I get a fair number of questions regarding anal tips and tricks. Most of my regimen involves keeping my pussy as tight and as clean as possible (through Kegel exercises, grooming, diet, and douching).
However, many fag brothers struggle with having pussies so tight that sex is almost torture.
Ordinarily, I’d recommend a buttplug system or The Chopstick Method pioneered by CagedJock. In fact, I recently recommended that to a reader.
But now I’m changing some of that. I believe all faggots should be using anal dilators. First invented as a medical device, these dilators solve a big problem for bottoms using traditional buttplugs: the buttplug doesn’t work to loosen both sets of muscle groups inside a fag’s pussy.
Watch these videos:
These anal dilators aren’t necessarily cheap (as they are medical-grade devices), but Amazon has one under $50. I’ve included a link below.
I do think this is a game-changer for many of you currently struggling to handle larger cocks.
The following post is part of a thread featuring the stories and advice of a straight 76-year-old God Alpha named Master Roger! CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
It’s been a long time since we’ve heard from guest columnist Master Roger here. I become so nervous about his absence that at one point I searched through the data in the backend of this site hoping to find an email or something, but I came up empty. If nothing else, I’m an excellent networker! I like to keep in contact with people, especially those I worship and admire like Master Roger.
It seems that Master Roger read something on the site recently that sparked his interest: THIS QUESTION from a faggot about the pain it suffers while being fucked by its Master. Master Roger wrote this:
Hey, Sam. How have you been? This is Master Roger. I am sorry I haven’t given you a lot of attention recently.
I read some of the last posts here and I would like to talk about pain. I see there is a boy here complaining about his Man who does not stop fucking when he says it hurts. I already wrote about this here and explained my strategy to make fags always ask for more even if it hurts.
But what I wanna say today to you and all your audience, especially the young fags here, is this: pain is necessary. I am sorry to say this and I know it sounds cruel. But Men like tight holes and, if it doesn’t hurt at all, you probably have a really gaping hole. Of course that there is a limit, I don’t want tight faggots to have excruciating pain, never. But unfortunately for faggots, Men need tight holes and tight holes will cause some pain.
It is useless to fight back against it, boys. Just take a deep breath, practice your hole with an anal plug, obey, and accept what you were born to be, ok?
Spoken like a true straight Alpha!
Master Roger is right, of course. Alphas (particularly straight Alphas) don’t want to hear faggots complaining about pain. After all, what choice does the faggot really have? It was given this function in life. Meanwhile, Men need to fuck and cum, and their pleasure is of utmost importance. So between the two groups, which is the one that should suffer?
It’s a blunt, cruel point, I know, but it’s the truth.
Thank you, Master Roger! It’s good to have your voice around here again! If you want to read the article Master Roger mentions above, you can access it by CLICKING HERE.
How can I know if an Alpha is a destroyer? My Master loves fucking and breeding me, in general he treats me well, he has never done anything that would hurt me or cause harm, but there is something that I can’t stop thinking about.
My ass is very tight and his cock is thick, so it is not always easy to take it the way he likes it. Sometimes I say “I can’t take it anymore” while he is pounding my ass and he NEVER stops banging, he just slows down, then he says something like “I can stop now baby, but I will be so disappointed, and if I finish I will be so proud of you” Then every time after he says this, I end up saying “please, keep fucking me”
I am sure that if I insist to stop he will, he is a good Man and he would never force me to take his cock if I were in serious pain. However, he never stops when I first say it, he just tries to calm me down and keep banging me in a slower pace until he finishes inside my ass.
I am new to hierarchy and to gay sex in general (I am 20 and only dated girls until last year). My best friend knows everything about my life and she says that if he does not take his cock out of my hole as soon as I tell him to stop, he is toxic, violent, etc. She basically thinks that he is a monster and has been trying to convince me to break up with him. I know she wants me to be safe and happy, but I think an opinion of another fag would be essential before I take such a decision.
He is a good Man and I like when fucks me, but I am afraid this is a red flag for potential worse behaviors. So please Sam, could you please give me your opinion and, if possible, give some examples of Destroyer Alphas? Is my Man a Destroyer? 🙁
Thank you for writing, brother!
First of all, let me define Destroyer Alpha tendencies: they go out of their way to harm others, they manipulate, they entrap, they steal they blackmail, they sadistically torture people, etc. We are talking about truly despicable Alphas, Men who use their power to destroy the lives and the self-esteem of inferiors.
Clearly, that doesn’t sound anything like your Master, does it?
Your Master is the average dominant Alpha, and he fucks exactly like one. Here’s the problem: he knows it hurts (and he likes that it hurts), but he also knows you need it to hurt. Let me explain that: Faggots respond submissively to being fucked by their Owner, and their desire kicks in to fight through the pain in order to please him. Yes, you asked him to stop, but your Master knows you really need to be pushed through it. Think of his actions like a trainer who pushes his trainee in the gym beyond what he thinks he can handle.
Your female friend is totally wrong. She’s looking at things from the woke female perspective that is currently destroying all engagement between males and females. Men are afraid to even touch a female because they start crying rape. It’s stupid.
Your friend doesn’t understand what faggots need, nor does she understand what it means to be owned by an Alpha. I cannot emphasize this enough: DO NOT listen to this friend. She’s going to ruin something special you have with your Master.
You said it repeatedly yourself: he’s a good Man. He’s a good Master. He’s not ever going to destroy you. He wants to own you and keep you and push you to become the best faggot you can be.
Why? Because he’s more of a Protector Alpha than you realize.
The following post is part of a thread following the service of a young faggot named Tyler who has been claimed by a great Protector Alpha named Steven. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
I just published THIS STORY about how loved Giovanni feels as the personal faggot of a God Alpha like Master Lorenzo, so I thought this recent message from Tyler might be the perfect bookend to that. Odd how these things go sometimes, isn’t it?
You might remember Tyler being essentially rescued from the cruel hands of a Destroyer Alpha named Adam by his current Master, Steven. Master Steven’s brave stance against Adam in order to save Tyler was inspirational and worthy of accolades. It’s just the way any true Protector Alpha would react.
But faggot psychology can be quite complicated. Very often faggots seek the wrong thing, plagued by deep feelings of unworthiness and self-loathing that craves to be reinforced by the cruelty of hateful Men. Time and time again I’ve seen faggots immolate themselves in the flame they couldn’t resist flying into despite my warnings. This often results in broken hearts, and broken lives.
Notice how even now, as Tyler enjoys a favored place at the feet of his great Master Steven, his defective faggot heart is craving abuse:
Hey Sam,
This is Tyler again. We talked a while ago about my Master Steven. He really saved me and I’m forever grateful for the way he rescued me. He’s also paying for my therapy and it’s been good for my self knowing. But one of the things I learned in therapy is that I have a need for degradation. That’s why I kept going back to Adam no matter how much he hurt me. I still have urges to serve me, but every time I feel it, I focus on serving Steven as my one and only Master.
My question is: Steven is a great Alpha and any fag would be happy with him, but he is a real gentleman. He speaks several languages, he’s really knowledgeable, well-succeeded in his career, and a wonderful man. But he treats me like a princess, he even buys me gifts from time to time. A few days ago he bought me a gorgeous pair of earrings, and I loved them. But it’s such a turn off… he takes care of me, protects me, wants to see me improving in my career and life, he became a real mentor and Master for me. But I have this urge to be treated like trash, like a pathetic worthless fag, just a cumdump and nothing more. He does fuck me well and treats me like a fag in bed, and I serve him domestically, but he treats me too well… he controls me but always to lift me up, and I miss a Man who curses me, spits on my face for no reason, I don’t know how to navigate this because he is a really good Man.
Should I ask him to be a little more brutal with me?
What a mess!
My sympathy goes to Master Steven. He’s truly showing his faggot the kindness and care that many Men wouldn’t dare to show, and his faggot doesn’t want any of it. It’s like a homeless person who begs for food on the street despising the food he’s given because it’s too rich or too sweet. It makes no sense.
I feel sorry for Tyler, too. Clearly, he’s broken in some way that may not ever be fixed. I just wish that faggots who find themselves in remarkably nurturing situations could just find peace and joy serving the Men caring for them. Master Steven is one of the best Alphas out there, and he deserves respect, worship, and adoration for being the Man he is … not this kind of emotional betrayal.
I think Tyler should kneel and confess these feelings to his Master. It’s not going to be an easy conversation (probably more than a little embarrassing), but Master Steven deserves at least an opportunity to respond. Perhaps he has a solution to this, but who knows?
But if he can figure out the solution to why faggots seek self-destruction, I’d love to hear it!
The following post is part of a thread chronicling the continuing ascension of a 21-year-old bisexual Alpha named Master Joe and his ownership of his best friend’s faggot brother. CLICK HERE for all posts in this thread in chronological order!
I’ve never seen a picture of Master Joe, but from his writing style and attitude I’d say Master Joe is that prototypical all American fratboy. He’s like a playful, confident lion; immensely powerful, but in no dire need to exert that power. And when he does utilize that power, he does so in disarmingly fun ways.
I do believe that owning a faggot is helping Master Joe refocus that playful energy into something more thoughtful. At first, owning that faggot (the brother of his best friend/chief rival) was a bit of jocular one-upsmanship. However, as time has gone on and his ownership over the faggot has deepened, Master Joe is starting to also deepen his understanding of the faggot mind and what it needs.
Take, for example, this very recent thought Master Joe had:
Hey fag Sam, this is Master Joe! Happy, healthy, and breeding holes as always
I had a conversation with my fag bf last night and I want your opinion about it. He was telling me that it’s much easier to take my cock now because he’s used to the shape and the size, then I asked if it still hurts him. I have no idea of how it feels because I have never bottomed, but I thought that after a while it would not hurt at all. However, my fag said that taking a cock always hurts a little bit, just a little bit, even when the pussy is properly trained. And then I realized that this is not a problem. In fact, I think that it’s important that the fag feel a little bit of pain. I think of myself working out. After a hard training, I like to feel my muscles hurt, it makes me feel that I am growing stronger. Likewise, when a fag takes a hard cock and his hole hurts afterwards I think it’s a good way to make the boy remind of who he is. What is the point of serving a superior man if it doesn’t involve some sacrifice?
I am not saying that fags deserve to suffer, I take care of my fag and love him. I think real men should never hurt girls or fags in bed, but causing this little discomfort in their stretched pussy is important for his training. Does that make sense?
I really want to become a better Alpha and embrace my role more and more everyday.
See how faggot ownership is altering Master Joe’s perspective? He’s starting to consider not only his needs, but also what’s best for the faggot he owns. This maturity is also leading him to consider his own Alphahood and how he can more fully embrace that lofty promise.
In regards to Master Joe’s specific thoughts, I say the following:
Master, it’s always so wonderful to hear from you! Thank you for writing in!
This is a very keen observation on your part, one that deserves more scrutiny and consideration by all, not just faggots. Yes indeed, some pain is definitely part of a faggot’s life. As you noted, pain is actually a beneficial part of a faggot’s life, because that pain shapes the faggot’s mind and its sense of self and purpose.
You’ll never know the pain involved in having a big Alpha cock violating your holes (yes, let’s not forget the pain of being throat fucked!), but it’s never easy to take if the faggot is maintaining its pussy muscles and not abusing them to the point of prolapse. You Alphas want a tight, snug hole to fuck, but the trade-off is pain on the part of the faggot.
But here’s the key: that pain is pleasure for faggots! When an Alpha is entering us and it hurts, we are deriving pleasure from that pain EMOTIONALLY. We know we are pleasing our Alpha, and that emotional pleasure (or, more properly, hierarchical pleasure) sends endorphins flooding into our bloodstream from the excitement of being used properly. The harder and more intensely we are fucked, the greater the endorphin rush.
The intensity of this pain/pleasure crucible while being fucked is so great that, if and when an Alpha cunts us, the unexpected explosion of that feeling becomes overwhelming. That’s why cunting is such a startling and unforgettable experience for faggots, and why cunted faggots are essentially owned for life by the Alpha who cunted it.
And Master, as you said in your letter, that pain trains the faggot to always remember what it is. Like an invisible chastity cage, the throbbing ache of a well-fucked hole constantly reminds the faggot of its Master and its purpose. So pain isn’t a bad thing for faggots. In fact, I think it’s a good and natural part of our place in hierarchy! Thank you, Master!
That explanation was a bit more intense than I initially intended, but I really like it! I think I might use it as the core of a larger examination on the site! Or maybe a podcast episode!
But you see why I love Master Joe so much, right? He’s an amazing Alpha and Master, and his little faggot is lucky to have him hurting it every night!
I am a new faggot. I have recently discovered how much I love serving real men and in particular Straight Alphas. Most of the men I serve are straight, married or in relationship with women and I just love that I provide them what they can’t get from their girls while I get complete humiliation and degradation for being a faggot. For most of this time I have been a cocksucker to them but I decided I want to please men with my ass as well. Straight men love my ass, it’s very thick and girl-like so I understood it’s my duty to let them fuck it if they want. I have been fucked 4 times now but I have a problem with pain when men thrust deep inside it. I have no problem when they stick their cocks in, the problem is when they reach deep and thrust hard. Why am I in pain at that spot? Could it be anatomical like a bowel curve? I had a colonoscopy, so I know it’s nothing serious but still I don’t know what it is and how to deal with it. And to be honest I don’t want to give up anal because I feel like a total faggot slut. But also I don’t want to hurt a lot. Also, I always use lube. Any ideas?
Thanks for the question!
I’m not a doctor, of course, so keep that in mind.
However, from the description I think it sounds like these Alphas are hitting your second ring (located about 5.5 inches inside your colon) and they’re unable to penetrate it for whatever reason. The second ring is muscle tissue that expands and contracts involuntarily, and perhaps yours is clenching due to anxiety or something.
I hate to advocate for the use of poppers, but snorting poppers might be exactly what you need in this instance. Poppers open blood vessels and cause muscle tissue to relax. I would try that just before being penetrated and see if there’s a difference in your experience.
If not, then you’ll need to see a specialist to find out through more advanced testing.
i’m a beta or as you call it, a fag. No doubt about it. A Man mainly uses me for His chores, as sort of a domestic slave. He also makes me pay to do His chores. He also demands me to pay more if i do not do a good enough job at cleaning His place, which tends to be difficult, cause He always finds something and this is draining me financially. Another thing is He once kicked me in the balls and found that so funny, he does so regularly and sometimes even has me hurt my own balls for Him to laugh about. i do worry about this, like, it might hurt them? i also do not particularly like the pain myself, but He seems to love it and i once told him it was not a hard limit. He loves it ever since. But the pain is a lot sometimes. What should i do?
Thanks for your question!
I honestly cannot stand Men like this guy you’re submitting to. They think violence, deception, cruelty, and hate equal dominance or Alphahood. He’s a prototypical Destroyer Alpha.
I’ve already made my position quite clear: Men like him don’t deserve worship or service. Antisocial misbehavior like his shouldn’t be rewarded with obedience and devoted service. He deserves to be treated like the pig he is.
You seem like a good faggot. I think you should value yourself and your service more and offer them to better, more deserving Alphas.
I am a pig I serve and pleasure my Handler. Lately my Handler has stopped his floggings and other things on me. Because he has messed his shoulder up from the last flogging see I am a pain pig pain gives me great pleasure. I know he still uses me but it’s only serving and sometimes pleasuring him. But I feel I am not being used to my fullest because he has stopped the floggings and that. I know it gives him great pleasure to to see how far I can go. Is it fair to me that I have a useless feeling that I feel useless knowing he is not feeling well. Sometimes I feel like finding another Handler but he been my Handler for 10 years. What do I do? Was it me that caused his shoulder to go out since it was me that he was flogging. He gave more than he has given. That did not bother me I enjoyed it it was the guilt after the floggings that his shoulder got messed up.
Thanks for the message, brother!
I have no idea if you were the reason why your Handler got injured (how could I know that?), but I don’t think you should beat yourself up over it (get it?). I don’t think you should leave your Handler just because he’s hurt. That’s selfish. Stick by him and serve him. Your needs don’t come first- his does.
Hello Sam A few days ago my boy sent you a message complaining about how it hurts when I fuck him. He showed me your website and your answer to his question. You are doing an excellent work, well done. I’ve been fucking faggots for a decade and I’ve never heard about your work. Keep up the good work.
I’m writing to you because I imagine many fags read your website and I want to say that he is fine. Although I believe that it is important for a faggot to endure some pain to make sure they don’t forget their place, I would never hurt him or any other boy on purpose. In fact, after he wrote to you he was honest with me about how he felt and I’m much more careful now. I did not know my dick was hurting him so bad. But now I got him three different dildos for him to practice more often, and he’s much better now. I am exploring more his throat to let his ass recover.
So Men, take care of your boys! Boys, be honest with your Men!
Master, thank you for reaching out to me with this glorious and inspired message! I also thank you for your kind words and your blessing on what I’m doing here!
I must tell you that your faggot’s letter really touched me. I wanted to reach through the internet and hold him. He seemed so genuinely disappointed and sad, not only because of the discomfort, but also because seemed resigned to never being able to please you properly. The greatest faggots always have that selflessness at the core of their being, and yours has that in abundance.
Of course, an Alpha like you who has owned and used faggots for as long as you have already knows this. I just had to make that point first, Master.
I celebrate you and your response to this situation because I want other Alpha Masters to appreciate it and consider your actions thoughtfully. Ask any faggot who has actually served Alphas, and you will hear lots of horror stories of terrible, cruel, and unconscionable Masters who practically torture their faggots. And these faggots suffer the cruelty because of the same mindset that your faggot had – that pain is all a faggot deserves.
I smiled when you even admitted that pain is an important component of owning faggots, Master. I can tell by the way you phrased it that you know HOW strategic application of pain is useful in molding a proper faggot mindset. I wouldn’t have the kind of respect I have for Alpha power today if I hadn’t learned to endure Alpha ruts, Alpha discipline, and large Alpha cocks. I learned these things from the great Masters who’ve owned me over the years, Men very much like you.
So I now know my little faggot brother is in the best hands. Through your power, wisdom, and skill your faggot will find purpose and pleasure, fulfillment and peace. I thank you, Master, for reaching out and setting such a fine example!
I beg you, Master: please write to me at hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com. I would very much like to add your voice to the wide roster of great Alpha voices on this site, not only to instruct your brother Alphas, but also to give hope to the lost faggots who come here searching for hope.
Hi Sam!! I love you so much <3 your website is so amazing, I learn so much
So I am 19 Sam, and my bf is 29. I know I am a faggot and that’s what I want to be. He loves to dominate me and treat me like his personal hole to use and fuck. I cook for him, clean for him, do the laundry, etc And I am so happy!
But I have one question and I want your opinion… He fucks me every day and always hurts. In the beginning I told him to go slow or fuck just with the half of his dick but after some time I let him fuck the way he like (deep and hard). So is it normal to hurt all the time or it get better with time? I just close my eyes when he is fucking and wait to feel the cum inside me. I love the feeling of serving him but I never feel pleasure with the dick inside me because it hurt so much. I lost my viriginty with him and never saw other dick, so I don’t know what to do.
Faggots always feel pain and that’s normal, or I am doing something wrong? I really love to be a faggot and I understand if i need to feel the pain but sometimes I see bottoms enjoying so much, so I don’t know if it’s normal.
Thank you Sam!!! I love you a lot!
Thank you for your sincere question, little brother! I love you, too!
Certainly, anal sex can come with some amount of pain, especially when you lose your virginity. But it makes me sad that a young, genuine, heartfelt faggot like you feels resigned to a life of painful service when that is NOT true at all.
First and foremost, you MUST be using LOTS of lube every time. Since you are having sex without a condom, you should be using SILICONE lubricant because it is significantly slicker and longer-lasting. The lube should be slathered on your hole and his dick before penetration.
You also need to stretch your hole a little bit. You can use buttplugs of increasing size to help open your hole. Also, there is this amazing technique pioneered by CagedJock to very carefully open a hole: https://hierarchyuniversity.com/caged-jock-how-to-stretch-a-fags-hole/
And finally, you need to relax. Unfortunately, your Alpha has made that more difficult because he keeps hurting you without any consideration for what you’re going through. If he knew more about what he was doing, he might be able to improve to the point that he could cunt you, a moment you both should want. But he’s never going to cunt you by fucking you the way he is right now.
I ask that you please talk to him about the pain you’re experiencing and how desperately you want to be a good faggot for him. Beg him to help you feel more comfortable with sex, because the pain is making it difficult to serve properly. If you need to, point him to my answer here. Whatever it takes. He must understand both your pain and your admirable desire to keep serving him.
I really hope you manage to correct this and find pleasure in your service, little brother. A good faggot like you is so rare to find, and your Alpha should be appreciative enough to try and help you serve him. You deserve it!
Hey Sam, I know this will sound weird but I promise I’m not a fake not I’m trying to joke with you.
I am 19 years old and it’s very clear for me that I was born to fuck and breed. I see myself as bisexual and I really like girls and femboys. My problem is: I have a really thick dick and I hardly ever find femboys willing to take it. They usually like to suck it and jerk me off, but when I try to fuck and breed them, they give up. My best friend is straight and he says that I should just fuck girls because their pussy is easy to open and stretch, but girls are even worse, they’re too picky for a hook-up and their blowjob is usualyl much worse. My question for you is: is it that hard to find a sexy femboy twink able to take a really thick dick in their boypussy? In real life out of porn how many fags can actually take a big dick without crying about it? I’ve considering to look for older fags with more experience and loose holes, but I’m really into twinky femboys.
I haven’t fucked for two months, I always end up jerking off to porn cuz I know that fags around my age on Grindr will probably give up on taking my cock. They get excited when I send pictures but they give up once they look at it in person.
I know it might sound funny or a weird thing to complain about but I feel really bad for being unable to have an active sexual life. It’s very frustrating and depressing. Can you please share your thoughts on my problems!
Thanks!
Sir, I really appreciate this question and I sympathize with your plight. While I’m sure every guy reading your question is jealously whining, saying, “Why’s he bitching about THAT?” I know this can be a huge issue (pun intended) for well-hung Alphas like yourself. It’s especially hard when you’re 19 years old, and everyone in your peer group is young, tight, and relatively inexperienced.
While it’s true that vaginas are better designed to handle larger cocks, they’re unfortunately are attached to FEMALES who, as you mention, whine and complain too much (and certainly can’t suck you off properly).
Faggots are most certainly the solution to your issue. Faggots are service-oriented and easily commanded. However, my advice to you is to take ownership of one or two faggots (those femboys you like will work for this) and then take the time to work with them so that they will be able to take your dick.
Here’s an exercise I’d like you to consider using on these faggots, Sir: https://hierarchyuniversity.com/caged-jock-how-to-stretch-a-fags-hole/
The chopstick method for stretching a faggot’s hole (I suppose it could be employed on a vagina, also) is one of the most brilliant methods for slowly increasing the width as well as the tension of the faggot’s pussy.
Once properly stretched (and fucked/bred) insert a large buttplug into the hole to keep it open (and to keep your cum inside it) so that the hole doesn’t fully close up.
I believe this will create fuckable holes you can count on again and again whenever you need to breed. Not only that, but you’ll be creating faggots tailor-made to your specifications and needs, so they will be YOUR faggots that you can use in any way you need. I think you’ll find these faggots useful as you grow into your life as an Alpha, Sir.
Side note: Invest in high-quality water-based lube (I recommend Gun Oil, but you might have a favorite) and don’t skimp on it when you’re fucking. You want to make sure the fuck holes you’re creating don’t get damaged from powerful rutting.
I really hope this helps, Sir. I hate to see Alpha like you go without simply because Nature blessed you more than most! Please let me know if I can be of further assistance! Thank you, Sir!
