Hey Sam,

Thank you very much for your reply, it was a good read and a pleasant surprise to get not just a reply but get it so quickly too!

I have two further questions if you don’t mind

1. How, specifically, would you differentiate a beta sub and a faggot? I’ve read your descriptions for both, but honest the beta sub description sounds very similar to the faggot one but more critical lol.
2. Do you have any advice on how on earth I’d be able to find a dommish partner who is alright with no sex? Feels like an impossible task but I really don’t want to be alone forever. Just want a guy who will rub his sweaty socks on my face in a dom way, have slight control over the reigns in the relationship, AND is okay with no sex. Maybe this question is outside the content of this website though, if so just ignore it if you want.

Thanks again!

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Thanks for writing again!

1. The primary difference between a beta-sub and a faggot is the fact that a faggot is more of a slave or object, a possession. A beta-sub is a partner in a relationship, with certain rights and independence and a stake in it. Hopefully that clears it up.

2. I think you will have a hard time finding a partner, honestly. There simply aren’t many Dom Men (even  slightly dominant) who aren’t interested in sex. Frankly, your insistence on these sexualized acts makes me think you aren’t fully asexual. Any asexual people I’ve known want NOTHING to do with sexual acts of ANY kind. So I think you have some soul searching to do on this. 

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The subject of becoming a servant is not a joke, I tried to resist for ten years, but when I weakened, I lost my whole life. The man who controlled me filmed me without my noticing while I was kissing his feet and serving him. Now he threatens me and blackmails me with the video if I disobey him. Now he has access to my Facebook account. He moved to my house and turned me into a real slave and now he took all my salary and I have nothing left and all day after work I serve him and serving him is very difficult because he is a very bad person. Now I lost my life completely… I know that there is no solution and you cannot help me but I just want to tell my story

Brother, I’m very sorry to hear this, and I’m frustrated that you feel there is nothing that can be done. 

You said you were blackmailed into this. Frankly, what he’s done to you and your life seems to be worse than if you’d have just released your information and dealt with those consequences UNLESS you’re in a place like the Middle East (it’s hard to tell from your name). 

Just know you are seen and known now. My heart goes out to you, my dear brother.

Love,

sam the faggot

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Hola Sam,

This is Master Jose Luis from Mexico again. I’ve been using fags online and developed new forms to train sub boys who cannot serve in person and make sure they are fulfilling their purpose in life. I decided that my goal for 2025 will be expand my stable as much as possible to give lonely and depressed boys a purpose. I’ve never been so sure about something in my life.

I will send you a longer email when I have time with updates for my thread, but for now I want you to tell your audience what you think about me as an alpha and advertise my new goal. I want more faggots and I am one click away on jo**********@***oo.com

Master Jose, thank you for writing! I’ve recently updated your thread on the site, so hopefully more faggots will see you and read your story (CLICK HERE).

In the few months I’ve known Master Jose, I’ve watched him embrace the fullness of both his power and purpose as an Alpha Master. He’s a Protector Alpha of the highest order, a true Man who wants to shepherd and protect faggots. Those are RARE qualities to find in an any Alpha. Any faggot who really needs an Alpha who wants to help them deepen their submission should reach out to him!

It’s been a great privilege to know Master Jose and bring his story to the world, and I look forward to continuing to serve his needs! 

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Hi brother Sam ! I hope you’re doing well ,first I wanted to thank you for all the work you do for the community and bringing awareness to fags everywhere and helping them embrace their faghood and serve masters and alpha men as intended ,you’ve spoken before about your time in jail but I was wondering if you could tell us more and elaborate on your time in there and how you served your fellow alpha in mates -what did you do for them ,how did you serve them and how did you approach the topic ? I would love to know and be inspired by your devotion to being a good fag and slave even while in Jail , thank you brother 

Thanks for the question, I guess! LOL

First of all, I was in FEDERAL PRISON, not jail. There is a big difference.

It took me a little while to get acclimated to being in a place like that, a place where I definitely did not fit in. People move differently when incarcerated, and there are all sorts of petty rules and signals one has to learn. For example, I was almost beaten up by one inmate because I couldn’t stop whistling songs in my head (whistling was used to signal when a guard was coming).

But I’m a friendly person and I make friends easily, so I quickly assembled a few allies. None of them were faggots or gay, but they were more playful about it with me.

As far as what I did Hierarchically, well, I cleaned the bathroom for my floor every day. This was something I did voluntarily, and I did such a good job that several of the black Apex Alphas and God Alphas on the floor rallied around me whenever someone threatened me.

There was an Apex Alpha who ran his own little commissary store from his cubicle, and he relied on me to purchase items for him to replenish his store when he was low. I bought items for other Alphas when they were low on funds.

My two biggest faggot-related accomplishments were:

1. I sucked off two straight Alphas, one black and one white. DeAndre (not his real name) was a 40-year-old black Alpha who looked 25 who I sucked off three times before he left. But my proudest accomplishment was my Master Jack, a jacked 32-year-old white Alpha who was totally depressed when I first met him. Then I began to talk to him about his Alphahood, and he brightened up, began furiously working out, and eventually had me suck his dick in the unused band room with the lights off.
2. I started formally interviewing Alphas about their Alphahood and their thoughts on what made them Alpha and why Alphas are important. I talked about Hierarchy so much that I became known for it, and some people started using the language of Hierarchy with each other. It was quite inspiring to see how quickly they embraced the truth of it. In one case, I used Hierarchical principles to help a young black Apex Alpha named “D” understand why he needed to cheat on his longterm girlfriend, and he was so impressed that he told everybody that I solved his issue!

While I never want to be in that situation ever again (obviously), I learned so much from a Hierarchical perspective that it seemed almost inevitable.

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My bf is extremely submissive and I’ve always been dominant, so we are a great match. But I find it weird that he never seems to be horny. If I don’t grab him and give orders for him to suck my dick or put his ass up, we could easily go a whole year without sex. I feel that he doesn’t desire me as much as I desire him, but every time I bring this up he says that he doesn’t like to have any kind of initiative. I would love to have him asking for my dick, waking me up with a blowjob, or simply walking around the house naked to make me horny, but he never does that. Is it normal for faggots to refuse to take any sort of initiative and just wait for their Master orders? My bf NEVER says no, no matter how tired or stressed he is, he always gives me good head and open his hole for me, but since we live together and I own him, I wish he showed more desire and passion.

Master, thank you for writing to me!

It’s a shame that you’re dealing with that, not only from a level of sexual frustration, but also at a basic level of passion and love. You obviously want/need much more heat and excitement than your faggot boyfriend (frankly, Alphas usually outpace faggots in this area anyway).  

It’s odd that you ever got together and stayed together, Master. Was he always this way? Were you able to overlook his lack of initiative at first, but now it’s wearing you down, or was this something that developed after a while in the relationship? Answers to those questions might alter my perception of the issue.

Contrary to how porn portrays us, faggots aren’t uniformly all just absolute cock-whores (only 99.9% of us are). There are some faggots who have been damaged by past relationships or childhood trauma, and that causes them to pull back. In some other cases I’ve known of faggots who so deeply believe they are literally nothing and unworthy of attention that they’re paralyzed to make any kind of move. 

There might be other factors at play here, too. Is your faggot lonely? Is he depressed? Is he struggling with anything personally? Any of these would dampen libido.

Since it sounds like you’ve discussed this issue with him and nothing has changed, let’s look into changing your approach, Master. Are you giving the faggot plenty of aftercare and other forms of reassuring affection? Is the communication warm and lively, or bitter and complaining?

I was trying to think of an exercise that might help, but there are too many unknowns. Maybe give him a night to express what he’d like to do. 

And if you haven’t cunted your faggot, you’ll definitely want to try. You can learn more about that RIGHT HERE, Master. I think it’s almost impossible to imagine that a properly-cunted faggot would ever be indifferent toward sex. 

If nothing else works, you might need to either let this faggot go or supplement it with a second or third faggot to satisfy your needs. I sense you want to avoid that, but ultimately your needs come first. 

Thank you, Master! 

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Sam, I am living a dilemma and my brilliant older brother (you!) will certainly know how to help me.

I am 18 and I have been serving two men, Jack and Harry. Jack is 19 and Harry is 34. Jack is annoying and acts like a high schooler, he only talks about NBA and Marvel movies. I usually suck his dick in his car and that’s it. He acts more like a bully than an actual Man. On the other hand, Harry is a lawyer, extremely fancy, speaks several languages, takes me to dinner in wonderful restaurants, and has a wonderful dominant Alpha energy anywhere he goes.

The decisions seems obvious but the issue is: Jack’s dick is heavy, thick, and has 8 inches, while Harry has a normal girth and is around 4.5 inches. I am still a virgin, but I have been sucking both of them for months. Both want to fuck my virgin hole, but I want to choose only one Man to take my virginity and serve full time.

I’m desperate to finally having a man fucking and breeding me, but at the same time I’m afraid to choose Harry and end up not feeling what I could feel with Jack’s dick in my hole. I love sucking both, but Jack destroys my throat while Harry dominates me because of his presence and energy, not so much because of his dick. Jack doesn’t care if I serve other Men, he just wants a cumdump, but Harry told me that he will only take my virginity if I stop serving other guys.

I am starting my life as a faggot now and I don’t want to make stupid decisions! Can you please help me, brother?

Thank you for writing little brother! It’s an exciting time in your life, and I certainly want you to start it off on the right foot! 

To me, the answer is crystal clear, but I want to first tackle the dick size issue (again). Big dicks don’t make a Man more virile, more powerful, more anything EXCEPT that big dicks are fun to play with. The idea that hung Men are more virile or potent is simply an illusion in our minds that is reinforced by stereotypes in media, etc. 

I have served Alphas with huge dicks (like 11 inches+), and I’ve served Alphas with average dicks. I’ll tell you the truth: one of my best fucks came from a very dominant bodybuilder with a very average dick. It was how he handled himself, handled me, and he just exuded confidence and power. So that’s where I’m coming from on this.

If you’re faced with losing your virginity, do you really want the first time to be an extraordinarily painful experience with a freakshow-sized cock? Is it really that important that you suffer through it just for the thrill-ride aspect of it?

Here’s the other part of it: the huge dick is attached to an Alpha who sounds pretty dumb and doesn’t give a fuck about you. He’s going to take that big dick of his and hurt you with it because he probably enjoys hurting people with it (because he’s dumb and immature). 

Meanwhile, you have an experienced, personally and professionally powerful older Alpha who wants to take your virginity and take ownership of you as his special possession. He cherishes your virginity, and wants to shepherd you and train you to become the best faggot possible.

So again, the choice seems pretty clear to me. The older Alpha should be your focus. He’s going to provide you so much more in every way, and help you become the faggot I know you want to be. 

Good luck little brother! 

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Hi Sam,

I’ll be honest, your philosophy really intrigues me (much to the horror of my heart lol) but I feel like I don’t fit into your hierarchy at all.

Basically, I’m asexual, kind of. I refuse to partake in anything traditionally seen as sex/sexual (anal, bjs, hjs, rimming, etc) because I am sex-repulsed. But, I still get turned on by dominance (and feet/socks lol) and wish to enter a relationship with a slight power imbalance with my partner as the dom.

I wanted to know if you think I still fit into the hierarchy, or if I exist separately from it? Apologies if this is too vague, but I really want to know what you think.

Thanks,

Thank you for writing! 

Believe it or not, I have some personal experience with asexuality. My precious Baby Boy, the kid I rescued from Syria, is also asexual. We sort of discovered this about him over long conversations, and he finally came to accept this about himself. I’m so proud of him (and you) for embracing this unusual aspect of your lives!

As far as asexuality in Hierarchy is concerned, you’re misunderstanding something. Hierarchy is not a SEXUAL structure of societal composition, but rather a way to understand the POWER and SOCIAL INFLUENCE aspects of societal composition. 

Now, sex DOES come into play (due primarily to the power play aspects of sexual encounters), but sexual orientation, sexual position, or sexual preference has nothing to do with where we are Hierarchically. 

If I had to guess without knowing more than what you told me, I’d say you are a “beta-sub” on my chart. That’s a comfortable place to be for a sub-leaning asexual! I hope that helps!  

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I wrote a piss drinking Bible. I read it every time before I’m about to take piss to remain focused. Do you have anything to add?

Piss Drinking Bible

Golden Rule: do not touch his penis with your mouth or hands unless told to do so by the alpha

Swallowing piss is one of those aspects of service that I mysteriously took to, even though I consider myself something of a neat freak. Maybe that’s why I got so good at swallowing a complete stream of piss without missing – I didn’t want to make a mess. LOL 

Funny aside: while I was in prison a couple of black Alphas handed me a tall squirt bottle full of vodka and some orange juice and challenged me to drink some of it … I nearly drained the entire bottle in one long squirt! They asked me repeatedly where I learned to do that, but I played coy. I think they knew, actually. 

Anyway, I think your Piss Bible is pretty complete, actually. It seems a bit too thorough for the simple of act of drinking piss, but hey, as a fellow connoisseur, I like it! 

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I am an Alpha and my boyfriend is my faggot. We’ve been together for almost 2 years and in the last 6 months he’s been obsessed with rimming me. He loves to worship my ass while I’m in the couch sitting on his face, he rubs his tongue on my sweaty hole for hours and hours. Sometimes I jerk off with his tongue in my hole and then I turn to cum in his mouth.

I don’t really care about this to be honest, but I don’t mind it either. He is a good fag so I like to reward him too. Sometimes we’re coming back home in the car and while he drives he already start saying that he wants to worship my ass.

However, I want to know more about this habit. Considering your experience, do you think there is any chance of this habit escalating to him wanting to fuck my ass? There’s no chance this is going to happen. How normal is it for faggots to love rimming a hole that they’ll never own? I have been thinking about cutting this habit, but I know he’ll feel disappointed and consequently will be less obedient.

Master, thank you very much for writing to me! You’ve presented an intriguing issue that I think could use some clarification. 

I want to congratulate you on two years of successful ownership. You honestly must own a good faggot if you’ve kept it around this long. A Master with a good faggot is not just a credit to the faggot, but also the Master. It is through your guidance, training, and use that you have molded your faggot into exactly what you want it to be.

Well, except for the rimming part, I guess.

I was impressed that you’ve indulged your faggot’s desire to lick your ass even though it does little for you. Most Masters would dismiss the faggot before ever capitulating to a faggot’s fetishes, so it’s to your credit that you allow the faggot to lick your ass and satisfy its interest. Ultimately, the faggot licking your ass is pleasure/stimulation/worship for YOU (unless you’re allowing your faggot to jerk off while it does this), so there’s not a lot to complain about, really.

Let me dissuade you right from the start, Master: your faggot has ZERO interest in fucking your ass. True faggots can’t even conceive of fucking anything; they’d have a better chance of translating ancient Sumerian hieroglyphs. Faggots are born to be fucked, and that’s all we understand how to do. 

But many faggots do have a desire to lick their Alpha’s asshole. Why, you ask? Well, the mental/emotional mechanism comes from the same place that causes a faggot’s need for foot worship: a need for humiliation. Licking and kissing a Man’s foot – the lowest, dirtiest part of his body usually – is humiliating and humbling. Most Men would rather die than do that, but for a faggot it’s a need as important as breathing. 

The only place dirtier and more degrading than licking a foot is licking an asshole. It essentially reduces the faggot to something like toilet paper. This type of degradation is important to faggots because faggots have deep feelings of unworthiness and immense gratitude to even be allowed to serve Men at all, so we want to convey to them all the time that they are our entire world and purpose. 

Your faggot feels like it is communicating this to you through this action, Master (or it wants to subconsciously). When you think of a faggot like a dog, you can start to understand these communication signals a bit better. A dog cannot express itself through language, so it communicates its love and appreciation in a variety of physical ways that we can often understand (even if some of them annoy us). Your faggot doesn’t know how to truly express the enormity and depth of its grateful submission to your glory … so licking your ass is a way to convey that.

That said, I think it’s a bad idea to let the faggot indulge in its fetish over your own pleasure, Master. Ultimately, your pleasure and satisfaction is all that matters, and allowing the faggot to use so much of your time “pleasuring itself” through rimming you is bad for the faggot. It needs boundaries, Master. Let it do some of that, but for whatever time you give it for that form of worship, you get reciprocal time devoted to your needs as a Man (or something like that). 

I went deep on this one, Master, like a faggot’s tongue on an Alpha’s asshole LOL. I hope I was able to help you understand this a little better. Frankly, as a faggot that believes sincerely in licking an Alpha’s asshole as a form of glorifying and elevating him, this helped me, too. So I thank you for letting me examine it. 

I do hope this improves, Master. You’re clearly a quality Alpha and Master, and you deserve everything you want!  

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Faggot Sam

How much do you crave man stink? cock, pits, balls, ass, feet, piss ect…?  In your experience how much do other faggots crave their masters scent, taste ect… ?

In my experience all proper faggots seem to naturally be drawn to it. Some scientific papers also show that a sexual orientation can be identified by scent alone with a high probability even if only at a sub conscious level.  I would be curious to know what you anecdotal evidence would support that idea. As a trained biologist, and as an alpha my life experience would certainly seem to support it. My faggot Josh loves to nuzzle up into my armpits and fall asleep. He also loves to lick the sweat from all parts of my body.

Some biologist paper references.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK200984

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/16137255

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/200801/solving-the-mystery-gaydar

Master, 

Thank you for the additional information! I read through it and actually sent it to one of my old Masters! He immediately replied “Yeah, that pretty much explains how easy it was to control you!” HAHA

I can totally relate to your faggot Josh. Armpits are of course a favorite of mine as well, and there’s nothing better than nuzzling in that tight warm space surrounded by Alpha pheromones. It’s hypnotic!

Thanks again for the supplementary materials, Master! I will be producing something useful out of them! 

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Hello Sam, I am Master Hank

I followed your previous website “Fags Worship Alphas” and am glad to see you are back. When the old site disappeared I was very disappointed. I had directed many gay/bi subs to that site to help them understand their proper place in the world. Many gay/bi men are really faggots but don’t understand the term or its implications. Once they understand their true need to serve on their knees they readily accept their servitude. Before tumbler purged all the porn accounts I had a photo on my tumbler that pictured a locked faggots nub covered in my cum that said  “all men might be born equal but some choose servitude” I posted that long before finding your site but the sentiment is the embodiment of this website. You do a great service to fags and alphas by hosting this site (and FWA before it).

As a faggot do you find the scent of your Alphas intoxicating?  I find all good and true faggots seem to develop a lust for man stink.

Master Hank, it’s awesome to have you back! You are what I like to call a “primal Alpha”, a no-nonsense type of Alpha who operates purely on an instinctual level. I often find primal Alphas to be the most challenging and dangerous for faggots like me! 

I am sorry about what happened to FWA, but the thing I’m building here will be much more focused and educational and perfect for sending your faggots for training. 

As for scent, I’m a huge proponent of scent and scent training. I think I’ve done more publishing about the physiology and sociology of scent than anyone in this space (who isn’t a scientist). It forms my basic understanding of Hierarchical establishment. 

I’ve imprinted on the scents of several Masters during my years in service. It’s insane how I can be somewhere like a bar or sporting event and catch a whiff of a pheromone marker that resembles one of my Masters and I’m instantly whisked back to my time with them. It’s actually somewhat distracting, but it also conjures warm memories! 

Thank you, Master!  

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I am 19 and I have a roommate who is also 19. I am straight and I thought he was straight too. But after a few weeks living together, he started cooking for me, doing my laundry, cleaning the whole house, doing my homework and he always asks for permission to do anything around the house. We get along very well, so I directly told him that he looks like my housewife doing these things. He just said that he’s straight and just like to keep the house clean, which can be true, but I find it very awkward that every week I bring a different girl to my room and he never has girls around. When I try to talk about fucking girls, he always avoids the topic, and I have a feeling that he’s hiding something from me but also from himself.

My best friend since childhood is gay, he is like my brother and we tell everything to each other. He is extremely dominant, confident, and strong, and when I told him that my roommate was acting like this, he started talking about hierarchy and he told me that he was an Alpha. He said that some Men like him and you are naturally dominant and others are naturally submissive. He even said that he has never sucked a dick before because he likes to fuck and breed, which for me was crazy since I didn’t know some gays don’t like to suck dick.

Long story short, my best friend and brother thinks that it’s not normal for a straight man to serve another straight man like this. He thinks I could get an easy blowjob or even fuck my roommate’s hole eventually. I am straight and I have no doubt about my sexuality, although of course I respect the gays a lot. My brother thinks I should take advantage of this opportunity because it is just a matter of time until the roommate accepts his truth as a faggot. I have never thought about that, but I think it would be nice to have a warm mouth every morning.

Sir, thank you very much for writing to me! I appreciate this critical question, one that has ramifications across the spectrum of Patriarchy! 

First of all, you’re clearly Alpha. Not only do you have close Alpha friends (including a gay Alpha – very nice!), but, more importantly, your hunter instincts detected the submissiveness of your roommate and it’s made you hungry for dominance. This is a CLASSIC sign of Alphahood. All true Alphas have these kinds of instincts. 

I’m in full agreement with your gay Alpha friend – your roommate is a faggot for sure. No doubt of any kind. In fact, the roommate is following the pattern I’ve often prescribed to other faggots who want to offer themselves to straight Alphas like you! These are exactly the things I tell faggots to do … become useful to the straight Alpha you want to serve, offer to do things for him, be submissive.  I tell them this because I know the true Alphas will be triggered by these actions and possibly be moved to take ownership of them! 

You know, kind of like you want to do with this one! 

Here’s what I recommend you do, Sir. Tell your roommate to kneel in front of you. Then tell it to kiss your feet. (It should have no problems doing either one of these things, but if it does, then you need to force it to admit what it is and get it on its knees.) Then ask it what it is. Make it admit that it’s a faggot multiple times, telling it “Good Boy” every time it does. Maybe pet its hair also while saying “Good Boy” to reinforce the difference between the two of you.

Once you get the faggot to this stage, you can do whatever you want with it, Sir. I recommend that you do some scent training with it before feeding it your cock so that the faggot knows obedience to you comes before it receives reward. If you do feed it your cum (either orally or anally), that will do additional brainwashing. 

Most straight Alphas who’ve taken ownership of faggots put their fags in chastity. I do highly recommend this, Sir, but it’s your choice. I do recommend that you put the cage on the faggot, since that reinforces the fag’s inferiority and submission to you and your ownership.

I think you will find owning a faggot will make your life infinitely better, and you will experience power that most 19-year-olds cannot imagine. You’ll also learn a secret – that fucking a faggot doesn’t turn you gay, it just makes you more powerful. 

I hope to hear back from you if you choose to explore this, Sir. My email is hi*****************@***il.com. Thank you, Sir!  

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sam, my brother,  i think that the advice you gave mike,the faggot that he should accept the public ceremony of his being put in a chastity device is absolutely the right advice.  i know from my personal experience that my Alpha Eric, publicly outing me to my business partners, His introducing me to His girl friends as His faggot and His publicly marginalizing me has clarified what i am in my own mind and has taught me that there is joy and so much satisfaction in service.  More important, it has freed me (liberated me) from the burden of pretending to the world, and more important, to me, myself, that i am something that i am not.

your friend and brother, sean

Ah, the legendary faggot Sean makes a re-appearance to comment on THIS QUESTION FROM READERS post.

Nice to hear from you, my dear brother! 

Thank you for the compliment about my advice for our fellow faggot. Sadly, the faggot didn’t take my advice, and terrible things resulted from it. I’ll be detailing that soon. 

Why don’t faggots listen to those of us with more experience? Who knows. Maybe faggots are actually just as dumb as many Alphas claim! 

Please don’t be a stranger, brother! 

Love,

sam the faggot

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Sam, I really love you and your site <3

I am 19 and I am 100% sure I am a faggot! I love serving big men, I know my place, and my holes are always ready for real men. I serve a man who is 32. He took me from my parents house and told me to live with him. He’s very masculine, very strong, and hairy. I am weak, skinny, and smooth. I really like the way he uses me, but sometimes he gets very very aggressive. When I don’t cook well enough or if he thinks the house is not clean enough, he usually gets mad and punishes me. He beats me and sometimes I get some bruises.

He’s my first man and he took my virginity so I don’t know if this is normal. Is this the normal treatment if I want to have a real man with me? Do you think I can find a real Alpha who takes care of me or “soft” men will not be dominant? Do you think some men can be naturally dominant alphas but also treating me well? I love him and I love to obey him but I am a little worried because last time he really hurt my two arms. My father really supports me and he’s a real Alpha man as well who NEVER did that with my mother… but I don’t know if a faggot like me deserves a good caring man, sometimes I think that, if I don’t want an aggressive man, I will end up with just another gay who would never fuck and breed me like a man. I am so confused… can you please help me?

Sweetheart, I’m glad to receive your open-hearted letter. 

Congratulations on finding an Alpha at such a young age. Your Master sounds very powerful and aggressive given that he basically yanked you away from your family and took you in as his personal faggot.

But even that move concerns me. It feels very controlling in an unnatural way. And given the more disturbing things you say have been happening now that you live with him, I think my instincts are correct. 

Listen, little brother: you are a faggot, but that doesn’t mean you deserve to be hurt and abused. You’re trying your best to serve this Master faithfully, and you’re not always going to succeed. If this was a true and admirable Master, he would correct you with firm and encouraging guidance. What a shame that he’s choosing violence instead. 

I don’t know if you’re able to have civil conversations with this Master, but if you can I’d ask if you can talk to him. Then you should humbly explain that he is hurting you. Emphasize that your goal is to be the best faggot possible for him and the violence is making you rethink your purpose. Ask him to please help you to be a better, more satisfying faggot by teaching you rather than abusing you. 

If you can’t talk to him like that, then it might be time to rethink staying with him.

I know there are a lot of fetish sites out there and lots of so-called Alphas (and faggots) who say faggots deserve to be beaten and abused. DO NOT LISTEN TO THEM. A faggot doesn’t deserve to be beaten for faithfully serving a Man any more than a faithful dog deserves to be beaten. Most decent people are horrified by animal abuse, and that should be the natural reaction to faggot abuse. 

There is something broken in any Alpha who abuses faggots. These are Destroyer Alphas who never advanced past the bully stage in high school, who never learned how to deal with frustration in any productive way. These Alphas are to be pitied, not worshiped. 

And yes, you deserve better. You may be a faggot, but you’re clearly smart. You obviously observed how your Alpha father treated your mother and those under his control (including you), and that set a pattern of Alpha behavior for you that is righteous and good. It’s not wrong to expect something similar in a Master who owns you. 

You’re young and full of youthful energy and optimism. Don’t allow a bad Master to steal that from you with the darkness of abuse. If he’s unable or unwilling to change, then you need to seek a new Master.

I love you, little brother. I am hoping for the best in this situation. Please feel free to keep in touch with me at hi*****************@***il.com or through here. 

Love Always,

sam the faggot

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Hi Sam,

Quick question. I’ve been fucking a very nice fag for 6 months now. He is always available to cook, clean, do the chores and, of course, suck and ride my dick. But he is really obsessed with my feet and armpits, even more than my dick, so sometimes after I cum in his mouth or ass, I let him worship my feet for hours just because he is a good boy.

The thing is, I don’t really care about him kissing my feet or armpits. After I cum, I just want to send him home. However, I feel that if I started doing that, he’ll be less and less obedient with time. Based on your experience as a faggot and mentoring many other fags, do you think my rationale makes sense? If I start just sending him home after I cum (which would be ideal for me), do you think he’ll eventually stop serving me? I’m asking this because right now he is constantly begging to serve me because he knows he’ll get some feet and armpit afterward. While I understand that faggots exist to serve us, I don’t want to take the risk because finding a warm mouth and a tight hole is not always easy.

Master, thank you for writing such an honest letter, one to which I think many Alphas can relate.

First of all, congratulations on finding yourself a true faggot deeply devoted to worship and service! You mention it’s rare to find such a faggot, and I agree! I wish more faggots embraced their truth so completely! 

I kinda chuckled when I read your issue. Men are notorious for wanting to be alone or go to sleep after they cum. The faggot doesn’t mean to be pushy or selfish when it starts worshiping your pits and feet, of course. I think the faggot is just turned on by the loads (and the hormones in the cum) you just pumped into it, and this is a form of thanks. It’s like a cat incessantly rubbing up against an Owner it loves. It’s almost like the faggot is making its own kind of aftercare, which is weird.

But no matter how talented or beloved your faggot is, it has no right to infringe on your needs or wants. After all, you own it. 

So here’s what I propose, Master: allow the faggot to worship your feet and armpits BEFORE it services you. That way the ritual will serve as a kind of foreplay for the fag, which might vastly improve its service for your cock. And who knows, while you’re horny you might like your feet and armpits worshiped more. 

I think it would be good to inform the faggot of the switch AND WHY, so that the faggot understands you want it to go home once it’s finished. 

I’m so grateful you wrote to me about this issue, Master, and I sincerely hope this helps! I want you to have all the pleasure you desire, as well as maintain solid, caring control over your faggot! 

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Hey Sam

I really like your content here and I have a important question

I am 23 and I am straight. Some years ago I really wanted to have a threesome with my gf and another woman. She said that we could do it as long a we had a threesome with another guy too. Of course I said no, I would never let my woman touch another dick. But, surprisingly, she just wanted to see me fucking a faggot.

It took her 8 months to convince me that fucking faggots is not gay at all. She is a ballet dancer and one day she brought home one of her friends from ballet. The guy was really smooth, was wearing some make-up and had amazing legs and ass. At first I thought it wouldn’t work and I almost gave up, but the guy got on his knees and starting calling me Sir.

I am very dominant with women in bed but it’s very rare to find a woman who actually wants to submit to me (nothing against feminists lol). The faggot was smart and felt that I was not attracted to his body but I was attracted to the feeling of POWER that I had with him. They started to give me a double blowjob, and shortly after I was fucking my gf’s pussy and the fag’s ass at the same time. I felt like a king.

We were all 19 when that started to happen and we’ve been fucking from time to time for 4 years now. My gf loves Man-fag porn (she showed me your website), so she’s perfectly happy with this situation and her pussy gets really wet when I fuck the faggot. For me, it’s good to have a nice blowjob a and a tight ass available 24/7.

However, the faggot often refers to us a  throuple and I really don’t want to hurt his feelings. I told him one million times that I AM NOT BISEXUAL. I will not have a boyfriend, I do not have any interest in having a relationship with a man or a faggot. I just want my woman who will be my wife one day, and he’s just a nice cumdump. I like using him and I understand that he’s inferior, but he is still a human being and I respect him a lot. I know very little of fag’s hearts, so I wanna know your opinion.  In my mind, I am a King with a Queen by my side and he’s nothing more than a useful servant. How to keep the fag next to me but convince him that we’re not a throuple? I respect him, I protect him, I take care of him, I like how he’s friends with my girl, but I do not love him as I love my gf.

Master, thank you for writing!  What an amazing testimony to the truth of Hierarchy! 

You really should be quite grateful to your girlfriend, Master. She recognized what you are – at least an Apex Alpha – and knew that you deserved the kind of worship only faggots can truly provide. As you mention, very few females understand how to WORSHIP Men, but faggots are completely devoted servants/slaves of Men like you. She took a big risk introducing you to faggots, but the experience seems to have made a powerful impression on you.

I’m sure you always felt the truth of Hierarchy in your life before you ever discovered the true nature of it, this fact that you, a superior Alpha, deserves to be served and serviced by all inferiors you choose. Tragically, many Alphas refuse this part of their Hierarchical heritage, and they fail to advance in power and standing among Men. What you wrote above shows you’ve peeked through the looking glass and you now see the vast Kingdom and endless possibilities available to you. I cannot tell you how happy I am to hear that! 

It’s also clear that your faggot doesn’t quite understand its purpose yet. It’s still under the mistaken impression that it’s like a second girlfriend or something, and that’s wrong. A faggot is a slave, a loyal dog, a possession. It is to humbly serve as commanded by its Owner. 

So here’s where you (as its Master) must take the faggot and retrain it into a proper servant. First and foremost, I think it would be beneficial to put a chastity cage on the faggot, if not permanently then whenever it’s serving you. This will help the faggot understand it is not the same as you. 

I also recommend that you employ targeted scent training with the faggot, but combined with a call/response exercise to get into the faggot’s head that it is not in a relationship with you, but rather it is your property. Put the faggot on its knees and make it kiss your feet. Then tell it to repeat after you as you tell it to repeat back “I am a faggot” “I am not a Man” “My Master cannot love me” “I exist to serve my Master” etc. As the faggot completes each call/response, have it deeply inhale your crotch or armpits (you can be clothed or naked), and then kiss your feet again. 

I know you mentioned that you don’t want to hurt the faggot, Master, but this is not hurting the faggot. We faggots need to be trained to accept reality through this kind of targeted training. A dog might not like its Master using a choke collar on it during obedience training, but in the end the dog is grateful for its Master’s attention and care. So will your faggot. 

As you mentioned, owning your faggot has made you feel more like a King. That’s good, because that’s exactly what you were born to be. You have every right to have a Kingdom that reflects you, your glory and your standards, Master. If you end up owning 100 faggots, every one of them must be trained by you, and obediently loyal to you. 

I believe you have the power and the insight already within you to become a great Owner and Master of faggots, and you are blessed to have a Queen who is excited to see you exercising such power. Try my suggestions and see if they don’t improve the situation. If they don’t, adjustments can be made or the faggot can be replaced. 

I hope you will be willing to keep in touch with me as this situation develops, Master. I would be humbled and grateful to carry your story and continue a dialogue if possible. my email is Hi*****************@***il.com. THANK YOU, MASTER! 

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I am 48 years old, married to a woman and have a 16 year old daughter, but I am a fag and cannot deny it anymore. I secretly meet alpha guys to be used and abused. I only get off to real strong, aggressive alpha men.

What can I do?

Thanks for writing, brother. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. 

One of my motivations for creating FWA was to help faggots accept their truth so they might AVOID situations like yours in their lives. I saw too much of it in my everyday life, and so I desperately wanted to change the narrative and help natural-born faggots from making the mistake of marrying a female and ultimately wasting her time (let’s not even get into the part about the lives of the kids). 

From my standpoint, it isn’t fair for you to keep up this charade of heterosexuality. You should get divorced. It’s the noblest and truest path, no matter how difficult that might be. Your only other choice is to keep doing what you’re doing, and I’ll never advocate for that. 

You already know what’s right.  

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Hey faggot.
I have been together with my, now, husband for about 4 1/2 years now. From the get go he has always been a lot more passive and has deferred to me for decisions and initiating things like sex and the life decisions that have come our way.

For the first few years of our relationship I would have never considered our relationship to be anything like the Master/Fag dichotomy you seem to dedicate a lot of time and thought to. After all, he was and is more to me than just a faggot. I love him, he is who I want to raise children with, he’s who I want to spend my life with.

All that sappy shit aside, as important as it is, I still find myself making most of our decisions, no matter how much I try to coax opinions and preferences out of my lovely fag he will always give me the final say. I don’t dislike this at all, but I guess assessing the relationship from a traditional perspective, I want to ensure we are truly partners. That being said, our sex life is truly hierarchical, as is our lifestyle with me taking on the responsibilities and roles of a traditional husband.
Lately, in exploring a bit more sexually together he’s been more open about enjoying the set up we’ve had going on, loves being the one to get fucked, loves looking to me for guidance, support, and help with decisions and loves being called a faggot while having me inside any of his various holes.
I mostly found this funny, we are both- by definition – gay. But now I’ve started using “fag” as a pet name outside of the bedroom as well and it’s so fun watching him learn to respond to that call.

I suppose my question is whether or not, from your perspective, a longterm life partnership can be built from a master/faggot relationship. Because that is what it seems our relationship has evolved into over time. Most of my exposure to this dynamic comes from porn and once-and-done hookups (fag is also a cuck, who would’ve guessed.) And while I do love using my faggot husband, I also love HIM. I don’t want the service and sex to belittle the more intimate aspects of our marriage. Though obviously, not looking to skimp out on being services and using my boy as I please either.
Thoughts?

-Master Nathan

Master Nathan, thank you for writing to me! I think your concern is a common one, so it’s good to address it.

First of all, congratulations on the longterm relationship! Finding faggots is easy, but finding a GOOD faggot that you’d want to keep is harder than finding IQ points at a Trump rally. And honestly, your outlook has much to do with the success of this relationship given that you’re leading it and molding it. I would also add that it’s to your credit that you (as an Alpha) want to settle down with a primary faggot given the Alpha need to hunt and conquer. That can present a bunch of issues, but you seem to have found the right balance with your faggot.

To answer your question directly, YES it is entirely possible to maintain a Master/faggot dynamic in a longterm relationship. In fact, if you own a true faggot, keeping that dynamic is almost critical. Being a faggot is NOT a fetish that can be turned on/off like true fetishes the leather scene or furries or any of that shit. A faggot simply is a faggot every moment of every day of its life. 

I often compare faggots to dogs, and I think the analogy is apt. A Man owns a dog. He loves the dog. He cares for it, plays with it, disciplines it, cherishes it. But no matter how deeply they love each other, the dog is never going to be equal to the Man. It works because both of them remain in and perform their natural roles.

Like a dog, you love your faggot. Your faggot might be your most cherished possession, the one thing you truly love above all others. Yet, it is still a faggot … and no matter how deeply you love each other that disparity cannot be erased or ignored. 

To be honest, it’s only when a Master and a faggot embrace that dynamic and their respective purposes with it does the relationship really shine. I know this because I’ve diligently chronicled these kinds of relationships over the years, and in many cases I’ve been personally involved with them. My sites (FWA and now this one) have seen FIVE MARRIAGES of Alphas and faggots (three of the Alphas are straight, too!). In fact, I was privileged to pick out the wedding bands for one couple (straight Master G and his faggot Jamie)! 

In all of these successful cases the Master/faggot dynamic actually strengthened their bond. What can I say? Hierarchy WORKS! 

You shouldn’t worry about treating your faggot in a “degrading” way while in a loving, committed relationship. The positive reaction of your faggot to your casual use of the word “faggot” should tell you everything you need to know. Your faggot WANTS to serve you, Master … it NEEDS to serve you. 

I really hope I’ve answered your question sufficiently, Master. I really want the best for you and your faggot, and I love the relationship you’re building together. If you have more questions or if you’d like to keep me updated, you can always write to me at hi*****************@***il.com! Thank you, Master!  

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The following post is part of a thread chronicling the enslavement of a 53-year-old faggot (a former Top) named Mike by a 31-year-old Alpha Master named Steve. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

Last week I received a Questions From Readers from a former Top-turned-faggot named Mike who had been serving a powerful young Master named Steve. You can read that original question by clicking here. In it, Master Steve had loaned Mike to one of his Alpha buddies for use, which triggered Mike’s residual dominance.

But Mike wrote back with a conundrum, and I decided it deserved to graduate to a full-blown thread here on the site. After nine years of doing this, I usually have a pretty good feel for stories that seem to be intensifying, and this one certainly seems to be.

First, let me present you with the story-length question Mike left in my inbox:

Thanks for your response below on me sharing me with his best friend on his friends birthday.

I’m kind of in a new predicament and not sure what decision I want to make.  Last night Alpha Steve and I went to dinner of course I paid.  After dinner, we went back to his house and he said he wanted to talk with me about something.  He said that before I leave, we would be ordering a Chasity cage for me.  I was a little shocked. It’s kind of something, I heard him joke about in the past.  He said the main reason he was wanting to do this was because he knew I was jerking off on the days we were not together and I needed to learn that cumming was a privilege he controlled.  I ended up giving him my credit card so he could order the one he wanted.

Afterwards, he said he was going to allow me to make a decision, so I had the ultimate control of how it went down.    He said the first option was he would cage me in private. I would remain locked for two weeks, but during those two weeks he would not have sex with me. I would only be allowed to watch him have sex with other fags.  The second option would be we would have a caging party, he would invite his three closest friends, I could make it public knowledge to them that I was his fag, and I was wanting to be locked.  He would lock me in front of them.  And then I could serve them drinks that night.  After they left, he said he would allow me to drink his piss and fuck and breed me every time we were together over the next two weeks.

He said the choice is yours. We can keep it private or you can begin showing your true self.  Then he said it’s getting late you better go.  He said I will text you within the next few days and you need to give me an answer.

For me, this is a tough decision.  Because I never expected it to go this far.

First of all, let me just congratulate Master Steve for creating this Jigsaw-like domination puzzle for his fag Mike! What’s so brilliant about the choice he presented to Mike is the fact that both options have positive and negative aspects to them, but they’re both designed to reveal to Master Steve exactly where his faggot is in the process of full submission. I love it.

I can also see why Mike is struggling in this trap, because he’s smart enough to realize that he must tip his hand one way or the other.

Of course, I feel like the second option is better, both in a general sense as well as in Mike’s specific case. I just feel like Mike has been serving Master Steve for 1.5 years now and needs to come out as his Master’s property. Sure, it might be humiliating to be caged in front of a couple of Alphas, but they’re Alphas like Master Steve … they’d probably be just as proud as Master Steve will be.

In addition, Mike would be spared the indignity of watching Master Steve breed other faggots for two weeks, a form of punishment far worse than a silly cage.

Mike’s lonely little admission at the end is telling: “I never expected it to go this far”. Faggots often think they’re playing on the same field and in the same game as an Alpha, but they aren’t even playing the game at all – instead, they’re the BALL. All faggots need to grasp that truth and humble themselves in service. Alphas are our greatest Men (at least, they’re supposed to be), and they are typically many steps ahead of a faggot. They’re expert hunters, and they love to play with their catches. Rather than trying to outwit an Alpha, a faggot needs to submit and surrender to the desires of its Owner. By doing this, we allow ourselves to be molded by our Alpha into something better than we could ever hope to become ourselves.

So if Mike is asking me, I recommend that he take the second option. Believe me, being caged personally by his Master will do wonders for him, as will the commendation the onlookers will give him.

Submission to a Master and being locked in a chastity cage are ways for a faggot to truly become what it was born to be, and I want that for every faggot. I particularly want it for Mike, who has come so far and is now at the brink of something quite special.

I’ll let you know what happens (if he tells me)!

Hey there brother sam, i am the faggot who wrote you asking for a way to connect with an Alpha in Minneapolis, MN. i have to thank you for your recommendation that i try Blowers.com. i tried it and found a young alpha who is 30 years my junior. He’s agreed to let me be His on-call cock-sucker. i can’t believe that is how easy it was…you my brother, are awesome! i wish you well in your endeavor to “filling the gap” and am anxious for you to do it! Please keep me informed as you make progress. i was looking for two years and not having much luck. This young Alpha i connected with has a gorgeous cock, long and thick, and he wants to shoot at least a couple of loads each time i connect with him. my faggot life has improved significantly because of you!

This is a follow-up to THIS QUESTION.

Well that was FAST! I’ve been pretty impressed by TheBlowers.com so far. Hopefully it goes well! Keep me posted! 

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