Hi Sam,

This is Master Francesco again. Thanks for your answer to my previous question about an ideal dier for a fag. I honestly think I made a good diet plan for my boy but it’s been really hard to convince him. He accepted the fiber gummies because they taste like candy, but he says fruits and vegetables are too much lol I’m making a big effort, but it’s pointless, so I’d like to know your thoughts, Sam. I don’t think punishing him will work, so I wanna find better ways to fuck a fag with such a bad diet. He loves your work, so you can answer this message and talk directly to both of us if you’d like.

Thanks, Sam

Master, thank you very much for writing back to me! 

First of all, I’m grateful for a second opportunity to address you because, after your first question, multiple fags asked me what kind of diet you designed for your faggot. So I ask that you please share your faggot’s recommended diet, Master.

Aside from what you’ve already mentioned as recommended dietary steps, I don’t have a ton of additional ideas. The best diet plan for keeping a faggot’s pussy clean involves eating mainly vegetables, low intake of sugar and processed foods, and generally small portions. It’s not really rocket science.

I would like to direct this to your faggot, though: I’m a little surprised and frustrated that any faggot who follows and/or admires my work would be so disobedient and resistant to the direction of its Master. There is no excuse for back talk or hissy fits over vegetables. Your Master is trying to improve you so that you’re more fuckable.

Thank you again, Master!

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Dear Sam,

My name is John, I’m 30. I was married to a woman for 10 years and gota divorce a few months ago. When I left home, I decided to share my apartment with a fried from work and we get a long very well. He likes to cook and do the chores and usually do not ask anything in return, but for me that’s natural because I usually pay more bills, so it is fair. However, last month, after a long day at work, he asked me if I wanted a foot massage. I thought it was a little awkward at first, but I let him do it, and it felt really relaxing. After that day, he is always begging to massage my feet, specially when I come back from the gym. My older brother is gay and when I told him that something was weird with all these foot massages, he immediately said “bro, this guy wants to suck your cock”

I don’t think so, because as long as I’m concerned, he is straight too. But I admit that, as a straight man, I don’t feel like giving my friends massages so often. My brother sent me this link on whatsapp and told me that you’re a specialist in male behavior. I was surprised to see that this is a gay porn website and thought my brother was joking, but he insisted that I should reach out because you’ll know what to say. I am a big ally and love my brother but I have no intention to have any sort of homosexual relationship.

Sir, thank you so much for writing to me! I also thank your brother for sending you my way!

Just based on what you told me I must agree with your brother: your roommate is either a faggot, or an unrealized faggot. 

Like you said, as a straight Man you have no desire to rub the feet of your friends. Why is your roommate wanting to do that? Also, why is your roommate so eagerly doing chores for you?

Almost all faggots have foot fetishes, and craving is so intense that Men can easily flush out a faggot by simply taking off their shoes and watching the fag get flustered. It cannot be hidden. A faggot can always be revealed through its addiction to feet and bulges.

So what will you do with this faggot now that you know what it is, Sir? Kick it out? 

I’m certainly not going to suggest you get into a “homosexual relationship” with the faggot, Sir, but as this “porn site” proves, straight Men and straight Alphas use/own faggots all the time. I invite you to check out the many true stories of such things in the right sidebar, Sir.

Using a faggot doesn’t turn a straight Man gay any more than using a Fleshlight turns a Man into a doll fucker. In fact, straight Men who own/use faggots typically feel more powerful because of the fact that even males are subjugated by their power.

But I’m not going to try to convince you of anything you don’t want to try, Sir. You’re already benefitting from this live-in faggot’s worship, so you can leave it at that. 

But if you’re feeling bolder (or want a definitive answer), I suggest that you order the fag to kneel at your feet while you’re standing over it and ask it if it is a faggot. Order it to kiss your feet. Repeat this several times. I think you will be surprised by what happens, Sir.

If you want, you can scent train the faggot by having it sniff your balls through your pants, or your armpits. 

These things I’m suggesting to you aren’t gay, just nature. Animals do this stuff, too. I suggest them because it will reveal great Hierarchical truths to you and open your mind to your true power, Sir. 

I’m always open to helping you privately via email, Sir. My email is hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com. Thank you, Sir!

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Hi, I’ve just read Juan’s story and saw this hot video of a Black Alpha pounding a white fag, really nice. But I wonder where the Black fags are. I am 40 y-old, my family is from Africa and I was born and raised in France. I’ve been fucking fags since I was 19. Although there are a lot of racist bottoms here, most of boys love sucking my Black cock, I’ve lost the count of how many white fags I’ve bred in the past 20 years. However, it’s really hard to find Black fags to fuck. When I look for Black gay men, most of them are Alphas like me or submissive men who pretend to be Alphas but don’t embrace their faghood. It’s so easy to find white and Asian faggots here, but sometimes I really want to see my Black cock entering a Black pussy. I feel that, because racism is already so bad, many Black fags try to deceive themselves and deny their faghood, while white fags feel embraced by the LGBT movement to be faggots 24/7. Does it make sense to you?

Master, thank you so much for reaching out to me!

You’re absolutely right about the lack of truly self-actualized black faggots in the world. There are certainly a lot in the X porn I watch, but those are rare compared to the vast numbers of white and Asian fags out there.

I tend to think it’s cultural. The reason why we see so many black Alphas is largely because culturally black Men have had to become hard and tough growing up mostly in poorer areas. The effect is two-fold: black Men develop their Alphahood, but they also have a keener and better-developed sense of Hierarchy in general. Let’s not forget that the term “DL” originated in the black community to denote straight Men who fuck faggots on the “down low”. 

Typically the true black fags are really over-the-top super queens that drive people crazy out in public. I’m sure you know the type, Master.

When I was locked up I met a sassy black faggot named Patrick who was transgender (presented as a woman). He and I had some great talks in my cell about being faggots, although Patrick wasn’t nearly as submissive as he should’ve been. Part of that was due to his culture, and part of it was due to his arrogance.

And I think that’s ultimately how I want to warn you, Master. Black faggots have their uses for Alphas like you (they’re probably the best cocksuckers on the planet), but they’re also a handful. Several handfuls. So you need to weigh which is more important, ease of ownership vs. fetish satisfaction.

Ultimately any faggot can be broken and retrained. And given your vast experience, Master, I’m sure you’d be more than up for the challenge black faggots would present!

Master, I would love to feature you and your stories here if you’re willing to share. My email is HierarchyUniversity@gmail.com. Thank you!

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What’re your thoughts on subs like CagedJock on twitter? Or other subs who dominate subs?

This is an excellent question, so I thank you for asking it! As you might recall, I published an article about the faggot hierarchy. At the top of that hierarchy are “mentor faggots” who understand training (based on experience in all aspects of fag service) and also understand the needs of a faggot. Cagedjock is absolutely a mentor faggot (who also has a little bit of a BDSM kink), so it’s unsurprising that he occasionally doms a fag. As a mentor faggot myself, I could very easily do the same. In fact, that’s why I’m so effective in advising Alphas on how to take ownership of faggots. I know exactly what a faggot needs to be improved and encouraged.

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Hi brother!

I have a question for you. I live with my husband who is also my Master and King. We are really happy together and I am living a dream with him. I cook, clean, do all the chores for him, I make sure that my hole is always ready for him, I wear what he tells me to wear, and even eat what he tells me to eat. I wait for him at home while he goes out to fuck other faggots and girls when he wants other holes, but he always come back home for me and we sleep together. I truly am really happy with him and I would do anything for my Man.

My problem is: my friends and family cannot understand this dynamic. Sometimes I am home Friday night cleaning or doing his laundry and someone from our group of friends send me a picture of him at a nightclub saying “look! he’s cheating on you!” This is so tiring Sam, omg!! We have been together since high school, so we have a lot of friend in common and some of them believe that this is unfair or incorrect.

And you know what is crazy? My straight male friends hardly ever comment on that, and when they tell me my boyfriend is “cheating” on me I tell him that this is our dynamic and they ALWAYS understand, never mention that again. My best friend is straight, he is a super nice guy and cares a lot about me, so he told me that my husband was making out with a woman at a nightclub to alert me. I told him not to worry because I already knew it, and he only made a joke saying that he wished his wife were like me, and NEVER AGAIN mention that. He’s friends with my husband and they get along very well together now.

However, it has been really hard to live with my female friends because they keep on telling me to get rid of this relationship, because he doesn’t respect me, he cheats on me, he exploits me because I do the chores, etc. I even got distant from my best friend because she insists that my Man treats me like women used to be treated in the past. So she always says things like “we fought for centuries to get out of this life and now you are going back to it” and bla bla bla Even my sister, who I love and care so much, doesn’t hide that she doesn’t like the way he treats me. I told her that we are in an open relationship, but she keeps saying that he does not respect me because he goes out looking for other fags and other girls.

But he loves me, Sam!! And he respects me so much, you have no idea. He protects me and takes care of me so much. When I had a problem in my ankle and couldn’t walk for a week, he did all the chores, cooked for me, drove me around, and made sure I would have the best recovery possible. But when I was back to normal life, he wanted me to go back to my role as his fag, which I obviously did!

Anyway, I love your work, brother! I have learned so much from you throughout the years. In fact, my husband loves to read the stories here while I suck his cock and I am always rewarded with great loads <3 So my question is: how to navigate a fag-Alpha dynamic in social life trying to explain it in a way that my sister and female friends will not be trying to convince me all the time that he is toxic and abusive (which he is not at all)? Or should I just say “this is none of your business, bitch!!”?

Thank you so much for this important question!

First of all, you must consider what has happened to traditional roles (and the appreciation of them) of Men/Alphas and females in countries in the West (like America). In the past, women stayed home and took care of the house and essentially served her husband while he worked to earn support for the family. These were traditional values for centuries for a reason: these values play to the strengths of the sexes and gives each of them fulfillment. 

Sadly, women have rejected that traditional role in order to have equality. That by itself has caused incredible frustration and disillusionment. It’s also contributed to the increase of beta males we see today.

The only ones really holding firm to traditional roles are Alphas and faggots. Faggots have been able to swoop into the void created by distracted, selfish women and service these straight Men the way they were meant to be served. Faggots are actually fulfilled by all of the subservient work and worship once done by females, because like women faggots are born to do those things. 

This is a lot of preface! Here’s the point: those people complaining about your relationship with your Master DO NOT understand what Men and faggots need because they have abandoned traditional values at the core of Men, women, and faggots. And they certainly know nothing about Hierarchy.

You’ve probably done all you can to deal with it by just explaining to them that there’s nothing wrong with your relationship. I wouldn’t even bother telling them that faggots actually prefer when their Alphas hunt other holes to use!

Or I guess you could just show them this response. I doubt it will move them, but it’s worth a try.

Here’s some good advice: the less people know about you, the better off you’ll be!

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I’ve been following the exciting relationship between Lorenzo and Jose. I’m hoping Lorenzo will finally fuck and breed his Alpha brother because Master Lorenzo deserves everything he wants. I’ve been following his thread since the very beginning and I can say that I love this powerful King, I’d do anything to be Gio and serve his cock. You mentioned in one of the posts that you served him on the phone, right? If it is not a problem for you, could you please talk a little bit more about this experience? His voice, presence, etc? Have you ever seen his cock on video?

I also want to share a hot video that illustrates well this dynamic: an Alpha fucking a faggot, then a more powerful Alpha fucking both: https://boyforsale.net/the-boy-serg-chapter-7-the-prize/

Thanks for the amazing content, brother 

Thank you for the question! I’m glad you like the thread! It’s been exciting to watch it unfold!

Yes I served Master Lorenzo multiple times on the phone. The first thing I loved about it was how he would talk to me beforehand about issues he was considering or just catching up. And then, very calmly, he’d say something like, “Okay boy, now I want you to make me cum.” That was my cue to begin to service him over the phone.

(side note: I actually did a short stint as a phone sex operator a long time ago and made a decent amount of money. It was just for fun, though)

Master Lorenzo has a deep-but-soft voice that he uses to deliver very specific, firm demands. I can only imagine what effect that voice has in person, but over the phone it’s very sexy! This is especially true once he gets close to orgasm!

And let me tell you, I love hearing him cum! He doesn’t yell, he grunts. But you can tell it’s powerful, and it wipes him out!

I’ve never seen Master Lorenzo’s cock (these were not video calls), but that doesn’t matter. He’s more of a Man than most Men alive. I’m so very grateful for any way I can be of service to him!

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Hi Sam,

If you had to estimate the percentages for the amount of each level of man in the hierarchy (from apex alpha down to faggot), what percentages would you give?

Thanks for the question! This was once a post idea that ended up never getting made!

My guesstimate is:

GOD ALPHA: 1%
APEX ALPHA: 5%
ALPHA: 10%
PRE-ALPHA: 20%
BETA: 44%
FAGGOT: 20%

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Hi Sam,

I have a question but I feel like I need to have a thorough explanation of my background to get to it, so if you wouldn’t mind, I’ll tell my story here.

I’m a 54 year old man who is married to a woman for 25 years now.  Seven years into my marriage I got curious about gay sex; I guess, that seven year itch was a real thing.  Anyway, back then, all I knew of were the personal ads section of Craigslist under Men looking for Men.

I would read personal ads there and those were enough to get my fantasy going – these would be enough fodder for me to jerk off with and I’d be good for a while.  A while changed drastically from a few weeks, to a few days, to a few hours.  I ended up spending so much time on Craigslist that I knew most of the frequent posters already. Eventually, even the ads that I would find hot would progress (or regress) from just imagining some local guy in my area getting it on with another man to more kinkier stuff — like, those involving BDSM.

Eventually, one specially horny night, I ended up replying to an ad from a Dom Master who was looking for “students” for a “submission class” he was forming.

I was surprised when Sir reaponded. We corresponded for several weeks and Sir was disappointed there weren’t enough responders to his ad but he was happy to at least have me.

His domination over me took several more weeks online (think email, not apps) before Sir had me meet him at a motel.

I was told to wait for him naked and prostrated on the motel room floor, head against the carpet and told not to move.

It was a day of many firsts for me.  I became a cocksucker that day, a piss swallower, and a cum bucket. Though, Sir left me an anal virgin still. And all this transpired while I was blindfolded.  So, I haven’t even seen my Master’s face then.

It was only after a couple more in person sessions that I finally saw his face, it was when he took my ass pussy on my marital bed without my wife ever finding out.

My last session with him, he had me spend overnight and him and his friends used me several times in so many ways I hadn’t even imagined possible.

After having experienced nothing like it in my life, one would think I would have found my calling then and started a new life as a faggot.  But that wasn’t the case, I soon found myself reeling in shame and guilt.  I swore off all faggotry and even anything remotely gay. Though I wasn’t always successful, I was determined to stay straight for the rest of my life.

Now almost two decades later, I find myself back where I was. Instead of Craigslist, there are apps now.  And just like before, I was just a voyeur to the chats and groups and porn, I slowly started chatting, then sending pics and vids of me here and there. Next thing you know, I am serving men again, albeit, all online only.

Thing is, I found a Dom who is local and he is naturally dominant and seems to understand my situation well.  He wants us to meet, he wants to use me in person. He promises to use me as the faggot I was meant to be.

Part of me wants to meet him. But I am scared.  I don’t know if I want to actually meet this Dom only to feel the same guilt afterwards.  Also, I don’t know if I still have it in me to be the faggot that Sir deserves.  After all, I am much older now.  Is it like riding a bicycle?  Will I again naturally know what to do and be able to do what Sir asks if me? Will I still be able to take what Sir plans to do to me?

He is open to discuss the situation and we have but I am still apprehensive.  I don’t want to ruin the life my wife and I have built but also there’s this opportunity that I don’t often have.  What advice can you give this closeted faggot?

Thank you

Thank you for the question!

I will say that being a faggot is just like riding a bike. You don’t forget what your purpose is or how you’ve been trained. It just takes re-engagement.

Your feelings of guilt are natural, especially for fags in your situation. And frankly, that’s probably healthy for you. 

But what are you trying to protect at this point? You already risked your wife and marriage years ago.

I think the shame you’re feeling is the same shame that led you to marry a female in the first place. That shame is still making your decisions, unfortunately. 

I have little confidence that you’re going to make a significant change in your life and actually experience the fulfillment of this purpose that has followed you throughout your life.

My recommendation is for you to put this away and forget it. Just live the rest of your life in the trajectory you’ve already charted for yourself. It’s simpler, and will cause you the least anxiety. 

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Sam,

Where can I find some good TPE or master slave content on twitter or just for fans? I feel like a lot of people out there just talk to the camera or aren’t really that rough and degrading and it’s hard to search on the sites. Any recommendation of a master or fag I should follow?

Thanks for the question!

TPE stands for “total power exchange”, and typically refers to true Master/slave relationships. On FWA, I featured a real-life slave named Tim who served a straight Master, but I lost touch with him. Personally, my favorite relationship of this type is Master Declan and his faggot Zack, which has been featured here and is updated regularly on X at @jktorono11. 

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The following post is part of a thread following the discoveries of a muscular straight Colombian Alpha named Juan as he owns and uses faggots as part of stable of worshipers. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

When straight Alphas first try owning and using faggots, there is usually a little bit of an adjustment period needed. After all, they’re accustomed to the demure hesitations and resistances of females. Faggots, on the other hand, are much wilder and always eager to serve. It’s literally a new world for a straight Alpha.

But once a straight Alpha adjusts to the uninhibited, service-oriented nature of faggots, he suddenly realizes exactly how powerful he is and how unlimited his options for pleasure and worship truly are!

Master Juan of Colombia has been going through that adjustment phase, and practically every faggot he’s encountered has blown his mind as well as his cock. However, he just had an encounter that is so unusual that he had to share it:

Hello Sam, this is Juan from Colombia again. I think I am a magnet of unusual fags, because after the fag addicted to my farts, I have another awkward situation to solve. I like to search for new holes on Grindr at least once a week and I hardly ever end the night without a fag in my bed. A few weeks ago, I met a really sexy femboy twink, willing to take my black cock all night long. All good. I bred his hole a few times and then he told me that he wanted to have a 3some and serve me together with another boy. Just like any other top, I loved the idea, but then he revealed that he wanted to do it with his twin brother. He then showed me videos of them making out and sucking rimming each other’s fag hole. They’re exactly equal, it’s like a fag making out with a clone. And I don’t know what to do, that’s too crazy for me. At the end of the day, I am the man of the house and I’ll do whatever I want. But I’d like to know your opinion on this. I’d be happy to fuck them on different days but their kink is serve the same man at the same time. Sounds like a perfect porn movie, a black cock fucking 2 tight pink holes, but that’s still weird for me. Maybe I’m just being a conservative latino and people in Europe are more open minded?

I know plenty of Alphas who would kill their own mothers for a chance to fuck and breed twink faggot twins. As Master Juan points out, it’s practically straight out of a porn movie!

Master Juan is (I suppose) asking me if I think it would be a good idea to use these twin fags together. My answer is a RESOUNDING YES! In fact, I struggle to find a down side to a situation like this.

On the other hand, there are plenty of positives. First of all, twins have a strange connection to each other, which helps them in situations like this one to deliver coordinated pleasure.

And then there are simply the benefits of using twin faggots for pure worship. Imagine Master Juan sitting in a chair and twin fags between his legs and worshiping his cock together! Imagine the pleasure from that! Imagine the power he’d feel being adored as the focus of their world!

Alphas are always seeking worship and submission. There’s no better way to experience this than by using twin faggots!

So I hope Master Juan takes my advice and uses them together! It’s time for him to let go of his conservative upbringing and embrace the hierarchical power and glory bestowed upon him by nature!

Thank you, Master Juan!

Hi Sam,

I am a 22 year old boy who is pretty feminine and people always assume I am gay but I am not ‘out’. My dad never really said anything about it, but one of his best friends figured it all out while I was growing up. Just when I celebrated my 18th birthday he had a talk with me. He is a mature very dominant Moroccan Alpha who has his own succesful businesses and he is pretty cocky.

In the conversation we had back in 2021 he told me that I am not only gay, but a faggot. And that he knew what to do with boys like me. So since then he has basically trained me and I have loved every minute of it. I suck his dick all the time, he takes me on business trips in the car so during long drives I have to suck him too. I tell my family I am going for a run while I actually clean his house and cook his food. Suck him while he watches TV and more…

The problem is that he does not seem to care if my dad one day finds out. He’s like ‘sooner or later he will know his son is a fag, at least let him be a good well trained fag then’. His cocky behavior sometimes leads to pretty risky situations, for example: he calls my dad in the car while I am sucking Sir’s Cock. And one time I was naked, caged and giving him a blowjob during a football game on TV when all of a sudden he started video calling my Dad. To talk about the game. I froze, but of course he did not show me and he just pushed my head back on his Cock. It’s not like he tries to out me to my dad, but he does not care as much about keeping the secret as I do.

It has always been great and it still is, he taught me everything about my true self and made me a really obedient faggot. I am forever thankful. I am just a bit nervous about it, do you think I should stop serving this amazing Alpha?

best,

a desperate fag brother x

Thank you for the terrific experience/question, brother!

It’s pretty remarkable that your Dad’s friend watched you and waited patiently until you were of age so he could claim you! How flattering, but also how humbling! Alphas have superior hunting instincts, and they see the truth about those around them. There’s no hiding from their gaze!

You must keep in mind that he claimed you as his faggot behind the back of his friend (your father). That’s really risky, but he clearly felt like owning you was worth it!

Now, you mention that he does some risky things when you’re servicing him, like calling your Dad on video chat, etc. You have nothing to fear, because this Alpha is simply using this as a hint of danger to make things more thrilling. He’s not going to ruin his friendship with your Dad, and he doesn’t want to hurt you. Trust him.

Should you keep serving him? Are you kidding me?? A wealthy, dominant Alpha waited YEARS just to own you, and you aren’t sure if you should keep serving him? 

If you don’t, then I will! Or so will 1 billion other faggots around the world! Stop dragging your feet and WORSHIP HIM!!!

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Despite being an older faggot i have taken a long time, just the last few years to be able to say out loud: “i am a faggot here to be used, here to obey, here to serve and know my place”. How about you faggots?

Thank you for writing!

I do think there are generations of older faggots like you who struggle to admit their truth. The violent, rampant  homophobia and general dismissal of faghood as nothing but a fetish forced almost all faggots into hiding and self-denial.

In fact, that is one of the reasons I started this site ten years ago. I wanted faggots to embrace their truth and start living honest lives.

On X, @MasterA_2022 and I did a series of experimental live spaces in which we would allow fags to speak and admit their truth as faggots for the first time. Some of them CRIED! It was very moving.

So I’m proud of you for taking this step, brother!

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I wanna believe you so bad when u say gay alphas exist , but in my experience I’ve never actually met one , at best they were closeted bisexual, but true gay alpha men ? Real Men , naturally masculine and gay… They’re like a unicorn. I’m honestly in a phase of my life where I’m kinda over just being used , I know I’m still a fag but I would love to be at the service of someone that “sees me” , is attracted or even with a huge amount of luck could even love me but I feel like this isn’t even a possiblity when gay alphas seems to not even exist… I guess that’s just a rant but I really have no one to talk to about this and you’re like a mentor. Thanks for even just reading

Thanks for the heartfelt question, brother!

I do understand some of your frustration. Over the years I’ve encountered gay Men who claim to be dominant or Alpha, only to discover that sometimes they like sucking dick or fucking themselves with dildos. I literally shut down when I find that out. Other times I find a Man who claims to be “Alpha”, but when you meet them they’re wearing a leather harness over their flabby, hairy torso and they have a voice gayer than Nathan Lane in THE BIRDCAGE. What am I supposed to think?

So I get what you’re saying. However, I’m telling you the truth: there are plenty of gay Alphas who are true Alphas and Masters every bit as equal to any straight Alpha. Take Master Lorenzo, for example. Or Master Dean. These are gay Men, gay Alphas, and they are equal in power (I actually think they exceed the power) to any straight Alphas.

It simply requires more searching in the right places. I have an advantage in that I’ve been running this site for a decade and I’ve been privileged to meet and talk to Alphas of every stripe. Every true Alpha, gay or straight, has something to offer.

If you give up or shut yourself off from those experiences, you’re missing out on chances to grow.

As a bonus, I want to leave you with this video of God Alpha @hollywoodpwrtop (a gay Alpha) fucking one of his faggots. You can’t tell me this incredible gay Alpha is not equal to a straight Alpha!

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Hi there Sam, for the sake of anonymity my name is Tom, I’m 19 and in uni in the usa. I’ve been following your site since I was in like middle school? Highschool maybe? And I’ve always found the content really hot but I always thought I was just a horny teen. (Btw thanks for keeping it free I really appreciate it). But eventually I realized I was a real f@g and read as much of your blog as I could, even digging to find your old site when it was shut down. But anyways to my actual question.

I’m sure get this question about how to serve a lot and I’ve seen some of your replies and tried to do that (Grindr, recon, blowers) but I haven’t found anyone who really understands the hierarchy. I’m scared to find someone in person but at this point it’s not even that I want to but I can’t. I’ve tried online but as a uni student I don’t have any money to send for findom.

One thing I’ve tried is offering my services as a graphic designer, assistant, or homework slave online but they always ghost me after one or two assignments. Do you know any other ways I could try serving? Or even any alphas in school who would need a fag like me to serve them?

Thanks for writing to me after so long! I’m always wowed when I hear from youngsters who have been reading me since they were practically boys! Such a huge responsibility!

I’m proud of you for making attempts to submit to Alphas at uni! However, what you’re doing is very safe and simple and largely risk-free. 

You need to keep in mind that college Alphas are HORNY and FULL OF TESTOSTERONE. They all want service and worship. So you can often be much bolder and direct with them.

Get into a conversation with an Alpha and start it with this: “Do you consider yourself to be Alpha?” This almost always leads to conversations about Hierarchy. I did this in prison, so you can do it in uni. Use the pyramid diagram here to highlight hierarchy.

You can also use resources like “Letter To An Alpha” to explain things for you.

It simply requires bravery and boldness. You can do this!

Hello,

My name is Jon. I’m in my late 30s—5’10″, 155 lbs, average/fit build—and I live in Washington, D.C.

I’ve been part of the gay scene for about 20 years, but I’ve still not found what I’ve been deeply craving: the opportunity to truly submit to someone. I’ve tried, but honestly, I haven’t had much luck. I’ve encountered so many fakes and flakes over the years, and as I get older, I worry that it’s becoming even harder to find what I’m looking for. That thought breaks my heart.

At the same time, I have fears about family finding out and being disappointed in me. I dream of finding someone—a friend or boyfriend—who I can have a “normal” relationship in public, while privately being able to fully submit to them.

Just to share a little background: I was raised in an African culture and often felt more comfortable spending time with girls because I didn’t feel “man enough.” Even back then, I think I knew something about myself that I just couldn’t express. There are many moments in my life where I’ve shown my true colors.  but I’ve never been bold enough to admit anything because of my family.

I’m sorry if I’m rambling. I guess I’m just hoping for some guidance—or maybe, even, for someone out there to consider giving me a chance.

Thank you so much for reading.

Jon, thanks for writing!

I really can hear the frustration eating you up inside, and I feel for you. For African cultures, there’s enormous pressure on males to conform to certain masculine expectations. That can be overwhelming, and almost choke you to death.

But you are not alone in this. We all deal with these pressures in one way or another.

Honestly, trying to live life as a true faggot is very hard because much of gay culture dismisses faghood as a fetish, and not a serious state of being. So we are sometimes even ostracized by our own “community”. 

But to be blunt, the solution to your issue lies INSIDE YOU. You need to learn to let go of these family pressures (because they ultimately mean nothing) and take responsibility for your own path and happiness. 

Finding a Master is a process of trial and error, but it can be done. Apps like Grindr, TheBlowers.com, Recon, and others can get you access to Alphas, and from there you can start making connections. I’d recommend that you start submitting to Alphas you know in your everyday life, but you don’t sound ready for that.

There’s no magic bullet here. It just takes working on yourself and trying your best to submit both publicly and privately to Men. It will lead to success, but nothing will happen until you heal the family issues holding you back.

I read the question and answer about cunting and it made me wonder about femdom implications.  I know a local female domme who also does double with a male domme.  Her clients are not faggots per se but more so beta males, or beta sissys.  How does cunting apply in a situation like this that starts with a femdom theme and beta males?

Thanks for the question!

Cunting is a physical/emotional experience when a sub male is fucked by a Man, and is not exclusive to faggots. So beta males can be cunted as well if they are properly broken and fucked.

Hi brother. I have been avidly consuming your site over the past few months and it has really opened my eyes to the fact that I am a faggot and born to serve superior alpha men. That fact has been playing itself out through online findom for me over the past few years. I have dipped in and out of that and served a few masters online though I always felt that it was insincere on their part. They were conventionally attractive straight guys using it as an easy way to make money. About a year ago however I started to serve a new master who is different. He is young and straight and incredibly handsome. More than that though he thrives on power and control. I’ve sent him a lot of money over the past year but also had such deep conversations about myself and him as well. I’d categorise him as an apex alpha and definitely as a protector.  I’m more open with him than I am with anyone else. Submitting to him feels so good and right. He is however 100% straight and I know this will never go anywhere beyond this type of service and submission to him. I feel so conflicted about whether I should stop as findom ultimately feels like a stupid path to be following. Equally however I trust my master and know that he won’t take advantage of me beyond a certain point. If I walk away from this I worry that I’ll eventually get weak and go back looking for more and end up under the control of a destroyer alpha who could do real damage to me.

I’m so torn about what I should do. Any guidance you could give this confused Fagott would be much appreciated.

Thanks for the question, brother!

As I’ve made pretty clear over the years, I’m not a huge fan of findom. Mostly my dislike centers around the laziness/addictive aspects of it, which I find to be harmful dead ends.

But there are also genuine faggots like you who would do well with a real Master, but you’ve painted yourself into a corner just as you described. 

Since you have a deep connection with this Master, I’d talk to him and tell him what you’re dealing with. Tell him you need something more real, and see if he has a role for you. Sometimes long-term straight findom Masters begin to want to own personal fags, and you could be one for him.

If not, then I think you should move your focus away from findom and start looking for a local Alpha. They exist, and they will use you. I realize this is scary, but at some point the training wheels (findom) must come off the bike so we can ride free. This might be that moment for you.

Hey Sam. I’ve always identified as a bottom. My small dick and the seeming inability of it to stay hard really reinforced that thinking in my head. Plus I am a submissive person in general. Part of my wants to try topping. Like take a viagra and see what it is like. But I don’t know if that is a good idea. I just don’t know if this is a good idea.

Thanks brother. Yeah, this is a bad idea. Topping a faggot is a responsibility, especially when it comes to taking someone’s virginity. You are not equipped physically or emotionally or hierarchically for such an act. Stick to your lane.

How to get rid of a broken faggot?

I guess you could dismiss it, Sir?

Sam, I was at a small art opening the other day and there was one very hot frat/bro/alpha there with his girlfriend. He was late 20’s clearly an athlete, permanent 5 o’clock shadow, wearing T-shirt, shorts and flip/flops. He clearly was alpha, he was so self contained as he moved slowly through the gallery, his girlfriend, clinging to him. I could tell he knew people were looking at him but he never looked at anyone or at me even though I couldn’t stop stealing glances at him. He had the same energy that all those str8 bros online have who are now using fags. I wanted to somehow make contact with him or say something to him but it seemed like it would be too weird — what could I even say? But here’s my question: I wish there was a sign or signal or gesture that a fag could use to make itself known to an alpha — a sign that any alpha would understand meant:  “Oh here’s a fag making itself known to me”. I know you have merchandise like T-shirts and things that do this, but I’d be curious if you or even some of the Alphas who come here regularly could come up with something that would make it easy for a faggot to signal it’s availability to any alpha – a kind of universal sign that alphas and fags know about.  A sign that could be spread among alphas online, because fag/alpha dynamic seems to be spreading like wild fire among this new generation of Alphas – and I am sure the Alpha I saw the other day has been approached in his life by a faggot — he just had that cocky arrogant alpha big dick energy. Any thoughts from you or the alphas here would be appreciated!

Thanks for writing! This has been an issue I’ve wrestled with mightily over the years, and I’ve never come up with a suitable solution. Shirts just aren’t universal nor every day solutions, and while I think a bracelet could work, I couldn’t find one that pleased people.

Here are some new ideas. I ran them on Twitter, and the consensus seems to be in favor of the thick leather bracelet as long as it was customized.

LEAVE YOUR THOUGHTS BELOW!