Hi Sam! Super glad your back; i followed you for years, enjoying your posts and your dialogue of spreading the word of Alphas and faggots.
I have a question that challenges me that I hope you can answer,…I definitely believe that im a true faggot at heart, but im having trouble accepting it. I have this platonic male friend who actually deliberately engages in dominance against me. He likes to crush with me with his body (hes much bigger than me), using his body weight to essentially crush me. He enjoys forcefully humping me as a playful act, as sort of symbol of his dominance. In a way, he seems like hes trying to teach me “you’re a faggot, im the alpha”. I think its a unique opportunity to help embrace my true faggot self…but im still having trouble letting go and fully embracing my true faggot life. Any advice for me?
Thank you for the question! I love my longtime readers!
This is a huge moment in your life, brother. This “friend” is definitely trying to dominate you (even if it’s just subconsciously). You recognize what he’s doing (thanks to me, in part!), which is also to your advantage.
What’s holding you back is fear … fear of stepping over the line and never being able to go back. Fear that your life will no longer be yours. Fear of the possible shame you’ll feel for the rest of your life.
But let me tell you what’s worse: a lifetime of regret from NOT ACTING!
I hear it again and again from older faggots who look back wistfully on a life lived in shadows of unfulfillment. Back in their day they lacked information and a freer society. They were essentially trapped, paralyzed by fear.
You don’t need to end up that way, brother. You have an Alpha who is wanting you to submit to him. Your chance his right there, dry-humping you! It’s insane to let this pass you by!
I’ll tell you the truth: the behaviors of this Alpha that you describe are very similar to the way my first Alpha Roger acted toward me until the day he made me his cocksucker and changed my life for the better!
So stop worrying about things that haven’t happened yet. You need to live in the moment right now. You learn to swim by jumping in the water and letting instinct take over. Well, it’s your time to jump.
Kneel and kiss his feet and let Nature take over. Your time in now.
@kieranhalsted loves breeding faggots, but he loves encouraging them just as much. His encouragement to this faggot to have pride in its cum-filled hole is inspirational!
He’s impregnating their minds as he’s impregnating their pussies!
Hi Sam, I’ve been reading your blog over the past year and read a couple of your books: “Are you a faggot” and “Alpha Beta: Hardcore guide to faggot Mastery”
There are many parts of being a faggot that I’m drawn to that are feel are such a big part of me, however there are a few things that I think make me not a faggot and wonder where I actually sit in the hierarchy.
My biggest struggle is needing a REAL Alpha, all these so called alphas/cashmasters and cocky entitled guys just make me cringe because I know they are weaker than me and I would just laugh if they tried to make me submit.
Im a Bi Switch (gay and sub leaning) and initially thought I might be a faggot (and admitting it on camera whilst degrading myself always makes me horny), but after ready “are you a faggot” I realised that a lot of the things don’t align with me:
I like topping (mostly guys but sometimes girls)
Im only submissive in the bedroom (in everyday life I present as alpha, I train Muay Thai and fight regularly, I’m confident, I’m assertive and I feel superior to most men (despite being collared and caged 24/7)
I’ve never really had a foot fetish (although I’m developing one as my primary turn on is humiliation and I find feet disgusting – which then makes me hard)
I would never give money to another man just because he demands it, if he’s capable he can get his own.
During the fagtest in the book most of the questions I answered yes to but with the caveat that the man is bigger, stronger, more capaable and more powerful than me. I do believe in hierarchy, but I don’t believe that most of the people who claim they are alpha or real men actually are.
Thank you!
Thank you for the question!
You present a pretty intriguing case, one of the more puzzling ones I’ve ever had on this issue. Let me say first that humans are not itemized products that fit neatly into pre-ordained boxes, so classifying everyone so rigidly is simply not possible. My hierarchical layout captures a clear picture for a vast number of people, but not everyone.
I am curious about you, because I can’t help but wonder if you are another case of “Alpha Latency”, a term for a psycho-sexual condition that some natural-born Alphas experience that lead them into unnatural sub/faggot behaviors/mentalities.
Your case as described makes you sound like you’re firmly an Alpha. In fact, you sound quite proud in describing your Alpha-like qualities. It also sounds like the people you encounter are treating you like an Alpha. You just don’t seem to have embraced it for whatever reason.
Most cases of Alpha latency involve early childhood trauma (either sexual or physical abuse) or social conditioning during their developing years. Since I don’t have a chance to interview you directly, I’m flying blind. But I would comb through your background and see if you can identify possible causes for your tendency to want to submit (or even question your Alphahood).
I think something has blown you slightly off-course, but I get the impression you’re actually an Alpha who needs to simply embrace that purpose. I bet you’d feel so much more free if you were to.
You can read some of the experiences of Alpha latency by CLICKING HERE.
Hi Sam, it’s been a while now that X pushes homophobic maga supposedly Straight Alphas on my feed, and I’m surprised and ashamed to say it really turns me on. I’m ashamed to say I’ve also sent to these doms, when in heat. I understand the basic logic in it : it feels wrong so it’s exciting, it feels forbidden so it’s hot, and of course there’s a strong component of inequality, harsh words, internalized homophobia on my part, etc.
I guess as a self locked fag I’m not that surprised it turns me on, but as a pretty normal guy, from France, educated, left wing, saddened by Trump’s America, and with many friends and a caring family, I don’t get how I may be obsessed with being bullied (which I never experienced), called a loser (which I know I’m not), and most of all being led to feel shame and apologize for being a « degenerate fag » (which surely resonates within me, but which I don’t believe in).
Any advice ? Thanks
Thanks for the question!
I think you point out one of the more frustrating aspects of being a faggot with a brain and moral values. MAGA Alphas are pretty sexy, and their cocky, hateful attitudes appeal to faggots. Let’s face it: faggots naturally love degradation, and these kinds of Alphas are great at it.
I don’t know how to get around it. I’m able to put it aside because my hatred for Trump and the fucking idiots that worship him is so strong because of what Trump did to my Baby Boy when I tried to rescue him from Syria. I’ll never forgive Trump and his racist cultists.
Let’s look at the following clip together. Try to find out what’s wrong with it.
You may not see anything wrong with it at all, but most Alphas will tell you that the faggot masturbating itself is at least irritating, if not absolutely enraging.
Why It Matters
Alphas have certain non-negotiables. For instance, they expect inferiors to be submissive and follow their direction. They also expect inferiors to give them freedom and privacy, especially when the need to hunt arises in them.
But most of all, Alphas expect RESPECT. This is natural, because they are superior Men, Men that other Men yield to, follow, and obey. As leaders of Men, they cannot expect to fulfill such responsibilities without respect from everyone, from second-in-command down to the lowliest slave.
This need for respect extends even into the interiors of an Alpha’s life, to his bedroom and beside his bosom. His women must show him respect as a conqueror who plants his children in their wombs. And his faggots must show him respect as a mighty god whose every molecule is holy, and every moan of pleasure, a decree.
Faggots naturally have such respect for Alphas, which is why Alphas are so drawn to owning and using them.
However, when a faggot doesn’t have respect (or it loses respect) for its Alpha, it manifests in ways both subtle and obvious. For example, a faggot starts to openly complain about certain conditions, like the unfairness of chastity or the use of other fags (or females). These kinds of behaviors can be (and often are) swiftly corrected by discipline.
But a more subtle form of disrespect occurs when faggots masturbate themselves while being used. In these instances the faggot is treating its Alpha like a dildo rather than a King. The faggot is daydreaming that its sexual pleasure/orgasm is just as important as the Alpha’s.
I think many Alphas let this behavior slide in the moment because they are rutting and enjoying the pleasures of their own cock. Other Alphas are simply less concerned with such matters, blithely unaware of the disrespect being shown literally under their noses.
Faggots who do such disrespectful acts in front of an Alpha should understand that they are ultimately hurting themselves. They’re reinforcing corrosive behaviors that will lead to failures down the road. And, much worse, they will no longer be viewed by their Masters as something special, a treasured possession wholly devoted to service. Instead, the faggot cheapens itself through masturbation, and it becomes just another untrained, undisciplined whore.
Watch these videos. Notice the faggots in them. These faggots completely accept their place and function within Hierarchy.
An Alpha fucking obedient and RESPECTFUL faggots like these can only feel more powerful.
And THAT is the point of faggot service!
So brothers, endeavor to stop masturbating. Go into chastity if you need/want to.
Humble and control yourself, surrendering everything in service to Alphas. Your show of respect will always be rewarded!
An Alpha like Lane Rogers (Blake Mitchell) was obviously a hot commodity in the porn industry. He did a lot of fucking, utilizing his natural dominance and gorgeous cock to great effect. It also didn’t hurt that he looked a bit like Clark Kent/Superman with the glasses and chiseled jawline.
There are a couple of my favorite clips featuring the late superstar.
Yesterday around 4pm porn superstar Lane V. Rogers was killed in a motorcycle accident. The young King was just 31 years old.
Lane started his career in the adult industry under the name “Blake Mitchell” with Helix Studios in 2014, the year before I started this site. I’ve been charting his rise to prominence the entire time, watching his natural dominance force Helix to unshackle him from their insistence on versatility and open the way for young gay Alphas to accept their own Alphahood.
Lane was, more than anything, a Protector Alpha first and foremost; he always led with his heart and his humanity. He championed gay rights and helped bisexuals feel comfortable rather than persecuted. His easy, confident smile was so radiant that it lit up every darkened room around the world, rooms where shy gay boys and faggots hid in fear. Lane reassured them with that smile that they have purpose and value.
I never got to know him the way Joey Mills, Chad Alec, Sean Ford, Angel Rivera, and many other co-stars and industry figures knew him. Our paths crossed in DMs every so often over the last ten years, and they were generous-but-brief chats I’ll hold close to my heart. They were more than a random faggot like me even deserved from him.
I only wish that Lane’s model of activism and integrity was shared by other leading figures in the porn industry. Far too many of them are content to make money and enjoy life during this brief moment when they’re still commercially viable. Lane made plenty of money, but he was determined to make his fame count for more than just sexy images on the internet.
We only have a few years here. Make them count!
The tattoo Lane proudly carried on his left pec says everything about a young Alpha who laughed, loved, protected, roared, and lived like a lion. He didn’t need my constant accolades to prove what he was. He embodied it. I’m so sorry his light has left our world, but I’m so grateful I was able to see it.
To all of the many family members, friends, and fans who knew and loved Lane, I extend my deepest sympathies.
Love Always,
sam the faggot
This is a beautiful video posted by Lane’s former boyfriend Chad Alec (@danceswithleos) to celebrate Lane’s life:
This clip reminds me of a Latino military Alpha I served years ago. One late night he pushed me down on my condo’s deck and rammed me with his huge dick. My moans of pain were loud, and he kept telling me to “shut the fuck up!”
hey sam, so this faggit has a long-distance Owner/Trainer that has it in chastity and Sir-ving other Men. it is very happy with Him, and wants to eventually be installed in His household as a cumdump. it was ordered to a Cocksuck shift at a local bookstore, and immediately on arrival, overtaken by a BBC who proceeded to run it for the four hours allowed in the arcade (edging Him, getting other Men off, etc). it had been in hopes that the KingBBC would agree to be the local Keyholder proxy, and faggit put them in touch. When it reported to KingBBC’s house for more Use a few days later, They had been corresponding, and KingBBC started to relate that He didn’t trust Owner/Trainer as a good Man. That He “got a bad vibe” which He repeated several times, and in the vebal abuse, was asking things like “don’t u prefer this real Cock to one u have never met” etc. faggit begged off having to choose, and KingBBC seemed to understand. it is kind of perceiving Owner/Trainer as more “Destroyer” in terms of approach, and KingBBC as more “Protector”, but both seem good Men to it. And Owner/Trainer has the prior claim, of course. it is feeling like respectfully asking KingBBC to take up His concerns directly with Owner/Trainer, as Men should discuss/decide, and faggits should do as they are fucking Told. Do u or yr readers have any insights to help the situation? thanks very much
Thank you for the question!
Well, you have a pretty great problem to have! Two competing Alphas! Nice!
Here’s my take on long-distance service situations they don’t work. It lasts for a little while, but eventually Alphas get tired of spending time on something that can’t see or touch or smell. Meanwhile, faggots are very unfaithful and notoriously fickle. They’re doomed to fail.
Meanwhile, you have KingBBC locally wanting to own/use you. I don’t think this is really much of a choice, brother. While the long-distance Master has helped you start, he’s just not going to be able to take you much further. You need deep, hands-on training by someone like KingBBC.
If there has been one consistent aspect of this site and project, it’s been my ability to enrage and trigger readers with my sometimes-controversial views. I’ve even received death threats from readers over the years (particularly during my formative years on Tumblr)!
Of course, I don’t really care about upsetting people if I feel like I can demonstrate factual or experiential evidence to support my claims. Sadly, facts mean little to the trolls online. They search the online world looking for a fight or a reason to get offended. I imagine that’s an exhausting existence, but I’m up for the fight if they’re willing to bring it to me.
That said, I received a letter in my Questions From Readers inbox from a reader who was annoyed/offended/upset by an answer I gave to an owned faggot who had a female friend demanding that the faggot must leave his Master because she felt like the Master was raping him. You can read that original Q&A post by CLICKING HERE.
The letter has two parts, so I’m going to split it and tackle each part separately.
This is not a question, but a mere correction on your application of the term “woke.”
Uh oh.
“Your female friend is totally wrong. She’s looking at things from the woke female perspective that is currently destroying all engagement between males and females.”
Social media and the internet is not real life, sir (do not mistake respect for submission), nor do I believe it is indicative of how real life interactions tend to occur. This is the opinion of an individual who ingests online interaction to an unhealthy extent, so much so that their entire worldview has been molded by the experiences of others’ online, and not their very own exposures, experiences, and environment. The internet is (and has always been) a double-edged sword that has become increasingly more sharpened on the negative side and increasingly more dull on the polar opposite of said word due to extremist positions being both presented and perceived as normalcy (due to false anonymity and lack of an equal and opposite reaction) when it just is not the case. An easy way to gauge this is the amount of disrespect and hatred that is espoused today online that simply would not be espoused, nor fly, in actual life unless you are an individual that will accept and welcome both sacrifice and consequence despite their rhetoric, beliefs, or actions i.e., integrity (a characteristic the people in this world has always lacked but now has tremendously regressed).
As for your usage of the term “woke,” I admittedly find it humorous how history tends to repeat itself, sir. This is a term derived from the Black man (and woman) that reside within the United States and has always meant to be privy of the social, economical, and political injustices, exploitations, and degradation the Black man continues to face. However sir, your usage is more aligned with the White man’s, the White man’s profound and documented history of co-opting, hijacking, and perverting idioms that originates within the Black masses and turns their colloquialisms from phrases that are primarily meant to uplift, enlighten, and establish brotherhood — into expressions delegated to denigrate, insult, and shame. This is a gross and outright disrespectful perversion the Black man knows all too well, especially within the States; does “Black fatigue” ring a bell? This is nothing new sir, this is history repeating itself over and over and over again. I suggest you educate yourself further, sir, we all can — and do — continue learning until our time has come to cease.
The first paragraph of this diatribe gets it wrong right off the bat. This anonymous writer says, “This is the opinion of an individual who ingests online interaction to an unhealthy extent, so much so that their entire worldview has been molded by the experiences of others’ online, and not their very own exposures, experiences, and environment” without knowing anything about me and my personal life. You must understand that I have a wide group of close friendships (some of them many decades long), and I have a job in SALES which puts me in constant contact with people of all walks of life. So yeah, I’m not spending all of my life online.
As an English major, I definitely understand the importance of etymology and classical origins of words. I also understand (particularly with English) how words mutate as societal composition changes. For example, Merriam-Webster’s 2025 “Word of the Year” is “slop”, which has apparently gained a new definition in the age of AI. Word usage changes, and it doesn’t always carryover previous definitions when it does.
Sure, the word “woke” has its origins from another time, but I was using the current definition of the word the West has adopted, namely this: “Today, the term carries highly polarized meanings, used positively to signify progressive awareness and activism, but often used pejoratively by critics to dismiss progressive or left-wing ideas as excessive or performative.”
Women have largely become “woke” and hypersensitive to any actions or statements they find violates their personal space/values. I’ve seen Men jailed on false charges simply because a woman was pissed off. I’ve seen Men fired for accidentally brushing up against a woman.
Alec Baldwin mentioned this horrific new atmosphere in an episode of Comedians In Cars Getting Coffee with Jerry Seinfeld:
So yeah, I pretty much stand by my point here.
And it goes on:
“Men are afraid to even touch a female because they start crying rape. It’s stupid.”
This is simply not reality, sir. I understand man-on-man sex gravitates towards and invites rougher, more primal, and less emotional sex (I prefer my sex that way as well) but your assertion of the implication that women do not want the romantic advancements of men is false, sir. Your claim that considers the affairs today have studies conducted upon them already, and they tend to show women both want men to approach them still and they have become increasingly more individual and career oriented. This, in turn, makes men that lack self confidence, have had bad experiences, or are consuming unhealthy, unrealistic, purposefully extremist rhetoric from “manosphere” grifts online both grow a disdain for women and begin to consider the alternative — a faggot — to satiate their sexually frustrated desires.
I’ve never suggested that women don’t want Men to approach them. However, as I elucidated above, women now have countless new social roadblocks and unnatural standards that make such approaches by Men either incomprehensible, annoying, or even dangerous.
Before I get more flak, here’s what I mean by “unnatural” – women are naturally supposed to be more submissive than Men. But in the new enlightenment (sarcasm) women want to pretend like they’re equal to Men, except whenever they want the benefits of being submissive. You’d have an easier time figuring that out by reading tea leaves. It’s insane how far off track women have gone over the last 20-30 years.
As you correctly point out, this is one reason why Alphas of all kinds seek out faggots, because faggots still offer them what they really need: worship and service. It’s such a simple thing, but the implications are tremendous.
Men and Alphas are simply not going to go without what they want, need, and deserve simply because females have abandoned their natural position in the pursuit of autonomy. These days I’ve seen more Men put in jail by vengeful women and weeping in jail over the loss of their children (and/or more women abandoning their children) than I ever imagined I would, and these new realities show just how far off society is from Natural Law.
I lay a vast majority of the blame for this societal collapse at the feet of “modern” females and their unnatural choices. They simply no longer appreciate the critical role they’re meant to play, preferring instead to indulge in selfish desires. That’s why faggots are going to win many of these contests, because we still do appreciate it.
So I don’t know where this leaves us. I suppose at an impasse. I’m not changing my mind.
