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Hi Sam!! I love you so much <3 your website is so amazing, I learn so much
So I am 19 Sam, and my bf is 29. I know I am a faggot and that’s what I want to be. He loves to dominate me and treat me like his personal hole to use and fuck. I cook for him, clean for him, do the laundry, etc And I am so happy!
But I have one question and I want your opinion… He fucks me every day and always hurts. In the beginning I told him to go slow or fuck just with the half of his dick but after some time I let him fuck the way he like (deep and hard). So is it normal to hurt all the time or it get better with time? I just close my eyes when he is fucking and wait to feel the cum inside me. I love the feeling of serving him but I never feel pleasure with the dick inside me because it hurt so much. I lost my viriginty with him and never saw other dick, so I don’t know what to do.
Faggots always feel pain and that’s normal, or I am doing something wrong? I really love to be a faggot and I understand if i need to feel the pain but sometimes I see bottoms enjoying so much, so I don’t know if it’s normal.
Thank you Sam!!! I love you a lot!
Thank you for your sincere question, little brother! I love you, too!
Certainly, anal sex can come with some amount of pain, especially when you lose your virginity. But it makes me sad that a young, genuine, heartfelt faggot like you feels resigned to a life of painful service when that is NOT true at all.
First and foremost, you MUST be using LOTS of lube every time. Since you are having sex without a condom, you should be using SILICONE lubricant because it is significantly slicker and longer-lasting. The lube should be slathered on your hole and his dick before penetration.
You also need to stretch your hole a little bit. You can use buttplugs of increasing size to help open your hole. Also, there is this amazing technique pioneered by CagedJock to very carefully open a hole: https://hierarchyuniversity.com/caged-jock-how-to-stretch-a-fags-hole/
And finally, you need to relax. Unfortunately, your Alpha has made that more difficult because he keeps hurting you without any consideration for what you’re going through. If he knew more about what he was doing, he might be able to improve to the point that he could cunt you, a moment you both should want. But he’s never going to cunt you by fucking you the way he is right now.
I ask that you please talk to him about the pain you’re experiencing and how desperately you want to be a good faggot for him. Beg him to help you feel more comfortable with sex, because the pain is making it difficult to serve properly. If you need to, point him to my answer here. Whatever it takes. He must understand both your pain and your admirable desire to keep serving him.
I really hope you manage to correct this and find pleasure in your service, little brother. A good faggot like you is so rare to find, and your Alpha should be appreciative enough to try and help you serve him. You deserve it!
I love you, sweetheart!
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Also, pain can be the symptoms of a bacterial infection. So it worth to be checked.
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I can certainly understand and identify with this young faggot to some extent… I can’t speak for all faggots, but I have discussed this topic with the few other faggots I know personally and I conclude that we all experience pain when first penetrated and, for a while, with each penetration thereafter… As others did, I found thorough lubing to be crucial in keeping discomfort to a minimum… I always heavily lube my boi pussy beforehand as well as liberally applying it to the Alpha’s cock… This lubing ritual, along with more and more experience being penetrated, results in reducing any pain to a quite tolerable level… There are other sources of pain as well, not associated with penetration as such… I experience momentary sharp pain when a well endowed Alpha begins fucking me deeply with the entire length of his cock in a hard pounding fashion… With his hard thrust, it feels as if he is hitting bottom and ramming up against my prostate… Almost like a “back stop” so to speak… No amount of lube can affect this sensation… I experienced this intensely when I was cunted for the first time… Since this occures at precisely the time when the Alpha is a peak power, it’s difficult to ask him to hold back thrusting force or not to penetrate completely… I found that inching away ever so slightly each time he bottoms is effective in easing the discomfort… Also, I proactively begin to slide myself back and forth on the length of his manhood, thus I can somewhat control depth of penetration… He won’t always permit this but it does work… Finally…The more excited I become as he fucks my hole, the less I notice discomfort… The sensation of his cock totally filling me up eventually brings me to a point of euphoria where I only experience pleasure and complete submission, usually to the point of sissygasm… Then there is the sublime feeling I experience as I sense him climax inside of me… That is worth the discomfort every time !