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October 24, 2025 by sam the faggot No Comments

Hi Sam. I am 38 years old and openly gay all my adult life. I got married to my husband 20 years ago and we adopted a child. I did all the “American dream” things. Married, career, home, children etc. etc. while I am openly gay, I have suppressed my faggot nature. A few years ago I told my husband I needed to submit and worship Alphas. My husband’s NOT an Alpha so he gave me permission to serve others and I have done so very well for 3 years now. My problem is, I have to give most of my time to my family and career and I’ve struggled to find an alpha that doesn’t want ALL of me all the time. So my question is, can I be a faggot even though most of my time is spent in service to my family and career? Or should I accept that I can’t serve enough and retire my faggothood?

Thank you for the question, brother!

First of all, congratulations on the relationship and family! Most faggots (like me) remain free of long-term romantic relationships and raising children, so it’s nice that you have that.

I think it’s telling that, despite having that comfortable family life, your heart is still needing to serve Alphas. Here’s what it tells us: faggots are BORN TO SERVE. It’s not a choice, it’s not a kink, it’s not a mental illness. We are simply born into that function.

So when you ask “Can I still be a faggot if the majority of my time is spent with my family?”, it’s sort of misdirection. You will ALWAYS be a faggot regardless of what you’re doing in life. And you will ALWAYS have a need to serve.

Now, you might be classed as a non-functioning or low-functioning faggot given your circumstances, and there’s nothing wrong with that. This is your life today, and you have important responsibilities to care for. I’m in a similar boat with you right now, so I feel your frustration.

Your desire to serve is admirable, brother, and I respect you completely. Your willingness to reach out and TRY is better than many faggots who never try at all. You deserve praise, not judgement. Live the best life you can, brother!

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