Hi Sam! Super glad your back; i followed you for years, enjoying your posts and your dialogue of spreading the word of Alphas and faggots.
I have a question that challenges me that I hope you can answer,…I definitely believe that im a true faggot at heart, but im having trouble accepting it. I have this platonic male friend who actually deliberately engages in dominance against me. He likes to crush with me with his body (hes much bigger than me), using his body weight to essentially crush me. He enjoys forcefully humping me as a playful act, as sort of symbol of his dominance. In a way, he seems like hes trying to teach me “you’re a faggot, im the alpha”. I think its a unique opportunity to help embrace my true faggot self…but im still having trouble letting go and fully embracing my true faggot life. Any advice for me?
Thank you for the question! I love my longtime readers!
This is a huge moment in your life, brother. This “friend” is definitely trying to dominate you (even if it’s just subconsciously). You recognize what he’s doing (thanks to me, in part!), which is also to your advantage.
What’s holding you back is fear … fear of stepping over the line and never being able to go back. Fear that your life will no longer be yours. Fear of the possible shame you’ll feel for the rest of your life.
But let me tell you what’s worse: a lifetime of regret from NOT ACTING!
I hear it again and again from older faggots who look back wistfully on a life lived in shadows of unfulfillment. Back in their day they lacked information and a freer society. They were essentially trapped, paralyzed by fear.
You don’t need to end up that way, brother. You have an Alpha who is wanting you to submit to him. Your chance his right there, dry-humping you! It’s insane to let this pass you by!
I’ll tell you the truth: the behaviors of this Alpha that you describe are very similar to the way my first Alpha Roger acted toward me until the day he made me his cocksucker and changed my life for the better!
So stop worrying about things that haven’t happened yet. You need to live in the moment right now. You learn to swim by jumping in the water and letting instinct take over. Well, it’s your time to jump.
Kneel and kiss his feet and let Nature take over. Your time in now.
@kieranhalsted loves breeding faggots, but he loves encouraging them just as much. His encouragement to this faggot to have pride in its cum-filled hole is inspirational!
He’s impregnating their minds as he’s impregnating their pussies!
Hi Sam, I’ve been reading your blog over the past year and read a couple of your books: “Are you a faggot” and “Alpha Beta: Hardcore guide to faggot Mastery”
There are many parts of being a faggot that I’m drawn to that are feel are such a big part of me, however there are a few things that I think make me not a faggot and wonder where I actually sit in the hierarchy.
My biggest struggle is needing a REAL Alpha, all these so called alphas/cashmasters and cocky entitled guys just make me cringe because I know they are weaker than me and I would just laugh if they tried to make me submit.
Im a Bi Switch (gay and sub leaning) and initially thought I might be a faggot (and admitting it on camera whilst degrading myself always makes me horny), but after ready “are you a faggot” I realised that a lot of the things don’t align with me:
I like topping (mostly guys but sometimes girls)
Im only submissive in the bedroom (in everyday life I present as alpha, I train Muay Thai and fight regularly, I’m confident, I’m assertive and I feel superior to most men (despite being collared and caged 24/7)
I’ve never really had a foot fetish (although I’m developing one as my primary turn on is humiliation and I find feet disgusting – which then makes me hard)
I would never give money to another man just because he demands it, if he’s capable he can get his own.
During the fagtest in the book most of the questions I answered yes to but with the caveat that the man is bigger, stronger, more capaable and more powerful than me. I do believe in hierarchy, but I don’t believe that most of the people who claim they are alpha or real men actually are.
Thank you!
Thank you for the question!
You present a pretty intriguing case, one of the more puzzling ones I’ve ever had on this issue. Let me say first that humans are not itemized products that fit neatly into pre-ordained boxes, so classifying everyone so rigidly is simply not possible. My hierarchical layout captures a clear picture for a vast number of people, but not everyone.
I am curious about you, because I can’t help but wonder if you are another case of “Alpha Latency”, a term for a psycho-sexual condition that some natural-born Alphas experience that lead them into unnatural sub/faggot behaviors/mentalities.
Your case as described makes you sound like you’re firmly an Alpha. In fact, you sound quite proud in describing your Alpha-like qualities. It also sounds like the people you encounter are treating you like an Alpha. You just don’t seem to have embraced it for whatever reason.
Most cases of Alpha latency involve early childhood trauma (either sexual or physical abuse) or social conditioning during their developing years. Since I don’t have a chance to interview you directly, I’m flying blind. But I would comb through your background and see if you can identify possible causes for your tendency to want to submit (or even question your Alphahood).
I think something has blown you slightly off-course, but I get the impression you’re actually an Alpha who needs to simply embrace that purpose. I bet you’d feel so much more free if you were to.
You can read some of the experiences of Alpha latency by CLICKING HERE.
Hi Sam, it’s been a while now that X pushes homophobic maga supposedly Straight Alphas on my feed, and I’m surprised and ashamed to say it really turns me on. I’m ashamed to say I’ve also sent to these doms, when in heat. I understand the basic logic in it : it feels wrong so it’s exciting, it feels forbidden so it’s hot, and of course there’s a strong component of inequality, harsh words, internalized homophobia on my part, etc.
I guess as a self locked fag I’m not that surprised it turns me on, but as a pretty normal guy, from France, educated, left wing, saddened by Trump’s America, and with many friends and a caring family, I don’t get how I may be obsessed with being bullied (which I never experienced), called a loser (which I know I’m not), and most of all being led to feel shame and apologize for being a « degenerate fag » (which surely resonates within me, but which I don’t believe in).
Any advice ? Thanks
Thanks for the question!
I think you point out one of the more frustrating aspects of being a faggot with a brain and moral values. MAGA Alphas are pretty sexy, and their cocky, hateful attitudes appeal to faggots. Let’s face it: faggots naturally love degradation, and these kinds of Alphas are great at it.
I don’t know how to get around it. I’m able to put it aside because my hatred for Trump and the fucking idiots that worship him is so strong because of what Trump did to my Baby Boy when I tried to rescue him from Syria. I’ll never forgive Trump and his racist cultists.
Hello Sam, my name is Andy. I’m a 20 year old guy in his second year of uni.
First of all I want to thank you Sam, I never really considered myself a fag before stumbling on your content, which made me comfortable with using that title.
The situation is this, last year when I started uni I met a guy in one of my classes, we quickly bonded and became friends. We started hanging out every day and going to the gym together. He is very handsome and I found him attractive from the very begging. I subconsciously started serving him almost immediately after we became friends, giving him my notes, doing his homework, paying for our coffee when we go out and buying him gifts here and there. Around May of this year I started stealing his gym underwear and socks and jerking off with them before returning them. Whenever I smell his alpha scent I just think about how much I want to serve him, however I come from a fairly homophobic Eastern European country and from the things I heard him say he is also quite homophobic and right wing. I want to show him the hierarchy chart and explain to him that I want to serve him and be his fag however I’m afraid that he’ll stop talking to me afterwards. Is there any way I can introduce him to this world?
Thank you so much for the important work you do!
Thank you for the question!
Congrats on finding an Alpha close to you that you might be able to serve! This is a big trick I’ve always endorsed, and it works pretty well. Why? Because you’ve developed a relationship with him and he likes you, so he’s more likely to be sympathetic if you ever approach him about this.
First of all, I wouldn’t worry about the homophobia/right-wing shit, brother. Homophobic right-wingers are actually MORE likely to be the ones (a) eager to flex their Alphahood, and (b) more likely to be interested in doing gay stuff. Yes, I know it’s messed up, but that’s reality. Their aggressive homophobia is called overcompensation. Check the Grindr traffic around areas where American Republicans are holding gatherings, and Grindr actually CRASHES from so many in-denial Republicans looking for faggots! So I wouldn’t worry too much about that.
You’re already serving him in a variety of ways, and that’s really good! You didn’t mention his attitude toward all of these gifts and favors you’re doing for him, but I’m assuming he’s just accepting it without even thinking about it (Alphas sometimes take that for granted).
I would suggest that you try to sit at his feet and “get lower” when you’re around him. This action will sometimes lead to the Alpha teasing you with his feet. It triggers something inside them when they see weaker guys in vulnerable positions. He will start to view you as a plaything.
You can try a couple of resources on the site. The Hierarchy chart on here is a solid one, although it might confuse him unless you explain it. The “Letter To An Alpha” linked in the right sidebar is a useful one if you want it explained to him in a concise, logical way. And there is also my book “May I Serve You, Sir?” that’s goes into greater depth (I don’t recommend it for college Alphas).
But before you give him any of those resources, you should ask him a simple question: “Do you consider yourself to be Alpha?” This almost always leads to a response, and you can usually use that response to lead him to a discussion about Hierarchy (and those resources).
Hopefully this gives you something of a game plan, brother. I have no doubt you’ll do fine with whatever course you choose. They don’t always work, but I promise you they work more often than you’d ever imagine!
Let’s look at the following clip together. Try to find out what’s wrong with it.
You may not see anything wrong with it at all, but most Alphas will tell you that the faggot masturbating itself is at least irritating, if not absolutely enraging.
Why It Matters
Alphas have certain non-negotiables. For instance, they expect inferiors to be submissive and follow their direction. They also expect inferiors to give them freedom and privacy, especially when the need to hunt arises in them.
But most of all, Alphas expect RESPECT. This is natural, because they are superior Men, Men that other Men yield to, follow, and obey. As leaders of Men, they cannot expect to fulfill such responsibilities without respect from everyone, from second-in-command down to the lowliest slave.
This need for respect extends even into the interiors of an Alpha’s life, to his bedroom and beside his bosom. His women must show him respect as a conqueror who plants his children in their wombs. And his faggots must show him respect as a mighty god whose every molecule is holy, and every moan of pleasure, a decree.
Faggots naturally have such respect for Alphas, which is why Alphas are so drawn to owning and using them.
However, when a faggot doesn’t have respect (or it loses respect) for its Alpha, it manifests in ways both subtle and obvious. For example, a faggot starts to openly complain about certain conditions, like the unfairness of chastity or the use of other fags (or females). These kinds of behaviors can be (and often are) swiftly corrected by discipline.
But a more subtle form of disrespect occurs when faggots masturbate themselves while being used. In these instances the faggot is treating its Alpha like a dildo rather than a King. The faggot is daydreaming that its sexual pleasure/orgasm is just as important as the Alpha’s.
I think many Alphas let this behavior slide in the moment because they are rutting and enjoying the pleasures of their own cock. Other Alphas are simply less concerned with such matters, blithely unaware of the disrespect being shown literally under their noses.
Faggots who do such disrespectful acts in front of an Alpha should understand that they are ultimately hurting themselves. They’re reinforcing corrosive behaviors that will lead to failures down the road. And, much worse, they will no longer be viewed by their Masters as something special, a treasured possession wholly devoted to service. Instead, the faggot cheapens itself through masturbation, and it becomes just another untrained, undisciplined whore.
Watch these videos. Notice the faggots in them. These faggots completely accept their place and function within Hierarchy.
An Alpha fucking obedient and RESPECTFUL faggots like these can only feel more powerful.
And THAT is the point of faggot service!
So brothers, endeavor to stop masturbating. Go into chastity if you need/want to.
Humble and control yourself, surrendering everything in service to Alphas. Your show of respect will always be rewarded!
You’ve seen it a lot in porn, and any faggot who has served more than a couple of Men has probably heard them demand it. The “bitch position” is the most requested bodily contortion faggots are forced into.
The diagram above roughly shows the vital aspects of the bitch position. Head down … back arched … ass up.
Why do Men love this position so much? There are a couple of reasons:
It looks attractive to them from behind. The contours of the body from above are appealing to the Alpha’s eye.
It’s an extremely submissive position. In essence, the faggot is as low as it can get while still offering up its pussy to its owner.
Men can penetrate deeper in this position. With the ass in the air at this angle, the Man’s dick can get all the way inside and breed deeper into the faggot’s pussy.
It does require some practice, as it’s not a natural position for most people (unless you’re a gymnast or a yoga instructor). Focused stretching can loosen the lower back to make this position more attainable. Believe me, if you attempt this position, your Alpha will help you out by pushing down on your lower back! It’s irresistible to them!
Here are a couple of screenshots of the position in action:
So practice this position and use it on your Alpha! He’ll thank you with explosive cumshots in your cunt!
An Alpha like Lane Rogers (Blake Mitchell) was obviously a hot commodity in the porn industry. He did a lot of fucking, utilizing his natural dominance and gorgeous cock to great effect. It also didn’t hurt that he looked a bit like Clark Kent/Superman with the glasses and chiseled jawline.
There are a couple of my favorite clips featuring the late superstar.
Yesterday around 4pm porn superstar Lane V. Rogers was killed in a motorcycle accident. The young King was just 31 years old.
Lane started his career in the adult industry under the name “Blake Mitchell” with Helix Studios in 2014, the year before I started this site. I’ve been charting his rise to prominence the entire time, watching his natural dominance force Helix to unshackle him from their insistence on versatility and open the way for young gay Alphas to accept their own Alphahood.
Lane was, more than anything, a Protector Alpha first and foremost; he always led with his heart and his humanity. He championed gay rights and helped bisexuals feel comfortable rather than persecuted. His easy, confident smile was so radiant that it lit up every darkened room around the world, rooms where shy gay boys and faggots hid in fear. Lane reassured them with that smile that they have purpose and value.
I never got to know him the way Joey Mills, Chad Alec, Sean Ford, Angel Rivera, and many other co-stars and industry figures knew him. Our paths crossed in DMs every so often over the last ten years, and they were generous-but-brief chats I’ll hold close to my heart. They were more than a random faggot like me even deserved from him.
I only wish that Lane’s model of activism and integrity was shared by other leading figures in the porn industry. Far too many of them are content to make money and enjoy life during this brief moment when they’re still commercially viable. Lane made plenty of money, but he was determined to make his fame count for more than just sexy images on the internet.
We only have a few years here. Make them count!
The tattoo Lane proudly carried on his left pec says everything about a young Alpha who laughed, loved, protected, roared, and lived like a lion. He didn’t need my constant accolades to prove what he was. He embodied it. I’m so sorry his light has left our world, but I’m so grateful I was able to see it.
To all of the many family members, friends, and fans who knew and loved Lane, I extend my deepest sympathies.
Love Always,
sam the faggot
This is a beautiful video posted by Lane’s former boyfriend Chad Alec (@danceswithleos) to celebrate Lane’s life: