This post is part of a thread about a faggot called Prath who bravely sought to serve a straight local Alpha. CLICK HERE to read all of these posts in chronological order!

I feel like I have spent nine years preaching one thing continuously: faggots must take action if they want to be fulfilled.

A faggot cannot be fulfilled jerking off to porn, snorting poppers, playing games in chatrooms, living a heterosexual lie, or a million other stupid things they do instead of the one thing they must do: SERVE MEN.

It’s not hard to understand. If you have a critical, life-changing test to take, you simply cannot binge-watch television, get drunk/high every night, or be distracted at all. You actually need to buckle down, stop procrastinating, and do the study needed to pass the test.

For a faggot, serving an Alpha is that life-changing test. And most faggots are failing that test in the most pathetic ways.

I am a faggot who has lived my fag life boldly. I have relentlessly pursued service almost all of my adult life, and I’m happier and more fulfilled because of it. So from my vantage point, I can clearly see the path to the Promised Land for the rest of you to follow.

Sadly, so many fail to listen and remain lost.

But every so often a faggot listens to what I teach and my advice and puts it into practice, and with remarkable regularity the faggot SUCCEEDS!

One recent example is a faggot I’ll call Prath. When Prath first encountered me and my teaching on Hierarchy, it had the ring of truth. He recognized he was born to be a faggot. He asked me to help him, which I gladly did. However, I figured Prath would end up like the other scared, do-nothing faggots who ask for help.

Then I received this message:

Hey sam, Prath here. I would like to know how should I convince a local alpha guy and about hierarchy? Yes he is one of my coworker, he has a good body with bully personality. He always seeks attention etc. I didn’t noticed it before but from the 6 months I noticed that I have been getting changed about him. I am a team leader of 5 people team so I am at the status who always demands respect but around him i feel timid and different.

I replied this way:

You need to get into a conversation with him where you can ask him if he considers himself to be Alpha, then ask why he feels he’s Alpha. Then discuss Hierarchy.

So Prath said:

Once I was talking to him about gym and alphahood he was naturally accepting it to the point of health, fitness and command. He becomes so casual in no time. It just he is not familiar about hierarchy. I am thinking of the ways for to talk about hierarchy with him.

So I advised him this way:

Well when you discuss Alphahood with him, get him to agree that he was born different than lesser males. Once you get him to agree with that, start discussing the lower levels of the Hierarchy.

Specifically ask him if he feels like lesser males should follow his lead and obey him/serve him.

So some time passed, and I grew pessimistic. Then a few days ago I received this message from Prath:

Hey sam, today I invited him for the lunch and drinks. I prepared lunch myself for him. I thought it is good to talk about hierarchy in private instead of public. He came on time. He was surprised that why would I invite him so suddenly for lunch but he did not show. He was so natural without any hesitation at all like he was in his home. I took normal topics to start during lunch then I slowly moved towards hierarchy and alphahood about his gym and all. He told me that he has been with many girls I was surprised but then I knew it was natural for alpha man.

As you told me to tell him about difference of a lesser man and alpha he was quite open to it and hesitated it a little but then put himself without hiding his thoughts about lesser male or alphas. I showed him your Twitter page and he was shocked to see this kind of scenario even exist. But then he glanced at me with a smile and asked me directly what I take him as?

I did not had words at that time I hesitated and then said “as an alpha” he said he knew that already. He said he caught me many times glaring at his bulge many times but did not mentioned to me.

OH MY GOD!

Can you believe the boldness of this excellent faggot? It’s wonderful to see! Prath actually went over and above what I suggested by preparing food and setting an inviting private place to discuss Hierarchy. Wonderful!

Prath continued:

Yes it just happened sam. I was not sure how would he react about my words but he had some idea already. He said he used to of such glares. It was not new for him and reaction of people. Even after my words he was calm and composed. He was not in hurry. He was all ears to my words and actions. After seeing your page and few other he said “no doubt I am an alpha but that doesn’t mean I will take you as fag or slave so simply” I was surprised by his reaction. And left me in that situation with a message after leaving that he will see my determination about being a fag for him.

Listen, faggots, there is no excuse. If this timid faggot can offer service to a straight Alpha, so can you!

All Prath did was take my advice (advice I know works because I use it myself) and put it into practice! Would it have been the end of the world if the Alpha rejected him outright? Of course not!

But the Alpha DIDN’T reject him! Far from it! Now Prath has a terrific opportunity to find fulfillment!

You have access to the same tools Prath had. You have me, my advice, and the information here on the site and social media accounts.

Just DO SOMETHING WITH IT!

I’m hoping for some input on something that has been happening for me for years now. Since high school, like when I was 15 or 16, whenever I watched someone do something for me, I felt a weird pleasurable sensation going throughout my body. I’m 21 now, and that has never changed.

I’m bringing this to attention now because it has been a while since it happened. In one of my practical classes, I was struggling with something on my computer, and called the teacher over. I let him sit in my chair and he started doing that part of my work for me. And the sensation, it starts from my spine, to my head,, then settles in my gut before spreading through my entire body. I’ve never been able to understand it, and it gets me feeling drunk every time.

How it used to happen was, for example, in high school, I’d get one of my classmates to clean up a mess for me., and when I watch them do it, I’d get the exact same sensation.

So I’m wondering if you’ve ever heard of anything similar, or if this might have something to do with hierarchy?

Sir,

Thank you for writing to me! I see you sent the question into the website as well as in an email. I hope you don’t mind if I answer it on the site too, Sir. However, I wanted to give you personalized service.

I don’t think I’ve ever heard of this “pleasure from being served” described in such specific detail, Sir, but I love it. It’s causing you very noticeable pleasure, rather than a general feeling of well-being. It’s interesting, but I think maybe you just have a heightened sense of your body and its reactions.

You want to know if this has anything to do with Hierarchy – YES IT ABSOLUTELY DOES! It’s practically the DEFINITION of Hierarchy, Sir! 

It’s also evidence of something else, Sir: you’re a natural-born Alpha!

One of the most overlooked aspects of Alphahood is the need Alphas have to be served, worshiped, pleased. It’s as basic to an Alpha’s life as domination or power. Many people dismiss this need Alphas have to be served as selfishness, but that’s bullshit. People who think that way simply don’t understand inborn purpose.

Let me ask you, Sir: a male born into a royal family is a Prince, and he will eventually grow up to be a King, right? Would that Prince or King ever even contemplate a life of service?? Of course not! 

Alphas are natural-born Kings. YOU are a natural-born King, Sir. It’s a foreign concept to you that you should be performing tasks that inferior people should be doing for you.

So whenever these inferiors serve your needs, the pleasure you’re feeling is you experiencing FULFILLMENT OF PURPOSE! You were born to be served and worshiped, Sir. There’s nothing wrong with embracing that truth, Sir!

I don’t know if you consider yourself gay or straight (typically with Alphas like you it doesn’t matter as long as they’re submissive and service-oriented), but I honestly do think you should start taking true ownership of at least one faggot so that you might start really experiencing service the way you were born to receive it. The way you NEED it.

If you’re straight, don’t worry. Plenty of straight Alphas own and use faggots for sexual and non-sexual purposes. Why? Because the POWER they feel from being served turns them on and fulfills them! It’s not about sexuality at that point, just simply intoxicating power.

This has been a long answer, Sir, and I apologize if it’s too much. I just really wanted to clear up any confusion you might have. Alphas like you deserve to enjoy your power, especially when you’re young. I wanted to erase any doubts you might have about your purpose so that you can finally LIVE the life of a King.

Thank you for the extraordinary opportunity to serve you, Sir! Please feel free to write back here if you have any follow-up questions.

Yours,

sam the faggot

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Here’s the situation. I’m in college in a dorm situation (not co-ed). I used to have 3 roommates, but they all left, so now I have my room all to myself, so I have been wanting to fuck real bad.

Because of my situation, I don’t get to have sex with girls as much as I want to. And I hate getting on Grindr because the fags there have this annoying pride and think they’re worth shit. Real turn off.

The situation is that I’ve identified 2 timid guys on my floor that I want to turn into fags. But the thing is that I’ve sort of built up a reputation of being mysterious and uncaring, because I don’t bother to even acknowledge sometimes the guys on my floor, whilst most of them are friends.

The thing is that I’m known as someone who doesn’t even want to chat, so how do I make it clear to these seemingly straight guys that I want to cunt them? I don’t want a thing of, “Why is he suddenly talking to me?”

Mind you, I’ve never had a fag before. But I want to be able to fuck or be serviced whenever I want.

Thank you Sir for writing to me!

I can absolutely appreciate the urgency you’re likely feeling right now. Alphas have a definite need to fuck, especially at your peak age, so I have no doubt you’re pent up and ready to pounce.

So let me first underline a couple of things, Sir. As an Alpha, it is your RIGHT to take whatever you want. Inferior males will naturally submit to Alphas if the Alpha asserts himself.

Which leads to this next point: it doesn’t matter what your reputation is in the dorm. You sound like a Sigma Alpha (lone wolf), which might make some people cautious around you, but Sigmas get served just like any other Alpha. That shouldn’t hinder you.

As an Alpha, you need to look at other humans like they’re prey to some degree (and I think you’re already naturally doing that given how you’ve identified those timid males) and it’s simply a matter of you finding targets and boldly pursuing them.

In pursuing prey, you can be very aggressive, much bolder than you even imagine. I’ll give you an example: I was once contacted by a straight college Alpha named Jin who asked me if I thought his roommate Chin was a faggot. After he described his roommate’s behaviors, I guessed Chin was likely a faggot. Jin wanted to know what he should do, so I advised him to order Chin to his knees and tell Chin to kiss his feet, then pull out his cock and make Chin suck it. Jin did that, and it worked. So Jin claimed Chin as his faggot, locked Chin in chastity, and even started bringing Chin to soccer practice so Chin could serve him. This led to two other straight Alpha teammates wanting their own faggots and getting them … a wild two-year saga. Anyway, Master Jin still owns Chin to this day (five years later!).

So hopefully you understand just how bold you can be in taking possession of faggots you find “in the wild” Sir. You need to appreciate that most faggots live lives of denial, fear, and confusion, and it’s only by an Alpha forcing them to embrace their true purpose that a faggot can ever find fulfillment. That’s what happened with me at age 17 when my straight Alpha friend forced me to my knees and throat fucked me. I served him for a year after that, and by the time he was done with me (he’d fallen in love with a girl) I knew exactly what I was and I never looked back. That’s exactly what could be the case with one or both of these timid males, Sir.

I suggest that you choose one and try a little small talk with him. Watch his body language and eye contact for clues about his level of submissiveness. If you get signals, tell him to kneel and suck your dick. Or tell him you want him to come to your room because you need a blowjob. Whatever works. Just be assertive. Faggots can’t help but obey.

Just remember Sir: you were born to be worshiped and served, and faggots exist so you may have that. It’s your RIGHT. So take it!

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Hi Sam!!

FagBoi G here. This might be a bit long, but there is an ending to it.. hehe.

I’ve always known i was a faggot, from the time I was maybe 3/4 years old. I always knew there was a hierarchy, and I was at the bottom of the entire Pyramid, because I always watched and admired Boys and Men, the way they were just being absolute true Alphas at a very young age. That intimidated me and hence I couldn’t really ever become friends with them, as I would stare too much at the shorts or just be admiring their rugged masculine looks, especially if men with tight muscles and tight pants.

I always knew I wanted cock, even tho I wasn’t sure what it would be at that tender age. But I learnt.

Unfortunately growing up in a society where being gay and afag was an absolute NO, I had to hide this and grew up with a lot of insecurity. I pretended to be a top for many years, never really enjoying the role at all but I always thought it made me “less gay” than sucking a cock or getting fucked my a Man, no idea why.

A few years ago the urge was too thick. I met a man who inused to top, and we discussed me getting fucked for the first time by Him.he was kind and elderly and talked me thru the process. one night atHis place, after a few drinks and a smoke, he took me. And His first entrance was entire. 9.5″ and deep. I couldn’t breathe.. but I knew at that very moment, my true destiny and desire was finally met. Having a Man inside my Bussy was like seeing God.

I’m so glad for the experience, and I’ve worked hard on being more open with myself aiut my true desires, and have sound so much peace.mt toy collection is not embarassing hehee, which now gets me to my question.

Can a faggot like me , I’m preety straight acting in society, learn to signal to Alphas that I would be honoured to suck them off and help them unload , just to make them relax and get action whenever they want? I know straight men don’t get any from their wives, and I feel my role on earth is to serve Them, provide Their shafts with pleasure as often as possible.

How does one signal to Alphas in society at work, in a bar, at the airport etc, that I am a FAGGOT willing to serve him.

Sorry if this was too long drawn out! Love your work!

Cheers,

FagBoi G.

Thanks for the extensive background! You have plenty of experience already upon which to draw, which is very good. 

One thing faggots need to keep in mind is that most (if not all) Alphas recognize them at some level regardless of what the faggot might do. Now, Alphas might not register this on a conscious level until a faggot starts talking to them. But I can tell you for sure that Alphas sense this weakness like a predatory animal can smell blood. 

So it’s up to the faggot to “expose its throat” so to speak. This requires going out on a limb (unless you’re going to wear a shirt openly declaring that you’re a faggot, which I make). Be complimentary, be generous (as in offering to pay for things), and steer conversations toward the topic of Hierarchy. You can ask questions like, “Do you consider yourself to be Alpha?” which will typically open up an entire conversation about their Alphahood. Ask them how they knew. Ask them about their place in society, their responsibility. These are incredible questions that compliment him and also get him thinking about the difference between himself and lesser males. 

From there you steer him toward reasoning about those inferior males and how they can be/should be used. And at this point you can reveal your position as a slave male (leave out faggot for now) so he will start to see you in a new light. This will take root and grow. 

None of this is necessarily fast, although it can be. But anything good in life can take time.

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In my last podcast I discussed the startling true story of Master Andrés, a completely straight Alpha who has taken on a live-in faggot for sexual and domestic service much like Masters Matt, Jin, and Kyler and others have done. During the podcast, I used that story as a jumping-off point to discuss how important it is for faggots to take the initiative and risk to offer themselves to straight Alphas.

I received some interesting feedback from that story and podcast, but I received one comment in particular that didn’t necessarily have a great ending, but contained a valuable life lesson. Here’s what a faggot named Sergio said:

I really resonated with the end of this episode. I was a beta bitch to my Straight Alpha friend for many years, driving him around, buying his drinks at the bar, putting his needs first. I’ll never forget the day I got down on my knees and really offered him service. I came out of the fag closet and let him know I was his to use and abuse. He laughed. He told me to stop playing. I told him I was serious. He told me he wasn’t interested, he wasn’t gay, and he just wanted to be friends. I told him I knew he wasn’t gay. He declined my worship nonetheless.

We went back to the way things had been, him taking the lead and me following his subtle orders, but things quickly changed. I was serving as his foot stool, kissing his feet and drinking his piss straight from the tap within a few months of the first time I got down on my knees and let him know I was a faggot who lived to serve him and men like him. He wasn’t a violent Alpha, but from time to time he kicked me in my balls and laughed while I was on the floor screaming in pain. Whether it was worshipping his feet, drinking his piss, smelling his farts, serving as his footstool or ball torture, I always thanked him profusely for allowing me to serve. He’d just laugh and call me a fag.

It never became full sexual service, although I was almost always rock hard when serving him, but I was a happy fag driving my Alpha friend around, buying his drinks and serving as his comfort and his entertainment, and it all happened because I had the courage to offer him the service he deserved.

Bravo to Sergio for showing the courage to offer service to this Alpha, but even more props to him for continuing to service selflessly even after the Alpha rejected his greater, more intimate offer of service. The Alpha knocked him down, but Sergio recognized that the Alpha still deserved loyal service and worship! That’s the correct viewpoint!

This is what it takes: courage, humility, and resilience!

I’m always bewildered when Alphas approach me with the complaint that they cannot ever find a faggot or they don’t know where to look.

Sirs, there are faggots EVERYWHERE. All you need to do is exert dominance, and the faggots around you will naturally submit. It’s as if Alphas exist in an orchard full of faggot trees, and they merely need to pick the ripest faggots for use.

I was recently contacted by a straight Alpha named Chris, and he had an interesting question.

Hi, 25m Oklahoma here beginning to discover faggots and objects. Have some questions as an alpha. So Im in Oklahoma as I said which is pretty much cowboy territory. Anyway there’s a Cowboy Bar I hang out at And there’s a guy there whose job it is to shine the boots of the men that want them done. He comes around with a Box and sets up in front of you whether you’re sitting or standing. I’ve never really paid much attention to him when having my boots done but lately I’ve noticed He spends an unordinary amount of time on mine and squeeze is my toe a little bit when hes working also I’ve noticed he stares into my crotch a lot because hes pretty close to dick. Well I guess hes really staring into bulge. Anyway if you’re talking to women obviously You get aroused. Well that’s my point. He has to be a faggot right? I mean no self respecting man would do that job. I guess what I’m Trying to figure out is that is this somebody that should just be enslaved. I probably would just want to use him domestically you know laundry cleaning shining boots since hes obviously good at that period washing my truck. I’m not really interested in using him sexually . Is that OK?

I confirmed that this person was very likely a faggot. I also told him I thought he should claim this faggot. I said: “You could ask it – do you like serving Men this way?”

Alpha Chris said he was heading back to that bar the next night, and he would try to talk the faggot into serving him!

Today I heard back.

Dude thank you for the advice. That guy cleaned my apartment. He did such a good job that I had a woman over and she commented on how clean the place was. She was so impressed.

I asked Alpha Chris how he approached the faggot.

When he was working on my boots I asked him if he cleans homes for men as well as their boots and he said yes.

I asked Alpha Chris how he felt having the faggot serve him this way.

Oddly it makes me hard. Yea it made me rock hard.

So I began to explain that he now owns a domestic faggot and he should start creating a service schedule.

Next time I think I’ll have him do some laundry but honestly my laundry stinks from work and the gym. But I’m assuming that won’t matter to it. You know it’s odd there’s something really freeing about not having to worry about menial bullshit like cleaning and laundry like it gives me more time to work overtime or go to the gym to work on my body or hook up at the bar.

So in just a couple of days Alpha Chris, a completely straight Alpha, managed to find a faggot out in the wild, take control of it, and use it to his advantage! He’s now a Master!

And he owns his first domestic faggot, just like that!

If he can do it, SO CAN YOU!

Yo Sam, I’m Brian, a 19 year old Alpha. Came across this site only recently and then I saw your post about Master Jax and his situation resembles mine (partially).   Let me start from the beginning. So me and my brother (we’re both alphas, his name is Jason) are about 11 years old apart, so he’s currently 29. He was the one who introduced me to the hierarchy when I was 15. He brought home one of the guys he works with (he lives a separate city than our parents and I moved with him to continue my studies as the schools here are better). And to my surprise, he made the guy worship his feet and cock right there in the living room and told the guy to do the same to me. I’ll tell you, during the whole time he did not use the guy’s name and instead called him ”fag” and told me to do the same because ”fags” only purpose is to worship alphas like us. It felt amazing. That was the start of my interest in hierarchy and since then, me and my brother have had 2 live-in faggots (we had another one, but he moved away due to family problems) whom we use and enjoy whenever we want.   That brings me to my problem, for some time now I keep having these thoughts of fucking my brother and turning him into one of the fags as well. He\’s older than me, but we’re pretty much similar in height. I’m more on the wiry side whereas he’s more stocky and he has an amazing ass (like imagine two perfectly shaped butt cheeks). I could prolly control these urges if not for the fact that he’s naked almost the whole time he’s home. I use the fags we have almost all the time when I’m home, but when fucking them I imagine my brother. Is that weird? Like I know you’ve said before that you don’t agree with incest due to how destructive they can be but how do you get over it? You have had this site up for a long time now so you must’ve come across similar situation?

Master, thank you for writing to me! 
 
First of all, congratulations on your situation! You’re lucky to have had an Alpha brother who was so generous and considerate of you, someone who was wise enough to fully understand Hierarchy at a young age! The fact that you own live-in faggots together is truly a testament to your power and the truth of Hierarchy!
 
Yes, I definitely have come across similar situations as yours, Master. Whenever the power dynamics within families are combined with the natural power dynamics in Hierarchy, the results are often combustible. This is especially so when it involves Alphas, who are Kings in Hierarchy and are keenly aware of position.
 
I suppose you can try to get your brother to submit to you, Master, but it’s likely to be one hell of a fight. And if you lose … Well, you might not like how that turns out. You really need to decide how important it is that you dominate him, as opposed to ruling alongside him. 
 
As a faggot, submitting is natural for me. But for Alphas, it’s nearly unthinkable. In the case of your older brother, he’s the one who guided you to your own Alphahood. Do you really want to disrespect him that way? Do you really need to?
 
I hope you think hard about those questions, Master. You sound like a good Alpha, and I’m sure you’ll come to the right conclusions!

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As you might imagine, I hear lots of stories about faggots serving Alphas and the various encounters common when Men collide with sub males.

But this one pinged my interest because it was inspired by Master @DieselDerrick1, the super-sexy mixed straight Alpha I once featured on the podcast. Everyone in findom knows of my love for this dominant young King (who turns 21 on July 13th – HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MASTER!), so it should be no surprise why I’d want to post this experience from a faggot in New England.

I can see how you are smitten with DieselDerrick. Besides having a slamming body, he has a beautiful face and a wonderful personality. Four years ago, I got involved with a guy who looks very similar to him. I first met him when he was 18 and I tried to get involved with him but he said he was straight and not interested.

I lost touch with him for a couple of years and reconnected with him on social media when he was 24. He had did a short bid in jail and was living in his girlfriends house, but they weren’t getting along too well. He ended up asking me if I could help him with some court fines and he sent me a pic of himself totally naked, and of course he had a hammer on him.

I ended up picking him up and bringing him to my house and I sucked him off. He really liked it and admitted to me that he had been sucked off a couple of times by guys and was OK with it. He asked me how I knew that he might be receptive to it and I said that he was an alpha male type and alpha males do stuff like that.

After a couple of months of casual meets, he ended up breaking up with his girlfriend and needed a place to stay. I had to move in with me, and it was great for about five months until his drug use got in the way. He was not a true alpha male, or at least he wasn’t ready to be at his age. Things became acrimonious between us and I haven’t spoken to him since I had him leave.

Every time I see DieselDerek on Twitter I think about my former friend and how great things were before the drugs fucked everything up. There is nothing like having a stunningly good looking young man with a giant cock living with you.

That’s the thing about Master Derrick – he’s the straight stud who feels a bit dangerous, but you know would be so much fun to serve!

But the faggot neatly tied up a couple of lessons from the story above:

My hook up with him was a good example of a fag not giving up on a prospective alpha. After I first met him and was rejected, he was renting an apartment from my company I had to go to the apartment one day and guess who happen to be coming out of the shower with just a towel around his waist. He’s really a spitting image of diesel Derek and from the tight towel I could tell that he was gigantic.

When I was messaging him after we reconnected a few years later he didn’t come right out and say that he was down but I let them know the offer was still on the table. One day he texted me and I said I was up to my neck in work and he asked me if I wanted to be working with my neck, which I thought was hilarious and was a great way to break the ice about him allowing me to suck him off.

That afternoon I had him in my bed totally naked, And I sucked his giant cock like it was the only one in the world. If I could go back and do it all over again, I would use whatever resources I needed to get him off drugs. It’s really tough to submit to a young alpha who is all drugged up all the time.

Those are great lessons to learn! Be patient, be resourceful, be useful, and be resilient.

Oh, and don’t serve an Alpha on drugs.

As a fellow faggot I wanted to get your opinion on something. When I use apps for Doms to use me I don’t ask many personal questions. However I was talking to a straight guy on Sniffies and asked for some pics. He sends one with a very obvious ring on his ring finger. I asked if he was married, he was. I then asked if they were open. They were not and I just don’t feel great about that dynamic. We did not end up meeting up and the guy didn’t seem bothered. I have had an Owner that used multiple women and his wife. Even though they didn’t know he was using a faggot at least everyone was aware the relationships were open. Is it unfair for me to ask that the Dom is open with his wife or girlfriend? I feel like it isn’t really a faggots place but it just gives me a bad taste in my mouth.

I understand why your hesitant, brother, and I can definitely appreciate a faggot with a conscience! 

I have served Alphas who were in relationships that were not open, particularly early in my fag career, but like you it started to bother me. Fortunately I then became owned by a few straight Alphas who were either single or informally dating females. That suited me better for sure.

It’s really just a matter of what a faggot’s conscience dictates. However, it’s important to remember that it’s the ALPHA who made the commitment, not you. I wouldn’t beat myself up over it too much. 

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Hi Sam! I’ve been following your page for a looong time (years lol) and you’ve been instrumental in me realizing i’m a fag. I did have a few questions that I’m hoping you can help me with, and i’d be eternally grateful for a response:

• I know I’m a faggot. I know i must serve men. However I also have a very successful career and personal life. Is it possible to have both of these things? I’ve been too nervous to serve a Man due to how it could impact my “normal” life, i’ve had online doms blackmail before (non consentually), so maybe i’m just a bit overreacting to that.
• where do I find doms irl? do you have a list of locations you recommend frequenting? I’m not a fan of the whole online thing and much prefer to serve in person and that’s how i think i’d be most successful.

Well it’s nice to hear from a long-time reader! I’m glad I’ve been able to help you find your truth! 

I don’t think it’s impossible to have career success while also serving as a faggot. I’ve managed to do it, and so have other faggots I’ve known personally and online. You might remember my interview with Brian, the faggot who served his Master while also enjoying a successful career. I think the real key here is having a Master to serve full time. This was what I did after several years of being a slut, and it made all the difference for me. I think you’ll find that will be the case as well.

Where to find Alphas to serve? Well, you can always find Alphas to service on apps and whatnot, but you’ll rarely find an Owner there. Honestly, the best path is finding Alphas in your everyday life that you can start submitting to in various ways. Then Ownership develops organically. 

I hope this helps! 

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Hi Sam,

Great blog, it’s helped me realise my beta/fag side and my lust for worshipping alphas.

I need your advice…I had a straight alpha best friend for 10 years. When we became friends, I wasn’t ‘out’. We were very close… going to the gym, going out drinking (him picking up girls) etc.

He was a natural alpha…hot body, great looks, supreme confidence, controlled aggression, and a big cock (he told me and I can verify as I saw it!). He had the pick of women and would regularly tell me of his sexual activities and how women went crazy over his cock. During our friendship he told me numerous times that he knows he is an Alpha and I can tell he enjoys having control over others.

Some of the activities we would do when I was still in the closet involved sleeping in the same bed and aggressively play fighting in our boxer shorts where he would regularly pin me down – I loved it! Frequently, he would pin me down in his boxers by sitting on my chest with his knees over my shoulders, so I couldn’t move my arms, with me ‘pretending’ to struggle while staring at his big bulge. I loved the submissive nature of it and I think he enjoyed the dominance.

On another occasion, we nearly showered together after a drunken night out but he stopped after seeing I was getting a hard-on. Damn!

Anyway, after around 5 years into our friendship, I came out to him when drunk and he accepted me 100%. I was so scared, as previously he had made some jokingly homophobic comments, but he didn’t let it affect our friendship and would often stick up for me if we went out on nights out etc.

Fast forward to around 2 years ago…we went on a night out and we both got very drunk. In the early hours of the morning, we headed back to mine, where he was staying over. I was nearly blackout drunk at this point. He slept on the sofa and me in my own bedroom. Shortly after going to bed, unconsciously, I went up to him while he was sleeping and asked him if he wanted his dick sucked.

He asked me to repeat what I said and I asked him again. I’ll be honest, I thought this was an actual dream that I was having and in that moment I didn’t have any control over my actions. He left my house immediately. The next morning, I apologised – I was devastated. He replied saying that he needed time to think about our friendship etc.

He ended the friendship. I was devastated, gutted and depressed. I lost my closest friend at that point. Anyway, we haven’t spoken in two years. I still think of him most days. I get we won’t ever be friends again but I yearn to serve him even if it is transactional. I was always pretty submissive to him and wanted to please him.

I have often wondered what would happen if I tried to approach him like you have advised on this blog.

Previously he had confided in me that he is a very sexual man and needs frequent service, when talking about problems with his girlfriend (they are still together).

I would love to worship and serve him but I don’t know if I should try to or not. In my eyes, he is a god alpha and deserves true worship. While we were friends, I buried these feelings as best I could but I guess I have lost everything now anyway.

What are your thoughts?

What a heartbreaking letter! I’m so sorry that this happened! 

Sadly, this is always the danger when a faggot offers himself to an Alpha friend. It’s hard to say whether or not the way you offered yourself might have scared him, but he did take some time to think about his decision. That’s tough. 

This Alpha seems like a wonderful Man, very strong and confident. I’m disappointed that he cut you off without much of a discussion. However, I’m sure he did it because he thought continuing the friendship would only lead to pushing you further into obsession. 

I don’t know if there is a way to resurrect the relationship. A long friendship like this shouldn’t be tossed away forever, and I’m sure he agrees with that if he’s anything like I think he is. I don’t think it would be a bad idea to reach out via a message and just tell him you miss him and you’re sorry for what you said when you were drunk. If there could be a way to just talk, I’m sure the situation could be repaired. 

I know you feel embarrassed and scared of him now, but just be tactful and maintain your faith in the friendship you built with him. Keep me informed! 

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Alphas love to have cocksuckers service them while they play video games. I dunno why. As a non-gamer, this suits me just fine. I’d much rather focus on my Alpha’s joystick than some stupid video game.

The weird part is how much faggots love to be used like this. It’s crazy, isn’t it? Essentially the fetish comes from a faggot’s natural desire to be reduced to a utility, a masturbation device.

And Alphas prefer that we stay that way!

Hi Sam,I hope this finds you well,I’m writing today to tell you about an encounter I had with my college best friends straight alpha father-he’s late 40’s married silver fox and a total dilf. Over the weekend I was meeting my college bestie John who I handnt seen in over a year at a restaurant for lunch for a catch up ,I arrived 25 minutes early to get a good seat as it was a Saturday and busy,not long after I arrived johns father Max arrived ,I was a little confused as I wasn’t expecting anyone but John ,he looked me over Cooley barely made eye contact and told me John was parking and would be along soon, he was dressed in a navy blue pinstripe suit and dark black loafers carrying a briefcase ,I asked if he wanted to sit and wait with me , the table only had two seats as I was only expecting John ,he said that was a good idea , I pulled over an extra seat for John but to my shock and delight he spread his legs out and put his feet up on the chair opposite me and his briefcase on the other , “you don’t mind do you boy , my feet are aching from working all day and I don’t want to put my good bag on the dirty floor “ I was to stunned to speak and said not at all , where should I sit I said , there were no more free seats available , right here and he pointed to a spot on the floor next to him , I sat next to him totally in awe of his power and dominance over my faghood , he didn’t even know it , I sat on the floor next to him and people stared by I didn’t care I felt oddly at home , after a few minutes he asked me to order him a cappachino , I waited expecting him to offer cash or card but he didn’t -I stood up and made my way to the till and ordered his coffee paid for it and brought it to him , I thought he might reimburse me but he didn’t , he simply grinned and said good boy , I took my place next to him on the floor and soon John arrived , he had been parking the car , John was confused why I was on the floor , his dad said “beats me, I think he’s comfortable there “ I was flustered and said yes that’s right , Johns dad moved his briefcase off my now seat and asked me to hold it for him during lunch , I obeyed snd held it all throughout lunch , johns dad was in a rush so left after 40 minutes -he had been spending time with John as they don’t see each other often ,that’s why he was with him ,during lunch the conversation was pleasant and nothing out of the ordinary but at one point max did start talking about how his feet were aching and he was looking to get a massage and specifically foot rub on the city later that day and looked right at me , I was turned on and fantasising about his big manly sweaty alpha feet , max left 45 mins in to lunch to go back to work and I was hanging with John but thoughts of max never left my mind , as he was leaving he made me hand him his briefcase fetch his coat from coatservice (John was in the bathroom at this point) and as he was leaving said it was nice to meet you boy and left , I haven’t stopped thinking of him since -Sam do you think max was exerting his dominance and superiority over me? I want to contact him and ask about serving him and his feet but I’m unsure how to or if I should do it ? He hasn’t left my mind and he dominated me mentally that day -what should me next step be and how should I approach him ? Thanks -Kyle

Hi brother! What a breathtaking experience with this straight God Alpha father! WOW! Very powerful experience! I’d like to commend you for how you reacted to Master Max’s power and authority! Some faggots might’ve become unglued or angry/insulted, but you did very well. Perfectly, really.

To answer your questions. YES Master Max was DEFINITELY exerting his dominance and superiority over you! Isn’t that blatantly obvious? Not only was he exerting his dominance, he was doing everything except claiming you right there on the spot! He wanted you to massage his feet, and I think you missed that cue. At least, you haven’t acted on it yet.

My advice to you is this: stop reading me and get a message to Master Max immediately. Thank him for allowing you to serve his needs at the coffee shop, and ask him if there is any way you might be of service to him. It’s just that easy. He’s an Alpha with a supernatural level of Alpha confidence, so you won’t need to do anything more than that for him to take the lead.

You’ve just found an Alpha to serve, brother. He wants to own you. GO GET HIM!

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Hey Sam I really love your content! I’m a fag from Italy, 19 y old, and I met a alpha in the gym. He is 25, super hot and amazing, I starting talking about his training and we got closer and closer. I served him in many ways and it took me months to give him a blowjob. His dick is just perfect and I love serving him. However, he refuses to fuck my ass. He says that this is too gay and he would never fuck a male ass. How can I convince him that fucking my boy pussy is not gay? I already suck his dick quite often but I really want to feel him inside my ass. Thank you, Sam!! Your work is amazing

Hi brother! 

Congratulations on finding an Alpha and working your way into providing oral service for him! You’ve followed the plan perfectly! It does take some time to convince a straight Alpha that it’s safe to let you service him! 

I do understand your desire to be fucked by him, but not every Alpha is interested in going there. Let’s face it: ass fucking is somewhat taboo to many people. It’s just not that appealing to everybody. 

You may not like my advice, but I think it’s accurate: be satisfied with the service you’re being allowed to perform. There are many faggots who never get the chance to suck a straight Alpha, and might never get that chance. You’re one of the fortunate faggots who worked my plan perfectly and is gifted with the chance to suck a straight Alpha’s cock. Just be happy with that, continue to be submissive and eager to please, and hope he will change his mind. 

So I’m trying to worship my straight married trainer: some context, I’ve been knowing him for 2 years now and always found him attractive but lately I’ve been wanting him so bad but he is married so I never made a direct move. A couple of times I message him on IG and reply to his stories saying “alpha af” i call him “sir ” when i get drunk I message him likenat 6am or 1 am saying hey , this is so send a message that I’m interested bbecause those are odd hours Last month I paid him 150$ to come train me at home and I was planning to just ask to blow him but I never got the courage . When I texted him saying he looked good in his shirt and his outfit was fire and he replied thank you. Another thing he is always posting stuff about being Christian like posts that say jesus is king etc he literally has Jesus christ is king in his bio

I doubt you have an opening here. He sounds like a good Alpha who is being polite with your flirtations because he’s running a training business. He’s married and he sounds pretty religious so I think it might be best to leave him alone.

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The following post is part of a thread about Master Simon, a 17-year-old Apex Alpha in Sweden who has taken ownership of his faggot father, Algot. CLICK HERE for all posts in this thread in chronological order!

Well, here I go again with another shocking father/son true story. I can’t always help the way these things come to me, so hopefully you’ll forgive me.

Family dynamics are complex even in ideal circumstances. I had an idyllic childhood, and even then there are issues. But when Hierarchical issues come into play, we must throw out everything we imagine about the traditional family arrangement and look at what’s really happening under the surface.

This story opened to me with the following email from a father in Sweden named Algot.

Hii.
> I am 39 years old and my son is 17. When i was younger about 15-18 i was a faggot but then i met my wife and left that wife behind me and got a son in the process my wife sadly died from complications at his birth so i raised him as a single dad. Now my son is 17 and he is a real alpha like the one i used to service back in the day and he has sort of taken over at home. He took the master bedroom and i get to sleep in his old one. He is taking all my paychecks and i listen to everything he says i buy him alcohol because he is only 17.

My son/masters name is Simon. And he bring home girls very often not any other fags that i know of. And i totally support him in everything he does and in anyway i can. He is straight but has used me sexually and as a toilet many times and last week he locked me up in chastity. Is it normal so submit so easy to your own son. (Sorry for any misspelling i am swedish so english is not my first language)

I was, of course, quite shocked by this message out of left field. So I naturally asked Algot if I could speak with his son Simon. A few days later I heard from Master Simon:

Yeah i first realized i was an alpha when a bunch of fags at school did things like buy me snacks or do my homework. And when i realized i was bigger in every way than all the other boys. And i realized my dad was a fag when i say his dick in the gym showers i kind of knew i had some power over him than and i started to do somethings to assert my dominance like dont listen to his rules tell him to clean up after me and when he did everything i said i just said “hey your my slave now i am bigger and stronger than you” and he just obliged.

Whit the sexual thing yeah i think that he should take care of all my sexual need i have not jerked my self of in 2 years he does it all for me. Plus i started face fucking him and i make him eat my ass. I never fuck him tho he does not deserve my dick in his ass.

I never felt like this was wrong in anyway i take what i deserve i dont care if it is my father or any other fag as long as there of the legal age in sweden its fair game.

There was something quite alarming about Master Simon’s dispassionate aggressiveness, especially when it comes to his faggot father. But then when I followed up Master Simon added another surprising fact:

It got out in the school that i use my dad and some boys wanted in on it so i have held some parties were we fuck him together.

I wanted to know more about the mechanics of these other school Alphas fucking his faggot father Algot. Master Simon responded this way:

They’re not really alphas … they heard there was a hole that could be fucked and i let them. i dont care what my dad thinks of it or if he can handle it. its his job do listen to me. And yeah he had fully accepted his role as fag and as slave.

Got any tips on how i can dehumanize him more? i wanna make him an object not human.

I wasn’t really sure how to dehumanize Algot more than he’s already been dehumanized, and frankly I was worried about this situation. Then a couple of weeks later Master Simon wrote me again:

I took some of your advise to dehumanize my father and i came up whit some rules he has to follow
1 when i walk into a room you great me by kissing my feet no matter whos in the room whit you
2 in i am sitting on the couch you should place your self as my foot rest i should not have to tell you
3 you dont eat at the dinner table you eat out the dog bowl
4 do not speak unless spoken too

And it has really work it has been very obedient and is falling more into serving me i feel like i dont need any other fag than him he just so good at it.

I’ll be the first person to say that I don’t think this is a healthy situation. Even though I understand it from a Hierarchical perspective, I still have enough traditionalistic values in me to still think fathers and sons have certain roles and boundaries.

That said, it’s clear Master Simon is not going to listen to me. And it’s also clear that Algot is surprisingly fulfilled as Master Simon’s faggot.

So this post exists as further proof that Alphahood (and its accompanying dominance) starts early and, when presented with an opportunity, takes advantage of any inferiors in its orbit. Even if that inferior is the Alpha’s biological father.

Even after all of these years of serving Alphas and the years spent researching and writing on the topic of Hierarchy and the Alpha/fag dynamic, I continue to learn new things. Some of these discoveries have changed my life completely (like chastity), while others spark a more intellectual curiosity.

The term agonophilia is one of those latter discoveries. I’d never heard of this psychological condition until it was brought up in the “Ask A Question” section of this site recently by a faggot named Chris (CLICK HERE TO READ). The condition involves sexual arousal arising from inflicting or receiving pain and violence. This is largely foreign to me given that I have a natural aversion to violent stuff.

But Chris not only craves this kind of action, he has found three straight, married Alphas who love to inflict pain as much as Chris loves receiving it.

In his original question, Chris asked if I thought he should tell others about the truth of his darker, more controversial interests. I’m glad to hear back from Chris, who gave me this update:

Thank you for your answer. I have since SHARED my learning of this actual term with one of my Alphas that I serve. Two are what can best be described as a Man’s Man, they are not intellectuals who’s response I feel would be who gives a shit as they punched my lights out while feeding me their dicks. But ONE, the one I’ve served the longest, 16yrs, is more introspective and reads a great deal about Psyches and self exploration, and he was equally surprised and interested by this, and unaware there was a term (relating more to the type of Man HE is than the kind of Fag I am). The other two are married and both fathers. This one has a longtime GF who IS aware of me, but only as an friend he’s known for years. She IS aware of his past as a stripper for bachelor-ette parties and the occasional gay event, and that I am Gay, but oc has NO idea of the true nature of what he is to me and what he does to me. I broached the subj of him joining us here and sharing. He was not opposed to it but said he has to think about it, since, like me, he’s never shared this side of himself with others. So we shall see.

I’m really proud of my brother for being honest with others, but particularly with this particular Alpha! By being brave and trusting his Master, he’s possibly unlocked his Master’s greater power and a provided him with a better perspective of Hierarchical truth!

This is what faggots do for Alphas (particularly straight Alphas!). By our honest submission, we teach them about their own power and place within the Hierarchical arrangement. Honestly, there is no better way to serve!

I get so tired of hearing straight guys insist that straight Men don’t use faggots. As they repeatedly tell me, the use of faggots by definition means they are not straight.

Well let me tell you, if that’s the case then there are far fewer straight Men then we imagined.

Most of the Alphas I’ve served in my life either casually or as an owned faggot were straight Men. I never questioned their desire to use me despite being resolutely heterosexual. The only time it became an issue is when I would struggle to contain my jealousy over their relationships with women. And in those moments when my Alphas were forced by me to choose, they always chose their females over me … because ultimately they were straight.

Then I started the FWA site and the Hierarchy Podcast, and I began chronicling many true stories of straight Alphas who use faggots sexually. In fact, the original name for FWA was Fags Worship STRAIGHTS because that was what I knew in my service career. And with every story I covered, the compiling evidence proved my own experience wasn’t an outlier. Straight Alphas DO use faggots sexually.

But don’t take my word for it. Listen instead to these clinical psychiatrists and therapists who have studied and treated many cases of straight Men who use gay males sexually. Not only that, but they have clinical reasons WHY straight Men use gay males sexually.

Here are their professional opinions:

So what should we think about this? Can this circle be squared?

Of course! It’s honestly very simple: straight Alphas use faggots because they love POWER. They love WORSHIP. They love SERVICE.

As the doctors above attest, Male sexuality is more fluid and situational than most of us are willing to admit in public. In my experience, Men will do all sorts of taboo things when they know they’re safe. And Men compartmentalize their sexuality so completely that understanding the complexity of it is like getting lost in a labyrinth.

So I will never agree that straight Alphas don’t use faggots. THEY DO. In fact, I think an increasing number of them are turning to faggot ownership and service. So the time has come to put this issue to bed. It’s proven.

Lots of stupid, insecure straight guys out there insist that straight Men and straight Alphas don’t use faggots for sexual pleasure (particularly head). Now, I know this is wrong from my own experience serving straight Alphas throughout my life, and I know it from the countless examples I’ve chronicled while teaching Hierarchy.

Here is an awesome thread of collected comments from straight Men who admit to using faggots and gays for sexual release. You’ll notice a common theme – they do it for the POWER.

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I’m straight, married, in my mid 40’s and I get blown by guys. The more I look around, the more common this seems to be, but even if not, fuck it. I was freaked out by it at first, and even a bit ashamed, but it’s super convenient, and my wife isn’t into sucking me off, so I’ve got a couple guys that I can hit up for a BJ whenever I want. The visual isn’t so great, but you get used to it, and they have no problem with me playing porn. Pretty clearly, guys who love to suck dick are totally all about providing the best experience, so whatever makes it work best for me is what they want. I think this is why shit like this goes on all the time but nobody ever talks about it. It’s totally hedonistic. It’s all about me and getting the kind of BJ I’m in the mood for, be it a five-minute quickie, or a leisurely half hour or so of getting my brains sucked out.

I probably get 4-5 BJs a month, but the great thing is, it’s all up to me. There’s no real relationship to worry about (though we are friendly), no drama, and if I’m not horny, I just don’t go. No one’s going to call me to ask where I’ve been or if I want to come around today. On the other hand, if I’m going through a horny phase, I could swing by every day and it would also be no big deal. It’s just so straight forward! I don’t have to manscape, or bring flowers, I just have to take a seat and get blown.

Oh, and do I have to point out that someone who really loves to suck dick tends to do it really well? My one guy is gay and he’s all about throat action, he likes to take it deep and massage it with this throat muscles. The other guy is bi and prefers to do some crazy shit with his tongue. Both not only swallow, but love doing it. Neither wants anything more from me and they don’t even try to get undressed. No drama, no commitment, no worrying about it being anything more than it actually is, just a blowjob.

Again, this all took some getting used to, but where the fuck are you going to find a woman who’ll blow you whenever you want and with no hidden agenda? Honestly, it’s fucking great and I highly recommend it! 

Commented by anonymous

Yeah dudes, I feel you.  Hey Secret_Soldier, I’m a new convert.

I like my girl giving me treat. But that’s rare.

But I recently found out, when a guy does it, it’s at a whole other level.

We have our shit set up tight. Nobody suspects a thing.

He lives not far from me.

I can be gaming, watching TV. I just make my call, and he’s there in under 15 minutes to satisfy my cock anytime I ask him.

I don’t feel the least bit guilty.

Sometimes I’m about to head out, and this fucker’s following me around the house, sucking my cock as I’m getting ready.

Then I sit down and let him finish me. I like that shit. I really do.

My girl would never do that.

I travel for work.

Thinking about having him meet me at my places I stay at as a stress reducer.

Commented : by anonymous

Soldier you can post this as a recent convert.

I it was the case of a backfire.

I used to frown on the gay shit.

Served with gay dudes and it opened my eyes.

One day me and this one gay dude had to open a mission detail.

It was around 0430. We got dropped off just he and I.

We had gotten pretty close over the months.

I seized the moment to prod him about him being gay. The shield went up right away, but not for long.

Apologized, but it was just who I am. we got laugh at it he opened up.

It may sound like porn, but it’s the God’s truth, I really got curious. and he called me out for asking him about blowjobs. Like we both arrived at, I am who I am, so ask if he’d like to give me some head.

He initially turned white as a sheet. Told him it was cool.

After a while when I saw him smile.

He made me promise not to tell. I was like Dude, get real!

We took just enough gear off for him to give me the best head I ever had in my life.

He blew me a lot during deployment.

To this day, I have him and 2 other cocksuckers under my belt, who will gladly come and hook me up any time I ask.

Commented Nov 16, 2019 17:13 by anonymous

I’m a married guy best BJ ever was from a guy. Sucked better than any of my 3 wives.

Commented  Dec 28, 2019 06:27 by anonymous 

I’m your average everyday guy, and pretty open minded, but NEVER thought about having a BJ from a guy. But I’m going to confess here that I’ve read enough of these types of posts in here to make me wonder if I haven’t been missing out. I’m actually considering giving this a try. I get the occasional good BJ at home, but it isn’t often I can tell you. On top of that, it’s always a reward, or an act by my wife with a price tag. Never because she just wants to do it for the fun or pleasure for me. 

Commented Nov 18, 2019 10:11 by anonymous

I’m a married man and have a cocksucker that will service me when I need sexual release. He usually blows me one to two times a week depending on my need to get off. Simple arrangement where I can enjoy feeding him my cock either in his home or workshop. I’m well endowed yet he’s more than eager to all of me and do whats necessary to get his reward. My wife gives good head but he gives amazing head and always swallows.

Commented Jan 13, 2018 13:59 by anonymous 

I agree! Like you, I am a married man … The wife hates sucking cock. It’s great to have a local discreet guy who loves to suck cock and lick balls! I just pull my cock out and he’s on it like white on rice! …. Shoot a huge load into his mouth and he’s happier than a kid in a candy store!

Commented Jan 13, 2018 14:20 by anonymous

I’m in the same boat but fortunately I learned the “mouth is a mouth” lesson early on. I love women, fucking love them, but I’m horny a lot and most women out there aren’t into just giving you a BJ several times a week just so that you can take the edge off. I’d liken getting BJs from guys to getting a massage, but somehow a massage seems more involved, and even intimate. Nine times out of ten, I’ve whipped it out and dropped a load in under ten minutes, often under five. Having one or two guys in your life who enjoy sucking cock is a real life saver. 

And you’re right, guys who do it tend to be pretty devoted to making sure their skills are top shelf. While there are some women out there who are fantastic at giving head and give it out freely, they’re hard to find. But finding a guy who’ll blow you on the regular like it’s nothing? That’s fairly easy to arrange. I think tons more guys do this than would ever let on.

Commented Jan 13, 2018 14:23 by anonymous

One of the best posts ever on the benefits of guys sucking guys.

Seriously, if you have never tried getting sucked by a guy you are missing out on a real treat. And if you ever had to the urge to suck a cock you owe it to yourself to try it.

Married men make great casual sex partners. I’ve got two married friends who will suck me at the drop of a hat. Takes considerable pressure off my wife, lol. She would freak if she knew but she benefits from not being pressured for sex all the time.

Commented Jan 2, 2020 14:52 by anonymous

I was hesitant to have a guy as well, but I’m glad I did. Some of the best orgasms I’ve had were in a mans mouth, I’m happy, wife’s happy and the guy is happy. its a win win win situation

Commented Jan 2, 2020 11:52 by anonymous

Right here Bro. I’m a gym rat.

Every gym rat knows you have to beat gay dudes off with a stick from offering you head.

Saw one guy giving me the look one day.

I blew it off (no pun intended).

But still was cordial with the guy talked him up when I was there.

After a workout one day, I was really feeling it. I knew my girl was out of town. Saw the same dude checking me out, started talking him up.

I think he could tell I was down.

I was telling him about a new cardio I was trying, asked if he wanted to swing by my place. He wasn’t there 10 minutes; he was touching my bulge.

I raped the fuck out of his throat.

He doesn’t go to the same gym.

But I can still call him and use his throat when I’m in the mood.

Commented Jan 3, 2020 12:44 by anonymous

This is comletely normal. Guys have been doing this since the beginning of time, we’ve just never really talked about it before. Everybody knows other guys give the best head, it is super easy, no drama and no expectations. Blow and go from another dude is always easier than trying to get head from a woman.

Commented Jan 2, 2020 11:10 by anonymous

I’ve been getting my dick sucked by guys for about 4 years now. I still think my wife gives me the best but they’re hard to come by. I do have to say guys are more eager to suck on some dick. Usually very aggressive, I prefer slow , deep , and really wet. They happily adjust. I differ from you cause I like to return the favor , going back and forth swapping head just gets me going. I don’t even care what they look like as long as they have a nice cock

Commented Nov 12, 2019 09:17 by anonymous

I’m also a married man and use a personal cocksucker on the side. There’s very times when he’s not available to service me and always eager to satisfy me. What I like best is to watch my cook disappear in his mouth as I bury his face between my thighs. What is unusual to me is he loves the feel and scent of my bush in his face. I always assumed male cocksuckers preferred a to suck a smooth cock and balls or is that just for anal? I prefer he take me soft and feel his oral skills as I encourage him to suck my balls and take me deep until he give him gags. When I’m satisfied I’ll begin to face fuck him hard and give him my creamy treat while he jerks off. The beats the hassle of trying to head from a woman especially when sex at home has decreased or none at all.

Commented Jan 3, 2020 10:49 by anonymous

I have been letting men blow me since I was a teenager and I’m 83, I got a blow job a few days ago and white washed the man’s tonsils. I let gay and bi men suck my Italian sausage and never had a women give head the the enthusiams and desisre of a man. I was married 53 years before I lost my wife. That was 4 years ago and she never had any suspicion I prefer men to suck my dick. I’m nor much on fucking a man in the ass, or a woman as I prefer a warm mouth working on my cock. However, I have to admit when I was in my late 40’s a man was blowing me and 2 other married men who happened there at the same time and we all got hotter than a whore in church on Sunday and I sucked on their cocks too. Only done it a few times since and would love a blow job every day if the guys were available.

Commented Jan 6 2020 by anonymous

Surprisingly good head always always comes from boys. Always.

Commented Dec 22 2021 by Hunter

Married alpha here. I have a stable of 4 faggots scattered around Austin that I regularly hit up to service me. When I’m running errands, I hit up the closest one and 99% of the time they say come through. They all have different styles of throating, so it’s really about what I’m in the mood for. I feed them my cock (a couple of them eat my ass too), cum down their throats, and leave. It’s perfect.

My wife gives terrible head and I’ve basically stopped asking for it at this point. I’m converted.

Thanks for the question! Yours is officially the first one on the new site!

I was wondering how many faggots (and Alphas) would respond to that information about agonophilia. I know a lot of faggots get off on being beaten, so I figured some would be triggered by it. As far as your central question, let’s be honest – most faggots are in hiding and are extremely embarrassed about their needs. After all, it’s not exactly something that one brings up at a family reunion or in the work breakroom.

That being said, I am someone who has almost completely integrated being a faggot with my exterior life. I’ve never been shy or socially intimidated, so I simply let people know (when asked) that I’m a faggot. Nervous laughter follows, but then some healthy conversation usually occurs afterward.

But I realize I’m an outlier and not the norm when it comes to this. In the real world, a faggot needs to pick his battles and reveal the truth to those he can trust. That doesn’t make a faggot any less than he is (after all, he’s a faggot!). You shouldn’t feel shame because you’re hiding some part of yourself right now. It’ll come when it’s the right time for you, not for anyone else’s expectations.

Thank you for the question!

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