Hey Sam

I really like your content here and I have a important question

I am 23 and I am straight. Some years ago I really wanted to have a threesome with my gf and another woman. She said that we could do it as long a we had a threesome with another guy too. Of course I said no, I would never let my woman touch another dick. But, surprisingly, she just wanted to see me fucking a faggot.

It took her 8 months to convince me that fucking faggots is not gay at all. She is a ballet dancer and one day she brought home one of her friends from ballet. The guy was really smooth, was wearing some make-up and had amazing legs and ass. At first I thought it wouldn’t work and I almost gave up, but the guy got on his knees and starting calling me Sir.

I am very dominant with women in bed but it’s very rare to find a woman who actually wants to submit to me (nothing against feminists lol). The faggot was smart and felt that I was not attracted to his body but I was attracted to the feeling of POWER that I had with him. They started to give me a double blowjob, and shortly after I was fucking my gf’s pussy and the fag’s ass at the same time. I felt like a king.

We were all 19 when that started to happen and we’ve been fucking from time to time for 4 years now. My gf loves Man-fag porn (she showed me your website), so she’s perfectly happy with this situation and her pussy gets really wet when I fuck the faggot. For me, it’s good to have a nice blowjob a and a tight ass available 24/7.

However, the faggot often refers to us a  throuple and I really don’t want to hurt his feelings. I told him one million times that I AM NOT BISEXUAL. I will not have a boyfriend, I do not have any interest in having a relationship with a man or a faggot. I just want my woman who will be my wife one day, and he’s just a nice cumdump. I like using him and I understand that he’s inferior, but he is still a human being and I respect him a lot. I know very little of fag’s hearts, so I wanna know your opinion.  In my mind, I am a King with a Queen by my side and he’s nothing more than a useful servant. How to keep the fag next to me but convince him that we’re not a throuple? I respect him, I protect him, I take care of him, I like how he’s friends with my girl, but I do not love him as I love my gf.

Master, thank you for writing!  What an amazing testimony to the truth of Hierarchy! 

You really should be quite grateful to your girlfriend, Master. She recognized what you are – at least an Apex Alpha – and knew that you deserved the kind of worship only faggots can truly provide. As you mention, very few females understand how to WORSHIP Men, but faggots are completely devoted servants/slaves of Men like you. She took a big risk introducing you to faggots, but the experience seems to have made a powerful impression on you.

I’m sure you always felt the truth of Hierarchy in your life before you ever discovered the true nature of it, this fact that you, a superior Alpha, deserves to be served and serviced by all inferiors you choose. Tragically, many Alphas refuse this part of their Hierarchical heritage, and they fail to advance in power and standing among Men. What you wrote above shows you’ve peeked through the looking glass and you now see the vast Kingdom and endless possibilities available to you. I cannot tell you how happy I am to hear that! 

It’s also clear that your faggot doesn’t quite understand its purpose yet. It’s still under the mistaken impression that it’s like a second girlfriend or something, and that’s wrong. A faggot is a slave, a loyal dog, a possession. It is to humbly serve as commanded by its Owner. 

So here’s where you (as its Master) must take the faggot and retrain it into a proper servant. First and foremost, I think it would be beneficial to put a chastity cage on the faggot, if not permanently then whenever it’s serving you. This will help the faggot understand it is not the same as you. 

I also recommend that you employ targeted scent training with the faggot, but combined with a call/response exercise to get into the faggot’s head that it is not in a relationship with you, but rather it is your property. Put the faggot on its knees and make it kiss your feet. Then tell it to repeat after you as you tell it to repeat back “I am a faggot” “I am not a Man” “My Master cannot love me” “I exist to serve my Master” etc. As the faggot completes each call/response, have it deeply inhale your crotch or armpits (you can be clothed or naked), and then kiss your feet again. 

I know you mentioned that you don’t want to hurt the faggot, Master, but this is not hurting the faggot. We faggots need to be trained to accept reality through this kind of targeted training. A dog might not like its Master using a choke collar on it during obedience training, but in the end the dog is grateful for its Master’s attention and care. So will your faggot. 

As you mentioned, owning your faggot has made you feel more like a King. That’s good, because that’s exactly what you were born to be. You have every right to have a Kingdom that reflects you, your glory and your standards, Master. If you end up owning 100 faggots, every one of them must be trained by you, and obediently loyal to you. 

I believe you have the power and the insight already within you to become a great Owner and Master of faggots, and you are blessed to have a Queen who is excited to see you exercising such power. Try my suggestions and see if they don’t improve the situation. If they don’t, adjustments can be made or the faggot can be replaced. 

I hope you will be willing to keep in touch with me as this situation develops, Master. I would be humbled and grateful to carry your story and continue a dialogue if possible. my email is HierarchyUniversity@gmail.com. THANK YOU, MASTER! 

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I am 48 years old, married to a woman and have a 16 year old daughter, but I am a fag and cannot deny it anymore. I secretly meet alpha guys to be used and abused. I only get off to real strong, aggressive alpha men.

What can I do?

Thanks for writing, brother. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. 

One of my motivations for creating FWA was to help faggots accept their truth so they might AVOID situations like yours in their lives. I saw too much of it in my everyday life, and so I desperately wanted to change the narrative and help natural-born faggots from making the mistake of marrying a female and ultimately wasting her time (let’s not even get into the part about the lives of the kids). 

From my standpoint, it isn’t fair for you to keep up this charade of heterosexuality. You should get divorced. It’s the noblest and truest path, no matter how difficult that might be. Your only other choice is to keep doing what you’re doing, and I’ll never advocate for that. 

You already know what’s right.  

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Hey faggot.
I have been together with my, now, husband for about 4 1/2 years now. From the get go he has always been a lot more passive and has deferred to me for decisions and initiating things like sex and the life decisions that have come our way.

For the first few years of our relationship I would have never considered our relationship to be anything like the Master/Fag dichotomy you seem to dedicate a lot of time and thought to. After all, he was and is more to me than just a faggot. I love him, he is who I want to raise children with, he’s who I want to spend my life with.

All that sappy shit aside, as important as it is, I still find myself making most of our decisions, no matter how much I try to coax opinions and preferences out of my lovely fag he will always give me the final say. I don’t dislike this at all, but I guess assessing the relationship from a traditional perspective, I want to ensure we are truly partners. That being said, our sex life is truly hierarchical, as is our lifestyle with me taking on the responsibilities and roles of a traditional husband.
Lately, in exploring a bit more sexually together he’s been more open about enjoying the set up we’ve had going on, loves being the one to get fucked, loves looking to me for guidance, support, and help with decisions and loves being called a faggot while having me inside any of his various holes.
I mostly found this funny, we are both- by definition – gay. But now I’ve started using “fag” as a pet name outside of the bedroom as well and it’s so fun watching him learn to respond to that call.

I suppose my question is whether or not, from your perspective, a longterm life partnership can be built from a master/faggot relationship. Because that is what it seems our relationship has evolved into over time. Most of my exposure to this dynamic comes from porn and once-and-done hookups (fag is also a cuck, who would’ve guessed.) And while I do love using my faggot husband, I also love HIM. I don’t want the service and sex to belittle the more intimate aspects of our marriage. Though obviously, not looking to skimp out on being services and using my boy as I please either.
Thoughts?

-Master Nathan

Master Nathan, thank you for writing to me! I think your concern is a common one, so it’s good to address it.

First of all, congratulations on the longterm relationship! Finding faggots is easy, but finding a GOOD faggot that you’d want to keep is harder than finding IQ points at a Trump rally. And honestly, your outlook has much to do with the success of this relationship given that you’re leading it and molding it. I would also add that it’s to your credit that you (as an Alpha) want to settle down with a primary faggot given the Alpha need to hunt and conquer. That can present a bunch of issues, but you seem to have found the right balance with your faggot.

To answer your question directly, YES it is entirely possible to maintain a Master/faggot dynamic in a longterm relationship. In fact, if you own a true faggot, keeping that dynamic is almost critical. Being a faggot is NOT a fetish that can be turned on/off like true fetishes the leather scene or furries or any of that shit. A faggot simply is a faggot every moment of every day of its life. 

I often compare faggots to dogs, and I think the analogy is apt. A Man owns a dog. He loves the dog. He cares for it, plays with it, disciplines it, cherishes it. But no matter how deeply they love each other, the dog is never going to be equal to the Man. It works because both of them remain in and perform their natural roles.

Like a dog, you love your faggot. Your faggot might be your most cherished possession, the one thing you truly love above all others. Yet, it is still a faggot … and no matter how deeply you love each other that disparity cannot be erased or ignored. 

To be honest, it’s only when a Master and a faggot embrace that dynamic and their respective purposes with it does the relationship really shine. I know this because I’ve diligently chronicled these kinds of relationships over the years, and in many cases I’ve been personally involved with them. My sites (FWA and now this one) have seen FIVE MARRIAGES of Alphas and faggots (three of the Alphas are straight, too!). In fact, I was privileged to pick out the wedding bands for one couple (straight Master G and his faggot Jamie)! 

In all of these successful cases the Master/faggot dynamic actually strengthened their bond. What can I say? Hierarchy WORKS! 

You shouldn’t worry about treating your faggot in a “degrading” way while in a loving, committed relationship. The positive reaction of your faggot to your casual use of the word “faggot” should tell you everything you need to know. Your faggot WANTS to serve you, Master … it NEEDS to serve you. 

I really hope I’ve answered your question sufficiently, Master. I really want the best for you and your faggot, and I love the relationship you’re building together. If you have more questions or if you’d like to keep me updated, you can always write to me at hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com! Thank you, Master!  

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The following post is part of a thread chronicling the enslavement of a 53-year-old faggot (a former Top) named Mike by a 31-year-old Alpha Master named Steve. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

Last week I received a Questions From Readers from a former Top-turned-faggot named Mike who had been serving a powerful young Master named Steve. You can read that original question by clicking here. In it, Master Steve had loaned Mike to one of his Alpha buddies for use, which triggered Mike’s residual dominance.

But Mike wrote back with a conundrum, and I decided it deserved to graduate to a full-blown thread here on the site. After nine years of doing this, I usually have a pretty good feel for stories that seem to be intensifying, and this one certainly seems to be.

First, let me present you with the story-length question Mike left in my inbox:

Thanks for your response below on me sharing me with his best friend on his friends birthday.

I’m kind of in a new predicament and not sure what decision I want to make.  Last night Alpha Steve and I went to dinner of course I paid.  After dinner, we went back to his house and he said he wanted to talk with me about something.  He said that before I leave, we would be ordering a Chasity cage for me.  I was a little shocked. It’s kind of something, I heard him joke about in the past.  He said the main reason he was wanting to do this was because he knew I was jerking off on the days we were not together and I needed to learn that cumming was a privilege he controlled.  I ended up giving him my credit card so he could order the one he wanted.

Afterwards, he said he was going to allow me to make a decision, so I had the ultimate control of how it went down.    He said the first option was he would cage me in private. I would remain locked for two weeks, but during those two weeks he would not have sex with me. I would only be allowed to watch him have sex with other fags.  The second option would be we would have a caging party, he would invite his three closest friends, I could make it public knowledge to them that I was his fag, and I was wanting to be locked.  He would lock me in front of them.  And then I could serve them drinks that night.  After they left, he said he would allow me to drink his piss and fuck and breed me every time we were together over the next two weeks.

He said the choice is yours. We can keep it private or you can begin showing your true self.  Then he said it’s getting late you better go.  He said I will text you within the next few days and you need to give me an answer.

For me, this is a tough decision.  Because I never expected it to go this far.

First of all, let me just congratulate Master Steve for creating this Jigsaw-like domination puzzle for his fag Mike! What’s so brilliant about the choice he presented to Mike is the fact that both options have positive and negative aspects to them, but they’re both designed to reveal to Master Steve exactly where his faggot is in the process of full submission. I love it.

I can also see why Mike is struggling in this trap, because he’s smart enough to realize that he must tip his hand one way or the other.

Of course, I feel like the second option is better, both in a general sense as well as in Mike’s specific case. I just feel like Mike has been serving Master Steve for 1.5 years now and needs to come out as his Master’s property. Sure, it might be humiliating to be caged in front of a couple of Alphas, but they’re Alphas like Master Steve … they’d probably be just as proud as Master Steve will be.

In addition, Mike would be spared the indignity of watching Master Steve breed other faggots for two weeks, a form of punishment far worse than a silly cage.

Mike’s lonely little admission at the end is telling: “I never expected it to go this far”. Faggots often think they’re playing on the same field and in the same game as an Alpha, but they aren’t even playing the game at all – instead, they’re the BALL. All faggots need to grasp that truth and humble themselves in service. Alphas are our greatest Men (at least, they’re supposed to be), and they are typically many steps ahead of a faggot. They’re expert hunters, and they love to play with their catches. Rather than trying to outwit an Alpha, a faggot needs to submit and surrender to the desires of its Owner. By doing this, we allow ourselves to be molded by our Alpha into something better than we could ever hope to become ourselves.

So if Mike is asking me, I recommend that he take the second option. Believe me, being caged personally by his Master will do wonders for him, as will the commendation the onlookers will give him.

Submission to a Master and being locked in a chastity cage are ways for a faggot to truly become what it was born to be, and I want that for every faggot. I particularly want it for Mike, who has come so far and is now at the brink of something quite special.

I’ll let you know what happens (if he tells me)!

Hey there brother sam, i am the faggot who wrote you asking for a way to connect with an Alpha in Minneapolis, MN. i have to thank you for your recommendation that i try Blowers.com. i tried it and found a young alpha who is 30 years my junior. He’s agreed to let me be His on-call cock-sucker. i can’t believe that is how easy it was…you my brother, are awesome! i wish you well in your endeavor to “filling the gap” and am anxious for you to do it! Please keep me informed as you make progress. i was looking for two years and not having much luck. This young Alpha i connected with has a gorgeous cock, long and thick, and he wants to shoot at least a couple of loads each time i connect with him. my faggot life has improved significantly because of you!

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Well that was FAST! I’ve been pretty impressed by TheBlowers.com so far. Hopefully it goes well! Keep me posted! 

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Hey, faggot.

It’s Manuel again.

I’m here to tell you that after spending time here, I’ve made an interesting shift in my life.

First, I discovered a bisexuality I didn’t know was there. Funny enough, I’ve had several encounters with women, and I enjoyed it just as much as when I was exclusively having gay sex. After that, I started fully embracing my place in the hierarchy. I’ve already let several obvious faggs around me do things for me. I even let one clean my house. Yes, the power was exhilarating. His reward? Pissing in his mouth and filling his ass with my cum.

Second, remember I said I wanted to start fucking without lube? I’ve made it a rule in my life. Just a spit of saliva on the ass, and my cock goes straight in. I’ve never enjoyed fucking asses as much as I do now.

I should thank you for opening my eyes and helping me discover this world. Funny to think I misunderstood everything at first.

By the way, I’ve been thinking—I’d probably like to have a young fag, no older than 25, for myself. What would you suggest?

It’s good to hear from you again, Sam.

This is part of the thread following the development of a straight Alpha named Manuel. CLICK HERE to read these posts in chronological order! 

Master,

Thank you for writing to me! I’m a little confused about why you’re writing me here when we have been communicating via email, but whatever. I’m just glad to hear good news from you! 

For Alphas like you, learning about and embracing Hierarchy makes sex of any kind much better because you now understand that sex exists for YOUR pleasure. When you understand that, it unlocks all kinds of power within yourself. Suddenly you know how women and faggots receive pleasure – by pleasing YOU. That’s a huge and primal shift in the understanding of sex and sexual satisfaction. 

I think many of the most powerful Alphas would be classified as “bisexual” by most people. There is simply no reason why a powerful Alpha should ever limit himself to dominating only one gender. ALL PEOPLE should submit to Alpha power.

I absolutely think you should take ownership of a younger faggot, Master. You can train it, develop it, and shape it into the perfect faggot for your needs. You can find faggots anywhere … gyms, bars/clubs, sports, concerts, etc. You can use apps like TheBlowers.com to find cocksuckers, which would lead to finding faggots.

It’s all yours, Master. Go get it!  

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Hi Sam,

is there a story missing between 16.01.2025 and 26.01.2025 in the storyline of Master Kenzo

Because he starts with as I have mentioned… and to me it reads as there are some information missing about the former highschool mate that he mentioned.

Did I miss something there?

Yes, there was a small missing piece that came from several emails prior that I had forgotten to add in! Good catch!  If I could, I’d pay you to do some editing for me! THANK YOU!!

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Hello! I am a college student at a religious school, and therefore need to stay anonymous. I am also new in searching out this life, and am not sure where to try find a Master. Do you have any suggestions?

Traditionally religious schools have been hotbeds of gay activity. Frankly, I’m surprised you’re not finding guys boning each other around every corner at your school (check the libraries). 

You could go on an app like Grindr and simply find a dominant male to connect with there. I know it sounds lame, but you’re starting from zero here. I’m guessing you have little/no experience, so just getting that experience will help a great deal. 

Or you can wait until you get out of that school and finally become free, then pursue it. Sadly, some situations are insurmountable. 

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Hey there brother sam, i am a faggot who is looking for an Alpha to serve in the Minneapolis area. Do you know of any online platforms that i could use to find one?

Recon is a pretty decent platform for BDSM and Masters. I’m intrigued by TheBlowers.com as  away to find Alphas who want cocksuckers, which could easily lead into service relationships. I suppose Grindr might work as well. Without playing my hand, I will say there is a gap in the market for this kind of thing, and I’m mulling over how to fill it. 

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Thanks Sam, that makes a lot of sense. When you say you don’t get it, I think I do now thanks to your response.

My master knows that I am a FAGGOT and is so comfortable with that knowledge that he thinks even if he flirts with it, it will only take a click of his fingers and I d be back under his feet. He has completed power over me at the moment.

In regards the task, it comes with a set of instructions – no one under 25, need to be near him, same location and I need to check their kinks align. Think of it as a preliminary or qualifying faggot round. Think he’s sick of time waster. My master likes to have a couple of fags on the go, he currently has two, myself and another I call young fag for obvious reasons. My master keeps us completely separate but sometimes says one or two things, but keeps relationship separation.

I get now why he’s doing it, it works for him and he knows I am a complete faggot for him.

I am not a switch – I am a FAGGOT. Thanks for setting that straight your direction helped.

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION. 

I’m glad to hear that! I figured your Master, young as he is, has a great deal of power and a keen understanding of how to own and control his faggots, you included.

BTW, I commend you for selflessly searching for other faggots to serve your Master. Many faggots would struggle with such an assignment, but you’re doing a fine job cultivating the mentality of teamwork and a Master-first approach! GOOD BOY!

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Hello, thanks for offering this forum for us faggots to learn and grow.

I am a 53 year old faggot, I am a former top, not alpha, but typical attractive daddy bear. My young Alpha, 31 years old, Alpha Steve , that I have been serving for a year and a half, had me completely wrapped around his finger.  I was trained that on Saturday and Sunday mornings when we were together, I was to always wake up before him, go make his favorite breakfast and put breakfast on the small table beside his bed.  I would kiss him on cheek and tell him Good Morning Sir and kneel on the floor.  Once he was ready to get up he would always stand and pick up the orange juice and drink some, not even focusing on me.  He would clear his throat, and I was to open my mouth and receive.  I would always say thank you Sir.  He would finish his glass, put it down and pull out his dick.  I was let him rest his cock head in my mouth, not to close and drink his piss. He would sometimes clear his throat and spit again. And of course I would say thank you Sir.  He would eat his breakfast while I kneeled looking at floor.  Once he was done he would tell me to clean up his mess. Yes Sir.  I was never reminded of this this was simply a standard.

One weekend he had his best friend from college stay with us for his Birthday.  They had went out that night drinking, came home late.  I made sure I went ahead and serve breakfast at the normal time, knowing I could always remake if it got cold.  As I came in the bedroom, I put the food on the table, gave him his kiss and said good morning Sir.  I kneel probably an extra five minutes longer than normal and he finally woke up.  He Took a sip of his orange juice, cleared his throat, spit in my mouth and finished drinking his juice.  Open my mouth and the latest cock on my tongue, He warned me that his bladder was extra full, so be prepared. As he started pissing, he said something to me that caught me off guard.  He said don’t forget today’s Randall‘s birthday, And since you didn’t buy him Anything, After you’re done drinking my piss, I want you to go in his room kiss him on the cheek and tell him happy birthday.  I want you then to tell him you want to be his urinal And then you wanna suck his dick.  I didn’t know what to say because all this was being said while he was pissing down my throat.  Has he finished pissing down my throat he said go take care of Randall while I eat.  Once you’re done, come clean up this mess.  I simply said Yes Sir and left.

Part of me wanted to say no, But I felt like I needed to do what he said.  I ended up drinking Randall’s piss as well, giving him a blow job and swallowing his cum.  I told him Thank You Sir when I left.   

My question is, did my Alpha have the right to ask me to do this, or was this unfair?

Thank you for the experience and the question, brother! 

I see that you still have some resistance left over from your time as a Top! You had a reaction to being pushed deeper into submission that I find interesting. Does it say anything in particular … I’m not sure. I think it’s natural for males like you (and a past like yours) to have residual male pride. 

But you’re now owned by an Alpha who has broken you down and clearly sees you for what you are. He also seems to have a plan for your development as a faggot. This is important. There is nothing better for any faggot than to be owned by an Alpha who knows what he’s doing and is capable of guiding the process of sculpting a faggot into a perfect servant. Far too many faggots rebel at this stage, mainly because they fail to appreciate the strong, guiding hand of a true Master.

I must commend you, brother. Even though you chafed at your Master’s orders, you still obeyed. And that’s really the key thing your Master was trying to train into you. You must understand that he’s improving you, refining you. GO WITH IT. When you see what he’s doing, your awe and worship of him will increase. 

But to answer your question directly: yes, your Alpha and Master had every right to order you to tell you to do that. He owns you … and you are his property. But I think you’re learning that already.

Good! 

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Ryan back again

Last time I was asking about my dom who only enjoys handjob and kicks me out when he comes and I agreed to what you said

After some conversations my dom decided to treat me and invited his friend over to give me pleasure and it went well and he used me good enough to satisfy

Now my confusion is that my dom still don’t do anything sexual with me but having his friend use me often

I wish its my dom doing it to me but he is turning me into public fag by sending me to other men

What should i do now 

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION. 

Thanks for catching me up on your progress, brother! I’m sorry you’re still not happy! 

Let’s face it – your Master likes owning you, but he’s not interested in using you sexually. If his response to your requests was to bring in a friend to use you, then it’s clear he has no interest in that with you. 

So now it’s up to you. How important is it to be used sexually as opposed to serving him in the other ways you’re currently serving? Do you not like being used by his friend? Is the friend interested in owning you? 

You’re going to need to make a decision. You can’t change someone’s intrinsic nature.

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I have a Master who says he’s straight and to be honest he has very straight vibe. He’s not even trying he just is like this. He takes great pleasure in humiliating and degrading me and he does this so good it’s just unbelievable. He’s 19 yo btw. So my question is, doesn’t his kink make him not-so-straight?

Thank you for the question, brother.

First of all, it’s not a “kink”. Hierarchy is very real and it affects all of us regardless of whether we acknowledge it or not. Loving feet or piss is a kink … but being born Alpha or beta or faggot is something we simply ARE. 

I don’t know if you’re new around here, but this website and many other resources have proven that straight Alphas use faggots in many ways (including sex) yet remain straight. Their use of a faggot is like a form of masturbation for them. If a straight Alpha fucks a Fleshlight, we don’t suddenly think he’s attracted to it, right? Same thing with faggots. The other part of it involves power. Straight Alphas love power and the sexual thrill they get from exerting their power (and seeing inferiors submit to it). 

So yes, your Master is a straight Alpha who simply understands that it’s his right to own and use whomever he wants however he wants. It’s the way the world works.

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Hi Sam l, interested to know your views on switches and how that dynamics work. If some faggots switch or are they not in hierarchy.

I had an interesting task from my master, which I suggested as he was complaining about how flaky faggots are. He was trying to recruit a new fag so spending time on gydoo. I said I would do this for him to give him time back and serve him. So I went on initial as a master in description I spoke with faggots quickly in intro saying I was a fag performing a task, I promoted my master suggesting him as a strong master who brought out the true fag in me and I’ve been quite successful. This has become a reg task and I do it willingly.

Here is the catch couple of times the fags have said they like me and want me to be more dominate, sometimes suggest that with my master and sometimes directed to me. It’s given me thoughts of replicating some of my master traits, that turns me on…like a mini master…I am confused sometimes as I find the power stimulating. I am still my masters property and have told him about it. He still has me doing the task but wants me to tell him when these feelings happen. It got me thinking about switches, maybe when a relationship ends, do some faggots switch. Is it about the person or should I forget about it and concentrate on being the best fag I can for my master.

I have been with my master nearly a year. I am in my 40s and he is much younger -25 but he is so good. He s been a master since he was 17 and is amazing.

Would love to hear your thoughts.

Well, you pose an interesting problem, brother.

I think it’s a mistake for you to be faking dominance to attract faggots for your Master. It doesn’t do you any good, nor does it represent your Master properly to prospective faggots. But that’s just me.

Once again, I don’t believe people are lifelong switches. There are phases people go through based on their current experiences, but eventually people find their true position. And I think you already know your true position: FAGGOT. Your Master knows this, too, which is why he’s wisely monitoring you as you flirt with dominance. 

I just think it’s a silly distraction. You already have a young, powerful Owner that you love serving. Why are you threatening that balance and harmony?  

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Hello again Brother. Thank you so much for your answer to my last question. It was very helpful. I am trying my best to prepare for what I hope to be the start of my submission to my Straight Master. I was wondering if you could give advice on 2 separate matters to this end?

First, I have read your preprepared letter and I cannot thank you enough for going to the effort of writing it to help us fellow faggots out. I was wondering if you would advise me to send it before the holiday, so he has time to read and process it? Or should I wait until we are together in the cabin? I am slightly worried it may scare him off or cause him to second guess if he is, as you correctly say, trying to be a nice guy.

Second, as any self-aware faggot should be I am locked in chastity. He is not aware that I do this however. If I am successful in submitting I will have no issue giving him the keys. But I do not want to seem presumptuous or predatory, and I am concerned that if he realises I arrived wearing it he may think negatively of how I have approached submitting to him. Any advice is appreciated, although I understand if you are too busy and only wish for updates once I have given him the letter

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION. 

Thank you for the follow-up questions, brother. I want you to be able to get this right! 

I don’t think you should send him the letter ahead of time (unless you happen to get into a conversation about it before the trip). Get into the conversation and use the letter as a way for him to get a broader view of things. 

As far as chastity is concerned, I think you should wear the cage on the trip. If he discovers it, that will be a way to open a conversation for sure. But here’s a little secret: straight Alphas get excited when they see an inferior male in chastity. I don’t know why that is. My theory: the sight of the caged faggot pings their own dominance in a new way, and they realize that this inferior male is subservient. The cage gives them permission to use it however they want. So I wouldn’t be concerned about that too much.

Don’t ask him about being a keyholder until he responds positively to your admission of being a faggot. He has to get past that first before accepting the rest of it. 

Be patient and submissive and weak. Essentially, throw yourself on his mercy. Trust in him that he’s an Alpha who knows how to guide you. 

I’m truly excited for you, brother. I think something awesome is going to happen. I love you! 

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How do I make myself more attractive to alphas? be hairless from below my eyebrows, wear panties, chastity and buttplug?

You make yourself more attractive to Alphas by being submissive, obedient, and service-oriented. Chastity cages are excellent external jewelry for faggots, but a fag’s most attractive qualities are internal. 

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You gave a picture of how you think fags are in the grand scale  but I have one question . What about a trained fag a fag trained in the art of pleasure in many forms and pleasure is only one function because serving falls under pleasure, what if you are sent to a pain Master something like that you need to learn to go beyond because that is pleasure . Where does that fag fall in? He knows he is better than other fags but still he humbles himself.

I don’t really understand your question. How is the fag better than other fags? 

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hey sam,

i’ve always liked your content but also kind of hated it, just because i couldn’t accept the reality of being a faggot. although there are soo many signs and even my mindset is there, it’s a bit hard. but today something happened which was pretty telling

i was at the local sports court, playing with a friend when a group of guys came up to use and suggested we play in teams. i was put on a team with 2 guys who are friends. one of them was a clear alpha – my first impression of him was me walking onto the court & he was flexing both his biceps to his friend. soon after the game started it became clear that i was the least talented player (on both teams lol), and then my teammates kind of stopped passing me the ball anytime. and then 2 other guys joined and one of them also had a bit of an alpha vibe, and of course…to my luck, he joined our team. i could immediately tell that he sensed i was a fag, and started bossing me around (in the context of the game), while also ignoring me (in terms of passes, shooting, etc.)

as i said, i was with a friend who is straight (not an alpha tho), and he kind of immediately had the respect of the other guys on the court, but i was kind of just ignored the whole time…especially by the alphas (mainly the one flexing his biceps).

and instead of feeling sad (i did a bit..), i felt kind of realization wash over me that i’m stupid to think i could ever be on the level of an alpha in anything really. instead of playing on the same team as the alpha, i should be tending to his needs, bringing him water, fetching the ball, etc.

& i also couldn’t help but imagine what it would be like to be used by him. even tho he is definitely not my type, and also not the prettiest guy out there, i would even say i’m prettier than him, but something about his attitude and the way he treated me (ignored and looked down) kind of made me want to serve him. another aspect that also excited me is that i was clearly older than him (he must’ve been 20-21 & i’m 27). it felt nice hot to be made to feel less by someone who is younger than me.

unfortunately where i currently live, being gay is not acceptable at all, so i would never be able to even hint at my faggotry (although we just learned it’s sometimes obvious) while im still here.

im sorry i guess this is not a question but just an anecdote..

Well, I’m glad you’ve finally started to have your eyes opened to the truth, brother! Yes, Hierarchy is undeniable. Once you grasp it, you start seeing it everywhere … just as you described! 

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Hi brother Sam,

I work in an office with a lot of straight alphas. It is hard to work there and be taken seriously when I’m a faggot. It is also hard to seriously focus on my servitude when I worry about my submissive actions being unwanted or unprofessional. Do you have any advice for a brother faggot.

Do they know you’re a faggot? Why would it be hard for you to work there as a secret faggot? 

Now, I do understand what it’s like to tiptoe on that line between submission and professionalism, and I haven’t always been good at it. But it’s something we all must deal with. Just continue to be submissive and complimentary, and Alphas will notice eventually. Just be ready to tell them you’re a faggot if they ask about being gay. This will put them back on their heels and force them to take you seriously. 

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Hi. I am wondering how I let a straight alpha male know I am available for service. We have been friends for 8 years now and in that time I have tried to be as obedient as possible. I have always gone along with his suggestions and desires, I have done everything I can to make his life better and more enjoyable. For his part, he seems to know I am “always game” for whatever he has in mind. He has a very dominant attitude with most people in his life and I know from some very frank conversations we have had that he is a rough BDSM master in bed. I also know he has repeatedly complained about women not putting out, not doing all the stuff he wants to do and not being submissive or service oriented enough for his liking.

Next week we will be going on holiday to a cabin together, and all of our other friends have apparently pulled out. To make sure we can still go and that he can have the holiday he deserves, I have covered their shares of the holiday and I have told him it is “so he can still have his holiday” and his only response was that I was such a good friend, when in actuality I am hoping to be his good fag. I have told him I am always happy to help in any way he wants, but he just laughed and said that gay men were funny. Is he oblivious or drawing a line? And if it is the former, how do I get him to see me as the faggot I am beneath him in the hierarchy?

Straight Alphas like him suffer from two simultaneously-running problems. (1) Gay males deserve the same respect as any other Man, and (2) what I call “nice guy syndrome”. 

I’m going to posit this: your friend has thought about using you sexually. He might even be quite interested in doing so. Why do I say that? Because he’s repeatedly complaining TO YOU about how women aren’t serving him and submitting to him enough. I think if you had done anything to help him see what you really are – a faggot – he would’ve used you. 

But let’s focus on what’s coming up. Serendipity has gifted you some time alone with him in a secluded place. Now’s the time, brother. Sit at his feet. Offer him a foot massage. Kiss his feet. See where I’m going with this? 

Start a conversation with him about Alphahood. Ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha. lead it into a discussion of Hierarchy. Show him material from this site if you need to (I have a “letter to an alpha” in the sidebar that he can read). He needs to grasp the inequality between you, and that you have a natural place as his servant, not his friend. 

The sooner you do this during the trip, the better. This will give him time to digest the information and act on it. 

You MUST do this. You have a prime opportunity to finally reveal the truth to this great Alpha! Good luck, and keep me posted!  

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