Hi Sam, im a british guy. I absolutely loved the back to nature video. My boyfriend and I love being out in nature and every time we were deep in the woods I was guaranteed that he would get all primal and end up fucking me. Nature really does do something to us and its all good. I’m not going to say im a fag because I’m not we just two guys who love nature and one of us gets so turned on its crazy. Thanks for your amazing work and the videos my friend.

Brother, thanks for writing! I agree with you completely! I’m glad you enjoyed it! 

Hey brother Sam, i wanted to know your opinion, or what research has shown you, about the power of cum. i have been sucking cocks and swallowing cum for 20 years and i find that the longer i have been doing it the more addicted to cum i have become. i find myself thinking and dreaming about sucking cock and swallowing cum to the point that all my little faggot mind does is dwell on the thought of bringing an Alpha man to climax and swallowing his load. Are the chemical properties of cum that powerful? i am worried that i am getting to the point that i cannot think of anything else. is that a bad thing? i know that there are a lot of Alpha men out there who are glad that this is the case. Maybe that is who i was meant to be and what i was meant to do. i’d appreciate your response to this addiction of mine.

Thanks for writing brother! 

Yes, cum is definitely that powerful on both physiological and psychological levels. Cum contains seven mood-altering substances including serotonin and tryptophan (the stuff in turkey that makes us sleep after eating it). It’s even more potent when we are bred with it, because it directly enters the bloodstream through the colon walls! 

But then there is the psychological effect of having a Man ejaculate down our throats and we swallow his essence. There is really nothing like it, and that can be quite addicting as well.  

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What’s the real pecking order of superiority—White, Black, or Asian—and am I, an Asian dom, secretly at the bottom?

Alright, I’m a dominant Asian dude—built like a tank, cocky as hell, and I’ve always thrived on pinning guys down and making them worship me. I’ve got this alpha energy, and I love the power trip. But your posts keep throwing me off, man. You’re always hyping up massive black cocks—thick, veiny monsters that could split anyone open—and it’s got me questioning everything. I always figured white guys were the top dogs: chiseled jaws, towering frames, and those big, perfect dicks that scream superiority. I mean, I’ve been drooling over them myself, fantasizing about their rugged hands forcing me down, degrading me with that smug, entitled grin, calling me a pathetic little Asian bitch while they ram me with their huge white cocks. But if white dudes are into black cock—craving that raw, primal power—where does that leave me? I’m over here, a so-called dom, getting hard thinking about white men owning me, humiliating my smaller Asian dick, laughing at how it doesn’t even compare. Does that make Asians the lowest? The ultimate inferiors? I’m conflicted—part of me wants to keep dominating, but the other part wants to kneel and take it, drooling over white superiority while secretly wondering if black reigns supreme. What’s the hottest, most fucked-up racial hierarchy here, and how do I deal with this as a dom who might just be a submissive fag deep down?

1. What’s the most superior race?

   – White

   – Black

   – Asian

Sir, I’m sorry if I’m rattling your confidence! You have no reason to feel that way.

Look, I feel like I have a pretty balanced understanding of Hierarchy, but I’m still a faggot and a human. I have served a lot of black Alphas and I’m attracted to them. But in my mind there is no difference between Alphas based on race or even dick size. You should take the same mentality, Sir. 

I don’t want to rank them as you requested. I respect Alphas of all sorts, and I don’t want to hurt anyone. 

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I find it funny how people both reproach you for reporting the story of a 15-year-old teenager AND ask you to demand that his anonymity be withdrawn! Lucas’s words are imbued with the freshness and assurance of a confident, mature young man, but nothing over the top. What an idea to think of a very elaborate but useless plot!

Thank you. I completely agree with you, of course. I have an incredible track record when it comes to this work, yet there’ll always be naysayers. It’s a symptom of internet culture and the conspiratorial crap that causes everybody to think they’re amateur sleuths who can figure out the REAL truth. I promise there’s no conspiracy between me and Hillary Clinton’s pizza parlor and aliens from outer space. It was just a concerned mother seeking answers. 

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I think I’m a fagot. I’m a hot 39 year old who came out three years ago. I’m pretty hot though and look a lot younger and gum a lot. I Was a dominant top at the start but then after getting fucked realised the dominance was what I was wanting to feel and not give. I’m pretty masc presenting and I love big cocks, they make me wanna worship them and I feel really submissive. Just some background on me hehe.

Ive been following you since I came out, but only just found out you have this website. It hits the spot for me- I’m so turned on by the idea of being a man’s fagot.

Unfortunately I live in a city of bottoms haha. I’ve been able to reach out to guys in other states though and am considering moving. (I live in Australia).

Is it normal that the idea of finding a guy who doesn’t want to touch my cock at all and is obsessed with my boy pussy , is what I want. I’m also driven crazy by body odour (sweaty pits) etc and groin and cock smell. Gott a have fresh breath and clean bum though haha. I even get turned on by the idea of my future alpha waking up in the middle of the night , can’t be fucked getting out of bed and walking to the bathroom, so he wakes me up, pushes my head under the covers to his crotch, uses his fingers to open my mouth, flops his big soft cock in it, and releases down my throat. I’d love to do that for him. Save him getting up and I get to swallow part of him as he pisses in me.

But what other stuff should I focus on. I read briefly about washing cooking and cleaning . I suck so much at cooking though and I love my full time job so am worried this part will be a struggle

Well you definitely sound like a newly-outed faggot! And no, it’s not crazy to want to find an Alpha who won’t touch your cock – it’s normal. Your idea of moving out of Australia in order to find a service opportunity is exciting! Work hard to improve your domestic skills and prepare yourself for your coming future as a Man’s valuable faggot!

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Hi Sam,

My name is John. My friends call me Johnny (and you can, too ). I’m a huge fan of your work. I’ve been following your work for probably about 6 years now, and it’s been very eye opening. I’ve been feeling conflicted lately and finally decided to get in contact with you. I apologize in advance for the novel ahead of you.

For some context, ever since I was a young boy, I’ve always had feelings for other boys/men. As I got older (around 12/13), I started to feel attraction towards the other boys around me. I was constantly trying to sneak peaks at their crotches in class and the hallways and at the other boys changing while in the locker room without understanding why. As I got older, I only seemed to get hornier.

I would regularly spend hours in my bedroom jerking off multiple times a day to gay porn and just thinking of boys at my school. I had always been a very shy kid, and so I never dared act on my feelings or urges growing up. It wasn’t until I went off to college that I started experimenting more with my sexuality now with my newfound independence (still only in privacy of my own company). When I was 18, I bought my first fleshlight. And, although it always felt good the few times I stuck my penis into it and used it, I never felt a desire to use it much. The thought of some other, more endowed guy using always turned me on more.

I’ve always been very turned on by porn involving anal sex and sucking cock, even from a very young age. I remember in my early teen years finding phallic objects around the house to insert into my anus when my parents weren’t around. It felt odd but weirdly satisfying. It hurt but, for some reason, I just couldn’t stop myself.

Growing up, my dad had a running buddy he’d train with for marathons and he would regularly invite him over to go running. Looking back at it, I had a huge crush on my dad’s running buddy. I even got lucky once by catching him pissing in the woods with his cock out. Fuck, he was hot.  There was one day he came over to my house after going for a run, and my dad let him change out of his sweaty workout gear in our guest room. When he left the room, I remember sneaking into the guest room and I found the pile of his sweaty running clothes. I walked up to it, sorted through it and found his sweaty compression underwear.

The aroma of this man put me in a daze. I remember putting his underwear up to my face, shoving my nose deep into the crotch and butt area, and I took deep inhales. I think I even profusely licked the inside of the groin area to see what he tasted like. I was 15/16 at the time. Although a part of me felt a strong urge to take the underwear, I decided against it to avoid my dad’s friend from wondering where his underwear may have gone. As I went further into puberty, these sexual urges only got stronger and more perverse.

When I was 19, I stumbled upon male chastity cages online. They deeply intrigued me to my core. I began becoming very interested in sub-dom relationships and the concept of “faggotry” and the new concept of “male hierarchy.” That’s when I happened across your content and podcast.

I bought my first chastity cage around that time at 19. It was a very cheap one and didn’t work well. I used it once or twice in private, but was disappointed with how it worked. As I got into my very early twenties, I decided to experiment again with different kinds of chastity devices. I learned about myself that I liked a chastity cage that would completely cover my entire penis as to prevent any outside stimulation (except for a pee hole, of course). I then began buying numbing creams and lubing up the inside of the cage to keep my penis numb for hours.

As time went on, I began to have “masturbation sessions” by locking my penis more and more often and only using a dildo on myself for hours at a time. Admittedly, there were some days when I would use a dildo on myself (while in chastity) from sunrise to sunset. I came to view myself more and more as a “faggot” but still find it hard to identify as such.

Although I love anal play on myself, I always ended up needing to remove the cage at the end of sessions to finish myself off to get rid of my pent-up horniness. I find it incredibly hard to concentrate on literally anything when I’m locked and horny despite absolutely loving the feeling. I can’t think straight and I feel I act irrationally when really horny and can’t release it. The longest I’ve been locked for is 5 days (even at night). I use a strap to prevent the cage from tugging on my balls. Part of me would love to be a good locked boy 24/7/365, but I don’t see how that would be possible practically with how horny I get when I get no release. I feel it would also make it challenging to perform my job. To clarify, I do (on occasion) go out in public in my cage and I love the feeling.

I’ve never served any so-called “alphas” as I’ve always been too afraid. I’m not super skinny nor am I “ripped” by any means. I have an average body and a decent sized penis when not locked. I’ve been told I’m good looking, but I still lack confidence to do anything with anyone else in the real world. I’ve had sex with one other boy before, but it was never more than “vanilla.”

I’m 24 now when writing this. I apologize for the novel I just wrote. I simply wanted to give you as much background context as concisely as I could manage. Part of me feels a strong urge to know what it feels like to take a cock into my mouth and butt and feel it explode within me. Through all your content and podcasts, I’ve been inspired with your own journey. You seem to have been locked for years with little issue. I guess I don’t know where to go from here or if I should even act on these feelings. Part of me still really enjoys jerking off, but another part of me feels I should lock up and stop stroking like how real Men do. Part of me thinks I shouldn’t deserve to use my penis like a Man would. I don’t know. I feel conflicted.

I know through your podcasts you recommend channeling pent-up horniness through service, but that simply has not been an option for me up until now. Part of me wishes I could lock up, throw away the key, and forgot about cumming, but the more logical side of me knows that I need other outlets to release my horniness. I have an extremely high libido. I don’t know what to do.

Would locking up for long periods negatively affect my penis? Would it shrink or become impotent? Honestly, the thought of that kind of turns me on, but I don’t know. What effects could I expect? Is it even possible to stay locked like that indefinitely? How would I even release my pent-up horniness? How is it even possible to derive sexual satisfaction without cumming through only servitude? These are all questions I ask myself. I’m at a bit of a loss at this point in my life, and I’m unsure of how to proceed. I would greatly appreciate hearing your thoughts on my situation and what I can do to solve these issues.

Thank you for your great content throughout the years, and keep up the good work, Sam!

Your follower,

Johnny

Thank you for your book-length question! 

All of that text can be answered very simply with one sentence: Stop living in a fantasy world inside your head and go serve a real human Man. 

You’re overthinking everything when you’ve experienced nothing. That makes no sense at all. Stop jacking around and experience life! 

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Hi Sam you know im a faggot and i have a crush on lucien. i love alphas and i want to serve them. but i have a question? is it normal for a faggot like me to want to serve women too? be submissive to them? like alphas? im confused Sam. whats wrong with me? But she only contacts me when she wants money. the Goddess is called Alexandra.

Brother, thanks for writing! 

Yes, occasionally faggots have a desire to serve females, too. I think it comes from the gay impulse to worship brash, outrageous, drag queen-like females. I’ve had a few in my life as well. Typically, unless a real friendship develops, it usually fizzles out because the faggot gets tired of worshiping a person he doesn’t have a real sexual attraction to.

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Dear Sam,

I tried a lot of what you said and I made it a whole month without cumming! At the end of said month he unlocked me made me nut as quick as possible then right back up I’ve been since. So we are definitely close to no release for me ever. We also got a cage he thinks that’ll be the best form of punishment for me as I’ve had a hard time staying compliant. Although he’s gotten very good at making me do exactly as he wants. The cage came up also as a way to give him some privacy once he finds other boys he wants me home while he fucks around but out of his way! Turns me on thinking about it honestly. I know there’s better faggots out there than me and I’d never want him to go without he’s a REAL MAN! And he should get whatever ass he wants whenever. I think you were right about him being alpha also. He jumped on the feet worship quick rubbing them all over my face making me kiss and massage him. I didn’t think I’d like it as I never have before but that MAN makes me feral haha I’d do anything for him. Thank you again sam you’ve helped me so much more than you know! Feel free to ask me anything more you’d like to know about us I’d love to tell you haha! I’m @fagboyalex98 on x!

thanks again!

Fag Alex

Brother, I’m so glad to hear that you’ve had a great month experimenting with chastity! I also love to hear that you’ve discovered the wonders of worshiping an Alpha’s feet! You’re officially a faggot now! HAHA

Keep me posted! 

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I’m a 19 year old ,black bottom who is interested in becoming a faggot for a powerful alpha but I have a few questions. Whats the first step in really becoming a fag, and can I only be a fag in the bedroom or it’s a 24/7 thing?

Hi brother! Thanks for writing! 

I’m glad to hear you’re embracing your truth! I know it can be a little scary, but don’t worry. There are plenty of resources under “advice for faggots” at the top of the site. 

But to answer your immediate question: yes you can serve either as simply a sexual-service faggot, or as a full-time faggot. That would something you’d discuss with an Alpha when the time arrives! 

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Hi,

I am unsure how to submit to my master as I currently am.

I love muscular straight alphas. I love watching them pound pussy. I like watching then breed and wishing it was my pussy but I don’t have a vagina. I don’t want my butthole to be used but I wish I could be fucked like a woman by an alpha.

I’m willing to serve straight men by drinking their piss, worshiping their feet, or entertaining them to whatever they desire.

How do I get started? How do you advise? How do I find the right alpha?

Thank for writing in brother.

Frankly, there is no “right Alpha” for you if you have that kind of laundry list of demands and restrictions. Look, you don’t have a pussy. No amount of wishing and whining will change that. You have these things you’ll do – drink piss or worship feet – but those are YOUR interests. What does an Alpha get out of being with you? I mean, besides hang-ups? 

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Hi Sam,

I’d like to update you about my Alpha co-worker, I’m the faggot who works in a steakhouse. First of all I forgot to mention some important things in my previous message, this guy, Gabriel (my Alpha co-worker) he is kinda new in the job, it’s been 6 months that he works here, in the first months he was very motivated and cooperative, but since the beginning of this year he’s acting more and more like the situation I described before he’s jacking around and not doing his job properly. Something else I didn’t say, I’m supervisor and Gabriel is a waiter, what means I’m higher in the restaurant hierarchy, so after the episode I told you in my last message and realising he’s an Alpha and 100% superior than me I started to use my role to give him some privileges (actually it’s only his natural right), everything very subtle because I don’t want to compromise my work. So I’m leaving him has more smoking breaks, I take care of his tables while his outside, I also clean his tables, so he can stay at the bar chatting with the bartenders, and last Sunday I told him to do a smoke break in the end of the night when we start cleaning everything to close, when he came back I asked if he wanted to finish earlier and leave, and he told me “I’m all right, I can stay till the end” after this he barely did something to help and finished with everyone. We earn per hour so I think he just wanted the money and that’s fair enough. It is so rewarding to make an Alpha’s life better, he probably just thinks I’m being nice and at the moment it’s better to keep things like this, me “serving” him secretly, without even himself knowing that.

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Thank you for the additional details. He definitely seems to know he can take advantage of you, brother. You’re doing well submitting in these small ways. Even if nothing develops from this experience with this Alpha, learning the way you can change yourself to submit to Alphas in general for when you have a better opportunity! 

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I’m a straight, married 29 year old alpha, and I recently found your site. Even though I’m straight, I’ve been using gay guys for years since they can take a much more intense and brutal fucking than any of my girlfriends ever could. However, I HATE it when a fag’s little dick gets hard when I’m fucking it. It’s such a turn off. I tried a cock cage once, but didn’t really like seeing that down there either, and also I don’t use my fags very regularly. It’s more just a hookup every now and then. It can be a few days between or even several months, and they know not to contact me in between, so I can’t be managing its chastity.

Any ideas on how to instruct them to keep their dicks soft? Or maybe I need to punish them when they don’t, but I’m worried the little fuckers will enjoy that and only make the problem worse.

Master, thank you for writing to me! It’s always wonderful when I meet powerful straight Alphas like you who understand the upper-echelon of Hierarchical power that faggot ownership unlocks! 

First of all, congratulations on your ownership and use of faggots, Master! I’d love to hear more about that if you ever have the time to write me. All God and Apex Alphas should be celebrated, because through the exercise of your power and dominance you change lives and give fulfillment and purpose to inferiors everywhere! My email is hi*****************@***il.com.

I also want to congratulate you on correctly identifying the problem with disciplining faggots with more violence and pain. You’re absolutely right – most faggots would only get more turned on by that method. It’s a mistake I see so many Alphas make with their faggots. It really shows me that you are an insightful Master. Your faggots are lucky to be owned by you, Master!  

There are really only two solutions to your issue, Master, but you might not like either of them. First and foremost, chastity is going to solve the problem. I don’t know how much you need to monitor that once it’s locked in place. And there are colors available (like pink) that might be more humorous than irritating. 

The reason why I am an advocate of chastity (especially in this instance) is because it blunts the faggot’s ability to masturbate, which then lowers its libido. Ultimately I think that goal is more important to you than whether the faggot wears a chastity cage given your general disinterest in it.

The second method involves focused, intensive training designed to make the faggot despise its penis so much that it becomes disgusted by it. This is something I did to myself, actually, which has resulted in an eight-year stretch of no masturbation or orgasms (and also led me to self-lock four years ago). It’s possible for faggots to do this, too, but most of them don’t view Hierarchy as intensely important as I do. 

But given what you said about not wanting to get too bogged down by your faggots, this second option is probably more headache burden than you really want to handle. 

Master, I do very much thank you for writing to me. I do hope I gave you some help! Please let me know if you need anything else! Thank you!  

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The alpha I’m serving likes for me to cum when serving him. I know that I am a faggot and fags don’t deserve to cum but I do it because he tells me to. He likes how tight my ass is and loves how tight I get when I cum. It’s confusing cumming when I know that I don’t deserve to. Do I keep obeying him? Do I lock myself up? I’m confused because he’s a dominant alpha in every aspect but this. He’ll blindfold me and spank me till my ass is red and I’m crying because of the pain and he uses me hard, both holes. He’s aggressive and dominant and I love that he gets enjoyment and pleasure from my body. I’m just confused because I’m pretty sure I should stop being allowed to cum and that he should take my cock away from me but he says cumming when I’m told is serving him so it doesn’t matter. What should I do?

Thank you for the question! 

Ultimately, our job as a faggot is to obey our Master, right? Who knows why he wants you to cum? I’ve heard Alphas (almost exclusively gay Alphas) say that they like to see their faggots cum because it lets them know the faggot loves pleasing him. Or that they’re such virile fuckers that the faggot cums while being fucked. It seems there is a different explanation for each Alpha.

All I can really say is DO NOT disobey his orders, and DO NOT lock yourself in chastity without his permission. 

I might suggest a viewpoint correction for you. Rather than looking at his demand as you receiving pleasure, look at it as him exerting control over you. You see how that subtle difference changes the dynamic? 

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Hey there I had been scrolling on twitter and found you guys and I’ve just been soo confused. Now I’m 18 and think I wanna serve alpha men how do I go about this? What will my friends and family think? I just need some advice!!

Thank you for your questions, brother! 

First of all, don’t panic. You’re perfectly fine, and everything is going to be okay! 

Being 18 years old gives you a tremendous advantage, because you’re literally surrounded by young horny Alphas at school and work (if you have a job). Every Alpha wants a tight virgin faggot, I guarantee. So look through the Alphas you know, and then start looking for ways to be useful to them. Isolate one that seems like an Alpha you’d really life to serve, and start really trying to submit to him. You can literally just ask him questions about whether he thinks he’s Alpha, and use his response to go into a discussion about Hierarchy. Use the resources on this website to help you – that’s why I created them!

As for your family, that’s not a consideration right now. Work on becoming a faggot first. 

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Hey, I’m an Asian alpha dom—ripped, commanding, and used to dominating guys left and right. I’ve always loved the power, the control, pinning weaker dudes down and making them beg under my strength. But then I stumbled across your post about Asian fags being weak little pussies, getting owned and used by superior white guys, and fuck—it hit me like a freight train. Something deep inside me stirred, a twisted heat I can’t shake. I’ve started fantasizing about it: those chiseled white studs with their huge cocks—way bigger than my modest Asian dick—towering over me, humiliating me, forcing me to my knees. I can’t stop thinking about how hot they are, how their rugged masculinity makes me feel small, inferior, like I’m meant to serve them. I’m confused as hell—I’m supposed to be the alpha, but now I’m jerking off to the idea of being their pathetic Asian bitch, degraded and used. The raceplay shit gets me so hard—imagining them laughing at my tiny cock, calling me a worthless yellow slut while they stretch me out. What the fuck should I do with this? Should I fight it or just give in and let white men own me like the submissive fag I might actually be?

Sir, thank you so much for writing to me! 

Well, this was certainly not what I intended to happen when I wrote that tweet, Sir! If I knew my words had that kind of power, maybe I should tweet about more money! LOL

The path through Hierarchy isn’t always clear-cut and obvious (like in my case). I’ve seen quite a few Doms who have later discovered (usually thanks to a true Alpha) that they really aren’t Dom at all. The most famous instance on this site was the case of Bruno, who originally came to me as a Master and he owned a live-in faggot named Gio. But one night Bruno met a God Alpha named Juan, and he was forced into accepting his true place as a faggot (he’s still owned by Master Juan today). 

I tell you that to assure you that you are far from the first or only Dom facing this. There simply is no way to maneuver around or avoid the truth Hierarchy presents each one of us. We can tell ourselves lies and they might stick for a while, but eventually something will collapse those lies and force us to face reality.

In your case, it was a tweet.

I do think you need to experience submitting to a true Alpha. That’s the only way to be sure about your newfound feelings. I know that’s scary, but I promise you’ll survive. In fact, it’s very possible you’ll not only survive, but THRIVE.

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I am a gay man. I am also a faggot, in that I exist to serve dom men and to be used and abused by them. However I don’t get this serving straight guys. In my experience straight guys will do anything to avoid gay men – it is very bad for their image to be associated with us. All my experiences as a faggot has been with dom gay men (not straight). So isn’t this straight guy using faggots things just a fantasy?

No, brother, it’s not “just a fantasy.” Are you new around here? This entire site started off in 2015 on the premise that straight Man and Alphas owned and used faggots. I myself have been owned multiple times by straight Alphas. I’ve covered countless true stories of straight Alphas discovering the uses of faggots. 

Not a fantasy at all.

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Hi Sam.

So, I have been friends with this guy (lets call him Jake for simplicity) for 10 years now. Jake is very muscular kinda of guy, very manly, very Alpha like. And I like him a lot. But the problem is that I get mixed signals from him. I don’t know if he is straight or gay or bi. So the signals are; he sends me a lot of pictures of himself shirtless, showing of his muscles. I don’t know why would he send me those pictures if he wasn’t interested in me. Then when we are meeting, he always demands that I come to him, never other way around. He lives really far away, like two hours drive on highway. I never openly said to him that I’m gay, but when we are together he always is kinda homophobic, uses word faggot, which in my language sounds even worse than in English. So, I want to serve him but I don’t know what to do, and what he thinks of this? So please help me.

Thank you for the question, brother.

I’m not sure these signals are quite as mixed as you think. He’s clearly Alpha, and probably straight. However, here are a few other things we can say:

1. no straight or gay Alpha I’ve ever heard of sends shirtless pics to their male friends unless they’re interested in using them. 

2. His demands that you drive to him are a power play being used to see how well you obey his wishes. 

3. His use of the word “faggot” (or whatever word that is in your language) around you isn’t a threat … he’s testing you to see how you respond. My first Alpha did this to me multiple times before forcing me to become his cocksucker. 

Frankly, I think this Alpha is primed and ready for you to submit to him. 

How you choose to do this is up to you. One faggot recently had great success using my “Letter To An Alpha” to help the Alpha understand what you are and what you’re offering. You could do what that faggot did and just ask him to read it, and then see how he reacts. 

Or, you could kneel and confess to him that you’re a faggot. Alphas love seeing this because you’re confessing to them and also submitting to them.

Or, you could get in a low physical position near his feet and start rubbing them. Feet are a powerful way to get an Alpha’s attention. 

Or, you could start a conversation with him by asking him “do you consider yourself to be Alpha?” When he answers “yes” then start discussing the Hierarchy with him. You could use my pyramid graphic as a way for him to grasp the concept. Ask him where he thinks you are, and see what he says (I’ll bet he says “faggot”). Then perhaps you could admit it. 

Any of these methods will work, but it just depends on what you can handle. Just remember: you’ve been friends with him for 10 years, so he’s not going to hurt you. He will AT LEAST be curious, trust me!  

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Hi Sam,

After some recent events, I’ve been thinking about the hierarchy between alphas lately. You see some banter online, one alpha boasting that “I’m the alpha your alpha serves”, how they “poached” another alpha’s subs. Or that when an alpha recognizes another’s superiority, he will keep his head down in a silent acknowledgment of that superiority, even in front of his sub.

In my case, I enjoy competition, specially physical ones. I’m on a couple of websites where men, mostly bi and gay, can meet up for fights. Some like to play pretend, but I look for the real thing. Hard fought bareknuckle fights, grappling matches with punches (often with low blows allowed), and even the occasional no-rules brawl when none of the involved needs to be at the office the next week. It’s hard to describe the feeling of utterly dominating another alpha, specially when we agreed on stakes beforehand. These guys are fit, leaders in their homes and communities, they are the top of the pyramid and they know it. To bring them down and force them to accept my superiority over them, and subject them to the same things my subs go through under me is unlike anything else I have ever experienced. I’d like to do this with an audience one day, perhaps mine and the other guy’s faggots all watching us go at each other. Haven’t happened yet, but here’s hoping.

But back to my question. I don’t see a lot being written or discussed about this. The way alphas are constantly navigating through this power struggle with other alphas. Not just in the bedroom or in a fetish context, but in family dynamics, in the workplace, everywhere. At least for me, that desire to dominate, to take lead and protect those beneath me can’t be turned off. And that has often put me in conflict with similarly minded men.

Would like to hear your thoughts on this.

Sir, thank you for the interesting backstory as well as your question! 

As a faggot, I can’t even imagine being in a physical fight with a Man. I’ve never been in one (shocking given my mouth) and have less-then-zero interest in it. However, for actual Men fighting is almost like fucking in terms of the sheer adrenaline rush and the desire to force others into submission (as you so eloquently described). Even after the movie FIGHT CLUB came out and popularized the idea, I had a hard time believing it was for real. 

But it is! 

As far as Alpha hierarchical dynamics, I don’t think there is a single writer anywhere (in the community or out) who has written more extensively or with as much detail as I have. I’m not bragging, Sir. For example, my breakdown of Alpha Hierarchy is (I believe) a nearly perfect explanation of how Alphas operate in relation to each other. I’ve used this diagram to explain and predict Alpha behavior based on where each Alpha appears within it. 

My understanding of Alpha Hierarchy was a critical factor for my success during my incarceration. I could see how the Alphas around me moved, and I could pick out the God Alphas from the Apex Alphas and lower Alphas and know which one to approach and how. I even used my Alpha Hierarchy to help one Apex Alpha named Darion (known there as “D”) understand why he needed to use multiple females, and he was so thankful he ran around telling other Alphas about it! 

That success with my understanding of Alpha Hierarchy led to me really thinking deeply about faggot hierarchy, resulting in my publishing that hierarchy a few months ago. Of course, a faggot hierarchy is pretty pointless – a faggot is a faggot – but the breakdown arose from how I discovered and described Alpha Hierarchy.

Aside from strictly writing about Alpha Hierarchy (see the post pinned to the top of this site), I am constantly referring to Alpha Hierarchy in my everyday writing. For example, I have confidently identified Master Anthony (Owner of Fabien) as a God Alpha based on several key factors. So much of that material is incorporated throughout the site. 

Additionally, I have addressed Alpha Hierarchy multiple times on the podcast, most notably in Episode 258 regarding Alpha Ascension (click here).

Again, Sir, I think you’d be hard-pressed to find anyone who has written more extensively about Alpha Hierarchy than I have. Yes, a little faggot like me! 

If anyone has suggestions, I’d love to hear it. 

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Hello Sam,

Thank you for everything you do to serve alphas and faggots alike. You have opened my eyes to what it truly means to serve alphas around me.

My problem is that I don’t fit the stereotype of a faggot. If anything, I get mistaken as an alpha but I am far from it! You see, I’ve been blessed with good genes. I’m pretty good looking, have a naturally masculine physique, and an above average penis.

This has made it difficult to find what I’m looking for from guys. The gays are vain af and take one look at me and think I’ll dominate them. But the truth is, I am not dominant at all. I recognize the privilege I have as a hung, hot, straight passing guy. But I also know my place in the hierarchy and it ain’t at the top! I just want to submit, serve, and worship alphas. But it’s hard to find someone that isn’t intimidated by me or my size. I know those aren’t true alphas if they get intimidated by a beta.

I’ve approached a couple of straight alphas and they just want to bro out with me. One let me worship him with a blow job but wanted me to do it naked so he could demean me. But that didn’t go well, as you can imagine. Gay alphas suddenly turn vers when we hookup. I have no desire to top. I don’t want an alpha to compare dick size. I don’t deserve to have a straight “bro.”

How can I make myself more serviceable to alphas? How can I downplay myself to be a better fag? Please help!

Brother, thank you very much for writing! This is a something of a problem that I think other faggots deal with as well. 

I’m actually really glad you bring up this issue, because far too many people judge a male’s hierarchical place by the size of his dick. I’ve known some incredible faggots in my life, absolutely devoted to service and providing pleasure for Alphas, who had gigantic dicks.

Gigantic, USELESS dicks.

So I can appreciate your frustration, brother. You’re fighting against an ingrained, primal instinct, and your options to overcome it are limited, but not impossible. 

First and most importantly, I suggest you go into chastity. I realize it might be a trick finding a chastity cage to fit you initially, but I know there are custom cages available to purchase or have created. You must lock it up so that you essentially take it out of the equation. I guarantee you that straight Alphas who see your dick locked in a cage will get excited that a hung stud like you has accepted the truth. 

Also, chastity will be able to help shrink it down. 

In addition, you should really stop exposing it in a general sense. Go into chastity, and then wear jock straps to conceal it even more. Essentially, the idea behind this is to make your penis a non-issue and a non-starter. 

You didn’t mention body hair, but I think it might be good to get as smooth as possible. This will also act to feminize your appearance and keep Alphas from looking at you like a bro. 

Those are my immediate suggestions. Aside from that, I’ll just add that a Man can’t see your junk if you’re bent over on your knees. 

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Hi sam,

A fellow sub here and first of all, i love your content and the information you give out so freely; it is truly very generous.

A little background about me is that i have only truly started my journey in learning how to serve Men about a week ago. In my previous jobs, i have always felt strangely more compliant and more motivated to work hard whenever a Man asked me to do something for him. After years of consuming gay BDSM porn material and remaining a virgin while lost in my fantasies, i decided it’s time i started living out my truth in my late 20’s at the bottom of the hierarchy and took my first steps to make serving Men a reality.

Mentally, i am already training myself to become more submissive. For physical training, a Dom and i have recently started chatting and He wanted me to begin throat training, starting with a toothbrush since i don’t (yet) own a dildo.

i was wondering if you could suggest any online resources to read on how to improve that sort of physical technique before i start really serving Men.

More than that, please let me know if you have any advice on remaining discreet when practicing for Sirs and Alphas while not having total privacy at home with family (my own room doesn’t even have a working lock ffs). While my family isn’t intrusive at all on what i do, i don’t think it’s feasible to lock myself in the bathroom for hours to train my hole or throat.

Thanks for your time sam!

Thank you for writing! (I wish I wasn’t giving it all away so freely, because it costs me an arm and a leg!)

I’m glad to hear that you’re finally embracing your purpose and you’ve already found a Master willing to throat train you! 

If you look in my “Advice For Faggots” section of the site there are plenty of instructional material in there about cocksucking, although the one huge article I did for FWA isn’t in my archive for some reason. Alternatively, you can search “cocksucker training” and likely come up with some stuff there. 

I don’t know where else you should look except to watch the “videos” section of this site, because even at less than a year old I’ve already amassed one of the finest curated archives of blowjob material anywhere. FWA’s video section (which was eight years old) was head of the class. 

Ultimately, there are no articles or videos that can prepare you for giving a blowjob or training your throat. You really just need to get that dildo and begin trying to take more of it each time and holding it in your throat longer and longer. One pro tip: when you feel like gagging, SWALLOW. Swallowing will not only calm your gag reflex, but it’ll allow more of the dildo/cock to enter your throat! 

Good luck!

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