Questions From Readers

My bf is extremely submissive and I’ve always been dominant, so we are a great match. But I find it weird that he never seems to be horny. If I don’t grab him and give orders for him to suck my dick or put his ass up, we could easily go a whole year without sex. I feel that he doesn’t desire me as much as I desire him, but every time I bring this up he says that he doesn’t like to have any kind of initiative. I would love to have him asking for my dick, waking me up with a blowjob, or simply walking around the house naked to make me horny, but he never does that. Is it normal for faggots to refuse to take any sort of initiative and just wait for their Master orders? My bf NEVER says no, no matter how tired or stressed he is, he always gives me good head and open his hole for me, but since we live together and I own him, I wish he showed more desire and passion.

Master, thank you for writing to me!

It’s a shame that you’re dealing with that, not only from a level of sexual frustration, but also at a basic level of passion and love. You obviously want/need much more heat and excitement than your faggot boyfriend (frankly, Alphas usually outpace faggots in this area anyway).  

It’s odd that you ever got together and stayed together, Master. Was he always this way? Were you able to overlook his lack of initiative at first, but now it’s wearing you down, or was this something that developed after a while in the relationship? Answers to those questions might alter my perception of the issue.

Contrary to how porn portrays us, faggots aren’t uniformly all just absolute cock-whores (only 99.9% of us are). There are some faggots who have been damaged by past relationships or childhood trauma, and that causes them to pull back. In some other cases I’ve known of faggots who so deeply believe they are literally nothing and unworthy of attention that they’re paralyzed to make any kind of move. 

There might be other factors at play here, too. Is your faggot lonely? Is he depressed? Is he struggling with anything personally? Any of these would dampen libido.

Since it sounds like you’ve discussed this issue with him and nothing has changed, let’s look into changing your approach, Master. Are you giving the faggot plenty of aftercare and other forms of reassuring affection? Is the communication warm and lively, or bitter and complaining?

I was trying to think of an exercise that might help, but there are too many unknowns. Maybe give him a night to express what he’d like to do. 

And if you haven’t cunted your faggot, you’ll definitely want to try. You can learn more about that RIGHT HERE, Master. I think it’s almost impossible to imagine that a properly-cunted faggot would ever be indifferent toward sex. 

If nothing else works, you might need to either let this faggot go or supplement it with a second or third faggot to satisfy your needs. I sense you want to avoid that, but ultimately your needs come first. 

Thank you, Master! 

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