Questions From Readers

Hey Sam,

I don’t expect you to remember this at all but a while back I’d messaged asking if you had any advice about pursuing service with some Alphas I knew from my college who I only spoke to via socials.

I took your advice and reached out to the one who I used to kind of serve (still kicking myself for ending that way back when)… but he never responded.

I know I probably should just drop it but I wanted to ask if you had any advice for going forward? Just, keep an eye out for other Alphas in my life? Or reach out to the other 2?

Hey Sam,

I just sent a message to you earlier about how the Alpha I reached out to on socials didn’t respond, but a little while after I sent that HE FINALLY DID.

Turns out he really remembered me and we had a nice convo catching up. We don’t really live near each other anymore, it turns out, which sucks. But I apologized for stopping service to him before and for my past behavior, and I even offered to help him with anything he needs. He was really sweet about everything and didn’t make too much of a big deal about it, but seemed receptive.

For literal years I’ve thought about messaging this Man Sam, you have no idea. So thanks for encouraging me to reach out to him. I hope to start introducing hierarchy to him as we continue to talk– maybe one day he’ll find a use for me again!

Sorry for the back to back messages/asks, I didn’t think he’d even remember me but when he responded I HAD to update you.

Yes, I remember you!

I’m glad you worked up the courage to contact him! The first step is always the hardest! And I’m glad he responded and seemed open to something in the future! Definitely try to look for ways to engage him in a more direct conversation about Hierarchy! That’s a great way in!

Keep me posted!

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