Hello Sam,

This is Ryan 23 years old.
I met a straight alpha during covid randomly on grindr and met him and he wanted me to give him hand job as he talks dirty and kicked me our with cum face. It was my first time being a slave. Since then i have been doing the same every week till yesterday.
Only once he let me suck his cock for an hour with condoms on.
I have begged many times to control me and use me. I also offered to do his house chores and be his slave but he dont respond for it or just says i need more training before i become that slave.
My question to you is: how to have him use me and become his slave?
3 years of handjob and getting kicked out with cum face doesn’t seem to please him enough to use me?
Your thoughts on this?
Please and thanks 

Ryan, thank you for writing!

There are no easy answers to this situation. You can’t make a straight Alpha do anything he’s not yet comfortable to do. And we don’t know the circumstances that make him uncomfortable. It could be some bad experience in his past, a phobia, whatever. Neither one of us know him well enough to diagnose it.

I will suggest this: he probably has a girlfriend or wife at home (and maybe kids), which is likely one reason why he won’t use you in other ways, and also why he’s been so secretive. The discovery of this situation with you might completely unravel his life, and I’m sure he doesn’t want that (and neither do you). 

The simple fact is that some straight Alphas are only going to take things to a certain point, and no more. However, you might be able to coax him into a little more during the times you are with him. Try offering to massage his feet, for example. Perhaps make him some food and get him drinks. Try these little things so he will see you exist to serve him, not harm him. He needs to see you as more than just a handjob machine. 

But I wouldn’t push him much harder than that. If you really need to get fucked or get used, I’d find another Alpha for that. 

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I’m a free range faggot that primary sucks cocks. Often several cocks in a session. I love swallowing loads but I’m less enthusiastic about drinking piss. How important is this? Usually when a man wants to piss he holds my head tight and doesn’t move. I play dumb. like I don’t know what’s happening and try to suck his cock as best I can to take things in another direction. Is that okay? It feels a little dishonest. But it usually works.

Welcome brother! It’s rare to find proud free-range faggots out here on this farm!

Your move to avoid drinking piss is a clever one (as a prolific cocksucker myself, I’m a little disappointed in myself that I didn’t think of trying that!), and yes, it’s of course a little dishonest. However, if the Alpha falls for it, then I guess it wasn’t that important to begin with!

Since I didn’t have your slick moves, I ended up swallowing piss. In fact, I became pretty good at it! Piss doesn’t always taste/smell that great, but it’s sterile and relatively harmless. And once you get past the shock of it, the practice can be really hot. So maybe stop being so dishonest one or two times and try it, brother!

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Hey Sam, glad to see you’re back. I wanna get your take on something.

A year ago I met this guy on grindr, it was (at least for me) a pretty standard hook up. I went to his hotel room, I tried to fuck him but my dick was too big for his inexperience hole, so I just dosed him with popper and used his throat instead. I alternated between fucking his throat and letting him sucking my cock for about 2 hours before I got bored and fed him my load. I chatted a bit with him afterward and we added each other on instagram before I left.

Since that meeting, he’s been texting me fairly frequently, and I only response sporadically.I got the impression that he’s obsessed with me. I recently told him I’m planning a trip to his city later this year, and he immediately offers to not just host me at his place, but also drive me around the city and take care of all my needs. I’m fairly certain he’s a faggot due to how submissive and how eager he is to provide me with services, but he doesn’t know it yet considering how inexperience he is.

I’m thinking I can use the time during my trip to help this faggot realize he’s a faggot and begin his training. However, I’ve only ever used fags who already accepted that they are faggots. So making a fag realizing he is a fag is unfamiliar territory for me. What do you think is the best way to make this guy realized he’s a fag?

Sir, thank you very much for your interesting dilemma! 

If you ask me (and you did), I think you’re missing something quite obvious: the faggot is currently acting like a faggot already. It’s begging to be used by you, and is begging for a chance to completely serve you on your trip. It sounds very much like the faggot realized its mistake during the first chance and wants desperately to regain your favor. 

To cement this newfound desperation, you should meet up with the faggot and eventually get it alone. Tell it that you were disappointed in its performance last time … that you expected faggot service and didn’t receive it. Then put it on its knees and have it use only its nose to sniff your cock and balls (pits too). All the while repeatedly ask it what it is. Make it admit again and again that it is a faggot. Showing it your cock and letting it sniff it might be effective, but do not let it suck you. If you must get off, I’d jack off onto the floor and make the faggot lick it up. Some sort of denial must happen here.

If you want to cage the faggot for the duration of your trip, that would also be an effective way to mind-fuck it into submission. 

After that first night, there should be a repeating of this sniffing (for scent training purposes) and the verbal commands, but start incorporating more oral service. If you like having your ass licked, this would be the time for that as well. 

Once you think the faggot has more fully embraced its role, then you fuck it and breed it, all with the goal of cunting it (there is information on this site about cunting). Once you cunt it the transformation should be complete. 

I realize this seems like a lot Sir, but it’ll come naturally to you in the moment. I’m just trying to give you outlines so you understand the general direction of faggot punishment and subjugation. 

But I can definitely see why this faggot is so desperate to get you back! You’re clearly a Master any faggot would want to be owned by and serve! I certainly hope this helps!

Please feel free to write me at hi*****************@***il.com if you have any additional questions, or if you care to share any updates! Thank you Sir!

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Findom Alpha @cashgodMatt is a bearded, brutal, and demanding faggot trainer. He has no problem locking faggots I’m very small chastity cages and reducing their genitalia to skin tags. He devises torturous, SAW-like torture contraptions.

And he loves piss.

Of course, most Alphas do. It’s a primal marking technique, plus it amuses them to no end.

Master Matt’s fag here is given a mouthful of piss, and I thought for sure it was going to spit it out … but the faggot swallows at the very end. Good boy!

Here’s Master Matt doing some foot torture:

This list is stupid. The second MIGHT be a reason for chastity, but not really.

Fåggots should be locked in chastity for two important and related reasons.

1. Dicks are to be used by MEN. Fåggots are not Men.
2. MEN should not be dishonored by fåggot attempts to act like MEN.