I want to become an obedient servant to my neighbor Steve! I’ve sent messages to him asking for his help in getting his cock into my throat and his balls on my face. He doesn’t respond but when we run into each other he’s pleasant and friendly. I can’t help staring at his crotch and I want to suck him so bad. What else can I do?
Thank you for writing, brother.
First of all, please STOP what you’re doing immediately. You’re doing it completely wrong. You think you’re being sexy for him by acting like a complete whore. Guess what, sweetheart? HE’S STRAIGHT. He’s not attracted to you physically.
That’s why we faggots must use our complete submission to fly under the radar. I always advise fags to offer services like domestic service or monetary service or gifts. I advise having conversations where you unlock his mind to think about hierarchy and his power. Get him to talk about himself. That’s why I advise fags use physical cues for submission (like getting physically/visually lower).
But you’ve blown all of that with your ridiculous actions.
I want you to go to him and humbly apologize for acting that way. Actually say “Sir, I wanted to apologize to you for disrespecting you and your Alphahood. I’m sorry that I offended you. I simply want to be useful to you.” This might get his attention.
But I think you’ve significantly fucked this opportunity.
Hey I came across ur website a couple months ago, and it got me to realize that being a faggot was something I wanted to persue but I have never tried it so I don’t know where to start when it comes to finding a master. you have any devise or any masters looking for a new faggot?
Thank you for writing!
Congratulations on recognizing the truth in yourself and choosing to take action! That’s half the battle, honestly!
I don’t connect Alphas and faggots anymore. I tried it at the start of this site ten years ago, and it was a disaster.
I don’t know how old you are, but depending on your circumstances you just need to look around at the Alphas in your life that you’d like to serve and start submitting to them in various ways. You can use my free resource “Letter To An Alpha” in the right sidebar to open a conversation and help the Alpha you want to serve to understand what you are and what he is. That letter has worked multiple times.
You can also use apps like Grindr, TheBlowers.com, Recon, etc. Faggots often find Alphas there.
Hi Sam! Super glad your back; i followed you for years, enjoying your posts and your dialogue of spreading the word of Alphas and faggots.
I have a question that challenges me that I hope you can answer,…I definitely believe that im a true faggot at heart, but im having trouble accepting it. I have this platonic male friend who actually deliberately engages in dominance against me. He likes to crush with me with his body (hes much bigger than me), using his body weight to essentially crush me. He enjoys forcefully humping me as a playful act, as sort of symbol of his dominance. In a way, he seems like hes trying to teach me “you’re a faggot, im the alpha”. I think its a unique opportunity to help embrace my true faggot self…but im still having trouble letting go and fully embracing my true faggot life. Any advice for me?
Thank you for the question! I love my longtime readers!
This is a huge moment in your life, brother. This “friend” is definitely trying to dominate you (even if it’s just subconsciously). You recognize what he’s doing (thanks to me, in part!), which is also to your advantage.
What’s holding you back is fear … fear of stepping over the line and never being able to go back. Fear that your life will no longer be yours. Fear of the possible shame you’ll feel for the rest of your life.
But let me tell you what’s worse: a lifetime of regret from NOT ACTING!
I hear it again and again from older faggots who look back wistfully on a life lived in shadows of unfulfillment. Back in their day they lacked information and a freer society. They were essentially trapped, paralyzed by fear.
You don’t need to end up that way, brother. You have an Alpha who is wanting you to submit to him. Your chance his right there, dry-humping you! It’s insane to let this pass you by!
I’ll tell you the truth: the behaviors of this Alpha that you describe are very similar to the way my first Alpha Roger acted toward me until the day he made me his cocksucker and changed my life for the better!
So stop worrying about things that haven’t happened yet. You need to live in the moment right now. You learn to swim by jumping in the water and letting instinct take over. Well, it’s your time to jump.
Kneel and kiss his feet and let Nature take over. Your time in now.
Hello Sam, my name is Andy. I’m a 20 year old guy in his second year of uni.
First of all I want to thank you Sam, I never really considered myself a fag before stumbling on your content, which made me comfortable with using that title.
The situation is this, last year when I started uni I met a guy in one of my classes, we quickly bonded and became friends. We started hanging out every day and going to the gym together. He is very handsome and I found him attractive from the very begging. I subconsciously started serving him almost immediately after we became friends, giving him my notes, doing his homework, paying for our coffee when we go out and buying him gifts here and there. Around May of this year I started stealing his gym underwear and socks and jerking off with them before returning them. Whenever I smell his alpha scent I just think about how much I want to serve him, however I come from a fairly homophobic Eastern European country and from the things I heard him say he is also quite homophobic and right wing. I want to show him the hierarchy chart and explain to him that I want to serve him and be his fag however I’m afraid that he’ll stop talking to me afterwards. Is there any way I can introduce him to this world?
Thank you so much for the important work you do!
Thank you for the question!
Congrats on finding an Alpha close to you that you might be able to serve! This is a big trick I’ve always endorsed, and it works pretty well. Why? Because you’ve developed a relationship with him and he likes you, so he’s more likely to be sympathetic if you ever approach him about this.
First of all, I wouldn’t worry about the homophobia/right-wing shit, brother. Homophobic right-wingers are actually MORE likely to be the ones (a) eager to flex their Alphahood, and (b) more likely to be interested in doing gay stuff. Yes, I know it’s messed up, but that’s reality. Their aggressive homophobia is called overcompensation. Check the Grindr traffic around areas where American Republicans are holding gatherings, and Grindr actually CRASHES from so many in-denial Republicans looking for faggots! So I wouldn’t worry too much about that.
You’re already serving him in a variety of ways, and that’s really good! You didn’t mention his attitude toward all of these gifts and favors you’re doing for him, but I’m assuming he’s just accepting it without even thinking about it (Alphas sometimes take that for granted).
I would suggest that you try to sit at his feet and “get lower” when you’re around him. This action will sometimes lead to the Alpha teasing you with his feet. It triggers something inside them when they see weaker guys in vulnerable positions. He will start to view you as a plaything.
You can try a couple of resources on the site. The Hierarchy chart on here is a solid one, although it might confuse him unless you explain it. The “Letter To An Alpha” linked in the right sidebar is a useful one if you want it explained to him in a concise, logical way. And there is also my book “May I Serve You, Sir?” that’s goes into greater depth (I don’t recommend it for college Alphas).
But before you give him any of those resources, you should ask him a simple question: “Do you consider yourself to be Alpha?” This almost always leads to a response, and you can usually use that response to lead him to a discussion about Hierarchy (and those resources).
Hopefully this gives you something of a game plan, brother. I have no doubt you’ll do fine with whatever course you choose. They don’t always work, but I promise you they work more often than you’d ever imagine!
I have just started a new job and one of the guys I work with and will in future work closely with is so hot and I’d love to worship him I just don’t know how to do it any advice?
Thanks for the question!
Well, I don’t have very much to go on … but you’ll need to get to know him a little bit first, obviously. Be kind, submissive, genuinely complimentary. Then I would introduce the concept of hierarchy by asking him if he considers himself to be Alpha. This question almost always elicits a response. With whatever he tells you, direct his attention to hierarchy by reasoning with him about his place in hierarchy and the truth of inferior males.
If you show him my hierarchy pyramid, it might open up his mind even more to that and a conversation.
Hello, I’m 28 and still a virgin. Mainly because I’m a demisexual while being a faggot and those two sides contradict each other often. Usually the demisexual side wins out. How do I get my faggot side to win out so that I can serve alphas? This is a deep struggle I have felt with for a long while.
Thanks for the question!
First, a definition: Demisexual describes a sexual orientation where a person only experiences sexual attraction after developing a strong emotional bond or connection with someone, often within a close friendship or romantic relationship, rather than from initial physical or superficial cues.
Personally, I don’t see your dilemma. You can still develop sexual attraction (and therefore serve as an effective faggot) if you get to know an Alpha. I’ve always recommended that faggots start their search with Alphas they know personally, and that’s particularly true in your case.
Don’t let your unusual sexual quirk stop you from fulfilling your purpose, brother!
I know this is a very typical question, but I feel helpless here. I’m a faggot, living in a homophobic country and studying at a university (I’m 19). I haven’t been able to get this guy out of my head for a year or so.
He is a real alpha. He’s so charismatic, confident, a little arrogant. He can sometimes be embarrassed and shy, depending on the situation, but more often he behaves like a king and like everything is under his control.
I’m not sure if he’s protective or destructive alpha tho. I heard, that he is caring in relationship, but anyway, he thinks he is better in some way than others. He can hit, if you cross the line. He and his friends even often fight with each other just for fun.
I always stared at him in the locker room and imagined how I could serve him. But the fact is that we barely talk to each other. We only say “hello” when we see each other. And.. I already tried to test the waters.
I asked one person to send him a message, so to speak, a “letter” from me with a confession. But so that I remain anonymous. This guy, the alpha, just laughed and said that he definitely did not need this. After some time I heard him and his friends discussing who it could be. And he clearly thought the situation was ridiculous and absurd. But, I think, he was a bit proud of himself, that he can attract boys too, haha.
I made a mistake. I confessed my feelings. I expected something more like a relationship. Something romantic. But I don’t know if this could ever be possible. No one’s know that it was me, who confessed. And I feel scared to do any more steps. I feel scared, even terrified, that someone will find out and start to bully me or something… The chances are high.
What should I do? Confess, that I’m okay with just being an obedient fag, not expecting anything romantic? Or just leave it behind, because my safety is a priority 1? I really need an advice, even if it’s a stupid question.
My brother, thank you for writing to me! And it’s not a stupid question at all!
One of the most heartbreaking aspects of my time running this site are the many cries for help I’ve received from faggots trapped in homophobic countries. It’s especially hard to hear this from gays in the Middle East, because as long-term readers know, I rescued an 18-year-old Syrian boy from there after he reached out to me through this site. So I have all the empathy in the world for that situation, believe me.
I realize that my message of “be brave and offer yourself” can actually be quite dangerous to people in your situation. It can also be cruel; it’s like demanding that a paralyzed person get up and walk. I never want to add any further burden to anyone.
My first advice is my most urgent: do whatever you need to do to escape your country and start a new life in freedom. Get into a school and learn a valuable skill that can get you out of there (a lot of times schools on the outside will sponsor students to move). If you have anyone on the outside, start reaching out to them and find a pathway. This isn’t going to be an overnight process, but start steering your life in that direction and fight for it like your life depends on it (because it does!).
Now, if you really want to approach this Alpha, you must do it very carefully. Either try to befriend him somehow and start offering to do things for him. Be respectful, complimentary, attentive. Once he trusts you enough, give him the “Letter To An Alpha” that I have linked in the sidebar (I’m guessing that is not the letter you already gave him). Hopefully he will see it in a different light if he cares enough about you.
That’s probably the only way you’re going to do this and still remain safe. I can’t recommend more because I don’t know the situation very well and I don’t want to give you harmful advice.
Just know that you’re in my thoughts and in my heart, little one. I love you!
like most fags, I have always know my place is to service real men with alpha cocks. My problem is I’m not a twink or smooth. I’m a rougher looking blue collar guy in Wisconsin. I’m wondering how to more embrace the fag I am and how to find more alpha cock to service and cum to swallow.
Hi brother, thank you for writing!
It’s always difficult to fulfill your purpose when you don’t fit the stereotype Men think of when they think of a faggot. Over the years, I’ve encountered faggots of all types. I’ve met obese fags, muscular bodybuilding fags, twink fags, and blue collar “dude” fags like you.
And here’s the truth: there’s an Alpha out there for every faggot body type. What matters much more is a faggot’s attitude. Being submissive and service-oriented will go much farther than looks with Alphas.
Finding those Alphas for someone like you probably involves either searching through the Alphas you personally know, or going to places like gyms, sporting events, bars, etc. and making yourself useful. There’s no magic formula to this. It’s just a matter of making yourself available and being brave.
Just know that any useful faggot can (and will) be used. You can do this, brother!
This is a funny story I wanted to share. I think I was about 7 years old and I unknowingly submitted to an alpha.
For some reason I wanted to be my friends footstool. I didn’t say anything about the urge but I just kneeled and got into position when he was on the couch. He laughed and put his heavy feet on my back.
Again, I was like 7, but I remember sniffing his socks and licking his sandals when he left his room.
Somewhere along the way I hid this urge and it has resurfaced. How do I submit to my straight friends?
Thank you for your funny (yet revealing) experience!
I love when people try to argue with me and convince me that being a faggot is a choice. NO. Fags are absolutely born different from straight and gay Males. There are too many commonalities fags share – and they manifest so early – that it’s undeniable we are born fags. There’s a separate argument about why that is, but that’s for another conversation.
I’m glad you had that early experience, because it’ll help inform you in your decisions today.
Clearly you have a couple of Alpha friends you’re targeting. I would start treating them to dinner, or buying them things you know they want/like/need. I’d also ask them if they consider themselves to be Alpha, then direct their attention to hierarchy. There are also resources on this site to assist in the process of awakening a straight Alpha, like my “Letter To An Alpha” that’s linked in the sidebar of this site, or my book “May I Serve You, Sir?” that’s in my bookstore in the navbar above.
Depending on how closely you associate with your Alpha friend, you can offer foot massages, sit by his feet more often, things like that.
Try one or all of these things. They typically yield results.
Ive known that I am a faggot for about a year now. Always been submissive and like to please men but findom has its pull on me. Every time I go to send to an alpha, I cant help but think the money would be better in my cousins hands. He is a typical 18/19 yr old gym rat. Hes incredibly sexy and straight. He deserves to be worshipped. I just dont know how to introduce it to him. Should I message him? Should a friend do it? Any advice on what to say or not say?
Thanks for the question!
Congrats on accepting your true nature, brother! It makes life so much clearer to know the truth!
I’m always curious about why faggots are “drawn” to findom. I understand that findom is a part of a faggot’s overall service, but to be drawn to that aspect particularly odd to me.
But I tend to agree with you: the money belongs in your cousin’s hands. You have an Alpha right there in your family, and you’re even considering giving your money to strangers instead?? Nah, that shouldn’t happen.
As far as introducing it to him, I have resources on this site to do exactly that. In the sidebar is a link to my “Letter To An Alpha”, designed as a brief introduction to hierarchy and the use of faggots. Then, I have my book “May I Serve You, Sir?” that is a longer, more in-depth version of that aforementioned letter. Both have worked spectacularly well in the past. Whatever else you try to do, it must come from YOU. Your cousin needs to understand that you are expressing this need to serve, not your friend.
Hey Sam, wondering if you have any thoughts on this. I’ve started going to this inexpensive Chinese massage place in the West Village in NYC. It’s got 10 super plush oversized leather lounge chairs along two facing walls – so about 20 people can get foot massages at the same time. The first time I went I was the only one there. I closed my eyes and got a great hour foot massage. I heard people coming in while I was getting my massage but when I opened my eyes – I couldn’t believe the place was filled with these hot studs getting their feet massaged. They were all in their 30’s / 40’s – clearly finance/tech bros – all in T shirts and shorts – really built — meaty thighs/legs spread while a small masseur kneeled before them at their feet. ALL were looking at their phones during the massage, or watching the masseur work. None had their eyes closed. They exuded such testosterone and a cockiness, like “yeah, kneel before me and massage my feet.” One particularly hot dude kept telling the masseur he wanted it harder – and he’d bark and order how and where he wanted his feet touched. All I could think of was here was perfect hunting ground to meet an alpha. But how?! There had to be some dudes there that would welcome a FREE foot massage.. But how to approach about that? Every scenario I think of sounds creepy. I keep going back and seeing all these hot dudes getting their feet massaged is driving me crazy thinking that here is an opportunity. Would love any thoughts/advice.
Thank you for the intriguing question, brother!
All of the places where straight Alphas congregate to get body work done – gyms, saunas, massage parlors, barber shops, etc. – are great places to offer service. Why? Because these Alphas are the ones who recognize their Alphahood through their body and are seeking elite ways to pamper and enhance both the look of their bodies and their social standing. They’re typically well aware and quite conscious of Hierarchy on some instinctual level. You were right to pick this juicy spot!
Massage parlors (particularly foot massage) are especially great targets because of the inherent power dynamic involved, as well as the Alpha’s built-in desire to have his feet touched and pampered.
There are a couple of ways to approach this. I’ll outline them all and you can choose which one suits you and the situation best.
1. You could ask the staff when a certain Alpha typically makes his appointments and arrange yours around the same time in order to hopefully end up in a waiting room together. In that moment you could ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha (this is a go-to that works amazingly well). He will likely have an answer. Be ready for him to ask you WHY … you’ll need to have that answer. You might be able to direct him to this site and the Hierarchy pyramid (depending on how the conversation goes).
2. You could wait for him outside and attempt to talk to him after his massage. You could use the approach above, or possibly ask him if he would like free massages and/or domestic service. You’d be surprised at how curious that makes straight Alphas.
3. Offer to buy him a drink or lunch or something like that (depending on the time of day, etc.). Alternatively, you could buy him something if you notice an opportunity (“Sir, I saw this tie and I thought it would look great with that one suit” or something like that).
4. Print out my “Letter To An Alpha”, write “thank you for your consideration, Sir” and leave contact information on it, and leave it on his car for him to find after his session.
5. Buy a hard copy of my book “May I Serve You, Sir?”, fill in your contact info, and give it to him.
These are all viable options. You might be inspired by these suggestions to try something else, or a combination approach. But trust me, these work more often than you think.
I have a friend. Well, he was a friend, who I have recently reached out to after a long time of not talking to each other. He has known about me and how I identify as a faggot. Thats actually how we meet. A friend of his was going to use me but he swooped in and got me to meet him prior to anything happing. But I never served him. We became fast friends. He know about my micro penis and the dom sub lifestyle I am into. So we held off on it while we worked together and traveled. But he was always into it. We hung out for a year before we got into a fight over work then we dint talk to each other for 8 months. I was the one who blew him off. But I did it to put a gap between us so I could then approach him as the faggot I am. I texted him out of the blue a few weeks back speaking to him the way you do an alpha and he was really into and loved the idea of putting my faggot ass to work. I know he wants to but is hesitant and he has a boyfriend who he met just before we stopped talking. He has slowly been taking to me and has plans for me but I am getting the feeling he is holding back. I have offered to clean his car his house take care of his garden. Just today he had me bake him cookies and bring them to him at work. Which is the place out fight actually was over. So it was humiliating to have to go back there and he know that. But I didn’t know that he and his bf where still togther and I now realize that might be what’s stopping him or he is having trouble seeing me as his inferior and a faggot, i was his boss and was training him, its why I never served him. To complicated. But I am not sure. What I would like to know now is what do I do from here? I don’t want to pester him, so I leave communication up to him because it’s not about my needs or desire to serve him. Today was the first day I saw him in 8 months or talked to him, not through text and I could tell his confidence has grown. and he was gauging the situation. Before he had talked to me about filming him and his boy fuck and edit it for online, so I was thinking of making him or offering my services to his boyfriend too who I know nothing about. or if he even knows we are talking again. He has not said anything to my offers other than I will build him a green house and maintain his garden, so the desier is there of him but just not sure what to do to cross the threshold. He is super hot him and his bf and I want to please them both but not sure the best way to go about it. I am a masculine looking and sounding faggot most people think I am straight and scary so its causes some problems because I do have the look and demeanor but I want to pacify when texting him and being around him. Any thought or suggestion would be great. Thank you!!!!!!
Thank you for the question, brother!
Your situation is quite interesting, if not a bit weird. I don’t understand why (or how) the chemistry between you and this Dom was ignored and turned into a friendship. Regardless, you took a huge risk in walking away in order to reset the relationship.
But as far as I can tell, the gambit worked. He’s clearly still interested in using you, but the limitations are probably due to the existing relationship.
The beautiful thing about being a faggot is the fact that a faggot can be added to a pre-existing relationship as a slave for the couple. So that could work for you, too. You mentioned that you wouldn’t mind serving both of them, right? So I’d shoot for that.
It doesn’t sound like you’re getting much alone time with this Dom. If you could, I would suggest that you kneel and kiss his feet and ask him if you can serve him properly. Apologize to him for your previous failure to accept your place, and beg him to accept your worship. See what he does.
i stopped lying too myself and accepted that i need and want a LTR in S&M … how do i find and approch an alpha to serve and look for ltr… i have no experience and i need and want training…in the privacy in his home, what i crave is being owned by him and making him happy
Brother, thank you for writing!
Congratulations on finally embracing the truth about yourself! That’s a huge hurdle to overcome!
What you’re describing is, I think, the most elusive goal that every faggot wants to find. A long-term service relationship is the ideal, but it might not be realistic at first. You are, after all, brand new to all of this. What you really need to do is look for Alphas to serve, either a one-time experience or in an ongoing way. Learn to walk before learning to run.
There are ways to find Alphas. The first way I always recommend is to look around your social and work circles and find those Alphas you already know in some way. This gives you a relatively safe way to offer services of some kind. If not, then apps like Grindr or TheBlowers.com will help you connect immediately to Alphas looking for service. Those two methods are the going to be the primary ways to find them.
There are more advanced methods (like joining a gym and offering service to the Alphas there), but I wouldn’t recommend them at this point.
Also, findom (online financial domination) is a possible way of at least getting some service time in a controlled way, but I don’t know about your financial situation.
You might want to join my Discord so you can talk to other faggots and some Alphas. You can do that by CLICKING HERE.
All in all, you should be very proud of yourself, brother. Have faith and apply yourself, and you will find success!
I had what I consider to be a real Alpha / Beta relationship with a guy for quite a long time. I was his Beta to use when he needed. He treated me very well because I basically worshipped him and served his needs. He had be service his friends sometimes too Which was really about him showing to me that I’m there to do whatever he said and I think to show them he had complete control of me.
Anyway, he had to move for work and I ended up moving for a job too. Now I live in Las Vegas and I thought it would be easy to find a real Alpha to serve. I’m now in my 50s, so that does make it harder. But I can’t find anyone. Yes I can easily find guys who use me as a cum dump, but that is not the same thing as a real Alpha.
My previous Alpha was a long time ago and was pretty easy to find. Not sure how to find a real Alpha man. I’d appreciate any suggestions you may have
Thanks for the question, brother!
It sounds like you had a wonderful Alpha/faggot relationship with your former Master! And yes, those things he did with you were designed to show off his power over you, as well as pay honor to his Alpha friends.
I’m sorry that’s no longer in your life!
Alphas can be found everywhere (bars, sporting events, gyms, any place outdoors) if you choose to approach them. I always advise for a faggot to look around at the friends/associations you currently have in your personal life and see if there is a potential Alpha among them. Then you would start subtly serving them and showing them deference. Ask them if they consider themselves to be Alpha. Work that into a conversation about Hierarchy (you can use the resources on this site) and help him understand the larger implications of his Alphahood and your purpose.
I understand these ideas might seem daunting. That’s why I wrote the book “May I Serve You, Sir?” to give to Alphas as a primer (see: book store). And that’s why I wrote “Letter To An Alpha” (link in sidebar) that can be used (and has been successfully used) to teach Alphas.
I don’t expect you to remember this at all but a while back I’d messaged asking if you had any advice about pursuing service with some Alphas I knew from my college who I only spoke to via socials.
I took your advice and reached out to the one who I used to kind of serve (still kicking myself for ending that way back when)… but he never responded.
I know I probably should just drop it but I wanted to ask if you had any advice for going forward? Just, keep an eye out for other Alphas in my life? Or reach out to the other 2?
[one hour later …]
Hey Sam,
I just sent a message to you earlier about how the Alpha I reached out to on socials didn’t respond, but a little while after I sent that HE FINALLY DID.
Turns out he really remembered me and we had a nice convo catching up. We don’t really live near each other anymore, it turns out, which sucks. But I apologized for stopping service to him before and for my past behavior, and I even offered to help him with anything he needs. He was really sweet about everything and didn’t make too much of a big deal about it, but seemed receptive.
For literal years I’ve thought about messaging this Man Sam, you have no idea. So thanks for encouraging me to reach out to him. I hope to start introducing hierarchy to him as we continue to talk– maybe one day he’ll find a use for me again!
Sorry for the back to back messages/asks, I didn’t think he’d even remember me but when he responded I HAD to update you.
Yes, I remember you!
I’m glad you worked up the courage to contact him! The first step is always the hardest! And I’m glad he responded and seemed open to something in the future! Definitely try to look for ways to engage him in a more direct conversation about Hierarchy! That’s a great way in!
First of all, I’m a Submissive Faggot in my late 20s and I know what I am and my purpose.
my Ideal Type is a Chavy/Scally Lad with fluffy hair (you know the type I mean) wearing Tracksuits, TNs and puffer jackets.
the issue is the type I describe and desire is literally My younger brother who is Straight and very dominant. In my head I want to serve and worship but know I can’t and it’s wrong and how would I even approach the subject with him etc
help
Thanks for the delicate question, brother.
First of all, you’re wrong if you think you can’t serve your brother. I’ve covered multiple Alpha/fag brothers in hierarchical relationships. Some are sexual, some aren’t fully sexual. I’m not saying it’s an IDEAL situation, mind you. It has the potential to blow up in your face.
I would start serving your brother in menial ways … doing laundry for him, cleaning and cooking for him, etc. If you have the chance, pay his rent or other expenses. He will ask questions about this behavior, and at that point you can explain what you are. You can use the resources on this site to do this.
From there, your brother will decide exactly how to use you for his benefit.
That’s my advice if you choose to try this path. I hope it helps!
I’ve been following your website and profile for a while now. You’ve definitely had an impact on me as I came to terms with my desires to submit and serve. I don’t agree with everything you’ve said over the years, but I know I am a faggot and I know you helped me get there.
I’ve recently been feeling really desperate to serve. There are these 3 guys I follow on socials and I know two of them personally– really one, but I’ve spoken to the other in some of my classes a little. We all go to the same college.
The first guy I knew in high school and he was kind of my friend and kind of not? It was always weird cause sometimes he seemed to be using me. Like I helped him through some of his classes, but I got annoyed and stopped speaking to him.
The second guy, like I said, I only speak to him a couple times in class but we shared a dorm building before. I’ve seen him shirtless in the halls a couple times, but I doubt he really knows or remembers me.
The last guy I found from the second guy’s social media. One of the hottest men I’ve ever seen– real Alpha type. I think he’s trying to be a fitness influencer or something.
There’s a part of me that really wants to reach out to one of these guys and try to serve them, but we don’t really talk. I’m worried that if I were to reach out to them they’d think I was a freak and either ignore me or out me to other people. So I guess my I’m asking how do I submit to them? Is it even worth trying to? Or should I focus on other Alphas?
Thank you for the question, brother!
Here you have three Alpha choices. You should always start with the one you know best. So the first one you know and have (unintentionally) served a little bit. I would try to strike up a conversation and ask him if he remembers how you used to do things for him and see what he says about that. Then you can tell him that you’ve discovered why what happened between you – HIERARCHY. Ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. Explain to him what you know about Alphas being served and worshiped for being superior.
You can show him my hierarchy pyramid in the pinned post at the top of the site. Ask him where he sees himself on that chart. Try to be brave if he asks where you think you are, or maybe ask him where HE thinks you are. This could lead to an interesting conversation.
If you don’t like that, you can always let him read my “Letter To An Alpha” (link in the sidebar) or buy my book “May I Serve You, Sir?” (link in the books section).
The following post is part of a thread following the story of Mika, a teenage faggot in Peru who bravely and successfully seduced a straight Alpha named Gael. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!
There’s nothing terribly difficult about what I teach here regarding either submitting to a straight Alpha or taking ownership of a faggot. That’s not to say it’s easy – it’s not – but the mechanics of it have been in place since the beginning of human interaction. Hierarchy is so fundamental to everything we are that everyone responds in a primal way if those triggers are manipulated.
For faggots wishing to serve a straight Alpha, the first thing that must happen is a mind-shift. A faggot must recognize that it was born to serve superior Men, but also that superior Men were born to own them. Men have a definite need and desire to be worshiped and served, and once they understand that faggots offer that in abundance, they let go of the sexual stigma associated with faggots and instead embrace the glory of being worshiped.
It just takes bravery on the part of a faggot to begin that chain reaction.
Recently I’ve been answering questions and coaching a young faggot named Mika. He’s from Peru, he’s in school, and he wanted to serve a hot straight Alpha named Gael. You can read all of Mika’s questions by following the link above.
But now Mika has had an incredible breakthrough, so I’ve elevated his story to a proper thread on the site!
Listen to his incredible update:
Hi Sam!!! This is Mika from Peru and I’m so so happy
Remember what I told you about the trainee that work in my school? His name is Gael, by the way. This morning, thanks to our conversations here, I finally had courage enough to do what I need to do.
I was super nervous when I arrived at school to my class, but as soon as I saw him, I opened a big smile and asked how was his weekend. He said that he had a lot of work and didn’t have time to relax, then I don’t know what happened to me but I just said “well, I would love to help you relax, a Man like you deserve to relax” Of course he understood what I wanted, because he already asked a blowjob 3 times… 2 times as a joke, but the third time more serious. So he just told me that he would give me a ride after my classes were over.
As soon as I entered his car, he started to say that his girlfriend was really pretty, but she refused to cook for him, so he always needed to cook lunch and dinner after a long day at work. Then he went into sexual stuff and said that she doesn’t want to have sex before they get married. After complaining about his girlfriend for a while, he stopped at an empty parking lot a few blocks from my house and said “I really don’t understand why she does that with me. If you were my girl, would you treat me like that?”
Omg Sam, that moment was so crazy. I was so afraid of saying something stupid!! But I just said “if I was your girl, your stomach would be always full of good food, and your balls would be always empty, because that’s what you really deserve” I think that was a good thing to say because he smiled to me, then I asked if he was just joking when he asked for a blowjob. He said that he really respected me and didn’t want to hurt my feelings, but that since we have basically the same age he never saw me as a student, but as a sexy girl. Then he admitted that he was a virgin and never received a blowjob because his girlfriend only kisses him and nothing more.
I was still a little scared but I said that I never sucked a dick too and would love to learn sucking his. He looked around in the parking lot, and put his dick out and it was soooo hard. I was really confused at first because everything was so new, but I did what felt more right, and started to suck his dick while holding his balls and jerking him off. I was so nervous but so happy to be the first one suck his dick and he was the first dick that I put in my mouth. My mouth and jaw started to hurt but I wanted to make him proud and didn’t stop sucking. After some time, he just holded my hair and jerked off with the other hand. He was very sweet and told me that he could cum on the floor outside the car if I wasn’t ready to take it. But I just said “in my mouth please” and swallowed everything.
Omg Sam, this is so crazy… this morning I was just a virgin faggot now I sucked a big dick and swallowed my first load. I hope I did it well!! But he told me that he want to see me again, so I think I was a good boy for him. I would be so happy if he wanted to be with me as his boyfriend, but I don’t think he will leave his girl…
Thank you, Sam!! <3 I really love your site and am happy now
AMAZING!!!
This is literally all it takes! Just make yourself available and be eager to submit! Go in with the proper mindset – positive, joyful, and eager to serve in whatever way they need – and a straight Alpha will understand your purpose and use you!
I’m so proud of Mika for accomplishing this!
Now, I’m not sure if Alpha Gael will want to take on Mika as a “boyfriend” given the fact that he’s straight, but I’m sure he’d love to own Mika as his personal faggot! Especially if his girlfriend is that frigid and unloving!
I hope this post inspires other faggots out there to bravely submit to the Alphas in their lives!
Hello, Sam. I’m sorry I couldn’t tell him about the Hierarchy. It’s like my lips are stuck together. About Yannick and the bathroom situation, I think he was very calm at the time. Not nervous. Like he should be. Like he wasn’t naked at all. After that meeting, we saw each other a few days later. His aunt and uncle said he won a competition he was in. And I wanted to do something for him. So the day before he arrived, I made a cake. Tender crust, cherry frosting. I was very nervous. In the morning, we were all waiting for him in the living room. When he came through the door smiling in his team uniform. I was ecstatic. Then there was a lunch specially prepared for him by me. His aunt can’t cook. It was my pleasure. Lunch went quickly. Yannick was tired after a hard workout and went to his room to rest. I went straight to the kitchen to prepare dinner. That night everyone complimented me, praising the food on the table. Yannick smirked at me. I blushed slightly at the sight of him. His morning sunny smile was different from the one he showed me. Could he really want to make me his? The whole evening after that, I couldn’t stop thinking about it. Yannick is so handsome, so beautiful. If you choose among actors, he looks most like a young Chris Hemsworth. The evening was over. The old couple went to bed. And I went to Yannick’s room with a cake on my hands. I knocked and waited for the door to open. When the door opened Yannick stood naked with only a towel stretched on his thighs. His hair was still wet. There were still drops of water on his chest. They rolled down his abs disappearing under the white towel. It made me swallow my saliva. I couldn’t hear what he was saying anymore. It took me about ten or twenty seconds to come to my senses. When the magic was over. I congratulated him on his victory and pointed to the cake. He nodded his head. He said come in. So I entered his abode. I put the cake on the bedside table. I turned around, my heart pounding. Yannick was standing very close to me. Still in his towel. I said quickly, “Excuse me, sir. I’ll pardon me. Yannick said nothing. He stood calmly close to me. After a while, something fell to the ground. It turned out to be his watch. I didn’t even realize he’d been holding it the whole time. It’s a towel. Those chest muscles, those abs mesmerized me. Made my heart pound. Yannick stood, I quickly knelt down to pick up the watch. Kneeling in front of such a divine creature I just stupidly opened my mouth. Yannick came so close to me that my open mouth could have caught the edge of the towel and I grasped with my teeth. And pulled. But at the last moment, Yannick held the towel back. Looked at me, grinned. He lifted his foot and his toes were next to my lips. Without thinking, I kissed his toes. First one, then the other. On the third, he put his foot on my chest. And kicked me lightly. I handed him his watch. Yannick took the watch. Put his other hand on my head and ruffled my hair. Then he quickly took his hand away. Walked away from me. I got to my feet. He looked at the door. And I left. What did I do wrong, Sam? What did he expect me to do? I was so nervous.
Hi Ethan. Thanks for writing again!
I’m so proud of you for taking the initiative and offering gifts to Yannick in an attempt to trigger a response from him! This was the exact right thing to do!
AND IT WORKED! You sound discouraged, but Yannick’s reaction was actually very promising. No, you didn’t necessarily get to service him (yet), but this was an extremely sexual outcome nonetheless. More importantly, Yannick now knows what he’s suspected about you: you’re a faggot, and that you understand he’s Alpha.
Keep submitting to him. Don’t stop now. Kissing his foot is HUGE and will almost assuredly lead to more!
This is an update one week after I sent my question about how to fully submit to my boyfriend.
Thank you so much for your invaluable advice, focusing on worshiping his feet has worked like a charm!
It’s been only a week after I started subtly massaging and complimenting his feet, and they have already become a central part of his dominance. He now often uses his legs and feet to keep my head in place when I’m giving him a blowjob, and he enjoys making me lick and smell his feet. For example, two days ago he came home all sweaty from the gym, and I immediately could sense that he wanted to fuck. I went to kiss him, but instead he took off one of his socks and put it inside my mouth. He then pushed me against the kitchen counter, pulled down my pants, and started to fuck me roughly while his sock was still in my mouth. After he finished he went to have a shower without saying a word, and left me with my pants down and his cum leaking down my thighs. I think that it was the first time that he did not wait next to me while I made myself come.
Fully submitting to him outside of sex is still a work in progress, but I made some improvements. When he is not home I try to do as much housework as much as I can, and I have noticed that he has started to neglect cleaning, cooking, and washing clothes, assuming that I will do it. Yesterday night, for instance, he started cleaning the kitchen, but when I joined him he immediately sat on the sofa to scroll on his phone and left me doing it alone. I could see that he was looking at pictures of hot twinks on instagram. After I finished, he rewarded fucking me like a toy, and I wondered if he was thinking about the guys on his phone while doing it.
I can’t thank you enough for helping me awaken the alpha inside him a little more, and please let me know if you think there are other things that I could do. Tomorrow he will go on a work trip for two weeks, and I am worried him being away will disrupt the progress I was making.
One of my favorite things in the world about this “job” I have is giving advice, having the person follow my suggestions, and then hearing that it worked exactly as planned! Brother, you made me so happy with this update! Thank you!
Some pre-Alphas just need a little coaxing until they feel they feel they have essentially been “given permission” to act out the desires they’ve been suppressing. Far too many pre-Alphas have been lost to being polite and thoughtful and WOKE. Alphas sometimes act (and need to act) selfishly and roughly. Non-PC. This is just how they’re made.
I knew if your boyfriend had any Alpha in him, the feet trick would trigger it. And sure enough, it did! He responded beautifully to it! You did an excellent job, brother!
As far as your concerns, I wouldn’t worry at all. His engine is now running, and he’s experienced what it felt like to TAKE YOU the way an Alpha takes and uses a faggot. He sees you now as an object of lust, a toy that he owns so he can unload his power and rage. He’s going to return from that trip and practically rape you!
