Fag sam 
I am an Alpha Male who has bred cunted and owed fags for a while. This is a wonderful site. Truthful and enlightening. I have a two part question. 

Part One – I have had fags rim me and it is always thrilling. Knowing a fag is back there running his tongue over my asshole gives me power that is unmatched.
However I have noticed a trend were Alpha Males are rimming the fags they are using. What are they getting out of rimming the fag? Does the fag get excited about this? Should this be something I give to the fags I use? 

Part Two – I have one fag that has been with me for six years now. I have noticed that it’s pussy has taken on more of a slit look (like a woman’s pussy) over the years rather then a round hole like mine. Is this something you see happen to fags? Does this happen all the time? Over time or are there fags that just have that look? 

Hope you can give me some answers. Master Beck 

Master Beck, it’s a profound honor to have you on the site and sharing your experiences with the world! I’m sorry about the delay in my response, Master! I’ve been dealing with an extraordinary and absolutely unwarranted life situation. One more month to go!
 
Let me answer both intriguing questions at once:
 
1. I’m glad that you mentioned the unparalleled power you receive from having your asshole licked, Master! I’ve been telling straight Alphas that very thing for decades, and every one who tries it tells me it changes their life!
 
I think Alphas lick their faggots’ pussies for the same reason why they lick female pussy: it prepares the hole for penetration. For a faggot, that preparation could be critical depending on the size of the Alpha’s cock.
 
2. Of course faggots love to have their pussies licked, but for different reasons. It feels good, but it also humbles the faggot. It reminds them of their place. I know I get embarrassed when an Alpha licks me, because i feel like I don’t deserve that. 

Faggot pussies do develop slit-like contours after extended use. I wrote about it in a post titled “Boy Pussy.” You can read that here: https://hierarchyuniversity.com/boy-pussy/
 
Master, again i thank you for writing to me! I’d love to talk to you in more detail! Please write to me at hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com!

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Hi Sam, I am a recently discovered fag. I am in college, and I didn’t know I was a fag until my roommate came back from the bars super drunk one night and forced himself on me. I always thought he was attractive and cool because he really is, but I didn’t think it was sexual. I thought I was just jealous of him. But when he forced himself on me something snapped and everything felt right. I didn’t know he even fucked guys to begin with but it was pretty obvious he’s an alpha and from reading it’s very clear I’m a fag. From that point on he completely took over the room and even had me doing his classwork whenever I could. I am completely head over heel in love with this alpha, as he cunted me soon after that night. Unfortunately he didn’t care at all about classes and he’s flunked out. He lives like 11 hours away, and I don’t know what to do because I’m so very attached to him.

Brother, congratulations on discovering this truth about yourself! I’m glad this Alpha helped you to find this out, even if he did it forcefully.

I’m wondering – are you indicating that he no longer lives with you? Did he already return home?

Here’s what you need to do: you need to contact him and tell him what you’ve discovered thanks to what he did to you. THANK HIM. CALL HIM SIR. If you need to, send him to this site to explain it further (although I’m sure he already understands). Then humbly tell him that you have a deep need to serve him. He will get it.

I think all faggots need to keep in mind that Men have an instinctual understanding of the need subs have to serve and worship. They rarely judge us harshly if we approach them in a respectful way. Don’t be afraid! HUMBLE YOURSELF AND OFFER YOURSELF!

Good luck, brother!

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Master Brian here, thanks for the fast reply Sam. You’re right, my brother is the reason where I am where I am today. I love him because he is my role model and we’re each other’s confidante. And I do NOT want to lose or disrespect him. Owning our fags alongside him is out of question, because all I think about is owning him. So I guess then my only choice is to move out and keep a distance between I can rid of these urges. A question, outside of Master Jax do you know any older brother who’ve submitted to a younger brother?

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Master Brian, thank you for responding thoughtfully to my reply! 
 
I’m sorry that this urge is driving a wedge between you and your Alpha brother! Alphas are so much more powerful when they work together as a pack. I really hope things can remain amicable between you both, and hopefully the storm of dominance inside of you can settle a bit. This is a fairly common urge with extremely dominant Alphas in close situations, although one breeding the other as a show of superiority is probably rare.
 
I don’t know of another situation involving Alpha brothers that resembles yours, Master. I’ve had multiple situations involving an Alpha brother and a faggot brother, but those are not quite the same as yours. I’m sorry, Master.
 
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Hi Sam, so I have a question for you basically what do I do?

I used to work with this guy several years ago, even back then he was pretty buff and really good looking even then (he’s gotten even better since) and we ended up going our separate ways professionally but a couple years ago he added me on as a friend on FB. He has chatted me up a coupe time, in a very “how’s life, how’s work,” kind of way. He was also always pretty religious, or at least I got that impression.

We hadn’t chatted in probably 6 months then a week ago he hit me up in the middle of the day on a work day talking about how he was going to miss summer and how he got these European swim suits on a whim when he was feeling brave, and how he’d probably look ridiculous in them. Because he’s a former coworker I’ve always kinda kept the conversation on that level, but that day because it all seemed playful and such I was like “oh I’m sure it’s not that bad, or I’m sure you’ll look great etc.” Long story short he ends up sending me several pictures modeling these swimsuits that basically show his whole ass and leaves very little to the imagination for his package and he is really amazing I have to say.

Anyway I don’t know if he knew I’m gay or not before, but he does now because I got a little excited and when he said some more self deprecating stuff I said something along the lines of “well you just made me pre, so I’m sure you’ll have that effect on others.” (he laugh reacted to that statement) and the conversation kind of tapered off after that. I apologized for sharing too much information to him and the conversation ended with him saying “you’re fine” to the apology.

So I guess my question(s) are these: does he sound like a possible alpha maybe chumming the water? And if so what if anything should I do next? Or should I just wait?

That was like a week ago and we haven’t talked since and I don’t want to do the wrong thing if this was all weirdly innocent. Thank you for the help Sam.

Thanks for the question, brother!

First of all, even if you hadn’t revealed your true nature to him with your little “joke”, I believe he already knew you were gay (although he may not know/understand about faggots). Why do I think that? Because what he’s doing with you I doubt he’s doing with other Alpha friends. 

I tend to agree with your idea that he’s “chumming the water” (very nice turn of phrase!), and I’m sure he liked the idea that he turned you on. Most straight Men and Alphas like to be attractive to others and like to hear how their sex appeal turns others on, even faggots that they don’t have an interest in. 

Here’s my question: is there a way for you to actually serve this Alpha? He’s moved away, so how would that even work even if he was interested in using you? 

The other thing I’m wondering about is how the conversation tapered off after the comment. He may have liked it, but his religious beliefs could make him feel guilty or dirty. 

I don’t really know if this is worth pursuing, honestly, but if you wanted to try you could simply start up a conversation with him and steer it toward Hierarchy. Ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha and see how he reacts.

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Yo Sam, I’m Brian, a 19 year old Alpha. Came across this site only recently and then I saw your post about Master Jax and his situation resembles mine (partially).   Let me start from the beginning. So me and my brother (we’re both alphas, his name is Jason) are about 11 years old apart, so he’s currently 29. He was the one who introduced me to the hierarchy when I was 15. He brought home one of the guys he works with (he lives a separate city than our parents and I moved with him to continue my studies as the schools here are better). And to my surprise, he made the guy worship his feet and cock right there in the living room and told the guy to do the same to me. I’ll tell you, during the whole time he did not use the guy’s name and instead called him ”fag” and told me to do the same because ”fags” only purpose is to worship alphas like us. It felt amazing. That was the start of my interest in hierarchy and since then, me and my brother have had 2 live-in faggots (we had another one, but he moved away due to family problems) whom we use and enjoy whenever we want.   That brings me to my problem, for some time now I keep having these thoughts of fucking my brother and turning him into one of the fags as well. He\’s older than me, but we’re pretty much similar in height. I’m more on the wiry side whereas he’s more stocky and he has an amazing ass (like imagine two perfectly shaped butt cheeks). I could prolly control these urges if not for the fact that he’s naked almost the whole time he’s home. I use the fags we have almost all the time when I’m home, but when fucking them I imagine my brother. Is that weird? Like I know you’ve said before that you don’t agree with incest due to how destructive they can be but how do you get over it? You have had this site up for a long time now so you must’ve come across similar situation?

Master, thank you for writing to me! 
 
First of all, congratulations on your situation! You’re lucky to have had an Alpha brother who was so generous and considerate of you, someone who was wise enough to fully understand Hierarchy at a young age! The fact that you own live-in faggots together is truly a testament to your power and the truth of Hierarchy!
 
Yes, I definitely have come across similar situations as yours, Master. Whenever the power dynamics within families are combined with the natural power dynamics in Hierarchy, the results are often combustible. This is especially so when it involves Alphas, who are Kings in Hierarchy and are keenly aware of position.
 
I suppose you can try to get your brother to submit to you, Master, but it’s likely to be one hell of a fight. And if you lose … Well, you might not like how that turns out. You really need to decide how important it is that you dominate him, as opposed to ruling alongside him. 
 
As a faggot, submitting is natural for me. But for Alphas, it’s nearly unthinkable. In the case of your older brother, he’s the one who guided you to your own Alphahood. Do you really want to disrespect him that way? Do you really need to?
 
I hope you think hard about those questions, Master. You sound like a good Alpha, and I’m sure you’ll come to the right conclusions!

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I’m a half black, half white sub-bottom married to a very vanilla non-dominant top who has no idea I’m into being dominated with raceplay. I have chatted with a local white dom who wants to own me and use me. But, I’ve never had sex outside my relationship (unless phone-boning counts). Part of me wants to do it to serve a master who understands my place in society. But, it’s obviously wrong to do this to my husband. Can you help?!

My first question is this: if you knew this Top wasn’t what you needed or wanted, why are you with him? People, if we are getting into relationships with others, we need to go into them honest with ourselves and honest with our partners.

Which leads me to the second point: you haven’t discussed your needs with your boyfriend. You say he’s “non-dominant” and that might be true … but by not even talking to him about it, you’re robbing him of the chance to even try to be the type of Man you want. 

So I think you know where I’m heading with this. I don’t think you should run off behind your boyfriend’s back and serve this white Master. Your boyfriend is trusting you and not doing anything deserving of such betrayal. Instead, go to him and discuss your needs honestly. If he can’t do it, then end the relationship so you can be free to find a Man who will.

And hopefully you’ll also learn from this.

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Hey there. Very new follower here but love the site, been reading/listening for the last few days nonstop. Glad to have found other fags that understand hierarchy and I’ve learned a lot.

You have any tips on making an alpha feel comfortable being assertive and aggressive? I have an alpha that seems to shy away from being too rough with me, despite me telling him I enjoy it. I’m not sure he understands how strong my desire to submit to him is, and that he should prioritize his needs above mine. He says he likes it rough but he is definitely holding back.

Hi brother, thanks for writing.

I’ve gotten this question a few times, and I am also wrestling with this issue with a pre-Alpha friend of mine as well. It seems like such an obvious and easy thing to us as faggots because we have this idea that all Men are cauldrons of dominant aggressiveness. Of course, almost all Men (and Alphas) are plagued by the same insecurities, fears, and societal pressures that we all face. Some Men (like my friend and yours) are just really nice people who genuinely don’t want to be hurtful or selfish. We have to understand that about them, as well as the possibility that it’s simply not in them to be more aggressive.

On the other hand, I’ve also successfully advised some faggots on how to ignite dominance within their Alphas, so I know in some Alphas this timidity can be overcome. My advice is this: stop complaining to him about how passive he is, since this causes anxiety. Instead, ramp up your submission to him. Always seek to position yourself physically lower and at his feet. Become more subservient and agreeable. Rub and kiss his feet. When he fucks you, put yourself in the most submissive positions and make him feel like he’s a sexual god.

In other words, make him feel like a King. What I’ve seen happen is this type of deep submission brings out the hunting instinct in Alphas, and eventually they’ll want to pounce. Now this isn’t usually something that happens immediately, so you need to remain patient and focused. I’ve seen this approach work, so have faith in the process and hopefully you’ll see success.

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As a fellow faggot I wanted to get your opinion on something. When I use apps for Doms to use me I don’t ask many personal questions. However I was talking to a straight guy on Sniffies and asked for some pics. He sends one with a very obvious ring on his ring finger. I asked if he was married, he was. I then asked if they were open. They were not and I just don’t feel great about that dynamic. We did not end up meeting up and the guy didn’t seem bothered. I have had an Owner that used multiple women and his wife. Even though they didn’t know he was using a faggot at least everyone was aware the relationships were open. Is it unfair for me to ask that the Dom is open with his wife or girlfriend? I feel like it isn’t really a faggots place but it just gives me a bad taste in my mouth.

I understand why your hesitant, brother, and I can definitely appreciate a faggot with a conscience! 

I have served Alphas who were in relationships that were not open, particularly early in my fag career, but like you it started to bother me. Fortunately I then became owned by a few straight Alphas who were either single or informally dating females. That suited me better for sure.

It’s really just a matter of what a faggot’s conscience dictates. However, it’s important to remember that it’s the ALPHA who made the commitment, not you. I wouldn’t beat myself up over it too much. 

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Welcome back! My fantasy to find a master and worship him as a God. Is this happening in real life?

Yes, this happens in real life! 

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Hi Sam! I’ve been following your page for a looong time (years lol) and you’ve been instrumental in me realizing i’m a fag. I did have a few questions that I’m hoping you can help me with, and i’d be eternally grateful for a response:

• I know I’m a faggot. I know i must serve men. However I also have a very successful career and personal life. Is it possible to have both of these things? I’ve been too nervous to serve a Man due to how it could impact my “normal” life, i’ve had online doms blackmail before (non consentually), so maybe i’m just a bit overreacting to that.
• where do I find doms irl? do you have a list of locations you recommend frequenting? I’m not a fan of the whole online thing and much prefer to serve in person and that’s how i think i’d be most successful.

Well it’s nice to hear from a long-time reader! I’m glad I’ve been able to help you find your truth! 

I don’t think it’s impossible to have career success while also serving as a faggot. I’ve managed to do it, and so have other faggots I’ve known personally and online. You might remember my interview with Brian, the faggot who served his Master while also enjoying a successful career. I think the real key here is having a Master to serve full time. This was what I did after several years of being a slut, and it made all the difference for me. I think you’ll find that will be the case as well.

Where to find Alphas to serve? Well, you can always find Alphas to service on apps and whatnot, but you’ll rarely find an Owner there. Honestly, the best path is finding Alphas in your everyday life that you can start submitting to in various ways. Then Ownership develops organically. 

I hope this helps! 

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Hi Sam,

Great blog, it’s helped me realise my beta/fag side and my lust for worshipping alphas.

I need your advice…I had a straight alpha best friend for 10 years. When we became friends, I wasn’t ‘out’. We were very close… going to the gym, going out drinking (him picking up girls) etc.

He was a natural alpha…hot body, great looks, supreme confidence, controlled aggression, and a big cock (he told me and I can verify as I saw it!). He had the pick of women and would regularly tell me of his sexual activities and how women went crazy over his cock. During our friendship he told me numerous times that he knows he is an Alpha and I can tell he enjoys having control over others.

Some of the activities we would do when I was still in the closet involved sleeping in the same bed and aggressively play fighting in our boxer shorts where he would regularly pin me down – I loved it! Frequently, he would pin me down in his boxers by sitting on my chest with his knees over my shoulders, so I couldn’t move my arms, with me ‘pretending’ to struggle while staring at his big bulge. I loved the submissive nature of it and I think he enjoyed the dominance.

On another occasion, we nearly showered together after a drunken night out but he stopped after seeing I was getting a hard-on. Damn!

Anyway, after around 5 years into our friendship, I came out to him when drunk and he accepted me 100%. I was so scared, as previously he had made some jokingly homophobic comments, but he didn’t let it affect our friendship and would often stick up for me if we went out on nights out etc.

Fast forward to around 2 years ago…we went on a night out and we both got very drunk. In the early hours of the morning, we headed back to mine, where he was staying over. I was nearly blackout drunk at this point. He slept on the sofa and me in my own bedroom. Shortly after going to bed, unconsciously, I went up to him while he was sleeping and asked him if he wanted his dick sucked.

He asked me to repeat what I said and I asked him again. I’ll be honest, I thought this was an actual dream that I was having and in that moment I didn’t have any control over my actions. He left my house immediately. The next morning, I apologised – I was devastated. He replied saying that he needed time to think about our friendship etc.

He ended the friendship. I was devastated, gutted and depressed. I lost my closest friend at that point. Anyway, we haven’t spoken in two years. I still think of him most days. I get we won’t ever be friends again but I yearn to serve him even if it is transactional. I was always pretty submissive to him and wanted to please him.

I have often wondered what would happen if I tried to approach him like you have advised on this blog.

Previously he had confided in me that he is a very sexual man and needs frequent service, when talking about problems with his girlfriend (they are still together).

I would love to worship and serve him but I don’t know if I should try to or not. In my eyes, he is a god alpha and deserves true worship. While we were friends, I buried these feelings as best I could but I guess I have lost everything now anyway.

What are your thoughts?

What a heartbreaking letter! I’m so sorry that this happened! 

Sadly, this is always the danger when a faggot offers himself to an Alpha friend. It’s hard to say whether or not the way you offered yourself might have scared him, but he did take some time to think about his decision. That’s tough. 

This Alpha seems like a wonderful Man, very strong and confident. I’m disappointed that he cut you off without much of a discussion. However, I’m sure he did it because he thought continuing the friendship would only lead to pushing you further into obsession. 

I don’t know if there is a way to resurrect the relationship. A long friendship like this shouldn’t be tossed away forever, and I’m sure he agrees with that if he’s anything like I think he is. I don’t think it would be a bad idea to reach out via a message and just tell him you miss him and you’re sorry for what you said when you were drunk. If there could be a way to just talk, I’m sure the situation could be repaired. 

I know you feel embarrassed and scared of him now, but just be tactful and maintain your faith in the friendship you built with him. Keep me informed! 

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Hi Sam – So glad you’re back and able to resurrect the site. Will you be going back and restoring content from the old version of the site? There are some HOT accounts of The Hierarchy that I miss reading about! All the best to you – Faggot Timmy

Brother, thank you for the kind words! It’s good to be back! 

I’m resurrecting things in a better way, more focused on teaching and learning rather than simply being a place for hot true stories (although there are plenty of those coming!). 

As for FWA, I’ve discovered a way to possibly restore the entire database of old stories. I’m not sure about the tech specs to accomplish that yet, but it’s now a very real possibility. In the meantime, I am strategically restoring certain threads from an archived version of FWA because I have hot updates for multiple threads. I want those entire threads to be available for readers.

It’s not easy work, but it’s valuable to me! I’m glad people like you appreciate it, too! 

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Hi Sam,I hope this finds you well,I’m writing today to tell you about an encounter I had with my college best friends straight alpha father-he’s late 40’s married silver fox and a total dilf. Over the weekend I was meeting my college bestie John who I handnt seen in over a year at a restaurant for lunch for a catch up ,I arrived 25 minutes early to get a good seat as it was a Saturday and busy,not long after I arrived johns father Max arrived ,I was a little confused as I wasn’t expecting anyone but John ,he looked me over Cooley barely made eye contact and told me John was parking and would be along soon, he was dressed in a navy blue pinstripe suit and dark black loafers carrying a briefcase ,I asked if he wanted to sit and wait with me , the table only had two seats as I was only expecting John ,he said that was a good idea , I pulled over an extra seat for John but to my shock and delight he spread his legs out and put his feet up on the chair opposite me and his briefcase on the other , “you don’t mind do you boy , my feet are aching from working all day and I don’t want to put my good bag on the dirty floor “ I was to stunned to speak and said not at all , where should I sit I said , there were no more free seats available , right here and he pointed to a spot on the floor next to him , I sat next to him totally in awe of his power and dominance over my faghood , he didn’t even know it , I sat on the floor next to him and people stared by I didn’t care I felt oddly at home , after a few minutes he asked me to order him a cappachino , I waited expecting him to offer cash or card but he didn’t -I stood up and made my way to the till and ordered his coffee paid for it and brought it to him , I thought he might reimburse me but he didn’t , he simply grinned and said good boy , I took my place next to him on the floor and soon John arrived , he had been parking the car , John was confused why I was on the floor , his dad said “beats me, I think he’s comfortable there “ I was flustered and said yes that’s right , Johns dad moved his briefcase off my now seat and asked me to hold it for him during lunch , I obeyed snd held it all throughout lunch , johns dad was in a rush so left after 40 minutes -he had been spending time with John as they don’t see each other often ,that’s why he was with him ,during lunch the conversation was pleasant and nothing out of the ordinary but at one point max did start talking about how his feet were aching and he was looking to get a massage and specifically foot rub on the city later that day and looked right at me , I was turned on and fantasising about his big manly sweaty alpha feet , max left 45 mins in to lunch to go back to work and I was hanging with John but thoughts of max never left my mind , as he was leaving he made me hand him his briefcase fetch his coat from coatservice (John was in the bathroom at this point) and as he was leaving said it was nice to meet you boy and left , I haven’t stopped thinking of him since -Sam do you think max was exerting his dominance and superiority over me? I want to contact him and ask about serving him and his feet but I’m unsure how to or if I should do it ? He hasn’t left my mind and he dominated me mentally that day -what should me next step be and how should I approach him ? Thanks -Kyle

Hi brother! What a breathtaking experience with this straight God Alpha father! WOW! Very powerful experience! I’d like to commend you for how you reacted to Master Max’s power and authority! Some faggots might’ve become unglued or angry/insulted, but you did very well. Perfectly, really.

To answer your questions. YES Master Max was DEFINITELY exerting his dominance and superiority over you! Isn’t that blatantly obvious? Not only was he exerting his dominance, he was doing everything except claiming you right there on the spot! He wanted you to massage his feet, and I think you missed that cue. At least, you haven’t acted on it yet.

My advice to you is this: stop reading me and get a message to Master Max immediately. Thank him for allowing you to serve his needs at the coffee shop, and ask him if there is any way you might be of service to him. It’s just that easy. He’s an Alpha with a supernatural level of Alpha confidence, so you won’t need to do anything more than that for him to take the lead.

You’ve just found an Alpha to serve, brother. He wants to own you. GO GET HIM!

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Hey Sam I really love your content! I’m a fag from Italy, 19 y old, and I met a alpha in the gym. He is 25, super hot and amazing, I starting talking about his training and we got closer and closer. I served him in many ways and it took me months to give him a blowjob. His dick is just perfect and I love serving him. However, he refuses to fuck my ass. He says that this is too gay and he would never fuck a male ass. How can I convince him that fucking my boy pussy is not gay? I already suck his dick quite often but I really want to feel him inside my ass. Thank you, Sam!! Your work is amazing

Hi brother! 

Congratulations on finding an Alpha and working your way into providing oral service for him! You’ve followed the plan perfectly! It does take some time to convince a straight Alpha that it’s safe to let you service him! 

I do understand your desire to be fucked by him, but not every Alpha is interested in going there. Let’s face it: ass fucking is somewhat taboo to many people. It’s just not that appealing to everybody. 

You may not like my advice, but I think it’s accurate: be satisfied with the service you’re being allowed to perform. There are many faggots who never get the chance to suck a straight Alpha, and might never get that chance. You’re one of the fortunate faggots who worked my plan perfectly and is gifted with the chance to suck a straight Alpha’s cock. Just be happy with that, continue to be submissive and eager to please, and hope he will change his mind. 

Hi Sam – great to see you back. I won’t ask about your experience as a fag in the place you’ve been as I’m sure it was what a fag would expect in such a place. I’m sure you’re thankful to be out.

I’m a fag too, and have been for a few years, having developed from a sub to a sex slave to a fag – at least I’m nearly there. Your site, testimonials and advice are what many of us have been badly needing in being our true selves.

I was happy to read that you also have a small dick – mine is only a 5″, thin pencildick (if it gets hard) – 1″ in its natural state and, while I know that all fags don’t have small dicks, it is certainly part of my makeup as one (a sub, a slave and a fag). Like you I wear chastity devices (generally when being used for sex, bit recently more often outside of that).

I wanted to ask what part you feel your inadequacy between the legs has played in your faghood?

Also, I know in my head that an alpha doesn’t need a big dick to be the man he is – there is a huge difference between a man with an average dick and a man with a small dick, and in my heart I believe an ‘male’ with a small dick is much better suited to being a fag. What are your thoughts on this?

Jason

Thank you for your kind words! I’m definitely glad to be out and back in my life!

I know there are a lot of people who feel there is a connection between penis size and dominance/Alphahood, but I don’t see that clearly at all. I’ve served powerful Alphas with average-sized dicks, and I’ve known true faggots with huge dicks. I do think Men with large dicks do have a bit more confidence, but confidence isn’t the only determination of Alphahood.

I’m always running up against this question, and some people want to live and die on the “correlation between dick size and Alphahood” hill. I think I’m closer to the truth, but whatever. I’m just not going to tell an Alpha he doesn’t qualify as Alpha because he “only” has a six-inch cock.

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So I’m trying to worship my straight married trainer: some context, I’ve been knowing him for 2 years now and always found him attractive but lately I’ve been wanting him so bad but he is married so I never made a direct move. A couple of times I message him on IG and reply to his stories saying “alpha af” i call him “sir ” when i get drunk I message him likenat 6am or 1 am saying hey , this is so send a message that I’m interested bbecause those are odd hours Last month I paid him 150$ to come train me at home and I was planning to just ask to blow him but I never got the courage . When I texted him saying he looked good in his shirt and his outfit was fire and he replied thank you. Another thing he is always posting stuff about being Christian like posts that say jesus is king etc he literally has Jesus christ is king in his bio

I doubt you have an opening here. He sounds like a good Alpha who is being polite with your flirtations because he’s running a training business. He’s married and he sounds pretty religious so I think it might be best to leave him alone.

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Hey Sam! Glad to see you back! Your website was one of the main reasons of me coming to terms of being a faggot and accepting that. During the time that you were away, I was lucky to serve an alpha online for a few months after I found his personal ad looking for subs and then reaching out. I sent him a few photos of myself and he liked them and took me in to serve him.

Our main dynamic of service was he would give me a task, sometimes with photo examples, which I would then photo or record myself doing. He would sometimes take these photos and videos, edit them and put them in an online album and make that album public for people to see for a short time before privating the album again. These photos got quite a few views, not just a few dozen but my first time being exposed got 600 views.

The photos and videos I sent them were really humiliating, they had me naked, riding a dildo and other degrading things. Eventually he convinced me to start including my face which he would then edit out for my online exposure, but the face videos and pictures were for him to use and share with his alpha friends (not sure if he shared edited versions). I eventually backed out of the relationship after one of my family members died and I used it as an excuse to get out of the relationship since I started getting scared of the consequences of exposure, even though he never showed signs of abusing his power. He made it clear he didn’t want me to talk to him again but I sometimes think of going back to him and apologizing so I can serve him again, however I still don’t know how to feel about the exposure aspect as it’s quite scary.

So my question to you Sam is, despite exposure being enticing for some faggots, do you feel like it is safe for an alpha to be able to use exposure as a form of service and where do you stand on it? Have you heard of other examples of faggots and alphas using exposure in service?

Thanks Sam for all your work!

Thanks for the question and the support, brother!

I’m not sure why any Alpha would only want a faggot to serve by submitting pics of itself simply for exposure. I don’t understand the fetish, I guess. Maybe the Alpha was getting off on the power of making you do these humiliating things? No idea.

I do understand why some faggots crave exposure and humiliation of this sort, but in my experience the thrill only lasts as long as it takes for them to cum. Then they feel regret and want to take back what they shared. This is why I stopped doing exposure for faggots a long time ago. I don’t have the time to go search for the material I exposed and erasing it whenever the fag has second thoughts. As for your direct question, I think it’s perfectly safe for Alphas do get involved with exposing faggots. What’s the danger for them?

However, my original question remains: what’s in it for them in the first place? Thanks brother!

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Even after all of these years of serving Alphas and the years spent researching and writing on the topic of Hierarchy and the Alpha/fag dynamic, I continue to learn new things. Some of these discoveries have changed my life completely (like chastity), while others spark a more intellectual curiosity.

The term agonophilia is one of those latter discoveries. I’d never heard of this psychological condition until it was brought up in the “Ask A Question” section of this site recently by a faggot named Chris (CLICK HERE TO READ). The condition involves sexual arousal arising from inflicting or receiving pain and violence. This is largely foreign to me given that I have a natural aversion to violent stuff.

But Chris not only craves this kind of action, he has found three straight, married Alphas who love to inflict pain as much as Chris loves receiving it.

In his original question, Chris asked if I thought he should tell others about the truth of his darker, more controversial interests. I’m glad to hear back from Chris, who gave me this update:

Thank you for your answer. I have since SHARED my learning of this actual term with one of my Alphas that I serve. Two are what can best be described as a Man’s Man, they are not intellectuals who’s response I feel would be who gives a shit as they punched my lights out while feeding me their dicks. But ONE, the one I’ve served the longest, 16yrs, is more introspective and reads a great deal about Psyches and self exploration, and he was equally surprised and interested by this, and unaware there was a term (relating more to the type of Man HE is than the kind of Fag I am). The other two are married and both fathers. This one has a longtime GF who IS aware of me, but only as an friend he’s known for years. She IS aware of his past as a stripper for bachelor-ette parties and the occasional gay event, and that I am Gay, but oc has NO idea of the true nature of what he is to me and what he does to me. I broached the subj of him joining us here and sharing. He was not opposed to it but said he has to think about it, since, like me, he’s never shared this side of himself with others. So we shall see.

I’m really proud of my brother for being honest with others, but particularly with this particular Alpha! By being brave and trusting his Master, he’s possibly unlocked his Master’s greater power and a provided him with a better perspective of Hierarchical truth!

This is what faggots do for Alphas (particularly straight Alphas!). By our honest submission, we teach them about their own power and place within the Hierarchical arrangement. Honestly, there is no better way to serve!

Thanks for the question! Yours is officially the first one on the new site!

I was wondering how many faggots (and Alphas) would respond to that information about agonophilia. I know a lot of faggots get off on being beaten, so I figured some would be triggered by it. As far as your central question, let’s be honest – most faggots are in hiding and are extremely embarrassed about their needs. After all, it’s not exactly something that one brings up at a family reunion or in the work breakroom.

That being said, I am someone who has almost completely integrated being a faggot with my exterior life. I’ve never been shy or socially intimidated, so I simply let people know (when asked) that I’m a faggot. Nervous laughter follows, but then some healthy conversation usually occurs afterward.

But I realize I’m an outlier and not the norm when it comes to this. In the real world, a faggot needs to pick his battles and reveal the truth to those he can trust. That doesn’t make a faggot any less than he is (after all, he’s a faggot!). You shouldn’t feel shame because you’re hiding some part of yourself right now. It’ll come when it’s the right time for you, not for anyone else’s expectations.

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Hi, thanks for writing! 

Yes, those are certainly possible signs of being a faggot. The first one could also apply to beta males, but the second one certainly seems like the machinations of a faggot.

I have written a book to help people figure out whether or not they’re a faggot. It’s called “Are You A Faggot?”, and it’s available right now right here: https://fagsworshipalphas.gumroad.com/l/VmrBwe

Hope that helps! 

Love,

sam the faggot

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