How can I know if an Alpha is a destroyer? My Master loves fucking and breeding me, in general he treats me well, he has never done anything that would hurt me or cause harm, but there is something that I can’t stop thinking about.

My ass is very tight and his cock is thick, so it is not always easy to take it the way he likes it. Sometimes I say “I can’t take it anymore” while he is pounding my ass and he NEVER stops banging, he just slows down, then he says something like “I can stop now baby, but I will be so disappointed, and if I finish I will be so proud of you” Then every time after he says this, I end up saying “please, keep fucking me”

I am sure that if I insist to stop he will, he is a good Man and he would never force me to take his cock if I were in serious pain. However, he never stops when I first say it, he just tries to calm me down and keep banging me in a slower pace until he finishes inside my ass.

I am new to hierarchy and to gay sex in general (I am 20 and only dated girls until last year). My best friend knows everything about my life and she says that if he does not take his cock out of my hole as soon as I tell him to stop, he is toxic, violent, etc. She basically thinks that he is a monster and has been trying to convince me to break up with him. I know she wants me to be safe and happy, but I think an opinion of another fag would be essential before I take such a decision.

He is a good Man and I like when fucks me, but I am afraid this is a red flag for potential worse behaviors. So please Sam, could you please give me your opinion and, if possible, give some examples of Destroyer Alphas? Is my Man a Destroyer? 🙁


Thank you for writing, brother!

First of all, let me define Destroyer Alpha tendencies: they go out of their way to harm others, they manipulate, they entrap, they steal they blackmail, they sadistically torture people, etc. We are talking about truly despicable Alphas, Men who use their power to destroy the lives and the self-esteem of inferiors.

Clearly, that doesn’t sound anything like your Master, does it?

Your Master is the average dominant Alpha, and he fucks exactly like one. Here’s the problem: he knows it hurts (and he likes that it hurts), but he also knows you need it to hurt. Let me explain that: Faggots respond submissively to being fucked by their Owner, and their desire kicks in to fight through the pain in order to please him. Yes, you asked him to stop, but your Master knows you really need to be pushed through it. Think of his actions like a trainer who pushes his trainee in the gym beyond what he thinks he can handle.

Your female friend is totally wrong. She’s looking at things from the woke female perspective that is currently destroying all engagement between males and females. Men are afraid to even touch a female because they start crying rape. It’s stupid.

Your friend doesn’t understand what faggots need, nor does she understand what it means to be owned by an Alpha. I cannot emphasize this enough: DO NOT listen to this friend. She’s going to ruin something special you have with your Master.

You said it repeatedly yourself: he’s a good Man. He’s a good Master. He’s not ever going to destroy you. He wants to own you and keep you and push you to become the best faggot you can be.

Why? Because he’s more of a Protector Alpha than you realize.

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