Questions From Readers

Dear Webmaster,

I am the proud single mother of a fifteen year old son. I found your site on the advice of a friend about my questions about my son.

My son is very good-looking and smart. I know many mothers would say that, but some of my son’s behavior with his friends makes me wonder. Lately, he and one of his friends often challenge each other to video games, making bets. From what I can see, my son always wins, and his friend’s forfeit is to kiss his feet.

This week, he had brought over a girlfriend and two friends. She was sitting on the couch resting in his arms, the two boys were sitting on the floor at their feet. Later, she massaged his back and each of the other two massaged a foot.

Reading your site makes me wonder: is my son an Alpha? Or is he too young to consider it? Is there anything I should do for him? My only wish is for him to be happy.

Thank for your insights,

Sophie

Hi, Sophie! Thank you for writing to me! 

I love when parents come to me with Hierarchical questions about their sons! It goes a long way in demonstrating how inborn and pervasive these concepts really are! We are simply born to fulfill roles, and we often really come to embrace them (or try to) during the teenage years. I commend you as a parent that it’s awesome you’re so attuned to these kinds of subtle changes in your son!

Before I say anything else, I want to preface this by saying that sexualized behavior between teen males is almost completely meaningless in terms of sexuality. I’ve known teen boys who masturbated and sucked each other who went on to be completely straight Men; it was nothing more than an experimental phase.

That’s why all parents should react to these behaviors as well as you have! You’re approaching this from a desire to understand it, rather than just lash out and judge him harshly (which happens far too much). I’m proud of you, Sophie!

Now to your question: It’s hard to make a definitive statement about whether your son is Alpha, but the stories you’ve told me make me lean toward answering “YES”, your son is Alpha. His desire for foot worship and service alone makes me answer that way, but maybe more important is the fact that he’s “enslaved” a couple of sub friends into being his foot fags. Not just that, but he’s more than willing to use these friends right in front of his girlfriend and she doesn’t bat an eye. That’s Alpha-level confidence for sure! 

So what do you do if he is, indeed, an Alpha? Well, there isn’t much you can do except try to encourage independent thinking and aggressive action-taking (it sounds like he’s already there anyway). Many times parents want to tamp down an Alpha son’s assertiveness (for fear he might get into trouble), but as long as he’s being respectful and follows the law, there isn’t much else to do except trust him and the natural power gifted to him. 

If he turns out to be the Alpha I expect, then congratulations! Any son is a blessing, but bringing an Alpha into the world is truly a privilege! I hope I was able to ease your mind! 

Thank you,

sam the faggot (the “webmaster”)

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