Questions From Readers

I had what I consider to be a real Alpha / Beta relationship with a guy for quite a long time.  I was his Beta to use when he needed.  He treated me very well because I basically worshipped him and served his needs.  He had be service his friends sometimes too Which was really about him showing to me that I’m there to do whatever he said and I think to show them he had complete control of me.

Anyway, he had to move for work and I ended up moving for a job too.  Now I live in Las Vegas and I thought it would be easy to find a real Alpha to serve.  I’m now in my 50s, so that does make it harder.  But I can’t find anyone.  Yes I can easily find guys who use me as a cum dump, but that is not the same thing as a real Alpha.

My previous Alpha was a long time ago and was pretty easy to find.  Not sure how to find a real Alpha man.  I’d appreciate any suggestions you may have

Thanks for the question, brother!

It sounds like you had a wonderful Alpha/faggot relationship with your former Master! And yes, those things he did with you were designed to show off his power over you, as well as pay honor to his Alpha friends.

I’m sorry that’s no longer in your life! 

Alphas can be found everywhere (bars, sporting events, gyms, any place outdoors) if you choose to approach them. I always advise for a faggot to look around at the friends/associations you currently have in your personal life and see if there is a potential Alpha among them. Then you would start subtly serving them and showing them deference. Ask them if they consider themselves to be Alpha. Work that into a conversation about Hierarchy (you can use the resources on this site) and help him understand the larger implications of his Alphahood and your purpose. 

I understand these ideas might seem daunting. That’s why I wrote the book “May I Serve You, Sir?” to give to Alphas as a primer (see: book store). And that’s why I wrote “Letter To An Alpha” (link in sidebar) that can be used (and has been successfully used) to teach Alphas.

The rest is simply up to you, brother! 

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