I had what I consider to be a real Alpha / Beta relationship with a guy for quite a long time. I was his Beta to use when he needed. He treated me very well because I basically worshipped him and served his needs. He had be service his friends sometimes too Which was really about him showing to me that I’m there to do whatever he said and I think to show them he had complete control of me.
Anyway, he had to move for work and I ended up moving for a job too. Now I live in Las Vegas and I thought it would be easy to find a real Alpha to serve. I’m now in my 50s, so that does make it harder. But I can’t find anyone. Yes I can easily find guys who use me as a cum dump, but that is not the same thing as a real Alpha.
My previous Alpha was a long time ago and was pretty easy to find. Not sure how to find a real Alpha man. I’d appreciate any suggestions you may have
Thanks for the question, brother!
It sounds like you had a wonderful Alpha/faggot relationship with your former Master! And yes, those things he did with you were designed to show off his power over you, as well as pay honor to his Alpha friends.
I’m sorry that’s no longer in your life!
Alphas can be found everywhere (bars, sporting events, gyms, any place outdoors) if you choose to approach them. I always advise for a faggot to look around at the friends/associations you currently have in your personal life and see if there is a potential Alpha among them. Then you would start subtly serving them and showing them deference. Ask them if they consider themselves to be Alpha. Work that into a conversation about Hierarchy (you can use the resources on this site) and help him understand the larger implications of his Alphahood and your purpose.
I understand these ideas might seem daunting. That’s why I wrote the book “May I Serve You, Sir?” to give to Alphas as a primer (see: book store). And that’s why I wrote “Letter To An Alpha” (link in sidebar) that can be used (and has been successfully used) to teach Alphas.
I don’t expect you to remember this at all but a while back I’d messaged asking if you had any advice about pursuing service with some Alphas I knew from my college who I only spoke to via socials.
I took your advice and reached out to the one who I used to kind of serve (still kicking myself for ending that way back when)… but he never responded.
I know I probably should just drop it but I wanted to ask if you had any advice for going forward? Just, keep an eye out for other Alphas in my life? Or reach out to the other 2?
[one hour later …]
Hey Sam,
I just sent a message to you earlier about how the Alpha I reached out to on socials didn’t respond, but a little while after I sent that HE FINALLY DID.
Turns out he really remembered me and we had a nice convo catching up. We don’t really live near each other anymore, it turns out, which sucks. But I apologized for stopping service to him before and for my past behavior, and I even offered to help him with anything he needs. He was really sweet about everything and didn’t make too much of a big deal about it, but seemed receptive.
For literal years I’ve thought about messaging this Man Sam, you have no idea. So thanks for encouraging me to reach out to him. I hope to start introducing hierarchy to him as we continue to talk– maybe one day he’ll find a use for me again!
Sorry for the back to back messages/asks, I didn’t think he’d even remember me but when he responded I HAD to update you.
Yes, I remember you!
I’m glad you worked up the courage to contact him! The first step is always the hardest! And I’m glad he responded and seemed open to something in the future! Definitely try to look for ways to engage him in a more direct conversation about Hierarchy! That’s a great way in!
First of all, I’m a Submissive Faggot in my late 20s and I know what I am and my purpose.
my Ideal Type is a Chavy/Scally Lad with fluffy hair (you know the type I mean) wearing Tracksuits, TNs and puffer jackets.
the issue is the type I describe and desire is literally My younger brother who is Straight and very dominant. In my head I want to serve and worship but know I can’t and it’s wrong and how would I even approach the subject with him etc
help
Thanks for the delicate question, brother.
First of all, you’re wrong if you think you can’t serve your brother. I’ve covered multiple Alpha/fag brothers in hierarchical relationships. Some are sexual, some aren’t fully sexual. I’m not saying it’s an IDEAL situation, mind you. It has the potential to blow up in your face.
I would start serving your brother in menial ways … doing laundry for him, cleaning and cooking for him, etc. If you have the chance, pay his rent or other expenses. He will ask questions about this behavior, and at that point you can explain what you are. You can use the resources on this site to do this.
From there, your brother will decide exactly how to use you for his benefit.
That’s my advice if you choose to try this path. I hope it helps!
I’ve been following your website and profile for a while now. You’ve definitely had an impact on me as I came to terms with my desires to submit and serve. I don’t agree with everything you’ve said over the years, but I know I am a faggot and I know you helped me get there.
I’ve recently been feeling really desperate to serve. There are these 3 guys I follow on socials and I know two of them personally– really one, but I’ve spoken to the other in some of my classes a little. We all go to the same college.
The first guy I knew in high school and he was kind of my friend and kind of not? It was always weird cause sometimes he seemed to be using me. Like I helped him through some of his classes, but I got annoyed and stopped speaking to him.
The second guy, like I said, I only speak to him a couple times in class but we shared a dorm building before. I’ve seen him shirtless in the halls a couple times, but I doubt he really knows or remembers me.
The last guy I found from the second guy’s social media. One of the hottest men I’ve ever seen– real Alpha type. I think he’s trying to be a fitness influencer or something.
There’s a part of me that really wants to reach out to one of these guys and try to serve them, but we don’t really talk. I’m worried that if I were to reach out to them they’d think I was a freak and either ignore me or out me to other people. So I guess my I’m asking how do I submit to them? Is it even worth trying to? Or should I focus on other Alphas?
Thank you for the question, brother!
Here you have three Alpha choices. You should always start with the one you know best. So the first one you know and have (unintentionally) served a little bit. I would try to strike up a conversation and ask him if he remembers how you used to do things for him and see what he says about that. Then you can tell him that you’ve discovered why what happened between you – HIERARCHY. Ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. Explain to him what you know about Alphas being served and worshiped for being superior.
You can show him my hierarchy pyramid in the pinned post at the top of the site. Ask him where he sees himself on that chart. Try to be brave if he asks where you think you are, or maybe ask him where HE thinks you are. This could lead to an interesting conversation.
If you don’t like that, you can always let him read my “Letter To An Alpha” (link in the sidebar) or buy my book “May I Serve You, Sir?” (link in the books section).
The following post is part of a thread following the story of Mika, a teenage faggot in Peru who bravely and successfully seduced a straight Alpha named Gael. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
There’s nothing terribly difficult about what I teach here regarding either submitting to a straight Alpha or taking ownership of a faggot. That’s not to say it’s easy – it’s not – but the mechanics of it have been in place since the beginning of human interaction. Hierarchy is so fundamental to everything we are that everyone responds in a primal way if those triggers are manipulated.
For faggots wishing to serve a straight Alpha, the first thing that must happen is a mind-shift. A faggot must recognize that it was born to serve superior Men, but also that superior Men were born to own them. Men have a definite need and desire to be worshiped and served, and once they understand that faggots offer that in abundance, they let go of the sexual stigma associated with faggots and instead embrace the glory of being worshiped.
It just takes bravery on the part of a faggot to begin that chain reaction.
Recently I’ve been answering questions and coaching a young faggot named Mika. He’s from Peru, he’s in school, and he wanted to serve a hot straight Alpha named Gael. You can read all of Mika’s questions by following the link above.
But now Mika has had an incredible breakthrough, so I’ve elevated his story to a proper thread on the site!
Listen to his incredible update:
Hi Sam!!! This is Mika from Peru and I’m so so happy
Remember what I told you about the trainee that work in my school? His name is Gael, by the way. This morning, thanks to our conversations here, I finally had courage enough to do what I need to do.
I was super nervous when I arrived at school to my class, but as soon as I saw him, I opened a big smile and asked how was his weekend. He said that he had a lot of work and didn’t have time to relax, then I don’t know what happened to me but I just said “well, I would love to help you relax, a Man like you deserve to relax” Of course he understood what I wanted, because he already asked a blowjob 3 times… 2 times as a joke, but the third time more serious. So he just told me that he would give me a ride after my classes were over.
As soon as I entered his car, he started to say that his girlfriend was really pretty, but she refused to cook for him, so he always needed to cook lunch and dinner after a long day at work. Then he went into sexual stuff and said that she doesn’t want to have sex before they get married. After complaining about his girlfriend for a while, he stopped at an empty parking lot a few blocks from my house and said “I really don’t understand why she does that with me. If you were my girl, would you treat me like that?”
Omg Sam, that moment was so crazy. I was so afraid of saying something stupid!! But I just said “if I was your girl, your stomach would be always full of good food, and your balls would be always empty, because that’s what you really deserve” I think that was a good thing to say because he smiled to me, then I asked if he was just joking when he asked for a blowjob. He said that he really respected me and didn’t want to hurt my feelings, but that since we have basically the same age he never saw me as a student, but as a sexy girl. Then he admitted that he was a virgin and never received a blowjob because his girlfriend only kisses him and nothing more.
I was still a little scared but I said that I never sucked a dick too and would love to learn sucking his. He looked around in the parking lot, and put his dick out and it was soooo hard. I was really confused at first because everything was so new, but I did what felt more right, and started to suck his dick while holding his balls and jerking him off. I was so nervous but so happy to be the first one suck his dick and he was the first dick that I put in my mouth. My mouth and jaw started to hurt but I wanted to make him proud and didn’t stop sucking. After some time, he just holded my hair and jerked off with the other hand. He was very sweet and told me that he could cum on the floor outside the car if I wasn’t ready to take it. But I just said “in my mouth please” and swallowed everything.
Omg Sam, this is so crazy… this morning I was just a virgin faggot now I sucked a big dick and swallowed my first load. I hope I did it well!! But he told me that he want to see me again, so I think I was a good boy for him. I would be so happy if he wanted to be with me as his boyfriend, but I don’t think he will leave his girl…
Thank you, Sam!! <3 I really love your site and am happy now
AMAZING!!!
This is literally all it takes! Just make yourself available and be eager to submit! Go in with the proper mindset – positive, joyful, and eager to serve in whatever way they need – and a straight Alpha will understand your purpose and use you!
I’m so proud of Mika for accomplishing this!
Now, I’m not sure if Alpha Gael will want to take on Mika as a “boyfriend” given the fact that he’s straight, but I’m sure he’d love to own Mika as his personal faggot! Especially if his girlfriend is that frigid and unloving!
I hope this post inspires other faggots out there to bravely submit to the Alphas in their lives!
Hello, Sam. I’m sorry I couldn’t tell him about the Hierarchy. It’s like my lips are stuck together. About Yannick and the bathroom situation, I think he was very calm at the time. Not nervous. Like he should be. Like he wasn’t naked at all. After that meeting, we saw each other a few days later. His aunt and uncle said he won a competition he was in. And I wanted to do something for him. So the day before he arrived, I made a cake. Tender crust, cherry frosting. I was very nervous. In the morning, we were all waiting for him in the living room. When he came through the door smiling in his team uniform. I was ecstatic. Then there was a lunch specially prepared for him by me. His aunt can’t cook. It was my pleasure. Lunch went quickly. Yannick was tired after a hard workout and went to his room to rest. I went straight to the kitchen to prepare dinner. That night everyone complimented me, praising the food on the table. Yannick smirked at me. I blushed slightly at the sight of him. His morning sunny smile was different from the one he showed me. Could he really want to make me his? The whole evening after that, I couldn’t stop thinking about it. Yannick is so handsome, so beautiful. If you choose among actors, he looks most like a young Chris Hemsworth. The evening was over. The old couple went to bed. And I went to Yannick’s room with a cake on my hands. I knocked and waited for the door to open. When the door opened Yannick stood naked with only a towel stretched on his thighs. His hair was still wet. There were still drops of water on his chest. They rolled down his abs disappearing under the white towel. It made me swallow my saliva. I couldn’t hear what he was saying anymore. It took me about ten or twenty seconds to come to my senses. When the magic was over. I congratulated him on his victory and pointed to the cake. He nodded his head. He said come in. So I entered his abode. I put the cake on the bedside table. I turned around, my heart pounding. Yannick was standing very close to me. Still in his towel. I said quickly, “Excuse me, sir. I’ll pardon me. Yannick said nothing. He stood calmly close to me. After a while, something fell to the ground. It turned out to be his watch. I didn’t even realize he’d been holding it the whole time. It’s a towel. Those chest muscles, those abs mesmerized me. Made my heart pound. Yannick stood, I quickly knelt down to pick up the watch. Kneeling in front of such a divine creature I just stupidly opened my mouth. Yannick came so close to me that my open mouth could have caught the edge of the towel and I grasped with my teeth. And pulled. But at the last moment, Yannick held the towel back. Looked at me, grinned. He lifted his foot and his toes were next to my lips. Without thinking, I kissed his toes. First one, then the other. On the third, he put his foot on my chest. And kicked me lightly. I handed him his watch. Yannick took the watch. Put his other hand on my head and ruffled my hair. Then he quickly took his hand away. Walked away from me. I got to my feet. He looked at the door. And I left. What did I do wrong, Sam? What did he expect me to do? I was so nervous.
Hi Ethan. Thanks for writing again!
I’m so proud of you for taking the initiative and offering gifts to Yannick in an attempt to trigger a response from him! This was the exact right thing to do!
AND IT WORKED! You sound discouraged, but Yannick’s reaction was actually very promising. No, you didn’t necessarily get to service him (yet), but this was an extremely sexual outcome nonetheless. More importantly, Yannick now knows what he’s suspected about you: you’re a faggot, and that you understand he’s Alpha.
Keep submitting to him. Don’t stop now. Kissing his foot is HUGE and will almost assuredly lead to more!
This is an update one week after I sent my question about how to fully submit to my boyfriend.
Thank you so much for your invaluable advice, focusing on worshiping his feet has worked like a charm!
It’s been only a week after I started subtly massaging and complimenting his feet, and they have already become a central part of his dominance. He now often uses his legs and feet to keep my head in place when I’m giving him a blowjob, and he enjoys making me lick and smell his feet. For example, two days ago he came home all sweaty from the gym, and I immediately could sense that he wanted to fuck. I went to kiss him, but instead he took off one of his socks and put it inside my mouth. He then pushed me against the kitchen counter, pulled down my pants, and started to fuck me roughly while his sock was still in my mouth. After he finished he went to have a shower without saying a word, and left me with my pants down and his cum leaking down my thighs. I think that it was the first time that he did not wait next to me while I made myself come.
Fully submitting to him outside of sex is still a work in progress, but I made some improvements. When he is not home I try to do as much housework as much as I can, and I have noticed that he has started to neglect cleaning, cooking, and washing clothes, assuming that I will do it. Yesterday night, for instance, he started cleaning the kitchen, but when I joined him he immediately sat on the sofa to scroll on his phone and left me doing it alone. I could see that he was looking at pictures of hot twinks on instagram. After I finished, he rewarded fucking me like a toy, and I wondered if he was thinking about the guys on his phone while doing it.
I can’t thank you enough for helping me awaken the alpha inside him a little more, and please let me know if you think there are other things that I could do. Tomorrow he will go on a work trip for two weeks, and I am worried him being away will disrupt the progress I was making.
One of my favorite things in the world about this “job” I have is giving advice, having the person follow my suggestions, and then hearing that it worked exactly as planned! Brother, you made me so happy with this update! Thank you!
Some pre-Alphas just need a little coaxing until they feel they feel they have essentially been “given permission” to act out the desires they’ve been suppressing. Far too many pre-Alphas have been lost to being polite and thoughtful and WOKE. Alphas sometimes act (and need to act) selfishly and roughly. Non-PC. This is just how they’re made.
I knew if your boyfriend had any Alpha in him, the feet trick would trigger it. And sure enough, it did! He responded beautifully to it! You did an excellent job, brother!
As far as your concerns, I wouldn’t worry at all. His engine is now running, and he’s experienced what it felt like to TAKE YOU the way an Alpha takes and uses a faggot. He sees you now as an object of lust, a toy that he owns so he can unload his power and rage. He’s going to return from that trip and practically rape you!
There’s an old saying: “The way to a Man’s heart is through his stomach.” And yeah, Men love a great meal.
But if you’re serving an ALPHA (or want to be), the way to his heart is through his FEET.
You see, food satisfies a Man’s physical hunger, but an Alpha hungers for something greater: POWER and WORSHIP. He craves it the way his body craves air. It fuels everything he believes himself to be and everything he intends to become.
Foot worship is the ultimate act of submission and worship in the eyes of an Alpha, particularly if that foot worship comes from a faggot. When an Alpha sees a faggot debase itself entirely, surrender its masculinity, and kiss his feet, the Alpha swells with tremendous power and aggression.
There will always be a reaction to that simple act!
The following experience came in through my Questions From Readers inbox, but it was long enough and pointed enough that I’m turning it into a proper post so that everyone may learn:
I wanna tell you one experience that I remembered other day, it’s pure hierarchy. When I was 21 yo (now I’m 29) and had a vanilla relationship. At that time I had no idea what hierarchy or faggots/Alpha were, but I already knew that feet turned me on so much, and luckily my ex-boyfriend allowed me to worship his feet. Even though our sex dynamic was pretty vanilla, he was only top and I was only bottom, he always fucked me until he comes and then he kept his cock inside me and I wanked till I cum, almost every time it was like that.
But one day everything changed, we figured out together a new way of pleasing each other. We were having our usual dynamic when after had bred me he took his dick out of my hole and just lay by my side, instead of wanking and cum I instinctively went to the end of the bed, on the floor and started worshipping his feet and then massaging them, I was horny as fuck doing it but at anytime I thought about my dick, I was totally focused in give him pleasure and I wanted him to relax, after around 25 minutes of me worshipping him, he told me to join him in the bed and I obeyed, I didn’t know but he was ready for another round (that’s why he wanted me in the bed) we started kissing and a few minutes later his dick was in my hole again, he gave me another load and this time he left his dick inside me and told me to cum, after I came we stayed in the bed for a few minutes exhausted and in bliss about what had happened.
After that it became a thing between us, every time he gave me a load (in any of my holes) I worshipped his feet and kept myself chaste to receive another load afterwards and it wasn’t something he forced me to do, it was so natural for me, I craved to please him so bad, but I have to say he encouraged me to keep chaste because he realised it was good for our relationship, specially good for him (having an eager boyfriend to unload anytime). At some point he started ordering me to worship his feet and trainers as well before AND after fuck me.
After a while I figured out the world of chastity cages and I bought my first cage, it was a medium holy trainer, we already had broken up when I got this cage, but we still had some contact and I ended up telling him about the cage in a text message, the first thing he said was “I wanna fuck you while you are using the cage, and this time you’re not going to cum at all” and that’s exactly what happened, he arrived at my house, made me lick his trainers clean while he ignored me, then I worshipped his socked feet and his bare feet, he unloaded in my hole and ordered me to massage his feet, probably for 40min, after that he fucked me again, I got another load, he told me to grab a butt plug, he plugged me and said “keep my loads safe inside you until tonight at 10pm and keep the cage on as well” it was 5pm when it happened, this said he dressed up and left. I did exactly what he told me to do and it was the best feeling ever, knowing I had pleased a real man and had his seed inside me. Hierarchy is truth! And as soon as we know our place, the happiest we can be brother Sam.
This perfectly illustrates my point! Can you see how foot worship dialed-up the dominance in this Alpha/faggot dynamic?
Here’s the other thing: faggots need to give in to their natural desire to worship Alphas in this way. Don’t be afraid to even start submitting to an Alpha through foot worship. This faggot followed his instinct, and it paid off dramatically well!
Believe me, true Alphas cannot resist foot worship. The ones who don’t need it simply haven’t experienced it yet. Foot worship and service has been a huge tool in my faggot toolbox in order to serve Alphas and be owned by them!
Hey there I had been scrolling on twitter and found you guys and I’ve just been soo confused. Now I’m 18 and think I wanna serve alpha men how do I go about this? What will my friends and family think? I just need some advice!!
Thank you for your questions, brother!
First of all, don’t panic. You’re perfectly fine, and everything is going to be okay!
Being 18 years old gives you a tremendous advantage, because you’re literally surrounded by young horny Alphas at school and work (if you have a job). Every Alpha wants a tight virgin faggot, I guarantee. So look through the Alphas you know, and then start looking for ways to be useful to them. Isolate one that seems like an Alpha you’d really life to serve, and start really trying to submit to him. You can literally just ask him questions about whether he thinks he’s Alpha, and use his response to go into a discussion about Hierarchy. Use the resources on this website to help you – that’s why I created them!
As for your family, that’s not a consideration right now. Work on becoming a faggot first.
This is the first time I’m writing to you on the site, but I would like to share my story if you think it’s appropriate. Thanks to you, I have discovered my nature as a faggot. I have learned about hierarchy and my place at the feet of alpha men. I am grateful to you. My name is Antoine (on social media, I go by Lucien, like my crush). I am Italian, 35 years old, and I am a virgin. Lucien is a former Swiss guard, straight, and alpha, and I am madly in love with him. I was fortunate to live with him for a few months in Rome, and I always showed myself to be available and submissive, obviously without telling him anything, but I tried to make him understand my devotion through my availability and by helping him with many things. I also visited him in Switzerland, and those were the most beautiful moments of my life. In the end, we both returned to our own places, and the distance made me realize how much I depended on him. I bought your book “Can I Serve You?” and I found it fantastic. Thanks to our discussions on X, I was convinced to confess my feelings. Since I did, he hasn’t been treating me the same way; he ignores me, we don’t talk on the phone anymore, he says he has work problems and doesn’t want to. I even offered to help him financially, but he refused. I am desperate! In a few months, I will meet him in Rome with a group of friends who know nothing about all this, and he will be staying with others instead of with me. I have become so jealous that I made it obvious to him, and he responded annoyed, “Stop with these childish things, or I will kick you out of the group.” I am desperate, Sam. Help me; how should I behave when I meet him in front of everyone else? I m a faggot Sam, I need to serve an alpha, to be ed by an alpha. Thank you, Sam; you are precious.
Brother, thanks for telling your story here on the site!
Lucien does sound like an amazing, very dominant Alpha. I can see why you love him and worship him so much!
It does seem like you’ve pushed him too far or been too needy/desperate with him, and that clinginess is bad for Alphas. They don’t like that, and sometimes react angrily to it. You need to relax and be submissive and quiet and let him dictate things for a bit. Perhaps the trip to Rome might be a chance to offer him help or gift him something, but I wouldn’t make a big production out of it if you do. You really need to allow him to take the lead if he chooses.
This is a dance. Occasionally a toe gets stepped on, but that doesn’t mean the dance is over. Keep trying.
There’s a hot guy i admire on Instagram. I tried contacting him and said i could serve, buy his used shoes and pay him. At first he would only read without answering and then he just blocked. Since i found his email i send him a money transfer asking to be forgiven and to be given a chance saying he could ask for anything so i can make up for it and the intensity.
But is it already too late? Did I lost all chances already?
Is there a way to save this and have me still serving him?
Thanks in advance.
P.s. what would be the best one to approach hot Alpha on social media that are pure strangers?
Hi brother. Thanks for writing.
Yes, I think it’s safe to say that you’ve lost any chance of serving this Alpha. He blocked you, but then you stalked him anyway. So yeah, he isn’t going to want anything to do with you.
In terms of approaching hot Alpha strangers, rule number one (that you broke with this last Alpha) is this: DON’T BE CREEPY. Be professional and respectful and submissive, not WEIRD or STALKER-LIKE or SCARY or DESPERATE.
So I love gooning and sending to men who are better than men in many ways, it’s fun and pleasurable and I thank them for letting me serve them. I do serve different people though as I can’t pick one master.
The question, I have for you, is how do I do it offline. I’ve only really done it online thru findom but want to try out Chasity with a master, be a part of their sexual lives and find more fulfillment. I have ur book but I’m just as anxious online if not more talking to someone I like whether he be str8 or gay in person
You start by finding Alphas in your circle of people you know, identifying the Alphas, and making an approach.
I’m a college student, been a faggot all my life, started to suck dick right after I turned 18. I’ve this one alpha straight man living on my flat, seperate rooms. From the dick print I see on his pants, he has a massive cock.
We share some classes, he knows I’m gay, we interact every now and then. I want him to turn me into his slave, and fuck me or atleast let me suck his dick.
How do I approach him, and get a taste of that alpha cock?
Thanks for the question, brother!
First of all, you need to get some focus. You might not be able to service his cock, but you might still be used as his slave faggot. Are you prepared for that?
It doesn’t sound like you’ve had the kind of interactions that would allow you to start offering help or service. You might be able to offer to make him some food or give him some food (always a good opener), but going up and offering to do his laundry might be a bit much.
I’d suggest this: next time you talk to him, ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. If he’s as Alpha as you suggest, he will say yes. Engage him in a discussion of Hierarchy, and ask him what qualities define Alphahood or why Alphas are important in society.
If he asks you why you’re asking, direct him to this site and the opening post about Hierarchy. Ask him where on the chart he feels he ranks. This is going to get his attention. He might even ask you where you rank; if he does, you MUST be prepared to tell him you’re a faggot! This will startle him, and he will take it seriously.
I recently had a faggot use my “Letter To An Alpha” post (in the sidebar) to help an Alpha friend of eight years take ownership of him. You could use that, too.
This stuff works. I’m offering it to you free. Just use it.
The following post is part of a thread about Chadwick, a faggot in his sixties who serves multiple Alphas domestically. CLICK HEREto read this thread in chronological order!
Truly one of the more inspirational stories I’ve uncovered since my return is that of my brother Chadwick, the older faggot who has excelled as a domestic faggot for multiple Masters around the United States. Word has spread among Alphas, and Chadwick’s highly-detailed and thorough service has become a desirable commodity for them.
Which just proves something I’ve always preached: be useful, and Alphas will make use of you.
I’ve had a couple of questions regarding what domestic service looks like, so I asked Chadwick if he’d kindly write up an experience.
But instead of just doing that, Chadwick wrote up how he found another Master to serve in addition to the service he provides.
Here’s what he wrote:
HI Sam,
Here is a recent service that i completed for my Master “seeking Eager subs” on Recon.
i have been serving Master AKA “Seeking Eager subs” on Recon for over a year once or twice a month. My service is 98% cleaning and laundry. Master bakes a lot. His Kitchen is always in need of service.
Upon arrival if Master is Home. i kiss His feet as a show of my respect for His Alphaness and my obedience.
i do His Laundry, including Sheets, Blankets, Towels, Bath Mats, etc. Everything is taken downstairs to His Apartment’s Laundry Room where five or six loads of Laundry is completed..
Clean and sanitize His Bathroom It is very important to make sure Master’s Bathroom is not only sparkling clean, but germ free.
Clean and Sanitize His Kitchen. There are Kitchen Gadgets,Dishes, Glasses, Silverware,.Counters, outside of Appliances and Cabinets all needed to be cleaned. If something has spilled inside His Oven, that is cleaned too.
Once i have finished cleaning HIs Bathroom and Kitchen, the Floors are mopped.
Dust and clean all of His Window Sills and Furniture.
Make His Bed with clean sheets and Blankets
Vacuum all of the Floors and Carpets.
Take all of His Trash and Recycling down to the Trash Room.
If His Blinds or Windows are dirty, They are cleaned.
Upon Finishing service, if Master is Home, thank Him and leave.
I am usually there serving Master from six to seven Hours.
That’s a lot of work, isn’t it? But notice how Chadwick doesn’t skip steps or take shortcuts, but he’s thorough and worshipfully detailed with every step of his process.
It’s exactly how an Alpha Master deserves to be treated!
I can see why Chadwick, despite his advanced age, is still able to find so many Alphas to serve!
I’ve only recently found your website and I’m still waiting exploring it all.
Ive always been a bottom and submissive but never seen it described and detailed as clearly as here. It’s amazing! Thank you!
I have a straight Personal Trainer who is *gorgeous* and I can’t help but think he’s perfect Alpha material. He is naturally dominant and clearly enjoys ordering me and his other clients around.
I’ve bought him so gifts and given him some lifts which he accepts very much as if he expects things like this.
my question – I’m sure I saw a letter, or a primer, you wrote for faggots to give to Alphas and I now can’t find it! Or did I just make that up!?
I’m always suspicious about personal trainers because they are practically escorts, if you take my meaning. It’s part of the business model that they play a hot, sexy role … and they are hit on all the time. The approach must be from a more intellectual standpoint rather than a sexual one.
My letter might be a way to do it. The letter is in the sidebar to the site, but on mobile you need to scroll down past 25 posts or so to find it. Or, you can just follow this link: https://hierarchyuniversity.com/my-truth-a-letter-to-you-sir/
I think I’m going to create a page with the entire sidebar on it so it’s easily accessible. Thanks for the inspiration! Keep me posted on how it goes!
Hey there brother sam, i am a faggot who is looking for an Alpha to serve in the Minneapolis area. Do you know of any online platforms that i could use to find one?
Recon is a pretty decent platform for BDSM and Masters. I’m intrigued by TheBlowers.com as away to find Alphas who want cocksuckers, which could easily lead into service relationships. I suppose Grindr might work as well. Without playing my hand, I will say there is a gap in the market for this kind of thing, and I’m mulling over how to fill it.
Hello again Brother. Thank you so much for your answer to my last question. It was very helpful. I am trying my best to prepare for what I hope to be the start of my submission to my Straight Master. I was wondering if you could give advice on 2 separate matters to this end?
First, I have read your preprepared letter and I cannot thank you enough for going to the effort of writing it to help us fellow faggots out. I was wondering if you would advise me to send it before the holiday, so he has time to read and process it? Or should I wait until we are together in the cabin? I am slightly worried it may scare him off or cause him to second guess if he is, as you correctly say, trying to be a nice guy.
Second, as any self-aware faggot should be I am locked in chastity. He is not aware that I do this however. If I am successful in submitting I will have no issue giving him the keys. But I do not want to seem presumptuous or predatory, and I am concerned that if he realises I arrived wearing it he may think negatively of how I have approached submitting to him. Any advice is appreciated, although I understand if you are too busy and only wish for updates once I have given him the letter
Thank you for the follow-up questions, brother. I want you to be able to get this right!
I don’t think you should send him the letter ahead of time (unless you happen to get into a conversation about it before the trip). Get into the conversation and use the letter as a way for him to get a broader view of things.
As far as chastity is concerned, I think you should wear the cage on the trip. If he discovers it, that will be a way to open a conversation for sure. But here’s a little secret: straight Alphas get excited when they see an inferior male in chastity. I don’t know why that is. My theory: the sight of the caged faggot pings their own dominance in a new way, and they realize that this inferior male is subservient. The cage gives them permission to use it however they want. So I wouldn’t be concerned about that too much.
Don’t ask him about being a keyholder until he responds positively to your admission of being a faggot. He has to get past that first before accepting the rest of it.
Be patient and submissive and weak. Essentially, throw yourself on his mercy. Trust in him that he’s an Alpha who knows how to guide you.
I’m truly excited for you, brother. I think something awesome is going to happen. I love you!
Hi. I am wondering how I let a straight alpha male know I am available for service. We have been friends for 8 years now and in that time I have tried to be as obedient as possible. I have always gone along with his suggestions and desires, I have done everything I can to make his life better and more enjoyable. For his part, he seems to know I am “always game” for whatever he has in mind. He has a very dominant attitude with most people in his life and I know from some very frank conversations we have had that he is a rough BDSM master in bed. I also know he has repeatedly complained about women not putting out, not doing all the stuff he wants to do and not being submissive or service oriented enough for his liking.
Next week we will be going on holiday to a cabin together, and all of our other friends have apparently pulled out. To make sure we can still go and that he can have the holiday he deserves, I have covered their shares of the holiday and I have told him it is “so he can still have his holiday” and his only response was that I was such a good friend, when in actuality I am hoping to be his good fag. I have told him I am always happy to help in any way he wants, but he just laughed and said that gay men were funny. Is he oblivious or drawing a line? And if it is the former, how do I get him to see me as the faggot I am beneath him in the hierarchy?
Straight Alphas like him suffer from two simultaneously-running problems. (1) Gay males deserve the same respect as any other Man, and (2) what I call “nice guy syndrome”.
I’m going to posit this: your friend has thought about using you sexually. He might even be quite interested in doing so. Why do I say that? Because he’s repeatedly complaining TO YOU about how women aren’t serving him and submitting to him enough. I think if you had done anything to help him see what you really are – a faggot – he would’ve used you.
But let’s focus on what’s coming up. Serendipity has gifted you some time alone with him in a secluded place. Now’s the time, brother. Sit at his feet. Offer him a foot massage. Kiss his feet. See where I’m going with this?
Start a conversation with him about Alphahood. Ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. lead it into a discussion of Hierarchy. Show him material from this site if you need to (I have a “letter to an alpha” in the sidebar that he can read). He needs to grasp the inequality between you, and that you have a natural place as his servant, not his friend.
The sooner you do this during the trip, the better. This will give him time to digest the information and act on it.
You MUST do this. You have a prime opportunity to finally reveal the truth to this great Alpha! Good luck, and keep me posted!
The following post is part of a thread chronicling a 43-year-old black-American faggot in France named Nate who boldly teaches Alphas about Hierarchy. CLICK HERE for all posts in this thread in chronological order!
Occasionally I run across a faggot who listens carefully to the things I teach and then executes them at a high level. I love these ones because I often receive messages from them telling me about the successes they’re having in submitting to Alphas or even approaching Alphas.
Every win by a faggot in this area means yet another advancement in the battle we wage against a world in denial of the truth of Hierarchy.
A tremendous victory was recently achieved by a 43-year-old faggot in France named Nate. I first met Nate when he approached me about translating vital parts of this site into French in order to further the reach and message (which I absolutely love and appreciate!).
But Nate is much more proactive and clever than I even realized. He’s a faggot after my own heart, because he enjoys the process of opening the understanding of straight Alphas and helping them grasp the truth of Hierarchy in their own lives. He does this is a variety of ways, including several of the techniques I’ve long espoused online. Read Nate’s account and see if you can spot some of them!
Your site helped me be bolder in accepting my position as a trainer faggot. I train both Alphas and faggots. My Master, I’ll call him D for the moment until I can ask him if it’s alright that I disclose his identity. Master D I met at the gym. I thought that he was like 27 around 30 years old and he thought that I was like 20. I’m 43 and he’s 20. I’m Black-American and he’s Italian. I look very young for my age so people are always thinking that I look super young.
But when I met him I detected this kind of suppressed Alpha energy but I wasn’t sure if he actually was an Alpha. After the gym we would all go to the sauna and I just remember wondering if he was indeed an Alpha. He’s very playful and accommodating and he’s immensely popular. So, in the sauna I began to sit on the bottom seat next to his feet. I did notice that he would pay particular attention to me even though he was surrounded by his gym friends and joking with them. He just kept looking at me and I couldn’t understand why. Then, he began joining me on the bottom step, which confused me. So, I wondered if he had actually misunderstood my gesture.
All of the shower stalls are single person except one, which has two shower heads. I always shower in the one that has two shower heads. No one ever goes into that shower if another person is in there. One day, however, Master D walked into it while I was showering and I was shocked. He didn’t make any deal out of it and just began showering right next to me. This was when I thought that he was hitting on me but wasn’t really an Alpha. But my mind kept going back and forth because I had not seen this type of behavior in another Alpha before. Yet, what he did was so confident that I didn’t understand it.
Then I invited him to Thanksgiving dinner with my friends and he accepted tentatively as he needed to check in with his girlfriend. I knew that he really wanted to be there but I knew that his girlfriend would have reservations because she truly knew no one. So they didn’t come, but I was impressed by the fact that he wholeheartedly accepted my invitation. So, since he could not attend I made Master D a doggy bag and brought it to him. He was elated! I wrote on the containers ‘Alpha’. He saw that, looked at me but said nothing (he speaks English well but prefers French). He told me to hold his stuff while he put the food in his bag. I told him that I was delighted to hold anything for him. He said that he ate everything but the Turkey because he doesn’t like day old meat (I am vegetarian so I don’t even know what the turkey tasted like). It was his first Thanksgiving meal and he had never tasted those flavors.
So, then I got bold enough to ask him if he thought that he was an Alpha. He said that he thought so but wasn’t sure what it entailed. I explained to him what I knew about it and how I saw his comportment but I didn’t want to impose my thoughts on him. I could tell that he was hesitant to accept his role and I was very confused as to why. I told him that I was a faggot. He didn’t exactly understand what a faggot was so I told him a servant or a submissive. I could see that he felt more relaxed, but he as still very hesitant. So, I asked him if I could call him Master or Alpha and he said yes. That’s how it began.
Long-time readers will recognize some of Nate’s actions from my writings. For example, I’ve always stressed to faggots that they take a physical position lower than the Alpha they’re interested in. In this case, Nate purposely sat on a lower bench at this Alpha’s feet. Nate also made himself useful, providing food (labeled with the word “Alpha” – clever!). And then Nate used one of my absolutely favorite intro lines: “Sir, do you consider yourself to be Alpha?” This often leads to very revealing conversations, which is why I’ve always pushed this technique.
See how effective these things were for Nate:
One day I saw him at the gym without his water bottle. I asked him where it was and he said that he had accidently broken it. I laughed about him not knowing his own strength and he laughed in agreement. Two days later I bought him another water bottle of the same size. His is like 5 liters compared to my 1.2 liters, Master D is extremely ripped and he takes his fitness seriously! He thanked me and smiled but never told me that I should not have, which I though significant. Then, in the sauna later he told the other guys that apparently, he was an Alpha according to me. I was more embarrassed by that declaration than he was. In fact, he didn’t seem bothered by it at all.
He started responding quicker to my messages and so I took that opportunity to make sure and call him Master. He would reply with “Sir” and I finally told him, when he was on vacation that he could call me faggot. He said he still didn’t understand the significance of the word so I explained it better to him and then sent him “The Prime” page that I translated for you. He actually read it and told me that there were some things on it that he didn’t necessarily agree with but all in all he felt that he was an Alpha. So then he said he would call me faggot from then on.
A few times in the gym he would assert his authority over me and I loved it! One time he told me that he needed the dumbbell that I was working with. I stared at him and he at me and I knew my place and I gave it to him. He told me to get another one and I did but went for a smaller one. He corrected me and told me to go bigger. I told him that he was right and he said, “of course! I’m always right!” He smiled slightly but no laugh. Then in the shower, which he continues to share with me, he will not let me take a warm shower anymore. He tells me to join him in the sauna and I have to leave when he does to take a shower and go back in. He requires that the shower be cold. One time I tried to wash up the soap off in warm water and he felt the water was warm and said very directly, “turn the water to cold.” Then he continued doing what he was doing as if he knew I would obey. I HATE cold anything, especially water and weather but I knew I had to obey my Master.
So, yesterday he laid down his preliminary ground rules as my Master. He said that he is not a dictator but he wanted to be my Master if I wanted to serve him and I agreed. I told him that I wanted to be at his feet and he was shocked. Then I told him that it was normal and why I had started sitting down in the sauna next to his feet. He remembered and said, now he understood! But even after all of this I was wondering why he was so passive about owning a faggot or being an Alpha. I just kept questioning if I had gotten it wrong because I’m used to Alpha’s taking charge almost immediately. But then, during one of our conversations I understood much better. He is Italian and, though he does not practice any particular religion, his upbringing has it in his head that he doesn’t have a natural superiority over faggots. I sighed in defeat because of the hardest things for a person to overcome are erroneous religious beliefs.
See how just a few careful applications of techniques I’ve been teaching can unlock a straight Alpha’s need and desire for ownership and control? These Alphas WANT to be MASTERS of everything. They WANT TO BE KINGS. To a limited degree they can get that from females, but once they realize they can truly become that by owning and using faggots, they want that just as badly.
Hierarchy is practically part of our biology. It’s hard-wired into us. Therefore, we respond in somewhat predictable ways for our type. All Alphas love power and worship. All faggots love to submit and serve.
Nate and I and other faggots are simply utilizing triggers for these natural needs and wants in Alphas so that we might be fulfilled in service to them. You can do it, too!
