I’m gay and I’m submissive for a while I really believed alpha tops were truly dominant ,but I see in almost every gay guy I’ve met this desire to submit to straight males , even tops. It’s like straight men have power over gays by default because they are “real men” , they are more manly and prone to be alphas. Are we gays just inferior to them ?
It’s not that gay males are all inferior to straight males Hierarchically, because they’re not. The phenomenon you mention (which is almost 100% true) comes from societal conditioning. Homosexuals are almost always closeted for most of their early lives because society expects them to be straight. In many places it’s deadly to be gay. So we grow up longing to be like straight males, or we long to serve them in order to be “accepted” by them in some way.
Since much of this conditioning occurs in our teen years, it’s very hard to shake as we get older – even for gay Alphas. I have known some gay Alphas who would never submit to any Man, even straight Alphas, but like you said, it’s rare. Broken self-esteem is an epidemic that will likely plague gays until the end of time.
I’ve been online teaching Hierarchical truth since June of 2015, so nearly ten years. And over that time I’ve been asked multiple times why I continue teaching these things, persevering through virtually obstacle imaginable.
My simple answer is this: Hierarchical truth gave me purpose and clarity and peace in my life, and as more and more people apply and embrace these truths they have the same results. So I’ve been convinced of the power of these fundamental truths, and the importance of giving back drives me forward.
And I have been blessed to be a part of significantly changing the lives of many, many people because I never gave up and I never forgot the truths I experienced and witnessed with my own eyes.
I received a very long, very detailed letter in my Questions inbox from a faggot brother yesterday, and he was asking about the future of Hierarchy in the wake of the left’s neutering of males through “wokeness” and the right’s hateful, Destroyer Alpha ideologies that reveal only insecurities. It’s an intriguing problem, one I gave considerable thought to over the last two years while I was incarcerated.
But first, let me share my brother’s remarkable letter:
Dear Sam,
I’m a longtime fan of your work who is finally reaching out to say thank you and pose some questions to you about hierarchy and its future.
First, thank you. Thank you for educating the world, including me. I first came across your content years ago on the old FWA site. There I was, sitting in an airport, waiting for my flight to arrive when I stumbled across FWA. My curiosity was piqued and not long thereafter I was hooked. It took some time, but I came to realize that I’m a faggot (albeit a rather prideful and rebellious one). At first there was some concern and cognitive dissonance—but the more I read and the more I reflected—the more I understood myself, my hunger to serve, and the bigger picture. That said, I have some thoughts and questions about hierarchy and the Alpha and fag communities.
My awakening as a faggot began when I was in college. I met two guys (a couple) who took my virginity. Yes, my first time was a threesome—and it was awesome. One had an absolutely life changing dick. Big. Thick. Uncut. He was a cocky motherfucker who knew his power and attraction. Our “hanging out” quickly escalated to me stroking his cock and then sucking it while his boyfriend fucked me. After a while of that, and after my virgin hole had been opened a bit, the bigger of the two then took me from behind and fucked me with his impressive manhood. I felt so good. So complete. But also afraid. Dirty even. There was a lot to process, but I knew I liked that feeling—of having a man inside of me. Of making him cum. Of using my body to bring him pleasure. I didn’t realize it then, but this obviously sowed the seeds of my descent into sub space.
Soon after, I started meeting more guys—some mediocre who just wanted a quick fuck—but some who were truly special, just like that first guy. They fucked with ferocity but also with purpose. They owned my minds as much as my body, and they did so in a way that exemplified masculine superiority. In hindsight, I now know these were true Alphas who I met along the way.
One, a frequent fuck buddy, was an older man in his 30s. He was hung, handsome, fit, and had a magnetic personality. I wanted to spend as much time in his presence as I could—and I did. He taught me how to properly sexually service men like him, but he always did so in a constructive and warm way. He was my first Protector Alpha. He was also the first Alpha who cunted me.
In my experience, everything you write about cunting is true. Here I am, more than 15 years later, and I still hunger for the way this Alpha fucked me. The way he used my holes for his pleasure and the pleasure of his friend he introduced me to. All these years later, I’m still that shy 18 year old college freshman getting railed by this absolute mountain of a man, and I still remember all of the life lessons he imparted upon me; recognizing my self worth and giving me confidence to be who I am.
I suppose you could say I was lucky because over the years I met other Alphas whom I served sexually. Most were Protectors, but all had the same intoxicating effect: overwhelming my senses, the euphoria of their attention and approval, drawing me closer to them and their power, making me submit. A handful cunted me, resulting in them similarly forever owning a part of my psyche. Your recent podcast about Alpha ascendancy reminded me of these life changing and treasured experiences.
That recent podcast also made me think about some things that concern me about hierarchy today. Maybe I’m jaded, but I can’t help but look around and see a landscape of posers, fakes, and opportunists parading themselves as “Alphas” but not knowing the first thing about what it means to be an Alpha. I see this a lot in the findom space. It’s hard for me—a very successful professional—to take these “Alphas” seriously or see them as anything but chumps who are asking for a handout. What is “Alpha” about extracting money from a faggot or a sub, someone who is already insignificant to begin with? What is “Alpha” about depending on the charity of another when you are supposed to be a leader of men?
Your recent podcast on ascendancy told listeners to take heed of our environment, of the Alpha-fag ecosystem and lifecycle. Yes, fags exist to serve Alphas, but Alphas also need fags, as well. A faggot is there for more than just spitting on or extracting money. It’s there to serve, to be taught, and to be led. But I don’t see much of the latter.
I look out on the world and see a tragic lack of Protector Alphas. It makes me sad to think that young and future faggots might not experience what I did because their only concept of service might be coughing up money for or being spit on by the people I describe above. It also worries me that an entire generation of Alphas is being lost to this performative and reductive idea of what superiority and true masculine leadership and excellence look like.
Do you think things are changing? If so, are they changing for the better? Or have I missed something, or perhaps am just jaded? Where have all the Protectors gone?
This brother’s letter is very much the kind of message I receive on a daily basis since my return from prison. Why is there such affection and loyalty to FWA (now Hierarchy University) and its message? BECAUSE IT WAS NEVER A FETISH SITE – IT PROVED ITSELF TO BE TELLING TRUTH. And that truth SET PEOPLE FREE and CHANGED LIVES.
Listen to the experiences of my brother. Notice how he recognized the ring of truth in what I was teaching, to the point that he couldn’t ignore it any longer. And when he applied that truth in his life, miraculous experiences changed his entire life and set him free!
Which leads me to one of my answers to my brother’s questions above: is Hierarchy being invalidated or diluted by the current state of the world and masculinity in general? NO. Hierarchy is as ancient as any principle in human society. It’s something we know from infancy, feel it in the air everywhere we go, and are always guided instinctively by its influence. The same hierarchical influence that caused males to submit and service gladiators in the Roman Empire still molds the minds of Men today. The only factor that really changes in the equation is how much will society allow the freedom to express it.
My brother brings up another, more sobering point: Alphas are in trouble. Radical ideological forces are shifting Alphas away from what I consider to be their absolutely intrinsic purpose: As Protector (or Builder) Alphas. The world of today is either teaching Alphas that everyone is equal, neutering their power to lead. The world of today is also teaching Alphas to be selfish and stupid, encouraging insecure and toxic Destroyer Alpha behaviors.
My brother mentions online financial domination as one of these toxic forces ruining Alphas, and I completely agree. Findom doesn’t teach true Hierarchy, but rather a cartoonish version of Alphahood that allows fakes and phonies to slip in and mislead others. In turn, these Alpha failures destroy genuine faggots misled by their corrupted masculinity. There are definitely true Alphas in findom, but they are often obscured by the loud, ignorant, and grotesque Destroyer Alphas poisoning the true water of Hierarchy.
Without great Protector Alphas providing clear-eyed, ethical leadership, human society is threatened. It becomes like a ship without a sturdy, reliable rudder, and it becomes vulnerable to crashing or capsizing.
The true Protector Alphas I’m describing – the ones I’ve served, as well as the ones I’ve described on this site – aren’t pussies or weak Men. Quite the contrary. They’re the ones who defend what is right, fight for the weak and the broken, and defend those they love from threats foreign and domestic. These are Men I would crawl on broken glass to serve and worship, and I know my faggot brother feels the same.
That said, I know there are true Protector Alphas truly worthy of devotion and worship. I don’t believe the current crisis of Masculinity will ever snuff out the true Kings. I say this because I know there are some around today, as there have always been. It’s simply a matter of these powerful Alpha Masters asserting themselves and forcing out the pretenders.
I’m really grateful to my brother for posing this issue, as well as his wonderful, strengthening endorsement of what I’m doing here. His life course and success as a faggot simply prove the truth of Hierarchy, and I’m so proud to serve alongside him!
This thread follows the experiences of Nick, a faggot who got the attention of his straight neighbor while listening to the Hierarchy Podcast, and his Alpha father Tom who is guiding his development as a faggot. CLICK HERE for all of the posts in this thread in chronological order!
Almost a year to the day ago I published an extraordinary story about a faggot named Nick I had been covering sitting down and talking with his Alpha father Tom about his faghood. You can read that original post by CLICKING HERE.
Nick is a brave faggot. Prior to this, as you might remember, he stood up to a confrontational neighbor who heard him listening to the Hierarchy Podcast, and even began serving that neighbor. But even that level of bravery is different than talking to one’s Alpha father about being a faggot.
As that linked article showed, not only did Nick’s Alpha father Tom understand Nick’s faghood, he’d always known that his son was a faggot. And then he imparted wonderful encouragement to Nick so that he could become the true faggot he was born to be. I don’t know if I’ve ever published anything quite as moving as that post.
But, like many people I cover, Nick disappeared over the last year and we lost touch.
However, Nick recently reached out to me again to give me some substantive updates on his personal situation, as well as his father Alpha Tom.
I deleted my old kik account when I left a master who was training me that was bad for me. I thought I needed some distance from things for a while. He wanted to stretch my pussy beyond repair, but not commit to owning me, and it got awkward. I didn’t want to go to such an extreme for someone who wasn’t that interested anyway.
A wise choice! But then Nick mentioned Alpha Tom.
But, I reached a new level of transparency with my dad. It got real honest lately. And I’ve made some decisions for myself, and I thought I’d share with you, I feel like I want to talk to someone about it all.
So, first, my dad has prostate cancer and it’s not looking great. So I’ve been making more of an effort to see him and get one on one time in. We kind of skirted around the subject of my faggotry the first couple of meetings, but today I met with him for breakfast and it all spilled out in the car. I don’t know if it’s because he’s sick or what, but we talked for a long time.
He basically flat out asked me if I’ve been true to myself and been fulfilling my role in service. It took me by surprise.
I didn’t answer right away when he grabbed my arm and told me “boy, when I ask you a question you answer it.”
So I told him I haven’t really, that I had a failed relationship with someone. And he was disappointed.
And he asked me, “boy, how long have you been at this? How are you fulfilling your life? I want you in line before I’m gone” and I started crying and told him absolutely everything. I told him my history, From my first time at 13, to my experiences away at college and as I cried he comforted me, it felt good to let it all out.
But he told me some things he wants from me and goals for me, and one of them is to be more active in a faggot/alpha community.
My dad is amazing. I have always admired him but this is a whole new level.
I have agreed to give my dear brother Nick an opportunity on this site to detail some of what he told his Alpha father, and hopefully we will get some of his feedback as well.
Also, I’m going to have Nick on an upcoming episode of the podcast. It seems fitting in a way, given that we came to know each other by him playing the “Breeding” episode of the podcast a little too loud.
I’m sad to hear that a beacon of just and noble Hierarchy like Alpha Tom might leave us too soon. But what he gave his beloved son is a gift of incomparable value. He has essentially given his son life twice.
He gave Nick life, and then gave Nick permission to live it.
So keep your eyes open for updates on this returning story!
This thread follows the experiences of Nick, a faggot who got the attention of his straight neighbor while listening to the Hierarchy Podcast. CLICK HERE for all of the posts in this thread in chronological order!
When I began chronicling the faggot Nick’s startling service opportunity with a straight neighbor by using the Hierarchy Podcast as an introduction, I mentioned that I had another story involving Nick. I pushed it aside (as it wasn’t ready yet) so I could accurately cover the rapidly-developing events with the neighbor, but I always intended to get back to it.
This is that other story. It’s a rather melancholy (yet eye-opening) tale about Nick’s relationship with his Alpha Father Tom.
When Nick first contacted me, he wanted my guidance on how to submit to his Alpha Father Tom. I didn’t think this was a particularly good idea for many obvious reasons, and did my best to discourage him.
However, Nick could not be deterred. He was fueled by family gossip stories about his father using faggots in the past.
I found out a lot of history about him from my aunt when she was drunk one night. He cheated on my mom a lot, always took what he claimed was his and was his right. And she let slip that he had several submissive men in his pocket for regular affairs over the years too. He knows what he wants, what he deserves and how to get it. It was pretty much spelled out for me without going totally explicit. I know he cares and wants what’s best for me so I want to build anything around that.
So I thought it might be better if Nick talked to his father and see where he’s at on these issues before completely submitting to him. So Nick agreed to talk to him, and so they met up for a conversation.
A FATHER’S INTUITION
I met with my dad this morning and it went OK. He managed to say enough to me to get his points across without explicitly spelling it out. He basically told me yes he had faggots on the side and he knows he’s an alpha and I’m definitely not without using the exact words. I approached him very submissive with my speech and body language and told him I knew I was not like him, that he was a man’s man and I was happy finding my place as the flip side of the coin.
He got quiet and really serious and told me he had known I was like this for a long time and for a long time was disappointed I wasn’t a man and was also scared about how that could go for me. That’s why he brought me up trying to drill the contrary advice to what makes me a good faggot in the end. He was concerned how I would find myself.
I managed to get the courage to ask him about his past a bit. I asked him “you know a lot Sir, do you have first hand knowledge of people like me?” and that’s when he got a little elusive with his language. He basically admitted that in the past he got what he wanted and did what he wanted with who he wanted that the past was more his business but that I should trust his wisdom and experience.
He’s happy I’ve fallen into line and expressing myself thusly and less worried now that I’m my own adult. but he is content now with my step mom and whatever he’s got going on. When I paid for the food he just said. “right, good boy” and it felt good.
While it wasn’t everything he hoped the conversation might be, Nick was fairly content with the answers he received.
A little relieved and let down at the same time. He made it pretty clear the discussion was over and he didn’t seem like he wanted it picked back up. Just to kind of give me the nod and say, carry on. I would have liked for more intimate info and experiences but it went better than I thought it could.
I was relieved it went that well. I know a conversation like that could never happen with my father. I really admired Nick’s tenacity in the hunt for answers about his elusive Alpha father.
Then the podcast thing happened with the neighbor, and the story about the father temporarily derailed.
But recently Nick spent more time with Alpha Tom, and there Nick found out deeper and more startling information.
I had another conversation with my dad I thought might be worth sharing with you. We got more candid about the topic of subtle training, it ties into my history with him. We started talking about how I’m happier now and relationships and fulfillment and I told him I think I understand what he was thinking when he tried to raise me, and what I really am. I asked him if he knew if he was ashamed of me growing up and he told me he wasn’t that he knew I wasn’t a manly person and that even though it didn’t seem always seem like he believed it or encouraged it that he wanted me to feel content with who I am, just safe. I mentioned that the opposite of a lot of what he went about was the perfect advice and he sort of chuckled and told me he just wanted me safe but he thought he fed me correct info too and he brought up some ways he also sort of trained me to be submissive I sort of forgot about and he was right.
Looking back he did sort of feed me good instructions to be a faggot, but in more subtle ways. He asked me if I had found a man to fill my place with and I told him, “a little, but it’s over now” and he told me, “good boy, I hope you find some more.” He brought up training things around posture, politeness, how to look for people, how to “get small” as he called it.
“Get small” … I LOVE THAT!
He was right though. He taught me to look out for alphas, how to posture myself, how to talk with them, and all that and I never really realized to what extent. I always keep my hands folded behind me, address men politely, and go out of my way for them. He taught me real men are worth the most.
Incredible!
But then Nick had another conversation with his aunt (Alpha Tom’s sister), and she provided even more insight into Alpha Tom’s mysterious past.
THE HISTORY OF ALPHA TOM
I got my aunt drunk and she told me a bit more about my dad’s history, and it’s kinda hot, lol but I still don’t think he wants me like that. But things make sense. Well, the two of them are really close in age and get a long well. They lived together as younger adults and through college so she figured him out easily. She told me he’s never been a one partner person. That he’s never been fulfilled. She’s seen men and women come and go and that the men were always very passive. That she once overheard him go at it. He had faggots up until my younger sister was little. She saw the same one around him for years when they lived together. That he was a classmate that he was “friends” with first but the guy transformed around him eventually.
CONCLUSION
I have been blessed to cover a number of stories involving Alpha fathers raising faggot sons. They never fail to touch me. I guess it’s because I’ll always wonder and never know what my father (who’s not Alpha, but probablysub-Alpha) understood about me being a faggotas a kid.
But this story really hit me in the heart because you can feel a weight of disappointment from Alpha Tom, but alsothe responsibility he felt to try and help his faggot son in whatever way he could.
Ultimately, this great and wise Alpha did the best he could, and he should be proud of the faggot Nick has become today!
Do you think it’s possible to be a faggot if the only submissive thing I do is findom? I’m not submissive in any way in real life, except I absolutely love – and feel it’s a purpose and duty of mine – to send money to straight men. I feel they deserve mine more than me.
Thanks for the question! Yes, of course you can serve as a faggot solely through findom.
But let’s be clear: the way you’re approaching findom is going to leave you only partially formed as a faggot. You’re treating findom, not as a means of fulfillment, but as a fetish. True faggots in findom are wholly devoted to serving a Master through financial means; it consumes their life and informs every decision they make. They aren’t treating Alphas like strippers in a seedy nightclub that exist to sexually stimulate the patrons. No, they’re serving these Men because they are actually superior.
I will add one more observation: your particular situation hints at deep self-loathing. You say you don’t feel submissive in any way in your everyday life, but you feel like straight Men deserve your money more than you do. So your emphasis isn’t on the fact that they’re superior, but rather because they’re STRAIGHT (which in your mind means superior). Don’t you see what that’s saying about your perspective about yourself?
I don’t mean to insult you at all. I actually said more than I intended to, but I felt like I needed to put that out there, too. I hope you understand.
It’s been an insane-yet-inspirational couple of weeks on the site because of the straight fathers who have approached me to ask about their minor sons who they suspect are actually developing faggots. What they are questioning about their children isn’t a form of child abuse, but rather a desperate desire to understand and help their children to grow up healthy, happy, and safe.
It is the highest form of father/son love imaginable.
I’ve had the occasional privilege to work with fathers who have had similar situations with sons before, but I’ve never seen such an onslaught of similar questions like I have recently. I’ve been intimately involved in the stunning success of two fathers, Sir Pietro and Sir James, in their attempts to reach and help their faggot sons. I’ve started helping another anonymous father in the “Questions From Readers” section as well.
Then, just yesterday, I was contacted by an Alpha father named Wade who had listened to my podcast episode about Sir James and his son Jamie and reached out to me for help with his 14-year-old son.
This is what he said to me:
Hello there. I am a concerned father and hope you can spare some time to chat. I found out recently that my son is gay. Of course I still love him and want the best for him but I was just trying to understand his situation a bit better. As I was looking up resources, I found your podcast, “a straight father’s love”.
Please excuse me for asking this, I just want to be sure – is what you’re talking about in your podcast sincerely true or is this a fetish thing for gay men? I was always under the impression that “faggot” was a derogatory term. But is it really true that some gays are faggots? I’m sorry again and I hope you understand my dilemma. I’d much rather my son be an alpha like his old man. I don’t want him to get hurt. He’s still my little boy. But I think he might fit the “faggot” category more. Any thoughts or resources for me?
I was taken aback by Alpha Wade’s thoughtfulness after so many years of dealing with rude, tough-talking Alphas on the other side of computer screens. Alpha Wade reminded me more of the straight Alphas I’ve served in the past.
So after reassuring him that this was not a fetish, but very real (and explaining the use of the word “faggot”), Alpha Wade continued:
I see. In that case, it would be best to let him develop and express faggot behavior in a safe way, correct? I wonder if I need to have a sex talk with him. I only had a basic one earlier.
I have another concern. On your site and podcast you talk about chastity devices. Is this really necessary for a faggot? Should my son be in one?
I was extremely impressed by Alpha Wade’s detail-oriented approach to the development of his son. I explained to him that chastity can be a very important part of a young faggot’s development. I then directed him to some of the resources here on the site, and especially pointed out Sir James’s amazing success with Jamie.
To my surprise, Alpha Wade had already been reading about it!
I saw that! That made me curious. If there are truly benefits to it, I will consider putting my son in one too. I want the best for him. If it helps him become a better faggot and attract higher quality men, I’m all for it.
I could’ve fallen out of my chair. In fact, I nearly started crying. The fact that this Alpha, obviously a Protector Alpha at heart, wants to do whatever he can to help his little boy just really hit me hard.
I think I’m going to have a talk with him tomorrow, a heart to heart where he can confess it all to me. And I’ll give him all the love and support he needs to reveal himself to me. Any tips on breaking that barrier? He might be hesitant to reveal that he’s a faggot. But I wanna hear it from him or at least make him realize it so we can have full honesty and trust.
Thank you, Sam. I will keep you posted on how it goes. Thanks for being a resource for fathers like me. I never thought I’d be saying this but I hope I can help my son be the best faggot he can be.
I cannot tell you how overwhelming it is to meet great Men like Alpha Wade or these other fathers. Young faggots are very exposed and frightened – I know, because I was once that scared faggot, too. I wish like hell I could’ve had a father like Alpha Wade in my life to guide me and give me a sense of self-worth. His little boy is going to be a strong and confident faggot for sure!
Overall, I can see the paradigm shifting in real time. True Alphas like Alpha Wade are leading the way to an acceptance of faggots as a recognized and valued part of our world.
Hierarchy is the First Law. It’s time that we start living our lives as a reflection of that Truth. It all starts with our youths … and their fathers.
Master Brandt (@BrandtsBoys) was a college Alpha who parlayed his experiences using faggots into a hugely successful porn franchise. It’s currently one of the most-trafficked porn sites in all of gay porn.
Master Brandt himself has taught multiple Alphas how to use faggots over the years, teaching them how to dominate and use them properly.
Master Jordan is one such Alpha protege of Master Brandt’s teaching. Over the years, Master Jordan has become quite enthusiastic about faggot worship and service.
This scene here is something more Alphas would do if the use of faggots was more widespread. Faggots would be the servants and cum/piss dumps for the Alphas enjoying a football game.
If Master Brandt has his way, that’ll be reality sooner than later!
Sam, I was coming home on a plane from Thanksgiving and at the gate waiting for my flight I saw a father with his 16 year old son. This kid was beautiful — a short fire plug – built like a high school wrestler or gymnast — definitely a jock — but a total pretty boy. A mop of thick black hair framing a ridiculously handsome face that bordered on pretty. Perfect porcelain skin too.
He had on big headphones and was wearing only a blue T shirt, grey sweats and sneakers. But he was built — big jutting jock butt, muscular arms and torso. He radiated a kind of swagger mixed with arrogance that you could tell he was popular at school.
Anyway, I was trying not to stare. (I’m not even into young dudes, I go for older manly alphas) but I was fascinated (and I guess turned on) by how this kid looked and carried himself. I was trying not to stare but at one point he caught me looking. He instantly looked away but something must have registered w/ him because a moment later he looked back at me to see if I was looking. I was. An odd kind of smirk crossed his face. And what happened next kind of astounded me. He started casually stretching — like when you warm up for the gym. Rolled his neck, stretched his back out. At one point he stuck out his ass, as if he were stretching out his quads – his big bubble butt straining in his sweats right near me. He didn’t look at me. At one point he lifted his T shirt as if absent mindedly scratching his stomach — revealing perfect 6 pac abs. He even flexed his bicep a few times, as if checking them out for himself. I thought I was going to die. It was all done so casually but I couldn’t help feeling he was doing this for my viewing, That he knew I thought he was hot and he was putting on a bit of a show. While we were on line to board, he did look back at me once more before he turned away. We didn’t sit near each other but in baggage claim he looked at me a couple times across the luggage carousel. His look was direct now, harder, as if the fact that he would never see me again made it safer. It seemed to me that his look was now saying something like “Faggot. I know you’re a faggot. You think I’m hot, don’t you faggot?”
It all left me breathless for all the obvious reasons but also it got me thinking – Alphas don’t just materialize out of nowhere at 21! At 15, 16, maybe even younger, these kids have to know who they are, know the score in some sense, don’t you think? Any thoughts on this?
YES, Alphas absolutely know who and what they are at a young age. Not all of them are as worldy-wise as this Alpha, but they know they are different. This is why I have always said that Alphas are BORN THAT WAY.
They also LOVE the attention from ANYONE, especially at that age. They’re just learning about the great power they have and the power that comes with their sexual presence, so they like to use it in ways like this kid did in order to see how sexy they really are.
When you’re that young and good looking and built, you receive more than the usual attention and the compliments of adults and it goes to your head a little bit. You start to realize how certain things you do turn people on and make them melt; it’s like discovering you have super powers. And these behaviors of manipulation you’re learning become a way of life.
I have a couple of classic examples of this. Corey Haim and Justin Bieber were both ridiculously good-looking at age 15. And they learned that certain things they did turned girls on and made even adults swoon; Haim had that lip-curling smile, Bieber had that shy-pout. And they just grew up knowing how to control people to get what they want.
But again, they were born Alpha … but then that Alphahood is molded and shaped by their interactions with others and their reactions to those interactions. Who knows how many girls and faggots that young airport Alpha had teased and seduced before he used his power on you, but it’s safe to say he did know what you are. He was born to know.
Hi Sam, how are you doing? I’m from Brazil, 32 years old, and I’ve been a long-time follower of your site (FWA). After your absence, I noticed the site went down, and honestly, I was devastated… it was a true oasis of information and content about the Hierarchy for me. It was the first site where, when I read it, it became crystal clear to me what I truly was: a submissive faggot.
To my joy, this week I “rediscovered” that the address has changed, but you’re back! Welcome back!
I’ve always thought about writing to you, and today I finally took the initiative.
You know, Sam… I’ve always admired virile, masculine men. I rarely have sex with other gay men, as my arousal comes from being used by a brute specimen (and the gay men I know rarely are). I have a normal life, I’m not out, but whenever I can, I go to certain gas stations (popular with truckers spending the night) and bars (I look for the ones with a higher proportion of men). In these environments, I easily find the kind of man that excites me: rough, rugged, ogre-like, macho, virile, and most of the time, needing a hole to stick their cock in and have some fun.
I don’t have mannerisms or a voice that easily identifies me as gay, but in these environments, I always try to wear tight jeans that really show off my huge, round ass. I get absolutely ecstatic watching the men there looking at me curiously. Some even try to approach me. Sometimes a simple conversation happens. But my biggest difficulty, Sam, is getting them to realize what I truly am – without exposing myself to too much risk – in these environments. Would you know how to help me?
Thank you so much,
From your big Brazilian admirer.
Brother thank you for writing and for your support over the years!
I wish I could say there is some copy/paste solution to your question. It’s not difficult to chat with an Alpha (even though you might feel nervous) and help him to see things in a new light (including you).
Be complimentary, particularly about his body. Doing this helps him focus on his sex appeal. Then steer the conversation toward questions about Hierarchy in order to help him start thinking about his place within it. Simply ask him: “Do you consider yourself to be Alpha?” This is a seemingly-innocent question, but it’s loaded implications about his own self-worth and power. From his answer to that question, it’s relatively easy to begin a discussion about Hierarchy in general.
Other methods involve buying him something you know he wants or can use, like supplements for workouts, or a new briefcase, or whatever. Or ask him to get a drink or got to dinner, where you would pay.
I’m just spitballing here, because much depends on the situation.
I don’t know if you read that recent experience I published here where a faggot used my “Letter To An Alpha” to score with an Alpha. I’ve also written a book “May I Serve You Sir?” that’s designed to be given to Alphas.
I’ve created tools for a reason. It just takes a faggot willing to TRY and use them. That’s my advice to you: TRY.
Hey brother, I served a man for a few months and he decided to turn me into his boyfriend. I accepted and moved in to serve him 24/7. I’ve been very happy serving him so far. I cook, clean, do the laundry, and suck his dick every single day. But there’s one thing that bothers me. He loves giving me presents: flowers, clothes, new IPhones, fancy dinners, international trips etc. He always pays for everything. I told him that he doesn’t need to, but he always says that his father taught him to be a Real Man and Real Men must provide their girls with everything they want. How can I show him that I am not his girlfriend? I am his faggot and I should be paying for his things, not the other way around. I want him to own my bank account, and instead he doesn’t stop giving me extra money to buy clothes and look sexy for him. I already showed him this website and even explained what findom is, but he continues to say that he has a dick and balls, so no fag or girl will ever pay 1 cent for him. My guess is: He had 3 relationships with women and they took advantage of his generosity, I am his first faggot, so I think he’s struggling to understand the difference between me and the other spoiled girls who took thousands of euros from him.
Brother, I think this is a first. I’ve never had a faggot write to me upset that their Alpha won’t stop lavishing them with gifts!
I don’t mean to tease you, but you know it does sound a little weird. However, I do understand your issue. I have a TERRIBLE time accepting ANY gifts from people. I prefer to get my stuff myself, and I HATE asking for help. It’s especially hard to receive gifts from our Alphas, for the reasons you mention in your question.
However, there are some incredible Alphas out there who truly value their subs/faggots. If they have the means (as your Alpha apparently does), they will spend ridiculous amounts of money on what is essentially their servant.
You must keep in mind he is not trying to buy you, or guilt you into service. He genuinely cares about you and is grateful that you serve him and submit to him. Some Men struggle to express those things in words, so they speak them in gestures and gifts.
And “express” is an intentional word here, because he is expressing a real desire in his heart. He NEEDS to express these things, because he WANTS TO.
Here’s a little story from my life: My first real Master was a straight Alpha named Aaron, and I was unworthy to lick the impressions of his feet in mud. Inside, I felt absolutely unworthy of his every compliment, his every tender gesture. Then one weekend I had to fly out of the country, and I was petrified of flying. I also hated leaving Master Aaron unattended. But I went anyway (of course). When I returned, there were a dozen red roses on the kitchen table and a note from Master Aaron telling me how proud he was of me. And I broke down and cried.
There are truly astounding Alphas out there who want to show their faggots that they’re valued. It’s important to THEM to do that.
Your job as this Alpha’s faggot is to please him and make him happy, right? That’s what you want to do, right? Well then, stop complaining about his gifts. It makes him happy to do these things for you. He WANTS to do these things for you … he NEEDS to do these things for you. Deeply appreciate your good fortune to be owned by such a powerful, successful, and tender Alpha! Kiss his feet every day and thank him for his benevolent and merciful kindness in allowing you to serve. Make him feel like the King he is!
(BTW, if he has an extra grand or two lying around, ask him to send it my way! I could use the help!)
Hi Sam–I’ve been exclusively owned by a straight alpha for several years now. Sexual service is rare, and I sometimes feel myself yearning to serve other men. At the same time though, I feel deep, true loyalty to my owner. I plan to be his boy for life.
I’ve discussed my feelings with him, and he doesn’t mind if I talk to other guys too. I still feel guilty about it though. It’s like these dueling feelings inside me.
My question is this: is monogamy unnatural for fags? Can I casually serve men while still remaining loyal to my original alpha?
So let me get this straight: you have been in a service relationship with a straight Alpha for YEARS and you didn’t bother to tell me this story??? REALLY??? Do you have a confidentiality agreement with him, or did you have a stroke while writing to me? I think that story would be of INCREDIBLE VALUE TO A PLANET FULL OF FAGGOTS, don’t you think? I’ll be expecting your story written in an email to this email address ASAP: hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com
In the meantime, your question:
Faggots are generally (and notoriously) not monogamous UNLESS they are caged and are fed/bred regularly by a dominant Master. Since you’re not getting that regularly, your thoughts tend to follow your hunger.
As far as servicing other Alphas and still being loyal to your Owner … clearly that is not loyalty, right? And bear in mind that your Owner told you he doesn’t mind you talking to other guys … does that mean just talking, or talking and servicing?
I’m not a typical faggot when it comes to this. I had a 3-4 year period after my first Alpha Roger dismissed me when I was a faggot whore, but then I started finding myself being owned and I found loyal monogamy to one Master at a time suited my view of my place better. I’m definitely even more inclined toward monogamy now that I’m locked in chastity.
It sounds like you have an incredible straight Owner (I’m guessing since I haven’t yet received your description of him and his Ownership of you), and I would hate for you to ruin or endanger things with him simply because you can’t control yourself. But again, that’s my current mindset speaking.
Hey Sam love your site I’ve been a fan for years and you d helped me accepted my faghood -I was was wondering if you could share the story about master Eddie with us it sounds incredibly hot and intriguing I know you haven’t gotten a message from him since but can you tell us fags how you spoke to him and got his number-I would love to have your skills and confidence to do that especially given he was married thank you
I’ll write up a brief synopsis for now, since I don’t know where it’s headed yet.
I had a store-based sales job (which I have since quit to level up my pay substantially) when Eddie, his wife, and their two small kids came in. Technically, they weren’t my customers, but Eddie was hot and intense looking and I started chatting them up.
But there was something between Eddie that immediately clicked. He mentioned that he had built his own house himself. I complimented him on this and began remarking that Men don’t do those kinds of things anymore (and he heartily agreed). At this point his wife too the kids to shop while we meandered together and talked. That led to me talking to him about the lack of real Men, which I then led into a discussion about Hierarchy. When I reasoned with him about Hierarchy, he was nodding and saying things like “yeah, I see what you mean”. I then told him that he’s obviously Alpha – and he immediately agreed. Then he began to tell me about being in the Marines (bingo!) and the examples of Alphahood he saw there. Then he asked me where I was in Hierarchy, and I told him I was a “slave male”. This made him laugh, and I jokingly said “But I don’t have an owner right now … I guess I’m a runaway slave”. That made him laugh again. As they were getting ready to leave, he asked for my phone number.
We’ve texted a few times since then, but with the holidays it’s just not easy to get time for even meeting up for a beer. We shall see! But it’s really just that easy, guys.
Me gusta cuando un Alfa me pisotea, me golpea, me abofetea, me aprieta, me ríe y me humilla.
Cuando compara la polla y usa la suya para lastimarme.
¿Por qué hay tanta alegría en un Alfa y en una Bandera?
¿Qué demonios es Dom? ¿O es un instinto?
¿A más maricones les gusta eso?
Translated:
I like it when an Alpha tramples me, hits me, slaps me, squeezes me, laughs at me and humiliates me. When he compares cock and uses his to hurt me. Why is there so much joy in an Alfa and a Bandera? What the hell is Dom? Or is it an instinct? Do more faggots like that?
Thank for the question. Yes, faggots like to be abused and humiliated because many of them are ashamed of themselves and want to be reminded of that. You are not alone in this. There are many faggots who feel the same way. Thank you!
Gracias por la pregunta. Sí, a los maricones les gusta que abusen y humillen porque muchos de ellos se avergüenzan de sí mismos y quieren que se lo recuerden. No estás solo en esto. Hay muchos maricones que sienten lo mismo. ¡Gracias!
Hello! I don’t even know if I’m supposed to be here, but I’m a woman and nothing turns me on more than strong man fucking a weaker male. My BF is a total alpha, he could easily fuck my pussy 3 times a day if I allowed it. I really want to bring a sub man for him to fuck, that’s my biggest fantasy in life. But every time I mention it he immediately refuses. Do you think is there any way for maybe convincing him of using faggots for me to watch? Or should I just keep playing with my dildo while watching gay porn?
First of all, congrats on snagging a true straight Alpha! I know lots of females wish they could experience being taken by our most powerful Men, so I’m sure your female friends are envious of you!
This might surprise you, but this is not the first time I’ve had females come here asking a question like yours. I’m sure there is a convoluted psychological explanation for why straight females want to see their Alpha dominate an inferior male or a faggot. I really think it’s as simple as this: EVERYBODY is in awe of an Alpha’s power, and we ALL love to experience them using it. I have no doubt you get turned on when your Alpha boyfriend gets in a fight at a bar, or defends you from creeps when you’re out somewhere. Alphas who use their power to control, police, and protect the world we live in are awe-inspiring to inferiors, and that turns us on. It’s primal.
Your boyfriend probably won’t admit it, but lots of straight Alphas use faggots. I know this because doctors have studied this, and I have chronicled A LOT of experiences over nine years of doing this. Also, most of the Alphas who’ve used or owned me in my fag career were straight.
So if they’re straight, why do they use faggots? Because of the POWER they feel when they use them. It’s easy for an Alpha to subjugate a female, because they are supposed to be submissive. But seeing a male kneeling and submitting its manhood and everything it is for his pleasure and use … that’s an entirely different type of power.
Additionally, an Alpha can be much rougher and more aggressive with a faggot than he can with women. That matters when talking about Alpha power.
There may not be a way to help him see that he’s not going to turn gay if he throat fucks a faggot (better watch out, though – faggots suck dick better than you do!), but there are resources here to help you talk to him about this in a more educated way:
In the right sidebar of this site there is a graphic link “Straight Men Using Faggots” with tons of quotes from real straight Alphas who use or own faggot cocksuckers. It might open his eyes to read that.
Also, by following THIS LINK you’ll find a bunch of articles I’ve written about this very topic. One of the first articles has multiple videos in it featuring doctors explaining that gay sex does not change a straight Man into a gay one.
If you’d like, I am willing to talk to him as well. My email address is hierarchyuniversity@gmail.com.
Thanks again for writing! I certainly hope we can help him find new avenues for his natural-born power!
This is Ryan 23 years old. I met a straight alpha during covid randomly on grindr and met him and he wanted me to give him hand job as he talks dirty and kicked me our with cum face. It was my first time being a slave. Since then i have been doing the same every week till yesterday. Only once he let me suck his cock for an hour with condoms on. I have begged many times to control me and use me. I also offered to do his house chores and be his slave but he dont respond for it or just says i need more training before i become that slave. My question to you is: how to have him use me and become his slave? 3 years of handjob and getting kicked out with cum face doesn’t seem to please him enough to use me? Your thoughts on this? Please and thanks
Ryan, thank you for writing!
There are no easy answers to this situation. You can’t make a straight Alpha do anything he’s not yet comfortable to do. And we don’t know the circumstances that make him uncomfortable. It could be some bad experience in his past, a phobia, whatever. Neither one of us know him well enough to diagnose it.
I will suggest this: he probably has a girlfriend or wife at home (and maybe kids), which is likely one reason why he won’t use you in other ways, and also why he’s been so secretive. The discovery of this situation with you might completely unravel his life, and I’m sure he doesn’t want that (and neither do you).
The simple fact is that some straight Alphas are only going to take things to a certain point, and no more. However, you might be able to coax him into a little more during the times you are with him. Try offering to massage his feet, for example. Perhaps make him some food and get him drinks. Try these little things so he will see you exist to serve him, not harm him. He needs to see you as more than just a handjob machine.
But I wouldn’t push him much harder than that. If you really need to get fucked or get used, I’d find another Alpha for that.
Findom Alpha @cashgodMatt is a bearded, brutal, and demanding faggot trainer. He has no problem locking faggots I’m very small chastity cages and reducing their genitalia to skin tags. He devises torturous, SAW-like torture contraptions.
And he loves piss.
Of course, most Alphas do. It’s a primal marking technique, plus it amuses them to no end.
Master Matt’s fag here is given a mouthful of piss, and I thought for sure it was going to spit it out … but the faggot swallows at the very end. Good boy!
Yeah yeah I know how you think straight guys won’t ever fuck faggots.
Whatever.
Virtually every Alpha I’ve served was 100% straight. A vast majority of the Alphas I’ve serviced were straight. And the avalanche of true stories covered by me and THE INTERNET confirm that straight Alphas DO use faggots.
Hey Sam, I know this will sound weird but I promise I’m not a fake not I’m trying to joke with you.
I am 19 years old and it’s very clear for me that I was born to fuck and breed. I see myself as bisexual and I really like girls and femboys. My problem is: I have a really thick dick and I hardly ever find femboys willing to take it. They usually like to suck it and jerk me off, but when I try to fuck and breed them, they give up. My best friend is straight and he says that I should just fuck girls because their pussy is easy to open and stretch, but girls are even worse, they’re too picky for a hook-up and their blowjob is usualyl much worse. My question for you is: is it that hard to find a sexy femboy twink able to take a really thick dick in their boypussy? In real life out of porn how many fags can actually take a big dick without crying about it? I’ve considering to look for older fags with more experience and loose holes, but I’m really into twinky femboys.
I haven’t fucked for two months, I always end up jerking off to porn cuz I know that fags around my age on Grindr will probably give up on taking my cock. They get excited when I send pictures but they give up once they look at it in person.
I know it might sound funny or a weird thing to complain about but I feel really bad for being unable to have an active sexual life. It’s very frustrating and depressing. Can you please share your thoughts on my problems!
Thanks!
Sir, I really appreciate this question and I sympathize with your plight. While I’m sure every guy reading your question is jealously whining, saying, “Why’s he bitching about THAT?” I know this can be a huge issue (pun intended) for well-hung Alphas like yourself. It’s especially hard when you’re 19 years old, and everyone in your peer group is young, tight, and relatively inexperienced.
While it’s true that vaginas are better designed to handle larger cocks, they’re unfortunately are attached to FEMALES who, as you mention, whine and complain too much (and certainly can’t suck you off properly).
Faggots are most certainly the solution to your issue. Faggots are service-oriented and easily commanded. However, my advice to you is to take ownership of one or two faggots (those femboys you like will work for this) and then take the time to work with them so that they will be able to take your dick.
Here’s an exercise I’d like you to consider using on these faggots, Sir: https://hierarchyuniversity.com/caged-jock-how-to-stretch-a-fags-hole/
The chopstick method for stretching a faggot’s hole (I suppose it could be employed on a vagina, also) is one of the most brilliant methods for slowly increasing the width as well as the tension of the faggot’s pussy.
Once properly stretched (and fucked/bred) insert a large buttplug into the hole to keep it open (and to keep your cum inside it) so that the hole doesn’t fully close up.
I believe this will create fuckable holes you can count on again and again whenever you need to breed. Not only that, but you’ll be creating faggots tailor-made to your specifications and needs, so they will be YOUR faggots that you can use in any way you need. I think you’ll find these faggots useful as you grow into your life as an Alpha, Sir.
Side note: Invest in high-quality water-based lube (I recommend Gun Oil, but you might have a favorite) and don’t skimp on it when you’re fucking. You want to make sure the fuck holes you’re creating don’t get damaged from powerful rutting.
I really hope this helps, Sir. I hate to see Alpha like you go without simply because Nature blessed you more than most! Please let me know if I can be of further assistance! Thank you, Sir!
