Hi, I would like to ask for some advice. I am a married guy close to 40. I am happy with my wife but I also want to be satisfied sexually. My kinks are humiliation, degradation, slavery, and submission. I started to read about that and I started to crave becoming a faggot. I never had gey tendency but I would love to try that. I am not sure if this is for me so I decided to contact a few masters online to become an online slave and at least try this way for now. But when I contact them I often hear that they need to see my face to start. I am not sure if this is a path for me, and I don’t feel comfortable showing my face at the beginning of this journey. I would like to begin anonymously. So always this ends our relationship. How should I try to fulfil my lust?

Thank you for this! 

First of all, be grateful that you’re finding serious Masters, because there are a lot of game players even among Men who call themselves Masters. So at least it seems like you’ll have options if it gets that far.

Have you thought about being dominated online in the financial domination scene (or “findom”)? That’s a relatively easy way to taste the scene and see if that even appeals to you at all. Yes, it’ll cost you a few hundred dollars most likely, so if you can squirrel away that much and keep it concealed from your wife, then I’d try that. 

Otherwise, you’ll just need to keep trying until you can find one that is willing to meet you in public somewhere without seeing a pic first. They’re out there, trust me.

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This meme makes a great point that I hadn’t considered before (don’t watch many kids films these days!).

There really isn’t a difference between those two things UNLESS a person is biased against homosexuality.

Thoughts?

Hi! I had a quick question for you – do you think it’s possible for straight fags to exist? I have never once had a “crush” on a man, only women which is why I believe to be straight. I have never had any desire to be in a romantic relationship with a man. I don’t really find men hot or anything.

However I am definitely a faggot. I know I am inferior to other men, and I am attracted to the idea of serving them. I’m even more attracted to serving them non sexually than sexually (i dont really want to serve sexually, i just know it is required of me). I’m attracted to the power they have over me and them using that power. But i’m not attracted to the men themselves.

I’m pretty convinced I am a “straight” faggot, but I’d love to hear your thoughts on this!

I’m not fully convinced you qualify as a “faggot” just because you desire to serve powerful superior Alphas. That’s because BETA MALES also have that desire to serve Alphas. However, if you started cleaning and cooking and doing faggot-like chores for an Alpha, I’m pretty sure he’s going to think of you as a faggot rather than a beta. But I have known straight beta males who loved serving the nonsexual needs of superior Men (I definitely saw this during my time in prison).

I’m not discounting that you could be a very repressed faggot, but for now that would be my answer.

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To my ears it sounds like my Man @ShawnMendes is trying to tell us he’s gay. Ordinarily a purely straight Man in his twenties doesn’t have this much conflict about whether or not he likes girls.

It’s okay, Shawn! Gimme a DM and I’ll help you!

I get so tired of hearing straight guys insist that straight Men don’t use faggots. As they repeatedly tell me, the use of faggots by definition means they are not straight.

Well let me tell you, if that’s the case then there are far fewer straight Men then we imagined.

Most of the Alphas I’ve served in my life either casually or as an owned faggot were straight Men. I never questioned their desire to use me despite being resolutely heterosexual. The only time it became an issue is when I would struggle to contain my jealousy over their relationships with women. And in those moments when my Alphas were forced by me to choose, they always chose their females over me … because ultimately they were straight.

Then I started the FWA site and the Hierarchy Podcast, and I began chronicling many true stories of straight Alphas who use faggots sexually. In fact, the original name for FWA was Fags Worship STRAIGHTS because that was what I knew in my service career. And with every story I covered, the compiling evidence proved my own experience wasn’t an outlier. Straight Alphas DO use faggots sexually.

But don’t take my word for it. Listen instead to these clinical psychiatrists and therapists who have studied and treated many cases of straight Men who use gay males sexually. Not only that, but they have clinical reasons WHY straight Men use gay males sexually.

Here are their professional opinions:

So what should we think about this? Can this circle be squared?

Of course! It’s honestly very simple: straight Alphas use faggots because they love POWER. They love WORSHIP. They love SERVICE.

As the doctors above attest, Male sexuality is more fluid and situational than most of us are willing to admit in public. In my experience, Men will do all sorts of taboo things when they know they’re safe. And Men compartmentalize their sexuality so completely that understanding the complexity of it is like getting lost in a labyrinth.

So I will never agree that straight Alphas don’t use faggots. THEY DO. In fact, I think an increasing number of them are turning to faggot ownership and service. So the time has come to put this issue to bed. It’s proven.

Lots of stupid, insecure straight guys out there insist that straight Men and straight Alphas don’t use faggots for sexual pleasure (particularly head). Now, I know this is wrong from my own experience serving straight Alphas throughout my life, and I know it from the countless examples I’ve chronicled while teaching Hierarchy.

Here is an awesome thread of collected comments from straight Men who admit to using faggots and gays for sexual release. You’ll notice a common theme – they do it for the POWER.

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I’m straight, married, in my mid 40’s and I get blown by guys. The more I look around, the more common this seems to be, but even if not, fuck it. I was freaked out by it at first, and even a bit ashamed, but it’s super convenient, and my wife isn’t into sucking me off, so I’ve got a couple guys that I can hit up for a BJ whenever I want. The visual isn’t so great, but you get used to it, and they have no problem with me playing porn. Pretty clearly, guys who love to suck dick are totally all about providing the best experience, so whatever makes it work best for me is what they want. I think this is why shit like this goes on all the time but nobody ever talks about it. It’s totally hedonistic. It’s all about me and getting the kind of BJ I’m in the mood for, be it a five-minute quickie, or a leisurely half hour or so of getting my brains sucked out.

I probably get 4-5 BJs a month, but the great thing is, it’s all up to me. There’s no real relationship to worry about (though we are friendly), no drama, and if I’m not horny, I just don’t go. No one’s going to call me to ask where I’ve been or if I want to come around today. On the other hand, if I’m going through a horny phase, I could swing by every day and it would also be no big deal. It’s just so straight forward! I don’t have to manscape, or bring flowers, I just have to take a seat and get blown.

Oh, and do I have to point out that someone who really loves to suck dick tends to do it really well? My one guy is gay and he’s all about throat action, he likes to take it deep and massage it with this throat muscles. The other guy is bi and prefers to do some crazy shit with his tongue. Both not only swallow, but love doing it. Neither wants anything more from me and they don’t even try to get undressed. No drama, no commitment, no worrying about it being anything more than it actually is, just a blowjob.

Again, this all took some getting used to, but where the fuck are you going to find a woman who’ll blow you whenever you want and with no hidden agenda? Honestly, it’s fucking great and I highly recommend it! 

Commented by anonymous

Yeah dudes, I feel you.  Hey Secret_Soldier, I’m a new convert.

I like my girl giving me treat. But that’s rare.

But I recently found out, when a guy does it, it’s at a whole other level.

We have our shit set up tight. Nobody suspects a thing.

He lives not far from me.

I can be gaming, watching TV. I just make my call, and he’s there in under 15 minutes to satisfy my cock anytime I ask him.

I don’t feel the least bit guilty.

Sometimes I’m about to head out, and this fucker’s following me around the house, sucking my cock as I’m getting ready.

Then I sit down and let him finish me. I like that shit. I really do.

My girl would never do that.

I travel for work.

Thinking about having him meet me at my places I stay at as a stress reducer.

Commented : by anonymous

Soldier you can post this as a recent convert.

I it was the case of a backfire.

I used to frown on the gay shit.

Served with gay dudes and it opened my eyes.

One day me and this one gay dude had to open a mission detail.

It was around 0430. We got dropped off just he and I.

We had gotten pretty close over the months.

I seized the moment to prod him about him being gay. The shield went up right away, but not for long.

Apologized, but it was just who I am. we got laugh at it he opened up.

It may sound like porn, but it’s the God’s truth, I really got curious. and he called me out for asking him about blowjobs. Like we both arrived at, I am who I am, so ask if he’d like to give me some head.

He initially turned white as a sheet. Told him it was cool.

After a while when I saw him smile.

He made me promise not to tell. I was like Dude, get real!

We took just enough gear off for him to give me the best head I ever had in my life.

He blew me a lot during deployment.

To this day, I have him and 2 other cocksuckers under my belt, who will gladly come and hook me up any time I ask.

Commented Nov 16, 2019 17:13 by anonymous

I’m a married guy best BJ ever was from a guy. Sucked better than any of my 3 wives.

Commented  Dec 28, 2019 06:27 by anonymous 

I’m your average everyday guy, and pretty open minded, but NEVER thought about having a BJ from a guy. But I’m going to confess here that I’ve read enough of these types of posts in here to make me wonder if I haven’t been missing out. I’m actually considering giving this a try. I get the occasional good BJ at home, but it isn’t often I can tell you. On top of that, it’s always a reward, or an act by my wife with a price tag. Never because she just wants to do it for the fun or pleasure for me. 

Commented Nov 18, 2019 10:11 by anonymous

I’m a married man and have a cocksucker that will service me when I need sexual release. He usually blows me one to two times a week depending on my need to get off. Simple arrangement where I can enjoy feeding him my cock either in his home or workshop. I’m well endowed yet he’s more than eager to all of me and do whats necessary to get his reward. My wife gives good head but he gives amazing head and always swallows.

Commented Jan 13, 2018 13:59 by anonymous 

I agree! Like you, I am a married man … The wife hates sucking cock. It’s great to have a local discreet guy who loves to suck cock and lick balls! I just pull my cock out and he’s on it like white on rice! …. Shoot a huge load into his mouth and he’s happier than a kid in a candy store!

Commented Jan 13, 2018 14:20 by anonymous

I’m in the same boat but fortunately I learned the “mouth is a mouth” lesson early on. I love women, fucking love them, but I’m horny a lot and most women out there aren’t into just giving you a BJ several times a week just so that you can take the edge off. I’d liken getting BJs from guys to getting a massage, but somehow a massage seems more involved, and even intimate. Nine times out of ten, I’ve whipped it out and dropped a load in under ten minutes, often under five. Having one or two guys in your life who enjoy sucking cock is a real life saver. 

And you’re right, guys who do it tend to be pretty devoted to making sure their skills are top shelf. While there are some women out there who are fantastic at giving head and give it out freely, they’re hard to find. But finding a guy who’ll blow you on the regular like it’s nothing? That’s fairly easy to arrange. I think tons more guys do this than would ever let on.

Commented Jan 13, 2018 14:23 by anonymous

One of the best posts ever on the benefits of guys sucking guys.

Seriously, if you have never tried getting sucked by a guy you are missing out on a real treat. And if you ever had to the urge to suck a cock you owe it to yourself to try it.

Married men make great casual sex partners. I’ve got two married friends who will suck me at the drop of a hat. Takes considerable pressure off my wife, lol. She would freak if she knew but she benefits from not being pressured for sex all the time.

Commented Jan 2, 2020 14:52 by anonymous

I was hesitant to have a guy as well, but I’m glad I did. Some of the best orgasms I’ve had were in a mans mouth, I’m happy, wife’s happy and the guy is happy. its a win win win situation

Commented Jan 2, 2020 11:52 by anonymous

Right here Bro. I’m a gym rat.

Every gym rat knows you have to beat gay dudes off with a stick from offering you head.

Saw one guy giving me the look one day.

I blew it off (no pun intended).

But still was cordial with the guy talked him up when I was there.

After a workout one day, I was really feeling it. I knew my girl was out of town. Saw the same dude checking me out, started talking him up.

I think he could tell I was down.

I was telling him about a new cardio I was trying, asked if he wanted to swing by my place. He wasn’t there 10 minutes; he was touching my bulge.

I raped the fuck out of his throat.

He doesn’t go to the same gym.

But I can still call him and use his throat when I’m in the mood.

Commented Jan 3, 2020 12:44 by anonymous

This is comletely normal. Guys have been doing this since the beginning of time, we’ve just never really talked about it before. Everybody knows other guys give the best head, it is super easy, no drama and no expectations. Blow and go from another dude is always easier than trying to get head from a woman.

Commented Jan 2, 2020 11:10 by anonymous

I’ve been getting my dick sucked by guys for about 4 years now. I still think my wife gives me the best but they’re hard to come by. I do have to say guys are more eager to suck on some dick. Usually very aggressive, I prefer slow , deep , and really wet. They happily adjust. I differ from you cause I like to return the favor , going back and forth swapping head just gets me going. I don’t even care what they look like as long as they have a nice cock

Commented Nov 12, 2019 09:17 by anonymous

I’m also a married man and use a personal cocksucker on the side. There’s very times when he’s not available to service me and always eager to satisfy me. What I like best is to watch my cook disappear in his mouth as I bury his face between my thighs. What is unusual to me is he loves the feel and scent of my bush in his face. I always assumed male cocksuckers preferred a to suck a smooth cock and balls or is that just for anal? I prefer he take me soft and feel his oral skills as I encourage him to suck my balls and take me deep until he give him gags. When I’m satisfied I’ll begin to face fuck him hard and give him my creamy treat while he jerks off. The beats the hassle of trying to head from a woman especially when sex at home has decreased or none at all.

Commented Jan 3, 2020 10:49 by anonymous

I have been letting men blow me since I was a teenager and I’m 83, I got a blow job a few days ago and white washed the man’s tonsils. I let gay and bi men suck my Italian sausage and never had a women give head the the enthusiams and desisre of a man. I was married 53 years before I lost my wife. That was 4 years ago and she never had any suspicion I prefer men to suck my dick. I’m nor much on fucking a man in the ass, or a woman as I prefer a warm mouth working on my cock. However, I have to admit when I was in my late 40’s a man was blowing me and 2 other married men who happened there at the same time and we all got hotter than a whore in church on Sunday and I sucked on their cocks too. Only done it a few times since and would love a blow job every day if the guys were available.

Commented Jan 6 2020 by anonymous

Surprisingly good head always always comes from boys. Always.

Commented Dec 22 2021 by Hunter

Married alpha here. I have a stable of 4 faggots scattered around Austin that I regularly hit up to service me. When I’m running errands, I hit up the closest one and 99% of the time they say come through. They all have different styles of throating, so it’s really about what I’m in the mood for. I feed them my cock (a couple of them eat my ass too), cum down their throats, and leave. It’s perfect.

My wife gives terrible head and I’ve basically stopped asking for it at this point. I’m converted.

Thanks for the question! Yours is officially the first one on the new site!

I was wondering how many faggots (and Alphas) would respond to that information about agonophilia. I know a lot of faggots get off on being beaten, so I figured some would be triggered by it. As far as your central question, let’s be honest – most faggots are in hiding and are extremely embarrassed about their needs. After all, it’s not exactly something that one brings up at a family reunion or in the work breakroom.

That being said, I am someone who has almost completely integrated being a faggot with my exterior life. I’ve never been shy or socially intimidated, so I simply let people know (when asked) that I’m a faggot. Nervous laughter follows, but then some healthy conversation usually occurs afterward.

But I realize I’m an outlier and not the norm when it comes to this. In the real world, a faggot needs to pick his battles and reveal the truth to those he can trust. That doesn’t make a faggot any less than he is (after all, he’s a faggot!). You shouldn’t feel shame because you’re hiding some part of yourself right now. It’ll come when it’s the right time for you, not for anyone else’s expectations.

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This post is part of a thread following the story of Sir James, a straight married Man coming to understand and embrace the faghood of his beloved son. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

I have spent the last few days compiling information from Sir James and also his 16-year-old son as this situation has continued to increase in complexity and intensity. This is shaping up to be one of the most touching and overwhelming stories I’ve ever covered here, one that really speaks to the power of love between parents and their child, and the importance of putting aside preconceptions in order to best help those in need.

In the last post, I discussed how Sir James took the lead with his faggot son Jamie (another faggot named Jamie on this site!) and put the chastity cage on him for the first time. The chastity cage was something given to Jamie by the three straight school Alphas he services all the time.

Of course, these three straight high school Alphas (names: Master Bill, and Alphas Jacob and Damion) are not yet equipped to properly handle the training and maintenance of an owned faggot; they just like the faggot’s throat. So Sir James has had to take the lead in enforcing the rules for faggots, and he’s been doing so with an impressive firmness.

I can see that having a faggot for a son also comes with its challenges. When he got back from soccer practice he asked me to take his cage off. And I had to take the time to explain to him that faggots in my house stay caged and how could he think of disrespecting his alphas in this way. We had an argument and I sent him to his room to cool off for a few hours to cool down. We had a better time over dinner and he asked if he can have a sleepover next week. So I told him that it is fine with it but the cage is not coming off. 

I was impressed at how Sir James tied the cage with respect for Alphas! This should always be the primary reason why a faggot is in chastity, so this was excellent!

Then Sir James upped the ante on the sleepover idea:

Thank you for getting back to me. I told my boy that we will be having a pool party next weekend and he will be hosting it for is mates and their girlfriends, I was thinking it is a good way for me to showcase my little faggot in a very good light and positive way.  I did do a lot of reading on chastity for faggots and your words also reflect my understanding.  It was one of my proudest moments when my boy showed his Alpha his cage and got a loving head rub. As it was for my boy too.  I did tell him about you and that I now have a very good understanding of how faggots think and it is in large part due to your site. This weekend past I do seem to have bonded with my boy like nothing else. So I am feeling very happy as up until this past weekend he was starting to drift away and it was the fact that he is a faggot that he was drifting away.

It made me happy to hear that Sir James and his son were bonding again, healing a rift that secret faghood was causing between them! This is what TRUTH does!

During all of this I started a separate conversation with Jamie (with Sir James’s approval). I was trying to coach Jamie through the things his father was enforcing. Then something unexpected happened – Sir James invited Master Bill (the Apex Alpha of the three using Jamie) over to the house for dinner!

Said Jamie:

We are having Bill over for dinner tonight. My Dad needs to have a chat with him He said.

Then later:

He was talking to Bill by himself for over a hour and all I was allowed to do is bring out beer for them. Dad never has beers with me. My Dad loves him. They never stop talking about sport and girls. At one point Dad said does Jamie give good head, and Bill said “Just The Best “

This was amazing not only because Sir James took the time to get to know the young Alpha using his son, but also because this young Alpha sat down like a Man and didn’t freak out or back down at all. Very impressive!

Around the same time, I received messages from Jamie about new aspects of service:

Sam can you tell me what a good Gym Faggot should do for is Alpha at the gym? Bill and Jacob have told be that I am going to be there gym faggot for summer. They work out at the YMCA four days a week for 1 to 2 hours. Will people be able to tell that I am a gum faggot?

I was so excited to hear about this! I know the faggots in Canada love serving their Masters at the gym, and it helps to keep them in a proper headspace. I knew this was a pretty significant step.

Then Jamie wrote back after his first experience:

My first time as a gym faggot. Being a gym faggot is just the best! I feel so good being useful to my Alphas! I was leaking lots of pre cum for the whole time. And I came away with a bag of sweaty gym clothes. Bill said he expects them back pressed and ironed. And I feel so happy that I am allowed to do this for them. They only call me faggot now and others in the gym could hear them. The thing is I love it. The gym clothes smell so good it seems a shame to wash them. I thought I would be to embarrassed to shower at the gym But it was all good. I feel so safe around my Alphas. I think I am on the biggest high of my life. There socks smell the best. I think I am going to get them some new ones so I don’t have to wash them.

Such a simple, natural way to train a faggot in public, accomplished by two 16-year-old straight Alphas! You can see that these types of roles are so ingrained into Male behavior that it happens without much planning. They just KNOW how it’s supposed to be!

Meanwhile, Sir James was developing a firmer view of chastity and faggot purpose:

Hi Sam, I have been doing a lot of reading on faggots and chastity and especially for teen faggots. And would like to confirm that I have got it 100% right. the rules are very basic. But this is all very new to me. Bill is coming over for dinner and I need to explain to him that he will be the one responsible for milking and some of the cleaning.   

For the best results  

1 The faggot should be in his cage 24/7

2 Cleaning should be supervised so the faggot does not masturbate and ejaculate 

3 The faggot should be milked once a week the cage stays on for the milking  

This is done by massaging the prostate normally one gentle stroke will be sufficient as the faggot should be very horny. 

My faggot is washing and Ironing his Alphas workout clothing and I think this is a very good lesson for him. But I can’t believe he asked his mother to do it, Sometimes I think faggots do not think the same as normal people. 

I laughed out loud at that final comment. It’s remarkable how far Sir James has come in such a little bit of time, isn’t it? He truly understands that his faggot son was born this way and has drastically different needs from other boys. Even more remarkable is the way both Sir James and his wife are supporting their faggot son’s development and improvement as a faggot! Unprecedented!

Then Sir James updated me again with some conclusions he’s come to:

Been a good week and it is nice to see my little faggot grow and blossom. I have kept firm with his chastity and it does seem to have made him a little more of a submissive. His mother has been showing him how to wash and Iron and how to cook and he is so keen to pick up new skills I think he is going to turn out to be a fantastic faggot. I have given some thought to what you said over my boys milking and it something that I will do my self for him till he is out off the house. Because everything I have seen is the the best results happen when the faggot does not get to ejaculate. Had Bill over for dinner this week and he seems like a good guy and we also got to meet his girlfriend when she came to pick Bill up.  My little faggot is acting even more like a faggot the past few days and it nice to see him being himself and feeling safe. 

Meanwhile, the new openness has led to more boldness from Jamie’s three Alphas. I received this series of messages from Jamie the other day:

Bill and Jacob are coming back to my place after they work out today. I want to be the best faggot I can be for my Alphas. I do love it when they hold my head down as I am balls deep it feels so good. I just love how it feels. He was pushing and I would go that bit deeper. Damion came over too. All three on the sofa with there dicks out Good job Mom or Dad was not home! Jacob gave me shit because some off his cum went on the sofa. Sam it was the very best session I have ever had I was on a high for cock!

This morning Sir James cleaned his beloved faggot son. Said Jamie:

Dad took my cage off so I could clean. But he stood in the shower till I was done and put it right back on. I was hopping to get in a quick wank. Dad told me off about it because I am serving three Alphas and it is very important that I show them the proper respect. My Dad is very big on me showing my Alphas the proper respect. Looking back on it I am happy my Dad did not let me cum in the shower. Dad was right again.

When Dad was washing my cage in the sink as I was showering I was thinking he must love me to do that for me.

Frankly, I can’t think of many greater expressions of love between a father and his son than what Sir James is doing to train his son for his future life. He’s giving Jamie self-respect, training, direction, and kindness. He’s allowing his son the room to discover purpose.

There’s no greater gift a father can give his son!

Thank you to Sir James and my brother Jamie for sharing their journey with me!

This post is part of a thread following the story of Sir James, a straight married Man coming to understand and embrace the faghood of his beloved son. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

Every so often I publish a story that really triggers my audience (usually negatively). Typically, the stories that excite my readership are the ones involving really awful situations and taboo subjects (I try to cover it all).

But recently I published a truly touching story about a straight married Man named James who wrote to me about his son. He suspected his son might be a faggot, but he wasn’t asking for lurid reasons. Instead, Sir James was wanting to know how to reach his son so that he might properly guide his son toward fulfillment.

Many faggots reached out to me about that story, almost all of them echoing my own feeling – that we wish we would’ve had a father like Sir James in our lives, too! So many faggots are alienated from their parents, and in particular their fathers. Sometimes they are beaten, or even worse, abandoned.

So faggots read the yearning and loving desperation in Sir James’s words and were deeply touched, as was I.

After my first post about this situation, Sir James and I continued to discuss how to approach a planned weekend trip between Sir James and his son. It was clear that Sir James wanted to make a connection on this trip.

Thanks so much for your warm post and support. It is indeed difficult to understand the world of faggots.  

I spent some time reading through your site from what I can see chastity is good for faggots as it helps them understand their true place in the world. 

My boy came out onto the pool deck today and it was very clear to see that he had shaved all his body smooth I did not say anything but it was so obvious to see, He’s a is skinny blond boy but it was clear to see that he had taken the time to shave his body. Do you think this may be something his teammates may have asked him to do? 

He does love to go to soccer practice. And I don’t have a problem if he is becoming the team faggot as long as he is safe and not being mistreated. All I what is for him to be happy and lead a good and fulfilling life. 

We plan to go up to our cottage together this Saturday for some bonding time. And I hope I can better understand my baby boy, 

I immediately panicked because I didn’t know how to advise Sir James about the chastity device. So I explained to Sir James that his son may have shaved his body hair on his own and purchased a chastity cage because he was curious, or it might be something that his soccer Alpha told him to do. This was something that needed to be cleared up if he got a chance to really talk to his son on their trip alone together.

Well, the trip happened a day early, and I heard from Sir James with some surprising details.

Hi Sam, Thanks so much for the advice and you were so right. We had a change of plan and went up to the cottage on Friday because my little faggot did not want to miss Sunday practice.

My baby boy did finally open up to me and it involved a lot of tears for both of us. But he just told me that he liked boys and not girls. And I told him that is all good with me and that he has to follow his heart.

But things are a lot more complicated than I thought he has not been just sucking off one of his teammates but NO it is three of them and very regularly. I was a little shocked and after some general digging it seems that his mates got him the cage and he freaked out a bit and that is why it was in his bag and not on his little pee pee.

I am still trying to process it all and I don’t know what to do next.   

So it’s THREE Alphas on the soccer team that are using his son! That was a bit surprising! I explained to Sir James that there is likely an Apex Alpha who first identified his son as a faggot and started using him, and then introduced the faggot son to his Alpha Pack brothers on the team.

But the chastity cage thing threw me. That’s pretty advanced stuff for 16-year-olds! I told Sir James that the Alphas are clearly staking a claim of ownership on his son, and they intend to keep him. That’s a good thing even though it probably sounds awful to Sir James. This means the faggot son will have protection and some amount of care (even though 16-year-olds can get unintentionally rough).

The questions remains – what to do about the cage? I told Sir James that the Master typically puts the cage on his faggot, but these young straight Alphas are probably uninterested in touching a faggot’s “pee pee”. I suggested that Sir James supervise his son as his son puts it on himself. That way Sir James can make sure it fits properly and isn’t hurting his son unnecessarily.

Words cannot properly express how impressed I am with Sir James throughout this entire ordeal! He has approached it with empathy, compassion, and respect. At the forefront of his every action Sir James has led with love and concern for the wellbeing of his dearest son.

And that is the very definition of fatherly love!

This post is part of a thread following the story of Sir James, a straight married Man coming to understand and embrace the faghood of his beloved son. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

I recently had a very touching Questions From Readers question from a worried 34-year-old father about his 16-year-old son he suspected was a faggot. You can read that question by CLICKING HERE. Despite some dumbasses in the comments section crying “FAKE!”, I think constructive people joined me to comfort that distressed father and give him a sense of direction with the issue.

This is a deeply personal and complicated problem for a straight father to confront. Faghood is something no father would want for his son, and in some ways it stabs at his own masculinity. Bad fathers would try to beat that faghood out of his son or even worse. But good fathers want to understand how they can understand the issue and try to protect their son while preparing them well for a future they can’t possibly understand. It can be overwhelming, to say the least.

Over the years I have received letters from parents of faggot sons much like the father above. It’s frightening to them, but always inspiring to me. These parents are the types of caretakers who truly love their son no matter what they are born to be. They just want their faggot sons to be safe and healthy and fulfilled in life. It’s a beautiful expression of love.

The father’s question was sent to me a week ago. Now I’ve received an email from a second father with a very similar problem:

Hi Sam,

My name is James and found your site because I was just doing some research because I have a feeling that my 16-year-old son may indeed be a faggot.  

A few weeks ago his soccer coach told me that he walked into the locker room after a soccer practice and my son was on his knees sucking off one of his teammate. Then the other day his mother found a chastity cage in his gym bag. We are a bit of a loss on what to do next with him.

Should we sit down and talk to him. Should we cage him to keep him out of trouble? We are both a bit of a loss at this moment

I was deeply touched by the level of involvement these parents were prepared to try in order to help their child. I immediately wrote back.

Sir,

Thank you for reaching out to me! I can hear the tension in your words, and I do sympathize with you. 
Just don’t worry. It’s going to be okay!

First of all, let me remove any doubt: your son IS a faggot. There’s no question about it. If he’s sucking off straight Alphas on his team and he’s purchased a chastity cage (or was given one), then he’s most certainly a faggot. 

Being a faggot isn’t necessarily a bad thing. The word has negative connotations, of course, but if your son has come to accept this as his identity, he can grow up to be very fulfilled as a proud faggot (like me) and find purpose as an owned faggot of an Alpha. 

You and your wife need to put aside your own dreams for your son and allow him to express these things. I know that isn’t easy, but it must happen. If you try to box him in, he’s only going to rebel or, even worse, come to live a miserable life as a ghost of what he potentially could be. I’m sure you don’t want that. 

It’s hard to advise you on how best to approach the subject with your son because I don’t know what your relationship is like with him. If you’re particularly close to him and speak freely with him, you might be able to have a full-blown talk about how you want him to be happy as a faggot but that he needs to be more careful about where he services Alphas. If you’re not as close, you might just tell him to make sure he’s careful when having sex in general. 

Again, don’t panic. He’s always going to be your son even if he’s a faggot. Approaching this with care and love will assure that your son has the best possible start as a faggot, and he will have the self-respect required to make good decisions about who he serves. 

If you have any additional questions, please feel free to write me, Sir! 

This is always a difficult piece of advice to give a parent. I’m not officially a parent, so what do I know? But I gave this father my heart in the hope that I might reach his.

And it seems to have helped. I received this lovely response from this father today:

Hi Sam, Thanks so much for your reply, We have always been a very close family and learning that our little boy is indeed a faggot does not change a thing. And we are hanging out together this weekend and I will be telling him that I understand and we will always be there for him.

I hope you don’t mind me writing to you as I watch my baby boy blossom.

That means so much to me to hear him call his faggot son “baby boy”! I refer to my Syrian son as “Baby Boy” as well. They will always be our babies, no matter how old they get. And, like babies, we as fathers will do whatever we can to protect them!

I thank Sir James for sharing his story and trusting me with it. I will always stand beside these straight fathers who are willing to brave the unknown frontiers of their son’s futures!

Living legend Sally Field gives an impassioned speech about her gay son.

Hierarchy teaches us hard lessons about the nature of life … and ourselves. The hardest lesson is to honestly accept what we were born to be.

Whether we are straight or gay, Alpha or faggot … we have purpose.

What is “agonophilia”? Simply put, it’s sexual arousal stemming from fighting and violence.

Here’s a more complete examination:

The etiologies of the most common paraphilias (i.e., exhibitionism, fetishism, frotteurism, pedophilia, masochism, sadism, transvestism, and voyeurism) are still poorly understood, and agonophilia is even less studied compared to the others listed above. The two leading theories on the development of paraphilias involve neurodevelopmental anomalies early in life that alter brain function, and behavioral conditioning in which some neutral object or activity becomes strongly associated with sexual arousal, which is then reinforced over time through masturbatory fantasies. That said, it’s likely some combination of the two (i.e., genetic predisposition or prenatal teratogen, followed by behavioral conditioning over time), and it’s very difficult to discern the specific cause(s) of any given paraphilia for an individual due to the complexity of the behavior.

The good news is that knowing the cause doesn’t really matter at all, other than appeasing one’s curiosity. Most paraphilias fall along a spectrum of normal sexual behavior, and something like sexual arousal associated with fighting is fine as long as the urge doesn’t lead to harm to self or others and the sexual acts are performed consensually with all participants. If the sexual urge is causing significant distress or impairment in your life, then I recommend seeking behavioral health services to help you manage that distress or impairment accordingly.

So what might that have to do with the fact that straight Alphas will very often use faggots sexually? Well, for starters, the sex between males is by nature very aggressive and dominance-oriented. Agonophilia might explain why straight Men get aroused when they’re with faggots, because they find the power play and the unleashed aggression exciting in a way they don’t experience with females.

Regardless, the psychological information on Agonophilia and the straight Male use of faggots is largely irrefutable.

So the next time one of you straight Alphas wonder why your dick gets hard when you’re slapping a faggot, now you’ll know.

You know, I’ve taught a lot of things about Hierarchy over the last ten years, and I get a lot of shit for some of the things I insist are true. Occasionally someone will come up with an argument that forces me to reassess how I view things, but there are some ideas I will never abandon.

Here’s one of them: straight Alphas fuck, breed, own, and use faggots, and doing so doesn’t make them gay. It only makes them more powerful.  

The truth of that precept is lodged more firmly inside me than a rapidly-swelling dick. I will never admit otherwise because that would mean I’m lying. And I’m not a liar.

I know this is true because I know Hierarchy. Also, I’ve served as first faggot to multiple straight Alphas, and I’ve even been owned by a few of them. I know this because I have countless true stories from straight Alphas who have come to know and treasure the worship and service of faggots peppered throughout this website.

And guess what? I have another.

The story that Master J.A. dropped into my inbox the other day couldn’t have hit me harder if it had been a brick in a pillowcase swung at my head. Master J.A. is a Latin American Apex Alpha with a gay Apex Alpha younger brother. They’re around 40 years old now. Although extremely close, their lives took drastically different paths. Master J.A. took the more traditional route, getting married and having kids, while his brother took the Hierarchical path.

One of the two brothers eventually regretted their choice. Wanna guess which one?

Master J.A. poured his soul into this long letter, but I beg of all Alphas to please carefully read and meditate on the lessons enumerated here!

Hello Sam, I have been reading your website for a couple of weeks now. I will tell you a story because I guess you’re gonna enjoy to have one more real example of how Hierarchy works.

I am 40 years old. My whole family moved from Latin America to California 20 years ago. I was 20 and my little brother was 17. We have always been best friends and I took care of him since he was born. But it didn’t take me long to notice that he didn’t need any kind of protection. We were both Alphas. I didn’t know this expression but it was clear that both he and I had been born to rule the world. It was even easier to notice that when we left our country and came to America, where we could express our sexual desires with much more freedom. I started to fuck girls at age 15 and haven’t stopped since then. My brother did the same thing and seemed to enjoy it too. One day, however, in a party when he was 18/19 he drank too much and let a guy suck his cock. Since we have always been best friend and had no secrets, he told me what happened next morning, regretting the terrible hangover but saying that he “kinda like it”. 

I would never judge my little brother but I didn’t expect that at all. Both of us had always been the powerful “Machos” of the family. I told him that I would love him anyway, even if he was a “faggot”. 20 years ago, I used this word (maricon in Spanish) just to mock him, neither of us had an idea about this whole hierarchy thing. Well, he embraced this “faggot” side but he didn’t want to suck any dick, he just enjoyed the blowjob that the boys in our town gave to him. Today I understand that my brother wasn’t a faggot at all, he was just using those who were there to serve him.

He “officially” came out as a gay man when we both moved from our parents’ house and moved together to San Francisco, a good spot to come out. You can only imagine the things he would do in Castro. That was the beginning of the 2000s we were young, full of energy and, most importantly, full of cum. He didn’t want anything with girls anymore but he had big balls to unload. We were brothers, best friends, and housemates, so I took hundreds of girls to my room while he would bring hundreds of faggots to his room and some non-fag bottoms too. Sometimes I could hear him fucking in the other room while I was breeding a girl in my bed.

For sure, that was the best moment of my life and I felt like a fucking King sharing that apartment in SF with my brother. Everything changed when I had the crazy idea of getting married in 2008. My brother told me that I would never stand to fuck only one pussy forever but, unfortunately, I had in my mind this rooted idea that a real Man must have a beautiful wife, a beautiful house, and pursue the “American dream”. Well, I got married and there’s no need to say that, even though I loved my wife, it felt like jail. She was jealous as fuck and I couldn’t even like other women’s photos on social media.

I don’t even know how many times I needed to use my fleshlight in the bathroom to jerk off because she wouldn’t let me fuck her. And believe it or not, she was jealous of the fleshlight so I needed to keep it hidden. So while I was hidden fucking a plastic pussy in the shower my brother had the life I should be having. Since I had moved to live with my wife, he needed to find a new roommate to split the rent. He had the brilliant idea to put a faggot in the other room! So he not only fucked hundreds of nice tight boys but he also had a live-in faggot right next door to unload whenever he wanted to. He had full-time service and all the holes he could fill up. I had an annnoying wife that would let me have sex twice a week.

It took me a huge effort to keep that marriage but in 2011 the best thing happened in my life: she got pregnant and gave me my beloved son. Suddenly, all the problems I had been facing disappeared because I could only think about being the greatest father of all times. But I am still a big strong Alpha, I had my needs… I’m not proud at all of doing this, but I started cheating on my wife after 5 years. It took me half a decade to give up on that fake “traditional family” dream. My kid was a little baby and still my main priority in life, but I could not stand anymore. Besides, after my son was born my wife basically stopped to have sex at all. I was using the fleshlight every night. 

I found three nice girls and started fucking them. I was hot and young, it wasn’t that hard to find nice women to have sex with. I kept my three sexy lovers for a while but one day my wife suspected that something was wrong and told me something I will never forget: she said that if cheated on her I would be “stabbing” not only her back but also my son because I’d destroy our whole family and she wouldn’t allow me to see my kid anymore. Nothing is more important on Earth than my son and I just gave up on my three other women to be in that cage she called a marriage.

My son grew up and from 2011 to 2019 I basically lived as a caged lion. I focused all energy on work and family. I made a lot of money, bought a bigger house and provided my son and wife with everything they needed. Meanwhile, I talked to my brother everyday, he is and will always be my best friend. He had spent all those years in the very same apartment, fucking hundreds – maybe thousands – of faggots. In 2019, we were both in our 30s and one day I asked him when he would settle down and find a husband to build a family. He simply said that I was his family and his boys were his family too (he didn’t use the word faggot back then). He had sex multiple times a day if he wanted to with sexy smooth boys and I was fucking my wife once a week. Who was the Alpha now? 

That conversation made me realize that I couldn’t spend the rest of my life in an unhappy sexless marriage just because I loved my son so much. I could be a great father, even a better father, if I were happy and fulfilled. Then my wife put the last nail in the coffin in 2019, when we were preparing everything for thanksgiving. She had always been conservative, her family never liked the idea of their white blonde all-American girl marrying a Latino brown man. Even though I have been living here for 20 years and I am literally a self-made man, they still make fun of my accent every time we are together and highlight how “non-American” I am.

The only reason they accepted me around is because I became fucking rich and I could afford all the foolish desires she used to have. They’re all Trump supporters too. When I look behind, I can’t believe I lost ELEVEN YEARS of my life with these stupid people. Anyway, the “last nail in the coffin” that I mentioned was related to my brother. My kid was 8 years old in 2019 and her mom, who has never liked my brother, said that we should try to avoid him at home because he would be “a bad influence”. I don’t want my kid to know that his uncle owns faggots either but nobody knows that, only him and I. She was referring to the fact that he was openly gay and he didn’t want queer people at home.

That was enough for me. I broke up and told he we would get a divorce. As you can imagine, the bitch and her lawyers took hundreds of thousands of dollars from me. But everything was worth it to get rid off those stupid anti-gay anti-Latino “Trumpiards”. I moved with my brother again but I bought a nice big house for me, for him, and his faggots. He has a nice job too but we decided to live together as a real family. He started reading your website during the pandemic and he’s a huge fan. He sent me the link to understand better what it was all about. It was not the first time he would try to get me into gay stuff and I would always tell him that I’m just a straight ally, my dick would never touch another male.

Everything changed when he told me just to be open-minded and think about this possibility. He knew that, since he was gay, I would never understand what faggot ownership is learning just from him. It would always be just “gay stuff”. However, he did something very smart and sent me the content of straight men using faggots. I read the entire thread of Matt, Nick, Jin and their faggots. At first, I admit (with all due respect to your content) that I thought it was just very well-written fiction but I got horny anyway. Then my brother sent me the videos of this guys Jordan, from Brandt’s Boys. That was all I needed to change my life.

I started watching Jordan and other straight men online. Although Jordan nowadays kisses his faggot, jerks off for other men and sucks cock, something that I’ll never do, I learned from him. 

One day my brother and I were drinking together and he called a faggot (there are 3 living in our house). He had never done it in front of me but he simply grabbed the boy told him to kneel and took a piss in his mouth!! What the fuck?? I was so shocked that I almost interrupted him and told him that it was too much and he could harm the boy. But the faggot had done it hundreds of times and love it. When he was done, the fag thanked him and asked what else he needed. My brother was already drunk so he said that, since the fag had his cock in the mouth, he could suck him and get a nice load. The boy had his throat totally fucked by my “little” brother and, again, loved it. After he came, my brother told the faggot to go back to his bedroom and relaxed again in the couch next to me. He noticed I was shocked to witness that and he just said that, while I had wasted eleven years of my life, he had been getting that kind of service since he was 18. 

During the pandemic, I opened my mind and deconstructed my prejudices about owning faggots. He convinced me to give it a try but I was still reluctant. So I told him that I would do it but I wanted the fag to think that it was him. We blindfolded one of the 3 faggots and he sucked my cock thinking that I was my brother. Our cocks are big and thick but the faggot noticed something was different and said that his Master’s cock was tasting different. I didn’t say anything, just held his head and fucked his throat. It was mind-blowing. No need to say that it was much better than anything that my wife had done in 11 years. I had a better orgasm in one night with that blindfolded faggot than in 11 years with her.

When I got out from his bedroom, my brother asked if I liked it. And he could see in my smile that I had loved it. Then he said “get ready, this one is the worst cocksucker among them”. In 2022, one of our boys needed to move for school and we allowed him to go. We have 2 live-in faggots now and we both use them. We haven’t did it together, though. It’s still too much of a taboo for us. What matters is that now I understand what is to have the life of a King. It took me years and years to have it, while my brother has already a 20 years history of owning faggots. But that’s okay, I don’t mind. I’m still 40, I’m in shape, I can fuck them for more 20 or 25 years if I keep healthy.

I’m still straight and I still fuck a lot of women but now that I’m getting older it is harder to find random sexy girls. So I now have to girls in her 30s who I fuck regularly but it’s even unfair to compare their blowjobs and pussy with our boys’ service. I don’t intend to get married again but I’m still the greatest dad to my kid. He’s almost a teenager now and I love him more than everything on Earth. I really hope he’s gonna be a big strong Alpha like dad and uncle but if he’s a faggot I’ll support and love him anyway.

I apologize for such a long letter but, as a faggot, you must just read it and obey me. The reason why I’m sharing my story with you is because I want your readers to know that hierarchy is indeed truth. I don’t want to repeat that straight men can use faggots, because I know you’ve said that a hundred times. Most importantly, I want to tell your young readers that WE ONLY LIVE ONCE. We must study, work hard, focus on our goals, but it’s a violence against ourselves to get stuck on an unhappy marriage just because society thinks it’s right. I want to say that I love my gay brother, he’s a wonderful Man and a God Alpha. We’re both Latino brown Men and we are proud of it too. My ex-wife will never read this letter but I will tell her “fuck you” anyway and fuck all the Trump supporters that are out there hating gay people, black people and Latino people.

I’m a fucking King from Latin America, my brother is gay and there’s nothing they can do to hold us back.

Thank you Sam for such an important website, I can only imagine how many Men like me have embraced their Alphahood because of your work. I don’t know if you serve older Alpha like me but I would love to say thank you with a thick load down your throat one day. Now that I’m 40, I’ll have to fuck and cunt as many fag holes I can fuck to keep up with my brother’s impressive count.

We’re both VERY proud of you, faggot Sam.

Regards,
Apex Alpha J.A.

If you still don’t think Hierarchy is a real concept that governs all of our lives and can provide deep fulfillment when applied, please re-read the above testimonial. Master J.A. DEFINES its truth!

So many straight Alphas surrender their power and glory to the machinations of a society that wants to mute them. The truly powerful Men among us endanger the artificial societal constructions created by weak beta males seeking power that does not belong to them.

A beta male cannot tell an Alpha how he should live or by what standards he should live. Nature gives Alphas that right at birth. They owe nothing to anyone except the universe that blessed them.

I’ll never understand why any Alpha would voluntarily choose the cage instead of ruling the world. EVER.

But Master J.A.’s example is more than simply an advocacy of Alpha purpose. It’s also a revelation on Alpha sexuality. Alpha sexuality is not defined by who they fuck. Master J.A. could fuck 1,000 faggots and still be straight. That’s because he gets off on the POWER that fucking and breeding his faggots gives him.

Again, why would a straight Apex Alpha settle for a wife when he can live like a literal King, served by a court of faggots and fuck any female he chooses? WHY?

This was finally the lesson Master J.A. learned from his younger Apex Alpha brother.

Now they can finally rule the world together, side by side, brothers of blood as well as purpose.

I thank Master J.A. endlessly for his astounding life story! In the echelon of Hierarchical testimony found on this site, this stands apart!

People are constantly trying to convince me that straight guys don’t use faggots. Unfortunately for them, the evidence in my own life, as well as the evidence of videos like the one above, prove them to be completely wrong.

Either straight guys are using gays and faggots as much as I’m saying, or there are A LOT more gay males out there than the “six/seven percent of the population” number we’ve been told all of these years. Take your pick.