Questions From Readers

Hi Sam,

I’ve been following your website and profile for a while now. You’ve definitely had an impact on me as I came to terms with my desires to submit and serve. I don’t agree with everything you’ve said over the years, but I know I am a faggot and I know you helped me get there.

I’ve recently been feeling really desperate to serve. There are these 3 guys I follow on socials and I know two of them personally– really one, but I’ve spoken to the other in some of my classes a little. We all go to the same college.

The first guy I knew in high school and he was kind of my friend and kind of not? It was always weird cause sometimes he seemed to be using me. Like I helped him through some of his classes, but I got annoyed and stopped speaking to him.

The second guy, like I said, I only speak to him a couple times in class but we shared a dorm building before. I’ve seen him shirtless in the halls a couple times, but I doubt he really knows or remembers me.

The last guy I found from the second guy’s social media. One of the hottest men I’ve ever seen– real Alpha type. I think he’s trying to be a fitness influencer or something.

There’s a part of me that really wants to reach out to one of these guys and try to serve them, but we don’t really talk. I’m worried that if I were to reach out to them they’d think I was a freak and either ignore me or out me to other people. So I guess my I’m asking how do I submit to them? Is it even worth trying to? Or should I focus on other Alphas?

Thank you for the question, brother! 

Here you have three Alpha choices. You should always start with the one you know best. So the first one you know and have (unintentionally) served a little bit. I would try to strike up a conversation  and ask him if he remembers how you used to do things for him and see what he says about that. Then you can tell him that you’ve discovered why what happened between you – HIERARCHY. Ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. Explain to him what you know about Alphas being served and worshiped for being superior. 

You can show him my hierarchy pyramid in the pinned post at the top of the site. Ask him where he sees himself on that chart. Try to be brave if he asks where you think you are, or maybe ask him where HE thinks you are. This could lead to an interesting conversation. 

If you don’t like that, you can always let him read my “Letter To An Alpha” (link in the sidebar) or buy my book “May I Serve You, Sir?” (link in the books section). 

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