Questions From Readers

Hi Sam, I don’t know if you remember me or not but this is the faggot that has the coworker who contacted it on FB randomly and sent a bunch of photos of himself in European type swimwear.

Well I had planned on wishing Him a happy Thanksgiving and I did and we chatted briefly but He said he was at a huge family gathering so I backed off quickly saying I didn’t want to interrupt, and left it at that.

A couple days went by and we’re back in the work week and we both happen to be traveling, Him somewhere warm and He contacted me again. He said he was tormenting old ladies walking around in His suits. He even sent me pics of the two He brought with Him and was wearing. I was obviously very complementary and flat out told Him He is sexy AF (He really is too, He’s a part time fitness instructor, toned, large defined muscles ugh, delicious!). He thanked me and I slipped in a couple of “Sirs” into the conversation. Most of it was extremely suggestive without being graphic but I was very complementary more so than any straight guy would ever be. At one point I even said I think He likes torturing me while I’m at work and can’t take care of the little problem He created and He laugh reacted to that. He actually laugh / heart reacted to a few statements.

So how should I proceed do you think? Should I flat out state that I’m a faggot and ask to serve Him? Or should I see where He leads thing? Or something else all together?

Thank you for the help, I’m not very experienced doing this sort of thing, but I want to get better and better and treat Him the way He deserves to be.

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION. 

Brother, thank you for the follow-up! 

It sounds like this Alpha continues to torment you (whether it’s on purpose or not, we don’t know) and you continue to vaguely flirt with him. So largely the situation is still the same as last time, right?

There are still unresolved problems. This guy is (I’m assuming) still religious. And also, you don’t live anywhere near each other anymore. So this sort of flirty cycle is going to continue until either he just loses interest or you finally break the stalemate.

I think you should push his buttons a little bit harder. Show him the stick post “What is Hierarchy?” at the front of this site, or the “Letter To An Alpha” in the sidebar. This will force him to confront reality and make a decision. 

If he rejects you, then at least you know this and can move on. But if he doesn’t … well, that’s where things might get interesting. 

It’s worth a shot.

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