I ask this question with complete humility and total respect for your answer. I’m a Beta male, and willingly submissive to Alpha males, and I would work myself to the bone for an Alpha that could guarantee that I would be allowed to service him sexually if the quality and quantity of my work were to his satisfaction. My question to you is; am I correct in assuming that I would not be in a position to expect him to agree to anything like that? That if I’m going to serve, it must be with the knowledge that I might never be allowed to be of service sexually?

Yes, you cannot expect a straight Alpha to agree to terms like that or ask for terms like that.

In my experience, the act of total obedient and submission over a sustained period of time will cause the straight Alpha to get turned on enough that he will do something.

However, when serving a straight Alpha, we should always go in with the expectation that we will never serve sexually. We should instead find joy and fulfillment in the fact that we get to serve them at all.

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Hi there. I hope I’m not asking questions that have been answered elsewhere. I’m a 29 year old fag who is married to a great guy who treats me well. We met when we were 19, so we’ve been together a very long time, and we love each other a lot. However, I’ve always had this feeling that something is missing in our relationship. I’ve always wanted to be dominated, to be subservient, to hand over control and decisions to someone. I thought it was just a kink, that I was a submissive bottom, and that my husband dominating me in the bedroom once in a while would satisfy those desires. My husband, an enthusiastic top, and even a little dominant, happily obliged. But always at my urging. And always stopping just short of where I wanted him to go, always cautious and never pushing my limits. He bought me a chastity cage, but he doesn’t order me to wear it and doesn’t hold me accountable when I fail to, so I’m essentially self-locked. And the domination always stops when we leave the bedroom. Over the years it has become clear to me that my husband is definitely kinky, and willing to explore my sexual fantasies, but at the end of the day will always view me as an equal. But I’ve also come to the realization that I am a faggot at heart. I don’t want to be equal. I want to be made to submit, to be told when and how to serve, to make a superior Alpha man happy with my submission. I’ve talked to my husband about this. We’ve had an open relationship since the beginning, and he’s been willing to let me explore these feelings both with him and other men. It’s been difficult though. My husband continues to wait for me to ask to be dominated before taking control. I’ve had a couple encounters with Alpha men who have used me, and those experiences have been incredible and I crave more. But I feel limited in how well and often I can serve due to my relationship, and thus somewhat unfulfilled. I know I could be a good faggot if simply allowed to. I don’t want to be a faggot just occasionally on the weekends. I want to grow into my potential.  I guess I’m looking for advice. How can I explain to my husband that this is more than just a kink? Is it possible that by treating my man more like an Alpha, he may grow into the role? Or that I might find an Alpha or Alphas who can fit into our existing relationship dynamic? I love my husband and I want to be with him. But I know I won’t be truly happy if I don’t become the best faggot I can be. Thank you for reading. I’ll appreciate hearing any thoughts you might have on this. <3

This is a VERY common issue with gay couples. It’s a frustrating one because the established relationship (and the roles in it) acts as another barrier to fulfillment for whichever member needs something different, 
 
Fortunately, a faggot can appeal to a Top much easier than an Alpha might appeal to a bottom, if that makes any sense. As you’ve said, your Top boyfriend has already expressed some amount of dominance toward you. The chastity cage raised my eyebrows, too. So clearly, your Top boyfriend has some interests in dominating you. 
 
However, I think he’s pulling back on it because he thinks of this as a “kink” instead of a very real need you have to serve. This is also a very common problem with Tops – they cannot wrap their minds around the fact that their bottom actually needs to be OWNED and USED like property. But that is exactly what faggots crave, and why we are born. 
 
You need to break through to your boyfriend. I mean seriously, start calling him “Sir” all the time, start sitting at his feet, stop eating at the table with him, ask his permission when you leave the room, start serving him all the time on every occasion. He doesn’t open his own doors anymore, etc. Really lean into being his FAGGOT in all aspects, and see how he reacts. This will either trigger his Alpha instincts (if he has them), or it will upset him. At least then you’ll know. 

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Hello (I’m Titouan french teen and fag – sorry if I make mistakes in English) and thanks again for the site! 
As my previous messages explain, my situation now is:  1) I am the young cocksucker of Tamim and Alex, straight Alpha boys, same high school and age as me, and so lucky as next month I go to southern France with them and their friend Rachid, to be their houseboy and cumdump as they want during this holiday at sea.   2) Some weeks ago I met at pool here near Paris a mature family man, saw him another time at hotel, he also loves to use me very discretly as his young fag and I love that too. 
All this makes me understand that what I love most is to serve straight Alphas (either my age or much older) – dominant boys and men like the ones I serve, who consider themselves as straight and love to use a young fag but want to protect their straight public image and reputation (and also use girls if they wish at other moments).  Sure I could also serve a gay Alpha, it may happen in future, but truly I feel even better the superiority of such straight Alpha boys or man, and it excites me so much they want to use me and treat me as the young cocksucker I am while protecting their straight reputation. This makes me even more eager to be their subboy and give them the pleasure they want and deserve.     I wonder if there are a few or many other fags who feel same as me ?  

My crazy little brother Titouan! What are you doing in my Question box? LOL
 
Yes, all faggots feel that way about straight boys, I think. However, I think you might be surprised how dominant many gay Alphas are, baby boy! I have no doubt you will have plenty of chances to serve gay Alphas, and you’ll see what I mean! 
 
But maybe other faggots might want to answer this as well. 

i think of myself as a top-dom-alpha but i’m new to your vocab. But i feel confident saying Titouan’s alpha is no alpha. He’s a loser and a creep. Worse. Titouan should uncage himself, visiting a metal worker to cut it off if necessary. He should pour sand into his “master’s” gas tank. My God the definition of Manhood has sunk low when an asshole like that inflicts cruelty on anyone as defenseless as Titouan. 

Thank you, Sir. Yes, I am not very happy with Titouan’s Master after this latest episode, and I share your concerns. Titouan is far too wonderful to be treated so cruelly. I wish you could take ownership of him, Sir! A Protector Alpha like you deserves a beautiful and  devoted faggot like him! 

I wondered if what I see here in my lycée (high school) near Paris, Fr, can be seen in your country h.s. ?  Here it’s clear there is an unofficial but real hierarchy among boys. The superior category includes what you’d call Alpha boys, they seem naturally dominant, they look virile, wear tight jeans proud to show their bulges to girls and other boys, of course girls prefer them. Most students belong to intermediate categories. And the lowest category includes “pédales” (fags) like me and “boloss” (losers), some other boys not looking virile.
As a fag I have to let the Alpha boys choose first their seats in classrooms or at cantine.Even if we have same age and they call me “pédale” (faggot) or “mini bite” (tiny dick), I must always show respect to them. It happens they ask for me to pick up and give them their clothes in sport lockerroom or bring them to drink during class pause. But the best is two of them love to use me as their cocksucker some ends of afternoon after high school. I must kneel, lick and suck, am not authorised to touch me, when their balls are empty it’s back home. Sure some may not understand, but I feel all this is fair, I love to obey and serve them and give these superior boys the pleasure they deserve. It does not prevent me of serving an older Alpha some other days which is so good too. But seeing these other teens displaying their superiority and using me as their fag though we have same age helps me to understand my place and the fair hierarchy. Do you think or know if same things happen for other high school faggot boys in other places or countries?              

Brother, it’s nice to hear from my French faggot brothers! 
 
Yes, it’s exactly the same here in the United States and largely everywhere around the world. Men are Men, and that’s never going to change no matter where they are. In America, such behaviors result in the fraternity lifestyle that results in a lot of Alpha/faggot interaction. But yes, the dynamic you describe is everywhere.
 
It sounds like you’re having a great time servicing a couple of your Alpha classmates! I’m glad! Enjoy it!