Hi, I love your blog and reading about all of the masters and fags in the world.
I am a 35 year old gay man who is happily married to a 35 year old gay man. We are monogamous and have been married for 10 years, together for 15.
I want your advice. I am naturally submissive in the bedroom and want to serve my husband more sexually. He is very reluctant and is very focussed on mutual sexual satisfaction whereas I want him to not care about me and just focus on him getting off.
he is a bit of a prude and won’t really talk about sex stuff so I am hoping that you have some advice on how I can start to subtly support him to become more of a master than a husband.
any advice you can give would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.
Daniel

Daniel, my brother … thank you for the question!

I’ve had some success helping faggots with this very issue, but there are usually only three solutions:

1. You follow my advice and it eventually works to bring out an inner dominance in the partner, or

2. The fag partner is allowed to find a Master outside the relationship to serve, or

3. The fag partner just accepts that his partner is not dominant and this is the life it must lead.

From what you described about your partner, I don’t have much confidence that my advice will work. He sounds quite beta to me, but even worse is the fact that he’s fallen for the false, politically-correct doctrine of equality. He seems like he’s comfortable having a polite little gay relationship with you.

Regardless, my advice for this is the same. Start calling him “Sir”. Start serving him like a faggot, taking care of the house, the meals, serving him the meals, bringing him drinks and snacks, and generally being very submissive. Rub his feet. Kiss his feet. Sit at his feet. Compliment him often. During sex, it must be altered to cater only to his pleasure. Beg him not to suck your penis. Become a ravenous, submissive slut for him.

You need a quantum shift in the current dynamics, and this is what I’m suggesting. You need to crack open that safe cocoon he’s wrapped himself in, and find out if there’s anything else inside.

If there isn’t, then I’m afraid you’re essentially left with the other two options.

The sad truth is that most Men are not Alphas, and getting bogged down in a relationship with a beta male is suffocating for faggots.

I really hope there’s a better outcome here, brother!

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Hi Sam!

thank for all that you do for the hierarchy and helping us fellow faggots be at our best in service to the incredible Men in the world.

To that point, I’ve recently been serving this very beefy and strong Alpha from the gym. He, of course, noticed my clit cage (thanks for the recommendation to shamelessly put it on display in the locker room!) and has been fucking my pussy about twice a week. It’s all a faggot could ask for except he refuses to use any lube other than what I coat his dick with from him face fucking me or the spit he adds along the way (very little). He does have me suck his dick multiple times while breeding my pussy (gladly!) but it really leaves my cunt sore for days after.

I basically never feel like it fully recovers before he’s balls deep in my pussy again with just a bit of spit to pound away almost instantly (he pistons in and out so hard and fast that the spit seemingly disappears in seconds).

I’ve asked, even begged for him to use some lube but the only thing accepts is more spit and throat slime from me gagging on his 8-9” cock.

Am I being too demanding or selfish, Sam? Or should I try another approach like pre-lubing? Think he might get pissed if he finds out though.

all thoughts appreciated!

thanks,

houston

Thank you for the question!

I just had a very similar question recently … what’s the deal with these Alphas not using lube? I mean, I get not liking condoms, but lube just makes things easier.

But I think that’s really the point. These Alphas (like yours) WANT it to hurt you. It makes them feel more powerful when your pussy is stretched and fucked raw. They like the screams and the writhing.

This is just a reality we faggots must handle if we are to fulfill our duties.

However, I think you should try pre-lubing in the hope that he will not mind too much. Do whatever you can to deal with it, unless you think you can approach him and beg him to allow the use of lube. There just aren’t many easy solutions to this issue, brother.

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Hi again ! Just a follow up on your answer about MasterV. What I meant about the kind of humiliation he uses on fags, is that he’s openly homophobic. Like many masters on X, he promotes views like straight pride, the end of gay rights and lgbt movement, fag hate and self hate, homo shame, not to mention hard conservatism and racism. He enjoys bullying us, and in return many of us enjoy being bullied, including me. But isn’t there a line somewhere ? I mean do you really support those masters who flood X with hatred and messages that can hurt younger faggots and convince them that we don’t need rights, we’re failures, we should be ashamed àd we must become lgbtraitors ? I know he’s had an impact on me, him and others : it has become difficult for me not to feed on all that, and very often I even ask grok to give me my dose of homophobia. Which is crazy right ?

In a nutshell, my questions to you are : do you approve masters like him ? After having talked to him do you believe it’s an act design to turn on insecure fags or do you feel he actually is truly homophobic ?

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Thanks for the follow-up!

Here’s one of the very first things I wrote to Master V (@damnbros51) was this:

“Sir, you are so close to valuable Hierarchical truth with your videos. I wish you weren’t focused on humiliation fetish so much. You could be so much more valuable in the scene.”

Just from that one comment, you should understand my position on this subject. A lot of the fag hate speech, homophobia, and humiliation featured by Master V and other findoms is performative rather than true. Even so, I think such positions are harmful and unnecessary.

But I don’t fight these messaging battles publicly. Instead, I get into their DMs and reason with them. I don’t view these findom Alphas as fetish masturbation material like your typical faggot, nor do I approach them like one. I’m not their equal, of course, but I’m not stupid, either. They look at me for what I am: a self-respecting faggot who teaches hierarchical truth. So they respond in kind.

I approach many findom Alphas in the scene, but very few go much deeper than casual pleasantries. Why? Because I determine they have more to them inside than what is displayed outwardly on their public profile.

Master V is absolutely one of those deeper and more thoughtful Alphas. When I spoke to him at length, I learned that he not only owns his faggot cousin, but he also has deep care and concern for his faggot. Master V is also an Alpha I can reason with and help because he has a nimble, engaged intelligence. For example, I was able to reason with him about some of his racist views, and I think we came to a better understanding.

When you ask if I approve of his message, well let me ask you: how much of his content do you see on this site? I have almost nothing of his stuff here, and that’s for a reason.

As far as your last question, you must keep in mind that Master V’s faggot makes all of that content. Now, Master V might approve of that content, but it’s produced by his fag, so … once again, we must look deeper than the surface. It’s much murkier down there, and not black and white!

I’m quite fond of Master V. We have talked about doing something (podcast interview, post profile, etc.) so we can get into greater detail. I’m cautious about how I teach faggots because I want them to have beneficial information, so we’ll see that form that takes. Be assured I finger will always be on the button.

I hope this answers your question more completely!

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Hi there Sam !

I just finished your insights on foot worship. Highly agree on everything you say of course. I was wondering about your opinion on MasterV. I’ve sent to him a few times. I have to admit his homophobia is quite a turn on to me. I’ve even bought one of his fag lessons. But it seemed to me that you don’t really engage in this kind of humiliation. Can you tell us more on this please ? Thanks !

Thank you for writing!

Yes, thank you for the feedback! I love talking about Alpha feet, just like every other faggot in the world! They’re amazing!

I had a truly remarkable DM conversation with Master V (@damnbros51), and he really shared a lot more with me than I initially expected. I figured he was just some guy posting pretty hot content on a nondescript findom account, but he turned out to be much deeper and more thoughtful than I expected. I honestly don’t recommend findom accounts often, but I think faggots should engage with him more and serve him like you’ve done!

As for “this kind of humiliation”, I’m not exactly sure what you mean. I certainly enjoy some measure of humiliation, particularly when it involves things that are true (like being a faggot). I don’t like humiliation for the sake of humiliation, or a pretense of humiliation simply to get money from a fag. I’m just not a stupid or insecure faggot who falls for nonsense.

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Hi sam–do you have any unconventional service ideas for a straight alpha? The usual massages + financial and domestic work are feeling a bit stale. I want to do something that will wow him and make him think: “Damn, that’s my faggot!”

Thank you so much for the interesting question!

I hope you’re having success with those other methods, because they do work! But I get it … there’s only so many times you can rub a straight Alpha’s feet before he wonders why he has you around.

Depending on the situation, you could pay for a wonderful date night for an Alpha and his girlfriend/wife, offer to chauffeur them to and from the event, and perhaps do other things (like flowers, etc.) to make it extra special. Alternatively, if you can cook, you could make an extravagant meal for them and serve it to them, then clean up afterward. If you’re an in-house faggot, you could also serve them breakfast in bed. Why am I suggesting these things? Because honoring a straight Alpha’s romantic relationship and making him look good in her eyes increases the value of the faggot doing it!

Another thing straight Alphas love are their cars. I used to surprise my Master Aaron with deluxe detailing or I’d buy him new rims or whatever, especially if he had some big event. You can try that. It worked for me.

Gift giving in general is always good, but especially when it’s tailored to a particular interest. One of my Alphas loved Michael Jordan shoes, so I’d surprise him with a latest pair that I knew he wanted. Things like that show a straight Alpha that he’s important enough to especially cater to.

I also took classes on massage and pedicures, so I was able to increase my value for straight Alphas as well. This is extra training I took on so that I might be able to offer that at any time.

Hope that helps!

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My Alpha has requested for me to build myself a shrine of Him in my room and I’m not sure how to, what would be the best advice for building it just pictures? Or is there anything special I can do to show my devotion to Him with this shrine?

Thank you for writing!

First of all, I doubt he “requested” it … more like commanded it.

A shrine dedicated to an Alpha would of course have pictures, maybe personal effects if they’re available, etc. It might also include a mantra or a poem or some other writing/drawning dedicated to him. A shrine should be something from the heart that encompasses the feelings of worship the faggot has for its Owner.

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Hey Sam — have you had any contact with Alpha Dally?  he’s on twitter as : @alpha_dal   Only 18 and looks/seems incredible. Any info about him?

I haven’t had much conversation with him. He doesn’t seem very talkative, which isn’t surprising for a young straight Alpha who’s likely unaccustomed to so much faggot attention. I’d like to be able to publish something about him, because he is quite spectacular to look at!

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It seems like we are missing out exploring the other categories. Especially Beta alpha and Beta sub. Is the pyramid still valid or has it become basically only 2 categories; Alpha and fag?

What makes a beta alpha lower than regular alphas?
What distinguishes a beta sub from a fag?

Thanks.

Thanks for the question!

I have written about betas on this site. I don’t generally write about them outside of this Questions channel because they’re pretty generic and boring. I mean, what would I need to discuss about males who are the human equivalent of a shrug?

By the way, it’s “beta-dom” not “beta-Alpha”. Beta-doms are generally straight or gay betas who are not Alpha enough to rise to be classed as “pre-Alpha”, but are not submissive.

Beta-sub males are mainly straight males who are pushed around by and submissive to women (and of course Men). We all know the type, hunched-over pussies who can’t stand up their wives.

They are not faggots because they are not slaves that serve Men.

Hope that clears it up some.

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Hey, this is my first time writing to you, but I have been reading your site for a while. I am 42 and I own 3 very profitable companies. I live in a big house, travel abroad multiple time a year, etc. I can’t complain about the little empire I built to myself. I have a personal driver who became a good friend. He is 42 as well and he has been working for me since we were 35. He knows I am single and he knows I am bisexual, and even though we have never talked about hierarchy, it’s not difficult to notice that I am an Alpha. He has picked me up several times in nightclubs with hot girls and hot twinks going home with me. He has been married for almost 20 years in a very traditional and conservative lifestyle. He goes to the church with his wife every week, etc. However, after his son turned 21 in January, he started with very weird jokes. We are very close to each other and he has liberty to make dirty jokes with me, but he started saying things like “my son looks a lot like the guys you pick up at nightclubs” and “it won’t surprise me if one day he wakes up here after one of your parties”. I’m not gonna lie, his son is a hot twink with a bubble butt and I’d fuck and breed him without a second thought. But isn’t it weird that his own father is throwing him to the wolves like that? He’s teasing me with fresh meat and I will feast in this banquet soon.

My best friend thinks that my chauffer just wants to give it a try and see if I’ll end up marrying his son, making his whole family rich as well. But I think he knows me well enough to understand that I would never lose one penny for one more twink after the hundreds of fags who have already lost their virgin holes in my cock. Maybe he just wants his son to have a good time and, if he is good enough, I might give him a raise. I don’t know, I’m trying to understand what is in his mind, but his fag son must have a really nice hole if he really wants a raise.

I’d love to hear your thought about that, faggot.

Sir, thank you very much for writing to me!

What a wild situation, Sir! I agree with you that it’s only a matter of time before you mount and breed your friend’s faggot son, especially since the father is playing the bizarro role of his faggot son’s wingman! I think it’s fair to say the father is open to you taking his son, Sir.

But I want to touch on something else. I think the father (and your friend) is secretly craving you as well. The reason why I say this is because I had a similar situation happen in which the Alpha was fucking a younger faggot and then he also claimed the faggot’s closeted father. The father was submitted because he walked in on his son being fucked by the Alpha and his reaction to it reminds me a lot of your friend’s attitude.

For whatever reason, conservative, religious males often turn out to be closet fags (or are at least curious). I wouldn’t be surprised at all if your claiming of his son causes your friend to submit to you as well if you pushed him.

I realize it might seem impossible, Sir, but really isn’t if you study hierarchical mechanics. There are invisible hierarchical forces at work on every male all the time. When we subconsciously recognize certain universally-recognized hierarchical triggers, we all react in the same fashion. One of those triggers involves the sight of an Alpha taking what he wants from an inferior. We never fight it, because we all recognize it is the Alpha’s right to take it.

I think your friend recognizes that it’s your right to take his faggot son, Sir. But deep down, I’d bet anything your friend also recognizes it’s your right to take HIM, too.

All that’s left to decide is whether or not you want them, Sir!

Thank you so much for writing, Sir! Contact me anytime!

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hey sam!

i had a question about friendship, i saw one time that you said you have straight Male friends who know that youre a faggot, and i’m curious how They feel about it. Is it a topic you talk about with Them, does it go unspoken? And do you have any advice on how a faggot can find straight friends?

Thank you for the great question!

Anybody who has listened to the Hierarchy Podcast and heard me speak knows how I am about being a faggot. I’m neither shy nor ashamed of the fact that I’m a faggot. In fact, I’m proud of it. Because of my faghood, I understand the true meaning of Alphahood and have the undeniable privilege of serving our greatest of Men!

Virtually all of my straight friends know of my faggot status. Most of them find it amusing (they especially love the fact that they can use the word “faggot” around me because they love the word and think it’s hilarious (I agree!). Some of them have asked me pointed questions about why I consider myself to be a faggot, which of course leads into a reasoned discussion of hierarchy. After that, they seem to understand and accept what I am.

I realize I’m the exception, though. I’m a pretty fearless communicator and I have a sharp-enough wit to handle myself. I understand that most people can’t go that far with it.

But I look at it this way: my pride and fearlessness has put me into a mentor faggot role, and I’m leading a movement to strengthen my fellow faggots. I want to be strong for my brothers and help them become strong, too!

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Do you know if @AlphaGodAtlas is actually straight? I seem to remember he got exposed for having a boyfriend a while back (who was also a findom master). So many liars in the findom space. Makes it impossible to trust anyone.

I honestly have no idea. I’m not much of a fan of him; something about his attitude rubs me wrong. I would take the claims of a cashmaster being straight with several grains of salt.

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I have been serving an extraordinary Jamaican Alpha for 4 months now. I can barely fit the tip of his cock in my mouth, but I use both hands and my tongue to make him cum and he calls me a good boy. Last night after he came in my mouth he said that he wants to fuck and breed me. I am 19 and I’m a virgin. I don’t know what to, brother.

I playfully asked him if he would hurt me, but he just said “I will, but it’s inevitable” with a straight face. He is a nice guy, but his cock is enormous, huge, gigantic, and he is very honest when he says that it’ll hurt.

I am about to turn 20 and I feel ready to lose my virginity. But I wonder if I should look for a smaller dick to be my first. What would you do, brother?

Thank you for the question!

Congratulations on the new Alpha! He seems to fit the stereotype of Jamaican Alphas I’ve heard about in the past! I love that he’s straightforward and honest about the size of his cock and what it will do to a faggot pussy. I’m sure he’s fucked plenty of faggots (and probably females) and already knows what his cock does to people.

It sounds like this Alpha is pretty interested in you, so maybe he might be willing to help you train for taking his dick. Respectfully ask him if he will help you prepare.

I’ve recommended two particular methods of anal stretching:

1. DILATORS – These medical devices are plastic cones of gradually-increasing sizes that help to open up and loosen the anus. I’ve written about them HERE.

2. THE CHOPSTICK METHOD – Famous chastity cage faggot CagedJock invented the method of stretching by using plastic chopsticks and inserting one at a time into the anus until it is slowly stretched open. You can see a video about this method HERE.

You can, of course, use a series of dildos to prepare yourself as well.

Just try these methods, then relax, use tons of lube, and enjoy fulfilling your purpose!

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I got into this space a while ago around a year or so and have been trying to serve alphas somehow monetarily and I’ve always gone for the straight muscular jock alphas to serve because they deserve it. However recently I met an Asian gay guy my age online who’s more on the skinnier side but still has a good physique like abs and have felt conflicted. Since meeting him all I can think about now is serving him rather than the straight alphas I used to online. I’m not sure how to feel since it’s so different and strange that I want to serve someone who seems weaker in terms of being skinnier and shorter than me. How do you suggest navigating this and is it possible to serve someone who isn’t like the complete masculine jock.

Thank you for writing!

First of all, I think it’s a mistake to consider a shorter, skinnier Alpha to be less Alpha or less of a Man. Alphahood is an INNER quality that a Man possesses. It has little to do with outward appearances.

Clearly, you’re responding to something within him. Why not just stop questioning that and explore it? You might discover something below the surface that will answer your question of why you’re obsessed with serving him.

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Hello Sam, I hope you are doing well.

I’m reaching out because I’m trying to better understand my situation.

I was in a relationship with my ex-partner who, while sometimes gentle, was also emotionally and physically abusive. We never had a Dom/Sub relationship, he was just mainly interested in anal sex, and barely kisses and hugs. After we broke up, I had to continue living in his apartment for about a year, sleeping in a separate room. During that time, he often treated me in a degrading way, expecting me to clean after him, leaving messes for me (dirty plates on table etc), and generally acting as if I didn’t matter.

A few months later, he started a relationship with his long-time female friend, and I was still living there when this happened. I could hear them having sex sometimes, and although it made me feel humiliated and hurt, I later found myself thinking about those moments during masturbation. They also excluded me socially and barely acknowledged my presence in the apartment.

On a side note: He was never in a relationship with a female before and I still see him watching gay porn while taking a bath.

What confused me the most was that when I finally decided that I wanted to leave, he asked me not to go, which created a lot of emotional contradiction for me. His exact words were “No, please don’t go”.

Recently, I’ve noticed that I feel drawn to Dom/Sub and Alpha/F*ggot dynamics in a sexual context, and I’m wondering if these desires are somehow linked to what I experienced during that period of my life.

My question is: Should I keep living with him and just empty my life? Or is it better to find a healthier Alpha/Sub relationship?

Thank you in advance for your guidance.

Thank you for writing!

Over the years of writing this site I’ve noticed a common theme among people who do not fully understand/accept their natural hierarchical roles: BAD RELATIONSHIPS. When we don’t understand hierarchical dynamics, we fall clumsily into natural roles, but we are not equipped to handle them because we don’t understand or accept them fully. I think that’s what happened to you AND this ex-boyfriend (?).

I’m pretty sure you’re a faggot, but it’s hard to tell at this point because your actions are murky and unfocused. I’m not sure if this ex is Alpha or just a jerk, but he’s doing some things an Alpha might do with a faggot.

Again, it’s murky because you both wander around in roles like blind guys in a funhouse. Neither of you have fully embraced a purpose, so you’re clashing because you have no idea what goes where. Imagine trying to plug something into a socket with your eyes closed. You might get it close, but it’s virtually impossible to make a connection until you open your eyes.

That’s what I honestly suggest: you both need to open your eyes. There are plenty of resources on this site to study and consider. I have a book called “Are You A Faggot?” (link in the BOOK STORE page) that helps fags determine if they’re actually a faggot. There’s also a book there for Masters who own faggots.

I do think there’s a fundamental lack of knowledge or appreciation of hierarchical truth happening here. Not sure if it’ll fix everything between you, but it’ll help each of you individually.

In the meantime, yes, I think you need to move out. What’s happening is borderline ridiculous, and you should’ve been done with it a long time ago.

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brother sam, why are we teased on the Podcast Videos page to check out interviews of amazing Alphas only to be told, “Page not found?”

Well, that page should’ve been deleted. I originally made that page to link to a paid feature on gumroad, but gumroad cancelled my account, so … the videos are on my free YouTube page located here: https://www.youtube.com/@Hierarchy_University

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Hello Sam,

Im a long time lurker of the site and a big fan of your work. I’ve met an Alpha at my place of work. We met at an after work function and we actually hit it off pretty quickly. I can say he pegged me as a fag as soon as we started talking, and it’s quite obvious that he’s an alpha. He’s older than me in his mid 40s (I’m in my late 20s) and he’s the head of his department at our job, so pretty high in the office ladder. We don’t work in the same department, but do have to interact from time to time.

He is amazing. Very considerate and sweet, but also a beast in bed, and he fucks me up to four-five times every time we see each other, which is more and more often lately. He asked me out for coffee after the function we first met at, and quickly hit it off. He’s tall and muscular, very in shape, hairy, and he has this rough kind of lumberjack vibe to him, like full of testosterone.

I told a friend I had met someone at work and he’s told me it was actually highly inappropriate, especially on his part. He says it’s a power dynamic, that he could’ve manipulate me or screw me over, that HR would never let this fly etc.

I don’t really see the problem. We are both consenting adults and are aware of the situation. Nothing ever happened at work except one time when he pushed his crotch against my ass passing by me in a tight corridor.

What do you think? Is this inappropriate? Should I break it off? I really appreciate this alpha and enjoy serving him a lot, but I’m confused right now.

PS. sorry for the possible mistakes, English is my third language!

Thank you so much for the question! And don’t worry … your English was perfect!

Congratulations on finding an Alpha to serve from work! It sounds really hot, and this Alpha seems to know exactly what he’s doing with you! You’re probably in good hands!

Ugh … just ignore that friend. How many times have people come to me for advice after a friend gave them the wrong advice?? I wish I had a dollar for every time! Your friend is wrong – what you both do in your personal lives has nothing to do with your at-work lives. It’s not your employer’s business. Just keep it to yourselves, and there should be no issue.

Tell your friend to get a life. LOL

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Hey, how’s it going?

I am Henry, 20 yo, and i am going through something and what’s better than asking advice online, am i right? Firstly i want to apologize for typos in advance, english isn’t my first language.

It has been a few months since i started at the gym and figured out i am just a weak boy desperate for some male muscular attention, i have to control myself so hard when i am working out because those beefy men make me so fucking weak. I have no sexual experience, actually not even social skills at all, so i find very hard to interact with men in real life, and we can say where i live it’s not a very homosexual friendly place.

All of that lead me to try to find someone interesting in the internet. Going through some forums i actually met a very interesting guy in a masculinity topics. Our initial conversation were about gym and other typical manly stuff, i love letting men talk about that it. But pretty quickly our conversation turned into him actually showing off to me and boy… i dream about those muscles every day and night. I said to him how i had the desire of a homoerotic friendship with a straight man and he actually liked the idea and started talking freely about sexual topics and showing off to me, and always asked if his body made me horny. It did, it really did. Not only his body was amazing but i loved how he guided the conversations, how he were such an alpha in the way he chatted and i loved raising his ego. It was so good being in that place that nothing else would make me sexually excited. Soon he started been even more incisive (is that the right word?) and began to be a real alpha, he said things like “i am sure i am all you ever wanted to be”, said he knew he would have control over me easily and played saying i should get on my knees, that gave me actual chills even though it was just a text. 

Things got even more intense when he started sending pictures specifically based in what i said were some of my interests (armpit, flexing after workout, …) and asked if i jerk off thinking about his body. I didn’t confess to him at first because i thought it was a bit weird, but after some time he really insisted and sent me so many hot pictures that i couldn’t resist and i did it and confessed to him. He said it made him feel very good and even more comfortable to talk to me and i also felt very good of being in that position.

But ever since, we barely talked anymore. We talked about some other stuff but sexual topics were never brought back again. It has been almost a month and i am feeling so sad about that, i really need his attention and it’s killing me not being put in my place once again. I hate feeling like i might have done something wrong and i know that sometimes people just change their interests, but i had to come here and ask for some advice, i can’t stop thinking about that.

Thank you for the question!

I understand your frustration, brother. However, your situation is a perfect example of why I discourage online flirting and Alpha-seeking. You must understand that straight Alphas love the attention of faggots because they love attention in general. However, to them it’s just a game. They get so much attention that their lives are just merry-go-rounds of worship and adulation.

It’s all meaningless to them, even though it meant everything to you.

You simply cannot invest much into any online foolishness, because almost all of it is smoke and mirrors. This is another reason why I’m so skeptical and critical of online findom. It’s just not REAL.

You’re much better off talking to Alphas at your gym or in other parts of your life. As you do, you’ll gain more confidence and knowledge how to speak to these superior Men face-to-face. It’ll be a much better pursuit, I promise.

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Hey sam, i had a question for you about Alpha Personalities and Body Types, i know typically in an Alpha we see Confident, Cocky, Typically Masculine, personality types, and Large, Muscular, Dominating, body types. So my question to you is, do you think Alphas can come with different personalities and shapes and sizes? Short Alphas, Thin non-muscular Alphas, Chubby Alphas, or even an Alpha with a feminine personality?

sincerely,
faggot haven <3

Thank you for the question, brother!

I’ve written about this a few times in the past, so I guess it would be good to reiterate this point. Alphas have stereotypes just like every classification within hierarchy, but stereotypes are often misleading. Alphas absolutely come in all different shapes and sizes. They don’t all have gigantic dicks. They aren’t all tall and not all muscular. There are twink Alphas. And yes, there are even fem Alphas (although not many).

For example, cashmaster @ServeElRey on X is definitely a twink Alpha with very feminine mannerisms (also a giant dick). Looking at him, you’d never immediately think “ALPHA”. But he has dominated males of all ages for something like 15 years now, made a fortune, and is a strict top who is served online and real life.

So yes, they come in all shapes and sizes!

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Hey Sam, this is Jacob again. I talked to you a week ago and asked about my 19-year-old boyfriend. I followed your advise and established some new rules in my relationship. I was not aggressive at all, but I was firm and straightforward in a way that I had never been in 20 years with my wife. My wife was my equal partner and we built a life together, but now I understand what you meant when you said that my fag bf is not a male version of my wife, he is a fag. It took me a while to understand the sort of treatment he needed although he has always been very submissive. So I held his arms and said “if you wanna be a slut and go around getting fucked and bred for multiple cocks, go ahead and leave my house. But if you wanna stay with me, I will not accept you disrespecting me in my house ever again. This is my house and you are mine.”

It was the first time in my whole life that I talked to someone like that. For a second, I thought he would get mad or cry because I was very firm and did not let him answer back. For my surprise, he just looked to my feet and said “you’re right.” Then I established some new rules. Now he calls me Sir or Daddy at all times and I gave him chores. I told him that if he is busy cooking and cleaning for me he will have less time to be a slut and think about other men’s cocks. Yesterday I fucked him hard and bred him, then I told him that I’d fuck him twice a week because unlike him I have more to do in my life than just fucking and I’m not here to satisfy his slutty needs. Then I said that if he keeps begging for random cock everyday he will have a gaping worn out pussy before he turns 21.

So far it’s been a  great approach. I wanted to thank you for opening my eyes. I love him and I want to be with him, but he is not my wife and he has very different needs. From now on, I will embrace the life of an Alpha King that I deserve.

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

I’m so grateful to Master Jacob for following up with this story! It’s so important for faggots out there to understand that their Alpha boyfriends/Masters are not equal partners or Men who will tolerate disrespect or disobedience!

Faggots often need a certain level of aggression, firmness, and discipline in order to maintain their proper place and develop an inner peace and pleasure from their service. It’s as important as pounding them and breeding them. Faggots respond to a Man’s power more than anything else.

Master Jacob is discovering that owning a faggot boyfriend is radically different from having a wife! A wife considers herself an equal partner with her husband (despite not being equal at all). A wife expects to be loved and wooed and treated as special before she gives her husband what he wants. These kinds of expectations choke an Alpha, because an Alpha knows what he really wants and needs.

WORSHIP and SERVICE.

These wives unknowingly drive their Alpha husbands to seek that worship from faggots, because faggots appreciate the one thing that not even slutty girls understand: that Alphas are the KINGS OF OUR WORLD!

That’s why it was so important for Master Jacob to fully embrace his place and force his young, likely untrained faggot to embrace its place at his feet! I’m so glad he did!

Master Jacob, I’m so glad you did this and provided an account of your triumph! Please keep in touch, Master!

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Hello, my name is Max and I would like to respectfully ask for your help. I am 22 years old, my little brother Joseph is 19. I am straight as an arrow and have no curiosity or interest for trying anything with a male, but Joseph has always been very gay and flamboyant. When we were in high school I tried to “convert” him while he would cry almost every night trying to “pray the gay away.” I went to college, I made friends with gay guys, I even dated a bisexuality girl, and I am not that stupid anymore. I would do anything to see him happy. He has always been very obedient and submissive, a gay friend from college keeps telling me my brother needs a dominant Man and he told me about your work here and on Twitter.

So I guess my question is: what is the best way for me to support my little brother and make sure he won’t get hurt? I heard scary things about grindr and gay apps and I really want to keep Joseph say. He is still a virgin and he has always looked up to me, even when I wrongly insisted that he should try with a girl, and I am not proud of that. Our parents and friends from church are really conservative, so things are not easy at all. But again, I would do anything to see my little brother happy.

We binge watched Heartstopper and Heated Rivalry and he cried on every single episode. In fact, when he sees any form of gay representation he starts crying. I often buy him gay novels and comics, I took him to pride events without my parents knowing, and bought him books about queer history. I really want him to understand that he’s not alone. But as I said before, this friend of mine insists that Joseph needs something that I can’t not give him and it goes beyond sex, he needs a “dominant man”, whatever this means.

I know nothing about the gay world, but I understand that pride flags and gay books are not enough for him to have a happy life. I would really appreciate if you could share some thoughts about this issue. My apologies if this message is too long or inappropriate for the nature of your work, which I believe focuses more on erotic accounts. I just don’t know who I should talk to and my only gay friend told me you could help.

Thank you,

Max.

Sir, thank you SO MUCH for this incredible question!

First of all, I want to commend you with all of my heart for the way you are lovingly caring for your brother! It’s powerful to hear your own personal story of growth in understanding despite your conservative upbringing. No doubt the influence of your effeminate brother had something to do with that!

Sir, I’m not sure if you consider yourself to be Alpha, but there is a term I use for Men like you: Protector Alpha. These are superior Men who take it upon themselves to safeguard the vulnerable, damaged, and weak ones among us. They’re real-life superheroes, and they are incredibly important in our world!

Surely you understand that males are not created equally. You can simply look around at the males you know and see that some get all of the attention, have the most charisma, are more appealing physically or more athletic, smarter, etc. Every sports team, military unit, and government is arranged according to a fundamental power-based structure known as Hierarchy. Superior Men (Alphas)

From everything you’ve told me, I’m pretty sure your little brother is a faggot. I know that sounds derogatory, but I assure you it’s not meant that way. Faggots like me and your brother are born to serve superior Men. We are also important in society, because through our service Men are kept satisfied and empowered through our worship.

Your gay friend is right: your brother needs a Master. He needs a Man who will train him and use him properly and care for him. When a faggot is owned, there is a deep peace that comes from that arrangement, because the faggot gains purpose. Right now your brother cries because he feels alone and useless and unsure of what to do. A Master would clarify that for him.

He needs to find one, and hopefully one close to his age so they could grow together in their purpose. I’m bummed that he didn’t find an Alpha in high school (where there are a lot of Alphas) and I’m guessing he’s not in college (where there are also a lot of Alphas). There are apps like Grindr to find dating, and sites like TheBlowers.com to find service to dominant Alphas. I would think your gay friend should be able to also help your brother find a gay Alpha.

I honestly suggest that you point your brother to this site as well, Sir. This isn’t a site full of erotica. It’s a site that teaches hierarchical truth and purpose. He will learn a lot here. He can also join my free Discord group (link on the LINKS page) to communicate with me and other faggots and Alphas for advice.

Sir, I truly admire what you’re doing for your brother! I’m deeply moved by the depth of love and compassion you’ve shown here! Please feel free to contact me if you have further questions, or just need to chat about things. My email address is hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com.

THANK YOU, SIR!

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