Sam, Do you know of any faggots who have met or been approached by an alpha because the fag was wearing one of your hierarchy shirts — like the one that says “faggot” or “locked” or with the hierarchy logo. I keep wondering what would happen if I wore a T-shirt that proclaimed I was a faggot and went to places where straight alphas would be — or even just on the street.
Thank you for the question!
Yes, some of the shirts I sold in the store definitely worked well. Here were the most effective:
I heard some stories about faggots wearing the “faggot” tee shirt (the #1 seller on the store) out at places and getting action (same with the “locked” shirt), but nothing compared to the stories I received from faggots who wore the “NO RECIP” shirt. One faggot told me that the shirt led to at least seven service opportunities right after purchasing it!
I honestly should’ve made the line a lot sluttier and “in your face”, but I was trying as best as I could to be suggestive while also retaining socially-acceptable standards so they could be worn anywhere.
I think I have different plans for the Hierarchy brand. Something more upscale. We’ll see.
Longtime fan of your site. I have been trying to figure out what to write to you for a while now (if you want to share any of this on your site please feel free to do so).
A little background: I’m a fag, 40 years old, former fraternity guy and athlete. I’ve been married to my Alpha military husband (Army Alpha) for 10 years.
Our relationship in brief: I’m obviously a total bottom, I’m into a lot of kinks and some kinda extreme stuff. I’ve experienced a few rapes over my lifetime, and it’s a big part of my desire to serve. I also tend to seek situations where I put myself at risk of that happening and recreating what I’ve gone through. My favorite experiences of service have been for sadistic, Destroyer Alphas (if those details are of interest I can share my experiences). I’m a masochistic fag and like to know that my pain brings pleasure for an Alpha.
My Alpha husband (I’d say he is in the Protector Alpha category) understands this and has been open to exploring some of these desires of mine but also says he loves me and couldn’t take it as far as I want. He is a total top, but is more vanilla sexually. I obviously don’t pressure or force him to do anything he isn’t comfortable with, but it has impacted our sex lives. He usually only uses my mouth and not my fag hole because of his size (8-8.5 inches and extremely thick). Although I am a total bottom and have taken many Alpha cocks, and I stretch myself frequently, I remain very tight – to the point that sometimes he says it’s too tight for him to fuck me and doesn’t feel good on him. I’ve told him he can force it into me, begged him to, but when I start to show I’m in pain it turns him off.
We’re fully open, he fucks other fags and likes to hear about me getting fucked by other guys. We rarely have threesomes for many reasons (mostly irrelevant but can share if you want to know). But I’ve heard a really hard time recently finding any other true Alphas that would be willing to fuck me hard and wreck my fag hole. He says if I have that done he thinks I’d be loser for him.
For the next year we are long distance (because of a deployment for him) but I’ll be able to visit him for a month or two every few months. I’ve been looking EVERYWHERE for an Alpha to own me while he’s gone (Grindr, X, BDSMLR, Reddit, etc) but have been unsuccessful.
My questions for you:
1. Where can I find an Alpha? Most guys I talk to are only seeking virtual roleplay, or are too far away to ever meet, or want a young fag (at 40 I’m still very conscious about my looks and body and make sure I stay attractive for Alphas). I’m mostly attracted to straight Alphas (all my friends are straight and they are 100% in the Alpha category). I’ve tried to show them I’d serve them but it’s never worked (a few brief moments with teammates or frat brothers or childhood friends but never long term).
2. I don’t want to pressure my Alpha husband into things and know it isn’t my place, but when he fucks other fags he is very rough and aggressive so I know he has that side to him as well. Is there a way I could respectfully encourage him to do the same to me? He recently told me about a fag he fucked wearing his uniform, one booted foot on the fags head while he fucked him using only a little spit for lube and the fag ripped and bled. I get hard knowing he did that and wish it were me. He knows that I’d like that but says he’d never want to hurt me. But he’s hurting me by not giving me that experience and it’s now becoming an overriding focus of my life. I’ll spend days seeking it out, and now that I live alone I have fewer responsibilities to my Alpha so I will ignore friends and family and work searching for an Alpha to use me (that’s incredibly embarrassing for me to admit, and I know it isn’t healthy but its been so long since I was able to feel of use and like I’m fully serving I am obsessed with it).
Sam – can you help me please?
Respectfully,
Frat Fag Alex
Thank you for writing to me, Alex! I apologize for the delay!
I’ve encountered this weird situation a couple of times in the past, and it always leaves me baffled. Protector Alphas are amazing, but when they’re GAY Protector Alphas it can almost become a barrier. Gay Protector Alphas are too careful with their faggot partners because they’re in love with their faggot partners.
A faggot is a very specific kind of creature. Our need to be used and serve overwhelms everything else. We surrender everything to fulfill this central need; our bodies, our minds, our self-respect, and even our hopes and dreams. Even extreme pain is not a real consideration for us fags, just as long as we are pleasing our Owners. All that truly matters to us is our Alpha’s complete satisfaction. I really don’t think it’s even possible for Alphas to comprehend this about their faggots, even extremely experienced Alphas like your husband.
I get that he loves you. You are his most prized possession. But that is what’s so confounding to me about this situation – he’s loving you so much that he’s preventing you from being the most complete version of yourself. By sparing you what he thinks is pain, he’s actually causing tremendous emotional damage to you instead. I’m sure you’d agree with me that a pussy hole delightfully damaged in service will recover, but slowly suffocating to death as years tick away is the kind of damage that is hard to recover. Does your husband really think it’s okay for you to watch him use other faggots the way you desperately want to be treated?? That idea is mind-boggling to me.
It’s amazing how much better straight Alphas are with their personal faggots when it comes to this issue, and I think that’s both a shame and a mystery.
Anyway, back on point. I want to deal with the second question first, because I think the real issue is what’s happening in the marriage.
First and foremost, I want you to have your husband read your ask and my reply. It’s very important that he comprehends the depth of your desperation and sadness over this. He needs to appreciate how much long-term damage this is causing within you. He also needs to understand that giving to other fags the most intrinsic thing you desire and are denied is absolutely wrong, cruel, and unconscionable.
Secondly, whenever you both are together, I want you to try Caged Jock’s ingenious hole-stretching method using chopsticks (SEE THE VIDEO HERE). This is an activity you can do together to stretch you more and prepare you for the fuck of your life. This is the kind of “upkeep” every Master should be doing with their faggots in order to customize them for proper service.
As for your Question #1:
Submitting to your straight Alpha friends is still a possibility, but it might be only in the domestic aspect unless you get them drunk. The problem faggots have when trying to seduce their straight Alpha friends is the “friends” part. When an Alpha sees a guy as his friend (and “equal”), he’s less likely to want to use the fag. Calling them “Sir”, being complimentary, and directing the conversations to them in upbuilding ways (particularly engaging them in conversations about their Alphahood) can and often does lead to some engagement. Take a couple of these straight Alpha friends out for dinner/drinks and employ a more submissive persona, utilize what I just told you, and you might be surprised. I wonder if they even really understand what a faggot is … so it might be good to educate them. They’d also need to understand that your Owner has no issue with you serving other Alphas.
You can employ these same techniques while out alone at a bar or restaurant/bar and you see a straight Alpha alone. Offer to pay for his meal/drinks, and when he asks, just be frank as to why. Is he really going to hit a submissive male who’s buying stuff for him and calling him an Alpha? Of course not! He might not be willing to do anything, but this is a game of repetition and averages. Keep trying, and you will find success.
The apps are a mess, but apps like TheBlowers.com will absolutely get you Alpha action. Try that in a pinch.
In conclusion, I honestly think this situation with your Alpha husband can be fixed. There needs to be more open, honest communication and some experimentation to make it work.
Thank you for the long-time readership, and for reaching out to me, my brother!
The following post is part of a thread following the story of Titouan, an 18-year-old French faggot currently owned by an older Alpha. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
The dynamic between Titouan and his straight married Master is interesting to me. This Master clearly loves his family, but he really enjoys owning faggots, too. He’s even made arrangements to constantly receive their worship by keeping a secret apartment in Paris! Not many Alphas go to those lengths!
Now comes Titouan’s summer plans (or, rather, the plans his Master made for him!), which mostly involve plenty of work!
Hi it’s Titouan french twink in recent relationship with a straight Alpha Daddy who makes me come to secret apartment he has in Paris and uses me as his young cocksucker.
Yesterday he said me something about next July, I translate from French : he will be alone for two weeks as his family goes to seaside (he is family man, has teen daughters – exciting to know that he has this straight life and at same time sees secretly twinks like me for his pleasure). He wants me to stay with him while his family will be at sea in southern France, with these rules : I’ll have to be his houseboy, of course also to offer him my mouth and whole body every time he wants, and my other obligations wearing chastity cage and only boyish tighty whities. What is new is houseboy duties, i do not Know exactly what they will be, I think It is normal he demands this, seems exciting to have to serve him in this different way, even if being his young cocksucker is the most important . Isn’t it fair he wants to use me during this summer period when his family is away ? (I think he sees other boys in his secret apartment, I suppose he wants to go on during summer, I know fidelity obligation is only for me as his young faggot, isn’t it his right as superior straight Alpha Daddy )
It’s so interesting to me that Tito’s Master is managing to get away from his family for such a long period of time so he can fuck faggots! Alphas always find a way to get what they want!
As for Titouan, this summer is going to be really exciting! He’s finally going to be able to live out his true purpose! I’m sure it’s going to be a lot of work, but it’ll be good work!
I’m proud of my little brother Titouan! He’s fearlessly pushing himself to be the best faggot possible!
Sam, I sent you a message a month ago about my Jamaican Alpha… do u remember me??
I respectfully asked him if he could prepare my hole and he was very nice to me. He told me to buy three dildos (small, medium, and large). The biggest one had 18 cm, but his cock is 22 cm. He said that he did that on purpose because he wanted me nice and tight for him. I trained for around 10 days, following step by step what he told me. Then I went to his apartment, wearing a big plug, and I was really scared, brother. I sucked him for a long time, and when he said “I’m gonna fuck you now”, I almost tried to run away, but I remained there to fulfill my destiny. He has so much experience, it was really great to be manhandled by such an experienced Alpha. He held me with his hands positioned me on his lap and told me to go down as much as I could. I only took one third of his cock. But he was really good to me when I said I couldn’t go deeper than that. He just held my hips and banged me with the tip of his cock (which is already a lot lol). He came, bred me, and I relaxed my hole for two days before he banged me again. And what matters the most: he said that I am really good boy and he’s proud of me!
I also want to say that I read the message of the Alpha with a 5-inch girthy dick and I want to say to him: MASTER, I DON’T KNOW YOU BUT YOU ARE A LUCKY MAN!! Really, I wish my Alpha had a 5-inch dick, my life would be soooo much easier. Specially if he wants to fuck and breed virgin faggots, this cock size is just great. But that’s alright, I am a fag, and my duty is to accept whatever my Man has to me, I just wanna say that my poor virgin ass would’ve suffered so much less if my master had a dick this size. And by the way, I have just seen one cock my whole life, but 5 inches with 6 inches of girth is huge! I couldn’t be able to close my right hand holding his cock. I know you already said that my brother Sam, but I just wanted to give my opinion as a young faggot who has just been fucked and bred by a enormous cock.
I love you brother!! <3 I am happy with my Man and thanks to you I am working hard to become a better fag for him.
I’m glad that your giant-dicked Master had some mercy on you and helped you to develop your ability to please him! It really speaks to the quality of your Master as well as your true desire to be a successful faggot! An Alpha’s reaction to challenging circumstances reveals what’s in his heart, so when your Master didn’t just shove his dick into you and force you to take it all, it demonstrates a wisdom and benevolence on his part! He is definitely an Alpha worth serving!
But your dedication to training in order to please him to the best of your ability reveals what a good faggot you are, too! Your Master sees that, and that’s why he reassured you with commendation by calling you a “good boy”. He’s pleased by what he sees in you as a prized, valuable possession. He sees the desperation in your face as you struggle to please him, and that satisfies him in a way that can’t be measured in orgasms, if you understand what I mean.
I’m really proud of you, little brother! Keep up the good work! Love you!
The following post is part of a thread chronicling the experiences of a French faggot named Fabien who has been claimed by his straight God Alpha friend Anthony. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
When I created the “faggot hierarchy” model (CLICK HERE), I named the top class of fag “mentor faggot” with several fags in mind because this site has attracted a truly inspirational group of young mentor faggots. These are fags who teach their brothers, move their brothers to action, and correct them when they’re wrong.
Chief among these mentor faggots is little Fabien, my sweet baby brother from France. Fabien helped straight Master Anthony discover the world of faggot worship and ownership. And, as Master Anthony’s Alpha Pack began to take faggots of their own, Fabien was able to shepherd these new fags and teach them how to properly serve. What he has done with all of the straight Alphas and eager faggots surrounding Master Anthony has been nothing short of extraordinary.
Fabien shared a recent mentorship experience with me. I thought it was beautiful, so I’m sharing it with you:
My dear big brother,
I know you rather like my tories involving my mentoring of the Alpha Pack’s other faggots, so maybe you’ll find this one interesting even if it covers something we have already explored before: how to deal with the Alpha Men’s moodiness.
You see, my baby brother Clément, the young slave of my Master’s best bro, Henri, has reached me lately by mail to ask for my advice. The sweet boy noticed that his Owner had been in a sour mood lately and was often more aggressive and impatient with him.
Little Clément is worried that Henri is going through a rough patch and asked me what he could do to help him. Of course, I replied to his email right away. Below is a translation of my reply.
“Dearest Clem,
Thank you very much for reaching me! I’m touched you ask my advice to help your Master. You know I care a lot about you and I care a lot about Henri, my Master’s best friend. I’ll try to give you some guidance based on my experience and the advice and lessons I’ve learned myself.
Dealing with our Masters’ emotional turmoil and inner wounds is always complicated. Alphas are in control of their emotions, they force themselves to stay strong no matter what and they avoid showing vulnerability at all costs, except in very rare circumstances and when they feel completely at ease. But they carry burdens we cannot imagine: as superior beings, they bear the weight of many expectations. Girls, families, teachers or colleagues, and their alpha peers and competitors… Their worries can stem from many things.
At times like these, a slave boy’s loyalty is invaluable. The greatest support you can give him is, of course, your unwavering devotion. Keep obeing and serving and worshipping him no matter what and it will help him greatly. I know it can sometimes be hard to deal with his harshness and feel like your service no longer pleases him. But don’t forget: as long as he keeps you by his side, gives you orders, and expects your servility, it means he’s still counting on you. Don’t let him down. Endure it, for his sake. Don’t forget: he comes first. It’s all about him, not you.
Now, if you want to encourage him to talk to you about his worries (which can do him a world of good!), you need to approach the situation with great tact. Above all, he must not feel belittled in front of you.
The best thing to do is to wait for a quiet moment, when he’s relaxing on the couch, for example. Crawl over to him and kiss his feet. Speak to him while keeping your face close to his feet. Remind him how superior he is, how much you crave to serve him, and tell him that if he wants to share his problems with you, he can do so knowing that you will listen to him with respect and adoration. Then, just keep worshipping him and do not push him, let him decide what he wants to do.
If you do things this way, I’m sure he’ll start opening up to you sooner or later. When he does, don’t forget to reassure him and praise him! You can give him your thoughts if he asks for them, but more importantly, remind him that no matter what, he’s a Superior Man and entitled to the best of life! Remind him that you’re here for him, always.
Love you, Clem! Be sure to keep me posted!
Your brother,
Fabien”
Clément thanked me profusely and committed to follow my lead. I feel so good knowing that I am helping my faggot brothers and, more importantly, improving the lives of some Alphas by doing so!
Isn’t that lovely? It’s the perfect advice, tender yet full of useful tips! But that’s Fabien’s nature at work. His joy and wisdom are infectious, and his daily hard work is the finest example to all of his fag brothers!
Well a bit later Fabien followed up with me to report how Clément was doing in following his advice:
My very dear sam,
Just a quick note to let you know that Clément sent me a very sweet message to inform me that things got better with his Master Henri. He had the opportunity to follow my advice to the letter and did it! Clément quietly worshipped Henri’s feet while the young Man was moody alone on his bed. Then he praised him like the Superior Alpha he is and reminded him that he was there for him, no matter what, even if only to listen to his troubles. Henri told him to come closer, stroked his hair and told him he was a good boy and that he liked him, even if he didn’t say so very often.
I can tell you that Clément is overwhelmed with emotion and sheer bliss! I am so happy for my baby brother that he can experience the indescribable blessing of being approved by his beloved Master!
My dear sam, do you think my last mails about all this could be used for a publication on your wonderful website? I’m sure it could help and comfort a lot of faggots and benefit to their Masters!
Lots of love!
fab the fag
Isn’t that great? I’m so proud of Clément for not giving up or falling into a depression himself over Henri’s moodiness! As faggots, our own emotional states are tied closely to that of our Owners! However, we must be the ones to anticipate their needs and serve through those dark moments all Alphas have!
When I was their age, I often misread my Master’s moods or took them personally. I often had to redirect my own thinking in order to maintain my focus on my Master’s needs. After all, there was no Hierarchy University out there to guide me!
I think Clément’s experience shows how little it takes from an Alpha to make us feel overwhelmed with joy. Henri barely had to do anything except stroke Clément’s hair and tell him “good boy” in order to send Clément into spasms of happiness!
Faggots are truly human versions of Labrador retrievers! All we want is to be at our Master’s feet and make him happy all day long!
Fabien did such a glorious job gently training Clément, and the rewards are boundless. Notice how Fabien selflessly rejoices with Clément! We are truly a brotherhood when we support each other this way!
I’m practically exploding with pride over Fabien! He’s a light in my heart, absolute living proof of hierarchical truth, and a dear, dear brother. Fabien glorifies Master Anthony with every thought, word, and deed!
I can only imagine Master Anthony’s pride! He owns one of the greatest mentor faggots on Earth, which is fitting given that he is one of the greatest God Alphas on Earth!
Hi sam–do you have any unconventional service ideas for a straight alpha? The usual massages + financial and domestic work are feeling a bit stale. I want to do something that will wow him and make him think: “Damn, that’s my faggot!”
Thank you so much for the interesting question!
I hope you’re having success with those other methods, because they do work! But I get it … there’s only so many times you can rub a straight Alpha’s feet before he wonders why he has you around.
Depending on the situation, you could pay for a wonderful date night for an Alpha and his girlfriend/wife, offer to chauffeur them to and from the event, and perhaps do other things (like flowers, etc.) to make it extra special. Alternatively, if you can cook, you could make an extravagant meal for them and serve it to them, then clean up afterward. If you’re an in-house faggot, you could also serve them breakfast in bed. Why am I suggesting these things? Because honoring a straight Alpha’s romantic relationship and making him look good in her eyes increases the value of the faggot doing it!
Another thing straight Alphas love are their cars. I used to surprise my Master Aaron with deluxe detailing or I’d buy him new rims or whatever, especially if he had some big event. You can try that. It worked for me.
Gift giving in general is always good, but especially when it’s tailored to a particular interest. One of my Alphas loved Michael Jordan shoes, so I’d surprise him with a latest pair that I knew he wanted. Things like that show a straight Alpha that he’s important enough to especially cater to.
I also took classes on massage and pedicures, so I was able to increase my value for straight Alphas as well. This is extra training I took on so that I might be able to offer that at any time.
The following post is part of a thread chronicling the development of a 22-year-old faggot in Mexico named Angel as he submits to and serves a prolifically-virile straight Alpha named Garcia! CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
There comes a moment in the lifecycle of a faggot when the fag must go outside its comfort zone and make an offer of service to an Alpha. This is not always easy, especially when dealing with straight Alphas who are unfamiliar with the logical truth of hierarchy. Although most straight Alphas won’t become violent if approached correctly, that thought is always running through the fag’s mind. It’s that fear that keeps faggots from actually taking that step, and they end up frustrated and unfulfilled.
That’s why I was so proud to hear from a faggot named Angel from Mexico recently. He asked for help in approaching a straight Alpha named Garcia who had already commandeered Angel’s house for sexual encounters with random females. You can read those other asks with the link above.
But now there has been a major breakthrough! Previously, Master Garcia refused to be touched or have his feet kissed because it was “too gay” (a typical complaint from straight Alphas). But listen to what just happened:
Hi Sam!! This is Angel from Mexico again. Guess what?? Garcia brought two girls to my house on Sunday and the fucked aaaaaall day. When they left, I thought he would leave too, but he decided to stay!! And told me to serve his dinner. Of course I did, and served the best meal of his life <3 and even baked a nice cake for him after his dinner. Then he said “oh wow, this food is so good, and I came so much today, I’m really tired” Then I did a wild move and asked him if he wanted a foot massage while I served some whisky for him. And he said yes!! Omg it was so amazing. This time I didn’t try to kiss his feet, I just gave him a long and relaxing massage with my fag hands.
I know it sounds stupid that I am so happy for giving him a massage, but it was soooo good!! I would never imagine that he would allow me to touch him, he is super super heteronormative. But he had a big smile on his face… I don’t think he will ever let me suck his cock but I’m so glad serving him this way. I will give him the letter to an alpha as you said, I am just thinking about the best way to do it without scaring him, you know?
Anyway, I just wanted to share this with you because I feel like your little brother and I love you <3
What a good boy!! I’m so proud of you, Angel!
Given the fact that Master Garcia had rebuffed Angel’s attempts to touch/kiss his feet, it would be understandable if Angel pulled back out of respect and fear. But Angel didn’t allow that fear to dictate his actions or his opportunities! Master Garcia’s demand for a meal gave Angel the resolve to try again!
And it WORKED!
I cannot stress enough how important it is to not only be brave, but also persistently submissive. Angel took my advice and continued to provide service to Master Garcia despite the fact that it seemed Master Garcia would never allow him to serve. This is critical, because many faggots would’ve stopped serving once they realized they wouldn’t get what they wanted. But that’s what sets true faggots apart from the rest!
So the effect of Angel’s continuous and faithful service resulted in Master Garcia finally lowering his guard and allowing his (currently unclaimed) faggot to serve him more intimately!
From Angel’s experience, we learn how a faggot’s faithful and extremely submissive service essentially allows the faggot to fly under the radar of an Alpha’s defenses. Before they know it, Alphas discover how much they love being worshiped by fags. It’s a magical discovery for them. They start to feel a power they never expected from fag ownership, and they want more of it.
This is the underlying mechanism of hierarchical dynamics.
I’m so grateful to Angel for sharing his experience with us and illustrating in “real time” how to ease into the good graces of a powerful straight Alpha!
Angel asked my opinion on how to present the “Letter To An Alpha” to Master Garcia. I’m not sure if an opportunity will naturally develop, but he could kneel and ask Master Garcia for his opinion on it. That could lead to an interesting conversation!
But I have all of the faith in my little brother Angel! I love you, kiddo!
My name is rick and I’m a Scottish faggot – well, kinda! Which is the question!
I love being a faggot a serving Doms, domesticatally, sexually, as a taxi, however I can, but, sometimes I get exhausted with it all and need a “break”. These can last a few days or a few weeks, and I always come back to it, and there’s a few Dom/Alpha guys I know who are pretty understanding and are happy to let me return, but I guess I am asking a) is this normal, and b) how can I avoid “faggot burnout” if that’s a thing?!
Thank you for the excellent question!
Faggot burnout is absolutely a thing, and it’s something I had planned for a post on this site … but you beat me to it! Anyway, this might be a good way to start that conversation.
It’s only natural to be overwhelmed when you have an Alpha (or Alphas) you’re serving consistently. Life is difficult enough as it is without an Alpha always demanding service of some kind. I remember there was an Alpha I was serving regularly several years ago as his on-call cocksucker. He would show up at my place at odd hours of the day unexpectedly and demand a few hours of oral service. My schedule at that time simply didn’t accommodate that arrangement easily. I felt worn-out and constantly in dread of his surprise mouth inspections.
But do you want to know when I didn’t experience “faggot burnout”? When I was OWNED as an in-house faggot! In that situation, a faggot slips into what I’ve called “perpetual subspace”. In perpetual subspace, a faggot loses itself in the constant work of service and worship, receiving in return the fulfillment of purpose so profound that it makes everything else disappear. I liken it to the joy a mother feels when she’s finally delivered her baby, the pain and struggle of the previous nine months and the pain of childbirth instantly disappearing.
I realize that being owned as an in-house faggot isn’t always possible, but it should always be the goal in order to experience that bliss.
Hi Sam! This is Nick again from Argentina. We talked about my fear of STIs and condoms in the past… I hope you are having a wonderful week! 🙂
I have a BIG QUESTION now, brother Sam. I am going out with an Alpha and he has fucked me five times. He is great and he respects me a lot. But something crazy happened. It sounds like a crazy porn movie, but it is true and I really need your help… This Alpha has a job and he really wants to be promoted. His boss is an older guy and the son of his boss is the manager who supervises him. The thing is that we all know each other although we are not close to each other. His boss’s son (the manager) is a gay Alpha with a very dominant personality and told him that he finds me hot. To be short, he basically said that, if my Alpha helps him to fuck my ass, he will talk to his father to promote him. It is my ass in exchange to his promotion.
To be honest, this guy is hot and I wouldn’t mind him fucking me if it would benefit my Man, but I am afraid that he will just fuck me and not help my Man at all. My Alpha talked to me and said that I don’t need to do it, but I know how much he wants this promotion… so I think it would be a good way to please him. Do you think it’s a bad idea, brother??
Nick, thank you for the follow-up question! It sounds like you’re progressing very well! Congrats on the new Master!
This is a pretty exciting predicament you’re in (it DOES sound like a porn movie!), and holds a lot of possibilities for you to be of service to two Alpha Masters! I don’t think this is a very hard decision to make, brother: you absolutely need to serve this gay Master. Even if your current Master doesn’t get the promotion, you’ll have shown yourself to be an exceptional faggot who is willing to do whatever it takes to full serve! There really isn’t a downside to this for you!
So go get the blessing of your Master, and then go service this gay Master!
As the title suggest, I think the Super Bowl is a good thing for faggots because during the show I was invited to the party and there were two stray guys that we knew and one that I didn’t and two other fellow fags and one thing we all notice was the guys were naked semi hard all the time we were told to stay between their legs all the time I got the new guy reason why is because I was told he was really rough and during the halftime shows we would be forced to slobber and serve those cocks. Of course, I made a mistake of looking at my master for once and he smacked me hard across the face and told me not to look in my eyes fag Now I see why I got stuck with the new guy
Anyway, his team started losing and he got pissed really pissed and instead of letting him yell yelling scream always said was when you’re pissed off come fuck the faggot He did and I won’t lie I kind of liked how he hit me how he made me feel like I was worthless and we both came pretty hard, hands-free orgasm. Imagine that.
Anyway, do you think the Super Bowl is a good thing for us fags because we get to be put to use Sam for a long time I used to think that you were wrong about us and now I’m trying to realize I was wrong. I enjoy getting used I enjoy being pissed on. I enjoy just almost all of it.
Thanks for the question!
Yes, of course the Super Bowl (or any other Alpha-oriented gathering) is great for faggots. Even if we aren’t used sexually, it’s still wonderful to be able to be useful in times like that.
Speaking of which, I was at a huge bar watching the game with a large group, and my black straight Alpha friend Matt actually let his wife and kids go home. When I asked him why, he said he didn’t need her there to serve him when I’m there to do it. So that’s what I did, getting his drinks and food, cleaning up after him, etc.
The following post is part of a thread documenting the service discoveries of Tim, a faggot in a long-term open-but-vanilla relationship who seeks part-time ownership from an Alpha. CLICK HERE to read all posts in this thread in chronological order!
How many times have I recommended gyms and gym locker rooms to both Alphas and faggots over the years? I’ve served Alphas in gyms, and I’ve chronicled many Alphas and faggots who have found success there. Gyms are notoriously great places for Alpha/faggot connections because of the fact that working out floods Alphas with testosterone (and faggots with Alpha pheremones), and the pumps they receive get them feeling their own powerful sexual presence. It’s literally gasoline on red-hot coals.
Another great reason why gyms are such effective pick-up places is because of hierarchical energy. Alphas love to flex around other males is order to reinforce hierarchy, and they also love to show off their easy power. There are few flexes more dramatic than an Alpha claiming a faggot in the middle of a room full of Men! Trust me on this … I’ve been to PRISON, after all!
The latest evidence of the power of gyms to connect Alphas and faggots might be the greatest (and certainly hottest) story this site has ever featured. It’s an account from a faggot named Tim, a late-forties gay male in a long-term vanilla relationship in the northeastern corner of the United States. It’s the perfect example of a faggot being yielding to the hierarchical winds blowing him toward destiny, and then being unafraid to take action when that moment arrives.
My comments after. Buckle up, because this is one incredible story:
Hey Sam,
i had a pretty intense faggot experience today that i think moved me forward in my efforts to find an ongoing Sir. I’m in a smaller big city in the north east, masculine presenting faggot in my late 40’s. My gym is mostly straight in the business section of center city. Very rarely have i been able to serve Men in the steam room. Today i had the steam room all to myself, then hit the shower. As i was drying off at my locker with my tiny fag cock out, i caught eyes with a Man going in. He sat down near the glass door and was staring at me , nodding His head in a “get in here” gesture. So of course i did, sat next to Him with my towel undone and He pulled out his massive Man cock and I blew Him. He was pushing my face under his balls close to his furry asshole. He smell d amazing post workout. My tiny cock was leaking like crazy. He came in my mouth and gave me a good face slap and left.
i was pretty happy! This never happens! It was worth using my drying towel in the steam room and now only having 2 small hand towels to dry off with. i waited a minute or so and left the sauna.
As i was coming out a tall Man with dreads wrapped up and slightly spilling out watched me and i couldn’t help look him in the eyes and than it was hard to look away. We was taking his clothes off and i couldn’t tell if He was going to work out or wanted me to go back in the steam room. So i checked my phone at my locker and lingered and our eyes kept meeting. He was humming and had super cheery vibe. i was confused and cold so i started to make my way to the shower and He gave me look as i passed him that after a few more steps past Him, i honored my impulse to turn back, put my soap back in my locker and go the the steam room.
2 guys were in there sitting on the higher bench. The seating is an L shape, with the bottom of the L having 2 levels and the long part of the L just one level of seating. The 2 guys on the 2nd level with their feet on the 1st level of wooden bench, were spaced in a way that they took up the width of the upper bench. 1 guy was super hot, looked straight, late 50’s, on His phone with His pretty big cock hanging out of His towel. The other guy looked like a 40 something quiet, maybe gay, type of guy. I sat on the one leveled long part of the L so I was in profile to the 2 guys sitting on level 2. Then the Sir that was staring at me in the locker room walked in. towel in hand, not around His body. He gestured to the 2 guys on level 2 and they both moved to their corners and He sat between them. He was tall and he manspread and took up al His space. His cock was the perfect big cock size. i followed my impulse to open my towel so my tiny fag cock was visible to Him. He stretched His arms out and sighed, or more like mad an ahhh sound. Just owning the steam room.
Then He stretched His leg out and his foot was right in front of my face! I stared as it and followed it as he put it back down. Then he stretched his other leg so his other foot was right in front of my face. I followed it back. This repeated. i wanted to kiss them each time they were directly in front of my face. i tried to scope out the other 2 guys. The guy with his cock out and on his phone was so hard to read. I kept thinking – who brings their phone into a steam room?! – Probably not someone who wants a faggot to worship their cock. the other guy I felt like he would be jerking off to whatever i did to the Alpha. So i didn’t make a move. i took a few breaks and sat outside the steam room. i hoped the other guys would leave. They all stayed in there the entire time, never even taking a break.
After what felt like hours but was about 20 minutes, i went back in after my 4th or so break and after a few minutes the phone guy left. Alpha stretched out his foot right in front of my face and i kissed it. He put His big toe in my mouth. I sucked it. I licked the sole of His foot. He put it down and i followed it with my head and kissed the top of it. He lifted his other foot and I kissed it, put as much of it in my mouth as i could as He extended his leg fully, stretching it. The other guy slid closer to Sir and was stroking his now hard Alpha cock. I started massaging the free foot with my hands when using my mouth to worship the other. A few moments of pause when people walked by. One of the stops the other guy left. Finally alone with the Alpha, Sir. Ad then another time we paused because the phone guy came back. He took his towel off and sat on it with His big cock out! So i just went back to worshiping Alpha’s feet. One of the times we came back from another quick pause I slid over to the lower bench, between his legs and put His cock in my mouth. it was hard and big enough to be hard and hanging down into my mouth. my hands were massaging his foot. i was sure to get my mouth on his balls and get a good sniff under His balls. He put the foot that was in my hands in my mouth. i sucked on his foot as deep as i could. He moaned. I grabbed the other Sir’s foot and massaged it. He was stroking His cock. Alpha moaned again and I looked over at His cock and He was cumming! A nice slow ooze of a load all over His inner thigh. He put His cock in my mouth to take the rest of it and then i licked all the Alpha cum off His inner thigh. We had a quick stop pause as a guy walked by causing me to move back to my seat across from Him. He stood up and stretched His arms, holding his towel He had been sitting on. His cock was swinging and he sighed a very satisfied sigh and left.
I slid back over to be under the phone Man’s cock. He fed it to me and He gestured for me to sit up on the upper tier next to Him. I did and He grabbed the back if my head and guided it to His cock. I sucked it nice and slow until we had to pause again and He said “I don’t wanna get thrown outta here” and slapped His cock against my cheek and left.
Okay, you can breathe now!
First of all, I’m so proud of my brother Tim for stepping up when the moment called for action even though he wasn’t exactly sure what kind of reaction he might receive! He was successful because he trusted this hierarchical truth: being submissive and worshipful to Alphas will almost always result in a positive response because Alphas all love to be worshiped!
Buoyed by that truth, Tim was able to do remarkable things to serve multiple Alphas in a gym sauna!
Notice also that Tim paid attention to the Alphas in the locker room, noticing their signals and obeying them! A faggot MUST carefully watch the Alphas around them, being observant for clues that can lead to service opportunities. Tim did that, and he achieved success!
Notice also: Tim perfectly describes the actions of a verifiable God Alpha with the manspreading Alpha who directed the other two Alphas in the sauna. My hierarchical diagram continues to prove to be true!
Now Tim had a few questions. I want to make sure I answer them as well:
i couldn’t believe all the luck i had today. i wanted to share it with you and ask you the questions that were going through my mind as i rode home on the bus. i’m in an open gay ltr that’s vanilla and i’m very happy in it. i don’t want to be a live in or 24/7 faggot. i want to serve within my limitations. i know that sounds counter to what a faggot is. is there room for a faggot like me in this? i hope to find an Alpha that will need a fag on the side. i can’t do findom but am eager to serve in all the ways i can with limits pushed as well, just not changing the course of my life outside of being a faggot. i believe there is an alpha out there that will fit with me. Ive met a few over the years but none that lasted too long. What do you think, Sam?
My other question – am i on the right track with my behavior today? i hope to see one of the 2 Alphas i met today. Interestingly, the 2nd one (phone Alpha) seemed like an even better fit but not really sure. Hope i run into them both again at the gym. Any ideas as to how to approach them when i do?
i’m sub4MASTERplease on the Discord. Not sure if it’s ok to include that. Love to hear from anyone who has thoughts as well.
Thanks Sam,
faggot Tim
To answer Tim’s concerns:
Tim is a terrific example of perfect faggot behavior. Yes, he’s in a relationship, but even so he’s still seeking out Alphas to serve and then serving them! He asks if that’s okay to serve “part-time” and still be a faggot. The very fact that he’s asking such a thing is proof that he’s an amazing faggot. That’s the right mindset. I’m so proud of him for this!
As for his question about being on the right track, all I can say is YES YOU ARE, BROTHER! These Alphas have identified Tim as a very good, obedient, service-oriented faggot. They are coming back for more service, and I know Tim will be at the gym ready for anything!
Thank you, Tim, for sharing your incredible triumph and the wisdom it imparts! I can’t wait to connect to you on Discord!
What do I do when I realize at 65 years old and married that I am actually a faggot?
Thank you for the question, brother!
I’m sorry you’re realizing/accepting that so late in life! You have a complicated situation that is going to make things difficult as well.
Generally-speaking, sexual service is likely not going to happen unless you’re in incredibly great shape or you’re lucky. You might be able to find an Alpha who can use you as a domestic faggot (put out an ad on more conventional sites like Grindr offering such service). And of course, many older faggots find satisfaction serving Alphas financially fin findom.
Those are likely your options, brother. Thank you and good luck!
This post is part of a thread chronicling the young Apex Alphahood of King Phillip, a 32-year-old well-hung Alpha who owns faggots. CLICK HERE to read all posts in this thread in chronological order!
I’ve known Master Phillip for several years now, and I’ve always loved his confident bravado. Owning and using faggots is like second nature for him. You can read his thread at the link above and reacquaint yourself with his exploits.
I was glad to discover that Master Phillip had joined the Hierarchy University Discord because he’s an experienced owner and trainer of faggots and would be a wealth of knowledge for both young Alphas and faggots there.
Little did I know he would immediately start using faggots in-person!
A faggot on the Discord named “nyc.bdsm” wrote about its experience with Master Phillip, and it’s pretty intense:
I had privilege of serving King Phillip in person and He ordered me to share a report of the experience…
King Phillip had me waiting for Him naked on my hands and knees with my penis caged and the door unlocked. When He entered, He sneered at me with His superior grin, walked up so close that that His pants touched me, and spit directly into my grateful faggot face. i was not allowed to be above His horsecock when in His presence, so i spent my whole time with Him crawling around after Him or crawling around to fetch Him things at His orders.
He allowed me to pay respect to Him by removing His shoes and showering His socked feet with kisses. When He felt I was sufficiently worshipful, He allowed me to remove his socks and to kiss and lick His perfect feet.
Then He revealed his truly monstrous horsecock and it felt like the room shook. Photos don’t do it justice. It’s the biggest cock I’ve ever seen in person and is gorgeous. King Phillip’s superiority is no joke. It’s the natural order of men and faggots. King Phillip refers to what i have as a penis and finds it incredibly disrespectful when inferiors like me are uncaged in His presence.
He allowed me to worship the tip of His cock for a while when He announced that it was time for deep throat training and that He would be timing me. He told me that He expected at least 60 seconds. I had been training my throat on a large dildo but still struggled on His Monster. That said, He complimented my performance.
Then He told me to get under the rim chair and sat His hairy shitter in my face for worship while He stroked His horsecock. Apparently i did a decent job serving, as He quickly brought me up to my knees again while He stroked a huge load of His “unborn princes” onto my pathetic, eager face. He told me to let it dry there.
Later, He brought me into the shower and took a heavy piss all over my face and into my grateful mouth as He told me how pathetic i am. It felt like a second baptism. His soft cock taking a leak is far larger than my hard little penis ever was.
He then allowed me to lick and worship His fat, low-hanging man balls (as opposed to what He calls my pebbles) and it made Him hard again. He again patiently and relentlessly provided training so that my throat could be molded to His cock and His pleasure.
He fed me His second glorious load and allowed me to kiss His feet in gratitude for being able to pleasure Him. King Phillip is the most natural superior – His quiet confidence, His deep intelligence, His laser-focused humiliation of His inferiors, His complete control, and His God-cock has made me his complete acolyte.
That’s a lot of use in one day of service!
I always knew Master Phillip was an aggressive and dominant Alpha, but I didn’t know how much until this faggot from Discord found out personally and reported back. I also didn’t know Master Phillip had such a huge dick! Makes me hungry!
These kinds of connections and encounters are exactly the kind of thing I hoped to encourage through the Discord arm of Hierarchy University! I’m so glad it’s happening! Faggots and Alphas are not only meeting together through it, but they’re also able to ask questions, get advice, and share fantasies and real-life experiences in a safe way! You should really join!
You know who else thinks you should? Master Phillip! He wrote this:
The discord server is perfect for finding high quality faggots, there’s no better place to. I live near a major urban center so it might be easier for me to find service and worship, but I think that even rural Alphas will be able to find the dedicated faggots they’re looking for. I’m looking forward to using the fagBNB too haha And furthermore, faggot sam is to be commended for his efforts. Few faggots are as devoted and capable as he is. Good job!
I promise I didn’t write that final compliment! He told me to add that!
Hello. I don’t consider myself a faggot, because althought I act like one during sessions once I’m not horny I don’t feel any impulse to be subservent, I don’t like doing house chores neither I would ever pay another man, even an alpha, etc etc. I know an alpha that sometimes I serve, and I know a faggot that is very clearly a total faggot and also serves him. One time the alpha was traveling, and the fag (who things I’m pretty) started coming up on me. I ended up using him. Now, that’s not my thing, but I was horny and it seemed so…right? Like, even though I’m obviously not an alpha he seemed to be very clearly below me in the hierarchy, and I could never imagine myself submiting to him. Is this normal? You talk a lot here about alphas and faggots so I’m not sure how the “middle of the pyramid” interacts with itself.
Thanks for the question!
That’s an interesting situation! It sounds like your Alpha owns a diverse stable of servants he uses! Impressive!
Yes, it’s quite normal for the lower levels of the hierarchy pyramid to interact this way. in fact, they all interact with each other this way, from top to bottom (hence the diagram!).
So just like the Alpha hierarchy interacts from the top-down (God Alphas using Apex Alphas, Apex Alphas using Alphas, etc.), betas will sometimes use faggots. You’re higher than a faggot hierarchically, so it really shouldn’t cause you any alarm. I’m sure your Master would approve of the situation, and probably find it kind of funny.
Hi Sam. I am 38 years old and openly gay all my adult life. I got married to my husband 20 years ago and we adopted a child. I did all the “American dream” things. Married, career, home, children etc. etc. while I am openly gay, I have suppressed my faggot nature. A few years ago I told my husband I needed to submit and worship Alphas. My husband’s NOT an Alpha so he gave me permission to serve others and I have done so very well for 3 years now. My problem is, I have to give most of my time to my family and career and I’ve struggled to find an alpha that doesn’t want ALL of me all the time. So my question is, can I be a faggot even though most of my time is spent in service to my family and career? Or should I accept that I can’t serve enough and retire my faggothood?
Thank you for the question, brother!
First of all, congratulations on the relationship and family! Most faggots (like me) remain free of long-term romantic relationships and raising children, so it’s nice that you have that.
I think it’s telling that, despite having that comfortable family life, your heart is still needing to serve Alphas. Here’s what it tells us: faggots are BORN TO SERVE. It’s not a choice, it’s not a kink, it’s not a mental illness. We are simply born into that function.
So when you ask “Can I still be a faggot if the majority of my time is spent with my family?”, it’s sort of misdirection. You will ALWAYS be a faggot regardless of what you’re doing in life. And you will ALWAYS have a need to serve.
Now, you might be classed as a non-functioning or low-functioning faggot given your circumstances, and there’s nothing wrong with that. This is your life today, and you have important responsibilities to care for. I’m in a similar boat with you right now, so I feel your frustration.
Your desire to serve is admirable, brother, and I respect you completely. Your willingness to reach out and TRY is better than many faggots who never try at all. You deserve praise, not judgement. Live the best life you can, brother!
Men love to get their dicks sucked. This is, of course, not a huge revelation. However, Men have expectations for their cocksuckers that may or not be clear or obvious to those of us born to service them.
If Men (and Alphas) are going to use a FAGGOT as a cocksucker (which is primarily the reason why they do), then I’m telling you they expect PROFESSIONAL SERVICE. They DESERVE professional service!
I have been a professional cocksucker for 30 years now. I started my career by being aggressively throat-fucked every few days by my first straight Alpha, Roger, during my senior year of high school. And while my technique started off a mess at first and my etiquette occasionally lacked, over the years I learned lessons (sometimes the hard way) as I sucked more and more Alpha cock.
To start this off, I want to share with you the video that initiated this emergency post:
While the cocksucker shows proper reverence for this black Alpha’s beautiful cock (in terms of worshipful technique, it’s pretty flawless), I am disgusted by one thing in it: the faggot plays with its dick the whole time!
One hand/arm is supporting the faggot in position in order to service the dick, but the other free hand is being used to stimulate itself rather than providing stimulation to the Alpha’s unsucked shaft or his balls! This is UNACCEPTABLE!
So when we think of the rules for professional faggot cocksuckers, we start there:
#1 A faggot cocksucker does not touch its dick in ANY way. The only time a professional cocksucker should be touching itself is if it’s preparing its hole for breeding.
But there are more:
#2 A faggot cocksucker maintains eye contact with the Alpha as much as possible! Alphas like to look into their cocksucker’s eyes as they’re being serviced, primarily because Alphas read eyes very well and like to see hunger in them.
#3 A faggot cocksucker obeys every command. If an Alpha commands a certain act, a faggot cocksucker complies. That might mean spitting on his dick, or deepthroating it … or it might mean licking his asshole. Whatever he wants, he gets without question.
#4 A faggot cocksucker does its best to keep its teeth out of the way. Granted, this isn’t easy given that some dicks are way too girthy and there is limited space in the mouth. However, there are techniques involving the tongue and lips to minimize teeth grazing. If the Alpha wants to throat fuck, then the faggot needs to open its mouth wide so teeth are not an issue at all.
#5 A faggot cocksucker must be as messy and as sloppy as possible. Almost all Alphas want their dicks DRIPPING WET from an intense blowjob, while their cocksucker’s face is slathered in drool, saliva bubbles, and vomit. Being a professional cocksucker isn’t about decorum and beauty; if Alphas wanted that, they’d use females. They want HUNGRY faggot cocksuckers who earn their reputations as the best in the world.
We don’t want to give blowjobs like this:
#6 A faggot cocksucker always worships an Alpha’s balls. The balls are the most sensitive and vulnerable part of an Alpha’s body, so if he’s entrusting you with them, then they must be cherished. Lick them, suck them, sniff them. They carry his essence inside and out!
#7 A faggot cocksucker must ALWAYS SWALLOW. Fortunately, I don’t see many faggots in porn refusing to swallow, although occasionally I catch one letting cum dribble out of their mouths as their finishing off sucking the cock. Cum is an Alpha’s gift to his faggot cocksucker. It’s his way of saying “good boy” for a job well done. Cum is also the most valuable thing he can ever offer us, because it is literally HIM in primordial form. It contains his superior genetics. Swallowing it is important for the bonding process between an Alpha and his faggot.
#8 A faggot cocksucker keeps sucking after the Alpha has cum. This is a rule because it shows worshipful hunger, something Alphas like to see. Alphas might pull the faggot off of his dick at some point, but it should always be the Alpha’s choice!
Being a professional cocksucker is more fulfilling than any other kind of job. Even though most people consider us sick for servicing Alpha cock so slavishly, we are providing a service Men everywhere crave every single day! When we can provide Alphas with professional service, we fulfill our purpose and derive some amount of pride from it.
Professional faggot cocksuckers make themselves an invaluable part of an Alpha’s stable! So always strive to be a professional faggot cocksucker, and make believers out of straight Alphas everywhere!
And if you’re a professional faggot cocksucker, you get fed like a good boy!
I’m an aspiring fag in my mid 20s who’s quite new to this. I don’t have too much experience previously but all the signs point to my faghood. My question revolves around accepting an dom, I know we don’t essentially pick them, but I had one session with an older dom in his 60s. He lives alone but his house is dirty, and he’s not that attractive to me. But he’s willing to provide the training I desperately need.
So should I just accept him for the time being or wait it out to find someone I’m genuinely attracted to since I know from previous encounters that I’m way more submissive and down to expose myself to my true nature. Simply put if dom turns me on, there’s little I deny them.
Looking forward to your input.
Love the podcast btw
Thank you for the question, brother.
Congrats on coming to terms with your purpose! I’m proud of you for wanting to learn and grow as a faggot!
One common misconception about being a true faggot is this idea that faggots must service ALL Men. I disagree. There are plenty of Men who claim to be dominant or “Alpha”, but are actually NOT Alpha. And my question is this: would any superior Man live in a filthy house? I don’t think so.
Also, you’re not attracted to him. Superior Men of that age group might not be your cup of tea as a faggot in your twenties, and that’s perfectly understandable. You shouldn’t need to serve a Man if you’re not attracted to him at least in some way. This guy sounds like a delusional pig. You deserve better.
i stopped lying too myself and accepted that i need and want a LTR in S&M … how do i find and approch an alpha to serve and look for ltr… i have no experience and i need and want training…in the privacy in his home, what i crave is being owned by him and making him happy
Brother, thank you for writing!
Congratulations on finally embracing the truth about yourself! That’s a huge hurdle to overcome!
What you’re describing is, I think, the most elusive goal that every faggot wants to find. A long-term service relationship is the ideal, but it might not be realistic at first. You are, after all, brand new to all of this. What you really need to do is look for Alphas to serve, either a one-time experience or in an ongoing way. Learn to walk before learning to run.
There are ways to find Alphas. The first way I always recommend is to look around your social and work circles and find those Alphas you already know in some way. This gives you a relatively safe way to offer services of some kind. If not, then apps like Grindr or TheBlowers.com will help you connect immediately to Alphas looking for service. Those two methods are the going to be the primary ways to find them.
There are more advanced methods (like joining a gym and offering service to the Alphas there), but I wouldn’t recommend them at this point.
Also, findom (online financial domination) is a possible way of at least getting some service time in a controlled way, but I don’t know about your financial situation.
You might want to join my Discord so you can talk to other faggots and some Alphas. You can do that by CLICKING HERE.
All in all, you should be very proud of yourself, brother. Have faith and apply yourself, and you will find success!
Hello Sam, I’m at a tough spot as a 24 year old fag. All my friends are dating and want to get me on dating apps and start going out with guys to get a boyfriend. Right now my priority is finding an Alpha to serve, but I’m having trouble balancing these two separate sides of my life. What do I do?
Thank you for the question!
I’m a little surprised that there aren’t more questions like yours, honestly. I would imagine this would be on the minds of a lit of faggots!
The ideal circumstance would be to find an Alpha who could also be a boyfriend, like Declan and Zack that are featured here on this site. It happens a lot, so I wouldn’t discount that.
If that’s not possible, then here’s my take as based on plenty of empirical experience: Your desire for a boyfriend can be satisfied within the confines of serving an Alpha, but your needs as a faggot will never be met by a regular boyfriend. The need to serve Alphas is so primal, so hardwired into us that it’s impossible to lock it away. You’d be in that relationship with a vanilla boyfriend and forever be gazing distractedly at the horizon thinking about that ache to serve.
In fact, it’s this powerful need to serve that distinguishes faggots from gay bottoms. It can’t be ignored.
So my advice is to specifically seek an Alpha near your age who is looking for a bottom/faggot to have as a boyfriend. Then you can have your cake and eat it, too!
