Hello again Brother. Thank you so much for your answer to my last question. It was very helpful. I am trying my best to prepare for what I hope to be the start of my submission to my Straight Master. I was wondering if you could give advice on 2 separate matters to this end?
First, I have read your preprepared letter and I cannot thank you enough for going to the effort of writing it to help us fellow faggots out. I was wondering if you would advise me to send it before the holiday, so he has time to read and process it? Or should I wait until we are together in the cabin? I am slightly worried it may scare him off or cause him to second guess if he is, as you correctly say, trying to be a nice guy.
Second, as any self-aware faggot should be I am locked in chastity. He is not aware that I do this however. If I am successful in submitting I will have no issue giving him the keys. But I do not want to seem presumptuous or predatory, and I am concerned that if he realises I arrived wearing it he may think negatively of how I have approached submitting to him. Any advice is appreciated, although I understand if you are too busy and only wish for updates once I have given him the letter
Thank you for the follow-up questions, brother. I want you to be able to get this right!
I don’t think you should send him the letter ahead of time (unless you happen to get into a conversation about it before the trip). Get into the conversation and use the letter as a way for him to get a broader view of things.
As far as chastity is concerned, I think you should wear the cage on the trip. If he discovers it, that will be a way to open a conversation for sure. But here’s a little secret: straight Alphas get excited when they see an inferior male in chastity. I don’t know why that is. My theory: the sight of the caged faggot pings their own dominance in a new way, and they realize that this inferior male is subservient. The cage gives them permission to use it however they want. So I wouldn’t be concerned about that too much.
Don’t ask him about being a keyholder until he responds positively to your admission of being a faggot. He has to get past that first before accepting the rest of it.
Be patient and submissive and weak. Essentially, throw yourself on his mercy. Trust in him that he’s an Alpha who knows how to guide you.
I’m truly excited for you, brother. I think something awesome is going to happen. I love you!
How do I make myself more attractive to alphas? be hairless from below my eyebrows, wear panties, chastity and buttplug?
You make yourself more attractive to Alphas by being submissive, obedient, and service-oriented. Chastity cages are excellent external jewelry for faggots, but a fag’s most attractive qualities are internal.
Hi. I am wondering how I let a straight alpha male know I am available for service. We have been friends for 8 years now and in that time I have tried to be as obedient as possible. I have always gone along with his suggestions and desires, I have done everything I can to make his life better and more enjoyable. For his part, he seems to know I am “always game” for whatever he has in mind. He has a very dominant attitude with most people in his life and I know from some very frank conversations we have had that he is a rough BDSM master in bed. I also know he has repeatedly complained about women not putting out, not doing all the stuff he wants to do and not being submissive or service oriented enough for his liking.
Next week we will be going on holiday to a cabin together, and all of our other friends have apparently pulled out. To make sure we can still go and that he can have the holiday he deserves, I have covered their shares of the holiday and I have told him it is “so he can still have his holiday” and his only response was that I was such a good friend, when in actuality I am hoping to be his good fag. I have told him I am always happy to help in any way he wants, but he just laughed and said that gay men were funny. Is he oblivious or drawing a line? And if it is the former, how do I get him to see me as the faggot I am beneath him in the hierarchy?
Straight Alphas like him suffer from two simultaneously-running problems. (1) Gay males deserve the same respect as any other Man, and (2) what I call “nice guy syndrome”.
I’m going to posit this: your friend has thought about using you sexually. He might even be quite interested in doing so. Why do I say that? Because he’s repeatedly complaining TO YOU about how women aren’t serving him and submitting to him enough. I think if you had done anything to help him see what you really are – a faggot – he would’ve used you.
But let’s focus on what’s coming up. Serendipity has gifted you some time alone with him in a secluded place. Now’s the time, brother. Sit at his feet. Offer him a foot massage. Kiss his feet. See where I’m going with this?
Start a conversation with him about Alphahood. Ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. lead it into a discussion of Hierarchy. Show him material from this site if you need to (I have a “letter to an alpha” in the sidebar that he can read). He needs to grasp the inequality between you, and that you have a natural place as his servant, not his friend.
The sooner you do this during the trip, the better. This will give him time to digest the information and act on it.
You MUST do this. You have a prime opportunity to finally reveal the truth to this great Alpha! Good luck, and keep me posted!
For many years I’ve received a lot of questions from faggots, all asking the same thing: is there a faggot hierarchy?
I’ve always insisted that faggots DON’T have a hierarchy, that all faggots are essentially the same. Their basic function in hierarchy is to serve Alphas, and one form of service isn’t better or more important than another. Faggots are not like Alphas, of course, where there are quite clear and important divisions of power. My longstanding Hierarchy pyramid reflects those beliefs.
But while I was incarcerated I had plenty of time to meditate on the subject, and one night it finally occurred to me that there actually is a hierarchy among faggots. It’s not as cleanly delineated or as compelling as the Alpha hierarchy (at least not to me), but I do think it shapes a pathway for faggots to improve and deepen their service.
So let’s get into the nuts and bolts of this. I have determined there are FIVE layers to faggot hierarchy. Please note that I don’t consider one more dominant or more important than another (again, my bias is that faggots are all the same), but it’s a hierarchy based on effort and accessibility, so to speak.
Here they are in descending order:
MENTOR: This is a faggot that serves/has served Alphas in all three critical areas (sexually, domestically, and financially) as well as works strenuously to provide an example for other faggots to follow and assists new Alphas to embrace their Hierarchical role. These are atypical faggots, ones who aren’t afraid to be known as faggots and aren’t timid about their role.
LONG-TERM: These are faggots who provide all three critical services (sexual, domestic, financial) for Alphas. Often these faggots fly under the radar because they are not interested in anything more than simply finding fulfilment, but there is no doubt that they are in high demand and highly prized by their Owners.
DOMESTIC: These faggots typically only serve Alphas domestically, although that service often includes financial service as well. These rank higher because they are serving in person, which demonstrates a deeper level of personal commitment/involvement.
FINDOM: These faggots only serve their Alphas through cash payments and gifts, and the vast majority of these faggots will never see or touch their Alphas in person. I don’t diminish the value of these faggots at all, but the reality is they are taking a safer, less involved route of service that shields them from personal involvement or investment in their own faghood. Still, findom faggots have been instrumental in helping many straight Alphas discover the truth about Hierarchy.
FETISH FAGS: One of the very first things I did upon returning was to change my Hierarchy pyramid and remove “OBJECTS” from their own layer. I originally gave objects their own layer after a large outcry of voices insisted they deserve their own layer, but they do not. Objects are simply a weird fetish that is not sustainable. So I’ve created this bottom tier to include faggots who are simply seeking their own fetishes (this would be objects, foot fags, exposure fags, etc.) rather than seeking to truly fulfill their purpose to serve Men. These aren’t faggots in the proper sense, and essentially serve no function Hierarchically.
I’m curious about what everybody thinks of this revised understanding. For me, it clears up a lot of the road leading to deeper fulfillment.
Subspace is one of those aspects of the Dom/sub experience that few people truly understand, and even fewer appreciate its power. It’s the power source at the center of Hierarchical exchanges. Without subspace, there would be no ability for a Dominant to overpower and control a submissive, to break into their minds, or help them achieve a sense of purpose in service.
One Alpha recently compared subspace to hypnosis, and the comparison is apt. Like hypnosis, bringing a submissive into subspace involves control and skill, but also great responsibility. In deeper levels of subspace a submissive’s mind and heart unlock, its resistance fades, and many things thought unimaginable become possible.
If I sound a little mystical about subspace, it’s for good reason. Mishandled subspace has led to broken and destroyed lives. On the other hand, carefully nurtured subspace can lead to tremendous fulfillment.
Subspace is a metaphor for the state the submissive’s minds and bodies are in during a deeply involving play scene. Many types of BDSM play invoke strong physical responses. The mental aspect of BDSM also causes many submissives to mentally separate themselves from their environment as they process the experience. Deep subspace is often characterized as a state of deep recession and incoherence. Deep subspace may also cause a danger in newer submissives who are unfamiliar with the experience, and require the dominant to keep a careful watch to ensure the submissive isn’t placing him or herself in danger. Many submissives require aftercare.
Notice the disassociative quality of subspace, this disconnection of the mind from the body. This is caused by a very natural process in the body ordinarily triggered by dangerous circumstances.
WHY DOES SUBSPACE OCCUR?
When a human being is confronted by some dramatic or traumatic moment, the body releases chemicals into the blood stream as part of a process known as the “fight or flight” response. Endorphins and enkephalins are dumped into the bloodstream, producing a weightless, out-of-body rush of pleasure. This can last for hours afterward.
This dump of endorphins can occur during pleasurable-but-taxing sexual experiences such as being fucked or sucking dick just as easily as it can during violent and aggressive situations like rape.
THE EFFECTS OF SUBSPACE
It’s the “fight or flight” response shielding that allows faggots (who are extremely submissive males) to perform tremendous (and occasionally shocking and extreme) acts of service. While in “fight or flight”-induced subspace faggots are extremely open to suggestion and will often mindlessly do things that they might never do in their everyday life.
More from the definition of subspace above:
Producing a sort of trance-like state due to the increase of hormones and chemicals, the submissive starts to feel out-of-body, detached from reality, and as the high comes down, and the parasympathetic nervous system kicks in, a deep exhaustion, as well as incoherence. Many submissives once reaching a height of subspace will lose all sensation of pain, as any stimulus causes the period to prolong.
This detachment from reality allows subs and faggots to go much farther in risky behaviors. We see this extreme behavior quite readily in findom. Faggots deep in subspace have surrendered many thousands of dollars in financial drains to online Alphas, only to regret it once they snap out of it.
HOW CAN WE DEFINE “PERPETUAL SUBSPACE”?
I’ve been owned multiple times in my life, including a few stints as a live-in faggot. To accomplish this, I had to get into a state I call “perpetual subspace” (another term could be “persistent subspace”). It’s sort of a low-level, neverending state of subspace in which the faggot is on a constant high due to even the most mundane of tasks (like doing the dishes, or cleaning a bathroom). The faggot’s Master is never far from the faggot’s mind during the course of every day while in perpetual subspace. Everything the faggot does goes to honor its Master.
I liken perpetual subspace to a type of white noise that drives a faggot forward in constant service to its Owner. Think of it in the same terms as listening to the sound of rain or other types of background noise in order to fall asleep. Perpetual subspace is that low-level hum by which the faggot accomplishes much in service.
PERPETUAL SUBSPACE – THE IDEAL STATE
Whenever I was owned in my life and in a state of perpetual subspace, I felt comforted and at peace. My worries were few since my Master took care of me and all I truly focused on were the tasks that my Master expected me to accomplish. Regardless of how menial they were, each task brought me satisfaction because I knew it was pleasing to my Master.
It was easy to keep me in perpetual subspace once it began. My Master running his fingers through my hair and telling me I was a “good boy” or a “good faggot” was enough to sustain the state in me for weeks. Sexual service/worship sessions were obviously part of that as well. All of these stimuli combined to keep me under perpetual subspace, a state that allowed me to accomplish a lot in service, as well as remain pliable to suggestions when my Master wanted to share me with his friends or make me do things I might not ordinarily do (piss drinking and ass licking experiences started under perpetual subspace of a Master).
For Alphas and Masters, perpetual subspace should be the goal. It is the ultimate level of power, for you hold the total life of the faggot under your control.
Hey, I’ve been reading your website for a while but I’ve never sent you a message before. However, I just saw your last post about vers men and I want to clarify one thing in case people do not agree with you:
SAM IS RIGHT, VERS ARE FAGGOTS
I am 41, I’ve been married with a sub fag for 20 years. We met when he was 18 and I was 21. After a few weeks talking online (back in 2005), he insisted that he was vers and he would only get in a relationship with me if I bottomed for him too. I invited him out for dinner for our very first date, I ordered a salad for him and told him that he should eat something light because I was going to fuck him. He took it as a joke. After 2 glasses of red wine and a few hours later, he was on his knees in my apartment sucking my dick.
I spent 5 minutes fucking his throat and repeating out loud that there was just one top in my house. 20 years later, he is a very successful and happy man, whose little dick has not seen a hole since 2005.
I truly believe that vers men enjoy the feeling of fucking, it feels awesome. But it only takes one real man to make them understand what they are. So, if anyone doubts you, here is a 40-year-old Alpha with 20 years of experience fucking multiple faggots and owning my most precious fag as my husband.
Congrats for your great content, Sam. I hope you have a nice weekend.
Master, thank you very much for your perfectly-written explanation of what I consider to be the correct Hierarchical interpretation! Your thoughts and experience should be the final nail in the coffin for the versatile argument. You’ve destroyed it completely.
Your fag husband should be very grateful that you are the Alpha you are, and that you submitted him with your great power. Without that, your husband would’ve wasted more of his life lost in a limbo of confusion and uncertainty. How sad that would be!
I can understand why some faggots want to cling to the “versatile” tag. As you said, fucking feels great, but it also has to do with a fear of losing complete control to an Alpha. Of losing autonomy. Of becoming a possession.
The twist in this is the fact that being completely owned by an Alpha brings great FREEDOM. It allows the faggot to truly experience purpose and fulfillment every day. I liken the times I’ve been owned to being in the eye of a hurricane. The world all around is chaos, but I’m safe and at peace under the power of my Master. No doubt your faggot feels that way. I wish that feeling for every faggot.
Master, I would dearly love to profile you on the site. I think your twenty-plus year reign over Hierarchy has given you much wisdom and insight that I’d love to share if you’re willing. Please write to me at hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com.
Hey! Thank you so much for helping all men, fags and alphas, with your knowledge and accessible platforms.
I’m a 30yo happy and highly submissive faggot. But I always struggle with not knowing the answers to the following question.
How do you approach close-minded, 100% straight, young (+18) but very basic (in tastes, general knowledge, activities) Alpha types you find on the streets?
I come across these profiles in the street (I live in Spain), usually with friends, they come from sitting in the park, smoking joints, laughing and talking, with a natural cockiness, but I know that by culture or social appearance, they know nothing of this world and surely they will find “gay” (disgusting) anything that comes out of basic standards or commonly “heterosexual” interactions or actions between individuals of the male gender.
And it makes me want to offer myself, but surely I run the risk of getting beaten up or robbed, I would not know how to do it and even less try to do it with the maximum probability of achieving my purpose, to serve. Or if directly I should not try, it is better to look elsewhere or in other ways to avoid a high probability rate of failure and live a worse experience or contrary to the expected?
In short, I do not know how to correctly identify opportunities on the street, nor do I know how to make approaches or simply how to offer myself.
And no, I’m not looking for my pleasure, I’m looking for his, because his is what makes me happy and gives me pleasure. And no, I’m not looking to just eat his cock (although I would love to), just knowing that I can do something that gives him pleasure without being hit on or robbed would make me feel useful.
I am sorry if my message is confusing or if it has already been answered, I have spent hours on your site but I have not been able to find the answers I am looking for to this/these questions raised, probably because I am not smart or savvy enough, my apologies.
I am grateful for any help I can get in this regard. Thank you very much for everything!
Brother, thank you for writing.
You have a very common concern, one so common that I’m toying with writing a small ebook explaining it in more detail. But I’ll give you some help here.
In simple terms, you really want to start offering to submit in ways to Alphas you already know in your life. Why? Two reasons: (1) You’re not experienced enough to approach strangers with offers of service yet, and (2) Alphas you know will be more likely to use you, and more likely to treat you kindly if they aren’t interested.
So you think of one or two Alpha friends you’d like to serve, and you start doing extra things for them. Find ways to be useful, buy them gifts you know they want/need, offer to do chores like detail their cars or whatever. Speak to them in respectful language (call them “Sir”, etc.).
They will notice this change and eventually ask you why, which will give you an opportunity to explain the difference between you and them.
Alternatively, you can ask a question like, “Do you consider yourself to be Alpha?” This can lead into a discussion of Hierarchy (you might even show them the pinned post about Hierarchy on this site).
But I want you to understand this: Alphas understand what you are and they understand Hierarchy naturally. They aren’t going to beat you up or hurt you, especially not the ones you personally know. So don’t be afraid. This is a very natural thing, and Alphas are just as much a part of it as any faggot. You’re simply trying to find fulfillment, and they’ll realize it if you do it the way I’m suggesting.
I am a self-locked faggot, and my best friend is a mostly straight, happily married man. Our hangouts usually consist of us playing video games online or me and his wife watching him play video games at his house. His wife meets his sexual needs, so I am looking for non-sexual ways that I can serve him as a faggot to respect and elevate his manhood, and hopefully slowly create a dynamic where he sees and treats me like the inferior faggot I am, who is there to serve him as a man.
My faggot bottom-brain isn’t good at coming up with ideas and making decisions on its own. I need direction and ideas to fix the dynamic in my friendship so I am on the bottom where I belong and can be of more use to my friend.
Best, Alex
Thanks for writing Alex!
First of all, I’m wondering about that “mostly straight” line you used to describe your best friend. Is there something you know about him that I need to know? Did you two fool around at some point in the past?
Having a straight (and married) Alpha friend is tough, because your opportunities are severely limited. In addition, you risk losing the friendship by pushing too hard to serve him, or if you do serve him and he feels funny about it afterward.
Does your friend know about your chastity? Would he be willing to be your keyholder? Have you ever discussed your faghood with him? I ask these questions because in many cases straight Men find chastity faggots very interesting (and in some cases, a turn-on). I liken a faggot in chastity like a green stoplight, giving the Alpha the permission to do lots of things he might not ordinarily do. In any event, if your friend doesn’t know about your faghood, he should be told. Use the resources on this site to help explain things.
Other than that, find simple ways to serve. Buy him things he likes. Maybe offer him foot massages. If you can afford it, send him and his wife on a vacation. Become USEFUL to him.
I came across this site doing some research. So let me tell you my story
After my brothers left for university my parents took in two hokey players for the local club to bore them as they was not close to their home. I contacted to help mom with the jobs around the house doing loundry and food prep for our new borders. Things changed for me when my parents went away on a holiday leave me alone at home with the lads. After a few days they started calling me faggot. Then one night the lads were watching TV in the recroom. To cut a long story short I ended up giving them both a foot massage and they rubbed their feet in my face and said do you like that faggot I had a cum hands free when this was happening and they noticed. Does this mean that I am a faggot. After my parents got home things have gotten back to normal but I’m worried about what might happen next time we are left alone in the house.
James
Thank you for your question! I understand why you’re nervous!
The short answer is this: YES, you are a faggot. At least, you are a faggot to these young straight Alphas.
I believe these Alphas noticed that you are a faggot in hiding (and probably talked with each other about it in private) and decided to force you to accept your place in service to them.
This is completely Hierarchical and natural. They accept what you are and want you to submit and serve them. And I can guarantee that the next chance they get, they will use you again … possibly with even more intense acts of service. You very well could end up sucking these Alphas off before too long. Be ready for anything.
In the meantime, I think you should start meditating on what this experience teaches you about your true place in Hierarchy and what you’re meant to do. Clearly superior young Alphas feel your place is to serve at the feet of Men. Clearly, you do as well given the fact that you did it.
It’s nothing to be scared of. Follow your instincts and what they teach you about yourself!
faggots are obviously the servants and slaves to Alphas who they love and are totally devoted to. But can some Alphas love faggots? Back in the say when a wife was her Husband’s property she also served Him but He still loved her for who she is and her place in His household. Of course an Alpha could love a faggot the way a Man loves a dog, but for bi and gay Alphas at least, could They love us? Some of Them seem to want to have both egalitarian romantic relationships with women or other Superiors and only own faggots as slaves, but maybe some Alphas need hierarchy to be a part of all of Their relationships including the loving ones. Is that not possible?
Brother, your question made me somewhat sad, because it sounds so hopeless. I hate for any faggot brother of mine to feel that way.
I would hope that my nine years teaching Hierarchy (and especially, my careful reporting of true Hierarchical stories) would have dispelled the idea that Alphas cannot love their faggots. My previous site, FWA, oversaw four marriages between Alphas and faggots, including two straight Alphas! Additionally, there were many other examples of Alphas loving their faggots. Master Matt’s love of his four faggots … Master Jin’s love of Chin … Master Lorenzo’s deep love for his faggot Gio … Master Con’s love for fag Nick … literally, my work has been filled with terrific and inspiring examples of Alphas loving their faggots.
I can also tell you that I’ve been loved (and continue to be loved) by multiple Masters.
Of course, there are plenty of awful and immature/insecure Alphas out there who can only abuse fags. These Destroyer Alphas don’t know how to love anything properly, let alone a faggot. Sadly, too many faggots gravitate toward these types of Alphas because they mistakenly think that’s how true Alphas are supposed to behave.
Just know that there are truly great Alphas with huge hearts who can appreciate the submission and devotion of true faggots. They’re out there … so go serve them!
The following post is part of a thread chronicling the experiences of a French faggot named Fabien who has been claimed by his straight Alpha friend Anthony. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
The bravado and fearlessness of young Alphas is breathtaking. At that age they experience a constant rush of testosterone and adrenaline, and that causes them to express dominance in bold, surprising ways. Now, when they do that with other Alphas, it leads to fights. But when they express their dominance with submissive personalities, they typically get everything they want.
I have repeatedly experienced such bursts of young Alpha dominance, which is why I have had such success in advising others on how to approach the young Alphas in their lives. Alpha behavior is predictable, mainly because of the constant needs of young Alphas I mentioned above.
A week ago I received an email from a faggot from France named Fabien. He had an interesting situation rapidly developing in his personal life:
I’ve recently discover your site while I was searching something to help me think about my situation. I am reluctantly processing that I must be what you call a beta or a faggot (gasp!) but I am quite anxious about it.
A few words to introduce me. I’m from France, I’m thirty years old and an executive in a small marketing firm. I have always lived as a straight man, as I used to like and fuck girls regularly. Most of the time, in my professional and daily life, I am a rather assertive man and in positions of leadership. But also, I must confess, I have always been quite aroused by some few males who I saw as better than me, and always liked doing things for them and earn their appreciation. I never really explored that side of myself until recently.
To lighten my rent and have a bit of company, for the last six months I’ve been sharing my flat with a roommate in his early twenties, named Anthony, a student at a top university. To give you an idea: he looks A LOT like Tom Holland, including on the muscular front. Furthermore, he is very confident, cocky, smart and funny, and for what I know, loved by everyone around him. So, as you can well imagine, I am very humbled and very impressed by him. I pride myself to be a clever, rational man, but I feel like I’m turning into a fangirl for him.
Since he’s been here with me, I couldn’t help but be more and more agreeable to him, offering to cook for him, do his laundry, his share of the housework, and so on. Also, I haven’t been too insistent about asking him to pay his share of the rent. Several times in recent weeks, when he had a tedious academic homework to do, I offered to do it for him so he could enjoy himself. Each time, of course, as he’s a serious and bright student, he checked afterwards, but he was always satisfied with my work and it saved him a lot of time.
Over the last fortnight or so, when we’re both watching TV, he’s got into the habit of lying down on the sofa and resting his socked feet on my lap. Almost instinctively, without really paying attention, I’ve started rubbing them every time he does that. Last Friday, after returning from Christmas celebrations with his family, when we were in this situation again, he got up to sit facing the TV. So I stopped the massage, but he turned to me and said sternly “Hey, I didn’t tell you to stop!”. I rushed to my knees on the floor and said ‘Oh, sorry, excuse me” and started massaging his feet again. He smiled smugly and said “That’s more like it”.
I believe that, at this point, things are pretty clear, right? But I’m still nervous and unsure of what to do next. Should I go ahead and blatantly tell him that I am his bitch to use as he wants? Should I just keep going and see what he will do next? I know I sound pathetic but it’s really so new to me, I feel so confused. Can you please reassure me in any way?
Instantly I realized that this Alpha, Anthony, had already identified Fabien as a faggot. Not only that, but Anthony was also using his natural dominance to force Fabien to accept his place as a faggot so that he can take ownership of him.
Fabien was desperate to know what to do, so I advised him to really start submitting to Anthony and work up to kneeling and admitting to Anthony that he’s a faggot. I felt like I was overshooting, but Anthony felt particularly aggressive to me and I had a feeling a big confession would work with him.
But before my advice could even be implemented, Fabien wrote back with an update:
Thanks for your insight. I must admit I’m still processing things. Thinking of it arouses me and scares me at the same time.
Even today, while I’m working from home, Anthony (that’s his name, I quickly mentioned it in my mail! ^^) kept asserting his authority. This morning, he came out of the bathroom in his boxers. He stopped in front of a mirror in the shared living room and began casually stretching and flexing. I was peeking at him, mesmerized, and he suddenly said, “Hey, you know what, I could really use an upper back massage!” I impulsively went behind him, put my hands on his shoulders and massaged his back with my thumbs for a few minutes. He closed his eyes and moaned. At the end, he said, “Good job! You’re doing great, man!” and I answered “thanks” while he went in his room.
Later, at noon, as he stopped by the flat to grab a sandwich I made for him, just as he was about to leave, he pointed to his sneakers and said, “Hey, my laces are untied”. Without even thinking, I put one knee down to tie them for him. He just replied “Nice one. Have dinner ready by 8 p.m. Enjoy your afternoon, bye!” and left.
As I am writing to you, I am just realizing something: he never says “please” or “thank you”! He says what he wants, gets it from me, and expresses his satisfaction, but never says “please” or “thank you”! What’s more, I was actually the one to thank him for massaging his back!
I’m in the middle of a turmoil. I cannot deny the obvious, and yet I’m anxious as hell to take any step further. But I’ll think carefully about your advice, I promise.
So now it was apparent that something big was happening with Anthony. He wanted something from his roommate/faggot Fabien. I warned Fabien to prepare himself because Anthony was going to make a bold move of some kind.
Then it happened:
I am a coward. I did not follow your advice the other day. After dinner, I simply sat down on the ground, at Anthony’s feet, while we were watching TV. But things have gone crazy since then.
Yesterday morning, as Anthony walked around in the living room in his boxers, he pointed to a stain on the floor that I should clean. I knelt on the floor to do it, while he looked at me. And when he said “Well done”, without even thinking, instinctively, I bent down to kiss his feet! When I hesitantly looked up, he didn’t look surprised at all, but was instead grinning from ear to ear. He ran his hand through my hair and said “good boy” then went to his room. I was blushing with embarrassment.
I spent the day out, but on that evening, as I came in, he was on the couch, he told me he wanted me to drive him tomorrow for the day to buddies of his, some miles away.
I’m trying to accurately reproduce the discussion we had then. But I’m shaking furiously just thinking about it.
“So you just assume I’m going to cancel my plans to drive you there and back?”
“Yes, you are” he said with a cocky grin.
“You take me for granted, do you?”
“Why wouldn’t I?” he said with a shrug. “I’m used to get whatever I want. People are always bending over backwards to please my every whim. I’m just that great! Isn’t it why you kissed my feet this morning?”
I blushed. I was both very excited and very irritated. I replied: “And so you think you’re entitled to everything?”
“I know I am. Some men are just better. Look!”
Then, he put his foot on the corner of the coffee table. He snapped his fingers, pointing to his black leather boot, and calmly said: “Lick the bottom of my boot”.
“Why would I do this?”
“Because it pleases me.” he just said, leaning back with his hands behind his head.
I thought for a second I was going to shout at him, but I spontaneously knelt down and did what I was told. I licked the dirt off the sole of his boot. Anthony was smiling so smugly! My heart was thundering!
He straightened up and leaned towards me and said: “So, what are you doing tomorrow, boy?” I paused for a moment, and I replied: “I’m driving you wherever you want to go, Sir.” “That’s more like it. That’s a good boy” he said.
Then, I remembered your words, and I added: “Thank you for allowing me to serve you, Sir. Thank you for helping me to understand I’m born to serve a superior Man like you, Sir.”
He beamed more than ever and just said: “I knew I would eventually break you.”
And by the way: I’m writing this e-mail while waiting for him in the car while he’s having fun with his friends, ready to take them somewhere else if need be.
Anyway. I couldn’t escape my destiny. I’m a bit scared, but so be it.
BRAVO!
This is such an astounding moment, one that crystalizes the natural dynamic between a straight Alpha and a faggot who both accept their roles. Anthony is such a pure example of young Alphahood, full of cocky self-confidence. But it’s Fabien who really impressed me. Despite his own embarrassment and frustration about his submissiveness, he followed the lead of his faggot instincts and surrendered to Anthony’s power. If more faggots followed these instincts (rather than hide behind false masculinity), so many more would find purpose in more meaningful ways!
There’s more to this rapidly-developing story, but I wanted to start here with Anthony’s ascension and Fabien’s submission. It’s a near-perfect beginning!
Few phrases uttered by Alphas cause such intense feelings of submission and devotion in faggots like simply saying “Good Boy”. Why is this?
The phrase is commonly used by pet owners as a way to reward/encourage good behaviors in their animals. You rub the head of your dog and say “good boy!” and the dog’s tail wags excitedly because it knows it pleased its Master.
The illustration is appropriate. Faggots are very much like dogs to Alphas.
Whenever an Alpha assigns a faggot a task, it is like an Owner demanding that his dog “sit” or “stay” or “heel”. And like any dog Owner, an Alpha expects his faggot to obey. When the faggot does obey or even exceeds expectations, it’s appropriate to tell the faggot “good boy”. This reinforces good behavior while simultaneously diminishing the faggot and relegating it to a status like a kept animal.
It’s important to reinforce a faggot’s inferior state. If a faggot isn’t constantly reminded of its inferiority, then it eventually loses focus and begins to resist training. Telling a faggot “good boy” is an affectionate, encouraging way to reinforce its inferiority.
Any Alphas I’ve ever interviewed have always told me the same thing, that telling their faggots “good boy” makes their faggots serve with much more enthusiasm and dedication. They see their faggots light up when they’re called by that phrase.
Of course, an Alpha can get the same effect on a faggot by saying “good faggot”, but “good boy” has an additional layer of affection that endears an Alpha to his faggot, bonding them in a more personal way. Some Alphas may not want a close relationship of that type with their faggots, so I’d recommend that they steer clear of saying “good boy” to them.
But to the Alphas who would like a stronger emotional hold on their faggots, the term “good boy” is the best of both worlds; it properly diminishes the faggot while rewarding it with attention.
Just like a pet dog.
(By the way, I made the graphic above and put it on a tee-shirt. It would look good on a lot of good faggots out there! You can check it out and buy it by CLICKING HERE!)
Years ago on my old site FWA I wrote a fairly legendary defense of my prolific use of the word “faggot”. That article came as an angry response after I’d had something like 13 Twitter accounts and at least seven Tumblr accounts banned simply for my use of the term.
Since then, the world has become even more stridently PC. Everybody takes offense at everything, typically without understanding the reasons why someone might be using a term that someone else might label as “offensive”.
“Faggot” is near the top of such a list of offensive words despite it having a longstanding context rich with Hierarchical meaning.
Since at least the late 1800’s the term “faggot” has been used to describe submissive slave males. Books of that period like “Harry Blount” liberally used the term to describe the male slaves of young straight males. This led to the common 20th century use of the word as a derogatory slur steeped in homophobia.
But thanks to the internet the term “faggot” has been restored to its proper place in Hierarchical language. It is now understood to represent submissive males whose sole function is to serve the needs of superior Men and Alphas.
In the first century these faggots were commonly called “eunuchs” because they were sexless, inferior/failed males who lived to serve. Jesus mentioned this at Matthew 19:12 when he said: “For there are eunuchs who were born that way, and there are eunuchs who were made eunuchs by men, and there are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs on account of the Kingdom of the heavens.”
Because of its rich, longstanding meaning in the English language, the term “faggot” has taken on a power that can change lives. There are no other words that can force a male to submit like the word “faggot”. It acts like a command in hypnosis, triggering certain submissive males to instantly obey the Alpha using it.
To understand this, all we need to do is imagine someone calling us various slang words for weak or inferior. For instance, we might get rattled if someone called us “pussy” or “bitch”. But if someone calls us a “faggot”, they’re making specific claims about our very nature. This deeper meaning is understood by everyone.
When this term “faggot” is embraced by those actual slave males among us, dramatic, life-changing effects are realized. Now labeled correctly, the faggot often has an epiphany that is accompanied by great joy and relief.
I quite famously participated in an event with a gay Alpha Master named Master A on a live Twitter Space in 2022 that demonstrated the absolute power of the word “faggot”. In that session Master A and I managed to get 88 sub males to admit to the live group that they are faggots. Several of these newly-outed faggots were thrilled to be able to say that for the first time. However, many others broke down in tears and deep sobbing because the emotional weight lifted from them at the moment overwhelmed them.
Now imagine the effect an Alpha Master has when he calls his submissive properties “faggot”. The word creates an instant and massive Hierarchical divide between the Master and his slave that cannot be denied or forgotten. I can tell you from personal experience that an Alpha calling me faggot causes me to immediately shrink and submit. Any experienced faggot knows what I’m saying is true.
That is why I’m so defiantly using the term “faggot” today. There is simply no other word that more accurately captures who I am and my function within Hierarchy. I don’t shrink back from its use, not in the face of the keyboard warriors online or in my everyday life. I am a faggot, born with a commission to serve our greatest Men. To hide from that feels exactly like what it is: a betrayal of natural order.
I’ll give you an example from my recent incarceration episode. When I was being booked, I was handcuffed in a police station holding area. As I was waiting there, an officer walked into the room and started loudly telling another officer about “this faggot” who was doing something wrong. The second time the officer said “faggot” I yelled out: “Please stop using the word faggot like that!”
The officer looked at me, startled. Then she said, “Why…are you one?”
And I stared back at her and replied, “Yes.”
She walked away.
I am not ever backing down from using the word “faggot”. It has changed my entire understanding of my life, and it has helped countless others in their search for purpose. It is a word of tremendous power, both good and bad.
Here is my Hierarchy Series video titled “What Is A Faggot?”. Enjoy!
The following post is part of a thread detailing the awakening of a straight God Alpha named Kenzo by his lifelong faggot Kevin. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
When an Alpha claims a faggot and starts using it, so many changes take place between both the Alpha and the faggot. For the Alpha, his power vastly increases and his new view of the world (through the lens of Hierarchy) makes all things possible. For the faggot, it humbles itself and understands the benefits of serving selflessly. For both, there comes a seismic shift in consciousness as each one comprehends the natural power of Hierarchy across their life and how it connects them to a much larger social structure.
For new faggots, this shift in consciousness is truly profound. Some of that is due to the fact that the faggot must surrender whatever masculinity and autonomy it thought it had. But there is also a need for a faggot to embrace that word “FAGGOT” as an identifier. I’ve written many times about the psychological importance of the word “faggot” and how accepting it helps a faggot deepen its appreciation of its purpose. I’ve done social experiments with faggots online, coaxing them to admit to a group of strangers that they are a faggot, which led to some breaking down in tears of joy. Why the extreme reaction? Because most faggots live in a twilight world of lies and self-deception, and it’s only when they openly admit that they are faggots that those lies are lifted away and there is an exhilaration of newly-felt freedom. They realize it’s okay to be a faggot, that they have purpose as a faggot. Hierarchically-speaking, faggots are just as natural as Alphas.
In my previous post about Master Kenzo breeding his faggot Kevin, I quoted Kevin as saying the following: “Having His godly seed within me make me feel a better man.“ When he said that in our conversation, I originally let it go and kept talking to him about the experience of being bred by Master Kenzo.
But anyone who knows me knows I don’t miss those little moments to teach truth. So after a while, I circled back to it. I quoted the line above and responded thusly:
“You are not a Man. You’re a faggot owned by a Man.”
At this point I’d never heard Kevin refer to himself as a faggot. He always characterized his service to Master Kenzo as something a friend would do for another friend he loves. But that is NOT what is really happening between Master Kenzo and Kevin, and I just couldn’t let Kevin go on living a lie.
Kevin continued to deflect: “You’re right of course, forgive me. I meant that having His godly seed within me made me closer to be a man than I could ever be.”
Wrong again! So I became even more specific: “But Men don’t have the cum of other Men inside them. His breeding of you is replacing your DNA with his. His cum is replacing your thoughts with thoughts of him. You are his property now.”
Kevin somewhat conceded my point: “Yes I am. Thanks for putting things so clearly!”
And then Kevin started asking me questions about cunting and what that entails. I was afraid Kevin still didn’t understand my point about being a faggot.
Then, out of nowhere, Kevin broke the conversation with this: “Sam, I think I’m truly processing some things only just now. I am not just a beta male who happens to submit to his superior young best friend. I. Am. A. Faggot.”
“I AM A FAGGOT.”
“I am Kenzo’s slave! I AM MASTER KENZO’S SLAVE!”
And then, after a pause, Kevin added: “Oh Sam my brother, that is so liberating!”
With acceptance comes a deeper understanding of our larger role within the tapestry of Hierarchy, roles we fulfill whether we are aware of it at the time or not. With Kevin finally embracing the term “faggot” and understanding how it perfectly describes what he is to Master Kenzo, he began to see everything differently: “Sam I’m starting to think that it’s not a coincidence that I met Kenzo when He was a little boy and that I mentored Him all his life. I feel like I was destined to be His slave, to be the Awakener of a God. For so long I thought I was like an older brother to Him, but I was actually the servile preceptor of a young God! I feel so privileged!”
Then Kevin boiled down his new understanding of purpose through the use of the word “faggot”: “My very existence is to be His slave. My life has no other meaning than serving Him.”
Like I said earlier in this post, faggots who confront and embrace the word “faggot” and its meaning tend to have overwhelming feelings of joy mixed with fear. The word is so specific and so true that it cuts through all of the lies and misconceptions and perfectly distills purpose. Once a faggot is cornered by the power of the word “faggot” and forced to confront it, there is no turning back.
And that’s exactly what happened with Kevin during our conversation. He concluded this way: “Oh dear sam I’m overwhelmed with emotion! I’m almost shaking! My heart is so full of adoration for Him I think it’s going to explode!”
This is the exact right response!
I hope you can see from this dialogue how faggots subtly mislead themselves, and the result when a faggot accepts the label of “faggot” and all that entails. I’m so proud of my brother Kevin for going through this process with me, as well as Master Kenzo for using Kevin in such a way that he was able to accept his purpose!
Hierarchy is more than simply an explanation of sociological or sexual preferences. It is a pathway that each of us travels to understand ourselves and our purpose. Embracing our own truth gives meaning and direction to our lives!
Today it was Kevin’s turn to accept what he is. Tomorrow, will it be you?
I’ve been following you for a long time ever since one of my first ever doms told me to start listening to your podcast. I’m M 25 I’ve known I’ve been submissive for a while now but I’ve always been too scared to really move forward with it. Recently I started talking to a Master and he basically told me he was going to own me. He already had a stable of both fags and women that he uses at his pleasure. I stepped away from him twice now communicating that I wasn’t ready to move forward with an actual owner but he was fun to talk to and I was captivated by his personality. Most recently I found him again on an app and we started talking again but this time he said I wasn’t running he took all of my info and now has complete control if I don’t do what he says my friends and family will get videos of me debasing myself for my Master. Do I just accept that I’m now owned. I’ve always dreamed about having a dom boyfriend but nothing like having an owner with a stable. I’m a little scared and need some advice.
Shay
Thanks, brother.
You know, I found it a little weird that you didn’t include the fact that your Master is a black Alpha. Had you not put it in the title, I wouldn’t have known. I believe it does make something of a difference in how I’d answer, and I’ll explain why.
I’ve served a lot of black Alphas, and they really fall cleanly into two camps: (1) the Alphas who are just looking for momentary holes to use, and (2) overwhelmingly dominant Alphas who are extremely possessive and dominant. In my experience, the black Masters simply will not take “no” for an answer and will have their way regardless of situations or protests. That’s your Master. I’d take his threats seriously.
I can’t tell you how disappointed I am in your Master. Sadly, he doesn’t realize how weak these threats make him look. A truly powerful Man worthy of worship and service DRAWS people to himself naturally and they gladly submit. Forcing you to serve him under the threat of him ruining your life is pretty pathetic. I hope he rethinks such a stupid and inferior course.
But I must add this caveat: No matter how much I disagree with your Master’s threats, you brought on his stern, controlling nature with your immature game-playing. I see this shit from faggots all the time in findom, and I’ve had plenty of Alphas in that scene complain to me about it. Maybe this will teach you that, if you keep tapping a shark on the nose, it’s eventually going to turn and bite you in half!
Your only way out of this is to leave him and let him try to contact people and embarrass you. That will be uncomfortable, but the people in your life worth keeping will forgive you and move on. Trust me, they will.
But before making that choice, it might be worth it to try serving him. Find out what it’s like to live as the owned faggot of an experienced Master. This is your chance. I understand why you’re nervous, brother. It’s a huge step. But like most steps, they produce FORWARD MOMENTUM.
And you’re a faggot who needs that more than anything right now.
I’m an older married to a woman submissive fag. I am addicted to alpha men and also to some degree to exposure among that group of men. Sometimes when I share my photos at some point there becomes an issue or a demand for money or I will be exposed. This has happened to me at least five times over the last few years. I’ve never actually paid but it does create great anxiety. This has happened on X and Kik and Reddit and on Grindr. What are your thoughts on this? Do I need to just stop what I’m doing and stay off the internet since I have this addiction?
Sorry for what I’m about to say to you, but I have no sympathy for your situation. Your cowardice has forced an innocent woman to live a lie. And instead of making things right by divorcing her, you instead decide to engage in clandestine and frankly dangerous rendezvous with strangers behind her back. And even worse, you’re getting involved in being EXTORTED, which will have a massively negative impact on her.
It’s rare that I get a faggot as stupid and as selfish as you on this blog, and I’m glad. You should be utterly ashamed of yourself, and I am not telling you that so you can get off on it like some embarrassing sicko.
I’m too disgusted by this situation. Do the right thing for ONCE and divorce this poor woman. Then you can go off into the darkness and destroy your life by yourself. Awful.
As I’ve said elsewhere, I was basically gay from birth. By the sixth grade, I had developed a crush on a boy named George (although I didn’t know what it meant at the time), and middle school/high school attractions to boys in class (Bob, I still miss you and your bulge in those tight pants!) further refined my obvious sexual orientation.
However, like most closeted gay youths, I was compelled to date girls in order to fit in with the budding heterosexual attractions of my closest friends. So, like a coward, I started dating girls.
My first few relationships were fulfilling in some way. Despite a general lack of attraction to their bodies, I was more than capable of performing sexually. Some of that probably had to do with the newness of sex in general, as well as the virulent hormones coursing through me at that age. Around that time I also discovered – much to my surprise – that I really loved boobs. For that period of time I was just like every other guy, dating a girl for a while in order to get some pussy before moving to the next one.
Of course, it was all a lie. I knew every kiss was a lie. I knew every thrust of my penis into a vagina was a lie. I knew every “I love you” was a lie. In the moment, it felt real to me; wet lips, warm bodies tangled, heavy sighs, and powerful, head-spinning orgasms. But in my quiet moments alone, a gnawing guilt remained.
When I met my first Alpha Roger at age 17 I was dating a sweet, petite brunette named Lori. Unlike my previous girlfriends, Lori was a virgin. Lori spent months trying to convince me to take her virginity, but I kept resisting. We would lie in the grass of my backyard on breezy summer nights, Lori’s hips gyrating her tight pussy on my finger as if she wanted me to insert my entire arm. I would always stop these heavy petting sessions, leaving Lori breathless and confused. It was a frustrating time for both of us.
Once Roger entered my life, though, my inner truth became crystal clear. I suddenly became Lori, desperately trying to get Roger to deflower me. I knew right then that I needed to break it off with Lori; I couldn’t concentrate on anything else but Roger anymore. The end came a few months later when I didn’t give Lori anything for Valentine’s Day. Rightfully upset, Lori tearfully begged for a reason why I didn’t love her the way she loved me.
“I … just don’t,” I replied. The response was cold and cruel in that special way only selfish teenaged boys can master. And that mercifully ended my last relationship with a female.
Not long after that, Roger slid his enormous, granite-hard cock into my throat. I remember the feeling of his solid, swollen cock-head on my tongue, the salty taste of his foreskin, the firmness of his hands in my hair, and the look of disgusted lust in his eyes as he looked down on me. That first taste of a Man’s cock erased everything I imagined about my life before and reshaped it into something new.
However, I still hadn’t accepted the complete truth about myself. Even then, as Roger was using me as a human tube sock, I still believed that I could be loved. I would construct elaborate fantasies about being Roger’s lover, perhaps getting married somehow and building a life together. Every time he would throat fuck me I would try to make it terrific for him in the hope that he might finally leave his girlfriend for me.
It never happened. I found myself in love with him, flying into jealous, tearful rages and begging for a love that would never come. Eventually, my love-fueled hysterics ended our friendship.
All of these tragic, emotionally-devastating situations occurred only because I couldn’t be honest. I couldn’t accept the truth about myself. I once truly believed that I could be a straight Man, husband, and father. Then I believed I could be a gay Man, a partner, an equal in a committed relationship.
But, as time has passed, I’ve slowly accepted the truth: I am a faggot. I was not born to honor a wife or help raise children. I was not born to be the partner to a Man, the one who makes him smile every morning. I was not born to be loved or cherished or appreciated the way a spouse yearns for their mate or a child might look at a parent.
Instead, I was born to serve. I was born to serve Men. My holes are theirs to use. The works of my hands are theirs to take. My mind is theirs to plunder. My body, mind, and heart exist only to glorify their Masculine superiority.
Men have instinctively known this truth about me my entire life. Ever since Roger first pushed me to my knees in order to receive service, Men have been using me to get what they want. Deep down, they know that I’m nothing but a faggot born to serve them.
I just needed to understand it about myself before I could actually be free.
