Hii Sam, my name is Asher and I am 20 years old. Before I get to the situation here’s my little complicated family tree. So my dad abandoned my mother and I when I was 6 and left the country, however his brother ,my uncle Connor was in connection with mom and I. He used to help us when we were in need or when some problems occured. He is a very nice man. Infact he told us he would never speak to dad as he abandoned his own family. I always adored this about him. When I was 11, my mother got remarried to another man and then Shaun became my stepdad. My mother passed away when I was 16 due to major car accident  and my stepdad raised me since then.

Here’s the thing. My stepdad and uncle both are super hot men and very nice humans. I came out as gay to them when I was 17 but they accepted me for who I am. The one they don’t  know is that I am a faggot. I have this constant need to feel dominated and been owned. A few ago I had to move in with my uncle to make it easy for college. We both have different rooms and we share chores around house. He is straight, there are women coming and going satisfied around the house. You see my uncle is so hot and I believe is an Alpha that i want to become his faggot. I just need to. The thing is having a stepdad and uncle both soo hot I would become faggot for either of them but being with uncle, I want to be owned by him as his fagboi.

Can you please help me? How should I initiate the conversation. Do I have to create an enviroment and then slip the fag thing, I don’t know I am just confused. Help me begin n alpha faggot relationship with my uncle.


I always get nervous advising these types of situations because trying to introduce service to a family member can lead to a lot of problems within the family and disrupt the peace of that family. 

I get why you’re feeling this way about both your uncle and stepdad. They swooped in and rescued you from a couple of traumatic events in your life, so naturally you idolize and idealize them. I don’t know if that means you should serve them.

However, if you’re set on this course, then I would simply start serving by taking care of domestic chores and catering to him (cooking/serving his meals, getting him drinks, etc.). At some point you could simply ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha, and that could lead into a conversation about Hierarchy. At that point you could tell him you identify as a faggot, and he will have questions about that (so be prepared). From there, who knows? It will certainly get the wheels turning. 

That’s my best advice based on what I know.

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