Yo Sam, I’m Brian, a 19 year old Alpha. Came across this site only recently and then I saw your post about Master Jax and his situation resembles mine (partially).   Let me start from the beginning. So me and my brother (we’re both alphas, his name is Jason) are about 11 years old apart, so he’s currently 29. He was the one who introduced me to the hierarchy when I was 15. He brought home one of the guys he works with (he lives a separate city than our parents and I moved with him to continue my studies as the schools here are better). And to my surprise, he made the guy worship his feet and cock right there in the living room and told the guy to do the same to me. I’ll tell you, during the whole time he did not use the guy’s name and instead called him ”fag” and told me to do the same because ”fags” only purpose is to worship alphas like us. It felt amazing. That was the start of my interest in hierarchy and since then, me and my brother have had 2 live-in faggots (we had another one, but he moved away due to family problems) whom we use and enjoy whenever we want.   That brings me to my problem, for some time now I keep having these thoughts of fucking my brother and turning him into one of the fags as well. He\’s older than me, but we’re pretty much similar in height. I’m more on the wiry side whereas he’s more stocky and he has an amazing ass (like imagine two perfectly shaped butt cheeks). I could prolly control these urges if not for the fact that he’s naked almost the whole time he’s home. I use the fags we have almost all the time when I’m home, but when fucking them I imagine my brother. Is that weird? Like I know you’ve said before that you don’t agree with incest due to how destructive they can be but how do you get over it? You have had this site up for a long time now so you must’ve come across similar situation?

Master, thank you for writing to me! 
 
First of all, congratulations on your situation! You’re lucky to have had an Alpha brother who was so generous and considerate of you, someone who was wise enough to fully understand Hierarchy at a young age! The fact that you own live-in faggots together is truly a testament to your power and the truth of Hierarchy!
 
Yes, I definitely have come across similar situations as yours, Master. Whenever the power dynamics within families are combined with the natural power dynamics in Hierarchy, the results are often combustible. This is especially so when it involves Alphas, who are Kings in Hierarchy and are keenly aware of position.
 
I suppose you can try to get your brother to submit to you, Master, but it’s likely to be one hell of a fight. And if you lose … Well, you might not like how that turns out. You really need to decide how important it is that you dominate him, as opposed to ruling alongside him. 
 
As a faggot, submitting is natural for me. But for Alphas, it’s nearly unthinkable. In the case of your older brother, he’s the one who guided you to your own Alphahood. Do you really want to disrespect him that way? Do you really need to?
 
I hope you think hard about those questions, Master. You sound like a good Alpha, and I’m sure you’ll come to the right conclusions!

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As you might imagine, I hear lots of stories about faggots serving Alphas and the various encounters common when Men collide with sub males.

But this one pinged my interest because it was inspired by Master @DieselDerrick1, the super-sexy mixed straight Alpha I once featured on the podcast. Everyone in findom knows of my love for this dominant young King (who turns 21 on July 13th – HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MASTER!), so it should be no surprise why I’d want to post this experience from a faggot in New England.

I can see how you are smitten with DieselDerrick. Besides having a slamming body, he has a beautiful face and a wonderful personality. Four years ago, I got involved with a guy who looks very similar to him. I first met him when he was 18 and I tried to get involved with him but he said he was straight and not interested.

I lost touch with him for a couple of years and reconnected with him on social media when he was 24. He had did a short bid in jail and was living in his girlfriends house, but they weren’t getting along too well. He ended up asking me if I could help him with some court fines and he sent me a pic of himself totally naked, and of course he had a hammer on him.

I ended up picking him up and bringing him to my house and I sucked him off. He really liked it and admitted to me that he had been sucked off a couple of times by guys and was OK with it. He asked me how I knew that he might be receptive to it and I said that he was an alpha male type and alpha males do stuff like that.

After a couple of months of casual meets, he ended up breaking up with his girlfriend and needed a place to stay. I had to move in with me, and it was great for about five months until his drug use got in the way. He was not a true alpha male, or at least he wasn’t ready to be at his age. Things became acrimonious between us and I haven’t spoken to him since I had him leave.

Every time I see DieselDerek on Twitter I think about my former friend and how great things were before the drugs fucked everything up. There is nothing like having a stunningly good looking young man with a giant cock living with you.

That’s the thing about Master Derrick – he’s the straight stud who feels a bit dangerous, but you know would be so much fun to serve!

But the faggot neatly tied up a couple of lessons from the story above:

My hook up with him was a good example of a fag not giving up on a prospective alpha. After I first met him and was rejected, he was renting an apartment from my company I had to go to the apartment one day and guess who happen to be coming out of the shower with just a towel around his waist. He’s really a spitting image of diesel Derek and from the tight towel I could tell that he was gigantic.

When I was messaging him after we reconnected a few years later he didn’t come right out and say that he was down but I let them know the offer was still on the table. One day he texted me and I said I was up to my neck in work and he asked me if I wanted to be working with my neck, which I thought was hilarious and was a great way to break the ice about him allowing me to suck him off.

That afternoon I had him in my bed totally naked, And I sucked his giant cock like it was the only one in the world. If I could go back and do it all over again, I would use whatever resources I needed to get him off drugs. It’s really tough to submit to a young alpha who is all drugged up all the time.

Those are great lessons to learn! Be patient, be resourceful, be useful, and be resilient.

Oh, and don’t serve an Alpha on drugs.

As a fellow faggot I wanted to get your opinion on something. When I use apps for Doms to use me I don’t ask many personal questions. However I was talking to a straight guy on Sniffies and asked for some pics. He sends one with a very obvious ring on his ring finger. I asked if he was married, he was. I then asked if they were open. They were not and I just don’t feel great about that dynamic. We did not end up meeting up and the guy didn’t seem bothered. I have had an Owner that used multiple women and his wife. Even though they didn’t know he was using a faggot at least everyone was aware the relationships were open. Is it unfair for me to ask that the Dom is open with his wife or girlfriend? I feel like it isn’t really a faggots place but it just gives me a bad taste in my mouth.

I understand why your hesitant, brother, and I can definitely appreciate a faggot with a conscience! 

I have served Alphas who were in relationships that were not open, particularly early in my fag career, but like you it started to bother me. Fortunately I then became owned by a few straight Alphas who were either single or informally dating females. That suited me better for sure.

It’s really just a matter of what a faggot’s conscience dictates. However, it’s important to remember that it’s the ALPHA who made the commitment, not you. I wouldn’t beat myself up over it too much. 

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Hi Sam! I’ve been following your page for a looong time (years lol) and you’ve been instrumental in me realizing i’m a fag. I did have a few questions that I’m hoping you can help me with, and i’d be eternally grateful for a response:

• I know I’m a faggot. I know i must serve men. However I also have a very successful career and personal life. Is it possible to have both of these things? I’ve been too nervous to serve a Man due to how it could impact my “normal” life, i’ve had online doms blackmail before (non consentually), so maybe i’m just a bit overreacting to that.
• where do I find doms irl? do you have a list of locations you recommend frequenting? I’m not a fan of the whole online thing and much prefer to serve in person and that’s how i think i’d be most successful.

Well it’s nice to hear from a long-time reader! I’m glad I’ve been able to help you find your truth! 

I don’t think it’s impossible to have career success while also serving as a faggot. I’ve managed to do it, and so have other faggots I’ve known personally and online. You might remember my interview with Brian, the faggot who served his Master while also enjoying a successful career. I think the real key here is having a Master to serve full time. This was what I did after several years of being a slut, and it made all the difference for me. I think you’ll find that will be the case as well.

Where to find Alphas to serve? Well, you can always find Alphas to service on apps and whatnot, but you’ll rarely find an Owner there. Honestly, the best path is finding Alphas in your everyday life that you can start submitting to in various ways. Then Ownership develops organically. 

I hope this helps! 

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Hi Sam,

Great blog, it’s helped me realise my beta/fag side and my lust for worshipping alphas.

I need your advice…I had a straight alpha best friend for 10 years. When we became friends, I wasn’t ‘out’. We were very close… going to the gym, going out drinking (him picking up girls) etc.

He was a natural alpha…hot body, great looks, supreme confidence, controlled aggression, and a big cock (he told me and I can verify as I saw it!). He had the pick of women and would regularly tell me of his sexual activities and how women went crazy over his cock. During our friendship he told me numerous times that he knows he is an Alpha and I can tell he enjoys having control over others.

Some of the activities we would do when I was still in the closet involved sleeping in the same bed and aggressively play fighting in our boxer shorts where he would regularly pin me down – I loved it! Frequently, he would pin me down in his boxers by sitting on my chest with his knees over my shoulders, so I couldn’t move my arms, with me ‘pretending’ to struggle while staring at his big bulge. I loved the submissive nature of it and I think he enjoyed the dominance.

On another occasion, we nearly showered together after a drunken night out but he stopped after seeing I was getting a hard-on. Damn!

Anyway, after around 5 years into our friendship, I came out to him when drunk and he accepted me 100%. I was so scared, as previously he had made some jokingly homophobic comments, but he didn’t let it affect our friendship and would often stick up for me if we went out on nights out etc.

Fast forward to around 2 years ago…we went on a night out and we both got very drunk. In the early hours of the morning, we headed back to mine, where he was staying over. I was nearly blackout drunk at this point. He slept on the sofa and me in my own bedroom. Shortly after going to bed, unconsciously, I went up to him while he was sleeping and asked him if he wanted his dick sucked.

He asked me to repeat what I said and I asked him again. I’ll be honest, I thought this was an actual dream that I was having and in that moment I didn’t have any control over my actions. He left my house immediately. The next morning, I apologised – I was devastated. He replied saying that he needed time to think about our friendship etc.

He ended the friendship. I was devastated, gutted and depressed. I lost my closest friend at that point. Anyway, we haven’t spoken in two years. I still think of him most days. I get we won’t ever be friends again but I yearn to serve him even if it is transactional. I was always pretty submissive to him and wanted to please him.

I have often wondered what would happen if I tried to approach him like you have advised on this blog.

Previously he had confided in me that he is a very sexual man and needs frequent service, when talking about problems with his girlfriend (they are still together).

I would love to worship and serve him but I don’t know if I should try to or not. In my eyes, he is a god alpha and deserves true worship. While we were friends, I buried these feelings as best I could but I guess I have lost everything now anyway.

What are your thoughts?

What a heartbreaking letter! I’m so sorry that this happened! 

Sadly, this is always the danger when a faggot offers himself to an Alpha friend. It’s hard to say whether or not the way you offered yourself might have scared him, but he did take some time to think about his decision. That’s tough. 

This Alpha seems like a wonderful Man, very strong and confident. I’m disappointed that he cut you off without much of a discussion. However, I’m sure he did it because he thought continuing the friendship would only lead to pushing you further into obsession. 

I don’t know if there is a way to resurrect the relationship. A long friendship like this shouldn’t be tossed away forever, and I’m sure he agrees with that if he’s anything like I think he is. I don’t think it would be a bad idea to reach out via a message and just tell him you miss him and you’re sorry for what you said when you were drunk. If there could be a way to just talk, I’m sure the situation could be repaired. 

I know you feel embarrassed and scared of him now, but just be tactful and maintain your faith in the friendship you built with him. Keep me informed! 

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Alphas love to have cocksuckers service them while they play video games. I dunno why. As a non-gamer, this suits me just fine. I’d much rather focus on my Alpha’s joystick than some stupid video game.

The weird part is how much faggots love to be used like this. It’s crazy, isn’t it? Essentially the fetish comes from a faggot’s natural desire to be reduced to a utility, a masturbation device.

And Alphas prefer that we stay that way!

Hi Sam,I hope this finds you well,I’m writing today to tell you about an encounter I had with my college best friends straight alpha father-he’s late 40’s married silver fox and a total dilf. Over the weekend I was meeting my college bestie John who I handnt seen in over a year at a restaurant for lunch for a catch up ,I arrived 25 minutes early to get a good seat as it was a Saturday and busy,not long after I arrived johns father Max arrived ,I was a little confused as I wasn’t expecting anyone but John ,he looked me over Cooley barely made eye contact and told me John was parking and would be along soon, he was dressed in a navy blue pinstripe suit and dark black loafers carrying a briefcase ,I asked if he wanted to sit and wait with me , the table only had two seats as I was only expecting John ,he said that was a good idea , I pulled over an extra seat for John but to my shock and delight he spread his legs out and put his feet up on the chair opposite me and his briefcase on the other , “you don’t mind do you boy , my feet are aching from working all day and I don’t want to put my good bag on the dirty floor “ I was to stunned to speak and said not at all , where should I sit I said , there were no more free seats available , right here and he pointed to a spot on the floor next to him , I sat next to him totally in awe of his power and dominance over my faghood , he didn’t even know it , I sat on the floor next to him and people stared by I didn’t care I felt oddly at home , after a few minutes he asked me to order him a cappachino , I waited expecting him to offer cash or card but he didn’t -I stood up and made my way to the till and ordered his coffee paid for it and brought it to him , I thought he might reimburse me but he didn’t , he simply grinned and said good boy , I took my place next to him on the floor and soon John arrived , he had been parking the car , John was confused why I was on the floor , his dad said “beats me, I think he’s comfortable there “ I was flustered and said yes that’s right , Johns dad moved his briefcase off my now seat and asked me to hold it for him during lunch , I obeyed snd held it all throughout lunch , johns dad was in a rush so left after 40 minutes -he had been spending time with John as they don’t see each other often ,that’s why he was with him ,during lunch the conversation was pleasant and nothing out of the ordinary but at one point max did start talking about how his feet were aching and he was looking to get a massage and specifically foot rub on the city later that day and looked right at me , I was turned on and fantasising about his big manly sweaty alpha feet , max left 45 mins in to lunch to go back to work and I was hanging with John but thoughts of max never left my mind , as he was leaving he made me hand him his briefcase fetch his coat from coatservice (John was in the bathroom at this point) and as he was leaving said it was nice to meet you boy and left , I haven’t stopped thinking of him since -Sam do you think max was exerting his dominance and superiority over me? I want to contact him and ask about serving him and his feet but I’m unsure how to or if I should do it ? He hasn’t left my mind and he dominated me mentally that day -what should me next step be and how should I approach him ? Thanks -Kyle

Hi brother! What a breathtaking experience with this straight God Alpha father! WOW! Very powerful experience! I’d like to commend you for how you reacted to Master Max’s power and authority! Some faggots might’ve become unglued or angry/insulted, but you did very well. Perfectly, really.

To answer your questions. YES Master Max was DEFINITELY exerting his dominance and superiority over you! Isn’t that blatantly obvious? Not only was he exerting his dominance, he was doing everything except claiming you right there on the spot! He wanted you to massage his feet, and I think you missed that cue. At least, you haven’t acted on it yet.

My advice to you is this: stop reading me and get a message to Master Max immediately. Thank him for allowing you to serve his needs at the coffee shop, and ask him if there is any way you might be of service to him. It’s just that easy. He’s an Alpha with a supernatural level of Alpha confidence, so you won’t need to do anything more than that for him to take the lead.

You’ve just found an Alpha to serve, brother. He wants to own you. GO GET HIM!

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Hey Sam I really love your content! I’m a fag from Italy, 19 y old, and I met a alpha in the gym. He is 25, super hot and amazing, I starting talking about his training and we got closer and closer. I served him in many ways and it took me months to give him a blowjob. His dick is just perfect and I love serving him. However, he refuses to fuck my ass. He says that this is too gay and he would never fuck a male ass. How can I convince him that fucking my boy pussy is not gay? I already suck his dick quite often but I really want to feel him inside my ass. Thank you, Sam!! Your work is amazing

Hi brother! 

Congratulations on finding an Alpha and working your way into providing oral service for him! You’ve followed the plan perfectly! It does take some time to convince a straight Alpha that it’s safe to let you service him! 

I do understand your desire to be fucked by him, but not every Alpha is interested in going there. Let’s face it: ass fucking is somewhat taboo to many people. It’s just not that appealing to everybody. 

You may not like my advice, but I think it’s accurate: be satisfied with the service you’re being allowed to perform. There are many faggots who never get the chance to suck a straight Alpha, and might never get that chance. You’re one of the fortunate faggots who worked my plan perfectly and is gifted with the chance to suck a straight Alpha’s cock. Just be happy with that, continue to be submissive and eager to please, and hope he will change his mind. 

So I’m trying to worship my straight married trainer: some context, I’ve been knowing him for 2 years now and always found him attractive but lately I’ve been wanting him so bad but he is married so I never made a direct move. A couple of times I message him on IG and reply to his stories saying “alpha af” i call him “sir ” when i get drunk I message him likenat 6am or 1 am saying hey , this is so send a message that I’m interested bbecause those are odd hours Last month I paid him 150$ to come train me at home and I was planning to just ask to blow him but I never got the courage . When I texted him saying he looked good in his shirt and his outfit was fire and he replied thank you. Another thing he is always posting stuff about being Christian like posts that say jesus is king etc he literally has Jesus christ is king in his bio

I doubt you have an opening here. He sounds like a good Alpha who is being polite with your flirtations because he’s running a training business. He’s married and he sounds pretty religious so I think it might be best to leave him alone.

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The following post is part of a thread about Master Simon, a 17-year-old Apex Alpha in Sweden who has taken ownership of his faggot father, Algot. CLICK HERE for all posts in this thread in chronological order!

Well, here I go again with another shocking father/son true story. I can’t always help the way these things come to me, so hopefully you’ll forgive me.

Family dynamics are complex even in ideal circumstances. I had an idyllic childhood, and even then there are issues. But when Hierarchical issues come into play, we must throw out everything we imagine about the traditional family arrangement and look at what’s really happening under the surface.

This story opened to me with the following email from a father in Sweden named Algot.

Hii.
> I am 39 years old and my son is 17. When i was younger about 15-18 i was a faggot but then i met my wife and left that wife behind me and got a son in the process my wife sadly died from complications at his birth so i raised him as a single dad. Now my son is 17 and he is a real alpha like the one i used to service back in the day and he has sort of taken over at home. He took the master bedroom and i get to sleep in his old one. He is taking all my paychecks and i listen to everything he says i buy him alcohol because he is only 17.

My son/masters name is Simon. And he bring home girls very often not any other fags that i know of. And i totally support him in everything he does and in anyway i can. He is straight but has used me sexually and as a toilet many times and last week he locked me up in chastity. Is it normal so submit so easy to your own son. (Sorry for any misspelling i am swedish so english is not my first language)

I was, of course, quite shocked by this message out of left field. So I naturally asked Algot if I could speak with his son Simon. A few days later I heard from Master Simon:

Yeah i first realized i was an alpha when a bunch of fags at school did things like buy me snacks or do my homework. And when i realized i was bigger in every way than all the other boys. And i realized my dad was a fag when i say his dick in the gym showers i kind of knew i had some power over him than and i started to do somethings to assert my dominance like dont listen to his rules tell him to clean up after me and when he did everything i said i just said “hey your my slave now i am bigger and stronger than you” and he just obliged.

Whit the sexual thing yeah i think that he should take care of all my sexual need i have not jerked my self of in 2 years he does it all for me. Plus i started face fucking him and i make him eat my ass. I never fuck him tho he does not deserve my dick in his ass.

I never felt like this was wrong in anyway i take what i deserve i dont care if it is my father or any other fag as long as there of the legal age in sweden its fair game.

There was something quite alarming about Master Simon’s dispassionate aggressiveness, especially when it comes to his faggot father. But then when I followed up Master Simon added another surprising fact:

It got out in the school that i use my dad and some boys wanted in on it so i have held some parties were we fuck him together.

I wanted to know more about the mechanics of these other school Alphas fucking his faggot father Algot. Master Simon responded this way:

They’re not really alphas … they heard there was a hole that could be fucked and i let them. i dont care what my dad thinks of it or if he can handle it. its his job do listen to me. And yeah he had fully accepted his role as fag and as slave.

Got any tips on how i can dehumanize him more? i wanna make him an object not human.

I wasn’t really sure how to dehumanize Algot more than he’s already been dehumanized, and frankly I was worried about this situation. Then a couple of weeks later Master Simon wrote me again:

I took some of your advise to dehumanize my father and i came up whit some rules he has to follow
1 when i walk into a room you great me by kissing my feet no matter whos in the room whit you
2 in i am sitting on the couch you should place your self as my foot rest i should not have to tell you
3 you dont eat at the dinner table you eat out the dog bowl
4 do not speak unless spoken too

And it has really work it has been very obedient and is falling more into serving me i feel like i dont need any other fag than him he just so good at it.

I’ll be the first person to say that I don’t think this is a healthy situation. Even though I understand it from a Hierarchical perspective, I still have enough traditionalistic values in me to still think fathers and sons have certain roles and boundaries.

That said, it’s clear Master Simon is not going to listen to me. And it’s also clear that Algot is surprisingly fulfilled as Master Simon’s faggot.

So this post exists as further proof that Alphahood (and its accompanying dominance) starts early and, when presented with an opportunity, takes advantage of any inferiors in its orbit. Even if that inferior is the Alpha’s biological father.

Even after all of these years of serving Alphas and the years spent researching and writing on the topic of Hierarchy and the Alpha/fag dynamic, I continue to learn new things. Some of these discoveries have changed my life completely (like chastity), while others spark a more intellectual curiosity.

The term agonophilia is one of those latter discoveries. I’d never heard of this psychological condition until it was brought up in the “Ask A Question” section of this site recently by a faggot named Chris (CLICK HERE TO READ). The condition involves sexual arousal arising from inflicting or receiving pain and violence. This is largely foreign to me given that I have a natural aversion to violent stuff.

But Chris not only craves this kind of action, he has found three straight, married Alphas who love to inflict pain as much as Chris loves receiving it.

In his original question, Chris asked if I thought he should tell others about the truth of his darker, more controversial interests. I’m glad to hear back from Chris, who gave me this update:

Thank you for your answer. I have since SHARED my learning of this actual term with one of my Alphas that I serve. Two are what can best be described as a Man’s Man, they are not intellectuals who’s response I feel would be who gives a shit as they punched my lights out while feeding me their dicks. But ONE, the one I’ve served the longest, 16yrs, is more introspective and reads a great deal about Psyches and self exploration, and he was equally surprised and interested by this, and unaware there was a term (relating more to the type of Man HE is than the kind of Fag I am). The other two are married and both fathers. This one has a longtime GF who IS aware of me, but only as an friend he’s known for years. She IS aware of his past as a stripper for bachelor-ette parties and the occasional gay event, and that I am Gay, but oc has NO idea of the true nature of what he is to me and what he does to me. I broached the subj of him joining us here and sharing. He was not opposed to it but said he has to think about it, since, like me, he’s never shared this side of himself with others. So we shall see.

I’m really proud of my brother for being honest with others, but particularly with this particular Alpha! By being brave and trusting his Master, he’s possibly unlocked his Master’s greater power and a provided him with a better perspective of Hierarchical truth!

This is what faggots do for Alphas (particularly straight Alphas!). By our honest submission, we teach them about their own power and place within the Hierarchical arrangement. Honestly, there is no better way to serve!

I get so tired of hearing straight guys insist that straight Men don’t use faggots. As they repeatedly tell me, the use of faggots by definition means they are not straight.

Well let me tell you, if that’s the case then there are far fewer straight Men then we imagined.

Most of the Alphas I’ve served in my life either casually or as an owned faggot were straight Men. I never questioned their desire to use me despite being resolutely heterosexual. The only time it became an issue is when I would struggle to contain my jealousy over their relationships with women. And in those moments when my Alphas were forced by me to choose, they always chose their females over me … because ultimately they were straight.

Then I started the FWA site and the Hierarchy Podcast, and I began chronicling many true stories of straight Alphas who use faggots sexually. In fact, the original name for FWA was Fags Worship STRAIGHTS because that was what I knew in my service career. And with every story I covered, the compiling evidence proved my own experience wasn’t an outlier. Straight Alphas DO use faggots sexually.

But don’t take my word for it. Listen instead to these clinical psychiatrists and therapists who have studied and treated many cases of straight Men who use gay males sexually. Not only that, but they have clinical reasons WHY straight Men use gay males sexually.

Here are their professional opinions:

So what should we think about this? Can this circle be squared?

Of course! It’s honestly very simple: straight Alphas use faggots because they love POWER. They love WORSHIP. They love SERVICE.

As the doctors above attest, Male sexuality is more fluid and situational than most of us are willing to admit in public. In my experience, Men will do all sorts of taboo things when they know they’re safe. And Men compartmentalize their sexuality so completely that understanding the complexity of it is like getting lost in a labyrinth.

So I will never agree that straight Alphas don’t use faggots. THEY DO. In fact, I think an increasing number of them are turning to faggot ownership and service. So the time has come to put this issue to bed. It’s proven.

Lots of stupid, insecure straight guys out there insist that straight Men and straight Alphas don’t use faggots for sexual pleasure (particularly head). Now, I know this is wrong from my own experience serving straight Alphas throughout my life, and I know it from the countless examples I’ve chronicled while teaching Hierarchy.

Here is an awesome thread of collected comments from straight Men who admit to using faggots and gays for sexual release. You’ll notice a common theme – they do it for the POWER.

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I’m straight, married, in my mid 40’s and I get blown by guys. The more I look around, the more common this seems to be, but even if not, fuck it. I was freaked out by it at first, and even a bit ashamed, but it’s super convenient, and my wife isn’t into sucking me off, so I’ve got a couple guys that I can hit up for a BJ whenever I want. The visual isn’t so great, but you get used to it, and they have no problem with me playing porn. Pretty clearly, guys who love to suck dick are totally all about providing the best experience, so whatever makes it work best for me is what they want. I think this is why shit like this goes on all the time but nobody ever talks about it. It’s totally hedonistic. It’s all about me and getting the kind of BJ I’m in the mood for, be it a five-minute quickie, or a leisurely half hour or so of getting my brains sucked out.

I probably get 4-5 BJs a month, but the great thing is, it’s all up to me. There’s no real relationship to worry about (though we are friendly), no drama, and if I’m not horny, I just don’t go. No one’s going to call me to ask where I’ve been or if I want to come around today. On the other hand, if I’m going through a horny phase, I could swing by every day and it would also be no big deal. It’s just so straight forward! I don’t have to manscape, or bring flowers, I just have to take a seat and get blown.

Oh, and do I have to point out that someone who really loves to suck dick tends to do it really well? My one guy is gay and he’s all about throat action, he likes to take it deep and massage it with this throat muscles. The other guy is bi and prefers to do some crazy shit with his tongue. Both not only swallow, but love doing it. Neither wants anything more from me and they don’t even try to get undressed. No drama, no commitment, no worrying about it being anything more than it actually is, just a blowjob.

Again, this all took some getting used to, but where the fuck are you going to find a woman who’ll blow you whenever you want and with no hidden agenda? Honestly, it’s fucking great and I highly recommend it! 

Commented by anonymous

Yeah dudes, I feel you.  Hey Secret_Soldier, I’m a new convert.

I like my girl giving me treat. But that’s rare.

But I recently found out, when a guy does it, it’s at a whole other level.

We have our shit set up tight. Nobody suspects a thing.

He lives not far from me.

I can be gaming, watching TV. I just make my call, and he’s there in under 15 minutes to satisfy my cock anytime I ask him.

I don’t feel the least bit guilty.

Sometimes I’m about to head out, and this fucker’s following me around the house, sucking my cock as I’m getting ready.

Then I sit down and let him finish me. I like that shit. I really do.

My girl would never do that.

I travel for work.

Thinking about having him meet me at my places I stay at as a stress reducer.

Commented : by anonymous

Soldier you can post this as a recent convert.

I it was the case of a backfire.

I used to frown on the gay shit.

Served with gay dudes and it opened my eyes.

One day me and this one gay dude had to open a mission detail.

It was around 0430. We got dropped off just he and I.

We had gotten pretty close over the months.

I seized the moment to prod him about him being gay. The shield went up right away, but not for long.

Apologized, but it was just who I am. we got laugh at it he opened up.

It may sound like porn, but it’s the God’s truth, I really got curious. and he called me out for asking him about blowjobs. Like we both arrived at, I am who I am, so ask if he’d like to give me some head.

He initially turned white as a sheet. Told him it was cool.

After a while when I saw him smile.

He made me promise not to tell. I was like Dude, get real!

We took just enough gear off for him to give me the best head I ever had in my life.

He blew me a lot during deployment.

To this day, I have him and 2 other cocksuckers under my belt, who will gladly come and hook me up any time I ask.

Commented Nov 16, 2019 17:13 by anonymous

I’m a married guy best BJ ever was from a guy. Sucked better than any of my 3 wives.

Commented  Dec 28, 2019 06:27 by anonymous 

I’m your average everyday guy, and pretty open minded, but NEVER thought about having a BJ from a guy. But I’m going to confess here that I’ve read enough of these types of posts in here to make me wonder if I haven’t been missing out. I’m actually considering giving this a try. I get the occasional good BJ at home, but it isn’t often I can tell you. On top of that, it’s always a reward, or an act by my wife with a price tag. Never because she just wants to do it for the fun or pleasure for me. 

Commented Nov 18, 2019 10:11 by anonymous

I’m a married man and have a cocksucker that will service me when I need sexual release. He usually blows me one to two times a week depending on my need to get off. Simple arrangement where I can enjoy feeding him my cock either in his home or workshop. I’m well endowed yet he’s more than eager to all of me and do whats necessary to get his reward. My wife gives good head but he gives amazing head and always swallows.

Commented Jan 13, 2018 13:59 by anonymous 

I agree! Like you, I am a married man … The wife hates sucking cock. It’s great to have a local discreet guy who loves to suck cock and lick balls! I just pull my cock out and he’s on it like white on rice! …. Shoot a huge load into his mouth and he’s happier than a kid in a candy store!

Commented Jan 13, 2018 14:20 by anonymous

I’m in the same boat but fortunately I learned the “mouth is a mouth” lesson early on. I love women, fucking love them, but I’m horny a lot and most women out there aren’t into just giving you a BJ several times a week just so that you can take the edge off. I’d liken getting BJs from guys to getting a massage, but somehow a massage seems more involved, and even intimate. Nine times out of ten, I’ve whipped it out and dropped a load in under ten minutes, often under five. Having one or two guys in your life who enjoy sucking cock is a real life saver. 

And you’re right, guys who do it tend to be pretty devoted to making sure their skills are top shelf. While there are some women out there who are fantastic at giving head and give it out freely, they’re hard to find. But finding a guy who’ll blow you on the regular like it’s nothing? That’s fairly easy to arrange. I think tons more guys do this than would ever let on.

Commented Jan 13, 2018 14:23 by anonymous

One of the best posts ever on the benefits of guys sucking guys.

Seriously, if you have never tried getting sucked by a guy you are missing out on a real treat. And if you ever had to the urge to suck a cock you owe it to yourself to try it.

Married men make great casual sex partners. I’ve got two married friends who will suck me at the drop of a hat. Takes considerable pressure off my wife, lol. She would freak if she knew but she benefits from not being pressured for sex all the time.

Commented Jan 2, 2020 14:52 by anonymous

I was hesitant to have a guy as well, but I’m glad I did. Some of the best orgasms I’ve had were in a mans mouth, I’m happy, wife’s happy and the guy is happy. its a win win win situation

Commented Jan 2, 2020 11:52 by anonymous

Right here Bro. I’m a gym rat.

Every gym rat knows you have to beat gay dudes off with a stick from offering you head.

Saw one guy giving me the look one day.

I blew it off (no pun intended).

But still was cordial with the guy talked him up when I was there.

After a workout one day, I was really feeling it. I knew my girl was out of town. Saw the same dude checking me out, started talking him up.

I think he could tell I was down.

I was telling him about a new cardio I was trying, asked if he wanted to swing by my place. He wasn’t there 10 minutes; he was touching my bulge.

I raped the fuck out of his throat.

He doesn’t go to the same gym.

But I can still call him and use his throat when I’m in the mood.

Commented Jan 3, 2020 12:44 by anonymous

This is comletely normal. Guys have been doing this since the beginning of time, we’ve just never really talked about it before. Everybody knows other guys give the best head, it is super easy, no drama and no expectations. Blow and go from another dude is always easier than trying to get head from a woman.

Commented Jan 2, 2020 11:10 by anonymous

I’ve been getting my dick sucked by guys for about 4 years now. I still think my wife gives me the best but they’re hard to come by. I do have to say guys are more eager to suck on some dick. Usually very aggressive, I prefer slow , deep , and really wet. They happily adjust. I differ from you cause I like to return the favor , going back and forth swapping head just gets me going. I don’t even care what they look like as long as they have a nice cock

Commented Nov 12, 2019 09:17 by anonymous

I’m also a married man and use a personal cocksucker on the side. There’s very times when he’s not available to service me and always eager to satisfy me. What I like best is to watch my cook disappear in his mouth as I bury his face between my thighs. What is unusual to me is he loves the feel and scent of my bush in his face. I always assumed male cocksuckers preferred a to suck a smooth cock and balls or is that just for anal? I prefer he take me soft and feel his oral skills as I encourage him to suck my balls and take me deep until he give him gags. When I’m satisfied I’ll begin to face fuck him hard and give him my creamy treat while he jerks off. The beats the hassle of trying to head from a woman especially when sex at home has decreased or none at all.

Commented Jan 3, 2020 10:49 by anonymous

I have been letting men blow me since I was a teenager and I’m 83, I got a blow job a few days ago and white washed the man’s tonsils. I let gay and bi men suck my Italian sausage and never had a women give head the the enthusiams and desisre of a man. I was married 53 years before I lost my wife. That was 4 years ago and she never had any suspicion I prefer men to suck my dick. I’m nor much on fucking a man in the ass, or a woman as I prefer a warm mouth working on my cock. However, I have to admit when I was in my late 40’s a man was blowing me and 2 other married men who happened there at the same time and we all got hotter than a whore in church on Sunday and I sucked on their cocks too. Only done it a few times since and would love a blow job every day if the guys were available.

Commented Jan 6 2020 by anonymous

Surprisingly good head always always comes from boys. Always.

Commented Dec 22 2021 by Hunter

Married alpha here. I have a stable of 4 faggots scattered around Austin that I regularly hit up to service me. When I’m running errands, I hit up the closest one and 99% of the time they say come through. They all have different styles of throating, so it’s really about what I’m in the mood for. I feed them my cock (a couple of them eat my ass too), cum down their throats, and leave. It’s perfect.

My wife gives terrible head and I’ve basically stopped asking for it at this point. I’m converted.

Thanks for the question! Yours is officially the first one on the new site!

I was wondering how many faggots (and Alphas) would respond to that information about agonophilia. I know a lot of faggots get off on being beaten, so I figured some would be triggered by it. As far as your central question, let’s be honest – most faggots are in hiding and are extremely embarrassed about their needs. After all, it’s not exactly something that one brings up at a family reunion or in the work breakroom.

That being said, I am someone who has almost completely integrated being a faggot with my exterior life. I’ve never been shy or socially intimidated, so I simply let people know (when asked) that I’m a faggot. Nervous laughter follows, but then some healthy conversation usually occurs afterward.

But I realize I’m an outlier and not the norm when it comes to this. In the real world, a faggot needs to pick his battles and reveal the truth to those he can trust. That doesn’t make a faggot any less than he is (after all, he’s a faggot!). You shouldn’t feel shame because you’re hiding some part of yourself right now. It’ll come when it’s the right time for you, not for anyone else’s expectations.

Thank you for the question!

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When I began chronicling the faggot Nick’s startling service opportunity with a straight neighbor by using the Hierarchy Podcast as an introduction, I mentioned that I had another story involving Nick. I pushed it aside (as it wasn’t ready yet) so I could accurately cover the rapidly-developing events with the neighbor, but I always intended to get back to it.

This is that other story. It’s a rather melancholy (yet eye-opening) tale about Nick’s relationship with his Alpha Father Tom.

When Nick first contacted me, he wanted my guidance on how to submit to his Alpha Father Tom. I didn’t think this was a particularly good idea for many obvious reasons, and did my best to discourage him.

However, Nick could not be deterred. He was fueled by family gossip stories about his father using faggots in the past.

I found out a lot of history about him from my aunt when she was drunk one night. He cheated on my mom a lot, always took what he claimed was his and was his right. And she let slip that he had several submissive men in his pocket for regular affairs over the years too. He knows what he wants, what he deserves and how to get it. It was pretty much spelled out for me without going totally explicit. I know he cares and wants what’s best for me so I want to build anything around that.

So I thought it might be better if Nick talked to his father and see where he’s at on these issues before completely submitting to him. So Nick agreed to talk to him, and so they met up for a conversation.

A FATHER’S INTUITION

I met with my dad this morning and it went OK. He managed to say enough to me to get his points across without explicitly spelling it out. He basically told me yes he had faggots on the side and he knows he’s an alpha and I’m definitely not without using the exact words. I approached him very submissive with my speech and body language and told him I knew I was not like him, that he was a man’s man and I was happy finding my place as the flip side of the coin.

He got quiet and really serious and told me he had known I was like this for a long time and for a long time was disappointed I wasn’t a man and was also scared about how that could go for me. That’s why he brought me up trying to drill the contrary advice to what makes me a good faggot in the end. He was concerned how I would find myself.

I managed to get the courage to ask him about his past a bit. I asked him “you know a lot Sir, do you have first hand knowledge of people like me?” and that’s when he got a little elusive with his language. He basically admitted that in the past he got what he wanted and did what he wanted with who he wanted that the past was more his business but that I should trust his wisdom and experience.

He’s happy I’ve fallen into line and expressing myself thusly and less worried now that I’m my own adult. but he is content now with my step mom and whatever he’s got going on. When I paid for the food he just said. “right, good boy” and it felt good.

While it wasn’t everything he hoped the conversation might be, Nick was fairly content with the answers he received.

A little relieved and let down at the same time. He made it pretty clear the discussion was over and he didn’t seem like he wanted it picked back up. Just to kind of give me the nod and say, carry on. I would have liked for more intimate info and experiences but it went better than I thought it could.

I was relieved it went that well. I know a conversation like that could never happen with my father. I really admired Nick’s tenacity in the hunt for answers about his elusive Alpha father.

Then the podcast thing happened with the neighbor, and the story about the father temporarily derailed.

But recently Nick spent more time with Alpha Tom, and there Nick found out deeper and more startling information.

I had another conversation with my dad I thought might be worth sharing with you. We got more candid about the topic of subtle training, it ties into my history with him. We started talking about how I’m happier now and relationships and fulfillment and I told him I think I understand what he was thinking when he tried to raise me, and what I really am. I asked him if he knew if he was ashamed of me growing up and he told me he wasn’t that he knew I wasn’t a manly person and that even though it didn’t seem always seem like he believed it or encouraged it that he wanted me to feel content with who I am, just safe. I mentioned that the opposite of a lot of what he went about was the perfect advice and he sort of chuckled and told me he just wanted me safe but he thought he fed me correct info too and he brought up some ways he also sort of trained me to be submissive I sort of forgot about and he was right.

Looking back he did sort of feed me good instructions to be a faggot, but in more subtle ways. He asked me if I had found a man to fill my place with and I told him, “a little, but it’s over now” and he told me, “good boy, I hope you find some more.” He brought up training things around posture, politeness, how to look for people, how to “get small” as he called it.

“Get small” … I LOVE THAT!

He was right though. He taught me to look out for alphas, how to posture myself, how to talk with them, and all that and I never really realized to what extent. I always keep my hands folded behind me, address men politely, and go out of my way for them. He taught me real men are worth the most.

Incredible!

But then Nick had another conversation with his aunt (Alpha Tom’s sister), and she provided even more insight into Alpha Tom’s mysterious past.

THE HISTORY OF ALPHA TOM

I got my aunt drunk and she told me a bit more about my dad’s history, and it’s kinda hot, lol but I still don’t think he wants me like that. But things make sense. Well, the two of them are really close in age and get a long well. They lived together as younger adults and through college so she figured him out easily. She told me he’s never been a one partner person. That he’s never been fulfilled. She’s seen men and women come and go and that the men were always very passive. That she once overheard him go at it. He had faggots up until my younger sister was little. She saw the same one around him for years when they lived together. That he was a classmate that he was “friends” with first but the guy transformed around him eventually.

CONCLUSION

I have been blessed to cover a number of stories involving Alpha fathers raising faggot sons. They never fail to touch me. I guess it’s because I’ll always wonder and never know what my father (who’s not Alpha, but probably sub-Alpha) understood about me being a faggot as a kid.

But this story really hit me in the heart because you can feel a weight of disappointment from Alpha Tom, but also the responsibility he felt to try and help his faggot son in whatever way he could.

Ultimately, this great and wise Alpha did the best he could, and he should be proud of the faggot Nick has become today!

This post is part of a thread following the story of Sir James, a straight married Man coming to understand and embrace the faghood of his beloved son. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

A lot has happened in the past week for Jamie, the faggot son of Sir James. In fact, I probably could’ve broken this up over a couple of posts as it was happening, but I had to make sure that Sir James was in the loop and agreeable before discussing it here.

Suffice it to say that Sir James has truly blazed a new path for fathers of faggot sons, completely redefining what it means to be a supportive and caring Dad. Let’s get into this update in parts:

THE GIRLFRIEND’S MOTHER

You might remember in the last update that Master Bill, the Apex of the three teen Alphas taking ownership of Jamie, had made the bold move of showing Jamie’s chastity cage to his girlfriend at Jamie’s pool party. Understandably, the girlfriend was shocked and (apparently) unamused, because she went home and told her mother about the cage. Mind you, Master Bill did not tell her that Jamie was his faggot. All he did was show her the cage.

The next night the girlfriend’s mother banged on Sir James’s front door, absolutely furious about Jamie being locked in chastity.

Sir James described it this way, in his typical understated way:

We did have a little incident with the Mother of Bill’s girlfriend. She was Karen you know the type who jumps to conclusions before she knows any of the facts. But I was so proud to see Bill step up and stand by my baby boy.

It was much worse than that. 

While the mother raged in the other room, Jamie was hiding in his room texting to me.

Bill’s girlfriend’s mum was over this evening. I am in my bedroom and some how it has got out that Bill has a faggot and it is me. The bitch (Bill’s girlfriend) was telling her mum about the pool party and that I am a perverted because of my cage. Bills Girlfriend Mom is in our kitchen right now. Sam, Lots of yelling.

Then, most heartbreakingly, Jamie added:

I am a pervert for being caged.

There ‘s no reason why Jamie should ever be made to feel that way about his faghood or his submission by some ignorant “Karen” and her cruelty! I’m with Sir James – Jamie’s chastity is BEAUTIFUL!

Fortunately Sir James knew exactly what to do with this bitch.

Dad just told her to take a hike and come back when she had cooled down. Dad just threw her out.

FUCK YES!

THE BREAKUP

Sir James wasn’t the only one defending Jamie. Master Bill was furious about what his girlfriend’s mother did. Of course, Jamie was worried about what this unwarranted attack meant for his relationship with his new Master.

“Do you think Bill will have to pick just one of us now?” asked Jamie right after the bitch left. I really didn’t know what might happen. Here’s Master Bill, a young, straight Alpha who has just started owning a faggot, being called out by his girlfriend’s mother. I know a lot of straight Alphas would’ve ditched the faggot for the girlfriend (in fact, I’ve been the dumped faggot before!).

Not Master Bill!

I received a couple of texts from Jamie shortly after the incident.

Bill just text me. I am going to be his bitch. Bill has finished with his girlfriend.

I was so proud to hear that Master Bill chose his devoted faggot over his close-minded girlfriend and her Karen of a mother! I have no doubt that Sir James’s calm, casual interactions with Master Bill eased his mind and made him comfortable enough to stand up for his defenseless faggot!

DEFLOWERING

As a way to heal any wounds caused by the Karen drama, Sir James invited Master Bill over for dinner the following night.

Jamie was so excited. He bought some candles to decorate his room. He studied the article here entitled The Bitch Position and began practicing it with a dildo. Everything seemed to be ready for something to happen!

The next morning came this:

Sam Bill took my pussy last night! I was born for this!

So then he went into detail about the moment he shared with his new Master:

Bill came over for dinner and I was so happy to see him. We had a nice time over dinner and then I got to take Bill up to my bedroom. I had lit candles and it looked so romantic but he just stood there and said get to work faggot so I got on my knees and got to work.

When I had him hard (which did not take long) He pushed me to the bed and gently pulled down my shorts. I just had my new jockstrap on. He put me face down and I got into position. Soon I could feel his big cock around my ring, then pushing on it. It felt mind blowing! Then before I new it he was all the way in. He said “that’s a good little bitch,” then He then stroked in and out going balls deep. And I would squeal. When he did cum I could feel it deep inside me.

Then when he pulled out I had a reflex action to suck it clean. Bill said that was just amazing and his girl would never ever do that for him. I was mind blowing! He did not stay to long after that.

Before leaving, Master Bill told his faggot to be ready to accompany him to the gym in the morning.

Sir James wrote to me today to give his side of it.

I do believe he may have taken my boy’s virginity last night. As my boy was clearly on a high this morning and could not get to the gym fast enough this morning to meet his master. It is so uplifting to see my boy so happy. He was running about the house like a little girl as Bill was walking up the driveway.  I am so happy that my boy does not resent me for putting him in chastity. And is also taking to heart how important it is for him to find true fulfilment. 

AN ALPHA TAKES WHAT’S HIS

So they went to the gym, but all Jamie came away from during that time was “Master looked amazing.” But Master Bill had other plans besides working out at the gym.

Sam, Bill is coming over to fuck again.

And that’s exactly what Master Bill did! A little while later, an update from Jamie:

Bill told me that I am one hell off a good fuck. He said he needed to dump a big load. He even helped me get undressed and get into position. He put me on my back for part of it and that was just mind blowing! Told me I have to learn to hold my legs up. My jockstrap was all wet with my precum when he left. He cums so fast was all done in less than 20 minutes. I do love to lick his cock clean after he has finished. He is like a god to me. I called him Master for the first time and he loved it.

A GOOD FAGGOT

Jamie received an immediate test of his loyalty to the Master who just deflowered and bred him twice.

Damion just messaged me for service. Do you think I should ask Bill if it okay now? I really do see Bill as my Master now

I left it up to Jamie to decide how to properly handle etiquette in this new situation.

Sounds like Master is pleased I took the time to ask him. Master said blow jobs only for Jacob and Damion.

I’m so proud of Jamie for choosing the correct path as an owned faggot! That was exactly the correct thing to do!

TRANSFORMATION

Through everything we’ve seen with Jamie and his father Sir James, we can know there is a way to raise a faggot son and guide him to fulfillment. It’s not always easy, but peace lies at the end of that pathway.

It becomes quite clear when we consider Jamie’s chastity. When Jamie was originally caged by his father, Jamie struggled against it. Fortunately Sir James stood firm on the side of chastity, convinced that his son would eventually become what he was born to be through consistent use of the cage.

At one point Jamie was becoming resentful of his chastity cage, grumbling to me that his father wouldn’t give him any free time alone without the cage on. I kept patiently reminding him (as was Sir James) that this was the better course.

But it was only when Jamie was finally fucked and bred by Master Bill that everything regarding chastity became clear for Jamie. He said this:

I feel so much better and have a much better understanding of my chastity. I can see how we get to the point that we cannot live without it now. My chastity is all starting to make sense to me now. I do not think Bill would have picked me over his girl if I was not in chastity. Dad and you was right all along It is the best way to show the proper respect to real men and alphas.

I couldn’t be any prouder of Sir James and Jamie for the way they have conducted themselves on Jamie’s journey to find fulfillment! They’ve defended Truth both personal and Hierarchical, even against the ravings of stupid people in the general population.

They’ve chosen the higher, enlightened road, and their lives will be richer for it!

This post is part of a thread following the story of Sir James, a straight married Man coming to understand and embrace the faghood of his beloved son. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

So much craziness has happened to little Jamie, the 16-year-old faggot son of straight father James over the last week that I can barely keep up with it all. I’m going to try to recap it.

Last weekend Jamie threw a big pool party at his house with his father’s encouragement. Invited to the pool party were the three Alphas on his school’s soccer team, Bill, Jacob, and Damion, and their girlfriends. Jamie was instructed by his father to serve everyone at the party “like a good faggot” and perform properly for his Alphas.

So Saturday came, and in the afternoon I received a note from Sir James:

My boy continues to blossom and is busy pools side as I type this and it is so nice to see him being so self-confident and happy. I can see that he is finding himself. And very much being himself.  

I did have a long chat with Bill over life in general and I did bring up the fact that he was indeed using my son. And I just said it is all good with me as long as it is consensual and remains respectful. Bill did say that my boy can’t get enough dick… Which was a little TMI.  

Later I heard from Jamie. The pool party was a huge success in every way imaginable. First of all, Jamie’s Master, Bill, introduced Jamie to his girlfriend and then had Jamie show his girlfriend his chastity cage! I was shocked to hear that Master Bill was that bold at 16 years old! Jamie was slightly embarrassed, of course, but he was also excited that his Master was proudly showing him off.

A little while later, while his girlfriend was sunning herself on the pool deck, Master Bill took Jamie into the shed and had Jamie suck him off! Another bold move!

Later that night after everyone went away, Jacob decided he needed to be sucked off in the living room of Jamie’s house while his parents were out. Right in the middle of the blowjob Jamie’s father James came home and walked past the living room and went upstairs. Jamie noticed, but didn’t stop. Jacob never noticed at all, given that he was in the throes of pleasure.

On Sunday, Damion came over and was ushered up to Jamie’s bedroom for service as well.

I’m quite blown away by the level of trust, compassion, and confidence Sir James has bestowed upon his young faggot son. And in return, Jamie has responded beautifully.

This fact is not lost on Jamie’s parents:

Good Morning Sam, The Misses and I sat out on the pool deck last night as the sun was setting and we were both reflecting on the changes we have seen in our baby boy in just over a week. He has become a happier and more balanced child. And for the first time in years seem to be more driven, From taking pride in how he looks. To getting a part-time job. And taking his service to his Alphas very seriously. 

He seems to go back and forth on how he feels about his chastity. But from what I understand this is normal for the first four to six weeks off a faggot starting off in chastity. And I do tend to agree with you that in the long term the benefits will outweigh any of the challenges. And in the end he will come to understand that this is necessary for him to find true fulfilment.

This is one of my favorite stories on this site. As a faggot with repressive parents, I watch with awe as Sir James instead cares for the needs of his faggot son even when he might not fully understand it.

And Jamie is an intelligent and curious young faggot, too. He’s so courageous, too! Such an inspiration to all of those out there desperate to express themselves properly!

Thank you, Sir James and Jamie, for sharing your lives with us!

This post is part of a thread following the story of Sir James, a straight married Man coming to understand and embrace the faghood of his beloved son. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

I have spent the last few days compiling information from Sir James and also his 16-year-old son as this situation has continued to increase in complexity and intensity. This is shaping up to be one of the most touching and overwhelming stories I’ve ever covered here, one that really speaks to the power of love between parents and their child, and the importance of putting aside preconceptions in order to best help those in need.

In the last post, I discussed how Sir James took the lead with his faggot son Jamie (another faggot named Jamie on this site!) and put the chastity cage on him for the first time. The chastity cage was something given to Jamie by the three straight school Alphas he services all the time.

Of course, these three straight high school Alphas (names: Master Bill, and Alphas Jacob and Damion) are not yet equipped to properly handle the training and maintenance of an owned faggot; they just like the faggot’s throat. So Sir James has had to take the lead in enforcing the rules for faggots, and he’s been doing so with an impressive firmness.

I can see that having a faggot for a son also comes with its challenges. When he got back from soccer practice he asked me to take his cage off. And I had to take the time to explain to him that faggots in my house stay caged and how could he think of disrespecting his alphas in this way. We had an argument and I sent him to his room to cool off for a few hours to cool down. We had a better time over dinner and he asked if he can have a sleepover next week. So I told him that it is fine with it but the cage is not coming off. 

I was impressed at how Sir James tied the cage with respect for Alphas! This should always be the primary reason why a faggot is in chastity, so this was excellent!

Then Sir James upped the ante on the sleepover idea:

Thank you for getting back to me. I told my boy that we will be having a pool party next weekend and he will be hosting it for is mates and their girlfriends, I was thinking it is a good way for me to showcase my little faggot in a very good light and positive way.  I did do a lot of reading on chastity for faggots and your words also reflect my understanding.  It was one of my proudest moments when my boy showed his Alpha his cage and got a loving head rub. As it was for my boy too.  I did tell him about you and that I now have a very good understanding of how faggots think and it is in large part due to your site. This weekend past I do seem to have bonded with my boy like nothing else. So I am feeling very happy as up until this past weekend he was starting to drift away and it was the fact that he is a faggot that he was drifting away.

It made me happy to hear that Sir James and his son were bonding again, healing a rift that secret faghood was causing between them! This is what TRUTH does!

During all of this I started a separate conversation with Jamie (with Sir James’s approval). I was trying to coach Jamie through the things his father was enforcing. Then something unexpected happened – Sir James invited Master Bill (the Apex Alpha of the three using Jamie) over to the house for dinner!

Said Jamie:

We are having Bill over for dinner tonight. My Dad needs to have a chat with him He said.

Then later:

He was talking to Bill by himself for over a hour and all I was allowed to do is bring out beer for them. Dad never has beers with me. My Dad loves him. They never stop talking about sport and girls. At one point Dad said does Jamie give good head, and Bill said “Just The Best “

This was amazing not only because Sir James took the time to get to know the young Alpha using his son, but also because this young Alpha sat down like a Man and didn’t freak out or back down at all. Very impressive!

Around the same time, I received messages from Jamie about new aspects of service:

Sam can you tell me what a good Gym Faggot should do for is Alpha at the gym? Bill and Jacob have told be that I am going to be there gym faggot for summer. They work out at the YMCA four days a week for 1 to 2 hours. Will people be able to tell that I am a gum faggot?

I was so excited to hear about this! I know the faggots in Canada love serving their Masters at the gym, and it helps to keep them in a proper headspace. I knew this was a pretty significant step.

Then Jamie wrote back after his first experience:

My first time as a gym faggot. Being a gym faggot is just the best! I feel so good being useful to my Alphas! I was leaking lots of pre cum for the whole time. And I came away with a bag of sweaty gym clothes. Bill said he expects them back pressed and ironed. And I feel so happy that I am allowed to do this for them. They only call me faggot now and others in the gym could hear them. The thing is I love it. The gym clothes smell so good it seems a shame to wash them. I thought I would be to embarrassed to shower at the gym But it was all good. I feel so safe around my Alphas. I think I am on the biggest high of my life. There socks smell the best. I think I am going to get them some new ones so I don’t have to wash them.

Such a simple, natural way to train a faggot in public, accomplished by two 16-year-old straight Alphas! You can see that these types of roles are so ingrained into Male behavior that it happens without much planning. They just KNOW how it’s supposed to be!

Meanwhile, Sir James was developing a firmer view of chastity and faggot purpose:

Hi Sam, I have been doing a lot of reading on faggots and chastity and especially for teen faggots. And would like to confirm that I have got it 100% right. the rules are very basic. But this is all very new to me. Bill is coming over for dinner and I need to explain to him that he will be the one responsible for milking and some of the cleaning.   

For the best results  

1 The faggot should be in his cage 24/7

2 Cleaning should be supervised so the faggot does not masturbate and ejaculate 

3 The faggot should be milked once a week the cage stays on for the milking  

This is done by massaging the prostate normally one gentle stroke will be sufficient as the faggot should be very horny. 

My faggot is washing and Ironing his Alphas workout clothing and I think this is a very good lesson for him. But I can’t believe he asked his mother to do it, Sometimes I think faggots do not think the same as normal people. 

I laughed out loud at that final comment. It’s remarkable how far Sir James has come in such a little bit of time, isn’t it? He truly understands that his faggot son was born this way and has drastically different needs from other boys. Even more remarkable is the way both Sir James and his wife are supporting their faggot son’s development and improvement as a faggot! Unprecedented!

Then Sir James updated me again with some conclusions he’s come to:

Been a good week and it is nice to see my little faggot grow and blossom. I have kept firm with his chastity and it does seem to have made him a little more of a submissive. His mother has been showing him how to wash and Iron and how to cook and he is so keen to pick up new skills I think he is going to turn out to be a fantastic faggot. I have given some thought to what you said over my boys milking and it something that I will do my self for him till he is out off the house. Because everything I have seen is the the best results happen when the faggot does not get to ejaculate. Had Bill over for dinner this week and he seems like a good guy and we also got to meet his girlfriend when she came to pick Bill up.  My little faggot is acting even more like a faggot the past few days and it nice to see him being himself and feeling safe. 

Meanwhile, the new openness has led to more boldness from Jamie’s three Alphas. I received this series of messages from Jamie the other day:

Bill and Jacob are coming back to my place after they work out today. I want to be the best faggot I can be for my Alphas. I do love it when they hold my head down as I am balls deep it feels so good. I just love how it feels. He was pushing and I would go that bit deeper. Damion came over too. All three on the sofa with there dicks out Good job Mom or Dad was not home! Jacob gave me shit because some off his cum went on the sofa. Sam it was the very best session I have ever had I was on a high for cock!

This morning Sir James cleaned his beloved faggot son. Said Jamie:

Dad took my cage off so I could clean. But he stood in the shower till I was done and put it right back on. I was hopping to get in a quick wank. Dad told me off about it because I am serving three Alphas and it is very important that I show them the proper respect. My Dad is very big on me showing my Alphas the proper respect. Looking back on it I am happy my Dad did not let me cum in the shower. Dad was right again.

When Dad was washing my cage in the sink as I was showering I was thinking he must love me to do that for me.

Frankly, I can’t think of many greater expressions of love between a father and his son than what Sir James is doing to train his son for his future life. He’s giving Jamie self-respect, training, direction, and kindness. He’s allowing his son the room to discover purpose.

There’s no greater gift a father can give his son!

Thank you to Sir James and my brother Jamie for sharing their journey with me!

This post is part of a thread following the story of Sir James, a straight married Man coming to understand and embrace the faghood of his beloved son. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

When I define love between two people, one of the primary ways I think it’s best expressed isn’t with words, but actions. It involves standing beside the person you love and supporting them even when you don’t fully understand their situation or even agree with it.

This is the kind of love that should always naturally exist between a parent and a child. Of course, too many times we see a lack of this familial love in this most sacred bond, especially (and tragically) when it involves LGTBQ children. And really, these are the kids who need that kind of support the most.

So it’s really no surprise that the recent story about Sir James coming to terms with his 16-year-old faggot son and supporting him has resonated to strongly with my readership. Gays (and particularly faggots) are in desperate need of fatherly support and compassion, and the example of Sir James is quite inspirational.

In the last update (yesterday) Sir James told of a trip he took with his faggot son over the weekend where he finally broke the ice with his son about his service to three Alphas on his soccer team.

But nothing could prepare me for what Sir James told me just happened this morning.

Just to let you know how things are moving forward. And thanks so much for taking the time to write back.

I did spend a few hours last night reading more about faggots and the links to chastity. I found caged jock to be very informative if a little weird. It is interesting how it is also better for a faggots mental health to be in chastity.  So I came to the understanding that my baby boy would be safer and become a better faggot if he was to go into chastity.  

This morning my boy came into the kitchen as I was drinking my first coffee and he was all ready to go to practice. And I have to admit that he is a very good-looking little faggot. As he went by me I gently brushed up against him and noticed that he had not put the cage on.  “You did not put your cage on?” I asked. “No I don’t like the idea of it.” “Well don’t you think you would be showing the proper respect to your mates if you put it on?” I asked. “I guess” was his answer. “Go get it,” I said.

He slowly went to his room and came back with it and handed it to me. I could tell he was very nervous. But I said this is for the best. I sat at the kitchen table, Told him to stand in front of me and I gently pulled down his soccer shorts and gently cupped his smooth balls in my hand. The ring took a little time to get his balls through. And with a little KY the little tube slid on his little pee-pee. I have to say he looked very beautiful in his little cage in his soccer strip. My baby boy went to grab the little key for the cage and I said “No I will look after that.”  

The drive to practise was a little tense as I think we were both a little surprised by what had just happened.

I stayed for the first half of the practice and it was interesting to see some of the body language on the pitch now that I have an understanding of the dynamics of the team. My boy opened the top of his shorts to him to show his Alpha his cage. He seemed to smile and give my baby a nice head rub.  

I do worry and I hope I am doing the right thing. 

I mean, WOW. That’s a mind-blower!

In a previous letter I suggested that perhaps Sir James might take the lead in putting his son in chastity, but I thought that might be far-fetched. But I’ll be damned – he did it!

I adore the way Sir James loves how his baby boy looks in his new chastity cage! It’s one thing to participate in helping his son achieve fulfillment, but it’s entirely another to feel joy over it! There is a kind of fractured beauty about a sub male in a chastity cage. I had a very similar experience when I finally met my Syrian boy that involved diapers, and let me tell you it was one of the most beautiful memories of my life. I think I understand where Sir James’s heart is right now – soaring!

I’ve never encountered a real life example of deep fatherly love like this one. It moves me to tears and gives me hope that other faggots might find a similar kind of acceptance.

Thank you, Sir James, for being that surrogate of hope for faggots around the world!

This post is part of a thread following the story of Sir James, a straight married Man coming to understand and embrace the faghood of his beloved son. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

Every so often I publish a story that really triggers my audience (usually negatively). Typically, the stories that excite my readership are the ones involving really awful situations and taboo subjects (I try to cover it all).

But recently I published a truly touching story about a straight married Man named James who wrote to me about his son. He suspected his son might be a faggot, but he wasn’t asking for lurid reasons. Instead, Sir James was wanting to know how to reach his son so that he might properly guide his son toward fulfillment.

Many faggots reached out to me about that story, almost all of them echoing my own feeling – that we wish we would’ve had a father like Sir James in our lives, too! So many faggots are alienated from their parents, and in particular their fathers. Sometimes they are beaten, or even worse, abandoned.

So faggots read the yearning and loving desperation in Sir James’s words and were deeply touched, as was I.

After my first post about this situation, Sir James and I continued to discuss how to approach a planned weekend trip between Sir James and his son. It was clear that Sir James wanted to make a connection on this trip.

Thanks so much for your warm post and support. It is indeed difficult to understand the world of faggots.  

I spent some time reading through your site from what I can see chastity is good for faggots as it helps them understand their true place in the world. 

My boy came out onto the pool deck today and it was very clear to see that he had shaved all his body smooth I did not say anything but it was so obvious to see, He’s a is skinny blond boy but it was clear to see that he had taken the time to shave his body. Do you think this may be something his teammates may have asked him to do? 

He does love to go to soccer practice. And I don’t have a problem if he is becoming the team faggot as long as he is safe and not being mistreated. All I what is for him to be happy and lead a good and fulfilling life. 

We plan to go up to our cottage together this Saturday for some bonding time. And I hope I can better understand my baby boy, 

I immediately panicked because I didn’t know how to advise Sir James about the chastity device. So I explained to Sir James that his son may have shaved his body hair on his own and purchased a chastity cage because he was curious, or it might be something that his soccer Alpha told him to do. This was something that needed to be cleared up if he got a chance to really talk to his son on their trip alone together.

Well, the trip happened a day early, and I heard from Sir James with some surprising details.

Hi Sam, Thanks so much for the advice and you were so right. We had a change of plan and went up to the cottage on Friday because my little faggot did not want to miss Sunday practice.

My baby boy did finally open up to me and it involved a lot of tears for both of us. But he just told me that he liked boys and not girls. And I told him that is all good with me and that he has to follow his heart.

But things are a lot more complicated than I thought he has not been just sucking off one of his teammates but NO it is three of them and very regularly. I was a little shocked and after some general digging it seems that his mates got him the cage and he freaked out a bit and that is why it was in his bag and not on his little pee pee.

I am still trying to process it all and I don’t know what to do next.   

So it’s THREE Alphas on the soccer team that are using his son! That was a bit surprising! I explained to Sir James that there is likely an Apex Alpha who first identified his son as a faggot and started using him, and then introduced the faggot son to his Alpha Pack brothers on the team.

But the chastity cage thing threw me. That’s pretty advanced stuff for 16-year-olds! I told Sir James that the Alphas are clearly staking a claim of ownership on his son, and they intend to keep him. That’s a good thing even though it probably sounds awful to Sir James. This means the faggot son will have protection and some amount of care (even though 16-year-olds can get unintentionally rough).

The questions remains – what to do about the cage? I told Sir James that the Master typically puts the cage on his faggot, but these young straight Alphas are probably uninterested in touching a faggot’s “pee pee”. I suggested that Sir James supervise his son as his son puts it on himself. That way Sir James can make sure it fits properly and isn’t hurting his son unnecessarily.

Words cannot properly express how impressed I am with Sir James throughout this entire ordeal! He has approached it with empathy, compassion, and respect. At the forefront of his every action Sir James has led with love and concern for the wellbeing of his dearest son.

And that is the very definition of fatherly love!