Hi Sam,

After some recent events, I’ve been thinking about the hierarchy between alphas lately. You see some banter online, one alpha boasting that “I’m the alpha your alpha serves”, how they “poached” another alpha’s subs. Or that when an alpha recognizes another’s superiority, he will keep his head down in a silent acknowledgment of that superiority, even in front of his sub.

In my case, I enjoy competition, specially physical ones. I’m on a couple of websites where men, mostly bi and gay, can meet up for fights. Some like to play pretend, but I look for the real thing. Hard fought bareknuckle fights, grappling matches with punches (often with low blows allowed), and even the occasional no-rules brawl when none of the involved needs to be at the office the next week. It’s hard to describe the feeling of utterly dominating another alpha, specially when we agreed on stakes beforehand. These guys are fit, leaders in their homes and communities, they are the top of the pyramid and they know it. To bring them down and force them to accept my superiority over them, and subject them to the same things my subs go through under me is unlike anything else I have ever experienced. I’d like to do this with an audience one day, perhaps mine and the other guy’s faggots all watching us go at each other. Haven’t happened yet, but here’s hoping.

But back to my question. I don’t see a lot being written or discussed about this. The way alphas are constantly navigating through this power struggle with other alphas. Not just in the bedroom or in a fetish context, but in family dynamics, in the workplace, everywhere. At least for me, that desire to dominate, to take lead and protect those beneath me can’t be turned off. And that has often put me in conflict with similarly minded men.

Would like to hear your thoughts on this.


Sir, thank you for the interesting backstory as well as your question! 

As a faggot, I can’t even imagine being in a physical fight with a Man. I’ve never been in one (shocking given my mouth) and have less-then-zero interest in it. However, for actual Men fighting is almost like fucking in terms of the sheer adrenaline rush and the desire to force others into submission (as you so eloquently described). Even after the movie FIGHT CLUB came out and popularized the idea, I had a hard time believing it was for real. 

But it is! 

As far as Alpha hierarchical dynamics, I don’t think there is a single writer anywhere (in the community or out) who has written more extensively or with as much detail as I have. I’m not bragging, Sir. For example, my breakdown of Alpha Hierarchy is (I believe) a nearly perfect explanation of how Alphas operate in relation to each other. I’ve used this diagram to explain and predict Alpha behavior based on where each Alpha appears within it. 

My understanding of Alpha Hierarchy was a critical factor for my success during my incarceration. I could see how the Alphas around me moved, and I could pick out the God Alphas from the Apex Alphas and lower Alphas and know which one to approach and how. I even used my Alpha Hierarchy to help one Apex Alpha named Darion (known there as “D”) understand why he needed to use multiple females, and he was so thankful he ran around telling other Alphas about it! 

That success with my understanding of Alpha Hierarchy led to me really thinking deeply about faggot hierarchy, resulting in my publishing that hierarchy a few months ago. Of course, a faggot hierarchy is pretty pointless – a faggot is a faggot – but the breakdown arose from how I discovered and described Alpha Hierarchy.

Aside from strictly writing about Alpha Hierarchy (see the post pinned to the top of this site), I am constantly referring to Alpha Hierarchy in my everyday writing. For example, I have confidently identified Master Anthony (Owner of Fabien) as a God Alpha based on several key factors. So much of that material is incorporated throughout the site. 

Additionally, I have addressed Alpha Hierarchy multiple times on the podcast, most notably in Episode 258 regarding Alpha Ascension (click here).

Again, Sir, I think you’d be hard-pressed to find anyone who has written more extensively about Alpha Hierarchy than I have. Yes, a little faggot like me! 

If anyone has suggestions, I’d love to hear it. 

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