Hi Sam –

Longtime fan of your site. I have been trying to figure out what to write to you for a while now (if you want to share any of this on your site please feel free to do so).

A little background: I’m a fag, 40 years old, former fraternity guy and athlete. I’ve been married to my Alpha military husband (Army Alpha) for 10 years.

Our relationship in brief: I’m obviously a total bottom, I’m into a lot of kinks and some kinda extreme stuff. I’ve experienced a few rapes over my lifetime, and it’s a big part of my desire to serve. I also tend to seek situations where I put myself at risk of that happening and recreating what I’ve gone through. My favorite experiences of service have been for sadistic, Destroyer Alphas (if those details are of interest I can share my experiences). I’m a masochistic fag and like to know that my pain brings pleasure for an Alpha.

My Alpha husband (I’d say he is in the Protector Alpha category) understands this and has been open to exploring some of these desires of mine but also says he loves me and couldn’t take it as far as I want. He is a total top, but is more vanilla sexually. I obviously don’t pressure or force him to do anything he isn’t comfortable with, but it has impacted our sex lives. He usually only uses my mouth and not my fag hole because of his size (8-8.5 inches and extremely thick). Although I am a total bottom and have taken many Alpha cocks, and I stretch myself frequently, I remain very tight – to the point that sometimes he says it’s too tight for him to fuck me and doesn’t feel good on him. I’ve told him he can force it into me, begged him to, but when I start to show I’m in pain it turns him off.

We’re fully open, he fucks other fags and likes to hear about me getting fucked by other guys. We rarely have threesomes for many reasons (mostly irrelevant but can share if you want to know). But I’ve heard a really hard time recently finding any other true Alphas that would be willing to fuck me hard and wreck my fag hole. He says if I have that done he thinks I’d be loser for him.

For the next year we are long distance (because of a deployment for him) but I’ll be able to visit him for a month or two every few months. I’ve been looking EVERYWHERE for an Alpha to own me while he’s gone (Grindr, X, BDSMLR, Reddit, etc) but have been unsuccessful.

My questions for you:

1. Where can I find an Alpha? Most guys I talk to are only seeking virtual roleplay, or are too far away to ever meet, or want a young fag (at 40 I’m still very conscious about my looks and body and make sure I stay attractive for Alphas). I’m mostly attracted to straight Alphas (all my friends are straight and they are 100% in the Alpha category). I’ve tried to show them I’d serve them but it’s never worked (a few brief moments with teammates or frat brothers or childhood friends but never long term).

2. I don’t want to pressure my Alpha husband into things and know it isn’t my place, but when he fucks other fags he is very rough and aggressive so I know he has that side to him as well. Is there a way I could respectfully encourage him to do the same to me? He recently told me about a fag he fucked wearing his uniform, one booted foot on the fags head while he fucked him using only a little spit for lube and the fag ripped and bled. I get hard knowing he did that and wish it were me. He knows that I’d like that but says he’d never want to hurt me. But he’s hurting me by not giving me that experience and it’s now becoming an overriding focus of my life. I’ll spend days seeking it out, and now that I live alone I have fewer responsibilities to my Alpha so I will ignore friends and family and work searching for an Alpha to use me (that’s incredibly embarrassing for me to admit, and I know it isn’t healthy but its been so long since I was able to feel of use and like I’m fully serving I am obsessed with it).

Sam – can you help me please?

Respectfully,

Frat Fag Alex

Thank you for writing to me, Alex! I apologize for the delay!

I’ve encountered this weird situation a couple of times in the past, and it always leaves me baffled. Protector Alphas are amazing, but when they’re GAY Protector Alphas it can almost become a barrier. Gay Protector Alphas are too careful with their faggot partners because they’re in love with their faggot partners.

A faggot is a very specific kind of creature. Our need to be used and serve overwhelms everything else. We surrender everything to fulfill this central need; our bodies, our minds, our self-respect, and even our hopes and dreams. Even extreme pain is not a real consideration for us fags, just as long as we are pleasing our Owners. All that truly matters to us is our Alpha’s complete satisfaction. I really don’t think it’s even possible for Alphas to comprehend this about their faggots, even extremely experienced Alphas like your husband.

I get that he loves you. You are his most prized possession. But that is what’s so confounding to me about this situation – he’s loving you so much that he’s preventing you from being the most complete version of yourself. By sparing you what he thinks is pain, he’s actually causing tremendous emotional damage to you instead. I’m sure you’d agree with me that a pussy hole delightfully damaged in service will recover, but slowly suffocating to death as years tick away is the kind of damage that is hard to recover. Does your husband really think it’s okay for you to watch him use other faggots the way you desperately want to be treated?? That idea is mind-boggling to me.

It’s amazing how much better straight Alphas are with their personal faggots when it comes to this issue, and I think that’s both a shame and a mystery.

Anyway, back on point. I want to deal with the second question first, because I think the real issue is what’s happening in the marriage.

First and foremost, I want you to have your husband read your ask and my reply. It’s very important that he comprehends the depth of your desperation and sadness over this. He needs to appreciate how much long-term damage this is causing within you. He also needs to understand that giving to other fags the most intrinsic thing you desire and are denied is absolutely wrong, cruel, and unconscionable.

Secondly, whenever you both are together, I want you to try Caged Jock’s ingenious hole-stretching method using chopsticks (SEE THE VIDEO HERE). This is an activity you can do together to stretch you more and prepare you for the fuck of your life. This is the kind of “upkeep” every Master should be doing with their faggots in order to customize them for proper service.

As for your Question #1:

Submitting to your straight Alpha friends is still a possibility, but it might be only in the domestic aspect unless you get them drunk. The problem faggots have when trying to seduce their straight Alpha friends is the “friends” part. When an Alpha sees a guy as his friend (and “equal”), he’s less likely to want to use the fag. Calling them “Sir”, being complimentary, and directing the conversations to them in upbuilding ways (particularly engaging them in conversations about their Alphahood) can and often does lead to some engagement. Take a couple of these straight Alpha friends out for dinner/drinks and employ a more submissive persona, utilize what I just told you, and you might be surprised. I wonder if they even really understand what a faggot is … so it might be good to educate them. They’d also need to understand that your Owner has no issue with you serving other Alphas.

You can employ these same techniques while out alone at a bar or restaurant/bar and you see a straight Alpha alone. Offer to pay for his meal/drinks, and when he asks, just be frank as to why. Is he really going to hit a submissive male who’s buying stuff for him and calling him an Alpha? Of course not! He might not be willing to do anything, but this is a game of repetition and averages. Keep trying, and you will find success.

The apps are a mess, but apps like TheBlowers.com will absolutely get you Alpha action. Try that in a pinch.

In conclusion, I honestly think this situation with your Alpha husband can be fixed. There needs to be more open, honest communication and some experimentation to make it work.

Thank you for the long-time readership, and for reaching out to me, my brother!

Love,

sam the faggot

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Im alex and 16 years old and in two weeks im going to the gym for tge first time and i want to get jaked but at the same time i want to suck a alphas cock but I can’t just walk to someone and ask him “ can i suck your cock” so i need ways to let alphas know that im a faggot and i want to suck there cock

Alex thank you for writing!

I appreciate the question, but I can’t be advising you on how to submit to Alphas over the age of 18 given that you are a minor. I suggest that you start submitting to Alphas in school who are your age and are therefore legal. There are plenty of ways to do this by making yourself useful to them, being respectful and complimentary, and by just your general demeanor. There are resources on this site you could use to offer yourself to them as well.

Good luck!

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Hi Sam.

I’m 25 and a bottom.  A total bottom actually – and I read your posts about cunting with great curiosity. After some research on reddit I started to masturbate solely with my dildos while wearing a jockstrap so I wouldn’t jerk off like I used to.  The first time I did this in June I focused solely on the sensations from my ass for the first time ever while riding one of my larger toys. After about five minutes I could feel something building in me and soon I felt like I had to push out. I shoved the head past my second hole while continuing to ride and felt like I was going to pass out from so much pleasure. After about thirty seconds it ended and I released my breath and laid on the floor for a few minutes trying to catch my breath.

I have a couple questions though.  Is this what an anal orgasm is? Ever since I’ve started to have experiences like that it’s a lot harder to cum from jerking off and I need some type of anal stimulation to get me there. Does this mean I’ve cunted myself? Is that even possible?? I’ve been craving anal a lot more than before because it just feels soo good now!

Also I was wondering if an Alpha always has to be a top. Are there Alpha bottoms and Fag tops?

Hi brother! Thank you for the question! 

Wow! You managed to pull off something pretty rare – cunting yourself with a dildo! What you described is a classic cunting, but I’m not sure I’ve ever heard of a credible “self-cunt” (love that term, BTW LOL) until now! 

Yes, it’s definitely possible to do it, as you found out. And, just like any other cunting, you’re now transformed! See what I mean about how being cunted overwhelms your senses and makes you look at everything differently? 

As for your other question, yes a true Alpha is always a Top. It doesn’t make any sense for an Alpha to be dominant while getting fucked. I know there are some “bossy bottoms” out there who mistakenly believe they’re Alpha, but they aren’t. They simply haven’t encountered a real Alpha who would put them in their proper place.  

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This was originally published October 5, 2020

Alphas and Masters love owning faggots. Why wouldn’t they? Faggots are like faithful dogs that can be fucked, ordered to cook and clean, and always gives back non-stop worship.

Alphas and Masters also love the pliability of faggots. Since faggots are possessions of Men, these superiors can make faggots do whatever they want or modify them in whatever way they choose. That might mean keeping the faggot in a doggie cage. It might mean having the faggot drink urine. Most commonly, it means putting the faggot into a chastity cage.

Those are all the fun aspects of faggot ownership. But ultimately a faggot is a valuable possession of a Man, and valuable possessions need to be cared for and protected.

That intro leads me to an extraordinary event that happened this weekend.

Chin (Master Jin’s faggot) and Alex (Master Nick’s faggot) had been talking to each other and devised a way to get a key for their chastity cages because they were getting frustrated being locked up. Eventually their plan was discovered, and both Masters were at their wit’s end trying to understand the problem.

Now, I had been in their ears for some time about how the faggots may need to be milked. My concern was more health-based; it’s better for the prostate to ejaculate. But I also felt these waves of frustration from the young faggots, that they couldn’t feel orgasms anymore.

This latest crisis finally made Masters Nick and Jin hear my words.

So Master Nick researched prostate milking. Then he took Alex into a private room, got him naked, and put him on the bed. Then Master Nick inserted his fingers into Alex’s hole, found the prostate, and then began to massage it. Within a minute or two, cum started to flow out of Alex’s clit, out of his cage, and onto the bed.

Now think about this. Master Nick is a straight Alpha Male! He’s owned faggots for nearly a year after a lifetime of never considering sex with a male! During his year of fag ownership, he has confronted every new issue with intelligence, thoughtfulness, and courage. This is what a true Apex Alpha does!

But Master Nick shrugs it off. “I own them, so it’s my job to take care of them,” he says.

After Master Nick milked Alex, Master Jin took Nick’s suggestions and milked the troublesome Chin. Within two minutes Jin had milked Chin and then cleaned him up.

Master Nick was so excited by the results of his milking of Alex that he then milked his other three faggots, Yul, Lee, and Oliver.

Again, these Masters are straight. Prostate milking was beyond anything they ever imagined they would ever do. But they faced this challenge with great maturity and practicality. I cannot praise this enough.

Afterward, I asked both of them what they thought. They said it was like fingering a pussy. The faggots said that it was the weirdest feeling they’d ever experienced. I’ll admit, it’s hard to describe. I thought it felt like involuntary peeing, but the relief was somewhere deeper than the relief of a typical Male orgasm.

But most significantly, the Masters born said that they felt closer to their faggots through the act of milking. Master Nick said he felt more powerful as he held his faggots in his large hands and cared for their needs. The event was one of GROWTH.

POSTSCRIPT

I was so amazed by the events that transpired that I began bragging to other Masters about it. And to my shock, these Masters (some gay) would say that they had no interest in milking their faggots. A couple had a reaction of “that’s gross … I’ll never do that.”

I think it’s a shame that so many Alphas and Masters want all of the benefits of faggot ownership, but none of the responsibility.

Leave it to Masters Nick and Jin – straight Alphas who are growing in their power daily. – to lead the way.

So I’m begging all owners of faggots: milk your faggots, be involved in their training, and be a worthy owner.

Special thank you to Master Nick and Master Jin for becoming the two most astounding owners of faggots that this world has ever known! May you always stand as a shining example to your Alpha brothers!

Dear Sam,

I tried a lot of what you said and I made it a whole month without cumming! At the end of said month he unlocked me made me nut as quick as possible then right back up I’ve been since. So we are definitely close to no release for me ever. We also got a cage he thinks that’ll be the best form of punishment for me as I’ve had a hard time staying compliant. Although he’s gotten very good at making me do exactly as he wants. The cage came up also as a way to give him some privacy once he finds other boys he wants me home while he fucks around but out of his way! Turns me on thinking about it honestly. I know there’s better faggots out there than me and I’d never want him to go without he’s a REAL MAN! And he should get whatever ass he wants whenever. I think you were right about him being alpha also. He jumped on the feet worship quick rubbing them all over my face making me kiss and massage him. I didn’t think I’d like it as I never have before but that MAN makes me feral haha I’d do anything for him. Thank you again sam you’ve helped me so much more than you know! Feel free to ask me anything more you’d like to know about us I’d love to tell you haha! I’m @fagboyalex98 on x!

thanks again!

Fag Alex

Brother, I’m so glad to hear that you’ve had a great month experimenting with chastity! I also love to hear that you’ve discovered the wonders of worshiping an Alpha’s feet! You’re officially a faggot now! HAHA

Keep me posted! 

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Just listen to the words of straight Master Jin! What a glorious thing to say about his property, his loyal faggots Chin and Alex!

Ownership transforms a Man or an Alpha into something more. A god. It molds his heart and mind as he cares for his faggots like happy-yet-vulnerable puppies.

Faggots are a reflection of a Man’s Alphahood. They are like beams of light emanating from a powerful sun. They are shining trophies in the trophy case of a great champion.

Master Jin knows this well!

This post is part of a thread chronicling the rise of Master Jin, a straight Korean Alpha who first learned about the ownership of faggots when he learned his college roommate Chin was a faggot. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

One of the hallmarks of fag ownwership by straight Alphas Nick and Jin is the strict enforcement of chastity by both of them. They firmly believe faggots should always be caged while serving Men, and faggots should never be allowed to masturbate.

They take it so seriously that they take the extraordinary step of doing the unlocking and cleaning of the faggots themselves!

So the house rules of both Masters are pretty well set. They might as well be carved in stone.

Mind you, Chin has been willingly serving Master Jin for a solid year, and Yul, Lee, and Alex have been serving Master Nick for nearly as long. So, again, there shouldn’t ever have been a question of expectations or standards.

But some faggots have rebellious hearts. They can’t just be happy with a perfect situation, so something rises up in them to threaten the entire scenario.

Such an evil force rose up in Alex, one of Master Nick’s best faggots. A couple of weeks ago Alex got it into his head to buy a different chastity cage in order to secretly unlock his current cage behind Master Nick’s back.

Alex ordered the cage, and when it arrived, he tried the key – A perfect fit!

According to Alex, he did not remove his cage. But the revelation was so exciting that he called and told Chin about the new cage unlocking their old cages.

What a disastrous idea. Chin has a long history of rebelling against his cage. You might remember the last infamous time when Master Jin (a medical professional) threatened to castrate Chin. That idea so horrified Chin at the time that we all thought he’d never complain about his cage again.

But here was Alex offering a way to escape his cage, and Chin fell for it immediately. He secretly ordered another cage, and when it arrived, the key worked in his old cage!

Let me stop here and go over the problems they’ve already accumulated:

1. Both of them went behind the backs of their Masters, great Men who try to extend trust toward them.

2. They both know how strict their Masters are with chastity, how fundamentally important it is to their ownership. However, by these actions, they disrespected this pact between them and their Masters.

3. They then tried to hide evidence of what they had done, even though they know how thoroughly both Masters monitor their faggots.

Then I found out about what they’d done.

I think the two faggots thought I would keep their secret (Chin specifically begged me to hide it for them), but I am a loyal faggot. I love both Masters very much, and I wasn’t going to disrespect them in order to conceal this for two dumb faggots.

So began an all-night battle, with me chewing out Chin and refusing his entreaties to just forget about it all. I demanded that both faggots confess what they’d done, and I wasn’t changing my mind about it.

So this morning, Alex approached Master Nick and confessed. Master Nick was justifiably angry, and told him he was disappointed in him. Later, Master Nick spanked Alex just for emphasis.

But Master Jin was REALLY upset with Chin. He unlocked Chin’s cage and removed it and said, “Leave.” Chin collapsed, crying uncontrollably and begging for his cage back.

Then Master Jin told Chin to play with his clit. Chin swore he wouldn’t touch it. So after ten minutes of begging, Master Jin locked the chastity cage back onto Chin’s clit.

So what can be learned from this?

Chin and Alex are excellent faggots, but like anyone, they can fall victim to wrong thinking and lose focus. Temptation is a difficult thing to resist.

But every faggot must approach service with a serious and respectful mind. This is especially true when you are serving Men like Masters Nick and Jin. Something so perfect can be destroyed forever if it is not valued and cherished.

I thought Masters Nick and Jin handled this surprising betrayal with nice calm. This has the net effect of shaming the two faggots even more.

Especially troubling to me is Chin. Even the threat of castration didn’t curb his chastity issues for long. I thought Master Jin’s threat of dismissal was a nice dramatic touch that instantly stabbed Chin in the heart.

But what else can be done with a rebellious faggot who simply refuses to follow direction?

I don’t know. But I do know that these faggots are under the sure hands of two of the greatest straight Alpha owners alive today! They will either learn obedience, or they will experience something significantly more painful!