The following post is part of a thread chronicling the development of a 57-year-old married gay Alpha named Nick who is recovering his Alphahood after many years of latency. CLICK HERE for all posts in this thread in chronological order!


It’s been fascinating to watch the transformation of Master Nick as he recovers from decades of Alpha latency while simultaneously being married to a sub husband. Recovering from Alpha latency alone is tough enough, but trying to do it while navigating a marriage is another trick entirely.

Fortunately, hierarchy usually acts like a weighted scale within a relationship. If one partner ascends in power, the other naturally submits more in equal measure. That’s what we are seeing with Master Nick and his fag husband, anyway, and I couldn’t be happier for both of them!

Notice how the transformation has been going:

Hi Sam. Thanks so much for starting a thread on me back in July (Master Nick & my Alpha latency/ascension).

As I’ve mentioned before, I read all 3 of Fagmaster’s PDFs (and your website/podcasts education) and executed many of the techniques on my husband to help make him the best bottom bicha he can be. I set an increased goal of 1800 dicks this year (increased from 1350 last year–a good coach always raises the bar!)

Today I saw my husband wrote this to his friend’s group bragging that he’s a proud slut. Success!

“Some guy wrote to me on Grindr being all bitchy 

“You have a husband and a boyfriend, what are you doing on Grindr” I said I’m a hungry bottom and insatiable. Proud of that too. You can try but I won’t be slut shamed. I’m a proud slut. 

He responded wow impressive and then send me a dick picture. I responded sorry but that won’t quench my thirst. Fuck that won’t even wet my whistle 

Lmao. He responded oh so you are a size queen too? I said no I just can afford to be picky but good luck on your hunt LOL

I was so disappointed when he blocked me LMAO”

Implicit in this of course is the heteronormative assumption that cheating is wrong. Our marriage is 100% open. Our only rules: No secrets & tell each other about our hookups. I love fucking my husband’s cummy hole while he tells me about his latest hookup. The same way cucks get boners.

To unenlightened gay guys out there who still believe monogamy is the correct default on relationships, realize that is a hetereo construct promulgated by the church designed for raising children (to increase the church membership and $$$ collected) that is simply inapplicable to gays who can’t procreate. You learn this growing up in hetero society from all the Disney movies and your Mom.

And if the thought of your partner fucking other people makes you uncomfortable, realize that’s your own insecurity (that he’ll leave you for someone else because you aren’t worthy). Anecdotally I would estimate ~50% of gay relationships eventually open, so non-monogamy is very prevalent in the community–it’s not some niche fetish like swinging which is the equivalent concept for straights.

Gay guys are horny as fuck and why would you limit yourself to just 1 partner? Straight guys have the same high percentage of cheating (because males are horny 24/7) but their straight marriage ends in divorce (because women can’t handle sexual competition).

Thanks again Sam for all your work educating our community on hierarchy. I’m sure it makes you happy to get feedback like this from people you’ve helped see the light. What you’ve done with this website & former FWA is a very unique & creative & valuable form of service, right in line with your faggot hierarchal purpose! I hope that framing puts a smile of your face.

Keep up the good work faggot.

Xo, Master Nick


What an amazing transformation! Master Nick was able to turn his husband, once a proud sub male who would never accept being called a slut or faggot, into someone who not only embraces the role, but also brags about it!

Amazing!

And to answer Master Nick’s assertion, it does indeed put a smile on my face to be a part of that transformation! I do consider my work here as part of my duty and purpose as a faggot, and moments like this bring me satisfaction!

I expect further developments as Master Nick continues to more deeply grasp his purpose as an Alpha, and his husband continues to sink into his purpose as his faggot!

Congratulations, Master Nick!

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