Hey fag Sam. I don’t know if you’ve already covered this but I might be at my ropes end and looking for some advice.
I’m a faggot. I accept it. I live out hierarchy. However hierarchy to me is also includes big dick worship. It’s hard for me to see someone with a small or average dick as superior to me or others. I’ve served some average cocks with inflated egos but over time the urge to serve dies down on my part if they don’t keep that ego up. I can inflate it all I want to but an act is an act and I can’t help an Alpha if he’s acting.
I’m experiencing that currently. An Alpha I serve has been taking pictures of himself and his cock but never a full body one. Never one connected to his face. Recently he sent a photo and I can tell his dick is average or even my size.
Its a pattern I’ve been noticing of average dicked Alphas vs big dicked Alphas. A big dick Alpha won’t be afraid to show off their body, their cock, all of themselves to show their hierarchy status, no matter what they look like. However average dicked Alphas will hide or play camera tricks to give the illusion of a big cock. Its becoming self evident to me that if an Alpha has to lie about his cock, that’s not an Alpha. I know there can be different circumstances where they are average and Alpha, but insecurity to the point of fabrication doesn’t sit well with me.
The Alpha I serve has been on the life for over 20+ years. He can be very alluring but then sends cock pics and it just breaks the vibe/scene. Am I a bad faggot or am I not listening to my instincts? Thank you for your time.
Thank you for writing, my brother!
This issue is an ongoing one on this site and across my social media. As a faggot who has never focused on dick size as a defining Alpha characteristic, I think I’ve made my position clear enough.
However, I DO understand your frustration regarding Alphas and dick size.
Yes, huge, heavy dicks owned by aggressive, dominant Men are quite breathtaking and cause immediate awe and submission in most people, but especially faggots. There’s no argument here.
But I just don’t believe we can judge a Man’s Alphahood based on physical characteristics he can’t control. So much of what makes a Man an Alpha comes from what is inside him that pinning the essence of a Man on a genetic lottery at birth seems random and wrong.
This is why I’m more prone to question the Alphahood of a fat slob. Would any true Alpha not care about the physical attributes he CAN control? How can a Man simply dismiss the way his physicality reflects his Alphahood?
But here’s the part of your question I really agree with completely: no Man can be an Alpha if he’s misrepresenting himself or creating a fake persona online. There’s simply no way to accept such a person as Alpha, and every faggot should reject them completely. Not only is such behavior NOT Alpha, but it’s also NOT MANLY OR RESPECTABLE.
As a side note, I’d like to reiterate that this is why I don’t search for Masters online. If I encounter an Alpha I want to serve in real life, then I make my move. That way, I see his Alphahood in action socially and KNOW FOR SURE what he is … making his penis size a secondary or nonexistent issue. You see how that works?
So you don’t need to feel bad about rejecting some of these insecure pretenders bothering you. It doesn’t make you a bad fag, brother … but rather, a wise one!
Sam, can we get more of @HoldenMastersX? Video/podcast interview? He’s incredible,….
Thanks for writing!
I love Master Holden just as much as you do, brother! He’s a totally straight Alpha, but he has no fear AT ALL of faggots or being connected to them. In fact, he claims he hates us … something I don’t really believe given the fairly close relationship he seems to have developed with his primary faggot, an older male that Master Holden toys with.
As for coming on the podcast, I’ve spoken to him about it in the past, and he waved it off. I don’t think he’s going to change his mind, but I’ll let him know you asked!
Before social media and the broader internet, Alphas were simply genetically-superior Men with finely-sculpted bodies, razor-sharp intellects, or indomitable wills that led armies and bred thousands.
Sadly, social media is rapidly diluting our stock of true Alphas, replacing these superior Men with dumb, navel-gazing Instagram models who measure their so-called Alphahood by their follows, likes, and retweets.
Alphahood is no longer a calling … it’s a brand.
Sadly, this degeneration of the Alpha in our society has merged (inevitably, I suppose) with the rise of dickless, INCEL-like narcissists plaguing social media with hateful rhetoric and amplified aesthetics masquerading as Alpha. Guys like Andrew Tate and, most recently, some test tube robot named “Clavicular” have spearheaded this (bowel) movement.
Clavicular is particularly problematic. He came out of nowhere, his claim to “fame” being some extreme body-modification shit called “looksmaxxing”. In theory, Clavicular beat on the bones of his face with a hammer to accentuate his cheekbones, etc. (too bad he didn’t use the claw end). He’s also known to take lots of peptides and other formulations to boost testosterone and transform him into an ultimate male.
Sadly, hammers and peptides can’t fix a lack of personality.
Here are a few clips of the awkward, autistic bastard interacting with other worthless social media garbage like an alien life form newly hatched from a pod.
There is nothing appealing about this socially-awkward wannabe. He’s arrogant for no reason, having not accomplishing a single damned thing in life except getting attention on Kick for hitting himself in the face with a hammer. THINK ABOUT THAT.
Clavicular was recently on the podcast of another social media cancer, Jake Paul. Now, some might make the point that Paul is Alpha (I might even begrudgingly agree), but watch this excruciating moment when Paul asks Clavicular to rank him on “masculinity” or “hotness” or whatever:
Clavicular says Paul is a “6.5” out of 10, and Paul looks crushed! WHAT THE FUCK?!? No true Alpha would give ANY fucks what RealDoll Clavicular thinks about them, especially not one as wealthy as Paul!
And that’s certainly true once Clavicular reveals how he’s trying to “looksmaxx” his tiny penis by pulling on it constantly:
HAHA what a fucking joke!
Ultimately, Clavicular’s influence will be short-lived, as will most of the other bad actors in this most recent affront to hierarchical order and true Alphahood. The angry, violent ones (like Tate or ChudTheBuilder) will end up in prison, and Clavicular is simply too boring to last.
But my concern is with all of the young Alphas out there watching these examples getting way too much attention and thinking that’s how they should act.
Honestly, this site and its message can only do so much to help Alphas. It’s really incumbent upon true Alphas everywhere to mentor the next generation, teaching them values that define true leaders of lesser Men.
I only hope it happens before true Alphahood is lost!””
The following post is part of a thread detailing the admission and submission of a new faggot named Ben to a teen Destroyer Alpha named Grayson. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
I was a little surprised to look back into the archives and find that it’s only been a little bit more than a month ago since Ben last updated me. It felt like it had been months. I guess my life has been a little too hectic!
Ben’s situation is extraordinarily frustrating because he keeps ping-ponging between two straight Masters, Master Grayson and Master Ethan. In the past, I harshly labelled Master Grayson as a Destroyer Alpha based on his rather cruel treatment of Ben as well as the Orwellian insistence on surveilling Ben’s every waking moment. On the other hand, Master Ethan seemed to be more of a Protector type, warmer and more comforting. I very much preferred that Ben stick to serving Master Ethan and leaving Master Grayson in the past.
Well, as usual with Ben, things have taken another sharp left turn:
I wanted to write again for an update so you know what’s happening and if you have any advice for me. For better or worse, I am unable to serve Ethan anymore as he has recently found a partner who he devotes his time to. I want to say I was okay with it and I listened to your advice and stopped trying but when I found out, I made a slightly rash decision and confronted him in person why he was dating someone and in a way confessed I had feelings for him. He told me to get on my knees and crawl to him to suck him off, which I did and I thought something would happen but he simply said “you’re such an obedient boy but you’re just a hole” and “you’re just so desperate to serve me as a slave but not as a boyfriend”. After that I haven’t seen him besides the ocassional run-in but he won’t text to meet up anymore.
Since then it’s stupid but I have spiraled a bit since I didn’t really have anyone to lean on besides Grayson. He has been helpful in keeping me motivated to work out and keep going to fulfill my work and also tasks as an apartment slave. However, he has also been more brutal with me lately not sure if he’s taking advantage of me by making me cook more for him and his gf, give him more money to sustain his lifestyle, and lately even loaning me out to his friends to use as a cumdump. It feels so humiliating because with the spiral I’ve thought all I can do now is serve Grayson and that’s all my mind has been on but since he’s mostly satisfied now with a gf it feels even worse that when I give head or am a hole now it’s just for his friends not even him.
The last thing that has really cemented things has been last week Grayson allowed me to take off my chastity for the first time in over 2.5 months and told me to invite someone over to let me top for the first time in a while. I was excited to finally take off the chastity and do something but when the time came, I couldn’t perform at all and couldn’t get it up and because of the chastity the guy I was supposed to hook up with said I was too small. To make things worse Grayson was in the apartment for this as he said he wanted to show me how pathetic I had become and he ended up locking me in a smaller cage and facefucking the guy I was supposed to top in front of me. I’m ashamed to admit that watching that made me harder but I couldn’t really do anything restrained by the cage. He ended up telling me that he is now locking me in chastity forever and to always remember this day as the reason why I don’t deserve to be free.
These events have me really spiraling as I accepted I was a slave of sorts, but this has really cemented how lowly I am. I wasn’t enough to be a bf, not enough to be my master’s hole, and also not good enough to be a top anymore. I am trying to accept all this but it’s hard and I’ve been trying to win back Grayson after all this as being unable to be used by him has made me realize a lot how much I want it. It has been a lot, but I promise I am alright, it’s just good to write this out as this space has been helpful in navigating everything.
I didn’t see that coming!
First of all, what a shame that Master Ethan did that to Ben. So much for the “Protector Alpha” label! In fact, he dismissed Ben in the ugliest way possible, something Ben didn’t deserve given how faithfully he served Master Ethan.
That dismissal brought Ben back into the clutches of Master Grayson.
I can easily see why Ben ended up here. He’s a good faggot who simply wants to serve. I wish Master Grayson had even a semblance of a clue about that, because maybe then he’d appreciate what he owns. Good faggots are hard to find, and clearly Master Grayson loves owning a faggot. It seems to me he should start to value his possessions more.
But I can say that Master Grayson has some incredible natural instincts for a straight Alpha. That move he pulled with Ben, letting Ben out of his chastity cage in order to humiliate his ineffectiveness by forcing Ben to watch him do the very thing Ben couldn’t do is a brutal twist on The Nuclear Option I’ve spoken about so many times before. It actually took my breath away. You can’t find that technique in a “Alpha domination manual” or in a film. That is PURE ALPHA INSTINCT in action! I’ve experienced it, and I’ve seen so many Alphas use variations of this technique so many times that it simply cannot be coincidence. It must be something inborn into them!
We can hear Ben’s growth from that experience. He feels more submissive, more fulfilled, more resigned to his true hierarchical place.
But that doesn’t mean I don’t want something kinder for my sincere little brother!
My beloved Master @alphaaesthetic8 posted this a couple of days ago.
Even though he’s essentially stopped all public dominance and draining and barely posts at all, he’s still taken in over $100,000 this year (at the 1/3 mark).
More incredible is the fact that he’s made $2.2 MILLION DOLLARS in findom (and counting)!
Hi I think this site is perfect to what this site stands for but it isn’t easy. I’m in my 20s but seem to be attracted to these young muscular frat guys, pretty much only str8 guys thought. Any suggestions, should I become a sissy to seduce them to use me. Any approaches, apps are not my superpower as they are full of older gays, bottoms, and others fems.
*Maybe becoming a cumdump, but it’s not 100% my goal if I service horny guys that are my type,
Thank you for the question!
You can definitely serve younger Alphas! Typically, Alphas discover the service of faggots during one of two phases in their lives: ages 18-22, when they’re young and horny and only care about getting serviced/worshiped …. and in their early thirties, when they finally realize they are not meant to be tied down to one female. So you have two primary targets.
You DON’T seduce straight Alphas by dressing up as a female to fool them. That’s a great way to get your ass kicked completely in.
You seduce them by being submissive, plain-spoken about your purpose (and, alternately, theirs), and making yourself useful in some way. How that happens depends on the circumstances or level of involvement.
Go where these Alphas are. Bars, sporting events, GYMS, etc. And start making yourself useful to them.
I have a book coming that goes into greater detail entitled “How To Seduce Straight Alphas”. It’s currently on pre-order. But regardless, the above outlines the general plan.
This post is part of a thread chronicling the rise of Master Jin, a straight Korean Alpha who first learned about the ownership of faggots when he learned his college roommate Chin was a faggot. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
There have been many critical true stories over the course of this site’s 11-year history that led to major audience growth and depth of content. California Alpha, Home Depot Fag, Frat Fag, and Sean The Fag all fired the imaginations of faggots everywhere and taught vital hierarchical truths.
But few true stories have had the long-lasting impact of straight Master Jin, then a college medical student in Toronto, and his then-roommate Chin. Master Jin suspected that Chin was a faggot, and in 2019 he reached out to me for help in submitting Chin. I gladly advised him, and within days Master Jin took ownership of his first faggot.
Master Jin’s ownership of Chin the faggot caused his Alpha buddies on the college soccer team to take note, and before too long they also claimed faggots. Over the next two years I tirelessly chronicled the four or five straight Alphas and the six or seven faggots they collectively owned. In addition to Master Jin, Masters Nick and Matt became veritable legends on the site. I had access to everybody, so I was often collating various accounts from both the Alpha and faggot perspective. It was exhausting, but rewarding.
It was because of Master Jin that all of the Toronto Alphas insisted on caging their faggots. Prior to Master Jin’s pioneering use of chastity, I considered it just a fetish. Master Jin, on the other hand, had an instant understanding of the wisdom of chastity, and he wielded the practice as skillfully as a scalpel.
All of that happened because of Master Jin. He inherently understood that, as a young straight Alpha, he deserved all of the service and worship available to him. He didn’t let the world’s definition of how a straight Alpha should live, and instead relentlessly pursued a life HE wanted to live.
And that life was that of a straight Alpha King who has a steady girlfriend and owns faggot slaves. In other words, a Kingdom.
These days Master Jin is a medical doctor and making plenty of money. He still owns Chin, and has added Lee to his house as well. Both are still locked, of course.
Finding a girlfriend who accepts his ownership of faggots has been a challenge, of course. It’s notable that the girlfriends don’t get their way and convince Master Jin to dismiss his faggots in favor of them; instead, he dismisses the girlfriends in favor of his faggots! This stands in sharp contrast to his former Alpha brothers Masters Nick and Matt, both of whom were seduced by females away from their fags.
But I have some great news: Master Jin has been dating a girl for eight months now, and she’s fine with his ownership of both fags!
She doesn’t live with Master Jin and his faggots, but she’s there every weekend. Whenever she’s at the house, Master Jin spends his time loudly fucking her while his faggots busy themselves with house work and listening to him fucking. This is good, because it keeps them horny for his cock and cum.
And yes, Master Jin still uses their throats. As he said yet again, “faggots suck better than she does.”
Most incredibly, Master Jin also takes the time to milk both faggots multiple times per week! I was quite astonished to learn that. It was Master Jin who also pioneered the milking of his fags, which he then taught to his straight Alpha friends. The fact that a straight Alpha like Master Jin understood not only the purpose of faggots but how to CARE for them as very personal and cherished property has never stopped amazing me!
I was so happy to get to speak with Master Jin, Chin, and Lee today. They’ve all grown and developed into their hierarchical roles so confidently and full of purpose! Even better, Master Jin has a woman with him who supports him and honors his Alpha hood by allowing him to express the fullness of his power!
It’s just the way a King deserves to live!
Thank you, Master Jin and my brothers Chin and Lee!
P.S. Master Jin learned of my recent financial struggles somehow (maybe the podcast?) and ordered Lee to send me some money. I was so touched by this gesture on their part! Now you see why I refer to Master Jin as a Protector Alpha! He watches over the entirety of his Kingdom and safeguards it all … even a little faggot far away like me! Thank you, Master, and thank you, Lee!
The following post is part of a thread following the story of Titouan, an 18-year-old French faggot currently owned by an older Alpha. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
Many younger faggots have Daddy complexes (which older Alphas are quite grateful for!) for whatever reason. It’s common, and I think a lot of these faggots tend to be better disciplined and devoted fags. They really embrace the truth of hierarchy and their place in it as embodied by older, stronger Alphas.
Ever since I first met Titouan he’s had a predilection to serve older straight Alphas. He’s always been very obedient to all Alphas, but these straight Alphas in particular responded to Titouan’s gentle obedience.
He’s currently owned by a straight Alpha, and it seems to be a more involved Master/fag relationship than any he’s had before. Titouan gave me a little update on his service relationship:
Hi from Titouan french boy. As I told you, for a few weeks I am the young fag of a straight Daddy who loves twinks like me. He wants to keep it secret to preserve his family man image, makes me come not to his main apartment but in a smaller one he has in another area of Paris. I feel it’s really my place to serve such a straight Alpha. Few days ago he shows me a video, says he wants to do same way as the Daddy and the boy in this video.
Well yesterday we did the same, had to wait for him on my knees, he arrived, undressed, then some little slaps, calling me jeune pédale (young faggot) and petit suceur (little cocksucker). He has such a big bulge in his manly underwear, I feel so inferior with my small dick he laughs at, he loves and I love how much this shows and makes feel the hierarchy. He made me worship his cock and lick his balls, not authorised to touch me. At moment as in the video he ordered me to lick his ass, he loved it so much, then again suck until he came on my tongue. Ordered me to swallow, then had to say Merci Monsieur (thank you Sir). I know next time I must bring chastity cage and he’ll want us to do more. This week I loved the way he used my mouth and tongue to get the maximum pleasure he deserves as Alpha straight Man.
I feel such a twink/Daddy relationship is what I need and is so good for both, hope you agree. And oh yes I feel I should buy some gift for my Alpha Daddy… He demands that as twink and young fag I wear only boyish traditional white briefs, humiliating but seems fair and I obey, then I wonder, wouldn’t buy for him other sexy very virile underwear be a good idea?
First of all, it’s revealing that Titouan’s Master owns a second, “secret” apartment in Paris in order to use Titouan (and presumably others) away from his family. This is a very common trait of straight Alphas who have been exposed to the use of faggots. Once they’ve used fags, they don’t typically want to stop, so a secret apartment or house is usually he answer. It just shows the lengths to which his Master will go to be serviced and worshiped, and it also shows the importance of this for Alphas in general.
As for sweet Titouan, his loyalty and desire for fulfillment in service is so admirable. He wants to find underwear for his Master so he can be as hot as possible and make him feel like even more of a Man. His desire to glorify his Master is a chief function of a faggot. We should always do this for Men, because they face a lot of challenges to their throne. Giving them such esteem and power makes them even more formidable warriors and conquerors!
The following post is part of a larger thread chronicling the awakening of a straight Brazilian Alpha named Vinicius who has taken ownership of his former friend and faggot Felipe while trying to raise his teenage Alpha son in hierarchical truth. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
When Felipe first contacted me last year, I was excited for him find a straight Alpha to serve. This straight Alpha, a husband named Vinicius, seemed like he loved owning a faggot and was developing Felipe nicely. I was pretty astounded how insightful Master Vinicius seemed to be with his training of Felipe.
Then I got to talk to Master Vinicius personally, and my respect went off the charts.
In speaking with him, it was clear that Master Vinicius had great natural insights into the basic nature of hierarchy and the truth of faggots. It almost seemed impossible that a straight Alpha would understand and accept the worship and service of a faggot, let alone understand how to train an inexperienced fag like Felipe. It was a wonderful surprise!
It’s been a little while since I last heard from Master Vinicius, and there have been some major changes since then!
Hey, it’s master Vinicius here. How’s my adorable fag been doing lately? Long time no see… Lots to catch up to.
I’ve been very busy lately… I had a vasectomy and spent some time training my wife into becoming more submissive to me. So far it’s been working great!
I haven’t used Felipe sexually anymore. But I hear he’s been a very good boy to Flavio, though his older son (a 20 yo guy) didn’t care too much about Felipe because of his figure. But Flavio told me all about it and asked me if I could get him into a better shape… And I think it’s fair, specially for my former friend’s health, you know? Now he’s paying me to train him and, gotta say… The fag is improving by the day. I’m very proud of him. Don’t know if the two of you have been talking lately.
As you might imagine, I was instantly concerned both about the welfare of my baby brother Felipe going to another straight Master (and his son??) AND the state of Master Vinicius’s balls after having a vasectomy (I’m as much of a cum-hungry faggot as the rest of you!). So I followed up on both of these things, and Mastere Vinicius kindly replied:
Let me answer you point by point.
No, the vasectomy doesn’t affect my cum. The juice is still the same only without my little boys swimming on it lol. When I had my kid I decided I didn’t wanna have another child. I didn’t have it done right away for the same concern you had, but once I learned it doesn’t change a thing, I decided it was the best thing to do. My wife suffers a lot with the pills and stuff. It’s a hormonal bomb that gets her moody and stressed… As a matter of fact she’s becoming more and more submissive since she stopped taking them. So it’s a win-win for me.
It’s weird you haven’t heard from Felipe. I’m having him reach out to you. By which means did you two used to talk? Was it email, Twitter…? Please, let me know.
The reason why I’m training Felipe if because I’m a personal trainer. Even if Flavio had told me he was gonna train him I wouldn’t let him do it… He knows nothing about physical training and I don’t want Felipe to get injured by a bad training routine. Plus, I’m having Felipe pay me for it, so it’s good for me anyway. And he’s not paying the same fee my other clients pay lol. Oh, and he’s not my former faggot. He’s still mine. He’s only being used by Flavio because I said it was ok for him to use his holes.
I don’t think I’m gonna use him sexually anytime soon. I mean… He took it like a champ, I told you all about it. But my wife is getting better and better. I feel more satisfied by being serviced by her in general (maybe because we live together and it’s like having someone ready to serve from the time I wake up to the time I go to sleep? Idk), but I won’t rule him out completely. If one day I feel like it, when my wife goes out of town on business for exemple… Why not? I know he’s there and won’t question. He’ll be more than happy, actually. I know all I have to do is snap my fingers. But I’ve been using him in other ways actually. All of my errands and mundane tasks are done by him and he’s a great boy in this regard!
As of master Flavio’s older son… I don’t know him very well. Flavio had him with a girlfriend in highschool before he met his wife, the boy lives with his mother and comes by occasionally. I think we’ve met like 2 or 3 times. But it looks like he might be an alpha. I really can’t tell. All I know is that he went on to fuck Felipe as recommended by his dad but came back complaining that Felipe is too fat and that it turns him off. I kinda get it. Though I don’t think it should matter. Maybe he’s too young to appreciate VERY GOOD service and is too much into looks. He’s 20 yo after all.
I’m so glad that Master Vinicius’s balls and semen output turned out okay! I know how much Alphas cherish their power to cum, and as a faggot I never want to see an Alpha lose any part of that!
It’s a very interesting situation for Felipe. He’s being trained and used by Master Flavio, but also being developed physically by Master Vinicius! Felipe is sure to succeed under the care and guidance of these two straight Brazilian Alphas!
Even more interesting is how Master Flavio offered his faggot for use by his 20-year-old Alpha son! Sadly, the son found Flavio unappealing in his current condition, but bodies can be quickly improved! This idea of Alpha fathers sharing their faggots with their Alpha sons is a common behavior I’ve covered multiple times here. I find it fascinating that Alpha fathers like to share faggots with their sons this way. I liken it to a lion teaching its offspring how to hunt. Felipe is very lucky to be used this way by these powerful Men!
Master Vinicius has continued to do the right thing with his good faggot, and I cherish him for it. Protector Alphas like him are rare, especially straight Alphas who don’t need to treat a faggot as worth any investment.
But Master Vinicius is gloriously different from the rest, and I’m grateful!
Collaring faggots isn’t something that comes up often here on the site. I remember covering straight Masters Nick and Matt when they collared their faggots back in the days of FWA. More recently, Master Anthony collared his special faggot Fabien with a pendant that read “Anthony” to clearly mark Fabien as his property. It’s simply not something that is done as often as you’d think.
Whenever a Master asks me about presenting a faggot with either a chastity cage or a collar, I always advise them to turn it into a ceremony. Make it a special, solemn moment between a Man and his faggot. These are, after all, the “wedding rings” of hierarchy. Masters Nick and Matt loved to make caging and collaring their faggots into a day-long event that led up to the moment when they were locked in place. I loved that so much, and so did their faggots!
The subject of collaring came up on the Hierarchy University Discord (JOIN NOW) recently, and one of the older Alphas on the server, a wise, no-nonsense Alpha named Master V, chimed in with some terrific information that I wanted to share.
To set it up, a faggot named @joshfaglondon asked: “Just wondering if anyone has had, or been to, a formalized collaring ceremony? As a worshipful faggot who dreams about being a full-time boy wife, I fantasize a lot about professing my love and loyalty, making lasting promises, and handing over my rights to Sir in front of a supportive congregation. Do these events really happen? Do any Alphas share this fantasy, or is it just wannabe fagbrides like me?”
Here’s what Master V said in response:
Yes, they happen. They are a semi-formal affair, considering the topic. It’s not really a wedding ceremony thing where you declare vows and some Entity standing between you now declares you connected. It’s more intimate, or inter-personal, where the dominant and the submissive acknowledge the collar and commitment between themselves in front of a couple witnesses.
There can also be the confusing situation where this same process is split in to two or three parts/stages and goes deeper into the formalities and protocols. (Think of “the old days” when you started with the courtship, then ask dad for permission followed by the engagement, and finally the wedding.)
To make it even more confusing the order they happen can be reversed.
Basically you have the ‘collaring’ ceremony, and a ‘signing’ ceremony. (Usually in that order. And if 3 staged, the middle one a mix of the two.)
The collar represents the bonding ring .. In the first, more common usage, it is the wedding ring. Once it’s on , you’re part and parcel with the owner’s household.
In the split format, you get the probationary collar. (Or household collar or temp…or whatever collar. [It comes with an adjective.]) Think of that like an engagement ring. And to make matters even more confusing, this might be the promissory ring if you live in separate towns for example. Until one moves to the other’s town, then it might work up to be an engagement.
Then there’s the signing ceremony — this is that indenture contract, the BDSM or Slave contract you hear about. This ceremony is the one with the more formal pomp and circumstance, for good reason. That document is the prenup, the wedding vows, the license and certificate all rolled into one. Treat it with that respect and be serious with the terms.
And for the collars themselves… Each ceremony may come with a new collar… or maybe the first is the one you’ll always wear….. with adjustments.
Ever noticed how some are small thin things with one ring, while others are heavy things with rings all around and usually come with some specialized locking mechanism? There’s your different levels of the collaring ceremony on full display.
** for some of you, you’re not going to be able to see your elders in the same light here…
That small thin, no rings collar used to be called a choker. A tight leather ribbon necklace. Back before the 70s that was free and unowned, but looking to settle down. In the late 60s it became a fashion statement, much like how the leather jacket went from something you earned to something you bought at Walmart.
Then you have the more sturdy, buckled collar – usually with a single D-ring on the front. There’s that promissory collar. Sometimes you’ll even here of a Notice of Intent being put out by the dominant, which is basically a formal notice to other dominants you’re looking at – or courting – this submissive, so hands off. (Just remember, it also lets those others know to report issues they may see or know of to him as well.)
This is followed by the more heavy leather collar versions, with an odd number of rings. Still buckled, but maybe able to take a paddle lock to show more permanence, to represent that engagement. If the dominant puts out a Letter of Intent here, it may come with terms for the submissive like a “starter” contract which would require the submissive to agree and sign. At this point, whether living in the dominant’s home or not, you are to be his and his alone.
And finally comes the signing ceremony. That pseudo-formal contract protocol. The wedding, where your collar stops being symbolic. The buckles might be removed and it riveted on. Or maybe the leather band is replaced for a solid metal one. Or the chain collar went from a small key lock, to a medium combo lock, to now welded closed.
I must admit there was a lot here I’d never heard expressed in such linear terms before, but much of it makes sense. These sequential steps Master V outlines here really highlights the layers of depth that exists in the Master/faggot dynamic!
I do wonder why Alphas have gotten away from collaring their faggots. Part of me thinks it has to do with the new freedom gays enjoy in the Western world, where many feel collaring faggots “dehumanizes” them.
But every faggot I’ve ever known who has been collared was deeply moved by the experience and cherish their collar. So the act and ceremony of collaring isn’t dehumanizing, but rather empowering. Wearing it honors both the faggot and its Owner. It’s something deserving of ceremony and celebration!
I thank Master V for describing these traditional collaring ceremonies, acts that deepen the commitment between Masters and their faggots and emphasize the purpose of each!
The following post is part of a column written by a 40-something experienced faggot who calls himself “Mr. Fag”. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
Hi Sam,
This is Mister Fag. I saw your response regarding the limp dick and just wanted to point out that a cage may not be practical for various reasons (hello, TSA!). However, a faggot should know that being limp—whether naturally or educated by a cage—is essential to understanding our biology.
I have been traveling a lot recently for business. I wanted to share a little story that occurred during one of those trips. After a full day of meetings, I decided to get a couple of drinks at the hotel bar. Curiously, the only seat available was next to a man who was clearly good-looking and whom I initially thought was straight.
Maybe it was the loneliness, or maybe the vibe, but I started making small talk. I must admit, he was charming. At our second round, he whispered, “So, tell me, are you a fag?” I felt scared for an instant, but after I said “yes,” he replied, “I knew it.” That felt safe.
Later that night, after paying for his drinks, I followed him to his room where I obeyed and let him decide how I should please him.
During the week, I met him a couple more times. I always took care of him (paid for his dinner and serviced his needs). On the last night, he told me he wanted to try ball torture because “you have no real use.” I let him do it—and yes, it is painful during and after.
I don’t want to dwell on the physical specifics, but the experience forced me to realize how vital the bridge of trust is between a fag and an alpha. In the vacuum of a hotel room, far from the social scripts of the daytime world, the hierarchy becomes a living thing that requires communication to function. Over the years, I have learned that a true fag doesn’t just obey orders; he finds his purpose in them. Yet, there is a recurring shadow: fear. It is a specific, sharp kind of fear—not necessarily of the act itself, but of the sheer, uncompromising scale of the alpha’s power. It is the vertigo one feels standing at the edge of a cliff; it’s not that the cliff is “mean,” it’s simply that its nature is absolute and yours is fragile.
And that fear is okay. In fact, it is necessary. It is the recognition of the weight of the man standing above fags. The key, I’ve found, is to communicate that feeling to the alpha. You aren’t “complaining” or “safe-wording” out of the experience; you are clarifying your position within it. You are telling him that your hesitation isn’t a sign of disrespect toward the natural order, nor is it a rejection of his nature. Rather, it is an admission that you are being moved—truly, deeply moved—by the gravity of his power. When an alpha understands that your fear is actually a form of worship, the dynamic reaches its most honest state.
Maybe I am romanticizing, but I thought it was worth sharing.
Respectfully,
Mister Fag
Well done, brother!
My first question: why do you think the Alpha at bar was not straight? Did he say he wasn’t? Straight Alphas are quite clued in to the use of fags sexually, and when they sense a wild fag in an appropriate moment, they will often make a move. In fact, the ball torture makes me think he was straighter than you imagine.
That aside, I thought this was an exceptional entry in your series, Mister Fag! Your central thesis that Alphas carry a weight that inspires respect, awe, and fear in inferiors like fags is spot-on. I’ve actually heard Alphas say how much it turns them on to see how intimidated faggots and females are in their presence!
The Alpha in the bar probably sensed your nervousness right away and read it correctly. As I’ve said many times, Alphas are extraordinary hunters and possess the ability to read their prey. They see nervous eye contact and instinctively know the person can be controlled and used by them.
But your point about how “fear is a form of worship” is particularly fascinating to me. Even when we aren’t intentionally worshiping an Alpha, our natural instinct of fearful respect is also registered as worship in the eyes of Alphas!
Again, that is why I always encourage faggots to TRY to talk to Alphas and offer service. Yes, I know it can be intimidating, but Alphas read it correctly and hierarchically.
Thank you so much for such an insightful post, brother!
brother, new faggot here, after living a lie for years with a woman, I am now 26 and finally embrace my truth and couldn’t be happier. I lost my virginity two weeks ago with my neighbor. He is married to a woman, but he is a really good guy and a powerful Alpha. He does not want any love from me, just my virgin ass when he needs to unload. He treats me really well and it was magic to give him my virginity. but when he cums inside me I keep feeling his cum for hours, sometimes days, last time I farted the next morning after his visit and I could feel cum leaking from my ass. I guess that’s normal, but I wonder if I should douche after he fucks me to clean my hole from his cum again? I don’t want to overdouche, so I don’t know… sorry if that’s a stupid question brother, but I don’t feel comfortable asking this to my doctor who thinks I am straight. Thanks! I love your work and you taught me a lot!
Brother, welcome to the site and thank you for the question!
Congratulations on being claimed by your first Alpha and finding your purpose! I’m proud of you for submitting yourself and admitting to yourself the real truth you’ve been hiding! You sound exhilarated!
Leakage after breeding is, of course, quite normal. Much of it gets absorbed into your bloodstream through the walls of your colon where it does its magic on you. However, some seminal fluid will leak out (especially with large or multiple loads) and that’s perfectly natural. If you want to make sure more of it is absorbed, you can wear a buttplug for a few hours afterward so it doesn’t leak.
I don’t recommend douching after breeding because that defeats part of the purpose of being bred. Also, too much douching can upset the flora and fauna of your intestines. You just want to douche prior to being fucked so that you’re clean for your Alpha, but after he gifts you with his seed you want to keep as much of it inside you as possible. Faggots should treat an Alpha’s cumshot as practically holy, a most intimate gift of superior DNA.
I think you will find that you’ll crave his cum more and more as he continues to breed you. That’s the magical effect of cum on the minds of fucked faggots!
I hope that answers your question! Again, welcome to the site and thanks for reaching out!
The following post is part of a thread following the story of Titouan, an 18-year-old French faggot currently owned by an older Alpha. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
I’ve been self-caged since 2021 (minus my imprisonment, obviously), and it’s wonderful. But still, if I need to become freed from the cage at any point, I can do that. I have the key.
But it’s an entirely different equation when a faggot is caged by a Master who will also be the keyholder. The faggot often (understandably) becomes anxious because it truly no longer has a choice except to obey. Locked up permanently for the foreseeable future. Can be scary, especially for younger faggots like sweet little Titouan!
Speaking of which, Titouan returns with an update about his straight, married Master and his new designs for his new faggot.
I’m Titouan french boy, in a recent relationship with a straight mature Daddy, he loves twinks like me (secretly to preserve his straight and family life) and loves a lot to use me, make me lick him everywhere, suck his big dick, offer him all my body. I feel lucky to be his young faggot with duty to serve a dominant straight male like him.
This week he says he wants me to buy a chastity cage and bring it next time, so he can fix it on me and keep the key. It already happened I had to wear one but not with him and was only for very short time. He tells me reasons why he demands this, I try to translate his words from French: says for a boy like me respect to my Alpha includes chastity rule, having not any sort of sex relationship with anybody and not being able to touch myself. And knowing his boy has chastity cage when not with him makes him sure of my strict fidelity. Of course as Alpha male he remains free and fidelity obligation is only for me as jeune pédale (young faggot). Seems a fair rule. He adds I must buy small size as I have a little boyish dick, only there to be laughed at by real men or other boys.
I understand Alpha males have unlimited right to pleasure, and at same time chastity is fair rule for faggots. I was asked if I ever had my dick sucked, I answered the truth, yes Sir it happened, last time was some weeks ago a girl wanted to suck me and did it, and yes it was great. I understand with chastity rule it’s going to be forbidden now. Big frustration yes, but I like the idea it pleases my Daddy so much. I feel the superior men and boys have right to maximum pleasure as often as they want, and I must only think of serving them. Isn’t it correct ?
This is an exciting step for Titouan in his service to his new Master! I love it when straight Alphas take ownership of a faggot and their instincts kick in to lock up their fag in chastity (among other things). It’s just so natural. Men have a drive to transform everything they own to meet their own needs, whether it’s jerry-rigging highchairs to make caring for infants easier or building a treehouse in the backyard to keep the kids occupied or adding parts to their cars to make them louder, cooler, and faster. It’s just the nature of Men, and especially Alphas.
A faggot is simply another thing they own and build to satisfy their needs.
Titouan’s Master sounds like he’s enjoying Titouan’s service enough that he wants to make modifications in Titouan so that his new faggot will be even more pleasurable! I love it!
But I really love Titouan’s submissive, willing attitude when it comes to these demands from his Master! He’s much like Fabien, Jimmy, or Giovanni in that respect! They’re all exemplary faggots who typify the proper attitude toward service at any cost … even their useless penises!
Alphas are always going to do whatever they want with faqqots. They have little empathy for creatures for which they feel nothing but disgust, pity, and shame.