Questions From Readers

Not so a question but more of a general confusion and I don’t know what to do about it and I can’t talk to anyone about it so here I am. I am confused. I’m 25m and a virgin. I’m bi but closeted as I live in an area that isn’t really friendly with that. I’m also religious which is why I haven’t had sex or pursued any sexual desires. I don’t know what I am or how to even approach anything because it’s not really possible to do anything physical. I thought I was pretty vanilla but I’ve been diving deep into all kink related stuff recently especially Alpha/fag Dom/sub dynamics. I initially tried out subbing online and I think it was nice but it never really felt right. But I’ve read all kinds of posts about fags and alphas, their interactions, how fully fags have submitted and it turns me on so much! I continuously feel myself getting turned on by the submission. I initially thought it was me wanting to be submissive but every day I feel myself gravitating towards dominating. I tried it online too and hell it feels amazing it’s such a rush. But it didn’t fit either. Maybe the barrier of being online is making everything weird. I’m getting more frustrated and annoyed by the day that I can’t do anything about it.

There really isn’t a question. Just more of an outlet to speak my mind.

Thank you for writing to me! 

I can appreciate your exhaustion and frustration. It can be bewildering when you’re unsure of your place even though you feel like you should know it. The sensation is akin to stumbling around a funhouse in the dark – it’s not so fun then! 

Let me suggest something based on what you wrote here. I believe you might be suffering from what I call “Alpha Latency”. You see, some Men who are naturally-born Alphas suffer childhood trauma or experience influences that make them deny or dismiss their natural Alpha urges. This prevents these proto-Alphas from developing completely and embracing their true purpose. They wander through life in a kind of gray fog, emotionally disengaged from the world around them because they aren’t realizing and manifesting the power within themselves. 

The fact that you find yourself turned on by faggot submission and a curiosity about dominating them makes me think you have an inborn tendency you’re ignoring, Sir. I wonder what might happen if you just had a faggot come over and worship your feet, Sir. I think you might discover something about yourself that you’re either denying or suppressing. 

Either way, that is my suggestion, Sir. 

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