Questions From Readers

Hi Sam,

First,Welcome back. Hope you are well.

Wondering if you could please give me some advice.

I’ve been DM’ing with a straight military dude on Tumblr. Through our chats I told him why I thought he was an alpha, gave him my thoughts on hierarchy, came out to him as a faggot wanting to serve an alpha and encourged him to assert his alphahood. He was interested in all of this and by the end of the chat he told me that he liked when I called him SIR and told me to address him like that always. He bid me a good night calling me his good faggot friend. Of course this left me swooning.

The next morning I left him a DM just saying that I was thinking of him and wishing him a good day. He simply replied with “Hey”

I feel like I might have overstepped or seemed needy.

because I saw him posting the whole day but he didn’t reach out to DM me.

My question is– how can I continue to engage him? Do I ask him questions? I’d like to get to know him better — he seems very cool and open. (He is obsessed with pussy and getting girls and he posts alot about that)

All to say, how can I develop some kind of connection to him that maybe could lead to him wanting me to be his faggot. Or is that hoping for too much?

Thanks Sam. Your advice is so appreciated.

This is why I don’t put a lot of stock in online service. There’s nowhere for it to go … unless you are willing to serve him as a cash fag.

You see, no straight Alpha wants to befriend a faggot online because there’s nothing there to benefit him. The only thing that will get his interest is money. So if you’re willing to serve him that way, then do it.

But I don’t know how else you can “be his faggot” unless you happen to live nearby, or you pack up and move to him (I don’t recommend it). 

Ultimately, you’re better off cultivating service relationships with local Alphas. That’s what I’ve done my whole adult life, and it works. Save the online stuff for the game players.

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