I am an Alpha and my boyfriend is my faggot. We’ve been together for almost 2 years and in the last 6 months he’s been obsessed with rimming me. He loves to worship my ass while I’m in the couch sitting on his face, he rubs his tongue on my sweaty hole for hours and hours. Sometimes I jerk off with his tongue in my hole and then I turn to cum in his mouth.

I don’t really care about this to be honest, but I don’t mind it either. He is a good fag so I like to reward him too. Sometimes we’re coming back home in the car and while he drives he already start saying that he wants to worship my ass.

However, I want to know more about this habit. Considering your experience, do you think there is any chance of this habit escalating to him wanting to fuck my ass? There’s no chance this is going to happen. How normal is it for faggots to love rimming a hole that they’ll never own? I have been thinking about cutting this habit, but I know he’ll feel disappointed and consequently will be less obedient.


Master, thank you very much for writing to me! You’ve presented an intriguing issue that I think could use some clarification. 

I want to congratulate you on two years of successful ownership. You honestly must own a good faggot if you’ve kept it around this long. A Master with a good faggot is not just a credit to the faggot, but also the Master. It is through your guidance, training, and use that you have molded your faggot into exactly what you want it to be.

Well, except for the rimming part, I guess.

I was impressed that you’ve indulged your faggot’s desire to lick your ass even though it does little for you. Most Masters would dismiss the faggot before ever capitulating to a faggot’s fetishes, so it’s to your credit that you allow the faggot to lick your ass and satisfy its interest. Ultimately, the faggot licking your ass is pleasure/stimulation/worship for YOU (unless you’re allowing your faggot to jerk off while it does this), so there’s not a lot to complain about, really.

Let me dissuade you right from the start, Master: your faggot has ZERO interest in fucking your ass. True faggots can’t even conceive of fucking anything; they’d have a better chance of translating ancient Sumerian hieroglyphs. Faggots are born to be fucked, and that’s all we understand how to do. 

But many faggots do have a desire to lick their Alpha’s asshole. Why, you ask? Well, the mental/emotional mechanism comes from the same place that causes a faggot’s need for foot worship: a need for humiliation. Licking and kissing a Man’s foot – the lowest, dirtiest part of his body usually – is humiliating and humbling. Most Men would rather die than do that, but for a faggot it’s a need as important as breathing. 

The only place dirtier and more degrading than licking a foot is licking an asshole. It essentially reduces the faggot to something like toilet paper. This type of degradation is important to faggots because faggots have deep feelings of unworthiness and immense gratitude to even be allowed to serve Men at all, so we want to convey to them all the time that they are our entire world and purpose. 

Your faggot feels like it is communicating this to you through this action, Master (or it wants to subconsciously). When you think of a faggot like a dog, you can start to understand these communication signals a bit better. A dog cannot express itself through language, so it communicates its love and appreciation in a variety of physical ways that we can often understand (even if some of them annoy us). Your faggot doesn’t know how to truly express the enormity and depth of its grateful submission to your glory … so licking your ass is a way to convey that.

That said, I think it’s a bad idea to let the faggot indulge in its fetish over your own pleasure, Master. Ultimately, your pleasure and satisfaction is all that matters, and allowing the faggot to use so much of your time “pleasuring itself” through rimming you is bad for the faggot. It needs boundaries, Master. Let it do some of that, but for whatever time you give it for that form of worship, you get reciprocal time devoted to your needs as a Man (or something like that). 

I went deep on this one, Master, like a faggot’s tongue on an Alpha’s asshole LOL. I hope I was able to help you understand this a little better. Frankly, as a faggot that believes sincerely in licking an Alpha’s asshole as a form of glorifying and elevating him, this helped me, too. So I thank you for letting me examine it. 

I do hope this improves, Master. You’re clearly a quality Alpha and Master, and you deserve everything you want!  

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