Hey! Thank you so much for helping all men, fags and alphas, with your knowledge and accessible platforms.
I’m a 30yo happy and highly submissive faggot. But I always struggle with not knowing the answers to the following question.
How do you approach close-minded, 100% straight, young (+18) but very basic (in tastes, general knowledge, activities) Alpha types you find on the streets?
I come across these profiles in the street (I live in Spain), usually with friends, they come from sitting in the park, smoking joints, laughing and talking, with a natural cockiness, but I know that by culture or social appearance, they know nothing of this world and surely they will find “gay” (disgusting) anything that comes out of basic standards or commonly “heterosexual” interactions or actions between individuals of the male gender.
And it makes me want to offer myself, but surely I run the risk of getting beaten up or robbed, I would not know how to do it and even less try to do it with the maximum probability of achieving my purpose, to serve. Or if directly I should not try, it is better to look elsewhere or in other ways to avoid a high probability rate of failure and live a worse experience or contrary to the expected?
In short, I do not know how to correctly identify opportunities on the street, nor do I know how to make approaches or simply how to offer myself.
And no, I’m not looking for my pleasure, I’m looking for his, because his is what makes me happy and gives me pleasure. And no, I’m not looking to just eat his cock (although I would love to), just knowing that I can do something that gives him pleasure without being hit on or robbed would make me feel useful.
I am sorry if my message is confusing or if it has already been answered, I have spent hours on your site but I have not been able to find the answers I am looking for to this/these questions raised, probably because I am not smart or savvy enough, my apologies.
I am grateful for any help I can get in this regard. Thank you very much for everything!
Brother, thank you for writing.
You have a very common concern, one so common that I’m toying with writing a small ebook explaining it in more detail. But I’ll give you some help here.
In simple terms, you really want to start offering to submit in ways to Alphas you already know in your life. Why? Two reasons: (1) You’re not experienced enough to approach strangers with offers of service yet, and (2) Alphas you know will be more likely to use you, and more likely to treat you kindly if they aren’t interested.
So you think of one or two Alpha friends you’d like to serve, and you start doing extra things for them. Find ways to be useful, buy them gifts you know they want/need, offer to do chores like detail their cars or whatever. Speak to them in respectful language (call them “Sir”, etc.).
They will notice this change and eventually ask you why, which will give you an opportunity to explain the difference between you and them.
Alternatively, you can ask a question like, “Do you consider yourself to be Alpha?” This can lead into a discussion of Hierarchy (you might even show them the pinned post about Hierarchy on this site).
But I want you to understand this: Alphas understand what you are and they understand Hierarchy naturally. They aren’t going to beat you up or hurt you, especially not the ones you personally know. So don’t be afraid. This is a very natural thing, and Alphas are just as much a part of it as any faggot. You’re simply trying to find fulfillment, and they’ll realize it if you do it the way I’m suggesting.
Good luck brother!
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