Hi brother!! I am 19 and I serve a 33-year-old Master. We live together as husbands, but we are not equals at all. I am totally submissive to him. I love him from the bottom of my heart and wanna serve him more and more.
I am his type (smooth skinny twink) and try my best to be a good faggot for him and look attractive. However, he only uses me sexually twice a week. He usually fucks me on Saturday and Wednesday, sometimes three times a week but never more than that. Is this normal for an Alpha in his 30s? He says I am perfect for him but sometimes I think that I could be better and turn him on more. What do you think? I see some Alphas around my age claiming to fuck their faggots every single day. Is this normal for an Alpha at age 33 to cum only twice a week, or he is probably using other faggots?
Thank you, Sam! I love your website.
Thanks for writing. I’d hate to make any guesses here because I don’t want to create mistrust between you and your Master/husband. I do think it’s unusual that he’s only using you twice a week (on a schedule, even!) when he’s just 33 years old. Alphas in their early thirties are still near the top of their sexual powers, so it’s hard to believe he doesn’t need to empty his balls more often.
Of course, there are other factors to consider. How stressful is his job? Sometimes Alphas with high-stress jobs struggle to get worked up for sex because of the massive amounts of tension in their work life.
But my gut feeling is he has a faggot(s) on the side he’s using, too. If so, I’m mystified as to why he thinks he needs to hide it from you, his primary faggot. He’s an ALPHA. Not only are they programmed to spread their seed, they have a natural right to use whomever they want. As an Owner of you, a faggot, he should already know that he simply needs to tell you that these are the rules, and you will obey.
If he is using others, I suppose he’s keeping it from you because he cares about you and doesn’t want to hurt you. However, true faggots are not wired that way. We almost get turned on when our Masters go out and hunt/breed other faggots. It simply verifies in our mind why we serve them in the first place.
I’d like you to show your Master this answer and see what he thinks about what I’ve said.
I’m gay and I’m submissive for a while I really believed alpha tops were truly dominant ,but I see in almost every gay guy I’ve met this desire to submit to straight males , even tops. It’s like straight men have power over gays by default because they are “real men” , they are more manly and prone to be alphas. Are we gays just inferior to them ?
It’s not that gay males are all inferior to straight males Hierarchically, because they’re not. The phenomenon you mention (which is almost 100% true) comes from societal conditioning. Homosexuals are almost always closeted for most of their early lives because society expects them to be straight. In many places it’s deadly to be gay. So we grow up longing to be like straight males, or we long to serve them in order to be “accepted” by them in some way.
Since much of this conditioning occurs in our teen years, it’s very hard to shake as we get older – even for gay Alphas. I have known some gay Alphas who would never submit to any Man, even straight Alphas, but like you said, it’s rare. Broken self-esteem is an epidemic that will likely plague gays until the end of time.
Hi brother Sam, fag Andrew here and I had a friend of mine who is also gay change over the last year let me explain. So, my friend of mine let’s call him Peter just because I don’t have his permission to use his real name online he tries to have a mostly private life. I known Peter for around two years and I always seen him as an alpha male we talk, I served him before and for a brief time I was owned by him but due too life getting in the way it didn’t work out. He’s in his mid twenties and it’s been around a year and a half since I talked to him. Now within the last week I reached out to him and meet up with him to see how he was and I realized something changed his spoke lower, his muscles wasn’t as big and he shaved his body hair from what I saw which before is something he never would have done, and most importantly before he would flirt with me in a dominant way but now I don’t feel any alpha masculinity coming from him. Sam I’m wondering is it possible for a an alpha to fall into faghood?
Thanks for writing! First of all, you don’t really know what’s going on with him, right? You’re just guessing based on some outward signals. Just wanted to get that out of the way.
The answer to your primary question is YES, some gay Alphas can present themselves as Alpha (and may even thoroughly believe it) and then suddenly switch and become bottoms or faggots. (I will add that this happens almost exclusively among gay Alphas). Why does it happen? Well, among gays role assumption is pretty haphazard and fluid. A gay male’s role within the relationship often depends highly on the role tendency of his partner.
Since Alpha hierarchy is so clearly defined and fiercely defended, a gay Alpha might find himself partnered with a much more dominant Alpha and forced into service through sheer will. Other times a gay Alpha thinks he’s Alpha because of many possible misleading factors, but when confronted by a true gay Alpha, the false Alpha breaks down and accepts he’s a faggot rather than an Alpha.
This actually happened in real-time on FWA right before I reported to prison. “Master” Bruno was living as a gay Alpha and actually owned a faggot named Giovanni. However, Bruno met a true God Alpha named Juan one night at a bar. Master Juan instantly knew what Bruno truly was, broke him down, and claimed him as his faggot. And Bruno has been serving Master Bruno ever since (their story has an update that is still pending).
So that was a long-winded answer to a pretty simple question. Hope it helps!
This is part of a thread chronicling Master Con, a young Alpha in university in the UK. CLICK HERE to read all posts in this thread in chronological order!
It’s been a little while since I’ve heard from Master Con, the stunning, wealthy 19-year-old God Alpha in Great Britain. When I last spoke with him, he had expressed a great amount of interest in purchasing faggots at auction. I entertained his idea, not thinking anything could come of it. After all, Master Con was just 19 years old and in college. Where would he get the money or connections to ever make such big dreams come true?
Well, I’ve wildly underestimated Master Con’s actual life.
First of all, he’s much wealthier than I suspected. He already has a well-paying job thanks to an early entry into an apprenticeship. And he’s been successfully involved in findom for many years, and those pure profits have been wisely invested, quickly growing his net worth.
So much so that he was able to buy a partial stake in the private jet pictured above. He’s currently in college learning to become a pilot so he can fly that beauty and some other jets he has designs to buy.
All of this came to light reluctantly after he mentioned that he’d just purchased a faggot for £8,000 ($10,915.80) at an auction!
Let me backtrack. Master Con initiated the conversation back in early September this way:
Slave. Took an older fag as property today. First time I’d fisted a slave too. It’s made me learn the differences for sure. Older slaves do things that younger one can not, and vice versa. I do want to find a long term slave, a young one. Have the best of both then.
So that was the beginning of Master Con’s attention turning toward purchasing faggots. Time passed, and then I received this:
Been invited to an auction too. See how that goes. Don’t be surprised, faggot. I own my own house, etc. at 19. Don’t mistake my youth for inexperience or my kindness for weakness. I may not take a object. I’m very particular in the search for the young slave. These faggots (at the auction) have been through intensive training. That’s in no way to say they won’t need further training. But they’ve been trained at least in part.
I was surprised by this sudden action, so I asked for more details about the faggots he currently has and what he wants.
I just own 559 (the older faggot), but I have others who serve part-time. Some for pump and dumps. One comes daily to clean my flat, do chores, one drains my cock, does my grocery shopping. One even drives me to my gym, waits till im done and drives back. Gives his £ for the pleasure.
Now I was really intrigued. I was curious about his desire to get involved with faggot auctions.
Problem (with Alphas using faggots) is that i see too many ‘alphas’ just in it for the cash. I value a permanent slave over cash.
So Master Con began getting intel on the faggots for sale at auction. One he showed me was a petite blonde nymph with a tight little pussy who looked a bit like Rourke from the famous Pornhub channel.
We got shown some of the items for sale. However I wasn’t expecting to get pics of them when they were free, with clothes and stuff on. I expected the meat on all fours, naked, collared, and caged. They will need to be thoroughly inspected and its holes tested before purchase. There are many things a faggot needs to go through before purchase. I intend to whore it out during the freshers intake at my uni. See how it fares.
Meanwhile, as Master Con pondered his purchase, this happened:
Oh, and I also took another subs virginity yesterday. There’s nothing like when a true faggot realises its place and stays whimpering underneath you. It took a couple loads before it was made to clean my floor with its tongue.
Then Master Con started asking me what I thought he should bid for one of these faggots at auction. I’ve heard of prices between $10,000-$50,000 from experienced Masters like California Alpha, but I didn’t want to disillusion young Master Con by quoting something that high. So I put the matter off.
Meanwhile, the “freshers” were starting at Master Con’s university. And almost instantly, he fucked one of them. He sent me a pic of a cute Twink and triumphantly wrote:
Fucked one last night. Nice and tight. Claimed it. Once your cum and spit is in it, it’s your faggot. I’m going to have it come back tomorrow to lick my feet and nothing else and see if it wants it, long term I mean. Most think they want it but they aren’t serious. It strikes me as one of them that enjoys it, but doesn’t yet know if it’s what it wants.
Indeed!
Then I received this funny aside from Master Con:
Just tried fucking 559. It didn’t tell me it had shoved banana up there. Enlighten me as to why a faggot would do that. Fucking rank. I’ve told it to douche. Then I’ll fuck it and waste my load over its back. Then punish it. Nah didn’t smell but mushed banana leaked out when I pulled out. Put me off instantly.
Ah, faggot issues! They can be neverending!
Then came a series of pics of another cute faggot.
Just put a bid in on this runt. It was being sold by a good friend. It would’ve fetched more had it been on the market. Still was four figures.
Believe me, I was shocked … so I pressed to know what he ended up offering for the faggot. And that’s when he revealed he bid £8,000 ($10,915.80) for the little guy.
So now I suddenly knew two new things about Master Con: he’s wealthier than I imagined, and he’s also part of a network of wealthy, faggot-owning Alphas in England.
I had to know more.
My Alpha pack stretches across the south coast, particularly Portsmouth, Chichester and Brighton. We sometimes share faggots, sometimes buy and sell them. Sales can happen but not often. We buy our slaves for a reason, not just buy the first piece of meat we come across. I keep my faggots in cages downstairs.
I was left speechless and almost apoplectic. It didn’t faze Master Con.
I told you this before, faggot. I’ve worked hard since the age of 16 and I’ve owned faggots like you the whole time. I get whatever I want.
Yes, he does. Whether it’s worship, houses, planes, or an army of faggots … Master Con has it all.
This is part of a thread chronicling Master Con, a young Alpha in university in the UK. CLICK HERE to read all posts in this thread in chronological order!
It’s rare to meet a young Alpha who is mature enough and so focused on slave ownership like Master Con (@masterconfeet on X). Since I wrote about him, he’s been inundated with starving faggots eager to serve him.
And he’s only too happy to oblige!
He wrote this to me:
Hey boy, since you posted that last post about Tommy, I’ve had lots of new faggots get in contact with me through Twitter, offering themselves up, even Fags wanted to be shipped as cargo from America. I will talk to almost all Fags and slaves, but naturally, am selective of the items I take as property, however I have taken an older slave as my newest item. It struck me how eager it was to please, offering his house, body and life to me, after feeling a void left by it’s need to serve. As I write this now, the faggot is eagerly deepthroating my dick, wearing its new collar, cock cage and restraints. It has already cleaned my place, made my food, waited on my drinks, served me in a variety of sexual ways and it still wants to serve. It will be stored in a cage soon, so it is used to being stored. This is a reward of a so called alpha. Who uses a fag for a while and then ditched it, for a true alpha like me to come and claim, this fag may well become one of my live in items, a fuck toy, foot worshiper, cleaner, item in the kitchen, even a human urinal. I’ve been thinking a lot lately about what I want from these faggots and slaves, for the long term and have become more and more interested in claiming a faggot to be either a slave boyfriend, or take a boiwife role. The idea of having a cute little slut in my bed cuddled up to me, that I can grab by the hair and choke on my dick whenever is fucking appealing, even more so taking it to my family, it knowing it’s owned, but no one else does. My view on this slave/master dynamic is very different to most my age. I’ve no interest of being a muscle Dom, or a findom master who leaves Fags in poverty. I’m interested in owning faggots and slaves, long term or for life- that’s the best gift that a slave gives to its master. And it is a gift, not a right. A slave realises that your a true alpha Dom and GIVES itself to you, it’s owner. That said, if a slave was to tribute, I wouldn’t decline, but it’s not something I go out of my way to look for. I much prefer using it physically. The fag I have here is cleaning my balls now, having swallowed his third consecutive load, and I have this urge to own more property, and definitely a slave bf/boiwife.
Amazing!
Many so-called Alphas are playing games online and have no intention of taking more than just money from faggots. Master Con, on the other hand, is the real thing. He’s becoming the owner of actual faggot property, and his life is richer for it!
This is part of a thread chronicling Master Con, a young Alpha in university in the UK. CLICK HERE to read all posts in this thread in chronological order!
I received a few responses from my post regarding faggot auctions (prompting last night’s drunken podcast), but none of the responses were as vivid as the one I received from a young Alpha in the UK who calls himself Master Con. It seems that he owns a couple of faggots already through the hunt/capture method, but after that post about auctions he’s thinking he might like to stock his stable with some paid-for faggots.
He wrote this:
Hi boy,
an interesting reply. The fish may well taste better when you catch it, but in this instance I would expect a trained slave for a nice sumof money, which would be further reinforced with its buyer’s training.
I want one. I would very much anticipate a slave being bought at auction in the USA, for example, and being shipped as cargo to the UK will be better submissive because it depends on it’s master that degree more, escape is no good, it knows no-one.
I work for a UK airline, ambulance service and study at university full time, that’s a heck of a lot and I need slaves to take care of my needs. I don’t need to come home to a list of chores or dinner to cook, that’s their job whilst they massage my feet too.
Tommy, my current slave is good, but he studies at university in a different part of the country and I need a slave 24/7. I caught Tommy by being me. Coming home sweaty from the gym, a day at uni… whatever. Noticing him try to subtly sniff the air as I walked past, my gym gear going missing, my socks feeling a little wet (from where he’d been licking).
I always knew he was a fag, so I tried a less orthodox approach. I introduced another, nsa runt, to the mix. We’ll call him Jack. I knew Tommy was coming to my place around 4 ‘for some games’, so I got jack round at 3 and began throat fucking it. Tommy eventually came in to see me throatfucking jack on the sofa and it was like fate turned to reality. Tommy stripped, crawled over and started worshiping my feet whilst I pounded Jack’s throat. Tommy didn’t say a word, but that’s the moment when he became mine fully.
Not being content with that, I commanded Tommy to run Jacks ass. I had the intention on fucking it and Tommy was gonna be the tool to prepare the ass. Once it had slobbered over the ass enough, I locked Tommy in a cage and made him watch me mount/rape faggot Jack for a while whilst pumping multiple loads into it.
That withdrawal, not being used, ignorance was too much for Tommy. And that day onward he’s been my total fag since, when he is here away from uni.
I’m already in the process of acquiring a new item, but I want to pay for one too, to see the difference and grow my stable of only the best runts in the world.
First of all, this is pretty advanced faggot manipulation for a college Alpha! Is there a class Alphas take to learn these effective faggot enslavement techniques, or is it just pure nature? Regardless, Master Con’s plan worked perfectly, simultaneously humiliating and exciting the faggot (the secret sauce) and forcing it to fully submit!
This is an interesting test Master Con proposes as well. Of course, any purchased faggot would need to be trained to Master Con’s specifications, but i would be curious if its pre-trained state would make it more pliable for more training, or more rebellious.
Given what I’ve learned about Master Con, I am thinking he’s more than capable of handling rebellious faggots!
Men like Master Con will never be satisfied with single-use or occasional-use faggots. He requires complete ownership and constant use in all areas of his life. And he deserves it.
This video should be revelatory to any straight or gay Alpha who has never thought to have their asses licked.
Men often refuse this service because they think it makes them submissive, but it actually has the OPPOSITE effect! It makes Alphas feel like KINGS! That’s because the act is so submissive – they’re licking an asshole – that the Alpha can’t help but feel powerful.
Watch the reactions of these young Alphas as this gloryhole faggot teaches them something new:
I’ve been online teaching Hierarchical truth since June of 2015, so nearly ten years. And over that time I’ve been asked multiple times why I continue teaching these things, persevering through virtually obstacle imaginable.
My simple answer is this: Hierarchical truth gave me purpose and clarity and peace in my life, and as more and more people apply and embrace these truths they have the same results. So I’ve been convinced of the power of these fundamental truths, and the importance of giving back drives me forward.
And I have been blessed to be a part of significantly changing the lives of many, many people because I never gave up and I never forgot the truths I experienced and witnessed with my own eyes.
I received a very long, very detailed letter in my Questions inbox from a faggot brother yesterday, and he was asking about the future of Hierarchy in the wake of the left’s neutering of males through “wokeness” and the right’s hateful, Destroyer Alpha ideologies that reveal only insecurities. It’s an intriguing problem, one I gave considerable thought to over the last two years while I was incarcerated.
But first, let me share my brother’s remarkable letter:
Dear Sam,
I’m a longtime fan of your work who is finally reaching out to say thank you and pose some questions to you about hierarchy and its future.
First, thank you. Thank you for educating the world, including me. I first came across your content years ago on the old FWA site. There I was, sitting in an airport, waiting for my flight to arrive when I stumbled across FWA. My curiosity was piqued and not long thereafter I was hooked. It took some time, but I came to realize that I’m a faggot (albeit a rather prideful and rebellious one). At first there was some concern and cognitive dissonance—but the more I read and the more I reflected—the more I understood myself, my hunger to serve, and the bigger picture. That said, I have some thoughts and questions about hierarchy and the Alpha and fag communities.
My awakening as a faggot began when I was in college. I met two guys (a couple) who took my virginity. Yes, my first time was a threesome—and it was awesome. One had an absolutely life changing dick. Big. Thick. Uncut. He was a cocky motherfucker who knew his power and attraction. Our “hanging out” quickly escalated to me stroking his cock and then sucking it while his boyfriend fucked me. After a while of that, and after my virgin hole had been opened a bit, the bigger of the two then took me from behind and fucked me with his impressive manhood. I felt so good. So complete. But also afraid. Dirty even. There was a lot to process, but I knew I liked that feeling—of having a man inside of me. Of making him cum. Of using my body to bring him pleasure. I didn’t realize it then, but this obviously sowed the seeds of my descent into sub space.
Soon after, I started meeting more guys—some mediocre who just wanted a quick fuck—but some who were truly special, just like that first guy. They fucked with ferocity but also with purpose. They owned my minds as much as my body, and they did so in a way that exemplified masculine superiority. In hindsight, I now know these were true Alphas who I met along the way.
One, a frequent fuck buddy, was an older man in his 30s. He was hung, handsome, fit, and had a magnetic personality. I wanted to spend as much time in his presence as I could—and I did. He taught me how to properly sexually service men like him, but he always did so in a constructive and warm way. He was my first Protector Alpha. He was also the first Alpha who cunted me.
In my experience, everything you write about cunting is true. Here I am, more than 15 years later, and I still hunger for the way this Alpha fucked me. The way he used my holes for his pleasure and the pleasure of his friend he introduced me to. All these years later, I’m still that shy 18 year old college freshman getting railed by this absolute mountain of a man, and I still remember all of the life lessons he imparted upon me; recognizing my self worth and giving me confidence to be who I am.
I suppose you could say I was lucky because over the years I met other Alphas whom I served sexually. Most were Protectors, but all had the same intoxicating effect: overwhelming my senses, the euphoria of their attention and approval, drawing me closer to them and their power, making me submit. A handful cunted me, resulting in them similarly forever owning a part of my psyche. Your recent podcast about Alpha ascendancy reminded me of these life changing and treasured experiences.
That recent podcast also made me think about some things that concern me about hierarchy today. Maybe I’m jaded, but I can’t help but look around and see a landscape of posers, fakes, and opportunists parading themselves as “Alphas” but not knowing the first thing about what it means to be an Alpha. I see this a lot in the findom space. It’s hard for me—a very successful professional—to take these “Alphas” seriously or see them as anything but chumps who are asking for a handout. What is “Alpha” about extracting money from a faggot or a sub, someone who is already insignificant to begin with? What is “Alpha” about depending on the charity of another when you are supposed to be a leader of men?
Your recent podcast on ascendancy told listeners to take heed of our environment, of the Alpha-fag ecosystem and lifecycle. Yes, fags exist to serve Alphas, but Alphas also need fags, as well. A faggot is there for more than just spitting on or extracting money. It’s there to serve, to be taught, and to be led. But I don’t see much of the latter.
I look out on the world and see a tragic lack of Protector Alphas. It makes me sad to think that young and future faggots might not experience what I did because their only concept of service might be coughing up money for or being spit on by the people I describe above. It also worries me that an entire generation of Alphas is being lost to this performative and reductive idea of what superiority and true masculine leadership and excellence look like.
Do you think things are changing? If so, are they changing for the better? Or have I missed something, or perhaps am just jaded? Where have all the Protectors gone?
This brother’s letter is very much the kind of message I receive on a daily basis since my return from prison. Why is there such affection and loyalty to FWA (now Hierarchy University) and its message? BECAUSE IT WAS NEVER A FETISH SITE – IT PROVED ITSELF TO BE TELLING TRUTH. And that truth SET PEOPLE FREE and CHANGED LIVES.
Listen to the experiences of my brother. Notice how he recognized the ring of truth in what I was teaching, to the point that he couldn’t ignore it any longer. And when he applied that truth in his life, miraculous experiences changed his entire life and set him free!
Which leads me to one of my answers to my brother’s questions above: is Hierarchy being invalidated or diluted by the current state of the world and masculinity in general? NO. Hierarchy is as ancient as any principle in human society. It’s something we know from infancy, feel it in the air everywhere we go, and are always guided instinctively by its influence. The same hierarchical influence that caused males to submit and service gladiators in the Roman Empire still molds the minds of Men today. The only factor that really changes in the equation is how much will society allow the freedom to express it.
My brother brings up another, more sobering point: Alphas are in trouble. Radical ideological forces are shifting Alphas away from what I consider to be their absolutely intrinsic purpose: As Protector (or Builder) Alphas. The world of today is either teaching Alphas that everyone is equal, neutering their power to lead. The world of today is also teaching Alphas to be selfish and stupid, encouraging insecure and toxic Destroyer Alpha behaviors.
My brother mentions online financial domination as one of these toxic forces ruining Alphas, and I completely agree. Findom doesn’t teach true Hierarchy, but rather a cartoonish version of Alphahood that allows fakes and phonies to slip in and mislead others. In turn, these Alpha failures destroy genuine faggots misled by their corrupted masculinity. There are definitely true Alphas in findom, but they are often obscured by the loud, ignorant, and grotesque Destroyer Alphas poisoning the true water of Hierarchy.
Without great Protector Alphas providing clear-eyed, ethical leadership, human society is threatened. It becomes like a ship without a sturdy, reliable rudder, and it becomes vulnerable to crashing or capsizing.
The true Protector Alphas I’m describing – the ones I’ve served, as well as the ones I’ve described on this site – aren’t pussies or weak Men. Quite the contrary. They’re the ones who defend what is right, fight for the weak and the broken, and defend those they love from threats foreign and domestic. These are Men I would crawl on broken glass to serve and worship, and I know my faggot brother feels the same.
That said, I know there are true Protector Alphas truly worthy of devotion and worship. I don’t believe the current crisis of Masculinity will ever snuff out the true Kings. I say this because I know there are some around today, as there have always been. It’s simply a matter of these powerful Alpha Masters asserting themselves and forcing out the pretenders.
I’m really grateful to my brother for posing this issue, as well as his wonderful, strengthening endorsement of what I’m doing here. His life course and success as a faggot simply prove the truth of Hierarchy, and I’m so proud to serve alongside him!
Hi Sam, I don’t know if you remember me or not but this is the faggot that has the coworker who contacted it on FB randomly and sent a bunch of photos of himself in European type swimwear.
Well I had planned on wishing Him a happy Thanksgiving and I did and we chatted briefly but He said he was at a huge family gathering so I backed off quickly saying I didn’t want to interrupt, and left it at that.
A couple days went by and we’re back in the work week and we both happen to be traveling, Him somewhere warm and He contacted me again. He said he was tormenting old ladies walking around in His suits. He even sent me pics of the two He brought with Him and was wearing. I was obviously very complementary and flat out told Him He is sexy AF (He really is too, He’s a part time fitness instructor, toned, large defined muscles ugh, delicious!). He thanked me and I slipped in a couple of “Sirs” into the conversation. Most of it was extremely suggestive without being graphic but I was very complementary more so than any straight guy would ever be. At one point I even said I think He likes torturing me while I’m at work and can’t take care of the little problem He created and He laugh reacted to that. He actually laugh / heart reacted to a few statements.
So how should I proceed do you think? Should I flat out state that I’m a faggot and ask to serve Him? Or should I see where He leads thing? Or something else all together?
Thank you for the help, I’m not very experienced doing this sort of thing, but I want to get better and better and treat Him the way He deserves to be.
It sounds like this Alpha continues to torment you (whether it’s on purpose or not, we don’t know) and you continue to vaguely flirt with him. So largely the situation is still the same as last time, right?
There are still unresolved problems. This guy is (I’m assuming) still religious. And also, you don’t live anywhere near each other anymore. So this sort of flirty cycle is going to continue until either he just loses interest or you finally break the stalemate.
I think you should push his buttons a little bit harder. Show him the stick post “What is Hierarchy?” at the front of this site, or the “Letter To An Alpha” in the sidebar. This will force him to confront reality and make a decision.
If he rejects you, then at least you know this and can move on. But if he doesn’t … well, that’s where things might get interesting.
Hey Sam, I also wanted to thank you for all the content you put out there. Even though sometimes it can be a bit much for me, you changed my life. I’m one of those people that always had a tight grip on life and wouldn’t let loose. But I always had that very submissive side of me so a few years ago after I bumped into FWA, I decided to give it a try. It’s funny to think about it now but I remember thinking okay, then I have to make my pussy nice for alphas so I started working out my ass which grew quite easily and then that transformed into a full body routine. Nowadays, I get a lot of attention for my ass and men assume it’s just always been like that. You also taught me to be more daring, I remember back then after reading your content I started paying more attention to who might be an alpha and when I was in the gym showers I found one, jumped into his stall and he face fucked me until he came. Since then, I’ve served straight alphas and gay alphas as a cocksucker and just have learned to not only let men use my ass but I’ve become pretty good at milking them with it.
Oh, I also approached the straight alphas around me in a flattery way which then grew into friendships. That influence made me cooler since I had to keep up with them. So now, I don’t really bother having non alpha men in my life since other men usually don’t do well at work, socially nor at life in general. I’ve learned that if the alphas put you in their team, you’ll likely succeed and they’ll build you up or you’ll grow just from being around them. It so funny because alphas really started liking me after I started showing service towards them even platonically.
Nowadays, that all has become second nature and I can gauge relationships better. You helped me release my sexuality and that made me very confident. There’s a certain power that came with living out my faggotry that I don’t quite understand but thank you for all that.
Well thank you for the compliments and the experiences you shared! I’m glad that What I’ve taught you has helped you. I love that you went to work on your body so diligently and achieved results that helped you get attention from Alphas! That’s the kind of humility and dedication that is necessary!
Your strategy of cozying up to Alphas and developing friendships with them is something I have naturally done my whole life without really ever thinking about it. When you mentioned it, I smiled with the thought that I have always developed strong relationships with successful Alphas and served them in whatever ways I could organically. It’s been a key of success for me, and it sounds like you’re the same!
I am 20y.o. fag, from Spain, and I seem to have kind of a problem but I don’t see it like that, and I just need a wise advice.
I have come across a lot of alphas, older than me, whom I have liked and have given me truly moments when I am enjoying my best ‘fag life’; however, they seem to dislike me when I get into my brat attitude, but it doesn’t come out of nowhere.
I have noticed that the doms I have encountered are so decided to get you, to own you, to dominate you at first, and then… they just become a dead body on the couch giving orders, and I am like… ‘you know that I’ll do anything you ask me, can you just… I don’t know, move? go back to be that man that was obsessed touching me and enjoying me like the object I am’.
Am I the drama? HAHAHAHA thank u! xoxo.
Brother, life is not like porn. You want to have wild sex and be used constantly and treated like a hot sex object all the time, but everyday life doesn’t work like that. Men have lives, jobs, taxing issues on their minds, and (if you’re serving older Alphas) less stamina and energy when they’re older.
You think it’s supposed to a whirlwind of sex and orgasms and cum flying everywhere, but that’s not realistic. Moreover, the real magic of the Alpha/fag dynamic isn’t just with sex … it’s in the everyday service and submission of a faggot to its Master.
So yes, you and your bratty, self-centered attitude is the problem here, but you’ll grow out of it.
Hi sam, i want to thank you for bringing your site back and giving giving a voice to faggots like myself. So many of us feel alienated and alone. As for myself, i have always struggled with similar emotional, physical and financial issues. The posts from faggots voicing to their struggles are powerful and helpful. It may be difficult and unconventional, but it is fierce how so many are taking matters into their own hands and making their lives better.
Thank you brother for your kind words! I like highlighting faggots who have overcome repression, poor self-esteem, and fear in order to find fulfillment. I’m grateful to ones like you and the other brave faggots who have lent their examples!
Hey Sam, I’m a faggot from Aus I’m 21 years old about a year ago I had a sub/dom relationship with a dom we both got along and only spoken online for a year but he knew all my limits and safe words prior to us meeting I arrived and everything was going well until I kept saying my safe word and he didn’t stop I got to the point where I froze and saying my safe word and stop I left and blocked him on everything but I haven’t been able to have the courage to put myself with a man or a dom since so I guess my question is am I overreacting with my last dom and how should I get over it, thank you for making a beautiful platform I do agree with your views.
It’s impossible to answer this since you told me nothing about the encounter. What was happening that caused you to use a safe word? Did he rape you? Did he pass go without paying $200 in Monopoly? Because I don’t know what happened, I can’t tell if you overreacted or not, right?
My gut tells me you did overreact, because this Dom took his time with you, indicating a thoughtful approach on his part. But without the information, I hesitate to venture a firm guess.
Many faggots struggle with a host of issues both physical as well as emotional. We are not like normal males; our general depravity and low self-esteem often manifests itself in poor eating habits and lack of exercise. These failures compound, leading to even more intense feelings of worthlessness.
Every so often I’m asked about this, but my advice on this topic is nothing but empty platitudes and shapeless encouragement. I say this because I know that the only way a faggot can overcome these types of issues is for the faggot to take actions within himself; my well wishes are of little benefit. I can’t do the work for anyone. Either a faggot takes action to help himself, or he doesn’t.
That’s why I was so grateful to receive the following message in my Questions From Readers inbox from an anonymous faggot regarding his lifelong struggles with obesity and body hair. He introduced his issues this way:
I was reading the website and found a question about a hairy faggot who didn’t want to shave. I wanna share my experience about this. I am sorry if this message gets too long but I really need to vent. I’ve been reading your website for years, and I’m so happy you’re back.
When I was 18, I was overweight and super hairy. I already knew I was a faggot and I would spend hours jerking off to porn dreaming about an Alpha and, most importantly, wishing that one day I would wake up as a smooth twink desired by men. The years went by and, when I was 23, I was finally brave enough to download Grindr. It was a total disaster. The vast majority of tops blocked me when I sent a picture and the very few who talked to me were other bottoms looking for bears, asking if I were a top.
A few months later, I met a guy at work who seemed to be nice. He wasn’t very in shape either but he was very confident and clearly an Alpha. I thought it would be easier to be with him since none of us were in shape. But an Alpha who is not in shape has NOTHING to do with a faggot who is not in shape. He was chubby, hairy, had an average dick, but he was very confident and always had someone serving him. I tried to approach him, unfortunately way before I knew about your work and the dynamics withing hierarchy. At first he was really kind to me, we went out for dinner a few times. But when I started to show him my submission, I told him that I was still a virgin and would do anything for him to be my first (I was around 25 by this moment). He said that he could take my virginity if I changed my appearance, then he sent photos of Brent Corrigan and Johnny Rapid, saying that he would fuck me if I looked like them.
I felt very offended and obviously stopped talking to him and even quit the job in order not to be with him again. I got into a deep deep deep depression, crying every single day, thinking that I would never lose my virginity, let along have someone who cares about me. On top of that, a few months later covid hit and my mother died during the pandemic. It was the worst time of my life because we only had each other in this world. I have always been an introvert and didn’t really have any friends, but I had one friend from work who encouraged me to start seeing an online therapist in 2021, after my mother passed away. Thanks to therapy, I noticed that I wasn’t suffering just because of my loss, but because I felt deep down that my mom was the only person who would ever see me beyond my appearance and care about me.
I think this faggot’s experience really reflects the desperation many feel for connection and and acceptance. Losing his mother during the pandemic was an unmooring for him, really forcing him to take an action he truly needed.
Notice what happened once the faggot began taking action and making changes:
The therapist was a wonderful guy, he encouraged me to do small things to uplift my self-steem like getting a better haircut, new clothes, etc. Little by little, I got out of depression and started to retrieve my professional life. One day the therapist told me that he understands very well my desire to have a dominant man in my life but not having one couldn’t be the end of the world. I knew he was gay and married to another man, but I then noticed that he was probably an owned faggot and understood how much I was suffering. Then he said that, since I hardly ever leave the house, I would never find someone, and would probably die a virgin if nothing changed. He suggested me to stop insisting on Grindr and similar hook-up apps because Tops on these apps are looking for an easy hole to cum, and the young smooth bottoms will always catch their attention. And so, he gave me a little task and told me download non-hook-up apps, such as Hinge and Bumble.
I didn’t want to do it at first, but I finally did it. During the first few months, nothing happened. I had just a few matches and usually the guys assumed I was a top because of my appearance. On my 30th birthday, I was quite depressed at home, feeling old and unattractive, when I received a notification from Hinge. I had a match with a 35 year old guy with a beautiful smile, and a confident look. We started talking and, when I said it was my birthday and I would spend the night by myself in my bedroom, he called me and we kept talking for hours. He insisted to take me out for dinner but I was to shy and afraid to accept. I fell asleep, and he texted me good morning on the next morning. He was a real gentleman. I talked to my therapist about him, showed his picture, and said that he was treating me too well to be true. Then my therapist said that I was expecting humiliation because of that guy from work who sent me twink pictures and told me that he wouldn’t fuck me.
I think every faggot understands the feeling this faggot was experiencing as he exposed himself to rejection. It’s at this point that many faggots retreat, afraid of getting hurt, exposed, vulnerable, or embarrassed.
But this faggot pressed on. Notice what happened then:
After a few weeks, I accepted his invitation to take me out for dinner. He was like a Disney prince, he picked up at my house, paid for the bill, and asked if I wanted to go back to his place. Again I was too scared of him looking at my body and dumping me, so I said I needed to go home. As soon as I arrive home, I texted him saying that we could be just friends because he wouldn’t like my body anyway. He said that this was not an issue for him, as long as I was a bottom. He said that the only deal breaker for him would be if he ever needed to bottom. I said that I would do anything he wants, and would always obey. When I said “always obey,” he asked if he good go back to my place on that same night. I was afraid of him leaving me, so I said yes.
Sam, I was literally panicking. I tried to text my therapist and ask for advice but it was too late in the night. When my Man arrived home, he started kissing me, and saying that I would never again feel ugly. I felt like a sex toy in his hands. He had complete control of anything, even my house became his house. He put me on my knees, told me to open my mouth, put out a beautiful and thick cock, and started fucking my throat without asking for permission. He was literally just giving orders, and I was obeying. He told me to undress and saw my whole body: fat, ugly, hairy. But that didn’t stop him from fucking my throat the whole night, and made me swallow three loads. He didn’t fuck my hole that night because I didn’t have any lube I wasn’t ready. To be honest, I didn’t even know how to prepare my hole for him. But I slept with three loads in my stomach and felt like the world’s luckiest faggot.
That happened 2 years ago. I am 32 now and we are still together. He was honest with me and said that he wasn’t very attracted to my ass but instead of humiliating me, he trained me to become his faggot. He shaved my ass with his own hands, and took my virginity when I was smooth. Then he told me to start shaving every week, and bought of the devices I needed to keep my face and body smooth. A few weeks after I sucked him for the first time, he bought two big dildos and told me to practice every night, he also enrolled me at the gym and hired a personal trainer to watch my diet.
Today is December 1, 2024. I lost 16 kg since 2022, my body is nice and smooth. My hole is ready for him to use 24/7 and my blowjob is as good as any sexy twinky porn star. I still have a long way to go to get in shape for my Master, but my self-esteem is 100x better. He literally saved my life, Sam. I was completely hopeless when we met each other. He saw a lonely depressed virgin faggot and immediately claimed me as his property, and turned a useless ugly faggot into a quite useful and loyal fag. Every other month I pay a super hot sex worker to come to our house, so my Master fucks this porn star as much as he wants. I think this is the least I can do after being literally rescued from a miserable life. And honestly this is his right as a God Alpha.
SUCCESS! As I’ve said countless times, there are great Alphas out there who instinctively know how to train faggots and build them up so they can become fulfilled and productive possessions. If you don’t believe me, believe HIM!
I get chills when I re-read this: “He literally saved my life, Sam.” Any Alphas reading this, please know that you can have this kind of truly dramatic effect on the faggots you claim!
The faggot concludes his experience this way:
I decided to tell you my story after reading this question about the hairy faggot because it really resonates with me. What I learned as 32 year old faggot is that FAGGOTS MUST MAKE AN EFFORT TO LOOK SEXY FOR THEIR MEN, BUT REAL PROTECTOR ALPHAS WILL SUPPORT US NO MATTER WHAT. Alphas are visual, this is their nature, and we can’t blame them for desiring young, good-looking, tight faggots. However, there are good alphas willing to train us, get us in shape, and use us. If there are any hopeless faggots reading this, please don’t give up, brother.
How can any faggot read that and not be inspired and encouraged?
I consider this one of the most important articles I’ve ever published, and I’m so grateful to the courageous, insightful brother who sent it in. I hope it helps others as much as it helps me!
People seem to need titles for everything so I do not know where I fall in,sub slave or what. I was trained in 1985 my trainer called me piggy1 I was his first to train as a pig. I was tought that I had free will that he did not want to tear it down but build on that. He said that The person that I am is part of being a pig. I had to learn to accept who I was what I was and what I be used for even the good the bad and those basic primal feelings. I serve a Handler I live my life I am skilled in pleasuring That is what I am used for a pleasure pig so I serve I please and Pleasure my Handler. I have done so for 6 years He is my husband my Handler and I am his pig.
I do everything freely and willingly. So My question is what am I. I mean I have gone beyond what my trainer taught me. I have a dom side that I use at time but I rather serve more than anything. So what do I fall in. I am a pig I am called still piggy1 My Handler said why retrain me I do everything I was trained as. Piggy1
Many subs want all of these different titles to describe their own particular fetish or interest. There are faggots, pigs, objects, slaves, etc.
I use the term faggot because it is a more all-encompassing term denoting both inferiority and servitude. The term also ties into the bullying aspect of what we are as inferiors and that need we have to experience that.
In my philosophy, faggots are all equal in a general sense. I have recently had an epiphany regarding faggot hierarchy, and I’ll be releasing that soon.
As far as you are concerned, you’re definitely a faggot … but faggots have different skills and uses. There are faggots who serve in a piggy way, and that would be you. I wouldn’t obsess over it much more than that, brother.
Do you think it’s possible to be a faggot if the only submissive thing I do is findom? I’m not submissive in any way in real life, except I absolutely love – and feel it’s a purpose and duty of mine – to send money to straight men. I feel they deserve mine more than me.
Thanks for the question! Yes, of course you can serve as a faggot solely through findom.
But let’s be clear: the way you’re approaching findom is going to leave you only partially formed as a faggot. You’re treating findom, not as a means of fulfillment, but as a fetish. True faggots in findom are wholly devoted to serving a Master through financial means; it consumes their life and informs every decision they make. They aren’t treating Alphas like strippers in a seedy nightclub that exist to sexually stimulate the patrons. No, they’re serving these Men because they are actually superior.
I will add one more observation: your particular situation hints at deep self-loathing. You say you don’t feel submissive in any way in your everyday life, but you feel like straight Men deserve your money more than you do. So your emphasis isn’t on the fact that they’re superior, but rather because they’re STRAIGHT (which in your mind means superior). Don’t you see what that’s saying about your perspective about yourself?
I don’t mean to insult you at all. I actually said more than I intended to, but I felt like I needed to put that out there, too. I hope you understand.
Yeah, I know … another post about my Master @AlphaAesthetic8.
He posted a most extraordinary video regarding one of his owned faggots relapsing again and again in a pathetic attempt to deny its truth.
I think the most devastating aspect of my Master’s personality (and key to his success in findom) is his calm, confident ability to definitively define reality and communicate it with clarity.
I need your help, as all my friend could not understand the situation I’m in.
I have been in a relationship with my ex boyfriend for few years, for at least the last 3 years i became more and more a sub for him, even his slave, his toy…
We succeeded to deal with both relationships quit well (dom and boyfriend) for a while, but now, unfortunately we cannot be boyfriend anymore (it’s more about our future than about feelings). I was the one breaking up with him. But we have continued to see each other few times since because we couldn’t resist the envy of fucking together again…
And I just love being his sub, it feels so natural and i can’t resist being on my knees worshipping him.
Here is my question :
Should I continue serving him, even though it might keep us/me in the past, now that we don’t have a love relationship anymore? We are leaving quit far away so we just see each other during some short period, few weeks now and there…and he doesn’t want for me to serve him if I see other guys. Also he would like me to remain caged…
I am 21, should i give up on this quit dysfunctional relationship and try to find an other alpha i can serve for life as I am still young ? Or should I remain at his service because my true purpose is to serve Alpha, no matter what sacrifice it means for me?
Also, he is very dominant but also very loving (mostly after sex) and likes to hug kiss etc… I’m worried there are still love feelings in this relationship, which would not be healthy both for him and my self but in the mean time when i say i’m serving him, i should not choose how… If he wants to use me by hugging and kissing, i feel like i should do it like I do for every other wants he has. I’m not sure my text is very clear but I hope you will get the point… And sorry for my mistakes, I’m not native English
Thanks for the details. I’m sorry things are falling apart between you and your Master.
It seems to me you’ve pretty much already answered your own question. Like you said, it’s not healthy to continue a pretense of a relationship, romantic or service relationship – given that your lives are naturally moving apart. This is part of the struggle of youthful relationships like this one. Life gets in the way often even in the best circumstances, and remaining on the same track is always a challenge.
In my opinion, it’s silly that you would be bound by this Master’s rules if most of the relationship is dead. I mean, are you supposed to remain sexless and single the rest of your life, devoted to a Master who is never around? When does this contract end?
You guys need to move on. If you want to hook up once in a while, that’s fine, but this idea that you are bound to him in a service relationship (and even wearing his cage!!) is just dumb. He will find other faggots, and you will find another Master. Hopefully you both will find situations that work better for whatever life you each build.
