I wanna share something with you, Sam. When I was 18 and virgin, I met a guy on Grindr. I went to his house, but when he started to fuck me, my hole wasn’t perfectly clean. He got mad, called me disgusting, and expelled me from his place. I felt dirty and guilty for months after that. When I finally lose my virginity several months later, I was panicking about being 100% clean.
Yesterday my current bf was fucking me and he went too deep, so he got a small stain on the head of his dick. I was freaking out thinking that he would react like that other guy, but instead he laughed, said “that’s what I get for having such a long dick”, then he took me IN HIS ARMS, went to the bathroom, washed his dick, washed my ass and hole with his hands, asked me if I was okay, and then put me on my knees until he finished on my face.
I felt amazing, Sam. I know I am a faggot and a cumdump, but he was so thoughtful and respectful.
Do you think Real Alphas act like that and the picky ones tend to be weaker Alphas? And also, do you have tips for a perfect clean hole?
Brother, thank you for sharing that experience!
(Sh)It happens, as Forrest Gump once said. I think every faggot or bottom has some experience like yours at some point, because it’s simply the law of averages. Get fucked enough times in your asshole, you’ll eventually hit paydirt, so to speak.
I have a shit story like yours that makes yours look like a silent fart by comparison. I wrote about it on FWA, but I couldn’t find it in my preserved archives from that site to resurrect. I might write it up again if I manage to get the courage. Thankfully I’m fully stocked on orange vodka, so it could happen soon.
In my case, I was fortunate that the Alpha fucking me seemed to be totally fine with it and badly wanted me to come back for more at another day, but I was too humiliated to do it. I regret that now, because he was a hot, hung young Alpha who was also a clearly a Protector type. But he’s long gone now.
I’m so sorry that the first Alpha treated you so badly. It’s a credit to you that it didn’t break your spirit or your desire to continue serving. Because you didn’t give up, you found this terrific and loving Alpha who comforted you and helped you learn to trust again. He’s amazing, and I hope you will convey to him my thanks and admiration, brother!
There are a few things faggots can do to greatly minimize this issue. Diet that includes plenty of fiber/roughage is one way. Using enemas rather than douches are another. I have a gravity-fed enema that I use, but there are different types. You must fill the lower two chambers of your colon with clean water (you’ll feel very full), and then push it out. Repeat this over and over until the water comes out clear. Then you should be good for hours of use.
Anyway, thanks again for sharing your experience! I’m sure other faggots can benefit from it!
So to start of me and my bf have been together since 2013 he’s 32 top and I’m 26 bottom. The last few months since about October, I’ve discovered something about myself through your pod cast and x profile. I believe 100% that I am a faggot. I’ve been talking with my bf a lot about the master/fag dynamic and he seems to be into it. To give a bit about him he’s rather manly while I’m very feminine, long hair high faggy voice haha. I guess my question is this: he’s always been sweet to me. Not a push over he knows how to stand on something when he needs to but it’s been a slow roll on him getting into the idea that he deserves to be waited on hand and foot. Sexually and non sexually. I guess he’s having a bit of a time with calling me a faggot though our daily life. Even though I LOVE IT. And it feels natural to me. Does this mean he isn’t an alpha? I’ve always seen him as such. He’s never bottomed before me or after me not that I desire to. Also I’ve given him permission to find other faggots as I love the idea of him being with other boys. He’s downloaded Grindr but hasn’t used it yet. So any insight on how to handle this or help make him comfortable with all of this would be VERY appreciated!
thanks, fellow fag!
p.s. we also partake in Chastity. He’s taken to that great and keeps me locked 24/7 since November!
Thank you for writing, brother!
It’s interesting to me how many times I’ve encountered this exact situation over the years. We start off as bottoms, following that natural urge we have, but the truth about what we are – faggots – cannot remain suppressed forever. This discovery is accelerated when we find ourselves in a relationship with a moderately dominant Man (like your boyfriend), because suddenly the possibility of experiencing the fullness of faghood in the safety of a committed relationship becomes real.
As faggots, we then seek to help our boyfriend unlock the dominance within him that we imagine is there. Sometimes it’s wishful thinking, and other times he absolutely embraces the Alphahood hidden inside and eveything changes. I’ve seen both outcomes. The story featured here of Zack and his Master Declan is an example of an Alpha embracing his power through the ownership of a faggot.
Having said that, I feel confident in saying that I think your boyfriend IS an Alpha. There are probably reasons why he’s hesitating. Latent Alphas often have traumas in their childhood that causes them to suppress their Alpha urges. Other times, gay Alphas feel the pressure of society (and particularly the gay lifestyle) to treat everyone respectfully and as equals.
Brother, you’ve done a terrific job of helping your boyfriend embrace some of his power. The fact that he’s calling you a faggot is awesome (this is often a tough hurdle), and it’s really a great sign that he’s kept you in chastity. Clearly, there is something going on within him, but he’s still holding back.
In your letter you didn’t mention anything about foot worship. This can really unlock Alpha urges for actual Alphas. And by foot worship, I don’t just mean massages and licking kissing in a romantic way. I mean when he walks through the door, you’re on your knees to kiss his feet. Honorific foot worship. He’s your King; show him that in every way.
But I’d like to write something to your boyfriend right here, and you can ask him to read it.
Sir,
I want to congratulate you on your long-term relationship with your boyfriend, which is definitely a credit to you, Sir. Like you, I want nothing more than to see your relationship blossom and become stronger and more satisfying.
In any successful relationship, adjustments must often be made as we grow together and discover new things about ourselves and our loved ones. Your relationship is going through an adjustment right now, and one that I think is very important and integral to you both because it involves PURPOSE.
Sir, your boyfriend is a faggot, not just a bottom. I’m sure you probably felt like it’s just a fetish or a phase he’s going through, but it’s not. He was really born a faggot, and now that he realizes it he simply can’t let go of the need to worship and serve that all faggots have.
I commend you for putting him in chastity, Sir. You may not understand it, but chastity helps faggots deepen their need to serve and puts them in a low-level hum of subspace. You’ve probably noticed those effects over the last few months he’s been locked. You can expect even deeper levels of submission as chastity continues.
But in the same way that chastity helps a faggot embrace his true purpose, so too does a faggot help a superior Man embrace his Alphahood.
You may not believe in Alphas as a real thing, or that some Men are superior to others. But I think any rational examination quickly reveals that Men are not created equal. Some Men simply have the personal power, confidence, genetics, etc., that other Men don’t. Every sports team, military squad, government … all sorted Hierarchically. It’s simply the foundational principle of our world.
I don’t claim to know how you’re feeling Sir, but I do think the power your faggot is offering to you excites you. When you see his useless fag penis locked up and under your control, I’m sure there is a rush of power and pride. I think calling him “faggot” is giving you a thrill as well.
Ask yourself why it feels good. It’s because within you is an Alpha urge that your faggot’s submission is triggering. Deep down you know you’re superior and deserve to be worshiped and served and obeyed.
Your faggot wants to be your boyfriend, but he also wants to be your property, your servant, your faggot. Your natural dominance has helped your faggot embrace his truth. Now it might be time for you to embrace yours, Sir.
You were born a King. Become what you were born to be, and see how much more is truly available to you as King.
I am an Alpha and my boyfriend is my faggot. We’ve been together for almost 2 years and in the last 6 months he’s been obsessed with rimming me. He loves to worship my ass while I’m in the couch sitting on his face, he rubs his tongue on my sweaty hole for hours and hours. Sometimes I jerk off with his tongue in my hole and then I turn to cum in his mouth.
I don’t really care about this to be honest, but I don’t mind it either. He is a good fag so I like to reward him too. Sometimes we’re coming back home in the car and while he drives he already start saying that he wants to worship my ass.
However, I want to know more about this habit. Considering your experience, do you think there is any chance of this habit escalating to him wanting to fuck my ass? There’s no chance this is going to happen. How normal is it for faggots to love rimming a hole that they’ll never own? I have been thinking about cutting this habit, but I know he’ll feel disappointed and consequently will be less obedient.
Master, thank you very much for writing to me! You’ve presented an intriguing issue that I think could use some clarification.
I want to congratulate you on two years of successful ownership. You honestly must own a good faggot if you’ve kept it around this long. A Master with a good faggot is not just a credit to the faggot, but also the Master. It is through your guidance, training, and use that you have molded your faggot into exactly what you want it to be.
Well, except for the rimming part, I guess.
I was impressed that you’ve indulged your faggot’s desire to lick your ass even though it does little for you. Most Masters would dismiss the faggot before ever capitulating to a faggot’s fetishes, so it’s to your credit that you allow the faggot to lick your ass and satisfy its interest. Ultimately, the faggot licking your ass is pleasure/stimulation/worship for YOU (unless you’re allowing your faggot to jerk off while it does this), so there’s not a lot to complain about, really.
Let me dissuade you right from the start, Master: your faggot has ZERO interest in fucking your ass. True faggots can’t even conceive of fucking anything; they’d have a better chance of translating ancient Sumerian hieroglyphs. Faggots are born to be fucked, and that’s all we understand how to do.
But many faggots do have a desire to lick their Alpha’s asshole. Why, you ask? Well, the mental/emotional mechanism comes from the same place that causes a faggot’s need for foot worship: a need for humiliation. Licking and kissing a Man’s foot – the lowest, dirtiest part of his body usually – is humiliating and humbling. Most Men would rather die than do that, but for a faggot it’s a need as important as breathing.
The only place dirtier and more degrading than licking a foot is licking an asshole. It essentially reduces the faggot to something like toilet paper. This type of degradation is important to faggots because faggots have deep feelings of unworthiness and immense gratitude to even be allowed to serve Men at all, so we want to convey to them all the time that they are our entire world and purpose.
Your faggot feels like it is communicating this to you through this action, Master (or it wants to subconsciously). When you think of a faggot like a dog, you can start to understand these communication signals a bit better. A dog cannot express itself through language, so it communicates its love and appreciation in a variety of physical ways that we can often understand (even if some of them annoy us). Your faggot doesn’t know how to truly express the enormity and depth of its grateful submission to your glory … so licking your ass is a way to convey that.
That said, I think it’s a bad idea to let the faggot indulge in its fetish over your own pleasure, Master. Ultimately, your pleasure and satisfaction is all that matters, and allowing the faggot to use so much of your time “pleasuring itself” through rimming you is bad for the faggot. It needs boundaries, Master. Let it do some of that, but for whatever time you give it for that form of worship, you get reciprocal time devoted to your needs as a Man (or something like that).
I went deep on this one, Master, like a faggot’s tongue on an Alpha’s asshole LOL. I hope I was able to help you understand this a little better. Frankly, as a faggot that believes sincerely in licking an Alpha’s asshole as a form of glorifying and elevating him, this helped me, too. So I thank you for letting me examine it.
I do hope this improves, Master. You’re clearly a quality Alpha and Master, and you deserve everything you want!
The following post is part of a thread chronicling the enslavement of a 53-year-old faggot (a former Top) named Mike by a 31-year-old Alpha Master named Steve. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
A couple of days ago I published this post about an ultimatum Master Steve gave to his new faggot Mike. The ultimatum involved two choices that Master Steve presented to Mike and told him to choose his destiny:
1. the first option was Master Steve would cage Mike in private. Mike would remain locked for two weeks, but during those two weeks he would not have sex with Mike. Mike would only be allowed to watch Master Steve have sex with other fags.
2. The second option would be Master Steve hosting a caging party; he would invite his three closest friends, Mike could make it public knowledge to them that he was Master Steve’s fag, and that Mike was wanting to be locked. He would lock Mike in front of them. And then Mike could serve them drinks that night. After they left, he said he would allow Mike to drink his piss and fuck and breed him every time they were together over the next two weeks.
In that post I made it very clear that I was recommending the second option. I felt it was obvious what Master Steve really wanted his faggot to choose. I believed Master Steve wanted to show off his new, obedient faggot to his Alpha brothers, cage it in front of them so they could admire it, and then spend two glorious weeks breeding it like a King. After all, that’s the glorification all Alphas want.
Sadly, Mike allowed his ego to get in the way, and he chose the wrong option. I’ll let him tell it.
It was an emotional night. I feel exhausted.
I hadn’t heard from him since he hung up on me Friday, so I showed up at his house around 6 PM like usual. He was on the couch, feet up on the coffee table in long socks, playing video games, acting like nothing had happened. I was nervous, waiting for him to say something first. He just asked how my day was, like everything was normal. It caught me off guard.
I asked why he hadn’t messaged me back. He said there was no reason to there was nothing to discuss. I tried to bring up our options again, but he just said no.
Then he told me I had free will to make my own choices, but his needs would always come first. He said sometimes he’d push me, challenge me, guide me where he thought was best for my growth. Other times, like now, he’d let me decide so I could have a stake in the relationship. But choices always come with rewards and consequences. Then, just like that, he went back to his game.
I stood there quietly, then started telling him about my conversation with you and the advice you gave. He cut me off, saying he didn’t care for what you faggots talk about and that at the end of the day, I was going to have to live with the consequences, not anyone else. But then he added that if I were smart, I’d start taking advice from someone. The choice I made was selfish on my part, all I thought about was me. He said I keep forgetting his needs and priorities are always first. He said you think this was the easy way out, but trust me it was the harder way, but you will soon find out.
I was speechless. Then he said, Enough of this. Get me something to drink.
As I turned to head to the kitchen, there was a knock at the door. I opened it to see Gary, someone I couldn’t stand. The kind of fag who’s always trying to get into someone else’s boyfriend’s pants. Before I could say anything, he asked if Steve was home.
Steve must’ve overheard because he called out, Yeah, let Gary in.
At this point in time, Master Steve stood up pulled his dick out of his sweatpants, and said come here, Gary you fucking fag, suck my dick. Of course Gary got on his knee and started sucking his dick. At this point time Master Steve looked at me and just simply said I thought you were getting me something to drink. I was completely speechless. I was fuming mad, but went in there and got him something to drink. I handed Master Steve the drink. And he said watch how good this faggot does. In typical Master Steve style, just before he was going to cum he told Gary to open up his mouth and stick out his tongue. He began to blow his load in his mouth and some landed on his cheek. He took his cock, rubbed it on his cheek, told him to swallow his load and clean off his cock. He did and then he told him to open his mouth, he cleared his throat and spit in his mouth. He just said OK faggot it’s time for you to go. Gary being the piece of shit could tell I was mad, he just simply looked at me and said bye sweetie. Of course I wanted to scream.
Master Steve said damn he gave a good blow job, I may have to fuck him one day. He said OK it’s time for us to go take a shower and get dressed to go to dinner.
He didn’t really act mad at me, but things felt off. I kept replaying what had happened in my mind. I was upset and jealous. But I knew I only have myself to blame.
That night we went to bed as usual. When I woke up the next morning to make his breakfast, as I started to get out of bed he woke up at the same time and said oh btw here put this on. It was the Chastity, I thought he might have forgotten. It was much tighter fitting than I had imagined. The feel wasn’t as bad as I expected, but I’m sure it’s going to be worse over the next few hours and days.
When I brought him the breakfast, I noticed he was up reading his phone. I kneeled like I normally do after I put his food on the table. And he said, could you just hand it to me in bed? I ask him did he need to relieve himself and he said no pissed in the toilet already. He said don’t forget I’m cut off of piss, dicks, and loads two weeks. So don’t ask again. I was crushed.
We went about our morning routines and then he said he was going to be out for the rest of the day. He said straighten up this place it’s a mess and do the laundry. And don’t wait up for him tonight.
To be honest, I have so many thoughts going on right now. Why am I allowing this? What’s he out doing and who is he doing? Am I being truly selfish as he said? Why does he want me caged and why is so important to cage me in front of his friends? Should I text him to come home and talk? Do I need to set some ground rules for our relationship? Do i simply go home? So many thoughts, I just feel drained and so frustrated already in this cage.
Now, Mike made the wrong choice for sure. Master Steve was clearly upset that his faggot didn’t get the point of the exercise, and even though he got good service from another faggot, it’s still not as satisfying as what he wanted to happen.
But how about that last paragraph???
That last paragraph is a CATASTROPHE of faulty faggot thinking! Every wrong impulse is crammed into it, and if Mike were to do any of those things, Master Steve would cut him off at the knees and dump him out along the side of the road.
So instead of that happening, I did that for Master Steve. I lacerated Mike in a long email, screaming through text that faggots don’t make demands or ultimatums or threats to an Alpha. Faggots don’t have the right to become indignant and demand special treatment. Mike is a FAGGOT, not a lover, partner, or even a friend.
I don’t know if Mike did anything stupid, because I haven’t heard back from him after I pulverized him. Hopefully he learned a lesson, but I’m not optimistic.
I do think Mike is handicapped because he was once a Top. This has conditioned him to expect certain treatment that he’s no longer entitled to as the property of an Alpha.
ALL FAGGOTS, RE-READ THAT AWFUL PARAGRAPH! LEARN FROM IT!
I am 19 and I am 100% sure I am a faggot! I love serving big men, I know my place, and my holes are always ready for real men. I serve a man who is 32. He took me from my parents house and told me to live with him. He’s very masculine, very strong, and hairy. I am weak, skinny, and smooth. I really like the way he uses me, but sometimes he gets very very aggressive. When I don’t cook well enough or if he thinks the house is not clean enough, he usually gets mad and punishes me. He beats me and sometimes I get some bruises.
He’s my first man and he took my virginity so I don’t know if this is normal. Is this the normal treatment if I want to have a real man with me? Do you think I can find a real Alpha who takes care of me or “soft” men will not be dominant? Do you think some men can be naturally dominant alphas but also treating me well? I love him and I love to obey him but I am a little worried because last time he really hurt my two arms. My father really supports me and he’s a real Alpha man as well who NEVER did that with my mother… but I don’t know if a faggot like me deserves a good caring man, sometimes I think that, if I don’t want an aggressive man, I will end up with just another gay who would never fuck and breed me like a man. I am so confused… can you please help me?
Sweetheart, I’m glad to receive your open-hearted letter.
Congratulations on finding an Alpha at such a young age. Your Master sounds very powerful and aggressive given that he basically yanked you away from your family and took you in as his personal faggot.
But even that move concerns me. It feels very controlling in an unnatural way. And given the more disturbing things you say have been happening now that you live with him, I think my instincts are correct.
Listen, little brother: you are a faggot, but that doesn’t mean you deserve to be hurt and abused. You’re trying your best to serve this Master faithfully, and you’re not always going to succeed. If this was a true and admirable Master, he would correct you with firm and encouraging guidance. What a shame that he’s choosing violence instead.
I don’t know if you’re able to have civil conversations with this Master, but if you can I’d ask if you can talk to him. Then you should humbly explain that he is hurting you. Emphasize that your goal is to be the best faggot possible for him and the violence is making you rethink your purpose. Ask him to please help you to be a better, more satisfying faggot by teaching you rather than abusing you.
If you can’t talk to him like that, then it might be time to rethink staying with him.
I know there are a lot of fetish sites out there and lots of so-called Alphas (and faggots) who say faggots deserve to be beaten and abused. DO NOT LISTEN TO THEM. A faggot doesn’t deserve to be beaten for faithfully serving a Man any more than a faithful dog deserves to be beaten. Most decent people are horrified by animal abuse, and that should be the natural reaction to faggot abuse.
There is something broken in any Alpha who abuses faggots. These are Destroyer Alphas who never advanced past the bully stage in high school, who never learned how to deal with frustration in any productive way. These Alphas are to be pitied, not worshiped.
And yes, you deserve better. You may be a faggot, but you’re clearly smart. You obviously observed how your Alpha father treated your mother and those under his control (including you), and that set a pattern of Alpha behavior for you that is righteous and good. It’s not wrong to expect something similar in a Master who owns you.
You’re young and full of youthful energy and optimism. Don’t allow a bad Master to steal that from you with the darkness of abuse. If he’s unable or unwilling to change, then you need to seek a new Master.
I love you, little brother. I am hoping for the best in this situation. Please feel free to keep in touch with me at hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com or through here.
I don’t know if there is a better example of proper faggot service and obedience like my brother
@southernguyx. He serves Alphas skillfully, but just as important, he serves them with JOY! I’m honestly so proud to call him a brother and a GOOD BOY!
The following post is part of a thread about Chadwick, a faggot in his sixties who serves multiple Alphas domestically. CLICK HEREto read this thread in chronological order!
Truly one of the more inspirational stories I’ve uncovered since my return is that of my brother Chadwick, the older faggot who has excelled as a domestic faggot for multiple Masters around the United States. Word has spread among Alphas, and Chadwick’s highly-detailed and thorough service has become a desirable commodity for them.
Which just proves something I’ve always preached: be useful, and Alphas will make use of you.
I’ve had a couple of questions regarding what domestic service looks like, so I asked Chadwick if he’d kindly write up an experience.
But instead of just doing that, Chadwick wrote up how he found another Master to serve in addition to the service he provides.
Here’s what he wrote:
HI Sam,
Here is a recent service that i completed for my Master “seeking Eager subs” on Recon.
i have been serving Master AKA “Seeking Eager subs” on Recon for over a year once or twice a month. My service is 98% cleaning and laundry. Master bakes a lot. His Kitchen is always in need of service.
Upon arrival if Master is Home. i kiss His feet as a show of my respect for His Alphaness and my obedience.
i do His Laundry, including Sheets, Blankets, Towels, Bath Mats, etc. Everything is taken downstairs to His Apartment’s Laundry Room where five or six loads of Laundry is completed..
Clean and sanitize His Bathroom It is very important to make sure Master’s Bathroom is not only sparkling clean, but germ free.
Clean and Sanitize His Kitchen. There are Kitchen Gadgets,Dishes, Glasses, Silverware,.Counters, outside of Appliances and Cabinets all needed to be cleaned. If something has spilled inside His Oven, that is cleaned too.
Once i have finished cleaning HIs Bathroom and Kitchen, the Floors are mopped.
Dust and clean all of His Window Sills and Furniture.
Make His Bed with clean sheets and Blankets
Vacuum all of the Floors and Carpets.
Take all of His Trash and Recycling down to the Trash Room.
If His Blinds or Windows are dirty, They are cleaned.
Upon Finishing service, if Master is Home, thank Him and leave.
I am usually there serving Master from six to seven Hours.
That’s a lot of work, isn’t it? But notice how Chadwick doesn’t skip steps or take shortcuts, but he’s thorough and worshipfully detailed with every step of his process.
It’s exactly how an Alpha Master deserves to be treated!
I can see why Chadwick, despite his advanced age, is still able to find so many Alphas to serve!
If the ownership of faggots is ever going to be accepted by an insecure, misinformed general population, it’s going to be due to young straight Alphas actually taking their faggots out in public and using them.
Only through demonstrations of such blatant power will there ever be a sea-change in understanding of Hierarchy as ultimate truth.
Leading the charge in this is an incredibly powerful young Alpha named @masterdiaz69 on X. The first six videos above feature Master Diaz using his faggots in public places.
And notice the reaction of people as they pass! The young Men are mesmerized by the sight of Master Diaz having his feet kissed or leading a fag around on a leash!
Intrinsically people know this is the way things are supposed to be.
Hello, thanks for offering this forum for us faggots to learn and grow.
I am a 53 year old faggot, I am a former top, not alpha, but typical attractive daddy bear. My young Alpha, 31 years old, Alpha Steve , that I have been serving for a year and a half, had me completely wrapped around his finger. I was trained that on Saturday and Sunday mornings when we were together, I was to always wake up before him, go make his favorite breakfast and put breakfast on the small table beside his bed. I would kiss him on cheek and tell him Good Morning Sir and kneel on the floor. Once he was ready to get up he would always stand and pick up the orange juice and drink some, not even focusing on me. He would clear his throat, and I was to open my mouth and receive. I would always say thank you Sir. He would finish his glass, put it down and pull out his dick. I was let him rest his cock head in my mouth, not to close and drink his piss. He would sometimes clear his throat and spit again. And of course I would say thank you Sir. He would eat his breakfast while I kneeled looking at floor. Once he was done he would tell me to clean up his mess. Yes Sir. I was never reminded of this this was simply a standard.
One weekend he had his best friend from college stay with us for his Birthday. They had went out that night drinking, came home late. I made sure I went ahead and serve breakfast at the normal time, knowing I could always remake if it got cold. As I came in the bedroom, I put the food on the table, gave him his kiss and said good morning Sir. I kneel probably an extra five minutes longer than normal and he finally woke up. He Took a sip of his orange juice, cleared his throat, spit in my mouth and finished drinking his juice. Open my mouth and the latest cock on my tongue, He warned me that his bladder was extra full, so be prepared. As he started pissing, he said something to me that caught me off guard. He said don’t forget today’s Randall‘s birthday, And since you didn’t buy him Anything, After you’re done drinking my piss, I want you to go in his room kiss him on the cheek and tell him happy birthday. I want you then to tell him you want to be his urinal And then you wanna suck his dick. I didn’t know what to say because all this was being said while he was pissing down my throat. Has he finished pissing down my throat he said go take care of Randall while I eat. Once you’re done, come clean up this mess. I simply said Yes Sir and left.
Part of me wanted to say no, But I felt like I needed to do what he said. I ended up drinking Randall’s piss as well, giving him a blow job and swallowing his cum. I told him Thank You Sir when I left.
My question is, did my Alpha have the right to ask me to do this, or was this unfair?
Thank you for the experience and the question, brother!
I see that you still have some resistance left over from your time as a Top! You had a reaction to being pushed deeper into submission that I find interesting. Does it say anything in particular … I’m not sure. I think it’s natural for males like you (and a past like yours) to have residual male pride.
But you’re now owned by an Alpha who has broken you down and clearly sees you for what you are. He also seems to have a plan for your development as a faggot. This is important. There is nothing better for any faggot than to be owned by an Alpha who knows what he’s doing and is capable of guiding the process of sculpting a faggot into a perfect servant. Far too many faggots rebel at this stage, mainly because they fail to appreciate the strong, guiding hand of a true Master.
I must commend you, brother. Even though you chafed at your Master’s orders, you still obeyed. And that’s really the key thing your Master was trying to train into you. You must understand that he’s improving you, refining you. GO WITH IT. When you see what he’s doing, your awe and worship of him will increase.
But to answer your question directly: yes, your Alpha and Master had every right to order you to tell you to do that. He owns you … and you are his property. But I think you’re learning that already.
Hi Sam l, interested to know your views on switches and how that dynamics work. If some faggots switch or are they not in hierarchy.
I had an interesting task from my master, which I suggested as he was complaining about how flaky faggots are. He was trying to recruit a new fag so spending time on gydoo. I said I would do this for him to give him time back and serve him. So I went on initial as a master in description I spoke with faggots quickly in intro saying I was a fag performing a task, I promoted my master suggesting him as a strong master who brought out the true fag in me and I’ve been quite successful. This has become a reg task and I do it willingly.
Here is the catch couple of times the fags have said they like me and want me to be more dominate, sometimes suggest that with my master and sometimes directed to me. It’s given me thoughts of replicating some of my master traits, that turns me on…like a mini master…I am confused sometimes as I find the power stimulating. I am still my masters property and have told him about it. He still has me doing the task but wants me to tell him when these feelings happen. It got me thinking about switches, maybe when a relationship ends, do some faggots switch. Is it about the person or should I forget about it and concentrate on being the best fag I can for my master.
I have been with my master nearly a year. I am in my 40s and he is much younger -25 but he is so good. He s been a master since he was 17 and is amazing.
Would love to hear your thoughts.
Well, you pose an interesting problem, brother.
I think it’s a mistake for you to be faking dominance to attract faggots for your Master. It doesn’t do you any good, nor does it represent your Master properly to prospective faggots. But that’s just me.
Once again, I don’t believe people are lifelong switches. There are phases people go through based on their current experiences, but eventually people find their true position. And I think you already know your true position: FAGGOT. Your Master knows this, too, which is why he’s wisely monitoring you as you flirt with dominance.
I just think it’s a silly distraction. You already have a young, powerful Owner that you love serving. Why are you threatening that balance and harmony?
Hello again Brother. Thank you so much for your answer to my last question. It was very helpful. I am trying my best to prepare for what I hope to be the start of my submission to my Straight Master. I was wondering if you could give advice on 2 separate matters to this end?
First, I have read your preprepared letter and I cannot thank you enough for going to the effort of writing it to help us fellow faggots out. I was wondering if you would advise me to send it before the holiday, so he has time to read and process it? Or should I wait until we are together in the cabin? I am slightly worried it may scare him off or cause him to second guess if he is, as you correctly say, trying to be a nice guy.
Second, as any self-aware faggot should be I am locked in chastity. He is not aware that I do this however. If I am successful in submitting I will have no issue giving him the keys. But I do not want to seem presumptuous or predatory, and I am concerned that if he realises I arrived wearing it he may think negatively of how I have approached submitting to him. Any advice is appreciated, although I understand if you are too busy and only wish for updates once I have given him the letter
Thank you for the follow-up questions, brother. I want you to be able to get this right!
I don’t think you should send him the letter ahead of time (unless you happen to get into a conversation about it before the trip). Get into the conversation and use the letter as a way for him to get a broader view of things.
As far as chastity is concerned, I think you should wear the cage on the trip. If he discovers it, that will be a way to open a conversation for sure. But here’s a little secret: straight Alphas get excited when they see an inferior male in chastity. I don’t know why that is. My theory: the sight of the caged faggot pings their own dominance in a new way, and they realize that this inferior male is subservient. The cage gives them permission to use it however they want. So I wouldn’t be concerned about that too much.
Don’t ask him about being a keyholder until he responds positively to your admission of being a faggot. He has to get past that first before accepting the rest of it.
Be patient and submissive and weak. Essentially, throw yourself on his mercy. Trust in him that he’s an Alpha who knows how to guide you.
I’m truly excited for you, brother. I think something awesome is going to happen. I love you!
How do I make myself more attractive to alphas? be hairless from below my eyebrows, wear panties, chastity and buttplug?
You make yourself more attractive to Alphas by being submissive, obedient, and service-oriented. Chastity cages are excellent external jewelry for faggots, but a fag’s most attractive qualities are internal.
Hi. I am wondering how I let a straight alpha male know I am available for service. We have been friends for 8 years now and in that time I have tried to be as obedient as possible. I have always gone along with his suggestions and desires, I have done everything I can to make his life better and more enjoyable. For his part, he seems to know I am “always game” for whatever he has in mind. He has a very dominant attitude with most people in his life and I know from some very frank conversations we have had that he is a rough BDSM master in bed. I also know he has repeatedly complained about women not putting out, not doing all the stuff he wants to do and not being submissive or service oriented enough for his liking.
Next week we will be going on holiday to a cabin together, and all of our other friends have apparently pulled out. To make sure we can still go and that he can have the holiday he deserves, I have covered their shares of the holiday and I have told him it is “so he can still have his holiday” and his only response was that I was such a good friend, when in actuality I am hoping to be his good fag. I have told him I am always happy to help in any way he wants, but he just laughed and said that gay men were funny. Is he oblivious or drawing a line? And if it is the former, how do I get him to see me as the faggot I am beneath him in the hierarchy?
Straight Alphas like him suffer from two simultaneously-running problems. (1) Gay males deserve the same respect as any other Man, and (2) what I call “nice guy syndrome”.
I’m going to posit this: your friend has thought about using you sexually. He might even be quite interested in doing so. Why do I say that? Because he’s repeatedly complaining TO YOU about how women aren’t serving him and submitting to him enough. I think if you had done anything to help him see what you really are – a faggot – he would’ve used you.
But let’s focus on what’s coming up. Serendipity has gifted you some time alone with him in a secluded place. Now’s the time, brother. Sit at his feet. Offer him a foot massage. Kiss his feet. See where I’m going with this?
Start a conversation with him about Alphahood. Ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. lead it into a discussion of Hierarchy. Show him material from this site if you need to (I have a “letter to an alpha” in the sidebar that he can read). He needs to grasp the inequality between you, and that you have a natural place as his servant, not his friend.
The sooner you do this during the trip, the better. This will give him time to digest the information and act on it.
You MUST do this. You have a prime opportunity to finally reveal the truth to this great Alpha! Good luck, and keep me posted!
For many years I’ve received a lot of questions from faggots, all asking the same thing: is there a faggot hierarchy?
I’ve always insisted that faggots DON’T have a hierarchy, that all faggots are essentially the same. Their basic function in hierarchy is to serve Alphas, and one form of service isn’t better or more important than another. Faggots are not like Alphas, of course, where there are quite clear and important divisions of power. My longstanding Hierarchy pyramid reflects those beliefs.
But while I was incarcerated I had plenty of time to meditate on the subject, and one night it finally occurred to me that there actually is a hierarchy among faggots. It’s not as cleanly delineated or as compelling as the Alpha hierarchy (at least not to me), but I do think it shapes a pathway for faggots to improve and deepen their service.
So let’s get into the nuts and bolts of this. I have determined there are FIVE layers to faggot hierarchy. Please note that I don’t consider one more dominant or more important than another (again, my bias is that faggots are all the same), but it’s a hierarchy based on effort and accessibility, so to speak.
Here they are in descending order:
MENTOR: This is a faggot that serves/has served Alphas in all three critical areas (sexually, domestically, and financially) as well as works strenuously to provide an example for other faggots to follow and assists new Alphas to embrace their Hierarchical role. These are atypical faggots, ones who aren’t afraid to be known as faggots and aren’t timid about their role.
LONG-TERM: These are faggots who provide all three critical services (sexual, domestic, financial) for Alphas. Often these faggots fly under the radar because they are not interested in anything more than simply finding fulfilment, but there is no doubt that they are in high demand and highly prized by their Owners.
DOMESTIC: These faggots typically only serve Alphas domestically, although that service often includes financial service as well. These rank higher because they are serving in person, which demonstrates a deeper level of personal commitment/involvement.
FINDOM: These faggots only serve their Alphas through cash payments and gifts, and the vast majority of these faggots will never see or touch their Alphas in person. I don’t diminish the value of these faggots at all, but the reality is they are taking a safer, less involved route of service that shields them from personal involvement or investment in their own faghood. Still, findom faggots have been instrumental in helping many straight Alphas discover the truth about Hierarchy.
FETISH FAGS: One of the very first things I did upon returning was to change my Hierarchy pyramid and remove “OBJECTS” from their own layer. I originally gave objects their own layer after a large outcry of voices insisted they deserve their own layer, but they do not. Objects are simply a weird fetish that is not sustainable. So I’ve created this bottom tier to include faggots who are simply seeking their own fetishes (this would be objects, foot fags, exposure fags, etc.) rather than seeking to truly fulfill their purpose to serve Men. These aren’t faggots in the proper sense, and essentially serve no function Hierarchically.
I’m curious about what everybody thinks of this revised understanding. For me, it clears up a lot of the road leading to deeper fulfillment.
Subspace is one of those aspects of the Dom/sub experience that few people truly understand, and even fewer appreciate its power. It’s the power source at the center of Hierarchical exchanges. Without subspace, there would be no ability for a Dominant to overpower and control a submissive, to break into their minds, or help them achieve a sense of purpose in service.
One Alpha recently compared subspace to hypnosis, and the comparison is apt. Like hypnosis, bringing a submissive into subspace involves control and skill, but also great responsibility. In deeper levels of subspace a submissive’s mind and heart unlock, its resistance fades, and many things thought unimaginable become possible.
If I sound a little mystical about subspace, it’s for good reason. Mishandled subspace has led to broken and destroyed lives. On the other hand, carefully nurtured subspace can lead to tremendous fulfillment.
Subspace is a metaphor for the state the submissive’s minds and bodies are in during a deeply involving play scene. Many types of BDSM play invoke strong physical responses. The mental aspect of BDSM also causes many submissives to mentally separate themselves from their environment as they process the experience. Deep subspace is often characterized as a state of deep recession and incoherence. Deep subspace may also cause a danger in newer submissives who are unfamiliar with the experience, and require the dominant to keep a careful watch to ensure the submissive isn’t placing him or herself in danger. Many submissives require aftercare.
Notice the disassociative quality of subspace, this disconnection of the mind from the body. This is caused by a very natural process in the body ordinarily triggered by dangerous circumstances.
WHY DOES SUBSPACE OCCUR?
When a human being is confronted by some dramatic or traumatic moment, the body releases chemicals into the blood stream as part of a process known as the “fight or flight” response. Endorphins and enkephalins are dumped into the bloodstream, producing a weightless, out-of-body rush of pleasure. This can last for hours afterward.
This dump of endorphins can occur during pleasurable-but-taxing sexual experiences such as being fucked or sucking dick just as easily as it can during violent and aggressive situations like rape.
THE EFFECTS OF SUBSPACE
It’s the “fight or flight” response shielding that allows faggots (who are extremely submissive males) to perform tremendous (and occasionally shocking and extreme) acts of service. While in “fight or flight”-induced subspace faggots are extremely open to suggestion and will often mindlessly do things that they might never do in their everyday life.
More from the definition of subspace above:
Producing a sort of trance-like state due to the increase of hormones and chemicals, the submissive starts to feel out-of-body, detached from reality, and as the high comes down, and the parasympathetic nervous system kicks in, a deep exhaustion, as well as incoherence. Many submissives once reaching a height of subspace will lose all sensation of pain, as any stimulus causes the period to prolong.
This detachment from reality allows subs and faggots to go much farther in risky behaviors. We see this extreme behavior quite readily in findom. Faggots deep in subspace have surrendered many thousands of dollars in financial drains to online Alphas, only to regret it once they snap out of it.
HOW CAN WE DEFINE “PERPETUAL SUBSPACE”?
I’ve been owned multiple times in my life, including a few stints as a live-in faggot. To accomplish this, I had to get into a state I call “perpetual subspace” (another term could be “persistent subspace”). It’s sort of a low-level, neverending state of subspace in which the faggot is on a constant high due to even the most mundane of tasks (like doing the dishes, or cleaning a bathroom). The faggot’s Master is never far from the faggot’s mind during the course of every day while in perpetual subspace. Everything the faggot does goes to honor its Master.
I liken perpetual subspace to a type of white noise that drives a faggot forward in constant service to its Owner. Think of it in the same terms as listening to the sound of rain or other types of background noise in order to fall asleep. Perpetual subspace is that low-level hum by which the faggot accomplishes much in service.
PERPETUAL SUBSPACE – THE IDEAL STATE
Whenever I was owned in my life and in a state of perpetual subspace, I felt comforted and at peace. My worries were few since my Master took care of me and all I truly focused on were the tasks that my Master expected me to accomplish. Regardless of how menial they were, each task brought me satisfaction because I knew it was pleasing to my Master.
It was easy to keep me in perpetual subspace once it began. My Master running his fingers through my hair and telling me I was a “good boy” or a “good faggot” was enough to sustain the state in me for weeks. Sexual service/worship sessions were obviously part of that as well. All of these stimuli combined to keep me under perpetual subspace, a state that allowed me to accomplish a lot in service, as well as remain pliable to suggestions when my Master wanted to share me with his friends or make me do things I might not ordinarily do (piss drinking and ass licking experiences started under perpetual subspace of a Master).
For Alphas and Masters, perpetual subspace should be the goal. It is the ultimate level of power, for you hold the total life of the faggot under your control.
Hey, I’ve been reading your website for a while but I’ve never sent you a message before. However, I just saw your last post about vers men and I want to clarify one thing in case people do not agree with you:
SAM IS RIGHT, VERS ARE FAGGOTS
I am 41, I’ve been married with a sub fag for 20 years. We met when he was 18 and I was 21. After a few weeks talking online (back in 2005), he insisted that he was vers and he would only get in a relationship with me if I bottomed for him too. I invited him out for dinner for our very first date, I ordered a salad for him and told him that he should eat something light because I was going to fuck him. He took it as a joke. After 2 glasses of red wine and a few hours later, he was on his knees in my apartment sucking my dick.
I spent 5 minutes fucking his throat and repeating out loud that there was just one top in my house. 20 years later, he is a very successful and happy man, whose little dick has not seen a hole since 2005.
I truly believe that vers men enjoy the feeling of fucking, it feels awesome. But it only takes one real man to make them understand what they are. So, if anyone doubts you, here is a 40-year-old Alpha with 20 years of experience fucking multiple faggots and owning my most precious fag as my husband.
Congrats for your great content, Sam. I hope you have a nice weekend.
Master, thank you very much for your perfectly-written explanation of what I consider to be the correct Hierarchical interpretation! Your thoughts and experience should be the final nail in the coffin for the versatile argument. You’ve destroyed it completely.
Your fag husband should be very grateful that you are the Alpha you are, and that you submitted him with your great power. Without that, your husband would’ve wasted more of his life lost in a limbo of confusion and uncertainty. How sad that would be!
I can understand why some faggots want to cling to the “versatile” tag. As you said, fucking feels great, but it also has to do with a fear of losing complete control to an Alpha. Of losing autonomy. Of becoming a possession.
The twist in this is the fact that being completely owned by an Alpha brings great FREEDOM. It allows the faggot to truly experience purpose and fulfillment every day. I liken the times I’ve been owned to being in the eye of a hurricane. The world all around is chaos, but I’m safe and at peace under the power of my Master. No doubt your faggot feels that way. I wish that feeling for every faggot.
Master, I would dearly love to profile you on the site. I think your twenty-plus year reign over Hierarchy has given you much wisdom and insight that I’d love to share if you’re willing. Please write to me at hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com.
Hey! Thank you so much for helping all men, fags and alphas, with your knowledge and accessible platforms.
I’m a 30yo happy and highly submissive faggot. But I always struggle with not knowing the answers to the following question.
How do you approach close-minded, 100% straight, young (+18) but very basic (in tastes, general knowledge, activities) Alpha types you find on the streets?
I come across these profiles in the street (I live in Spain), usually with friends, they come from sitting in the park, smoking joints, laughing and talking, with a natural cockiness, but I know that by culture or social appearance, they know nothing of this world and surely they will find “gay” (disgusting) anything that comes out of basic standards or commonly “heterosexual” interactions or actions between individuals of the male gender.
And it makes me want to offer myself, but surely I run the risk of getting beaten up or robbed, I would not know how to do it and even less try to do it with the maximum probability of achieving my purpose, to serve. Or if directly I should not try, it is better to look elsewhere or in other ways to avoid a high probability rate of failure and live a worse experience or contrary to the expected?
In short, I do not know how to correctly identify opportunities on the street, nor do I know how to make approaches or simply how to offer myself.
And no, I’m not looking for my pleasure, I’m looking for his, because his is what makes me happy and gives me pleasure. And no, I’m not looking to just eat his cock (although I would love to), just knowing that I can do something that gives him pleasure without being hit on or robbed would make me feel useful.
I am sorry if my message is confusing or if it has already been answered, I have spent hours on your site but I have not been able to find the answers I am looking for to this/these questions raised, probably because I am not smart or savvy enough, my apologies.
I am grateful for any help I can get in this regard. Thank you very much for everything!
Brother, thank you for writing.
You have a very common concern, one so common that I’m toying with writing a small ebook explaining it in more detail. But I’ll give you some help here.
In simple terms, you really want to start offering to submit in ways to Alphas you already know in your life. Why? Two reasons: (1) You’re not experienced enough to approach strangers with offers of service yet, and (2) Alphas you know will be more likely to use you, and more likely to treat you kindly if they aren’t interested.
So you think of one or two Alpha friends you’d like to serve, and you start doing extra things for them. Find ways to be useful, buy them gifts you know they want/need, offer to do chores like detail their cars or whatever. Speak to them in respectful language (call them “Sir”, etc.).
They will notice this change and eventually ask you why, which will give you an opportunity to explain the difference between you and them.
Alternatively, you can ask a question like, “Do you consider yourself to be Alpha?” This can lead into a discussion of Hierarchy (you might even show them the pinned post about Hierarchy on this site).
But I want you to understand this: Alphas understand what you are and they understand Hierarchy naturally. They aren’t going to beat you up or hurt you, especially not the ones you personally know. So don’t be afraid. This is a very natural thing, and Alphas are just as much a part of it as any faggot. You’re simply trying to find fulfillment, and they’ll realize it if you do it the way I’m suggesting.
