since 6 months. Master likes to get a massage and it really improved a lot its skills. It is really proud to please its Master and still works to give better service.

Master is not really into giving pain, and it misses it but has no right to complain. Nevertheless it has been beaten on ass and balls recently because it did a big mistake and needed to be punished : it did play with its clit and of course it ended in cuming. Not real orgasm, hopefully,  just a failed one. But Master was really angry and it was really ashamed.

Beating the slave was not the only punishment. The real one was to devoid the slave the right to serve Master in any other way than massage : it was stopped when trying to lick His feet,  His ass or His balls. It was of course not allowed to suck Him or be fucked by Him. That’s a real punishment. Master said He’d better masturbate and use a tissue to clean His cock than use the slave. Of course Master is right.

It is really impressive to see how it is craving to serve and worship its Master. It is suppose to be born as a Male, but it is obviously not. It is not looking for any kind of sexual pleasure. Just try to serve. Does a fagot got pleasure when it licks feet or ass or cock? Of course not. But it can’t do anything to repress it from doing it. And is so sad when it is not allowed to do it.

It seems that is so easy for Alpha since fagot are so willing to serve They don’t even have to dominate. But the truth is that fagot will not submit and serve any Man the same way. It will always be helpful to empty balls. But it will only submit and worship Alpha as soon as they smell Them. There is not question. Just the urge to kneel.

Thanks a lot brother for your work here. It for sure helps a lot of fagot and some Alpha to better know what they are and be happy in finding their place in the hierarchy. And also thanks to be very clear about destroyer Alpha.

Thank you brother for sharing your experience! No matter what circumstances we have, we can still make ourselves useful to Alphas!

Good boy!

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Hey how are you all I’m like brand new barely out the box realized I’m a faggot and I was looking into how to become someones full time bitch?

any tips or tricks into how I go about it ?

Thanks for the question!

First of all, congrats on realizing and accepting the truth! I’m proud of you!

To find an Alpha, start with the Alphas you know in the circles of your life. Start submitting to them in various ways. Perhaps use the resources on this site to open a conversation with him about Hierarchy. If he’s Alpha, he’ll respond.

You can also use apps like Grindr, Recon, and TheBlowers.com.

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Hey brother Sam,

i have been approached by an Alpha who trains faggot’s like us to take a fist. I noticed that there isn’t much information on your site about fisting. He claims that a Man can cause a faggot to orgasm wholly through their boipussy itself through fisting. I imagine that this would be similar to cunting? He claims that by effectively inducing a physiological “female” orgasm in a faggot through fisting is superior to any other form of orgasm. According to Him the resulting orgasms are infinitely repeatable and escalating in their intensity.

I’ve done some research that tends to agree with what He is saying, if it is done by someone with experience and is gentle. But i would like to know what you think. Have you ever been fisted?

i would love to know your thoughts Sam!

Thanks for the question!

I’ve never been fisted, and none of the Alphas I’ve ever served have demanded that of me. I’m kinda glad, because I can’t say it’s particularly interesting to me.

I have a fag friend who loves being fisted (he even visited Germany once and was fisted on a stage by two Men!), and he’s reported to me that he feels euphoria from it (something like being cunted).

I guess I don’t feature fisting content on the site because it’s not a personal interest and few ever mention it to me. I think if I found fisting content that was hot or a teaching moment, I’d feature it.

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Hi,

I am wondering if I’m a fag or trans. I love straight muscular men. I want to serve them in all the ways they desire. I am willing to work for them , clean after them , be a footstool , a urinal.

Recently, I enjoy when my alpha calls me a girl. Talks to me as if I’m a girl. Referencing my dick as a clot and telling me to rub it. I get so arouse at the thought of him fingering my pussy (not bussy).

I am happy to be his cuck but it’s not enough for me. Yes, I like seeing him fuck , cleaning up his cum , and washing the sheets after he has sex. However, I never care about the woman but I want to be her. I want him to fuck my in my pussy .

what am I? A desperate cuck? Another fag? What should I do now?

Thanks for the question! 

Many faggots have fantasies of being feminized. They fantasize about being the woman their Alpha passionately desires and loves. They even get turned on when Alphas talk about impregnating them and carrying their babies. I don’t think that means all of these faggots are wanting to be post-op transsexuals. I certainly am not. People who are transsexual are usually that way their whole lives, and that’s why (at least in the U.S.) trans people are clinically examined prior to any type of surgery to see if it can be correctly determined.

I think you’re a faggot with an overactive imagination (that’s not necessarily a bad thing), and not a transsexual. 

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Hi! First time writing here so please forgive me for any errors. I am a college student at a school in a large city. I have talked to quite a few masters on Grindr and even scheduled meeting times. I’m so excited for them then… I bail. I’ve done it multiple times and I feel terrible. I really want to try to submit. It’s just so scary to commit to meeting up. How do I get over this and how do I best serve a master the first time we meet up?

Thanks!

Thank you for writing! 

Well, you’re definitely not alone in this, brother. Meeting a new potential Master can be intimidating, especially online when guys can pretend to be anything (which is why I don’t care for that method). 

But here’s the problem you’re facing: doing NOTHING leads to NOTHING, right? 

At some point we all must engage with our lives and make uncomfortable choices. Through those uncomfortable choices – let’s call them challenges instead – we learn and we grow. 

So really, the answer to this is really inside of you. Do you want to live a life in dreams, or do you want a dream life? 

If/when you decide to meet a Master, immediately kneel and kiss his feet. The Master will direct you from there most likely, but you want to make the first effort to show your submission to him.

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Any update from Josh, Ashley and Alan?

This question references THIS THREAD. 

Yeah, I haven’t heard from Sir Josh and Ashley in a couple of months. I heard from their faggot, but I chose not to publish it. 

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Hey Sam,

I don’t expect you to remember this at all but a while back I’d messaged asking if you had any advice about pursuing service with some Alphas I knew from my college who I only spoke to via socials.

I took your advice and reached out to the one who I used to kind of serve (still kicking myself for ending that way back when)… but he never responded.

I know I probably should just drop it but I wanted to ask if you had any advice for going forward? Just, keep an eye out for other Alphas in my life? Or reach out to the other 2?

Hey Sam,

I just sent a message to you earlier about how the Alpha I reached out to on socials didn’t respond, but a little while after I sent that HE FINALLY DID.

Turns out he really remembered me and we had a nice convo catching up. We don’t really live near each other anymore, it turns out, which sucks. But I apologized for stopping service to him before and for my past behavior, and I even offered to help him with anything he needs. He was really sweet about everything and didn’t make too much of a big deal about it, but seemed receptive.

For literal years I’ve thought about messaging this Man Sam, you have no idea. So thanks for encouraging me to reach out to him. I hope to start introducing hierarchy to him as we continue to talk– maybe one day he’ll find a use for me again!

Sorry for the back to back messages/asks, I didn’t think he’d even remember me but when he responded I HAD to update you.

Yes, I remember you!

I’m glad you worked up the courage to contact him! The first step is always the hardest! And I’m glad he responded and seemed open to something in the future! Definitely try to look for ways to engage him in a more direct conversation about Hierarchy! That’s a great way in!

Keep me posted!

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

My lovely brother Sam, I have been dealing with a awkward situation and I’d like to know your opinion. I am 19, 100% submissive faggot. Since my childhood, I have always known that I was born to serve superior Man. The problem is that I have always had a really good relationship with my father, he is a true Alpha who takes care of my mother, my sister, and me like a real God Alpha. I decided to come out as gay just for him, not my mother and sister because, although they are all conversative, I’m much closer to my dad than my mom. I was afraid he would expel me from home or say something really homophobic, but instead the said “that’s okay son, I accept you as long as you don’t behave like a woman when you go to bed.” Of course he didn’t use terms like fag or alpha, but he basically said that he will love and accept me as long as I never bottom. He wants me to be a Gay Alpha! But I just can’t.

I won’t ask you if I should become an Alpha because both you and I know that we can’t change nature. But what would you do in my place? I told this story to my best friend, who is a faggot as well, and he thinks that I should just tell my dad I’m an Alpha top because he will never know who I am serving and how I get fucked in bed. I guess that’s the easiest solution but I will eventually have a boyfriend/master and it will be obvious for my dad that I’m a cumdump.

Have you ever seen a situation like that? I thought my dad would refuse to talk about that, but he is REALLY serious about me not bottoming, and happy to accept me if I fuck and breed fags.

Thank you for the intriguing question, brother!

Yeah, you’re a faggot. If you’ve known and accepted that truth for that long of a time, you’re definitely a faggot. And honestly, I think your father should’ve known, too. I’m kind of wondering if he said that to you in the hope you might somehow choose a different role, as if you could.

It’s funny about Alpha fathers … they understand Hierarchy much better than we think they do. We think because they’re straight Men that they couldn’t possibly understand what a faggot is or how a faggot feels, but deep down they do. After all, they’re MEN more than they’re husbands or fathers. And MEN UNDERSTAND HIERARCHICAL TRUTH like it’s IMPRINTED ON THE INSIDES OF THEIR SKULLS.

Sadly, your father is headed for a disappointing day when he finally discovers his son is a faggot and not an Alpha. But you must keep in mind that his disappointment comes from a place of concern, because again, he’s a MAN and he knows how Men treat subs and faggots. He doesn’t want his son to be hurt or abused or treated like a cumrag.

I can respect that.

I tend to agree with your faggot friend. I don’t think there’s a need to sit him down and tell him you’re a faggot. Frankly, it’s none of his business. Knowing your gay is more than enough information for him to adjust his expectations. I mean, if you’re going to tell him you’re a faggot, are you also going to tell him what positions you prefer to be bred in or what flavor lube you prefer in your b-hole? You need to draw the line somewhere, sista. LOL

My inner drag queen suddenly came out to give advice! LOL

Anyway, I hope you understand what I’m saying, brother. If your father is truly Alpha, he will piece the rest together over time.

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

What happened to Twitter feed? I send a lot of my inexperienced young fags there to learn. I don’t like having to explain everything. I prefer they show up with basic understanding of their role, etc. Your Twitter was really good for that orientation.

How else can you help provide my youngest faggots with some mentorship? I feel like personal mentorship to young faggots is something you need to start doing as a service to their Masters. Make the fags pay a little $ for your trouble.

I’m Master Lee aka Billy Bo$$

Hung, mature, redneck, god…

Master Lee, thank you for the question, as well as trusting me with your faggots! 

Yes, my big account @hierarchypcast was suddenly shut down by X without warning, and they never even considered my appeal. So much for being the “free speech” app!

However, I maintain four other accounts on the platform exactly for this reason. My new main account is @hierarchy_uni. You are welcome to send them that way, Master.

As far as your statement about how I “need to start (mentoring young faggots) as a service to their Masters”, what on earth do you think I’ve been doing for the last ten years, Master? That’s ALL I do. And when I’m not mentoring faggots, I’m mentoring Alphas.

Hell, my shepherding work with faggots has made tens of thousands (probably hundreds of thousands by now) for cash Masters in the findom scene. 

And nobody pays me shit, even when I request it. How’s THAT for appreciation?

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Hi Sam

I have a bit of a conundrum. I feel like being someone’s fag would bring me fulfillment in life, but I do have a few personal issues.

Personal details if that helps form a visual image of who I am;

22 years old. Southern African. Not sure if I am gay or bi because I have gotten it on with women. Monogamous. ‘Liberal’ I suppose.

1. Pride and Ego. Its hard for me to accept the title ‘fag’, because that title feels beneath me. I could never accept that some people are born superior to me. I think to highly of myself (God complex honestly), and so cannot accept that I’m meant to call every alpha ‘Sir.’

2. Self Identity. I have seen on your blog and other sources how ‘fags’ present themselves, the ‘ideal’ picture of how a submissive is meant to act. That is so far divorced from how I act that it feels like if I cannot act like the basic fags, I would stop being who I am, and that’s something I cannot do.

3. Feeling Lost. I’ve seen that the alphas on your blog and other places have an idea of how a fag should be. The perfect bitch with no autonomy at all. That can not be me. And so it is as if just because of who I am, I can never attract an Alpha. In order to gain this one thing, I would have to lose something else, and that is a bargain I cannot make.

I feel like this makes me sound like a hopeless case, but I can give you a scenario of how I would want the perfect situation;

I meet a man who makes it clear that they are an Alpha. They state what they want. They show me that they actually are an alpha (basically someone in control of their life, someone commanding in their presence, someone who is a never moving mountain in the storm). They do not just demand obedience and submission, but show me why my giving them submission and obedience (to specifically them) would be the best thing for me. Not ”Obey because you are a fag and slave and that’s your role” but ”Surrender to me because by giving yourself to me you will have everything you’ve ever (spiritually? psychologically? emotionally?) wanted”. I hope that made sense.

Also, they should want me not want me because I’m just a ‘fag’ made to be conquered, but because there is something about me that drew them to want to conquer me.

I hope this did not sound like, ”Woe is me.” I genuinely have no idea if I should just give up on the idea of ever finding an alpha. I would appreciate any advice you can give or anyone else you could kindly pass my conundrum onto.

Yours

Let me go by Mat.

Thank you for writing to me! I don’t get enough visitors from South America! 

Your situation is very odd. I almost hesitate to advise you because I’m not sure if you’re reading your feelings correctly. 

Why exactly do you think you’re not Alpha? Everything you say sounds quite Alpha to me. I’d hate to try to advise you to keep pursuing a place as a faggot if you’re not actually a faggot.

You see, I have documented something I’ve dubbed “Alpha latency”. In cases of Alpha latency, a true Alpha thinks he’s actually a faggot (or supposed to be a faggot). This is usually due to past trauma or sexual abuse as a child or some other factor. It’s only when the Alpha realizes what he’s actually supposed to be and stops trying to be something he’s not does he actually find peace and purpose.

So I don’t want to advise you as a faggot, because then I’d only be reinforcing a false narrative in your mind. If you’re actually Alpha, then I want you to embrace that. But I can only do so much on my end … it’s YOU that must make an honest appraisal of your feelings and what thoughts bring you true pleasure and purpose. 

But as it stands now, I am not convinced you’re actually a faggot at all. 

You can look through the category “Alpha Latency” by CLICKING HERE.

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Is Master Roger going to have a regular column like Declan and Zack? omg I’ve just finished reading his posts and I can feel the void in my boy pussy begging to take his cock!! What a glorious Alpha!!!

You better believe it! Master Roger has accepted the opportunity to help faggots and other Alphas by writing here! I’m really glad he did, because I really love literate and intelligent Alphas with the experience and wisdom to share! I’ve already put Master Roger’s link in the right sidebar to this site! Thank you! 

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Hey brother!
I’m 25 and have never embraced my true nature as a faggot. Never sucked dick, if never done anything with a man. There is an Alpha from work who always hits on me and I’ve been avoiding him since the beginning of the year because I’m scared of not knowing what to do. But after reading Mika’s story I felt so inspired that I just texted him 2 minutes ago asking if he wants to grab a beer. I’ll confess my inner feelings to him and offer a blowjob!! I know that you like to see fags like me from all around on your website, but I bet you’ll be even happier after I swallow my first load. I’ll make him proud tonight!

Sorry for the weird message, brother. But all I needed was the experience of another virgin fag to feel encouraged. Thank you so much to you and to our brother Mika!

Thank you for your inspirational message, brother! 

I’m so glad you got that message from Mika’s experience and decided to take action! Nothing in life ever happens unless we TRY! 

This situation sounds very promising! I’m really surprised you didn’t submit to him already, honestly. But whatever, you have the chance to correct it! 

Let me know how it goes! 

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Dear Sam,

As a longtime fan (I’ve followed your work since FagWorshipAlphas and have read nearly all your posts), I wanted to reach out for some advice on a personal situation. Your content always has a powerful effect on me.

Recently, I connected with a straight Master in-app who was seeking female slaves. Despite being male, I messaged him privately. Fortunately, he responded! We’ve met in person once – just dinner and a casual walk at the mall. He’s tall, handsome, and has the classic look of a university athlete (which I imagine will appeal to many subs). When I asked why he didn’t “drag me into the bathroom by my hair,” he explained it was our first meeting and he didn’t assume I’d want that intensity immediately.

Outside of our dynamic, he’s surprisingly kind and relatable, almost like a friend. We’re both interested in a longer-term Master/slave arrangement (with me as his puppy or personal slave).

​​My specific situation:​​
I understand ​​Master intends to use me as his airplane cup​​ during our first physical encounter (​​Special note: I’m obsessed with Master’s feet!​). This role aligns with my existing experience in oral servitude. I recognize we are both navigating new territory: this will be ​​his first time utilizing a slave in this specific, objectified manner​​, and ​​my first time serving him in this explicit capacity as his personal tool.​​

​​Requesting your wisdom:​​
Given that my core purpose is to embody this objectified role successfully:

1. ​​Preparation & Service:​​ As the slave-tool, what specific steps can I take beforehand and during the encounter to ensure it is a positive and fulfilling experience for my Master? How do I best achieve the state of being a functional “object”?
2. ​​Guiding a New Master:​​ What respectful and submissive approaches can I use to gently ​​encourage his confidence and command​​ during this act, especially considering his kindness outside the dynamic? How can I signal my readiness and receptiveness to being controlled specifically as his cup?
3. ​​Building the Dynamic:​​ Post-encounter, how can I effectively reinforce this objectified service role and ​​support his growth into comfortably commanding and using me in the future​​?

Your experienced perspective on navigating this intricate power exchange and objectification scene would be invaluable.

Best regards,
LiangL

Thank you for writing, brother! And thank you for faithfully following me all these years! 

First of all, I’d never heard of the term “airline cup” before, so I had to do some research. Very weird term for a masturbation device like a Tenga egg. I think the term “cocksucker” makes more sense, but whatever! After ten years in this business, I’m still learning new things! 

Congratulations on finding a straight Alpha on a straight app. This technique works far more than people think, mainly because truly dominant Alphas understand that faggots satisfy the same need as a female sub. So I’m glad that worked out for you!

1. Be clean shaven everywhere. This is an important aspect of serving straight Alphas many faggots overlook. If he decides to probe your other hole during service, you need to be clean. This assures him you are ready to be used however he wants. I’d also find something sexy and even feminizing to wear so that you might appeal to his straight sensibilities. 
2. During the encounter, focus on kissing his feet when you greet him. Call him “Sir” often. Keep your head bowed and use submissive body language. And obey his orders/follow his lead. And SWALLOW HIS CUM.
3. Afterward, you want to tell him thank you. Kiss his feet. Demonstrate your gratitude.

Hopefully it goes well! Keep me informed! 

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Just read the wonderful account by Master Roger. Another good strategy to be firm without damaging faggots is creating a safe word. I’ve been with my fag boyfriend for 6 months now. He knows how I am and how I behave in bed. I expect nothing less than full submission at all times. However, I don’t want to harm him too much. So I told him that “Alaska” is our safe word. If he really needs me to stop rutting, he must say this word. And he has never done it! I think that many fags say “stop” or “I can’t take it” just as a natural reaction, but they don’t really mean it. I’d rather die than take a dick in my ass, the feeling of losing your manhood forever must be scary, so it’s normal to react this way, and my fag knows that I will stop if I need to but he also knows that his role is to take my dick, so when he says “stop, that’s too much” he is actually saying “please, show me the Man you are.” I believe this is a valuable tip for Alphas to train their faggots without abusing or hurting them but Master Roger’s strategy of saying that he’s close sounds brilliant too, I’ll use that with new fags from now on.

I hope Master Roger sends more updates. I’m 22, recently embraced my Alphahood and would be very helpful to follow the ideas of an older Master like him.

Master, thank you so much for writing to me! 

I’m glad you were so inspired by Master Roger’s recent post! I was, too! 

But I also love that you understand what you faggot means when it says, “stop that’s too much”. Lesser Men would stop, but Alphas like you understand that the faggot’s purpose is to endure for the sake of the Alpha’s pleasure! 

Master, I would love to know more about you and your story! Please tell me about how you discovered your Alphahood and embraced it, and also how you came to take ownership of your first faggot! My email is hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com. 

Thank you, Master! 

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

I’ve been the same straight man’s faggot for 10 years now… Aside from him, there are only a very few individuals who know I’m a faggot and even fewer who address me as “faggot”… It doesn’t upset or anger me when this happens because it comes from someone who knows it to be true and is also aware that I identify as a faggot… What DOES annoy me is how extremely common it is to view a faggot and a gay person as one in the same… To the best of my knowledge, a “gay” person, by definition, enjoys a same sex relationship with one he or she considers an equal and a partner much the same as in a heterosexual situation… As a natural faggot, I certainly don’t consider myself to be an equal with the Alpha man I serve… In my case, the Alpha is straight and views me as an outlet for his more primal sexual needs not being fulfilled by his female partner for whatever reason… As his faggot, I serve as a tool for release… Neither of us harbors any sort of amorous feeling toward the other… While I’m merely a tool to him,  working for his load is exciting and rewarding for me in knowing that I’m serving my purpose as his faggot… Often I become flushed with feelings or femininity while being penetrated although no amorous desire is ever present… I imagine myself as his slut and that makes me quiver with excitement… Other than the obvious fact that we are both “male” in gender, there is NOTHING “gay” here… He is a “Straight Alpha Male” and I’m his personal “faggot”… It is my opinion that interchangeable use of these two terms indicates ignorance as to the real meaning of either.

Thank you for your question, brother! 

I of course agree with you 1000%. That is why I steadfastly refuse to yield to societal pressure to stop using the word “faggot”. I’ve lost countless accounts across social media because of my use of that word, and I’ve faced monumental backlash over the years for my use of it. 

So yeah, I’m right there with you, brother.

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

hi sam,

i’ve followed your podcast for a few years now. it took me about that long to recognize how earnestly you were sharing the truth. really, it took meeting my Master, the first true and developed Alpha in my life, to understand how real and sacred Hierarchy is.

i recognize you have your own life, probably busy with the content you create and the Alphas you serve. however, if you’re interested in chatting with and perhaps mentoring a fellow faggot brother who is deeply committed to the same path as you, id love to connect. if not, best wishes and thanks for being brave enough to stand up and broadcast this unpopular truth to the world.

-stefan

Thanks for the question, brother! 

Of course we can talk! I have a million ways to get in touch with me all listed on the links page of this site. Pick one and reach out! 

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!

Hello Sam,

It’s me again! I was the faggot who wrote to you 2 days ago asking about my new found urges. You said that the best way to find faggots for my Master was to look into scene he promotes himself, which is Twitter. Following your instructions, I’ve been looking for many findom and cashmaster related communities and accounts. I’ve even made a new account completely dedicated to my Master. But I’ve encountered somewhat of a problem. I have found many faggots on there, but they seem to be already dedicated to other Masters. As a dedicated faggot myself, I would find it disrespectful to tell a fellow faggots to ditch their Master for another. I’m conflicted because I obviously want my Master to have a large community of dedicated faggots at his beck and call, but I don’t want to steal faggots from other Masters as well. So what do you suggest would be the best way to find faggots for my Master without “stealing” them from other Masters?

Thank you for your help!

Signed,

Faggot Nick

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

I was thinking about this and I think this approach is wrong. Faggots aren’t going to listen to another faggot asking them to serve a different Master. It’s the MASTER who must demonstrate that he’s someone worth serving. Your intentions are good, brother, but I don’t think there’s an effective way to do this unless you start posting daily pics/videos of your Master using you. 

Have a question? CLICK HERE to ask!