Questions From Readers
i stopped lying too myself and accepted that i need and want a LTR in S&M … how do i find and approch an alpha to serve and look for ltr… i have no experience and i need and want training…in the privacy in his home, what i crave is being owned by him and making him happy
Brother, thank you for writing!
Congratulations on finally embracing the truth about yourself! That’s a huge hurdle to overcome!
What you’re describing is, I think, the most elusive goal that every faggot wants to find. A long-term service relationship is the ideal, but it might not be realistic at first. You are, after all, brand new to all of this. What you really need to do is look for Alphas to serve, either a one-time experience or in an ongoing way. Learn to walk before learning to run.
There are ways to find Alphas. The first way I always recommend is to look around your social and work circles and find those Alphas you already know in some way. This gives you a relatively safe way to offer services of some kind. If not, then apps like Grindr or TheBlowers.com will help you connect immediately to Alphas looking for service. Those two methods are the going to be the primary ways to find them.
There are more advanced methods (like joining a gym and offering service to the Alphas there), but I wouldn’t recommend them at this point.
Also, findom (online financial domination) is a possible way of at least getting some service time in a controlled way, but I don’t know about your financial situation.
You might want to join my Discord so you can talk to other faggots and some Alphas. You can do that by CLICKING HERE.
All in all, you should be very proud of yourself, brother. Have faith and apply yourself, and you will find success!
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