Hi brother Sam, fag Andrew here and I had a friend of mine who is also gay change over the last year let me explain. So, my friend of mine let’s call him Peter just because I don’t have his permission to use his real name online he tries to have a mostly private life. I known Peter for around two years and I always seen him as an alpha male we talk, I served him before and for a brief time I was owned by him but due too life getting in the way it didn’t work out. He’s in his mid twenties and it’s been around a year and a half since I talked to him. Now within the last week I reached out to him and meet up with him to see how he was and I realized something changed his spoke lower, his muscles wasn’t as big and he shaved his body hair from what I saw which before is something  he never would have done, and most importantly before he would flirt with me in a dominant way but now I don’t feel any alpha masculinity coming from him. Sam I’m wondering is it possible for a an alpha to fall into faghood?

Thanks for writing! First of all, you don’t really know what’s going on with him, right? You’re just guessing based on some outward signals. Just wanted to get that out of the way.

The answer to your primary question is YES, some gay Alphas can present themselves as Alpha (and may even thoroughly believe it) and then suddenly switch and become bottoms or faggots. (I will add that this happens almost exclusively among gay Alphas). Why does it happen? Well, among gays role assumption is pretty haphazard and fluid. A gay male’s role within the relationship often depends highly on the role tendency of his partner. 

Since Alpha hierarchy is so clearly defined and fiercely defended, a gay Alpha might find himself partnered with a much more dominant Alpha and forced into service through sheer will. Other times a gay Alpha thinks he’s Alpha because of many possible misleading factors, but when confronted by a true gay Alpha, the false Alpha breaks down and accepts he’s a faggot rather than an Alpha.

This actually happened in real-time on FWA right before I reported to prison. “Master” Bruno was living as a gay Alpha and actually owned a faggot named Giovanni. However, Bruno met a true God Alpha named Juan one night at a bar. Master Juan instantly knew what Bruno truly was, broke him down, and claimed him as his faggot. And Bruno has been serving Master Bruno ever since (their story has an update that is still pending). 

So that was a long-winded answer to a pretty simple question. Hope it helps!  

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Hi Sam, I don’t know if you remember me or not but this is the faggot that has the coworker who contacted it on FB randomly and sent a bunch of photos of himself in European type swimwear.

Well I had planned on wishing Him a happy Thanksgiving and I did and we chatted briefly but He said he was at a huge family gathering so I backed off quickly saying I didn’t want to interrupt, and left it at that.

A couple days went by and we’re back in the work week and we both happen to be traveling, Him somewhere warm and He contacted me again. He said he was tormenting old ladies walking around in His suits. He even sent me pics of the two He brought with Him and was wearing. I was obviously very complementary and flat out told Him He is sexy AF (He really is too, He’s a part time fitness instructor, toned, large defined muscles ugh, delicious!). He thanked me and I slipped in a couple of “Sirs” into the conversation. Most of it was extremely suggestive without being graphic but I was very complementary more so than any straight guy would ever be. At one point I even said I think He likes torturing me while I’m at work and can’t take care of the little problem He created and He laugh reacted to that. He actually laugh / heart reacted to a few statements.

So how should I proceed do you think? Should I flat out state that I’m a faggot and ask to serve Him? Or should I see where He leads thing? Or something else all together?

Thank you for the help, I’m not very experienced doing this sort of thing, but I want to get better and better and treat Him the way He deserves to be.

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION. 

Brother, thank you for the follow-up! 

It sounds like this Alpha continues to torment you (whether it’s on purpose or not, we don’t know) and you continue to vaguely flirt with him. So largely the situation is still the same as last time, right?

There are still unresolved problems. This guy is (I’m assuming) still religious. And also, you don’t live anywhere near each other anymore. So this sort of flirty cycle is going to continue until either he just loses interest or you finally break the stalemate.

I think you should push his buttons a little bit harder. Show him the stick post “What is Hierarchy?” at the front of this site, or the “Letter To An Alpha” in the sidebar. This will force him to confront reality and make a decision. 

If he rejects you, then at least you know this and can move on. But if he doesn’t … well, that’s where things might get interesting. 

It’s worth a shot.

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Hey Sam, I also wanted to thank you for all the content you put out there. Even though sometimes it can be a bit much for me, you changed my life. I’m one of those people that always had a tight grip on life and wouldn’t let loose. But I always had that very submissive side of me so a few years ago after I bumped into FWA, I decided to give it a try. It’s funny to think about it now but I remember thinking okay, then I have to make my pussy nice for alphas so I started working out my ass which grew quite easily and then that transformed into a full body routine. Nowadays, I get a lot of attention for my ass and men assume it’s just always been like that. You also taught me to be more daring, I remember back then after reading your content I started paying more attention to who might be an alpha and when I was in the gym showers I found one, jumped into his stall and he face fucked me until he came. Since then, I’ve served straight alphas and gay alphas as a cocksucker and just have learned to not only let men use my ass but I’ve become pretty good at milking them with it.

Oh, I also approached the straight alphas around me in a flattery way which then grew into friendships. That influence made me cooler since I had to keep up with them. So now, I don’t really bother having non alpha men in my life since other men usually don’t do well at work, socially nor at life in general. I’ve learned that if the alphas put you in their team, you’ll likely succeed and they’ll build you up or you’ll grow just from being around them. It so funny because alphas really started liking me after I started showing service towards them even platonically.

Nowadays, that all has become second nature and I can gauge relationships better. You helped me release my sexuality and that made me very confident. There’s a certain power that came with living out my faggotry that I don’t quite understand but thank you for all that.

Well thank you for the compliments and the experiences you shared! I’m glad that What I’ve taught you has helped you. I love that you went to work on your body so diligently and achieved results that helped you get attention from Alphas! That’s the kind of humility and dedication that is necessary! 

Your strategy of cozying up to Alphas and developing friendships with them is something I have naturally done my whole life without really ever thinking about it. When you mentioned it, I smiled with the thought that I have always developed strong relationships with successful Alphas and served them in whatever ways I could organically. It’s been a key of success for me, and it sounds like you’re the same!

Thanks again for writing!

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Hi Sam, I hope you’re having a great day.

I am 20y.o. fag, from Spain, and I seem to have kind of a problem but I don’t see it like that, and I just need a wise advice.

I have come across a lot of alphas, older than me, whom I have liked and have given me truly moments when I am enjoying my best ‘fag life’; however, they seem to dislike me when I get into my brat attitude, but it doesn’t come out of nowhere.

I have noticed that the doms I have encountered are so decided to get you, to own you, to dominate you at first, and then… they just become a dead body on the couch giving orders, and I am like… ‘you know that I’ll do anything you ask me, can you just… I don’t know, move? go back to be that man that was obsessed touching me and enjoying me like the object I am’.

Am I the drama? HAHAHAHA thank u! xoxo.

Brother, life is not like porn. You want to have wild sex and be used constantly and treated like a hot sex object all the time, but everyday life doesn’t work like that. Men have lives, jobs, taxing issues on their minds, and (if you’re serving older Alphas) less stamina and energy when they’re older. 

You think it’s supposed to a whirlwind of sex and orgasms and cum flying everywhere, but that’s not realistic. Moreover, the real magic of the Alpha/fag dynamic isn’t just with sex … it’s in the everyday service and submission of a faggot to its Master. 

So yes, you and your bratty, self-centered attitude is the problem here, but you’ll grow out of it.

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Hi sam,  i want to thank you for bringing your site back and giving giving a voice to faggots like myself. So many of us feel alienated and alone. As for myself, i have always struggled with similar emotional, physical and financial issues. The posts from faggots voicing to their struggles are powerful and helpful. It may be difficult and unconventional, but it is fierce how so many are taking matters into their own hands and making their lives better.

Thank you brother for your kind words! I like highlighting faggots who have overcome repression, poor self-esteem, and fear in order to find fulfillment. I’m grateful to ones like you and the other brave faggots who have lent their examples!

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Hey Sam, I’m a faggot from Aus I’m 21 years old about a year ago I had a sub/dom relationship with a dom we both got along and only spoken online for a year but he knew all my limits and safe words prior to us meeting I arrived and everything was going well until I kept saying my safe word and he didn’t stop I got to the point where I froze and saying my safe word and stop I left and blocked him on everything but I haven’t been able to have the courage to put myself with a man or a dom since so I guess my question is am I overreacting with my last dom and how should I get over it, thank you for making a beautiful platform I do agree with your views.

It’s impossible to answer this since you told me nothing about the encounter. What was happening that caused you to use a safe word? Did he rape you? Did he pass go without paying $200 in Monopoly? Because I don’t know what happened, I can’t tell if you overreacted or not, right? 

My gut tells me you did overreact, because this Dom took his time with you, indicating a thoughtful approach on his part. But without the information, I hesitate to venture a firm guess. 

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People seem to need titles for everything so I do not know where I fall in,sub slave or what. I was trained in 1985 my trainer called me piggy1 I was his first to train as a pig. I was tought that I had free will that he did not  want to tear it down but build on that. He said that The person that I am is part of being a pig. I had to learn to accept who I was what I was and what I be used for even the good the bad and those basic primal feelings. I serve a Handler I live my life I am skilled in pleasuring That is what I am used for a pleasure pig so I serve I please and Pleasure my Handler. I have done so for 6 years He is my husband my Handler and I am his pig.

I do everything freely  and willingly. So My question is what am I. I mean I have gone beyond what my trainer taught me. I have a dom side that I use at time but I rather serve more than anything. So what do I fall in. I am a pig I am called still piggy1 My Handler said why retrain me I do everything I was trained as. Piggy1

Many subs want all of these different titles to describe their own particular fetish or interest. There are faggots, pigs, objects, slaves, etc. 

I use the term faggot because it is a more all-encompassing term denoting both inferiority and servitude. The term also ties into the bullying aspect of what we are as inferiors and that need we have to experience that. 

In my philosophy, faggots are all equal in a general sense. I have recently had an epiphany regarding faggot hierarchy, and I’ll be releasing that soon. 

As far as you are concerned, you’re definitely a faggot … but faggots have different skills and uses. There are faggots who serve in a piggy way, and that would be you. I wouldn’t obsess over it much more than that, brother. 

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I do admire your work and all the effort you put on this website, but I have a feeling that you only talk about Alphas and Faggots. What about the middle? Your hierarchy model has several other layers. Could you please talk more about Betas? I am 19 years old, I am very attracted to powerful man, but I don’t see myself submitting and becoming property of an Alpha. Am I a Beta?

Sorry if I sound rude, but I’m in a conservative Catholic family and it’s really hard to find material about that. When I finally find someone gay they want to fuck and breed me as submissive bottom, but I’m not sure if this is what I am.

You’re absolutely right, and I’m always conscious of my overlooking beta males in my coverage. I think part of the reason for that is that betas are generally overlooked in LIFE, and that’s not fair because beta males have done amazing things. Think about someone like Mr. Rogers, surely a beta male, and how he transformed the lives of generations of children. Many great scientists and musicians are betas. It’s funny but while I was locked up I sketched out a video highlighting famous beta males! I haven’t gotten around to it yet, but it’s coming!

As for you, the answer to your situation is still up in the air because you’re young, and because most people are attracted to powerful Men without being faggots. I created a book titled “Are You A Faggot?” which is designed to walk the reader through a questionnaire to help them figure out if they are a faggot. That might be a place to start. The book can be found by following the link in the Book Store section of this site. 

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Do you think it’s possible to be a faggot if the only submissive thing I do is findom? I’m not submissive in any way in real life, except I absolutely love – and feel it’s a purpose and duty of mine – to send money to straight men. I feel they deserve mine more than me.

Thanks for the question! Yes, of course you can serve as a faggot solely through findom. 

But let’s be clear: the way you’re approaching findom is going to leave you only partially formed as a faggot. You’re treating findom, not as a means of fulfillment, but as a fetish. True faggots in findom are wholly devoted to serving a Master through financial means; it consumes their life and informs every decision they make. They aren’t treating Alphas like strippers in a seedy nightclub that exist to sexually stimulate the patrons. No, they’re serving these Men because they are actually superior.

I will add one more observation: your particular situation hints at deep self-loathing. You say you don’t feel submissive in any way in your everyday life, but you feel like straight Men deserve your money more than you do. So your emphasis isn’t on the fact that they’re superior, but rather because they’re STRAIGHT (which in your mind means superior). Don’t you see what that’s saying about your perspective about yourself?

I don’t mean to insult you at all. I actually said more than I intended to, but I felt like I needed to put that out there, too. I hope you understand.

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I need your help, as all my friend could not understand the situation I’m in.

I have been in a relationship with my ex boyfriend for few years, for at least the last 3 years i became more and more a sub for him, even his slave, his toy…

We succeeded to deal with both relationships quit well (dom and boyfriend) for a while, but now, unfortunately we cannot be boyfriend anymore (it’s more about our future than about feelings). I was the one breaking up with him. But we have continued to see each other few times since because we couldn’t resist the envy of fucking together again…

And I just love being his sub, it feels so natural and i can’t resist being on my knees worshipping him.

Here is my question :

Should I continue serving him, even though it might keep us/me in the past, now that we don’t have a love relationship anymore? We are leaving quit far away so we just see each other during some short period, few weeks now and there…and he doesn’t want for me to serve him if I see other guys. Also he would like me to remain caged…

I am 21, should i give up on this quit dysfunctional relationship and try to find an other alpha i can serve for life as I am still young ? Or should I remain at his service because my true purpose is to serve Alpha, no matter what sacrifice it means for me?

Also, he is very dominant but also very loving (mostly after sex) and likes to hug kiss etc… I’m worried there are still love feelings in this relationship, which would not be healthy both for him and my self but in the mean time when i say i’m serving him, i should not choose how… If he wants to use me by hugging and kissing, i feel like i should do it like I do for every other wants he has. I’m not sure my text is very clear but I hope you will get the point… And sorry for my mistakes, I’m not native English 

Thanks for the details. I’m sorry things are falling apart between you and your Master. 

It seems to me you’ve pretty much already answered your own question. Like you said, it’s not healthy to continue a pretense of a relationship, romantic or service relationship – given that your lives are naturally moving apart. This is part of the struggle of youthful relationships like this one. Life gets in the way often even in the best circumstances, and remaining on the same track is always a challenge. 

In my opinion, it’s silly that you would be bound by this Master’s rules if most of the relationship is dead. I mean, are you supposed to remain sexless and single the rest of your life, devoted to a Master who is never around? When does this contract end?

You guys need to move on. If you want to hook up once in a while, that’s fine, but this idea that you are bound to him in a service relationship (and even wearing his cage!!) is just dumb. He will find other faggots, and you will find another Master. Hopefully you both will find situations that work better for whatever life you each build. 

Just not together. It happens. Move on. 

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I think this is a philophical question for everyone… but don’t you think aging is much worse for fags and women than it is for Alphas? I am 45 and my straight male friends and even my gay top friends seem to be dealing very well with his age. My female and fag friends, including myself, are always suffering about getting old.

I am almost giving up on finding a true Alpha willing to own me. I’ve met hundreds and 99% of them just want me as a cash fag or for domestic service. Sometimes it seems that for every Alpha around my age that could use me as a cumdump there are already 50 tight 18-year-old twinks ready to seduce them. The last time I had a date, the Alpha took me to his place, and when I finally had the chance to serve me he put NextDoorTwink on his phone and watched while I sucked his dick. I felt miserable afterwards. Do you have any thoughts on that?

Brother, I appreciate your sincere thoughts. It’s true … we faggots (and females) have a shelf life. Alphas don’t, nor do Men in general. I realize that doesn’t seem fair, but it’s reality.

So we really need to come to grips with what really drives our faggot nature. Are we only a faggot because we get off on the hotness of nasty sex? Or is it about something deeper?

Do we yearn to be used … or do we yearn to be useful? 

I’ve known older domestic faggots who were eventually used sexually; you see, their faithful, high-quality domestic service earned their Master’s affectionate attention over time. But even if we aren’t used sexually, can we still find ways to be useful to Men and be owned by them? ABSOLUTELY. It’s all a matter of mindset, brother.

So stop making yourself miserable by trying to be the hot 20-year-old faggot you once were and failing. Men aren’t looking at you that way anymore. Make them see the other valuable services you can offer them, and you will likely find service rewarding again. 

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Hi Sam!

First, I love you and your content <3 everything you do is so special, I wish I had a friend like you to talk about my life and questions.

I am 22 from Uruguay. I have always felt very submissive at school whenever other boys told me to do something. I feel a natural urge to obey and I’d rather not taking big decisions over my own life. I met a wonderful man a few months ago, he’s 30, very good-looking, smart, and successful in his career.

We don’t use terms like Alpha and Faggot, but he is clearly the one giving the rules. He took my virginity in August after a very romantic date, and since then he has been fucking and breeding me very often, at least 3 times a week. He knows how to be a Man and give the orders, but he’s also very sweet. He taught me how to suck his dick, how to ride him, how to look sexy in doggy style, etc.

My only problem is: he refuses to suck my dick. He told me that he hates the feeling of a dick in his mouth and will not do it just to please me. He likes to rim my hole and it feels amazing, but I really want to feel a blowjob too.

Am I being selfish? Should I just forget about it? How likely do you think it is to find a big strong intelligent Alpha like him willing to suck my dick before fucking me? I don’t mind being a submissive bottom for him, but I am really curious to have the feeling of a warm mouth on dick too.

Thank you little brother for your message!

Congratulations on finding a Man (an Alpha) to serve and worship! I imagine it’s not easy in your country to find someone, so I’m very happy that you’re happy! This Alpha you’re serving sounds incredible and truly perfect for you! 

You may not use the term Alpha and faggot in your country, but that doesn’t mean the roles don’t apply. Men are the same everywhere, and they generally want the same things.

I’m just going to tell you plainly: your Alpha is NEVER going to suck your dick. Alphas in general don’t have even the slightest interest in sucking dick because the act would emasculate them (make them less of a Man). Why would an Alpha EVER suck a faggot’s dick. Ewww … I was disgusted just typing that!

You really need to stop asking him for that, because it could drive a wedge between you and him. Just accept that you are his faggot, his property, and do you best to serve him. 

If you really need to have your dick sucked, then I suggest you go find another faggot willing to suck it. However, I think you will find it much less exciting and less fulfilling than serving your Alpha. 

Hi fag Sam,

Let’s call me Flynn (anonymous purposes). I have always been attracted to masculine and muscular men and I have tried submission but it just didn’t work for me. But in my head, it sounds like a great idea. I’m very sensible to touch, which means it’s hard for other people to get into intemacy with me. And on antoher hand, I always felt like I’ve always been a top, but I’m a very socially anxious person, so I dont’t feel very confident just even showing myself.
I’m working on getting fitter, but I know this is not the only way I can improve my self confidence. Do you have advice ? And do you know how can I explore being a top and a Master (since I also feel like I need to be desired and worshipped) ?

I’m sorry if it’s not very clear but I really wanted to talk it out.

I’m intrigued by your question. I cannot escape this nagging feeling I’m getting from your words … let me explain.

I think I might be the only person in the Hierarchical space to accurately chronicle the phenomenon I’ve dubbed “Alpha Latency”. I’ve dealt with multiple cases of it, and have even helped “cure” a couple of Alphas who were suffering from it.

And I do mean suffer. You see, Alpha Latency occurs when a natural-born Alpha is convinced that he should be a bottom or at least reciprocal. Many times this “convincing” comes from early childhood trauma or molestation. Due to this conditioning, the Alpha does things that go against his natural programming as an Alpha (like bottoming or sucking dick) and it makes him deeply unsatisfied. This lack of satisfaction then leads to even more confusion and unhappiness. 

You sound suspiciously like a Latent Alpha. These desires you kept mentioning in your question (about submission not being satisfied, or wanting to be desired and worshiped) make me think your true Alpha nature is trying to break free and lead you to happiness, but it’s being blocked for some reason. 

I do think you desperately need to try and dominate a faggot. Try receiving worship and service. Get verbal, get aggressive. I bet something gets triggered in you if you do. 

I’m curious about your reaction to this advice. Please give me some feedback if you can. Thank you!

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I’ve been fucking women and gays for some years, but I have never had a bisexual threesome. I had a threesome with two bottoms once, and with two women three times, but never with a girl and a bottom. I think this is the only topic where it is easier to convince straight and bisexual women than faggots. I have already came across hundreds of girls willing to be fucked alongside a faggot, but fags usually get really uncomfortable when I try to fuck their boy pussy and a female pussy at the same time. Are fags that allergic to women, or am I just picking the wrong fags?

Keep up the great work. Your effort for both Men and fags is extraordinary. I jerked off to your posts countless times.

Master, thank you so very much for writing to me! 

I think you might be picking the wrong faggots, Master. Certainly, there are some fags who are intimidated by female pussy because they feel inadequate … after all, a straight or bisexual Man is likely more attracted to a female pussy (also: TITS).

But I have known multiple faggots who have served Alphas alongside the wife/girlfriend of their Master and did just fine. It does help if the faggot can become friends with the female (like gal pals) so that they both can work as a team for what is (or should be) most important to both of them: serving their Alpha. 

I’m sure it’s frustrating to you Master because you want what you want and it’s been difficult to find, but I have no doubt you’ll find the right faggot! 

Thank you again for writing and for reading/masturbating to my content, Master! That REALLY encourages me! 

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Hi Sam, I sent you a question yesterday about the presents my Alpha insists to give me. Thank you very much for you thoughtful answer!! I am back here to tell you that his morning I showed your answer to him while he watched the news. He chuckled, and said “good to know your friend understands it, now come here.” Then he put his dick out and told me to worry less about his presents and more about his cock. Of course, I sucked him until he came in my mouth.

From now on, I won’t complain anymore. Your answer and his attitude were what I needed to understand that there are Alphas and Alphas. While some of them want cash fags, others will spend their money on us to feel their power on us. At the end of the they, it is all about their power and pleasure. Faggots just obey.

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Oh brother, I’m so happy to hear this! Thank you for taking prompt action and proving to yourself that my words were true! I’m proud of you! 

Please also thank your glorious Master and Owner for setting a tremendous example of benevolent, loving power! I’d love to interview him or feature his stories on the site if he’s willing to share. If not, I’m grateful to have had a glimpse of his glory! 

Thank you both!

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Ever since Chasity my clit has been getting weaker and weaker. It’s harder to goon/jerking and the only useless part is having my ass used by men

Good! You shouldn’t be gooning and jerking off. You’re supposed to be SERVING.

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Hi Sam, I re-listened to your podcast #236 from a couple of years ago.  I guess some people might think of it as rapey. I do not cuz:

As you said on the website, ( I loved your write up on it) my holes and my life are in service to my MASTER, and he decides how and when and where and by whom I get fucked.

Also, as I explained and you concurred, it’s true that I was asleep and woken up in a rough (some would call is violent) manner but I have come to expect this as they are ALPHA MEN, it’s their nature, as you point out. Now when it happens, I’m not surprised, just happy! I still do not get the frequency of this that Devin does but it makes it more special for me when it does happen.

Also once the daze and shock and initial pain of being woken up and instantly and deeply penetrated wears off, as I said, I get into it big time and I’m so happy I earned the honor of being cunted by MASTER REX. It feels so fantastic with his seed inside me – I am so happy afterwards! When it happens now, I am still very fulfilled and I can tell he really likes being rough and brutal with me.

but then sometimes, like when he cunted me  last Tuesday night – it was much less brutal- a bit loving, actually, as he pounded me he kept saying what a good faggot I was and how I made his cock happy. I was thrilled!

First of all, I encourage everyone reading this to listen to the podcast episode Tim references: Hierarchy 236: Cunted By Force

Tim! It’s sooo great to hear from you! I’m also glad to hear you’re still owned by and serving a great God Alpha like Master Rex! 

 I dealt with some trouble over that episode and my coverage of your “rape”, with people accusing me of excusing or endorsing  rape. I don’t give a fuck what they think. I’ll stand by the truth against the entire world if I must, and I’ll certainly defend you to my last breath, my brother.

You and Devin must be serving very well for Master Rex because he hasn’t expanded his direct stable of faggots in a couple of years. Of course I don’t know what kind of living situation you have with him, either. I just have this vision of Master Rex as an Alpha with many faggots tending to him and servicing him day and night. 

If I dig into the archives I might be able to find that original post I made about you and your situation, but then again I don’t know that I’ll find it. That makes me sad, because yours was such an inspiring story. Thankfully the podcast is preserved, and we can move on from here. 

I hope you will keep me updated, my brother! If you have stories you’d like to share from the last couple of years, I’m all ears! My email address is hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com or the old one, fagsworshipalphas@gmail.com.

Thank you my dear brother! 

Love,

sam the faggot

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Sam, I was coming home on a plane from Thanksgiving and at the gate waiting for my flight I saw a father with his 16 year old son. This kid was beautiful — a short fire plug –  built like a high school wrestler or gymnast — definitely a jock — but a total pretty boy.  A mop of thick black hair framing a ridiculously handsome face that bordered on pretty. Perfect porcelain skin too.

He had on big headphones and was wearing only a blue  T shirt,  grey sweats and sneakers. But  he was built — big jutting jock butt, muscular arms and torso. He radiated a kind of swagger mixed with arrogance that you could tell he was popular at school.

Anyway, I was trying not to stare. (I’m not even into young dudes, I go for older manly alphas) but I was fascinated  (and I guess turned on) by how this kid looked and carried himself.  I was trying not to stare but at one point he caught me looking. He instantly looked away but something must have registered w/ him because a moment later he looked back at me to see if I was looking.  I was.  An odd kind of smirk crossed his face.  And what happened next kind of astounded me.  He started casually stretching — like when you warm up for the gym.  Rolled his neck, stretched his back out.  At one point he stuck out his ass, as if he were stretching out his quads – his big bubble butt straining in his sweats right near me.  He didn’t look at me.  At one point he lifted his T shirt as if absent mindedly scratching his stomach — revealing perfect 6 pac abs. He even flexed his bicep a few times, as if checking them out for himself.  I thought I was going to die. It was all done so casually but I couldn’t help feeling he was doing this for my viewing, That he knew I thought he was hot and he was putting on a bit of a show.  While we were on line to board, he did look back at me once more before he turned away. We didn’t sit near each other but in baggage claim he looked at me a couple times across the luggage carousel. His look was direct now, harder, as if the fact that he would never see me again made it safer. It seemed to me that his look was now saying something like “Faggot. I know you’re a faggot.  You think I’m hot, don’t you faggot?”

It all left me breathless for all the obvious reasons but also it got me thinking – Alphas don’t just materialize out of nowhere at 21! At 15, 16, maybe even younger, these kids have to know who they are, know the score in some sense, don’t you think?  Any thoughts on this?

YES, Alphas absolutely know who and what they are at a young age. Not all of them are as worldy-wise as this Alpha, but they know they are different. This is why I have always said that Alphas are BORN THAT WAY.

They also LOVE the attention from ANYONE, especially at that age. They’re just learning about the great power they have and the power that comes with their sexual presence, so they like to use it in ways like this kid did in order to see how sexy they really are.

When you’re that young and good looking and built, you receive more than the usual attention and the compliments of adults and it goes to your head a little bit. You start to realize how certain things you do turn people on and make them melt; it’s like discovering you have super powers. And these behaviors of manipulation you’re learning become a way of life.

I have a couple of classic examples of this. Corey Haim and Justin Bieber were both ridiculously good-looking at age 15. And they learned that certain things they did turned girls on and made even adults swoon; Haim had that lip-curling smile, Bieber had that shy-pout. And they just grew up knowing how to control people to get what they want.

But again, they were born Alpha … but then that Alphahood is molded and shaped by their interactions with others and their reactions to those interactions. Who knows how many girls and faggots that young airport Alpha had teased and seduced before he used his power on you, but it’s safe to say he did know what you are. He was born to know.

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Hi Sam, how are you doing? I’m from Brazil, 32 years old, and I’ve been a long-time follower of your site (FWA). After your absence, I noticed the site went down, and honestly, I was devastated… it was a true oasis of information and content about the Hierarchy for me. It was the first site where, when I read it, it became crystal clear to me what I truly was: a submissive faggot.

To my joy, this week I “rediscovered” that the address has changed, but you’re back! Welcome back!

I’ve always thought about writing to you, and today I finally took the initiative.

You know, Sam… I’ve always admired virile, masculine men. I rarely have sex with other gay men, as my arousal comes from being used by a brute specimen (and the gay men I know rarely are). I have a normal life, I’m not out, but whenever I can, I go to certain gas stations (popular with truckers spending the night) and bars (I look for the ones with a higher proportion of men). In these environments, I easily find the kind of man that excites me: rough, rugged, ogre-like, macho, virile, and most of the time, needing a hole to stick their cock in and have some fun.

I don’t have mannerisms or a voice that easily identifies me as gay, but in these environments, I always try to wear tight jeans that really show off my huge, round ass. I get absolutely ecstatic watching the men there looking at me curiously. Some even try to approach me. Sometimes a simple conversation happens. But my biggest difficulty, Sam, is getting them to realize what I truly am – without exposing myself to too much risk – in these environments. Would you know how to help me?

Thank you so much,

From your big Brazilian admirer.

Brother thank you for writing and for your support over the years! 

I wish I could say there is some copy/paste solution to your question. It’s not difficult to chat with an Alpha (even though you might feel nervous) and help him to see things in a new light (including you).

Be complimentary, particularly about his body. Doing this helps him focus on his sex appeal. Then steer the conversation toward questions about Hierarchy in order to help him start thinking about his place within it. Simply ask him: “Do you consider yourself to be Alpha?” This is a seemingly-innocent question, but it’s loaded implications about his own self-worth and power. From his answer to that question, it’s relatively easy to begin a discussion about Hierarchy in general. 

Other methods involve buying him something you know he wants or can use, like supplements for workouts, or a new briefcase, or whatever. Or ask him to get a drink or got  to dinner, where you would pay. 

I’m just spitballing here, because much depends on the situation. 

I don’t know if you read that recent experience I published here where a faggot used my “Letter To An Alpha” to score with an Alpha. I’ve also written a book “May I Serve You Sir?” that’s designed to be given to Alphas. 

I’ve created tools for a reason. It just takes a faggot willing to TRY and use them. That’s my advice to you: TRY. 

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Hey brother, I served a man for a few months and he decided to turn me into his boyfriend. I accepted and moved in to serve him 24/7. I’ve been very happy serving him so far. I cook, clean, do the laundry, and suck his dick every single day. But there’s one thing that bothers me. He loves giving me presents: flowers, clothes, new IPhones, fancy dinners, international trips etc. He always pays for everything. I told him that he doesn’t need to, but he always says that his father taught him to be a Real Man and Real Men must provide their girls with everything they want. How can I show him that I am not his girlfriend? I am his faggot and I should be paying for his things, not the other way around. I want him to own my bank account, and instead he doesn’t stop giving me extra money to buy clothes and look sexy for him. I already showed him this website and even explained what findom is, but he continues to say that he has a dick and balls, so no fag or girl will ever pay 1 cent for him. My guess is: He had 3 relationships with women and they took advantage of his generosity, I am his first faggot, so I think he’s struggling to understand the difference between me and the other spoiled girls who took thousands of euros from him.

Brother, I think this is a first. I’ve never had a faggot write to me upset that their Alpha won’t stop lavishing them with gifts! 

I don’t mean to tease you, but you know it does sound a little weird. However, I do understand your issue. I have a TERRIBLE time accepting ANY gifts from people. I prefer to get my stuff myself, and I HATE asking for help. It’s especially hard to receive gifts from our Alphas, for the reasons you mention in your question.

However, there are some incredible Alphas out there who truly value their subs/faggots. If they have the means (as your Alpha apparently does), they will spend ridiculous amounts of money on what is essentially their servant. 

You must keep in mind he is not trying to buy you, or guilt you into service. He genuinely cares about you and is grateful that you serve him and submit to him. Some Men struggle to express those things in words, so they speak them in gestures and gifts. 

And “express” is an intentional word here, because he is expressing a real desire in his heart. He NEEDS to express these things, because he WANTS TO. 

Here’s a little story from my life: My first real Master was a straight Alpha named Aaron, and I was unworthy to lick the impressions of his feet in mud. Inside, I felt absolutely unworthy of his every compliment, his every tender gesture. Then one weekend I had to fly out of the country, and I was petrified of flying. I also hated leaving Master Aaron unattended. But I went anyway (of course). When I returned, there were a dozen red roses on the kitchen table and a note from Master Aaron telling me how proud he was of me. And I broke down and cried. 

There are truly astounding Alphas out there who want to show their faggots that they’re valued. It’s important to THEM to do that.

Your job as this Alpha’s faggot is to please him and make him happy, right? That’s what you want to do, right? Well then, stop complaining about his gifts. It makes him happy to do these things for you. He WANTS to do these things for you … he NEEDS to do these things for you. Deeply appreciate your good fortune to be owned by such a powerful, successful, and tender Alpha! Kiss his feet every day and thank him for his benevolent and merciful kindness in allowing you to serve. Make him feel like the King he is! 

(BTW, if he has an extra grand or two lying around, ask him to send it my way! I could use the help!)

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