Many faggots struggle with a host of issues both physical as well as emotional. We are not like normal males; our general depravity and low self-esteem often manifests itself in poor eating habits and lack of exercise. These failures compound, leading to even more intense feelings of worthlessness.

Every so often I’m asked about this, but my advice on this topic is nothing but empty platitudes and shapeless encouragement. I say this because I know that the only way a faggot can overcome these types of issues is for the faggot to take actions within himself; my well wishes are of little benefit. I can’t do the work for anyone. Either a faggot takes action to help himself, or he doesn’t.

That’s why I was so grateful to receive the following message in my Questions From Readers inbox from an anonymous faggot regarding his lifelong struggles with obesity and body hair. He introduced his issues this way:

I was reading the website and found a question about a hairy faggot who didn’t want to shave. I wanna share my experience about this. I am sorry if this message gets too long but I really need to vent. I’ve been reading your website for years, and I’m so happy you’re back.

When I was 18, I was overweight and super hairy. I already knew I was a faggot and I would spend hours jerking off to porn dreaming about an Alpha and, most importantly, wishing that one day I would wake up as a smooth twink desired by men. The years went by and, when I was 23, I was finally brave enough to download Grindr. It was a total disaster. The vast majority of tops blocked me when I sent a picture and the very few who talked to me were other bottoms looking for bears, asking if I were a top.

A few months later, I met a guy at work who seemed to be nice. He wasn’t very in shape either but he was very confident and clearly an Alpha. I thought it would be easier to be with him since none of us were in shape. But an Alpha who is not in shape has NOTHING to do with a faggot who is not in shape. He was chubby, hairy, had an average dick, but he was very confident and always had someone serving him. I tried to approach him, unfortunately way before I knew about your work and the dynamics withing hierarchy. At first he was really kind to me, we went out for dinner a few times. But when I started to show him my submission, I told him that I was still a virgin and would do anything for him to be my first (I was around 25 by this moment). He said that he could take my virginity if I changed my appearance, then he sent photos of Brent Corrigan and Johnny Rapid, saying that he would fuck me if I looked like them.

I felt very offended and obviously stopped talking to him and even quit the job in order not to be with him again. I got into a deep deep deep depression, crying every single day, thinking that I would never lose my virginity, let along have someone who cares about me. On top of that, a few months later covid hit and my mother died during the pandemic. It was the worst time of my life because we only had each other in this world. I have always been an introvert and didn’t really have any friends, but I had one friend from work who encouraged me to start seeing an online therapist in 2021, after my mother passed away. Thanks to therapy, I noticed that I wasn’t suffering just because of my loss, but because I felt deep down that my mom was the only person who would ever see me beyond my appearance and care about me.

I think this faggot’s experience really reflects the desperation many feel for connection and and acceptance. Losing his mother during the pandemic was an unmooring for him, really forcing him to take an action he truly needed.

Notice what happened once the faggot began taking action and making changes:

The therapist was a wonderful guy, he encouraged me to do small things to uplift my self-steem like getting a better haircut, new clothes, etc. Little by little, I got out of depression and started to retrieve my professional life. One day the therapist told me that he understands very well my desire to have a dominant man in my life but not having one couldn’t be the end of the world. I knew he was gay and married to another man, but I then noticed that he was probably an owned faggot and understood how much I was suffering. Then he said that, since I hardly ever leave the house, I would never find someone, and would probably die a virgin if nothing changed. He suggested me to stop insisting on Grindr and similar hook-up apps because Tops on these apps are looking for an easy hole to cum, and the young smooth bottoms will always catch their attention. And so, he gave me a little task and told me download non-hook-up apps, such as Hinge and Bumble.

I didn’t want to do it at first, but I finally did it. During the first few months, nothing happened. I had just a few matches and usually the guys assumed I was a top because of my appearance. On my 30th birthday, I was quite depressed at home, feeling old and unattractive, when I received a notification from Hinge. I had a match with a 35 year old guy with a beautiful smile, and a confident look. We started talking and, when I said it was my birthday and I would spend the night by myself in my bedroom, he called me and we kept talking for hours. He insisted to take me out for dinner but I was to shy and afraid to accept. I fell asleep, and he texted me good morning on the next morning. He was a real gentleman. I talked to my therapist about him, showed his picture, and said that he was treating me too well to be true. Then my therapist said that I was expecting humiliation because of that guy from work who sent me twink pictures and told me that he wouldn’t fuck me.

I think every faggot understands the feeling this faggot was experiencing as he exposed himself to rejection. It’s at this point that many faggots retreat, afraid of getting hurt, exposed, vulnerable, or embarrassed.

But this faggot pressed on. Notice what happened then:

After a few weeks, I accepted his invitation to take me out for dinner. He was like a Disney prince, he picked up at my house, paid for the bill, and asked if I wanted to go back to his place. Again I was too scared of him looking at my body and dumping me, so I said I needed to go home. As soon as I arrive home, I texted him saying that we could be just friends because he wouldn’t like my body anyway. He said that this was not an issue for him, as long as I was a bottom. He said that the only deal breaker for him would be if he ever needed to bottom. I said that I would do anything he wants, and would always obey. When I said “always obey,” he asked if he good go back to my place on that same night. I was afraid of him leaving me, so I said yes.

Sam, I was literally panicking. I tried to text my therapist and ask for advice but it was too late in the night. When my Man arrived home, he started kissing me, and saying that I would never again feel ugly. I felt like a sex toy in his hands. He had complete control of anything, even my house became his house. He put me on my knees, told me to open my mouth, put out a beautiful and thick cock, and started fucking my throat without asking for permission. He was literally just giving orders, and I was obeying. He told me to undress and saw my whole body: fat, ugly, hairy. But that didn’t stop him from fucking my throat the whole night, and made me swallow three loads. He didn’t fuck my hole that night because I didn’t have any lube I wasn’t ready. To be honest, I didn’t even know how to prepare my hole for him. But I slept with three loads in my stomach and felt like the world’s luckiest faggot.

That happened 2 years ago. I am 32 now and we are still together. He was honest with me and said that he wasn’t very attracted to my ass but instead of humiliating me, he trained me to become his faggot. He shaved my ass with his own hands, and took my virginity when I was smooth. Then he told me to start shaving every week, and bought of the devices I needed to keep my face and body smooth. A few weeks after I sucked him for the first time, he bought two big dildos and told me to practice every night, he also enrolled me at the gym and hired a personal trainer to watch my diet.

Today is December 1, 2024. I lost 16 kg since 2022, my body is nice and smooth. My hole is ready for him to use 24/7 and my blowjob is as good as any sexy twinky porn star. I still have a long way to go to get in shape for my Master, but my self-esteem is 100x better. He literally saved my life, Sam. I was completely hopeless when we met each other. He saw a lonely depressed virgin faggot and immediately claimed me as his property, and turned a useless ugly faggot into a quite useful and loyal  fag. Every other month I pay a super hot sex worker to come to our house, so my Master fucks this porn star as much as he wants. I think this is the least I can do after being literally rescued from a miserable life. And honestly this is his right as a God Alpha.

SUCCESS! As I’ve said countless times, there are great Alphas out there who instinctively know how to train faggots and build them up so they can become fulfilled and productive possessions. If you don’t believe me, believe HIM!

I get chills when I re-read this: “He literally saved my life, Sam.” Any Alphas reading this, please know that you can have this kind of truly dramatic effect on the faggots you claim!

The faggot concludes his experience this way:

I decided to tell you my story after reading this question about the hairy faggot because it really resonates with me. What I learned as 32 year old faggot is that FAGGOTS MUST MAKE AN EFFORT TO LOOK SEXY FOR THEIR MEN, BUT REAL PROTECTOR ALPHAS WILL SUPPORT US NO MATTER WHAT. Alphas are visual, this is their nature, and we can’t blame them for desiring young, good-looking, tight faggots. However, there are good alphas willing to train us, get us in shape, and use us. If there are any hopeless faggots reading this, please don’t give up, brother.

How can any faggot read that and not be inspired and encouraged?

I consider this one of the most important articles I’ve ever published, and I’m so grateful to the courageous, insightful brother who sent it in. I hope it helps others as much as it helps me!

Yeah, I know … another post about my Master @AlphaAesthetic8.

He posted a most extraordinary video regarding one of his owned faggots relapsing again and again in a pathetic attempt to deny its truth.

I think the most devastating aspect of my Master’s personality (and key to his success in findom) is his calm, confident ability to definitively define reality and communicate it with clarity.

What faggot can argue with him … or resist?

I think this is a philophical question for everyone… but don’t you think aging is much worse for fags and women than it is for Alphas? I am 45 and my straight male friends and even my gay top friends seem to be dealing very well with his age. My female and fag friends, including myself, are always suffering about getting old.

I am almost giving up on finding a true Alpha willing to own me. I’ve met hundreds and 99% of them just want me as a cash fag or for domestic service. Sometimes it seems that for every Alpha around my age that could use me as a cumdump there are already 50 tight 18-year-old twinks ready to seduce them. The last time I had a date, the Alpha took me to his place, and when I finally had the chance to serve me he put NextDoorTwink on his phone and watched while I sucked his dick. I felt miserable afterwards. Do you have any thoughts on that?

Brother, I appreciate your sincere thoughts. It’s true … we faggots (and females) have a shelf life. Alphas don’t, nor do Men in general. I realize that doesn’t seem fair, but it’s reality.

So we really need to come to grips with what really drives our faggot nature. Are we only a faggot because we get off on the hotness of nasty sex? Or is it about something deeper?

Do we yearn to be used … or do we yearn to be useful? 

I’ve known older domestic faggots who were eventually used sexually; you see, their faithful, high-quality domestic service earned their Master’s affectionate attention over time. But even if we aren’t used sexually, can we still find ways to be useful to Men and be owned by them? ABSOLUTELY. It’s all a matter of mindset, brother.

So stop making yourself miserable by trying to be the hot 20-year-old faggot you once were and failing. Men aren’t looking at you that way anymore. Make them see the other valuable services you can offer them, and you will likely find service rewarding again. 

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Hi Sam!

First, I love you and your content <3 everything you do is so special, I wish I had a friend like you to talk about my life and questions.

I am 22 from Uruguay. I have always felt very submissive at school whenever other boys told me to do something. I feel a natural urge to obey and I’d rather not taking big decisions over my own life. I met a wonderful man a few months ago, he’s 30, very good-looking, smart, and successful in his career.

We don’t use terms like Alpha and Faggot, but he is clearly the one giving the rules. He took my virginity in August after a very romantic date, and since then he has been fucking and breeding me very often, at least 3 times a week. He knows how to be a Man and give the orders, but he’s also very sweet. He taught me how to suck his dick, how to ride him, how to look sexy in doggy style, etc.

My only problem is: he refuses to suck my dick. He told me that he hates the feeling of a dick in his mouth and will not do it just to please me. He likes to rim my hole and it feels amazing, but I really want to feel a blowjob too.

Am I being selfish? Should I just forget about it? How likely do you think it is to find a big strong intelligent Alpha like him willing to suck my dick before fucking me? I don’t mind being a submissive bottom for him, but I am really curious to have the feeling of a warm mouth on dick too.

Thank you little brother for your message!

Congratulations on finding a Man (an Alpha) to serve and worship! I imagine it’s not easy in your country to find someone, so I’m very happy that you’re happy! This Alpha you’re serving sounds incredible and truly perfect for you! 

You may not use the term Alpha and faggot in your country, but that doesn’t mean the roles don’t apply. Men are the same everywhere, and they generally want the same things.

I’m just going to tell you plainly: your Alpha is NEVER going to suck your dick. Alphas in general don’t have even the slightest interest in sucking dick because the act would emasculate them (make them less of a Man). Why would an Alpha EVER suck a faggot’s dick. Ewww … I was disgusted just typing that!

You really need to stop asking him for that, because it could drive a wedge between you and him. Just accept that you are his faggot, his property, and do you best to serve him. 

If you really need to have your dick sucked, then I suggest you go find another faggot willing to suck it. However, I think you will find it much less exciting and less fulfilling than serving your Alpha. 

Over the nine years I’ve been online teaching Hierarchy, I’ve had to deal with stupid faggots making comments about how twinks cannot be Alpha because they aren’t muscular or can’t pick up a car or some nonsense.

ALPHA is what a Man is INSIDE. It does not have much to do with his outward body.

Take a look at this twink with a huge dick. See the bigger, more muscular male that’s bending over and taking that twink’s huge cock?

If you saw them walking together down the street, you’d probably assume the bigger guy was the dominant one.

And you’d be wrong.

Stop judging Alphas based on looks and muscles or cock size! It goes deeper than that!

Hi Sam, how are you doing? I’m from Brazil, 32 years old, and I’ve been a long-time follower of your site (FWA). After your absence, I noticed the site went down, and honestly, I was devastated… it was a true oasis of information and content about the Hierarchy for me. It was the first site where, when I read it, it became crystal clear to me what I truly was: a submissive faggot.

To my joy, this week I “rediscovered” that the address has changed, but you’re back! Welcome back!

I’ve always thought about writing to you, and today I finally took the initiative.

You know, Sam… I’ve always admired virile, masculine men. I rarely have sex with other gay men, as my arousal comes from being used by a brute specimen (and the gay men I know rarely are). I have a normal life, I’m not out, but whenever I can, I go to certain gas stations (popular with truckers spending the night) and bars (I look for the ones with a higher proportion of men). In these environments, I easily find the kind of man that excites me: rough, rugged, ogre-like, macho, virile, and most of the time, needing a hole to stick their cock in and have some fun.

I don’t have mannerisms or a voice that easily identifies me as gay, but in these environments, I always try to wear tight jeans that really show off my huge, round ass. I get absolutely ecstatic watching the men there looking at me curiously. Some even try to approach me. Sometimes a simple conversation happens. But my biggest difficulty, Sam, is getting them to realize what I truly am – without exposing myself to too much risk – in these environments. Would you know how to help me?

Thank you so much,

From your big Brazilian admirer.

Brother thank you for writing and for your support over the years! 

I wish I could say there is some copy/paste solution to your question. It’s not difficult to chat with an Alpha (even though you might feel nervous) and help him to see things in a new light (including you).

Be complimentary, particularly about his body. Doing this helps him focus on his sex appeal. Then steer the conversation toward questions about Hierarchy in order to help him start thinking about his place within it. Simply ask him: “Do you consider yourself to be Alpha?” This is a seemingly-innocent question, but it’s loaded implications about his own self-worth and power. From his answer to that question, it’s relatively easy to begin a discussion about Hierarchy in general. 

Other methods involve buying him something you know he wants or can use, like supplements for workouts, or a new briefcase, or whatever. Or ask him to get a drink or got  to dinner, where you would pay. 

I’m just spitballing here, because much depends on the situation. 

I don’t know if you read that recent experience I published here where a faggot used my “Letter To An Alpha” to score with an Alpha. I’ve also written a book “May I Serve You Sir?” that’s designed to be given to Alphas. 

I’ve created tools for a reason. It just takes a faggot willing to TRY and use them. That’s my advice to you: TRY. 

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Sam, how much does your family know about your relationships with men? I ask this because as a faggot I cannot demand that my owner come to family events or holidays. Part of me wants to tell my parents I am in a relationship but I have no control in it. I also fear that this will devastate them. What are your thoughts Sam?

Hi brother. My family knows I’m a faggot; I told them a long time ago. And there was a huge fight about it, and feelings were hurt. However, we are fine now … because we don’t talk about it. And I also don’t bring a Master to the family Thanksgiving dinner, either.

Every family dynamic is different, and only you know how far you can push your family. I don’t think it’s necessary for any faggot to die on the hill for Hierarchy and proclaim it to the entire world. Your family doesn’t need to know a damned thing about what you do in your private life. If you can’t make it to a family function due to a Master … well, then you can’t make it. Your family will adjust to whatever you need to be happy in your own life. It’s your life to live, not theirs.

But let’s be frank – almost every parent, regardless of how liberal and open-minded they are, will be quite unhappy to hear that you’re a faggot. No parent wants their son to be used the way we are often used by Men. Being a faggot means no grandchildren, no family photo ops with little nuclear families gathered around the Christmas tree, etc. So they’ll always be upset.

Which is why I think you should just keep it to yourself and live the way you need in order to feel complete.

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Do you know why I’m building Hierarchy University? Well, it’s certainly not for the money, fame, or adulation, that’s for sure, because I’m not receiving any of that stuff.

It’s because I’ve spent my adult life as a faggot serving Men, and I’ve found success because I use an intelligent, informed approach to service combined with a discipline born from discipline. I’m far from the hottest faggot, but what I lack in looks I make up for in overall value and attitude.

I say this, not to brag, but to reinforce this: I know what I’m talking about. If you don’t believe my personal journey, then believe my RESULTS. I have an unprecedented nine-year record of changing lives with the things I teach here and the advice I give people. And with this University, I plan to help a lot more people.

I just need you all to TRY.

What follows is testimony left in my Questions From Readers inbox from a faggot in Germany. This faggot had an Alpha he wanted to approach, so he tried using my “Letter To An Alpha” as a way in (you’ll see a graphic link to this in the right sidebar).

AND IT WORKED! Read on:

Hello Sam! I am a faggot from Germany and I can’t thank you enough. I am 20 years old and I know who I am since I am 6 or 7, but I only had very traditional relationships because I had no idea how to approach an Alpha man. I found your website a few days ago, and after being reluctant for a while I sent your “letter for an Alpha” to a my classmate from college. At first he took it as a joke and said something like “I wish so bad that this thing were true.” I just said that I could go to his house today to show him how serious I am. Long story short, its almost 4 AM in the morning now I feel like an obligation to say thanks to you and your amazing work. I knelt as soon as I entered his house and tried my best to show that I wasn’t joking or simply on a fetish. I want to be owned! Sam, he got CRAZY when I got on my knees and put his dick out without saying a word. I sucked him, cooked for him, and got fucked the entire day. We missed classes today and stayed home fucking from 10 AM to 11 PM. I arrived home, brushed my teeth covered in Alpha cum, and when I took a shower I could feel my hole sore. He just stopped fucking me when his balls were really empty.

Well, I’m so happy right now, Sam. After this long day, he told me that he is not ready for a serious relationship and didn’t want to hurt my feelings. So I told him that I don’t wanna be his boyfriend, I am ready to be his property 24/7. Then I said that I will be only one of the many boys he will fuck. And his dick got hard again just to listen to this.

Sorry if this message is too long but I’m sooooooo fulfilled. I can feel his cum inside my ass and stomach, and that’s how every faggot in the world should feel when we go to bed.

YOU ARE AMAZING, SAM!!!

Hierarchy is true <3

Can you fucking believe how well that worked??

Actually, I can believe it. I know it works because I wrote that letter using conversational techniques I personally use to get into the minds of Alphas I talk to in real life when I’m opening their minds to the truth about Hierarchy.

If you would simply TRY like this young German faggot did, you can see the kind of overwhelming success he experienced. Think about it – not only did the faggot serve this Alpha, but he also TAUGHT this Alpha the truth … that he can own more faggots, have anything he wants, and be worshiped for being born superior.

That’s important. It’s life-changing. And it’s why I’m still here, nine years later, teaching the truth and changing lives.

This is Hierarchy University. Class is now in session.

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There are few emotions as tragic as regret. It’s a sadness that gnaws away your confidence and forces you to live in the past mentally rather than looking forward.

Faggots are particularly prone to regret because they are typically not decisive action takers, often living in a shadow-world of denial and second-guessing. So how important it is that faggots go through life with the correct outlook, so that a bad perspective doesn’t add to the likelihood of a life of regret.

Yesterday an eloquent and thoughtful fag brother named Manuel left an experience in my “Ask A Question” inbox that I thought served as a perfect warning example for all of the shallow size queens and young Instagram fags I see and hear every day.

I’m a 32 y old faggot, and I wanna share my biggest regret in life so maybe younger fags will not fall into the same trap. When I was 22 I met a guy who was 30, he was a gentleman, super smart, and confident. He had a very natural Alpha power. We were both single and we went out on a few dates together before I could actually serve him. We went to his apartment and he fucked me and never stopped calling me a good boy. He really wanted to keep me for him, but he didn’t have an enormous porn start cock and he wasn’t a six-pack Abercrombie model. He wasn’t ugly either, but he was a normal middle-class man you would meet on the subway going to work. He had an average dick and he was a little chubby. I was young and stupid and I fantasied with a porn star to own me, I thought real Alphas must always look like Thor and have a super huge dick. Long story short, I still follow this Alpha on Instagram, now he’s 40 and he’s living his best life with two super sexy twinks much younger than me. They claim to be a throuple but it is very obvious that he owns both of them. I woke up today and the first thing I saw was a picture of the three of them traveling together in the south of France. The two boys were buying clothes at a mall in France, while he was taking pictures of them and showing off how hot they are. I’m sure the boys are sucking and riding him every day and every night.

I learned my lesson and now I know that Alphas can be chubby, short, tall, skinny, and not having 9 inches. I hope younger fags learn the same! Porn is awesome, but it is not real life!

Even though I feel sorry for my brother Manuel, his experience is vital to consider. Faggots must have the correct attitude about Men, or else they’ll end up regretting it.

I must say it’s always baffled me when faggots have made comments about how a certain Man can’t be Alpha because his dick is average, or he’s a twink, or he’s ugly. I’ve always come back with this: YOU ARE A FAGGOT. Who in the world do you think you are judging and insulting any Man when you’re a faggot?? Can’t you see how a lack of humility and a failure to appreciate your proper place in Hierarchy can lead to disaster?

I understand that young skinny faggots often think they’re sexier than women and they shit rainbow-colored Skittles, but in the end you’re nothing more than a chattier Fleshlight to Men. Probably 99% of the time a young faggot is NOT going to make a Man fall in movie-love with it. Yeah, he’ll enjoy fucking your tight little body for a while until you become annoying. But in the end, you’re just a faggot … and there are plenty more out there just like you.

So brothers, young and old, please heed Manuel’s heartfelt warning. He speaks the truth. Men and Alphas are out there, and they all deserve some measure of respect and submission. We are faggots, and regardless of their body type or dick size, we are inferior to them.

So be humble, be submissive, and SERVE!

Hey Sam love your site I’ve been a fan for years and you d helped me accepted my faghood -I was was wondering if you could share the story about master Eddie with us it sounds incredibly hot and intriguing I know you haven’t gotten a message from him since but can you tell us fags how you spoke to him and got his number-I would love to have your skills and confidence to do that especially given he was married thank you

I’ll write up a brief synopsis for now, since I don’t know where it’s headed yet.

I had a store-based sales job (which I have since quit to level up my pay substantially) when Eddie, his wife, and their two small kids came in. Technically, they weren’t my customers, but Eddie was hot and intense looking and I started chatting them up. 

But there was something between Eddie that immediately clicked. He mentioned that he had built his own house himself. I complimented him on this and began remarking that Men don’t do those kinds of things anymore (and he heartily agreed). At this point his wife too the kids to shop while we meandered together and talked. That led to me talking to him about the lack of real Men, which I then led into a discussion about Hierarchy. When I reasoned with him about Hierarchy, he was nodding and saying things like “yeah, I see what you mean”. I then told him that he’s obviously Alpha – and he immediately agreed. Then he began to tell me about being in the Marines (bingo!) and the examples of Alphahood he saw there. Then he asked me where I was in Hierarchy, and I told him I was a “slave male”. This made him laugh, and I jokingly said “But I don’t have an owner right now … I guess I’m a runaway slave”. That made him laugh again. As they were getting ready to leave, he asked for my phone number. 

We’ve texted a few times since then, but with the holidays it’s just not easy to get time for even meeting up for a beer. We shall see! But it’s really just that easy, guys.

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Hello!

I am a fag, and have own for a couple years now. However I have been married for about 9 years, but we are open. My husband is not super sexual, in fact, we have not had sex for a couple years now…however we still get along, make each other laugh etc, and besides sex have a fairly stable relationship. We are fully open, but in a DADT type open relationship, which is fine, but makes it difficult sometimes when I want to be fucked and need to prep.

I have been pretty much locked in chastity for 2 years straight, I have been hitting the gym 6 days a week for a year and have built a lot of good muscle and definition. And I have been doing this because I know that is what will make me more attractive to a real man.

Do I need to cut my losses with my current relationship and seek a real alpha to own me?

I’m suspicious of your relationship anyway, to be honest. You haven’t been fucked by your partner in two years? Unless your partner has some erectile or medical disorder, that is not normal behavior. I’d be shocked if he wasn’t fucking others on the side.

And I say that as a preface to this: yes, I think this relationship is now pointless. It’s like an appendix, doing nothing and waiting to become infected. There’s no way your partner is ever going to satisfy your needs, so it’s time to seek that elsewhere. I mean, the idea that you’re going to return to your partner after being bred and used up by a Master feels really gross and inappropriate to me. 

You’re doing a bunch of prep work for service as a faggot. You’re in chastity, you’re working out at the gym, etc. THAT’S what you really want. So end this relationship and find what you’ve been preparing for. 

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Hi Sam!

Your advice to faggots looking to explore their newly realized place in the hierarchy is inspiring. I am 23 years old and I work in the kitchen department of a Home Depot. As you can expect I am overwhelmed with straight blue collar alpha men day in and day out at work. I do my best to serve them as best as I can but my efforts are always just rewarded as “great customer service”. Although this recognition is nice I want these men to be able to see me for the faggot that I am and not just a retail associate that is good at their job. Any advice on how I can make my services stand out in way that demonstrates the hierarchy more clearly?

Greatly appreciated thanks

One thing working to your advantage is the fact that you’re working at Home Depot – known on the street as “Homo Depot” from all the cruising that goes on there. Just the bathroom stories alone could fill a coffee table book.

I will say that it’s difficult to try what you’re asking as an employee approaching a customer. I had a well-known early story thread involving “Home Depot Fag”, a faggot who purchased the items of an Alpha behind him in line that led to a service opportunity, but that was customer-on-customer. 

What you need to do to be successful here is to be able to talk engagingly. I just did this on the job about three weeks ago with an Alpha named Eddie. I met him on a job while he was with his wife, and by the time I was done with him I had his phone number and plans (that have not happened yet). 

My go-to move is to ask them if they consider themselves to be Alpha and then pivot into a discussion about Hierarchy. I don’t know what your engagement time is with these customers, but that’s probably your best bet.

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Hey Sam, I’m so happy you’re back!

I have a tricky question for you but I would really appreciate your help. My husband and I have been together for 7 years. I was 18 and he was 21 when he started dating. At first it was a regular vanilla top-bottom couple. I was a full bottom and he a full top, but nothing more than that. After 6 months together, he started to call me faggot during sex when the rut got really intense. I didn’t like at first, but he trained me more and more to accept it. With time, he turned me into a full faggot and I embraced it. I cook and clean for him, he has full access to my body and I never say no, even when I’m not in the mood for sex.

The problem is: although I accept to be his owned faggot, we are also husbands, and I don’t wanna lose that. I really love him and I want to have a family and children with him one day. My main concern is that he has been bringing up more and more having a threesome with another sub bottom. He’s obsessed with that twink Sam Ledger (do you know him?), and frequently tells me to suck his dick while he watched Sam getting fucked. I don’t mind doing this because I know how much it pleases him, but every time he cums in my mouth watching Sam Ledger he says that it would be so hot to have a twink like him in our bed. This is what scares me… I’m 25 now and I’m not getting younger. Do you think that some Alphas can stay monogamic for their whole lives and have a happy “traditional” marriage? This is my dream, to be honest. I really don’t like the idea of him fucking other bottoms but I don’t want him to break up with me and find a hotter twink either.

Do you have any ideas of how I could manage this? He hasn’t fucked me in the past 2 weeks, yet every night he demands a blowjob while he watches Sam… I understand his needs, but it hurts my feelings to think that I’m not as attractive as these models.

Thank you! It’s wonderful to have you back here.

You pose a difficult question, and I’m not sure you’re going to entirely like my answer.

First of all, I’m of the opinion that it’s practically impossible for an Alpha to be 100% monogamous. They’re simply not built to be monogamous. They have a deep-seated need to hunt, conquer, and breed. 

Added to that biological programming is the pervasiveness of internet porn, which has trained Alphas to think all sex and sexual partners should be like what they see in video clips. That’s not realistic, of course. You as a marriage partner shouldn’t need to compete against fancy editing, professional makeup and lighting, and overdubbed moaning. But that’s the world we live in today.

I commend you for accepting the faggot role he forced onto you. It was, no doubt, jarring and uncomfortable. But I want you to try something … I want you to lean into the faggot thing. Greet him at the door on your knees. Kiss his feet. Call him Sir or Master. Become that faggot slut he seeks with Sam Ledger. Let’s see if your husband comes around with a little change like that. 

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Hello Sam,

This is Ryan 23 years old.
I met a straight alpha during covid randomly on grindr and met him and he wanted me to give him hand job as he talks dirty and kicked me our with cum face. It was my first time being a slave. Since then i have been doing the same every week till yesterday.
Only once he let me suck his cock for an hour with condoms on.
I have begged many times to control me and use me. I also offered to do his house chores and be his slave but he dont respond for it or just says i need more training before i become that slave.
My question to you is: how to have him use me and become his slave?
3 years of handjob and getting kicked out with cum face doesn’t seem to please him enough to use me?
Your thoughts on this?
Please and thanks 

Ryan, thank you for writing!

There are no easy answers to this situation. You can’t make a straight Alpha do anything he’s not yet comfortable to do. And we don’t know the circumstances that make him uncomfortable. It could be some bad experience in his past, a phobia, whatever. Neither one of us know him well enough to diagnose it.

I will suggest this: he probably has a girlfriend or wife at home (and maybe kids), which is likely one reason why he won’t use you in other ways, and also why he’s been so secretive. The discovery of this situation with you might completely unravel his life, and I’m sure he doesn’t want that (and neither do you). 

The simple fact is that some straight Alphas are only going to take things to a certain point, and no more. However, you might be able to coax him into a little more during the times you are with him. Try offering to massage his feet, for example. Perhaps make him some food and get him drinks. Try these little things so he will see you exist to serve him, not harm him. He needs to see you as more than just a handjob machine. 

But I wouldn’t push him much harder than that. If you really need to get fucked or get used, I’d find another Alpha for that. 

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I’m a free range faggot that primary sucks cocks. Often several cocks in a session. I love swallowing loads but I’m less enthusiastic about drinking piss. How important is this? Usually when a man wants to piss he holds my head tight and doesn’t move. I play dumb. like I don’t know what’s happening and try to suck his cock as best I can to take things in another direction. Is that okay? It feels a little dishonest. But it usually works.

Welcome brother! It’s rare to find proud free-range faggots out here on this farm!

Your move to avoid drinking piss is a clever one (as a prolific cocksucker myself, I’m a little disappointed in myself that I didn’t think of trying that!), and yes, it’s of course a little dishonest. However, if the Alpha falls for it, then I guess it wasn’t that important to begin with!

Since I didn’t have your slick moves, I ended up swallowing piss. In fact, I became pretty good at it! Piss doesn’t always taste/smell that great, but it’s sterile and relatively harmless. And once you get past the shock of it, the practice can be really hot. So maybe stop being so dishonest one or two times and try it, brother!

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This list is stupid. The second MIGHT be a reason for chastity, but not really.

Fåggots should be locked in chastity for two important and related reasons.

1. Dicks are to be used by MEN. Fåggots are not Men.
2. MEN should not be dishonored by fåggot attempts to act like MEN.

Hey Sam, I love serving men, no matter if they are straight, bi, or gay. But I really don’t like to shave. I’m not too hairy but my chest and my ass are quite hairy. Most men I serve love my blowjob but when they see my ass it’s a huge turn off for most of them. On the one hand, I think that real Alphas fuck holes no matter how hairy they are. On the other hand, I might just be a bad fag for not shaving properly. What do you think? I know I can be obedient and I know my bj is great, but easily 95% of the Alphas I try to serve give up when they see my hairy ass. Should I just ignore my own will and keep my hair always smooth? What are your thought on hairy fags in general?

I guess the real question is this: how badly do you want to be fully used by Men? Because as long as you keep your ass hair, your service to Men will be limited by it. I realize we currently live in an “accept me as I am because I’m beautiful just the way I am” kind of society (at least in the West), but the truth is Men will always be visual animals, and visual aesthetics matter. 

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Yeah yeah I know how you think straight guys won’t ever fuck faggots.

Whatever.

Virtually every Alpha I’ve served was 100% straight. A vast majority of the Alphas I’ve serviced were straight. And the avalanche of true stories covered by me and THE INTERNET confirm that straight Alphas DO use faggots.

Here’s an example from @beatdowngotti:

I am a 23yo faggot who’s never been fucked before. I’ve been throat fucked several time but never any anal fucking. Every time I try to lose my virginity and/or being used for throat service, I cancel the plans or never even initiate it. Why is that and how can I overcome it?

Fear is a natural thing, but sometimes our fear springs from something irrational that tells us more about what’s going on INSIDE a person. 

Rationally, getting fucked isn’t going to hurt you, especially if lube is used and you can manage to relax. People have been getting fucked in the ass since forever, and the survival rate is somewhere near 100%. 

But I’m thinking it’s this: you’re terrified to get fucked in the ass because (in your mind) once you do there is no turning back. You’re afraid that getting fucked in the ass definitively means you ARE a faggot and you’ll never be a Man, etc. That crossing the line and getting fucked means you can’t cross back.

If that’s the case, let me dispel that. I’ve known Alphas who spent years getting fucked as bottoms because they thought they were supposed to, only to discover that wasn’t the case at all and became strict Tops. A thousand things could happen with you.

But you’re never going to know the truth unless you TRY. If you can be throat fucked, then you can definitely handle being ass fucked. Just TRY IT and find out for yourself so you can make an informed decision. 

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